My wife has been a great support with my weight loss and has been doing it along with me (she is now 18lbs lighter), it's great when you have someone supporting you on your way and not putting up road blocks. My ex wife would still eat junk in front of me, which never bothered me in the past as I don't crave sweets, but looking back I feel is never helped in my long term goals. It's far nicer now I have support at home and in the social media community. Enjoy BOTW and say hi to Brum for me if you pop into to the motor museum. Cheers Tim.
You couldn't have said it better Jan my journey is underway and it's the best support you can have is off your partner and my wife supports me 110% in everything I do when the next meet is if I'm free I will pop up to meet you all
I value our friendship as well, you have always supported me now it my turn to support you and we always have a good giggle 😂 we are being really mushy today!! 😘😘
One of my good friends had her op and within the year her marriage broke down & they are getting divorced. She's like a different person going out all the time & now has a new partner. Her husband was about 10 years older than her (she's 38) and as her confidence grew she wanted to go out more and more. My husband is scared I will change for the worst & that I will get obsessed with my weight because I have quite a obsessive personality. I haven't told any of my real life friends yet other than my friend who's had the WLS. So I rely on talking to you lot online and in some of the groups I'm in but I'm not ready to tell people but I have told only my parents ( as you know it was my dad telling me I looked horrendous & I was going to die 😢💔) but not my husband's side of the family because you always get negative people who spout shite without knowing why you're doing it in the 1st place. Enjoy your little break 💜
Charlotte Watson I truly believe if your relationship didn't have cracks to start with there's absolutely no reason it should fail just because of WLS .... dont get me wrong H & I have had our fair share of upsets in the past but been together for over 17 years .... and we will grow old together and hopefully now I've had surgery I'll have a longer healthier life 😘
So glad you have such strong support from your husband. My husband is like that, too, and it really makes all the difference. xo
My wife has been a great support with my weight loss and has been doing it along with me (she is now 18lbs lighter), it's great when you have someone supporting you on your way and not putting up road blocks. My ex wife would still eat junk in front of me, which never bothered me in the past as I don't crave sweets, but looking back I feel is never helped in my long term goals. It's far nicer now I have support at home and in the social media community.
Enjoy BOTW and say hi to Brum for me if you pop into to the motor museum. Cheers Tim.
Tim Iredale I totally agree our at home support is vital ... popping in to see Brum after lunch thanks 😉
You couldn't have said it better Jan my journey is underway and it's the best support you can have is off your partner and my wife supports me 110% in everything I do when the next meet is if I'm free I will pop up to meet you all
I feel exactly like that about my hubby and he is losing weight along side me for support (without surgery) and so glad I have met u ❤️❤️❤️
Maggi Dex it's funny isn't it how statistics say relationships suffer ..... not if you were rock solid initially 😉 I'm so glad to have met you too 😘
I value our friendship as well, you have always supported me now it my turn to support you and we always have a good giggle 😂 we are being really mushy today!! 😘😘
And it's much appreciated 😘❤️ mushy soppy bloody pair now let's get back to being super BITCHES 😂😂❤️
you are such an inspiration , x
denise bristow thank you for your kind words 😊
Life is good 😊!
One of my good friends had her op and within the year her marriage broke down & they are getting divorced. She's like a different person going out all the time & now has a new partner. Her husband was about 10 years older than her (she's 38) and as her confidence grew she wanted to go out more and more. My husband is scared I will change for the worst & that I will get obsessed with my weight because I have quite a obsessive personality. I haven't told any of my real life friends yet other than my friend who's had the WLS. So I rely on talking to you lot online and in some of the groups I'm in but I'm not ready to tell people but I have told only my parents ( as you know it was my dad telling me I looked horrendous & I was going to die 😢💔) but not my husband's side of the family because you always get negative people who spout shite without knowing why you're doing it in the 1st place. Enjoy your little break 💜
Charlotte Watson I truly believe if your relationship didn't have cracks to start with there's absolutely no reason it should fail just because of WLS .... dont get me wrong H & I have had our fair share of upsets in the past but been together for over 17 years .... and we will grow old together and hopefully now I've had surgery I'll have a longer healthier life 😘