You Will Instantly LOOK CONFIDENT Dancing If You Do This 1 Thing

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  • Опубліковано 24 лис 2024

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  • @GetDance
    @GetDance  2 роки тому +36

    Do you struggle with dancing at parties? Book a free strategy call with me for my Confidence Through Dance online program: www.getdanceonline.com/survey
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  • @wintercook2
    @wintercook2 2 роки тому +314

    So many dance teachers become teachers just because they are great dancers. You are a real teacher.

  • @buttermilksky254
    @buttermilksky254 9 місяців тому +28

    Two minutes that changed my life! I love dancing and have always loved dancing. I’m in my 60s and love parties. I struggled a bit with what to do. This Saturday night I’m going to own that dance floor

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  9 місяців тому +1

      have the best time! 🎉

  • @OldSchoolDanceFitness
    @OldSchoolDanceFitness Рік тому +117

    As a fellow dance instructor, I applaud your mission to show people that EVERYONE can dance. These tips are awesome and I’ll be using them in my classes!

  • @lisalemasters3699
    @lisalemasters3699 Рік тому +47

    i watched your videos to get ready for my first time on a dance floor I am 70 years old and always wanted to dance but was afraid. thank you so much i had so much fun and have been back to dance several times. i might not look good but I have a lot of fun.

    • @Hailey-y9d
      @Hailey-y9d Рік тому

      That's wonderful, I hope to share a similar experience myself!

  • @encore2007
    @encore2007 2 роки тому +148

    I like the method you showed in this video. I tried it while watching the video and it made me 5x better at dancing then I normally am haha. I actually didn’t realise I had so much dancing potential. Thank you so much. Hope you’re having an awesome day!

  • @najucampbell383
    @najucampbell383 Рік тому +37

    Thank you so much. I'm gonna turn 18 soon and almost all my friend dance at parties while I watch because I don't know what do and feel so awkward. You really helped me, God bless ya girl❤️

  • @mijuryu9021
    @mijuryu9021 4 місяці тому +4

    "Just pretend" is so real. "Fake it until you make it" really helped me a looot personnally, I still struggle a lot since I have social anxiety but deceiving myself and others into looking confident on the dancefloor + dancing for myself first instead of trying to prove really saved me. Thanks for the video, great tips !!

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  4 місяці тому

      So glad it helps 😊

  • @deebee4622
    @deebee4622 2 роки тому +11

    I love how you focus on upper body movement. Really works just dancing like nobody is watching....because they're not!

  • @kmuddy5
    @kmuddy5 2 роки тому +47

    this CLICKED, thank you so much! even when I'm alone I'm embarrassed by myself, but with this I didn't care how I looked and I could set myself free

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  2 роки тому +7

      I'm so glad! PART 2 to this video will be out this month 👍

  • @corellonable
    @corellonable Рік тому +5

    I have never really danced in my life, and last year I was at a party in Tunisia and started out the shy way as well but turned out to really enjoy dancing and just go with whatever. Having zero technique, only observing others and trying to mimic and let the rhythm dictate movements but it worked - i got a lot of attention after a while haha

  • @GirlOnTheFloor
    @GirlOnTheFloor 2 роки тому +47

    Wow, wow, I feel TOTALLY different after watching this. You're brilliant to think of and share it! I used to love dancing but often felt shy about it. I do remember many years ago in a friendly way copying ('mocking') what others were doing on the dance floor and you're totally right, I had no self consciousness and was able to do dance moves I never would have otherwise. It was such a blast! I never thought to do this again as an intentional way of improving my confidence. THANK YOU! 💜

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  2 роки тому +1

      It works like MAGIC :) Glad you liked it!

  • @thecoyoteway5000
    @thecoyoteway5000 Рік тому +3

    I was told a long time ago that I look like a confident dancer. I always raise my arms up when I'm dancing. That makes me look confident.

  • @LisaTran1971
    @LisaTran1971 Рік тому +11

    Thank you so much. I really enjoy watching people dance, but I'm way too shy to even make a small move. I don't know how to dance, and it's so hard for me to even try. I can exercise, but dancing has always felt challenging for me. Your lessons have made it possible for me to start learning, and I hope that one day I can follow along. Best wishes to you ❤❤🌹🌹

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  Рік тому +2

      You can do it! start at home and you'll see it will be more and more fun! 🙂

  • @Dylucah
    @Dylucah Рік тому +1

    You have the best advice. When I go out, I dance like no one's watching, typically because no one actually is. Though, for me, I've always been the class clown growing up so I can laugh at myself easily.

  • @sophiawish9772
    @sophiawish9772 Рік тому +4

    Visualization is a powerful tool, good advice!

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  Рік тому +1

      Right? Works every time! 😊

  • @ediewilson4043
    @ediewilson4043 7 місяців тому

    You’re the best. I’m 78 and still dancing. I can learn so much from you to up my confidence. Thank you. 💕

  • @staceyfonas3047
    @staceyfonas3047 6 місяців тому +1

    This is great. "Dance better by mocking me." So funny. You are awesome!! Your smiles look so genuine, even if it's just for a camera. Thanks for this!

  • @Rachel-wg3nv
    @Rachel-wg3nv Рік тому +15

    Thanks so much for your videos. I am absolutely terrible at dancing, but with following along this video I felt great! Great tips. Will definitely watch more videos. I hardly go out, but am planning to go to a concert, so would be nice to be able to dance a little and besides: it is good exercise :)

  • @MrGivesuccess
    @MrGivesuccess 2 роки тому +13

    I am 55 this may 31 and love to dance! You are good at explaining things. I lost some of my confidence bc I gained back 45 lbs i lost bf covid. Back then I felt i could move more easily but not i am slower and lost my moves. :-( Also not many people going out to the dance floor and i hate going out there by myself. I keep going and trying to get things to get more active!

    • @donnawestbrook8992
      @donnawestbrook8992 5 місяців тому

      Do you care what anyone else on the dancefloor weighs? No one knows what you weighed before COVID but you. Life is toO short not to go enjoy yourself.

  • @maciekillebrew2614
    @maciekillebrew2614 2 роки тому +12

    You are a wonderful teacher. I am interested in any and all moves you can teach me. You are easy to learn from with your step-by-step method. Just this evening, a song came on the radio and a friend and I were dancing in the kitchen and I used the moves and methods you had taught me. My friend was so impressed she wanted me to show her your channel, which I did. Prior to your teaching, I used to look like a block of wood on the dance floor. Keep up the good work and I will too.

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  2 роки тому +1

      Wow, thank you for learning from me 😀

  • @shdwfax1024
    @shdwfax1024 Рік тому +25

    Alcohol is what makes me magically confident on the dance floor.

  • @angelinetienzo7198
    @angelinetienzo7198 Рік тому +5

    Thank you so much, dear I learned to dance just by watching and following your advices. I used to be rigid and never tried dancing in front of people before but by watching your tutorials I was able to come out of my shell. I never learned dancing in my younger years but because of you I learned to dance at 51 😊

  • @videoettaceo8900
    @videoettaceo8900 2 роки тому +6

    This is helpful for every sphere of one's life.

  • @skollieopcrimi9900
    @skollieopcrimi9900 Рік тому +1

    YOU are absolutely amazing & enigmatic! Will be dancing my socks off from now on!

  • @mijuryu9021
    @mijuryu9021 4 місяці тому +1

    I just added 10+ of your videos to my Watchlist, I really love how you explain and reassure us

  • @vsm-_
    @vsm-_ Рік тому +2

    That, is a real confidence booster surely 💃🕺🧚

  • @didarden
    @didarden 9 місяців тому

    I was getting ready to look up "cool dance moves" but found this and its sooo much better. Thank you so much

  • @philipmartin3075
    @philipmartin3075 2 роки тому +5

    The best teacher!

  • @stacyj4858
    @stacyj4858 8 місяців тому

    I'm here to learn how to be more confident dancing on my rollerskates!! Thank you so much!!

  • @larrymuana2260
    @larrymuana2260 11 місяців тому +2

    Awesome tutorial, I saved it in my playlist so I can learn it. Thank you!! Beautiful moves.

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  11 місяців тому +2

      Hey, if you need help with that I offer free strategy sessions, that will be more helpful: www.getdanceonline.com/survey

  • @dawnsorochan8078
    @dawnsorochan8078 3 місяці тому

    You are amazing !!! Thankyou for posting all these videos for complete beginners like me .

  • @TokioTE
    @TokioTE 2 роки тому +8

    This is *game-changing* thank you!

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  2 роки тому +4

      I'm glad it helped 😊

  • @BlountForce
    @BlountForce 5 місяців тому +1

    This is sooo helpful. Thank you so much!

  • @brendawolf2658
    @brendawolf2658 9 місяців тому +1

    This was great. Following for sure!

  • @tubars101
    @tubars101 Рік тому +1

    Hell yes I did! Thank you. I needed alittle smile and watched this video

  • @shelinaashlock1046
    @shelinaashlock1046 2 роки тому +8

    Monica, thank you for these videos. I always thought I was dancing wrong but watching you, I am doing it right. I am not a professional dancer (but I always wanted to be a backup dancer for Janet Jackson😁, and I still love her but I also love J LO). I once had someone tell me that I dance sexy and I’ve never thought of my moves like that. I just have Latin roots so I figured I should know something. My grandmother LOVED to Salsa. So again, thank you so so much. Watching you dance makes me happy 😊.

  • @lizbartlett1401
    @lizbartlett1401 2 роки тому +7

    One of my favorite videos of yours- I look forward to trying this on a regular basis! 🙏❤️

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  2 роки тому +1

      really? 😀 thanks Liz!!

  • @danceteachermom
    @danceteachermom Рік тому +7

    I didn't watch, but wanted to pitch in my 2¢. I grew up the daughter of a dance teacher and I am also a dance teacher... Tap, jazz, ballet, pointe, contemporary, lyrical, hip-hop.... In my 20s, I went out clubbing a LOT to go dance. I'm 61 now. I still teach of course.
    Here is my secret....
    DON'T CARE how you look. The MORE you feel and act self-conscious, the more stiff and ridiculous you will look.
    The LESS you care, the freer you are and you will have fun. Nothing you do is wrong when you're out dancing.
    Here's the saying I would teach to my dance students....
    *Feels good (or "normal")... Looks FUNNY
    *Feels funny (out of comfort zone)... Looks GOOD 😁
    (because it's obviously something you wouldn't be doing in day to day life)
    Just have fun! 😘😊

  • @johnwhale3774
    @johnwhale3774 Рік тому

    This is just what we need, easy relaxed movements, to have confidence.

  • @anubhakapania8398
    @anubhakapania8398 Рік тому +1

    wow beautiful way of teaching

  • @vadit5418
    @vadit5418 Рік тому +1

    Hi
    Thanks for the motivation and reassurance

  • @kinnaripatel8515
    @kinnaripatel8515 Рік тому +1

    too awesome!! you are a great teacher !!

  • @chathuryadissanayake2087
    @chathuryadissanayake2087 2 роки тому +10

    Just came across your videos .. love them ❤ thank you 🙏🏼 I’m very self conscious in social settings but I’m going to practice this way from now on

  • @alif8884
    @alif8884 Рік тому

    As a 34 year old chorophobe who is completely and utterly running in the other direction from this and always has done and always will do, all I can say is I'm glad that it can work for others.

  • @purvadoshii
    @purvadoshii Рік тому +1

    Thankyu . The exact solution i needed!❤😘

  • @alexkooiman9854
    @alexkooiman9854 Рік тому +1

    Great video, thanks!

  • @marinadi532
    @marinadi532 Рік тому

    I love these 3 steps. You show it real well 👍
    Please show some more simple moves, thank you.

  • @lindalesins538
    @lindalesins538 Рік тому +1

    Love, love, love it! So helpful!!

  • @RenaeBertschi
    @RenaeBertschi 10 місяців тому

    Yes I noticed you look way better than me doing it! But I'm going to keep practicing

  • @disabfd
    @disabfd Рік тому +4

    The best way I get more comfortable dancing is just to look at my shadow, it doesn't feels as much as me that way -try and see if you get more comfortable as well 😊

  • @elmasalagic5077
    @elmasalagic5077 Рік тому

    This video is very good answer to those what do you even do "training to dance 5 days of the week" questions.
    As fellow instructor I find this a very usefull "google translate to the fake it until you make it" because we all know not everyone speaks the same language.

  • @debbiehampton-bm1pg
    @debbiehampton-bm1pg 3 місяці тому

    Just what I've been looking for

  • @qbalfrog
    @qbalfrog Рік тому +1

    This is great. Such simple and safe way makes a big difference already. ❤

  • @voteutah
    @voteutah 2 роки тому +2

    You made me smile and taught much. Thank you!

  • @stacyj4858
    @stacyj4858 8 місяців тому

    Really enjoyed this video. I will put this into practice, thank you!!

  • @fionaly7703
    @fionaly7703 2 роки тому +5

    Love your strategy. It would work for me.
    Thank you 💗

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  2 роки тому +1

      You’re welcome 😊

  • @shiningstar5408
    @shiningstar5408 5 місяців тому +1

    Great video❤❤❤
    Thank you 💓💓💓

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  5 місяців тому +1

      You are so welcome!

    • @shiningstar5408
      @shiningstar5408 5 місяців тому +1

      @@GetDance you're a great influencer and dancer. You have the charisma to inspire others even though we are in doubt of ourselves. That's my experience everytime i'm watching your videos it felt like magic there's a positive connection. Congratulations! More power💖💖💖

  • @davidmilton5943
    @davidmilton5943 10 місяців тому +1

    You make me feel like dancing ❤

  • @mohamedaljack4622
    @mohamedaljack4622 5 місяців тому

    Thank you we neede more abattoir dancing

  • @ourjourneyhome3690
    @ourjourneyhome3690 Рік тому +1

    Very good video, will definitely help my daughter feel confident at her prom.

  • @1koolblue
    @1koolblue Рік тому

    This is exactly what I was looking for, thank you so much.

  • @precious_videos5563
    @precious_videos5563 Рік тому +2

    Very nice I am from India

  • @brandontravels5825
    @brandontravels5825 11 місяців тому +1

    GREAT VIDEO!!!!!!

  • @beckyatkinson7283
    @beckyatkinson7283 2 роки тому +7

    I have ZERO rhythm! This was awesome and actually super helpful and fun!!

  • @hannahgadd
    @hannahgadd Рік тому

    You Will Instantly LOOK CONFIDENT Dancing If You Do This 1 Thing
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    0 seconds ago
    Hi Monika, I learnt to dance by doing tbe bounce movement but X4 I would then bring my shoulders forward without changing anything, but always kept by legs bent, then I'd bring my shoulders in and learnt the shoulder roll all while watching you.
    I learnt how to transition from one move to another without it looking obvious or awkward, now I feel so.much more confident on the dance floor and instead of doing the same boring moves I can now transition from reggae to hip hop and it looks natural.
    So thank you so much.
    Alot of people ask me where I learnt to dance, when I tell them by watching you online they don't believe me until I show then you're UA-cam videos now they are all watching and some of my American friends wanting to sign up.
    So thanj you so much, I'll always continue to watch you as I always learn something new then I incorporate it in to my dance routine.
    You're Amazing

  • @mushabkhan6667
    @mushabkhan6667 Рік тому +4

    wow just someone like this comment so that I come here again n again

  • @mariasalvacionolicia2157
    @mariasalvacionolicia2157 Рік тому

    Wow!!! It’s really help me… I love your move. Thank you for sharing your talent. GOD BLESS YOU.

  • @juliefizpatrick513
    @juliefizpatrick513 8 місяців тому +1

    Love how to dance!

  • @ColonyCafe919
    @ColonyCafe919 Рік тому

    Really enjoyed this! You’re beautiful 😊

  • @annievalentina4592
    @annievalentina4592 11 місяців тому +1

    Super cute moves ❤

  • @VictoriaAdemakinwa
    @VictoriaAdemakinwa 11 місяців тому +1

    Duh we love it 🎉❤❤❤

  • @anniebananie7887
    @anniebananie7887 Рік тому +1

    I wish I looked like her dancing!

  • @THE_BIG-BAD-WOLF_93
    @THE_BIG-BAD-WOLF_93 Рік тому +1

    Very helpful, makes a lot of sense 👍👍

  • @susanmosher4483
    @susanmosher4483 2 роки тому +1

    You do a great job! Thank-you!

  • @darlenemaple6462
    @darlenemaple6462 Рік тому

    So fun!! Please keep it up!!

  • @KLambino
    @KLambino Рік тому +4

    This was a great video! Thank you so much for this advice. I started dance this year and the confidence piece is a part I’m struggling with.

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  Рік тому +2

      You're so welcome 😊

  • @mohamedaljack4622
    @mohamedaljack4622 5 місяців тому

    Very nice, that yours. Styling on dancing

  • @alexanderfarthing6126
    @alexanderfarthing6126 Рік тому

    Great advice! 🤩

  • @Mark-r2z9u
    @Mark-r2z9u Рік тому +2

    Another method that works well is to not gaf.😊

  • @tracy6756
    @tracy6756 Рік тому +2

    Sure did feel different!! Put my hip out and slipped a disk but I bust those moves 🤘

  • @gladysbalaoing9638
    @gladysbalaoing9638 Рік тому

    I learned a lot from you.Thanks for sharing your talent

  • @kayegoyen5988
    @kayegoyen5988 2 місяці тому

    I love your vids. Please send me your NEW FREE GUIDE.

  • @crismariezaldivar7933
    @crismariezaldivar7933 Рік тому

    love it!! i used to dance but ... now i will love to move this body , thanks for the inspiration😘

  • @GetDance
    @GetDance  2 роки тому +3

    *WATCH PART 2:* ua-cam.com/video/k2QqRjqCacg/v-deo.html

  • @tsunamikush5502
    @tsunamikush5502 2 роки тому +1

    I felt different thank you! ❤️❤️

  • @ReneeCheong
    @ReneeCheong Рік тому +1

    Hi Monica, I would like to learn the beautiful Dance moves ..would like to have a 1 to 1 consultation. Thanks

  • @ngonnguyen8015
    @ngonnguyen8015 Місяць тому

    Thanks ❤

  • @mariviento
    @mariviento 9 місяців тому

    Love it!

  • @juliettebee
    @juliettebee 2 роки тому

    Awesome!!! Thank you for this. 💗💫

  • @nikoletahinova8417
    @nikoletahinova8417 Рік тому

    I love your videos! Subscribing. ❤

  • @Soshi701
    @Soshi701 Рік тому

    You are a GREAT teacher. .In so many ways! I almost wished I danced badly so I can take the course. Do you have a bit more advanced courses too?

  • @Azlindgordon9003
    @Azlindgordon9003 Рік тому

    I like this very much 👍👍👍

  • @vladaakavk370
    @vladaakavk370 Рік тому +4

    The beginning is at 3:00

    • @rosmarbal
      @rosmarbal 2 місяці тому

      God thanks. Intro far too long

  • @sadjize
    @sadjize Рік тому +1

    I loved it

  • @sherrywilson4094
    @sherrywilson4094 2 роки тому

    Love your teaching!!

  • @hdudivdvdvousdudvs8402
    @hdudivdvdvousdudvs8402 2 роки тому +1

    Soooooo gratefullllll, since i discovered this channel i became a new personnn😍😍😍thank you so much❤ ( i wanna know the title of the song you were dancing on wearing a hat please ) thank you❤

  • @anthonyancona2643
    @anthonyancona2643 5 місяців тому

    I am interested in dancing to house music. Mainly for exercise. I was inspired by a music video for Duran Duran's song Wild Boys (Refresh Mix) by Duply. There are 2 women dancing in front of the DJ booth. They seemed to be leading the dancers on the dance floor. If you could watch that video and make a video on their style of dance moves or how to replicate them. If you have a video on how to do house music, could you please send me the link. Thank you very much.

  • @shanedemink2966
    @shanedemink2966 2 роки тому +1

    Great and simple advice!

    • @GetDance
      @GetDance  2 роки тому +1

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @aves_valentina
    @aves_valentina Рік тому

    dancers who dance choreo 100 times and get bored about it... I can understand, but at the same time, I can't lol. Moreover, if it's your own choreo.
    Just thoughts) Thank you for the video!
    For anyone who is a non-dancer - try to learn a few easy movements with your hands or body waves, it will boost your self-esteem drastically!