The OP's father should realize that what happened to his wife suffering serious medical complications during childbirth which caused her untimely passing is no one's fault much less his son's and never will plus his own criticism and manipulations was beyond disrespectful and shameless as well so he deserves the consequences that was dealt upon him and he should have to live with that reality whether he likes it or not.
A good dad would never resent his own son for something that is out of the son's control, and would be a father who rais his own son with love and not hate
It's also a massive disrespect to the person who died - the child was her last gift, her lingering presence and a company to her absence. The child being treated as an enemy is the most profound betrayal to their marriage. But actually I believe there was never love in this. The father just wanted to selfishly resent being left alone without a wife to take care of him and make a family as per the contract, aka marriage, but didn't have the gall to blame the wife for breaching their agreement so decided to transfer the grudge to the kid. There was never love, just entitlement.
I think that the narrator is an amazing person. To allow his dad to move in after all he put him through. Family is family. And you are supposed to do all that you can to help if you can. But the narrator having all that toxicity around him. The mother-in-law needs to mind her business. She doesn't even know half of what he's been through. Great story! Thanks for the notification.😊
I hate when people say family is family and you're supposed to do everything you can to help them but when the tables are turned in your down and you need help nobody in your family will help you all they'll do is spread lies and rumors about you stories about how you can't take care of yourself and all kinds of other BS so no family is not family family is who you choose
Sounds to me like dad never got therapy for losing his wife because if he did, then he wouldn't be blaming a child who should not even be to blame for what happened. Since I can't say for sure if this is a common thing where OP lived... I can't say that it's not common. Plus if the mom had some kind of underlying condition that she either knew or didn't know about she obviously weighed the risks.
3 different videos pop up when I search for this reddit post on google and I just wanna read the OP. Dont wanna listen to it for 20m when it could be a 10m or less read
![[FULL STORY] What’s the most unconventional but effective way you’ve dealt with an entitled person?](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/hcRAqGgc3T8/mqdefault.jpg)
OP should tell his dad how ashamed mom would be of him, treating her son this way. The last living part of her.
Dad-a good son would help his father
Op-a good father wouldnt blame his child for his mothers death
A parent hating a child is the saddest thing possible.
The OP's father should realize that what happened to his wife suffering serious medical complications during childbirth which caused her untimely passing is no one's fault much less his son's and never will plus his own criticism and manipulations was beyond disrespectful and shameless as well so he deserves the consequences that was dealt upon him and he should have to live with that reality whether he likes it or not.
A good dad would never resent his own son for something that is out of the son's control, and would be a father who rais his own son with love and not hate
It's also a massive disrespect to the person who died - the child was her last gift, her lingering presence and a company to her absence. The child being treated as an enemy is the most profound betrayal to their marriage.
But actually I believe there was never love in this. The father just wanted to selfishly resent being left alone without a wife to take care of him and make a family as per the contract, aka marriage, but didn't have the gall to blame the wife for breaching their agreement so decided to transfer the grudge to the kid. There was never love, just entitlement.
I think that the narrator is an amazing person. To allow his dad to move in after all he put him through. Family is family. And you are supposed to do all that you can to help if you can. But the narrator having all that toxicity around him. The mother-in-law needs to mind her business. She doesn't even know half of what he's been through. Great story! Thanks for the notification.😊
I hate when people say family is family and you're supposed to do everything you can to help them but when the tables are turned in your down and you need help nobody in your family will help you all they'll do is spread lies and rumors about you stories about how you can't take care of yourself and all kinds of other BS so no family is not family family is who you choose
Being Over the top friendly and helpful to people espeically Family that treat you like this can also be called naive tbh…
Sounds to me like dad never got therapy for losing his wife because if he did, then he wouldn't be blaming a child who should not even be to blame for what happened. Since I can't say for sure if this is a common thing where OP lived... I can't say that it's not common. Plus if the mom had some kind of underlying condition that she either knew or didn't know about she obviously weighed the risks.
0:58 shorts people
It’s actually the dads fault he helped creating the op
Your Dad was abusive
His father's wife name is diddy
1:40 that would be loud
1:00
OP should have went no contact with the sad excuse for a father a long time ago.
3 different videos pop up when I search for this reddit post on google and I just wanna read the OP. Dont wanna listen to it for 20m when it could be a 10m or less read
listen on 1.25 speed, sounds better and saves you at lest 4min
There is no original, this seems to be AI generated.
@@JarellaR It's AI generated drivel, why would anyone do this to themselves.
Womp womp 😂
Reaching out to DeDe is looking for drama. Why.
You have no cousins aunts uncles grandparents held distant relatives of any kind
Mahoraga!? 12:40
I know what that is like. I had to deal with that pain from age 4 to 11 2:04 😢😢😢