I TESTIFIED AGAINST MY DAD | The Steve Wilkos Show
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2023
- Beth claims her father, Patrick, molested her when she was 5-years-old. Is Patrick guilty of this crime?
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I can’t believe she left her kids alone with him knowing what he did to her
Right smh
Real
Honestly, she doesn't strike me as being the sharpest crayon in the box.
Not the brightest and maybe thinks, that daddy only likes little girls......
Every victim handles trauma differently and not every predator goes after the grandchildren either
I feel bad for the little girl who was abused, but I can't feel bad for the fully grown woman who is knowingly putting her children in harms way.
This 100%
Exactly. She had a chance to be better than the people who were meant to protect her, and she chose not to be.
I couldn't quite get the words together, but THIS is exactly what I was thinking.
@@danidissolveI Hope She Need To Get Some Justice ⚖️ And A Lot Help She Definitely Needs
❤ Nora I agree with you.
But how on earth can she forgive any man that did that.let alone her own father, that it self disgusts me.
I couldn't look the man in his face, for doing the most horrendous act imaginable.
The fact she remembered his face and continued to make the decision to leave her babies alone with him is actually sickening. As a survivor myself, I'd claw the eyes out of my attacker before allowing him within 1000 ft of my kids.
Sorry for your suffering
FACTS
Amen.
Absofuckinglutely
Period!
I understand that she was a victim, but that gives her zero right to victimize her children. Her children's need for love, safety, and stability should be held above anything she could possibly want for herself.😢
For context, are you talking about the Pedo's wife, or the daughter that he sexually abused?
@@CooperGal24 the daughter that was abused.
Even if she wanted her own relationship with her father, knowing full well what he's capable of and has done previously, she had no right to bring her children around someone with that sort of sick capacity.
@@mamaraya8818🎯🎯🎯 EGGZACCCLEEEE!!! It’s not a person alive that could be around my kids with “get off me” allegations let alone a proven fact or conviction that they did something like that. Bad judgment call & idiotic on her part, victim or not. My baby safety & protection COMES FIRST.
@@bossibunz8143 exactly. Once you become a parent your days of coming first are over. In Spanish we say 'no seas mas mujer que madre', which means 'don't be more of a woman than you are a mother'.. so your needs as a woman should never come before your child's needs of any kind. I know I'll protect mine to the death of me.
A totally agree, Blessed Be.
Sorry, she REMEMBERED AND STILL LET HER CHILDREN AROUND?!!!!!! As a survivor and mother myself: no bloody way this is ok. I feel no sympathy for her.
to be fair, sounds like he brainwashed her into believing someone else did it. She was also vulnerable in that this is her dad, she and most people would want to believe their dad. I feel bad for the unhealed child in her, I feel bad she went through what she did. I feel bad she can't have a real relationship with him. I would hope any victim would have a little more empathy for other victims since we know what it's like. I am however, thinking her quite dumb and hating her for leaving her kids with him. She at least should have waited until she got answers, rather than taking a gamble. That part does piss me off. I was thinking before Steve even asked, she better have always supervised him around her kids. Couldn't believe that part that she left them alone.
Honestly I feel bad for her when she was a child but as a full grown adult if you know your dad isn’t a good person and you leave your kids around him you’re not a good parent at all
As soon as he said “if the results” that was the nail in the coffin.
LADIES, NEVER BE THIS DESPERATE.
That Is A Great Advice
Seems like loneliness is just as bad as dope 💯 makes people make stupid, horrible ass decisions 💯
“Can you relate to this story?”
Not even close Steve!
Glad I'm not the only one that says that lol "Nope! Not a shot in the dark"
Sadly I can
be thankful
He always pops in at a moment where I'm deep into the story and deep into shock to the point where I answer like "Hell naw Steve" 😂
@@misssnow7926a lot of us were raped and abused as children 😔 but we didn't leave our kids with our abusers 💯 THAT is the part that I can't relate to ..
He went to prison, you haven't talked to him in 30 years. Don't let him back into your life for money... that's what we're talking about right? She lost a lot due to bad weather so she was in need financially... so now she's considering having him in her life?
Yes I agree. Even if youv lost everything, DO NOT bring toxic people back into your life. No matter how desperate you are. They will only use that desperation against you and make everything worse in the end. Take a lesson from this women and dont let your emotions open gates you meant never to open again.
Very weird
@@mikealalee2889I agree! NEVER give in to a toxic person no matter what.
As soon as he came out, his blink rate was over the top. He was "too" calm when he spoke "playing wolf in sheep's clothing" and when he said "if" were all signs to me that he wasn't being truthful. He must've really manipulated her into believing that he didn't do it considering she allowed her kids around him. She was only 5 and was able to convince her that it was someone else as children can have "false" memories about WHO hurt them. I feel so sorry for her and hope she continues to heal and checks in with her children just in case.
Victim of gaslighting
WHY want Your FATHER back in your life around your children after what he did to you????? A father like that should be ostracized.
More than just ostracized!
Kinda pissed they didn't test if he molested his wife's kids and his grandchildren. Never let a pedophile around your loved ones.
The mother is just as much of a dunce for KNOWING AND REMEMBERING him raping her and then letting him around her kids. The victim story can only get you so far when it comes to sympathy, but you're a horrible person too for knowingly letting him around your children, let alone unsupervised. Get this walking corpse tf off my screen.
Nailed it!!!!! Pathetic excuse of a mother!!!!! Any little bit of sympathy I may have had went out the window when she said she allows her kids around the predator.... I hope she lost those kids since she legit ain't a mother and it's all about her and that's it....
The wife said she had teenagers and the daughter says she has boys. Child molesters usually have a type. Teenagers would be told and maybe he only likes little girls
@@roseedge5626 What kind of excuse is this? Are you saying a pedophile can be around little boys after he's caught molesting little girls?
You dont know what goes on in their heads unless you are one, pal. They'd molest any child they can get their hands on once they're desperate enough. Get out my mentions.
@@roseedge5626agree and disagree, molesters in fact don’t have a type, and don’t have a preference they are mentally Ill, deceitful and lustfull, they want to be in control and they have a fetish for children, no specific type. But I think your right, he would know better then to try a teenager, they’ll beat the crap out of his sss, he preys on BABIES that can’t defend themselves
@@roseedge5626 pedophiles have a type- child molesters not necessarily. Some pedophiles are ashamed of their attraction to kids and know it's wrong, so don't act on it. Not all child molesters are pedophiles. Not all pedophiles are child molesters. Some child molesters just like having control and hurting those who are weak or 'pure' and 'innocent'. Those people don't care. They'll touch any child.
Close that door to the past and move on to a better life with your children.
"I did my time" is a dead giveaway
I’m a survivor of a story I’ve never told , and I just couldn’t imagine leaving my own kids with the same person who victimized me. I just couldn’t. Unfortunately it was my own family , and he penetrated me at a VERY young age. I couldn’t imagine taking the risk of putting my own child through that just because I want to see the good in him or believe him. I think this is only going to make her trauma worsen. Please continue to seek the help you need to get through this and PROTECT YOUR BABIES AT ALL COSTS .
I Went Through Something Very Similar At 12-15 It’s Really Sad How These People Look At Us
@@lilclaytonfamily2983 yes queen it is , but we are survivors, and what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger. I firmly believe in karma , and rn it’s been handed out like candy. I pray we are all able to continue healing and may one day we find the courage to our families our story. I still can’t believe I would rather tell a stranger than my family.
Well said!
My walked in on my ex stepbrother rapping me when I was 7 years old and she didn't do anything about it and then my ex step-dad Ron molested me for years and I told my mom and she didn't believe me until he got caught with his DNA on a 6 year old little girl private area. My ex stepbrother took my virginity when I was 7 years old and then my mom not doing anything about it is so very wrong.
Yes Ma'am Every Day All Day
I could never imagine someone saying I did anything horrible to a child. I would have a heart attack for real. Protect our children you truly NEVER EVER know someone.
Every person in that family deserves to be in Jail!!
I understand the daughter and the dad but why the wife?
Wait why the daughter if she's the victim?
Alot of people seem to think that its because she let him around her kids and looking back on it i dont think the daughter should be in jail.
@@danielrobbins7743 she left her kids alone with him knowing he is a pedophile
Lol okay. He raped her and you want her to be in jail??? You do not throw the victim in jail!!!!!
I feel bad for her but she should have never brought her kids around her dad. I know she wanted the relationship but it's just sad.
Yeah it’s just sad all around 😢
Still to this day, I don’t understand how people see the future so bright with people having deep dark insidious sides…
She couldn't remember what happened and just wanted the best. Judging is for God to do. But, the dad is a straight monster tbh.
Maybe she was told it was all in her head and she was imagining it that could be why?
@@dntcrwtuthnk I'm not judging her but she said she remembered him doing it to her at five then she said she was confused. If you remember why would you subject your children to that? I feel bad for her and yea maybe she hoped he didn't. Everyone wants a dad who loves em and does all the great dad stuff. But fortunately we all don't get it. My dad did the same to me at 12. Why on gods green earth would I judge her? I'm just saying if she remembered it was a bad call.
I can't believe that she let her kids around him alone when there was ANY suspicion. "They're the age they can talk"... Why would you want them to have to talk about it? Why wouldn't you want to stop it before it happened in the first place? I know she's a victim, I am a victim of SA myself, but damn...
Such a sick monster! Poor girl to go through that all over again 😢
When Steve told him that he hopes he told the truth, the man said, "Me too!" I'm like, "What do you mean, you too! Shouldn't you be able to know the truth when you say it?"
My comment would get me kicked off here. You're right though!
My dad used to say, he wouldn't know truth if it kicked him in the butt!
That’s what I told me that he did it
Friendly Remember to wait until the lie detector results to read the comments because folks be spoiling it 😊
Thank you for the reminder (I always ruin the ending by reading comments right away 😂)
Thank you! It also makes me create biases when i should just watch and listen😊
I’ve just written something very similar before reading your comment 🤣🤣 that’s how patient is with us 🙌🏾🙌🏾🤣🤣🤣
I spoil it for myself 😂😅
Colly's my hero
This makes me angry. He deserved more time than that. This is part of the reason why women hate us men.
His face just screams predator. He didn't sound to confident when he said "I didn't do it, I'm sorry" lol horrible liar
There has to be a point in life where you stop and think, "I'd rather have no dad at all than a terrible one". I know hes her dad but he clearly crossed a boundary before so their relationship is DIFFERENT, and in disrepair. Forgiving is good for your conscious but dont forget who they are. I hope she means what she said at the end.
Exactly.
I’m sure she didn’t mean it. She’s probably back talking to him now.
@@youngtripp5184 then you have lead a very comfortable life. I'm happy for you.
Ive never had a father. He's still alive and I've maybe seen him 3 times in my 31 years of life. I made my own decision he did horrible things and is a horrible person. However the aching to have a dad/father figure never goes away.
@g0nz0mupp3t I know exactly what that is. I had it, too. The problem is that man doesn't exist. That father in your mind is a perfect person. He is everything you dream a father should be. He came from TV shows and enduring movies. I know it's hard to hear, but it's true. There is not a single man in this world who can be the father you want. I hope you can come to see this and let go of your grief and sorrow, and look ahead to the wonderful life you can create for yourself and the family you make with your beloved spouse. I say this not to hurt you, but to reach out to you in loving kindness as if you were my very dear friend. ((hugs))
I already knew he did it when he said why he plead guilty. If you’re truly innocent why would you plead guilty to something that you didn’t do just because you don’t have an attorney ? That makes no sense, when police are reading you your rights they literally tell you that if you can’t afford an attorney that they will provide one for you
Sometimes the court appointed attorneys are not helpful to the person charged with these sort of crimes. In saying that, I completely agree with what you said, no innocent person is going to plead guilty to a charge like that. Its always the guilty ones that take the plea bargain to get less time than they would facing a jury.
Have we all not watched Steve???? There's literally MANY stories where people pled guilty because their lawyers told em to, went to prison, got a LDT and found out they NEVER did anything.... 18 months ain't nothin compared to what some of these INNOCENT people that pled guilty on their LAWYERS saying so done did.... Alot of these INNOCENT people spent YEARS in prison for NO reason other then their lawyer told em to take the plea deal....
@@jkh427 exactly
@@jkh427True
She said she was still going to have a relationship with him but flipped out? This is something that not even therapy can heal
As a victim of molestation from a family member, I NEVER have wanted to be around or involved with his family, and never want to be! I will never bring my family around him either, whenever I decide to have children of my own.
He was guilty by the way.
Absolutely Nasty And Disgusting 🤢🤮
Whoever is editing the beginning clips with the dramatic music and the creepy shots deserves a raise
I knew he was guilty when he said "I've done my time."
Ok I can possibly understand if the current wife didn’t know about his past until it was being told to her recently . And it’s a good thing she didn’t bring her kids around him in the first place . But how could he do that to her all those years ago ? He’s just another disgrace to fathers who actually protect their children . I hope his current wife left him after that . In the end, when it comes to stories like this, it’s always the kids who suffer . That is just sad and shameful. Quite frankly, he should’ve stayed in prison.
She knew before they got married
She knew before they even got engaged. Both women had their kids around him. Who’s to say he didn’t do things to her kids too?
@@mcrchickenluvr and yet , she probably didn’t wanna believe it at that time .
Don't forget his wife said she/they had grandchildren!
She said 'he was great with them'.
Time for a check in with everybody!
This father is DISGUSTING!!!! He didn't even have remorse AT ALL!! And refused to tell the truth.. so disgusting..
But girl, please, don't let your kids near him EVER AGAIN!!
I Think he's talked himself into believing he didn't do it. The biggest mistake here is her leaving her children around him unsupervised.
The lie detector doesn't work that way. If he truely believed he hadnt done it to his core then his body wouldnt react to the questions therefore he would pass the lie detector. Hense why the old "i dont remember" answer doesnt work either.
He knows what he has done
My heart breaks for her for enduring that, but what in the ever living fuck, how did she bring her kids around him? She says she got help, and dealt with it properly but obviously not. If she had, she wouldn’t have made that choice. I truly hope this is a massive fucking wake up call.
9:23 So she is going to allow a predator to be around her kids? She's just as demented as he is. No matter what you've been through, it's your job to protect your children. Well, after admitting it on tv, she could also be in hot water. Her kids could be taken away.
Steve I found out a couple weeks ago my molester died of a heart attack or a stroke but I almost laughed
Should of laughed! He got what was coming for him!
Oh my god!! ”My children can tell me if something happens!” The children shouldn’t be in a situation where the need to tell me that SOMETHING has happened!! 😵
cps needs to get involved and take her kids, how you gonna leave them with a convicted child molester an it was towards you
That poor daughter there is a good woman. I don't know what his excuse is. My heart goes out to her and his poor wife.
I do feel bad for her but she allowed this man around her children even after knowing what he did to her. It’s bad enough what she went through her children don’t deserve the same fate
Now Steve needs to do a test to see if he hurt his grandchildren or his wife's children.
This has broken my heart. I’ve never been molested but I felt this young ladies pain.
HE would have been GONE as soon as I heard the words "I did X amount of prison time for molesting my kid." Some women are so DESPERATE for a male around the house that they'll put their own kids in danger.
I know what this young woman went through. Being molested by a parent is the most disgusting thing ever for a child to have to go through. I was molested by my first stepfather. I went through pure hell for over half of my life growing up. I never really had a good childhood. I have gone through pysological therapy and talked to other therapists but I don't want to go through that again because it makes me feel like I have to relive what happened to me. I pray that this young woman finds some comfort in what family she does have, (except her father), so that she maybe able to move on with her life and with her kids. I would not let him around my kids or my grandkids. He failed the test 6 times. I pray for her and her kids 🙏🙏. My heart 💔 breaks for her. No child should be molested by a parent. No child deserves to be abused in any way possible. He should be in prison for what he did to his daughter. I feel sorry for her. And I kinda feel sorry for his wife.
i can only accept this behavior if she was so traumatized she forgot what happened or completely dissociated and didn't know. that's at least understandable. otherwise that's child endangerment and she ought to be ashamed.
The daughter was only a child when it happened so I'm sure she really doesn't have any actual memory of what all really happened
My father-in-law was an alcoholic and we wouldn’t leave our children with him, I don’t understand her at all. My husband had to put up with the abuse when he was growing up, but he wasn’t about to let his children around him. This cost us millions, because his family is extremely rich and was use to buying their way, but my husband decided to work for everything himself. There is not a price to pay for your children’s safety
I wish there was footage of what happened backstage and immediately following the show. Would be awesome to have the option of seeing some of the backstage drama after a show also and whats happened in the time since the show aired!!
Time To Hire A Hitman!!!
That mother should not have let that man around her children
He looks like Jimmy McGill 20 years after Saul.
I’m heartbroken for everyone but him. She was so desperate to have a dad, a pain that not many people will ever know. Sometimes it’s so hard to make that distinction in your mind between daddy and bad guy. She needs intensive therapy
He on the other hand need to stay in prison for what he has did to her kids , he shouldn even have no contact with his daughter ever again
This Guy Is Absolutely Sick 🤢 And Disgusting 🤮 And He Needs To Go To Jail For What He Did To His Own Daughter.
My heart goes to the daughter. She doesn't deserve to be victimized by her own father. I'm praying for her and her children. 🙏❣️🙏
You don't leave your children with a potential child abuser!!!
He is a sorry excuse for a father and she is a sorry excuse for a mother. NEITHER deserve any time with any of their children
we wonder how one person can cause this level of trauma and abuse to multiple generations of children....it's because of parents like these. No way in hell would someone be around my child after even a damn hint of a rumor that they molested someone.
Hello Mr and Mrs Wilkos!
Thanks for the shows
They need to test him for the grandkids and wife's kids too. How many times has he been alone with those children?
18 MONTH'S 18 MONTH'S ARE U KIDDING ME.
There are some people who have no business being alive.
You
as a victim of childhood molestation i wouldn’t let my kids anywhere near my abuser, i wouldn’t let them endure the same trauma i endured.
I can’t understand why women/men who have kids and are married/dating/family to someone who is accused of touching a child and find out their parent/spouse has molested said child and they don’t immediately want them tested for their children to see if they were touched too
Was there anyone actually shocked at the results? I get the impression he isn’t as quietly spoken at home either, I get the impression he’s a manipulating bully.
His face screams Chester, Chester Child Molester!! He looks like the guy they told us to run from and NEVER walk by the door of the white van!! "If ya'll ever see a white van parked on the curve, cross the street and run"!! That's him!!💯💯💯💯
It makes me so infuriated that people leave their own children with someone who did something to them! It makes you just as guilty. Things happened to me as a child and over my dead body me leaving my own kids with that person!
He admitted it before the results were read. Creeps like this guy dont deserve 1 day of freedom.
I know this feeling .... my own mother allowed my step brother to touch me when I was five and I have to go to court and tell the judge how she watched and let it happen... it took a big tole on me and I emotionally thought I was wrong but now me older I've learned to be stronger and make sure I'm gonna be a better mother than she was and I'll always protect my children.
this is so sad I hope you’re okay :((
I hope they smarten up and keep this creep away from children!
Her screaming why just broke my heart
👍👍👍 Super Steve 👍👍👍
She starts screaming she knew it she knew it but if she really really knew it in her heart of hearts then why would you inteust him in letting him be alone with your children his grandchilren😢🤦🏽♀️
Any sexual anything with a child is unconscionable !!!! I have no clue how any adult can look at any child down to a baby and say “wow that’s hot. I have to get some of that.” When it’s your own child, it makes it even more unimaginable !!! 18 months is all he received. Why ??? Life is good for him. At the least how about a solid 20 straight years !! This retired deputy sheriff handled several child sex crimes and was aware of countless more that my fellow deputies and detectives handled. Sick, disgusting, nasty perverts !!!!!!!
13:46 time for the trash to be gone!
You NEVER take that kind of plea if you didn’t do it, never let your kids think you did that to them if it didn’t happen
0:09 The father looks like Saul from Breaking Bad!!
He said me too when Steve says I hope for your sake that you’re telling the truth that was the biggest red flag
What Is Wrong With You?
Anyone who leaves children alone with anyone even ACCUSED of SA ing a child is as guilty as the perpetrator.
I sincerely hope the State takes her children.
I felt bad for her until she said she has her kids alone with him…what kind of mother are you???
THIS WAS SAD.................
Her kids 100% got touched too because she left them alone with that horrible man, how sad.
Mom, you have lost your mind, leaving your children alone with that man.
ugh man .. she let him around her kids ..
Obviously this guy is a monster...BUT I am a bit disappointed Steve sounds so unfamiliar with the prevalence of overworked, underpaid public defenders encouraging their clients to take a plea deal and settle, because winning a case can be so difficult (not to mention, in too many cases, just not what the public defender feels like doing). There are millions of Americans in this country either wrongfully imprisoned for crimes they didn't commit, or former convicts with background reports following them for life preventing them from contributing to society, for crimes they never commit. That creates a system that fosters more crime. And it's extremely common. With that said, yeah this guy should be in jail 😅
Dan’s voice “ polygraphs don’t measure nerves”
I just don’t understand why people who are molested by family members or friends of the family would have their kids around them
The rapid blinking was the tell tale sign, GUILTY ‼️😠
It’s seriously disgusting & demented that she says oh it’s my kids’ only grandparent. Honey, they’d be better off without a grandparent versus a chomo grandparent!!! She can’t be mad with anyone but herself. I think she’s too sick in the head. She needs serious extreme help herself. As much as she says she got help, I don’t think the help worked!! I just don’t know what to say. I’m in shock that she would even allow her children, boys or not, around this chomo. I honestly don’t think she should have her children if she’s that gone in the head. She has no sense of reality.
That pig is delusional ...to the daughter just stay away from him tell your kids he's DEAD and to the wife get a new husband
wtfffff as a mother I would NEVER leave my kids with someone with ANY suspicion that they could harm them.
I cant believe she left her kids with this monster for real, I really hope she didnt do it again and stayed far away from him that is really sick.
She purposely put kids in harm’s way
So she's going to put her kids in harm's way because she wants her dad in her life?
The fear of a five year old still in the daughters eyes 🥺
I can't believe that she would introduce him to his grandkids in the first place. I mean if she knew that her father did it why wait for long time to take the lie dector test. Then once you found out the real truth you just decided that your not having your kids see their grandfather anymore when they were starting to have a great relationship.That was really unfair for your kids and you should be ashamed of yourself. If I was a relative or boyfriend/husband I be super pissed about that.I'm sure her kids are extremely heartbroken.
Idk she just pissed me off she knew he molested her why would you as a MOTHER put your kids through that .
He looks like a really old Bob Odenkirk
He had better call saul lol
11:21 basically said “did not tell the truth”
“I knew it! I knew it! I knew it!” But you still let him around your kids?!?