You're so right, my boyfriend tells me everything he's going through surprisingly, I never had a man tell me everything he's going through, it's refreshing even if it's bad news, we pray together and still love each other, thanks for this video
I know it's accurate, but at the same time, it's annoying and, sometimes, can contribute to the breakdown of a relationship. Like, with my ex, he held things in until we broke up. When he told me what these things were, I was like, this was stuff we could have fixed or compromised on if he'd ever said anything. I was always checking in with him and he'd either say "nothing" or he'd lie about something, only to seem resentful, while I'm unsure of what's going on. And he admitted it was a mistake in hindsight because he realized I wouldn't have blown up at him and would have supported him, but he said past experiences with women just didn't allow him to let me in. And, at that point, there had been too much damage, much of which came from holding things in or lying to hold things in when my intuition was telling me something was up. The trust had been broken too much. Plus, he said he would have never said anything (if we hadn't broken up) and just kept letting resentment build up because he didn't want us to break up, but like, we can't work on things if he never brought them up and I'm over here thinking he's either sneaking around or he's just weirdly upset and annoyed with me and I can't figure out why. It was honestly very stressful. So, guy could be a good man, but I can't go through that type of stuff, anymore. I need someone who can be open and communicate and not try to carry the world on his shoulders, or try to keep the peace, when it's literally causing discord in the relationship.
THANK YOU!! I (we) are going through this as we speak. I literally thought he was creeping around because I can see he's holding things in. Then I found out the truth and you are spot on with EVERY WORD you said. He kept telling me to just let him figure it out, when I clearly see he's hurting and refuse to let me help him.
This sounds accurate. Thank you. There are times though that a man “holds back” from speaking a or some deep concerns in the relationship-- by him not expressing them - the relationship is not growing but, growth is hindered . It may also cause confusion and the break down of a relationship- like in my case . He struggled with things and instead he went talking with other people about it or internalized his pain and used a substance- which caused the breakdown of our relationship
This is so helpful! Can you do a follow up? I see these things are done out of a good heart and motive but it’s not healthy or honest from what I can tell… there are always exceptions but I see the most healthy marriages being ones that there is transparency and authenticity on both sides with mutual support, grace, understanding, and of course selfless love…
That’s is what my boyfriend does that! I know he is holding things in , because he doesn’t want me to stress me out. I always tell him that I am praying that God turn things around 🙏🏽
Thanks for sharing. Another reason your man doen'st share his stress is bc he was taught that. Men tend to be problem solvers, so he thinks he's handing you another problem to solve. Sometimes, it helps just to have the stress acknowledged, have someone give you a hug, and say "I'm sorry you're having a rough time" 💖
Hi Sealz appreciate you. Shoutout to all you lovely gentlemen you all are amazing. Sending Love and Good Energy to you and all the beautiful souls out there 🩷💥❤️💥💜💥🧡💥
Dear God when u send me this decent men Am hoping that he harbours no inner stress Let us together be open to love and dufficult times Sincerely Esmay Blessed night to our beloved Sealz and everyone else I pra
U r a beacon of light where it’s sorely needed! I know that there r many men like u out there and it encourages my heart. Keep going Sealz, I love tuning in to your many insights. Oh so absolutely refreshing to my very being! Peace and Blessings always🌷
Idk.... I've definitely had men open up to me about their pain and anger. Men do that when they're comfortable being vulnerable with a woman. I've literally had men callme in the midnight hour for emotional support only to find out later that they were engaged or married. If a man isn't sharing these things with his partner, the relationship is superficial and/or he's having an emotional affair with another woman who knows exactly what that man is going through. Men tend to marry the women they think they "should" be marrying rather than the women who know they're not Superman.
I make sure I make my husband's favorite oatmeal chocolate chip cookies from scratch. I make a container every week for him 🥹. I Love and respect him so much! I just hope he sees that. Thank you for sharing, sounds like a heavy burden!
Definately helps me to understand. I wish so badly that my GOOD MAN, Why doesnt he just vento me, he up and ghost me like wtf am i here for? Im frustruated in dooo many many ways
Usually when my man does this. I give him that space to figure things out. Once he has processed it he will share with me. Because men don’t think like we do it takes time to figure everything out.
No thanks but God bless your day cc remember first Name of God everything is after each remember you're not first first is God in the midst of Morning is God Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏
You're so right, my boyfriend tells me everything he's going through surprisingly, I never had a man tell me everything he's going through, it's refreshing even if it's bad news, we pray together and still love each other, thanks for this video
Even if I don’t know what’s going on, I still feel it anyways bc I’m spiritually connected to him… 🤔😔 So I just keep covering him in prayer, daily 💜🙏🏾
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Amen
It breaks my heart too ❤… please make another video for us to have the right dialogue to help every great man ♥️
This video is so helpful in understanding a Man.thank You.
I know it's accurate, but at the same time, it's annoying and, sometimes, can contribute to the breakdown of a relationship. Like, with my ex, he held things in until we broke up. When he told me what these things were, I was like, this was stuff we could have fixed or compromised on if he'd ever said anything. I was always checking in with him and he'd either say "nothing" or he'd lie about something, only to seem resentful, while I'm unsure of what's going on. And he admitted it was a mistake in hindsight because he realized I wouldn't have blown up at him and would have supported him, but he said past experiences with women just didn't allow him to let me in. And, at that point, there had been too much damage, much of which came from holding things in or lying to hold things in when my intuition was telling me something was up. The trust had been broken too much. Plus, he said he would have never said anything (if we hadn't broken up) and just kept letting resentment build up because he didn't want us to break up, but like, we can't work on things if he never brought them up and I'm over here thinking he's either sneaking around or he's just weirdly upset and annoyed with me and I can't figure out why. It was honestly very stressful.
So, guy could be a good man, but I can't go through that type of stuff, anymore. I need someone who can be open and communicate and not try to carry the world on his shoulders, or try to keep the peace, when it's literally causing discord in the relationship.
Wow! You just described my last relationship. 😢 I hope we all heal and find true love.
THANK YOU!! I (we) are going through this as we speak. I literally thought he was creeping around because I can see he's holding things in. Then I found out the truth and you are spot on with EVERY WORD you said. He kept telling me to just let him figure it out, when I clearly see he's hurting and refuse to let me help him.
This sounds accurate. Thank you. There are times though that a man “holds back” from speaking a or some deep concerns in the relationship-- by him not expressing them - the relationship is not growing but, growth is hindered . It may also cause confusion and the break down of a relationship- like in my case . He struggled with things and instead he went talking with other people about it or internalized his pain and used a substance- which caused the breakdown of our relationship
This is so helpful! Can you do a follow up? I see these things are done out of a good heart and motive but it’s not healthy or honest from what I can tell… there are always exceptions but I see the most healthy marriages being ones that there is transparency and authenticity on both sides with mutual support, grace, understanding, and of course selfless love…
I simply love your videos❤
That’s is what my boyfriend does that! I know he is holding things in , because he doesn’t want me to stress me out. I always tell him that I am praying that God turn things around 🙏🏽
Thanks for sharing. Another reason your man doen'st share his stress is bc he was taught that. Men tend to be problem solvers, so he thinks he's handing you another problem to solve. Sometimes, it helps just to have the stress acknowledged, have someone give you a hug, and say "I'm sorry you're having a rough time" 💖
Hi Sealz appreciate you. Shoutout to all you lovely gentlemen you all are amazing. Sending Love and Good Energy to you and all the beautiful souls out there 🩷💥❤️💥💜💥🧡💥
Dear God when u send me this decent men
Am hoping that he harbours no inner stress
Let us together be open to love and dufficult times
Sincerely
Esmay
Blessed night to our beloved Sealz and everyone else
I pra
U r a beacon of light where it’s sorely needed! I know that there r many men like u out there and it encourages my heart. Keep going Sealz, I love tuning in to your many insights. Oh so absolutely refreshing to my very being! Peace and Blessings always🌷
Idk.... I've definitely had men open up to me about their pain and anger. Men do that when they're comfortable being vulnerable with a woman. I've literally had men callme in the midnight hour for emotional support only to find out later that they were engaged or married. If a man isn't sharing these things with his partner, the relationship is superficial and/or he's having an emotional affair with another woman who knows exactly what that man is going through. Men tend to marry the women they think they "should" be marrying rather than the women who know they're not Superman.
THANK YOU SO MUCH🫶🏽
Truth. This is helpful in loving the men in my life
You’re such a blessing to us and the men we love. ❤
Great tips, bro! Definitely apprectiated. We as women often aren't cognizant of such things.
I make sure I make my husband's favorite oatmeal chocolate chip cookies from scratch. I make a container every week for him 🥹. I
Love and respect him so much! I just hope he sees that. Thank you for sharing, sounds like a heavy burden!
Just pray don't worry about other's
How can we help these feelings…. We are a team…
My strength is my God of my life Amen 💞🙏
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This good stuff! :)
💔 This reminds me of the song “Talk To Me” By Anita Baker
Definately helps me to understand. I wish so badly that my GOOD MAN, Why doesnt he just vento me, he up and ghost me like wtf am i here for? Im frustruated in dooo many many ways
Usually when my man does this. I give him that space to figure things out. Once he has processed it he will share with me. Because men don’t think like we do it takes time to figure everything out.
No thanks but God bless your day cc remember first Name of God everything is after each remember you're not first first is God in the midst of Morning is God Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I find this mind bottling due to the males i know literally tell me too much, and they're not my man by choice.
Are you offended by my words to about the matter of others women's?
Smh so toxic 😂