The Dolan Twins’ Fears About Parenthood

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  • Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
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  • @xxbrattypupxx41
    @xxbrattypupxx41 3 роки тому +166

    Guys you have your whole life ahead of you you’re only 21 don’t rush having children you’re both going to be amazing fathers and it’ll come when the time is ready you never wanna rush it because so many things can go wrong especially at a young age and I’m talking from experience I was with someone I was deeply in love with and we had a child and it tore us apart so you never know what’s gonna happen so just take your time this part was so touching and it made me cry so I really to you guys I’ll lost my mom in a very young age who is also my grandmother so I was lucky that way but I was only 12 and it definitely is hard.

    • @tinapourshirazi2471
      @tinapourshirazi2471 3 роки тому +1

      That is such a great point. I never even thought about how it can tear people and families apart. But I think where he’s coming from though is that he’s afraid maybe in a way his father won’t be around. Spiritually or won’t feel him down the road as time moves on and loss gets easier to manage. Never goes away though. So I think he’s trying to start early so his father will be there with him spiritually. And he won’t have to grieve terribly again like he first did in the documentary. Since he already had so early on. I also think that he feels like he won’t be around for so long so he wants to get everything he possibly can in such a short amount of time. Because to him. He probably says since my dad died and he was a lovely person. Then maybe I’ll die young. Something along those lines. Which is heartbreaking. Unless he goes to grieve therapy and actually heals and grieves feeling safe and loved. Then I don’t think that mentality will ever go away. For no one.

    • @katinkaaa2951
      @katinkaaa2951 3 роки тому +2

      you also shouldn't just wait because people tell you to. if you feel it's right and it's what you want then it probably is the right time.

    • @xxbrattypupxx41
      @xxbrattypupxx41 3 роки тому

      @@tinapourshirazi2471 I lost my adoptive mom who was my bio grandmother when I was 12 so I get where they are coming from but they just have to be careful because pregnancy causes a ton of stress in a relationship.. and sometimes it does ruin ur relationship or post pardon happens or god for bid you miscarry which I did. But I see your point as well

    • @xxbrattypupxx41
      @xxbrattypupxx41 3 роки тому

      @@katinkaaa2951 how old are you and it’s people talking from experience. No ones telling them what to do but gray doesn’t have a partner yet and who’s to say ethans relationship will last forever not that I wish anything bad I’m just saying a lot can change over time

    • @katinkaaa2951
      @katinkaaa2951 3 роки тому

      @@xxbrattypupxx41 I'm 20. I know that relationships and people change and you should always have a good foundation first so you have a better shot at staying together whilst raising a child. However, isn't just a recent thing where they have started expressing the want for children and a family. They seem pretty ready to settle down and they are adults so they can make those decisions themselves. There are many people that talk about wishing they waited longer to start a family however there are also plenty of people that wish they started when they were younger. It's easier to keep up with kids when you have more energy and more time on your hands, the main problem with having children in your early 20 is financial stability however they both have that already...

  • @urbanlypse7573
    @urbanlypse7573 3 роки тому +75

    Watching you guys for years you have such sweet hearts and i know that your both going to be amazing fathers !

  • @ang6277
    @ang6277 3 роки тому +30

    I never usually comment but I think you guys would make great fathers! It’s rare to see guys being so introspective and open and I think it’s great that your encouraging these kinds of conversations! Lots of love to you both, you seem like two very good hearted people 💗

    • @hoesmad8445
      @hoesmad8445 3 роки тому

      @Neon Smiley wait what happened???

  • @xenviaz565
    @xenviaz565 3 роки тому +104

    Unrelated it's hard not to see two graysons

  • @oldguy1610
    @oldguy1610 3 роки тому +19

    This whole podcast (not only this clip) was amazing. Just them being open like this had a "deeper" impact than any of their "save the world" podcasts. I think it's a bit sad they don't feel like they can continue this type of content while they figure the other stuff out.

    • @oldguy1610
      @oldguy1610 3 роки тому +1

      @@mayedaislam1380 This channel is just short clips from their podcast. On Jennette McCurdy's podcast, they said they had quit Deeper.

  • @adlina4051
    @adlina4051 3 роки тому +24

    Boys can cry
    Don't hold it
    It's OKEY

  • @Glitter2013
    @Glitter2013 2 роки тому +1

    I can't wait to have a child either.. I'm so excited. 🖤 I grew up without my dad around, so I honestly cannot imagine that pain that you all are going through, but I can tell you for sure that your dad is, without a doubt, the most proud old man up there in Heaven watching over and protecting you two. You guys are always in my prayers, and I will meet yall one day.

  • @caroljohnson1219
    @caroljohnson1219 3 роки тому +11

    I am crying

  • @hopelemon8345
    @hopelemon8345 3 роки тому +12

    “One night I dreamed a dream.
    As I was walking along the beach with my Lord.
    Across the dark sky flashed scenes from my life.
    For each scene, I noticed two sets of footprints in the sand,
    One belonging to me and one to my Lord.
    After the last scene of my life flashed before me,
    I looked back at the footprints in the sand.
    I noticed that at many times along the path of my life,
    especially at the very lowest and saddest times,
    there was only one set of footprints.
    This really troubled me, so I asked the Lord about it.
    “Lord, you said once I decided to follow you,
    You’d walk with me all the way.
    But I noticed that during the saddest and most troublesome times of my life,
    there was only one set of footprints.
    I don’t understand why, when I needed You the most, You would leave me.”
    He whispered, “My precious child, I love you and will never leave you
    Never, ever, during your trials and testings.
    When you saw only one set of footprints,
    It was then that I carried you.”
    Margaret Fishback Powers

  • @samsamiii509
    @samsamiii509 3 роки тому +7

    COME BACK

  • @queen.aquarius4880
    @queen.aquarius4880 3 роки тому +5

    Why you need. Dont. Care about know knew my first love yes i do wantad. A child one day come two.teue amen in Jesus name amen i love you so much o that Just around w/with ms carolyn regina are knew true playing with my mind grayson god know have feeling for ms carolyn green amen

    • @queen.aquarius4880
      @queen.aquarius4880 3 роки тому +1

      Know god knew going. Two telling know story but my first love always been them the most important two ms carolyn regina. Sweet heart always been.here for always help.for the first time now god don't care about know more this so fuckup. God i have falling with them amen in Jesus name amen god bless with a better man from you god amen just wanted two cry so bad thanks about them so more. Don't wanted know more just dont. Understand. God i need two stop this knew all right in Jesus name amen

    • @queen.aquarius4880
      @queen.aquarius4880 3 роки тому

      don't tell what the fuck two do knew my mom okay brich just keep our or his you don't know I am feeling just like a fool so don't tell what two do in always have them back always have them back it up them mean everything to me Carolyn Regina but them are my first love ❤️😍❤️ amen in Jesus name amen 💯🙏👑💜💚💛

    • @queen.aquarius4880
      @queen.aquarius4880 3 роки тому

      Need two look at yourself thing don't worry about me worry about yourself god is telling you don't do that that is a know know worrying about yourself thing I am god child amen believe in god this is our father amen you rael is make Carolyn Regina mad 😡 but thanks god everyday for my first love ❤️😍❤️ now please stop taking about me Carolyn Regina just don't understand remember for the first time now them are hate me Carolyn Regina Grayson in Ethan believe you thing get off my UA-cam I mean everything going change did doing anything wrong don't hurt know body I am a good person god know I am good person remember 💯😍😭 for the first time I have falling in love with my first love ❤️😍❤️ know I.amknew going hurt them just wanted you keep my name out of god going to you just wanted you two stop it getting everyone two hate get Grayson in Ethan them amen everything to me Carolyn Regina always here for them you now them hate me Carolyn Regina god please bless ms carolyn green she just hate me Carolyn Regina can't your see that don't be with your knew my first love always been them the most important two Carolyn Regina amen tell me Carolyn Regina who I am in.love with my first love knew did hurt them I am a good person been here always t wo them taking about me Carolyn Regina god bless two help them with everything about my first love ❤️😍❤️ always been them the most important two Carolyn Regina but now Grayson in.ethan don't have my back don't back me Carolyn Regina up so sad god amen believe in god yes I have believe in god amen have faith in god amen just wanted to cry so hard never was happy mom in dad are die for along now god Grayson in Ethan don't care about me Carolyn Regina know more

  • @lakeshiajones5799
    @lakeshiajones5799 Рік тому

    I hope 🤞🏽 that Grayson Dolan is my Soulmate I believe he is 😊

    • @64geo
      @64geo Місяць тому

      Girl please he’s mine

  • @rens2051
    @rens2051 2 роки тому +2

    imy

  • @prolight5254
    @prolight5254 2 роки тому

    Where the fck are you guys?

    • @Jessica-op4ps
      @Jessica-op4ps Рік тому +1

      Dead.

    • @Jessica-op4ps
      @Jessica-op4ps Рік тому

      nvm

    • @Jessica-op4ps
      @Jessica-op4ps 11 місяців тому

      @@urshoesareuntied6390 I wasn't joking 💀 maybe they should have warned the people who support them for years before taking their bag and leaving

  • @tayx333
    @tayx333 3 роки тому +11

    they used to be so cute wha happen

    • @hylerr
      @hylerr 3 роки тому +46

      did u expect them to be 16 their entire life..? BYE

    • @sampadagondhalekar7881
      @sampadagondhalekar7881 3 роки тому +6

      @@hylerr fr lmao

    • @briannaandrew6757
      @briannaandrew6757 2 роки тому +3

      Girl BYE👋

    • @dayshawna
      @dayshawna 2 роки тому +8

      they grown and fine now😝

    • @Kay_lahM
      @Kay_lahM 2 роки тому +4

      @@dayshawna exactly !! they look like actual dilfs now 😭 😭