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  • @lacefacethegreat
    @lacefacethegreat Рік тому +852

    Congratulations y'all! That baby is so loved already. I've been in the parenting game for 20 years now and my best advice to you is this....
    1. It's okay to put the baby down in a safe spot and walk away to gather your bearings.
    2. As long as your child is alive at the end of the day, you're doing a good job. Give yourself credit.
    3. Make date nights mandatory. It's so easy to get wrapped up in Parenthood, don't forget to keep dating each other. It'll make your relationship stronger.
    4. Trust your instincts Every kid is different. What works for one won't work for another..
    5. It's 100% okay to abandon the shopping cart in the aisle when the kid has a meltdown.
    Y'all are gonna be fine. Enjoy the journey. It is the hardest yet most rewarding thing I've ever done in my life. I wouldn't trade being a mom for anything. They are my greatest blessing. ♥️

    • @ree9560
      @ree9560 Рік тому +32

      The shopping cart item had me going. GREAT TIP!!

    • @katierichard3624
      @katierichard3624 Рік тому +10

      Great advice! I have left a few carts in the aisle due to meltdowns. It will be okay!

    • @rebekahwalsh697
      @rebekahwalsh697 Рік тому +6

      Couldn’t agree with everything said hear more. Love from mom of 3 ☺️

    • @ericacole7102
      @ericacole7102 Рік тому +6

      You will be your children’s roll model. The soak in everything. Their ethics , values and vision of the world will come from you.

    • @kailyndielschneider5298
      @kailyndielschneider5298 Рік тому +11

      I'm not even a mom but i love this

  • @Joanna096
    @Joanna096 Рік тому +2755

    You know Ryland had entered his “mom era” when he’s buying flowers and plants and has a baby on the way and a new puppy… I’m so ready for the mom vlogs!!

    • @Shakodancer16
      @Shakodancer16 Рік тому +53

      Already nesting before the nesting period even comes

    • @sunlitplatinum
      @sunlitplatinum Рік тому +6

      @Angel Solis ryland is taurus

    • @homeslice6064
      @homeslice6064 Рік тому +12

      Jesus this is wrong on so many levels.

    • @richiethev4623
      @richiethev4623 Рік тому

      Idiots I guess they didn't see the quotes🤦 and it completely went over their heads what the original comment meant by "mom era" and I guess because I am a female I can't do dad joke's instead must do mom jokes because after all I am female🤣🤣

    • @SaltandLight70x7
      @SaltandLight70x7 Рік тому +2

      @@homeslice6064 Thank you!

  • @mrose4432
    @mrose4432 Рік тому +125

    You’re mom is so considerate and thoughtful when you’re filming, so sweet!

  • @alishamcanally4770
    @alishamcanally4770 Рік тому +97

    The way Shane describes how he puts the puppy to sleep is literal representation of parenting 🤣🤣🤣

    • @treearoha
      @treearoha Рік тому

      Haha I was thinking the same thing. That’s exactly what it’s like having a new baby and trying to get them to sleep lmao

  • @bruzerbites1318
    @bruzerbites1318 Рік тому +210

    I love Rylands mom teaching him how to plant flowers. I love her. Ryland does an amazing job making sure there home is beautiful.

  • @Bashl3y
    @Bashl3y Рік тому +1753

    The best advice I received as a new parent was to never go to bed angry with each other. Having a baby is stressful. Always make times for yourself and for each other. Don’t lose yourself like I did. I always put myself last and you can’t do that all the time. Lastly, cherish each moment because it goes soooo fast. Before you know it your baby will graduating high school lol. Love you guys.

    • @outside8312
      @outside8312 Рік тому +71

      No ALWAYS go to bed when you're angry! Sleep off the anger and you'll be rational in the morning

    • @jessiv6870
      @jessiv6870 Рік тому +10

      Agree for the most part, love the emphasis on saving time for eachother and cherishing the wee one. Little ones are only that small once and you only have one for that time, if you have more it's shared time as new littles arrive. It took about 2 years before hubby and I got really settled as parents but also remembering then that we were still husband and wife and were lovers before all that. The stronger the foundation with parents, the more secure baby will feel💖

    • @leahvogelsimpson
      @leahvogelsimpson Рік тому +11

      And choose your battles.

    • @asr0520
      @asr0520 Рік тому +30

      As a new parent I’m going to bed regardless of who is mad🤣you take advantage of snoozing.

    • @doridobai6029
      @doridobai6029 Рік тому +5

      I also heared this advice and I think it's really good. One of my exes told me that her mother told him this as a motherly advice I guess, but I agreed to do it, so we always had to make up, we told each other why we are mad and we solved the problem because we "had to", cuz we agreed to this rule, and I think it worked out really good, going to sleep stressed or angry and frustrated you simply won't get a good sleep

  • @KimberlyDen116
    @KimberlyDen116 Рік тому +219

    A puppy is NOTHING like a child. I kind of evil laugh because Ryland is going to get the biggest awakening. So excited for them but you never stop being a parent.

    • @destinys1171
      @destinys1171 Рік тому +5

      Agreed! A child is so much more then having a puppy/dog. Every stage of life has it challenges and its a life time role to be a parent....but it can be so rewarding :)

    • @barbie9776
      @barbie9776 Рік тому

      You even worry about them when they’re asleep at school. Scenarios that might never happen.

    • @KimberlyDen116
      @KimberlyDen116 Рік тому +2

      @@barbie9776 100%! No matter how old they are, you never stop worrying about them.

    • @MissWWEFan13
      @MissWWEFan13 Рік тому +1

      @@barbie9776 I definitely see this. I’m 26 (I still live with parents due to cancer diagnosis at 17) and my mom still stays awake until I get home at night!

  • @rjkbuny
    @rjkbuny Рік тому +156

    Lol, Ryland has the energy to deal with it, but boy does he always underestimate the amount of work horses, alpacas, and human babies are😂

    • @angelomendoza6666
      @angelomendoza6666 Рік тому +3

      Lol and he also has to deal with Shane’s unexpected shenanigans

  • @cheezeandcrackerz6343
    @cheezeandcrackerz6343 Рік тому +497

    I have never felt more like part of a family than I do here. Watching Shane when I was younger, then everyone meeting Ryland, we were there when they got Honey, when they got engaged, when they moved house each time and more. Now we’ve watched them get Riley and now their first child is soon to come. Small things like everyone’s birthdays just feel special and seeing their families gives a even more homey feeling. They have raised so many of us making sure we feel loved and happy over the years and I have no doubt on this Earth they will be the best parents. I want to thank them for everything, they deserve the world. ❤️

    • @iheartshaneandjeffree
      @iheartshaneandjeffree Рік тому +19

      This comment is everything 🖤 beautifully said 🖤🖤🖤💯

    • @oshifish2
      @oshifish2 Рік тому +6

      I had the same kind of feels! I was tearing up watching mom and dad help Ryland with the plant nursery and soon the baby nursery! Time is so very fleeting and I lost both my parents back to back so this hit me in the feels and just made me think to cherish EVERY moment with friends and family. You won't get the time back. Love to see your family grow fur and human babies! xo

    • @makenziehintz1605
      @makenziehintz1605 Рік тому +5

      THIS !!! So much this !!!😩🤞🏽♥️

    • @deannacarlin
      @deannacarlin Рік тому +2

      Yes !!! I have watched Shane since he was with Lisa and to see this relationship grow has been so amazing.I feel like they are my best friends but have no idea who I am lol

    • @emkade
      @emkade Рік тому +2

      Beautiful comment

  • @josieemcquillen
    @josieemcquillen Рік тому +71

    I’m really loving this new shane. i can tell he’s happy and confident and I’m living for it.

  • @marylawton3092
    @marylawton3092 Рік тому +18

    My advice is have a whole formula set up in the nursery. We had to formula feed our first and we would bring like 6 clean bottles, water, and formula all in the nursery. Running to the kitchen multiple times a night caused hubby and I to really argue. Also pick like 3 lullaby songs and don't stray from those 3. Really helps the baby to get in the routine of hearing the song and going to sleep. Good luck so happy for you guys!

  • @NickiAvenged
    @NickiAvenged Рік тому +44

    We need more gardening videos with Mom. That was so delightful and I learned new things 😂❤️

  • @sunshinetyler9332
    @sunshinetyler9332 Рік тому +209

    I have a 4mo, he’s my first and I thought I was prepared and I was not. I got a puppy a year and a half before having him and I’ve babysat and worked in a daycare since I was like 12. Nothing can truly prepare you I promise you that. But it gets so much easier after the first 3 months. They’re finally starting to understand that they’re no longer in the womb and attached to mom and their personality starts to show and it’s so amazing. Just push through the sleep deprivation and you’ll do great!💕

    • @aimeecox3588
      @aimeecox3588 Рік тому +3

      When we had our first baby I thought I was mentally and emotionally prepared as well. Def was NOT! Lol it was a rough transition!

    • @CATSWITHKYLA
      @CATSWITHKYLA Рік тому +8

      It doesn't get easier in 3 months. Don't lie. My daughter is now 22 and it is finally getting easier.

    • @sunshinetyler9332
      @sunshinetyler9332 Рік тому +1

      @@CATSWITHKYLA easier as in you get used to it I guess😅😅

    • @CATSWITHKYLA
      @CATSWITHKYLA Рік тому

      @@sunshinetyler9332 ok yeah you get use to it but it only gets harder... You will wish your baby is 3 months again once they are walking 😂 I am not saying I didn't love my daughter and enjoy all of it BUT it's hard work being a parent!

  • @littleekellyy
    @littleekellyy Рік тому +43

    being a parent can be so so draining. that first year i barely got any sleep or time to do anything for myself. couldn’t even find the time to shower everyday. but it was such a wonderful experience. the best advice i received was to take breaks and not feel guilty for taking them. i was glued to my son 24/7 but my mother always encouraged me to go out and do something for myself at least once a week without my son. never ever forget that whether you’re a parent or not, you’re still your own person and your needs and mental health are just as important.

  • @ker_rri
    @ker_rri Рік тому +60

    When I miss Shane I come here and yknow this is the happiest he’s ever been. Thank you for making all his dreams come true. We love you all

  • @meganmoore4421
    @meganmoore4421 Рік тому +16

    The fact that Shane mentioned upside down by jack johnson is crazy because I play that song for my baby girl everytime she’s eating her dinner and she absolutely loves watching us dance to it! So babies also love that song! 😆

  • @emilyeldredge6047
    @emilyeldredge6047 Рік тому +145

    I'm a mom of two girls (3 and 4 years old) and I would love to see you guys with a Baby Simulating Doll for a week. Getting up at night taking care of it & going out of the house, all the works!

    • @KiraHunter2310
      @KiraHunter2310 Рік тому

      3 and 4? Why do new mums shag right after birth and have ANOTHER kid so close?

    • @kyla2423
      @kyla2423 Рік тому +3

      That would be funny! If only most of us were so lucky to practice like that beforehand
      😭😂

    • @melodybisson8
      @melodybisson8 Рік тому +2

      Such a great video idea!!!

    • @moevigil6987
      @moevigil6987 Рік тому +2

      This!!!

    • @singingwolf8997
      @singingwolf8997 Рік тому +3

      Didn't they do that before? I think they called it Tyler?

  • @CatieLynn87
    @CatieLynn87 Рік тому +119

    Shane looks SO GOOD in that shirt . I’m so happy for Shane I got butterflies throughout the video. He deserves all of this happiness. I love you Shane ! Good job Rylan! ❤️👏🏼 And you guys are going to be the greatest bestest daddies ever ! That child is going to be SO blessed having you as parents. I’m crying happy tears. So proud of you guys and so happy for you! 🥹❤️👏🏼👨‍👨‍👧

  • @daniellarusso3392
    @daniellarusso3392 Рік тому +7

    Omg someone please call CPS.....

  • @madddyberrry
    @madddyberrry Рік тому +116

    I’m so so happy for you guys! I really hope you guys decide to share the whole journey, and what it all entails. It would be great informative content but also something so sweet to reflect on later in life.
    ALSO so off topic, but when I got my puppy I asked a lot of questions to my vet friend and when crate training, if you give Riley a treat when she enters and/or give her toys to play with in the crate (supervised) and not shutting the door in a hurry, closing it slowly or just a little bit at a time- it makes it her safe space, instead of her feeling like it’s a punishment or dreadful being in there! My dog goes to his crate all of the time, without me even saying anything now. I hope that helps! ❤️

  • @spookymary2752
    @spookymary2752 Рік тому +73

    I've been watching Shane since the beginning of his channel and growing with him and Ryland has been amazing. I'm a mom now and it's the most life-changing and wonderful experience. I'm genuinely so happy that I'm crying for you guys. So much love. So much good energy towards you and your growing family. So happy to be a part of it.

  • @IsThisPuja
    @IsThisPuja Рік тому +112

    Congratulations!! This feels extra special, I've been watching Shane since I was 13 years old (I'm almost 25) it's so nice to see you guys grow and settle down together 💗

    • @stevieleekaniuk-carrier8556
      @stevieleekaniuk-carrier8556 Рік тому +2

      ME TOO!! The ages and everything!!! Crazy
      It’s so nice to see the people you appreciate doing well ❤️

  • @sonyasisneros1660
    @sonyasisneros1660 Рік тому +11

    Ryan’s mom wanting to put the plants back and re do that part was everything 😃🫶🏽

  • @mamavance9298
    @mamavance9298 Рік тому +6

    Puppies are hard, but a baby turns into a adult and a stress that parents have is " am I doing everything I can to make sure they have what they need to be an adult and maybe a parent themselves". It's a whole new brain set. Best of luck y'all. 💕

  • @violetgrace6911
    @violetgrace6911 Рік тому +104

    i love seeing shane this happy i haven’t seen him this genuinely happy ina while

  • @Tara1016
    @Tara1016 Рік тому +76

    Mama Vicki and Ryland gardening together is the wholesome content my heart needs :))) Everything looks so beautiful 😍🌸🌺🌼

  • @jewelscreations-n-thingz
    @jewelscreations-n-thingz Рік тому +189

    First off I'd like to thank you both for recognizing the maker of Shane's Starbucks cup & not just saying Etsy! Although it wasn't myself than crafted that, as a small business owner I know how important that was to her.
    Second I can not wait to see your journey as parents! I have a 2 year old & she is the best thing that has ever happened in my life. You guys are going to make AWESOME parents!

  • @HeatherJVelez
    @HeatherJVelez Рік тому +8

    As a mom of 3 kiddos. It’s crazy and amazing at the same time. Also wine becomes your best friend on the weekends. Babies are hard and you need to be there 24/7 for them. Also say goodbye to sleep lol you’ll also be up super early everyday! I have a 9,5, and 6 month old and I have yet to sleep a full night!

  • @Michael-mo6dh
    @Michael-mo6dh Рік тому +52

    Congrats I have 4 daughters myself and there's nothing more satisfying at the end of the day then going home to your family. Family is EVERYTHING.

  • @LULW_POGGERS
    @LULW_POGGERS Рік тому +108

    Y’all’s child is going to be so loved, they’re coming into such a happy and tight knit family. Ryan I see why you are so happy, Shane and your mom pour so much love into you and it’s gonna be so exciting watching you do the same for your child. I’m so happy for you guys and I’m sending you and your family so much love 💜

  • @tessiegirl561
    @tessiegirl561 Рік тому +16

    Is it just me or has Shane been glowing as of late?!? (LOVE YOU SO FREAKING MUCH SHANE) I also think that Ryland has entered "ultra mom era"

  • @seperateway9098
    @seperateway9098 Рік тому +14

    I’m so happy for them, like genuinely glad to see them happy. They’re been through a lot and they deserve this

  • @melindavictorson7973
    @melindavictorson7973 Рік тому +30

    Shane is such a great gift getter! That is the response you need when you are excited to surprise someone you love.

  • @TessMac
    @TessMac Рік тому +96

    The title alone is EVERYTHING! Congratulations to you both. You’ll be joining the GREATEST club on earth..Parenthood! So happy for you two! Cheers to a beautiful future. 🤍😘🥰

  • @meiraloraduncan8953
    @meiraloraduncan8953 Рік тому +5

    Stagger when the plants will bloom continually throughout the seasons. And definitely listen to your mom. She sounds like she knows a lot about gardening. You might need a drip line for watering them since the roof overhang protects the area. Another trick for areas where you want to change things seasonally or the season is short is to dig a hole large enough for a pot to sit in and not be visible and then you buy the plants/flowers and just insert them in the pot and all into you put in the planter or area that you want to be able to change them out . You can also harvest the seeds from the previous plant/flower and save them to replant the items if they don’t go dormant and come back again. You have the space on your property for a small green house structure which would allow you to grow plants for your house and garden as well as vegetables and smaller fruit trees if they can’t grow outside due to the weather conditions. If I could I would have a decent garden in raised beds in a greenhouse type of structure because I enjoy growing things and had a nice garden and landscaping in our first home, but my allergies suddenly became extremely severe and even deadly on a few things which made spending time outside a form of torture that caused me to be sick and take weeks to recover. Many people don’t appreciate the things they take for granted until they can’t do it because it adversely affects them mentally,physically, and emotionally.

  • @alloshan138
    @alloshan138 Рік тому +74

    Ryland will be hit with a reality check when he has a child lol

  • @Schmalzyyy
    @Schmalzyyy Рік тому +209

    😂 mom here. A baby and child is a MILLION TIMES more difficult on every level (emotional physical mental).
    NOTHING can prepare you for what it’s like. I’ve had puppies … a puppy is a piece of cake comparatively.

    • @tiaryfairy5896
      @tiaryfairy5896 Рік тому +18

      Completely agree! And to add on, a puppy grows up so quick, and then you can expect them to just kind of stay the same once they're a grown dog. Where with a baby, once they're out of one stage, you're on to the next phase of their life. So it's always simultaneously getting somewhat easier, but also harder all throughout parenthood, with all the new stages. 😅

    • @Claire-tq8hf
      @Claire-tq8hf Рік тому +12

      I've heard from single moms/married moms that puppies are harder! Depends on the baby for sure.

    • @ninadixon4316
      @ninadixon4316 Рік тому +12

      Yup! Babies are way harder. Sleep deprivation in the beginning is a b*tch

    • @ashlynbonini3710
      @ashlynbonini3710 Рік тому +2

      Yeah Shane understands this but ryland gone have to figure it out

    • @sup.im.angelina
      @sup.im.angelina Рік тому +2

      I wonder if it might be different since they're having a surrogate vs having natural birthed child. If that makes sense. Just curious about the emotional connection.

  • @jmk0574
    @jmk0574 Рік тому +10

    That Jack Johnson Curious George album is THE BEST! It came out when I was pregnant with my oldest and has a special place in my heart.

  • @ambriana6822
    @ambriana6822 Рік тому +12

    The pretending to be asleep is so me with my baby🤣 also Blue is Shane’s color💙💙

  • @souporman8396
    @souporman8396 Рік тому +218

    Found Ryland’s videos after falling down the conspiracy rabbit hole of all Shane’s videos. Entertaining way to relax after work and laugh. Kudos all around for UA-cam’s best couple.

    • @ellaova
      @ellaova Рік тому +13

      Oh I remember those days of innocence. You're not from around here, are you?

    • @theluvjonze
      @theluvjonze Рік тому +3

      This clog is my most favorite vlog of all time

    • @cremadefresita
      @cremadefresita Рік тому

      @@ellaova lmaooo

    • @lydiadewberry7328
      @lydiadewberry7328 Рік тому +1

      @@ellaova I still watch though....and so do you

  • @dks4432
    @dks4432 Рік тому +16

    Your mom is so sweet offering to help get good shots. I love your family dynamic. So excited to watch you guys bring in a baby 🤍 no doubt in my mind your child will be so loved!

  • @madisonhammerle4664
    @madisonhammerle4664 Рік тому +28

    Ryland's content is so comforting and wholesome. I love you guys!!!!

  • @jcbmama5016
    @jcbmama5016 Рік тому +15

    Awe it’s so sweet to see you both start the “nesting” process❣️

  • @nativeunknown695
    @nativeunknown695 Рік тому +3

    New momma here. My daughter is 7 weeks old and man. It's definitely a full time job but once you get on a schedule with baby and learn all the tricks of making things easier for when you feed them and do the whole 9 yards every few hours when they need it you will be fine. Sleep when they sleep and just give them all the love you possibly can. They will be your heart and soul and cherish every moment with them. They will not be tiny forever. Good luck you guys! Lots of love and God bless. I pray everything works out for yal!! Happy healthy baby💞🖤

  • @Autumnnmonique
    @Autumnnmonique Рік тому +459

    I love y’all’s little family so much❤️ can’t wait to see y’all journey !!

    • @MarcusDaGrand
      @MarcusDaGrand Рік тому +4

      You wouldn't be southern by any chance?.....jk

    • @stevensonalderworstmd329
      @stevensonalderworstmd329 Рік тому +5

      the surrogate thing is a mistake. its them being materialistic and self centered. if they wanna do a good thing in the world w/ their wealth they could adopt a child who is in need or something. this whole surrogate thing is such nonsense

    • @stevensonalderworstmd329
      @stevensonalderworstmd329 Рік тому +4

      2 guys are not supposed to procreate as well. its all so unnatural...its like a violation against the universe or against life itself. hopefully they'll think it over. adoption on the other hand would be a perfect way for them to do something good w/ their wealth

    • @CATSWITHKYLA
      @CATSWITHKYLA Рік тому +2

      @@stevensonalderworstmd329 I agree and I said this in my long comment. I think they are ridiculous and a bit selfish. 3 dogs and a baby in a year. They have no idea how hard it is going to be

    • @CheshireKitten17
      @CheshireKitten17 Рік тому

      @@stevensonalderworstmd329 you are literally living the the dark ages. It is appalling to see someone in 2022 watching a video that offends them, because it offends them. Than continuing to the comment section to leave derogatory comments because it offends you… if you didn’t agree with what the did, say, or their life style choice- why are you even here?? Why are you even watching their videos? How does their decisions with their wealth have anything to do with you? Do you manage their accounts or participate as a financial advisor? Your literal ignorance of assuming you know their life is laughable. Instead of spewing your hateful comments- go support a page that you don’t hate. Be a contributing member of societies that want the world to be a better place. If not? Take your hate somewhere else. They deserve to be happy in anyway they want. Just like you are. But they ain’t out here commenting on your stuff saying offensive ignorant things. Peace be with you- have a day you deserve.

  • @99bulletsarescene
    @99bulletsarescene Рік тому +52

    Living for Shane and his leopard print...brings me back to my 2008 snooki obsession 😂

  • @MsSpktrout
    @MsSpktrout Рік тому +4

    Having a child is absolutely nothing like a dog. I thought the same thing when I was 15 after I had taken care of a puppy/dog when when I was 13- 15, with the help of my mom. However, having a puppy while preparing for a baby is certainly better than having a baby & being responsible for a human life after having zero responsibility for a living thing prior to the baby.
    Congrats on the puppy! so cute! You two will be amazing parents! so excited for the both of you ❤

  • @sarahputman1898
    @sarahputman1898 Рік тому +8

    We became parents 9 months ago, and I am so excited for you to experience the joy of parenthood! That being said...it is an around the clock job and the beginning can be rough (it makes me second guess another lol). But it, is, worth, it! Congratulations!

  • @gracecoleman1064
    @gracecoleman1064 Рік тому +13

    Pro tip for crate training! I literally got a puppy just last week, and we had to crate train her. The best thing that we found helps is luring the dog in with a treat, and cover the crate with blankets so she can't see out (less likely to be disturbed). And another great tip is to fill a Kong with treats, place it in when she's out of the crate, and after she goes outside to go toilet, bring her into the crate with a treat, so even if she's whining she'll eventually settle down and will have something to chew on to entertain herself with. Trust me, ignore the whining, don't endorse/encourage it, and especially don't give her praise or dote on her if she is whining ❤️❤️❤️

    • @megs3555
      @megs3555 Рік тому +1

      Can fully back this up, had our 13 week gsd pup crate trained in less than a week. I find leaving music playing helps i use rain sounds or calming music. Try adding a crate command when throwing a treat in the crate or every time you put her in she should start going in herself make it fun

  • @theresaschat4811
    @theresaschat4811 Рік тому +37

    Ryland is going to be such an iconic mom omg 😭 so happy for you both!! Shane your going to be the funnest dad ever! Love ya'll 💝

    • @taylorgarcia8650
      @taylorgarcia8650 Рік тому +2

      you cant be a mom if your a man. yall need psychological help

    • @theresaschat4811
      @theresaschat4811 Рік тому

      @@taylorgarcia8650 actually you can be whatever tf you want to be didn't YOUR MOM ever tell you that?? Get TF out of here

  • @katiedemray5637
    @katiedemray5637 Рік тому +3

    My son is 10 weeks old and he is a lot different from a puppy so be prepared. However they are also both rewarding and just as cute to watch them grow, in different ways of coarse. I’m so excited and happy for you two. Your family is growing and I feel so honored to be able to follow your journey into fatherhood. You two will be amazing dads and so fun to watch the excitement and emotion that floods you two when you talk about your little beans journey into the world! Thank you for being willing to share your experiences! I love your family, Ryland, Shane, Cheeto, Uno, Honey, Riley, and Baby-To-Be!

  • @erwamay
    @erwamay Рік тому +12

    Hi Ryland, I saw you the other day in my moms yoga class that she was subbing for. I wanted to say your practice is amazing! And I'm so happy for the both of you!! Much love

  • @Tara1016
    @Tara1016 Рік тому +17

    Shane having the absolute best birthday filled with so much love makes my heart overflow with joy he deserves so much happiness 😭❤ Praying all his wishes come true this year 🙏❤

  • @angie_getsfit22
    @angie_getsfit22 Рік тому +194

    Oh my god Ryland you are looking so beautiful, the earrings really made a huge difference! You’re like getting better with age! And your garden looks amazing, your mom is great for giving you all those tips.

  • @valmonge
    @valmonge Рік тому

    I love how happy The are now ❤️ it's so cute to see all of this I love it.
    You guys need to keep documenting everything like this 🥰

  • @rachelkiely3206
    @rachelkiely3206 Рік тому

    Happy birthday to Shane & major congratulations to you both!! Such amazing news, so excited to see yer future 💕

  • @maurobettani
    @maurobettani Рік тому +50

    I love shane like this with no filter just being himself. You are a lovely couple and will be great parents

  • @Stina85
    @Stina85 Рік тому +7

    I loved the segment with Ryland and his mom doing gardening! I adore their wholesomeness!!! 🥺🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @savslayss6523
    @savslayss6523 Рік тому

    Congratulations on trending!! I love you guys so much and I am so excited for this next adventure in life! I truly cannot wait to see a little Ryland or Shane running around 😍😍 sending so much love and light! 💕

  • @melymia1101
    @melymia1101 Рік тому

    congratulations!! you guys are going to love the fact that you have all of these videos as you go on. Just to remember all of these little moments/milestones. your own personal history! should be thing that parents do!!

  • @lisalynn1
    @lisalynn1 Рік тому +84

    I wish anything made me as happy as bling starbucks mugs make Shane. Great job Ryland. Happy Birthday Shane.

  • @sarahdavidson348
    @sarahdavidson348 Рік тому +12

    My advice as a parent is to never make any big decisions, relationship wise, the first year after having a baby. It is an adjustment, even if you have the easiest baby in the world. Take everything with a grain of salt. They grow so fast. Soak everything in, be with the moment. I think you guys will be excellent parents ❤️

  • @salit3749
    @salit3749 Рік тому

    i love how much Shane is smiling in this video! amazing to see such happiness is actually possible. brings me hope.

  • @erinmini2117
    @erinmini2117 Рік тому +7

    THANK YOU for shouting out the etsy seller! So many UA-cam and Instagram creators forget to do that, or just say "from Etsy". The artists on there work so hard and an influencer crediting their work is HUGE for them💖💖💖

  • @erikadavila6574
    @erikadavila6574 Рік тому +59

    As a mommy of a 23 month old and a 5 month old, having a baby is one of the most stressful times BUT it’s also the most AMAZING and BEAUTIFUL feeling. It’s like no other kind of love. I’m soooooooo happy for you both. You will be amazing daddies 🫶🏻♥️

    • @iheartshaneandjeffree
      @iheartshaneandjeffree Рік тому +4

      You are a queen for handling two so close in age! My son is 8, I’m pregnant with my second and I’m very nervous lmao. Kudos to you!

    • @swankyangelo
      @swankyangelo Рік тому +25

      2 year old. Sheesh 🤣 you have a 2 year old.

    • @Sara5698
      @Sara5698 Рік тому +1

      @@iheartshaneandjeffree I feel like that’s a great age too! They all have their perks. Bigger age gap, your son will be so helpful and protective! Is your son excited or a little nervous? 😂

    • @iheartshaneandjeffree
      @iheartshaneandjeffree Рік тому +1

      @@Sara5698 he was excited at first but now he’s asking me who’s my favorite child 😭🤣 lol. I was 6 when my sister was born and very jealous but we are best friends now

    • @nikkig4606
      @nikkig4606 Рік тому +8

      23 month year old?! LMAOOOO

  • @shannonhall4054
    @shannonhall4054 Рік тому +18

    Shane looks so good in this I’m truly living for him

  • @Josie_Dolly98
    @Josie_Dolly98 Рік тому

    Aww so happy for you both congratulations can't wait to see what the future has in store for you two

  • @denisecook5640
    @denisecook5640 Рік тому +1

    Congrats you two on your news...nobody is ready to be parents but we all get through it...Your village is big enough to help you through the tough times⚘🥳 HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHANE..MUCH LOVE FROM CANADA

  • @regina_diane126
    @regina_diane126 Рік тому +26

    Vicki is the best! She’s so considerate, involved and aware of when you’re filming it’s so cute- she’s a proud mom for sure! Love seeing her in you and Morgan’s vids! BONUS POINTS to her for how she says “roots” haha 😆 so cute

  • @siouxsiewild6296
    @siouxsiewild6296 Рік тому +11

    I loved the gardening, I'm attempting to learn gardening and ur mum was so helpful. Also I'm so happy you have my drawings still, I'd love to do one with Riley and eventually ur baby x

  • @imanilugo8158
    @imanilugo8158 Рік тому +1

    Ah I’m so happy for you both! This is so exciting I can’t wait for you both to meet her and it all goes well!!
    Also, side note LOVED the aesthetic of gardening side of the vlog. Watching that part at night made it so relaxing haha

  • @idkman3633
    @idkman3633 Рік тому +2

    they've been through so much and i'm so glad they are living their best lives 🥺

  • @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat
    @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat Рік тому +13

    Shane’s reaction to your gift was the best reaction ever, I could watch it over and over!!! 😹 I’m so excited about your surrogate! ❤️

  • @jessicagonzalez2310
    @jessicagonzalez2310 Рік тому +7

    Omg you guys will love every single second when your baby is born ❤️ I recommend an electric swing, a blanket you sleep with for your baby, and holding your newborn is KEY! They know nothing else. It’s the best bonding experience no one can take away from you ❤️love you guys I wish you all the love and health ❤️

  • @Blondie.2386
    @Blondie.2386 Рік тому +20

    I’m always sad when it’s about to go off cause I just wanna hang out with you both a little longer 😩😝🥰🥰 Congrats on the surrogate!! What an amazing blessing coming y’all’s way!! ❤️❤️❤️ love you both!!! And I will say - my kiddos as babies way more work than my doggos were as puppies- but puppies are still exhausting lol😮‍💨

  • @kristinarthur3122
    @kristinarthur3122 Рік тому

    I’m so exited for you both!! Happy Belated Birthday Shane!!! You have such a good heart ❤️

  • @netsirk8437
    @netsirk8437 Рік тому +16

    Yay! Congratulations! I can't wait to see you two as dads.

  • @gracelynhill8276
    @gracelynhill8276 Рік тому +10

    Ryland should dress up as the lady with the lights for Christmas😂😂😂

  • @orie._.
    @orie._. Рік тому +1

    Oh my god, congratulations you two!!!! This is so exciting and I'm so happy for you both! You will be great dads. I'm crying now, awwwwww

  • @Jade-5713
    @Jade-5713 Рік тому +11

    You should make the crate a happy place to be and not make it feel like a punishment. Put her favourite toy in there and feed her but leave the crate open. Start with the food closest to the door and gradually move it further into the crate until she’s inside and eating. Eventually she will learn it’s her safe space and go in when she wants alone time or to feel safe.

  • @maried8475
    @maried8475 Рік тому +25

    I clicked on this so fast. This makes me so happy! You are both going to be amazing parents. I have watched you both for a while and this just makes my heart so happy.

  • @ksmith82288
    @ksmith82288 Рік тому +29

    I have literally never clicked so fast in my life! I am so happy for y’all. If anyone deserves to be parents it’s you guys. You will be the most amazing parents

    • @AshBear2008
      @AshBear2008 Рік тому +1

      SAME!!! I clicked immediately. ❤️

  • @gabbi_anoni
    @gabbi_anoni Рік тому

    This just makes my heart melt . ♥️♥️ I'm so happy for you all.

  • @erintaylor9735
    @erintaylor9735 Рік тому

    I look forward to these videos so much!! Love watching the two of you together doing real life things

  • @yukokaystevenson4438
    @yukokaystevenson4438 Рік тому +3

    Yay! Congratulations! Y'all are so worthy of raising, loving and protecting your precious little one. What an amazing blessing!
    Happy Birthday Shane!!
    Your reaction to the new cup was priceless 🤣 Made my heart smile!
    Birthday blessings, beautiful flowers,
    babys coming sooner than later and all the wonderful things! 💕 Great vlog!

  • @rosecaen5516
    @rosecaen5516 Рік тому +4

    Happy Birthday Shane! As a fellow Leopard lover, your gifts are fab! The garden looks lovely. And Congratulations on the surrogate! Such and exciting vlog!

  • @jenniicaroline1218
    @jenniicaroline1218 Рік тому +3

    I love how the new couch looks so much in the barn room... honestly id use that space for my home office! its far enough out of the actual house that i feel like it would be a less distracting work spot. Especially in the winter, sitting higher up with that nice window view!! peaceful! :)

  • @taliah2002
    @taliah2002 Рік тому

    I'm living for this relo and have been for a couple years now, seeing then grow into a family is going to be really special x

  • @anaisbananas5360
    @anaisbananas5360 Рік тому +36

    As a mom of twins and a toddler with 2 dogs, they're both equally as hard just in different ways. I have cried so many times over both from different situations that happened.

    • @kaileypower
      @kaileypower Рік тому +1

      This lol

    • @kalipepper5174
      @kalipepper5174 Рік тому

      Yes! I have one child and and one fur baby. I thought having a puppy was definitely harder! The only thing that evens it out is that the puppy stage only lasts a few weeks, but a baby is hard for a few years!

    • @CATSWITHKYLA
      @CATSWITHKYLA Рік тому +2

      They are ridiculous getting a 3rd dog when a baby is on the way. It's not easy

    • @miac2382
      @miac2382 Рік тому +2

      I would say a child is definitely harder than a dog lol

  • @DegrassiInstantStar
    @DegrassiInstantStar Рік тому +4

    This is amazing. So happy for the journey Ryland & Shane are going on!

  • @mexichicana
    @mexichicana Рік тому

    I love how mama is helping you with the garden 🥰 + dad and mom helping with the flower process and loading them

  • @chibipaws9889
    @chibipaws9889 Рік тому

    I will say, being parent is hard but the most rewarding thing. Yes it will tire you out so much and you might get to a point where you feel isolated but the joy they bring is so beautiful. My 8 month old is crawling and getting any and every thing in her mouth, she talks and is very clingy. But it felt like yesterday that she was a smoll newborn that loved to cuddle and had the cutest little cry when she just wanted to be near mommy... I have a feeling you guys will be amazing parents and will definitely have your hands full but can and will pull it off.

  • @outside8312
    @outside8312 Рік тому +41

    Raising a child is infinitely harder. Especially if they have any additional needs, which could happen to anyone.
    But it's also infinitely more love than you have ever felt

  • @Tara1016
    @Tara1016 Рік тому +3

    CONGRATULATIONS SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS 😭❤ Manifesting you will both ve dads this time next year ✨💛✨

  • @ashleyb.1564
    @ashleyb.1564 Рік тому +3

    I can already tell you guys are going to be amazing parents , can’t wait for the family vlogs ❤️😊

  • @brookegolden6676
    @brookegolden6676 Рік тому

    Congratulations y'all! So happy for you both!❤

  • @PrincessPeyten
    @PrincessPeyten Рік тому +7

    Ryland you’re so amazing and honestly I don’t think you understand how much I love and appreciate you and Shane I been watching Shane’s videos for 9 years you both are the best stress relievers😁😁😁

  • @kaitlyngaribay2345
    @kaitlyngaribay2345 Рік тому +7

    I love how Shane has phases. His bling phase, teddy phase, and now cheetah print! I love it 😆

  • @abigailnorman1760
    @abigailnorman1760 Рік тому

    So happy for you guys! And I would like to add,that although us Cancers can be emotional,that’s what makes us so compassionate and loving ♥️ can’t wait to follow your journey!!

  • @sarahaustin6687
    @sarahaustin6687 Рік тому +3

    This is such great news! I’ve been following the journey of your relationship since the beginning. And this is such a huge milestone cant wait to see what’s next. Love you both so much omg