One of the things that stops me is not always knowing what makes an outfit cohesive. I have favorite pieces but putting them together feels hard. I lean towards one favorite statement item and all the rest of my outfit being neutral, because I don't know how to make multiple statement pieces be more interchangeable and cohesive in outfits. I often find myself judging too-wide collars as too embarrassing, even if I like them. I've internalized other's comments on them. Lastly, I really love bright colors but have gotten people calling bright outfits 'clownish' or that it's 'like a pimp' multiple times in the past. It makes me so frustrated because I know that's often just a misalignment of style and/or society driven prejudice, but it still makes me self-conscious. I want to undo that type of internalization of other people's opinions that don't match my own, but sometimes it's hard to even catch yourself believing something because of others voices in the back of your head, instead of what you actually believe. I never thought I looked clownish and what does looking like-a-pimp even mean? It's just rude to say that to anyone. And I like some larger collars. I want to judge an outfit on cohesion (and tying unique things together) but not on whether someone else will like it.
One thing that stops me is that I am still young, so I live with my parents, and they would most lik disapprove of me wearing historical clothes at all.
@@OscarFeathers I’m so sorry to hear that ☹️ I’m sure that’s extremely frustrating. Do you think there are subtle ways you can implement historical elements that are maybe more “mainstream”?
In my teens I wore a lot of ripped jeans, black, and long skirts. My parents hated what I wore. In my twenties I wore a lot of formal ladylike blouses and skirts. My punk friends thought I was square. In my thirties I went through a rough patch of depression and I wore a lot of pyjamas and whatever was comfy. Everyone was concerned. I'm in my forties now and I know that no matter what I wear, someone is going to have an opinion. But I'm still the same person I ever was and long skirts, waistcoats, and frilly blouses make ME happy.
When I was 5 years old my mother gave me the Mother Goose book to help me figure out what I wanted to dress up as for Halloween. I chose Old Mother Hubbard and loved what my mother made me to wear than I ever did in modern clothing. When I was 7 years old I wandered into the adult section of the library and found Women's Costume in Detail 1730 - 1930. I couldn't get enough of it and desperately wanted to stay home from school so I could read it all day. I would sit and watch my mother sew for hours until I learned how to do it myself. She taught me how to knit and I taught myself how to crochet. I majored in historical costuming when I got my bachelor's degree. It has been a deep-seated longing, an unwavering dream all my life to wear historical clothing everyday and to make each item myself. I'm 61 now and think this video of yours has finally convinced me to just do it. Thank you!
Recently I learned about the "Ten Second Rule," and I wish we were all taught this while growing up. If someone can't change something in less than ten seconds, don't bring it up! Salad in your teeth? Ten second fix. You don't like someone's outfit? Definitely not a ten second fix, what good are you doing telling them so?
I want to add an advice: never let your sense of self or confidence be affected by people staring at you! I stare at people all the time (i try not to bc it’s not polite but sometimes i can’t help myself) and it’s always either because i admire a person’s ambiance or look - am even captivated by it - or because i am genuinely interested and hope to get a better insight by simply looking because i’m too awkward to go up to strangers and ask questions. I think lots of stares are motivated by such reasons rather than by ill motivations
*REMEMBER* that feeling you get when you see another person in a historical outfit - THAT is how 99% of people feel when they see you... The 1%, well that's either jealousy that they don't have the confidence or genuine ignorance. They dint understand WHY you would wear that, it's so outside the boundaries of their world.
not a historical dresser but i definitely have my own style and used to get bullied at school for wearing skirts and dresses every day , became a tomboy between 13 and 14, i’m now 16 (still pretty young) and now i just wear whatever i want because i’ve learned that i don’t value their opinions.
I’m proud of you though for getting to that place and also realising it by 16 too. It’s wonderful that you’re pursuing the path of authenticity and doing what actually brings you joy 😊
Not sure if you read comments on videos that are 2 years old, but thank you so much for this. I always struggled with how others might see me and what they think, even though I only wore unusual clothes as a teenager. I lately get into historical clothing, and exactly those fears is what made me wonder if I am "ready" for it. Your words however are very calming and motivating, thank you and please keep up with what you are doing, love your videos.
Thank you so much! Keep on wearing the clothes that feel authentically you. The world needs more people bravely being themselves (obviously without harming others of course).
Very well said. I have often discovered that those who criticize the loudest are often the ones who are the most insecure about their own looks. Another thing to think on is just look at all those people of Walmart pictures. These people wear some of the wildest and silliest articles of clothing (or lack there of) to go shopping in. If this people have no shame about the way they dress, why should you? Its not like you are wearing Sponge Bob pajamas with matching bathrobe and slippers. You are dressed nicely. I typically find that when I go history bounding, that I get lots of complements on how nice I look. Often I find myself in discussions about sewing with people. Most of the time I get complement like "where did you get your skirt? Its so pretty." To which I proudly say "I made it." Which usually leads to conversation about sewing. I too one had a little girl tell me I looked like a princess. Totally made my day. 😁
Thanks for your comment 😊 I think a lot of it is cultural as well. In Russia, for instance, it is often looked down upon to wear sweats or anything overly casual (especially things like spongebob PJs lol) to go out in public. While in America, this is more societally accepted. That's the other thing about judgment. It differs so much from place to place what you will get judged upon, depending on that society's own preconceived notions and perspectives. Just like, if I were wearing historical fashion 150 years ago, that would have been totally OK. I would have been mainstream. So it just goes to show that in many ways, judgement is inevitable, and in many ways, it is also an illusion. It is constantly shifting and changing, with cultures and periods of time. Even more reason to take it with a grain of salt 😊 It's great you've had conversations about sewing with people because of what you're wearing. It's always incredible when that's the outcome of wearing what you want to wear out and about. And it's wonderful to proudly wear the things you've sewn.
@@VBirchwood at some point I stopped caring about what society told me what I should and shouldn't do. All my life it was expected that I would go to college and have a career. But the more I pursued that the more unhappy I became. When I started having kids I got a lot if negative feedback about being a stay at home mom. I stopped wearing pants years ago because I just never likes to wear them. I wore them because it was socially excepted. One day I just stopped caring about what everyone else thought. It was like the ability to care was just turned off and I just did the things that made me happy. My life just seems so much more enriching as a result. When Morgan Donner brought the idea of dressing historically for everyday, coining the phrase history bounding, I knew that would be something I would want to do. Especially now that my kids are older and my daughter no longer wants me to sew for her, I feel like I have a new outlet for my creativity. Especially since I have always loved the way people used to dress prior to the 20's and all the long flowing skirts and beautiful dresses.
I started wearing Victorian era/Steampunk clothes a few years ago. I just got a cloak this year, I don't ever want to wear a traditional coat again! I find it funny the range of responses I get. Some are what I like to call the, "Ahh another rouge scholar belting out the latest soliloquy" lol and then there are the ones that really make your day and hopefully theirs as well. Cool to find more people that dress similar to the way I do!
Ahhh that’s awesome to hear that you wear historical/historically-inspired clothing as well! It really is quite fascinating how much responses can vary lol. Thanks for watching 😊
Things I try to instill in my kids: 1. Don't yuck on someone else's yum. If someone's interests aren't your style but don't directly harm others, let them enjoy their thing. 2. Get express consent before offering advice or feedback. 3. Be your authentic self and know that when someone ridicules or criticizes your appearance, choice of fashion, style, it says far more about them than it does about you. Appreciated your thoughts on this, and love that you have such a healthy perspective on other folks' comments and also feel confident wearing clothing you love and enjoy.
I also wanted to say thanks for speaking about your OCD and getting treatment. As the parent of a teen with OCD who is currently undergoing treatment, I deeply appreciate folks speaking about their experiences or even referencing them in passing. It helps destigmatize OCD. Thank you.
Thanks so much! Those are all wonderful things to teach your children. I appreciate you acknowledging my mention of OCD as well, as it is extremely misrepresented and normalisation of it is so crucial (as you say.) I’m actually about to film a video regarding my OCD journey which should hopefully be out in January, so more content to come on that topic 😊 The best of luck to your teen on their treatment! One of the best things a therapist ever told me was, “never stop seeking support.”
This was do beautiful. The calming images paired with your strong message - a true piece of art. It is just what I needed to continue my path in wearing historybounding clothes, as I am also struggling most with the perception of other people. Thank you
Awww thanks so much for your lovely comment! I'm so happy to hear this is exactly what you needed at this moment 💕Keep going with the historybounding 😊
Please don't hurry to misinterpret why people stare at you or what they actually think. Please rest assured that vast majority of them secretly adore what you wear and want to have a closer look at what they've seen so many times on TV. Many wish they had your courage, so it's all good.
I watched the construction of your waist coat. And I have to say, you look absolutely fantastic. Never let anyone criticize the skill and craftsmanship that you possess.
Every once in a while, if I see a woman wearing something I think is pretty, or looks good on them (I’m talking about strangers here, not people I know, simply because it’s so random for them), I will stop them and tell them. Why? Because I believe that random compliments from anyone, but strangers in particular, can go a long way to brightening that person’s day. I also do it because I never heard these kind words directed at myself, so I direct them to strangers and I feel better knowing that I brightened their day, if only for a minute or two.
I want to wear clothes I've made because I have woven the fabric and that's a whole new layer of achievement and a reason to walk tall! It's especially nice when someone complements the garment and I can say "I wove this, as well as sewed it," with a big fat grin on my face, and they almost fall over because they've never come across handwoven fabric before, and it's just as good as -- no, *better than* -- shop bought fabric, and wow, I'm really clever to have done that!! (I'm not sure clever is the right word but that's often what I hear.) I want to wear historical clothing because it will keep me warm! Modern skirts are utterly pathetic when it comes to warmth, as they are neither long enough (I mean, nylon tights, what use are *they* ?!?!) nor thick enough. I have a project in mind using some lovely tweedy-mix 100% fine wool, which I thought I could weave and felt; but instead of making a coat, as was my original idea, I reckon I'll make a petticoat and a top skirt, as well as cotton or linen (purchased fabric, or else I'll be 105 before I finish this project) petticoats for other seasons. Then I can have warm legs and feet indoors and out. And invest in a corset, which I've secretly been longing for for 30 years, ever since I wore a basque to be married in -- it just felt so good to be held or wrapped (swaddled?) like that. I've no strong desire to train my waist to be tiny, but a little less 'relaxed' a silhouette would be welcome, as will the support to improve my posture, which is giving me aches in my back and shoulders these days. Yes, I've watched your corset- wearing video, or rather, your video *about* wearing a corset for over 2 years, and it has confirmed me in my decision to go ahead and buy and wear one, just because I want to (yay!). So thank you, V, you are a part of my journey now, and I think you're wonderful and will keep watching! Warmest greetings from Katherine in Kent, UK 🤗🤗🤗👌😁
À few years ago, we used to go to restaurants with a few friends and we would dress for the occasion. Victorian 19th century for Asian, viking for Greek, Japanese for celtica bar... Always a style different from the theme of the place. And people smiled and were appreciative. We often got a free tea or beverage for the effort, offered by the owner of the place. It was fun, and logical to be looked at, since we were out of place but it was OK.
So wonderfully said. I wear vintage style clothing every day. It is an expression of my vintage soul. I am so happy being my authentic self. Recently people have told me I am an inspiration to them and they are ready to step up and live their authentic lives. It warms my heart to know I am able to reach others in such a positive way. Keep up the great work.
Your photograph and channel are both so beautiful! 😊It's always deeply encouraging when choosing to live authentically inspires others to do the same, or inspires them in whatever other way it might. Thanks for the compliments!
Such a lovely video. I hope it inspires many people to dare to wear What they want, historical, or just strange or unusual clothing! Your words were really intelligent and you explained so wonderfully. You’re right! Thoughts are just thoughts, and it’s good to remind oneself ☺️
Didn't know you had OCD. I recently became aware of pure OCD like intrusive thoughts and urges. I think you describing that one. Agreed 100% Vasi, not everyone has the privilege to look There best. Some may be facing there inner demons. The nature walk looks so peaceful reminds me of my own walking path. The only problem was tarantulas come out in sunset.
I do indeed! This is my first time talking about it on here though. I plan to go more into depth about it in the future. I would say most OCD starts with thoughts, and then certain physical or mental compulsions have to be created because of the thoughts. In my case, it is more pure O, more so that the compulsions are mental and I mainly experience intense intrusive images that create deep dissociation/derealisation, and a slew of other things that comes along with that (like fatigue, brain fog, panic, anxiety, etc.) These days I'm doing much much better, even if still in recovery, but a couple of years ago it was debilitating and I could barely leave my home for 2-3 months due to the paralysing and crippling fear. It's important that accurate awareness is brought to the topic of OCD though, as it is so often a misconceived mental health condition. Everyone is definitely facing their own things, and that's totally okay. I think it's important for us to approach others with compassion for that exact fact, because what's going on in a person's life is often so much more complex than how it seems on the surface. I'm glad to hear you found the walking path peaceful! Your tarantula situation still sounds terrifying though lol.
Started making my own late-18th century coats and waistcoats for casual wear earlier this year. This video is always a wonderful treasure to got back to. Currently making a splendid wool coat for the later seasons.
Vasi, I really needed to hear this and it made me cry. I have been trying to put my art out lately and I feel great shame every time I want people to look at what I've done. I immediately want to burn it with fire. My partner will only say "uh, huh" and glance at it. Because of your video I realize I don't have to internalize their disregard. It's going to be hard but your words have helped me immensely.
I love seeing people dress different, historical, vintage or plain dress is so exciting to see, cultural as well. I prefer simplicity and comfort personally, so organic materials in earthy tones or minimalist secondhand is my favorite. Yes, understanding where criticism comes from is very important; people have been so ingrained with “societal norms” they do not know how to process those who step outside them. Beautiful footage and advice.
Great advice there! .. I have a very eclectic family. My wife wear a mix of of the fifties and twenties, and I wear late 17th century.... And my daughter? well she is the personification of the words pink and purple and she's deeply in love with Kyary pamyu pamyu style... so yeah over the top. You should see the reactions we get when we go outside for shopping .
I’ve never worried too much what other people think of me or what I wear. I’m just learning to sew and went to a local community sewing room to get some help with my first project - a pair of split crotch bloomers to I can more easily use the bathroom when wearing a corset. I was just slightly embarrassed to tell them what I wanted to work on though I knew, of course, that obviously they would need to know. As a way of explanation I said, “I do steam punk.” They got very excited. “Oh, well you will have to meet A., she comes here and she does steam punk!” Of course, I already knew A. I loved it that they were so encouraging. The only criticism, if I would call it that, I’ve gotten was when I went to buy some fabric for my next project, an Edwardian walking skirt. The woman at the fabric store acted like I was strange. What a contrast! Meanwhile, back at the sewing room they loved it that not only was I making that but also taking the time to flatline it and do a good job. Recently the woman who runs the place gave me two antique chemises that someone gave to the center. The donor asked if the center would have any use for them and right away the director thought of me. I am happy to be their caretaker. They are stained from having spent years in a trunk but the detail on them is inspiring. Mostly what I find when I go out dressed up is that total strangers will start conversations with me and they enjoy my creative expression. I’m almost 70 years old. Who cares what other people think? When we express our true selves we attract others who appreciate those things about us and it gives us room to be ourselves even more.
I love to wear Victorian styled clothing as well as formal clothing. I recently started getting into ouji fashion. I have recently been adding more pieces in more wardrobe. I combined new black formal pants, with my formal shoes, my white Victorian styled blouse with its own ribbon bow and a new black vest that compliments the high collar. As soon as I went to work, one of my coworkers asked me if it was dress like a pirate day. -_- I didn’t even bother to discuss the Victorian aspects of my look. My sleeves weren’t trumpet sleeves or even puff sleeves. They perhaps thought that because of the large bow. People also get confused why I dress this way. They think it’s for a special occasion, but I just like the style is all. I’ve been working on being more courageous and embracing what I love. I shouldn’t let remarks get in the way of what I want to wear, especially when I add some fun accessories later on like more string bow ties, perhaps hats, jabbots, and such. ^_^
"Those are their thoughts, and thoughts are just thoughts." Beautifully put. Thanks for sharing this video. I think this advice goes for anyone who is ambitious, counter culture, who swims up stream. Thanks for bringing inspiration and calm.
This was so lovely to listen to and to look at. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences (and adressing the amazing phenomenon of neuroplasticity)! I always fear judgement from others, even my own family, even though I actaully don't have any reason to. This makes me feel uncomfortable when I'm putting on some lipstick, curling my hair or wearing some extra fancy shoes. When I get no feedback, I'll imagine what people could be thinking about me but do not dare to say out loud. And if there is a reaction to my appearence, it better be exclusively positive or otherwise my self-esteem is going to crumble immediately. When I curled my hair last time, my mother was so surprised that I gathered from her facial expression that she dislikes my look, when actually, I think, she liked it once she got used to it. (Because I really look like an entirely different person with curled hair. :D) Also she isn't really into fashion and I'm always thinking that she might think that I'm too vain. - There you go: just thoughts. But I think a lot and even create my own worlds in my thoughts. Maybe that's the reason why thoughts in general have such a strong impact on me. However I'm planning to incorporate more historical elements into my wardrobe. Because I love all the different styles and the experience to wear a piece of history and the confidence that actually comes from wearing something that you have made with your own hands. So, thanks again for sharing. There will never be too many videos on this matter out there.
I think everything you are feeling is completely natural, and many others experience these feelings too! So just know you are not alone. I certainly did for a long time as well, and still do feel these experience you describe sometimes and it was really therapy and reprogramming my thought habits that helped. I am obviously not a therapist and cannot give you mental health advice, but I must say, it's wonderful firstly that you have the awareness to recognise your responses, etc. That's really the first step. Is there something you can tell yourself internally/mentally when the thought arises that creates the discomfort that can help remind you that the thought is just a thought and we are the ones that place meaning upon each thought? (Thoughts are trying to get our attention often times to protect us or keep us safe from a "perceived threat", which in this instance might be the very natural and primitive fear of rejection, and so in turn, the thought will get as loud and as noticeable as it possibly can (which includes being as absurd as possible sometimes), because it thinks then you will take notice and in turn keep yourself safe. In reality, it is more of an overreaction of the brain, as there isn't an actual physical life-threatening threat). The thing I always tell myself internally, in particular when dealing with OCD, is "Hi Thought! Thank you for sharing that. Maybe it will happen, or maybe not. I don't know. And that's okay. You're just a thought. And I'll cross that bridge if/when it comes to it." Hopefully, this helps. Thank you, as always, for your comment and for watching 😊
@@VBirchwood I never really developed a strategy to deal with my reactions. My instinct is rather to push everything away from me that could hurt me potentially or already has hurt me. Which isn't exactly a very healthy coping mechanism but also kind of natural response, I guess. Maybe I can find a way to face these things and not be as afraid of them. Your are actually the first person I met that really talked about how thoughts are just thoughts. They don't have to be hurtful and they can be changed. Thank you, too, for your response! I really enjoy these little conversations :-)
@@girlwithoutpearlearring If we consider that our primitive response is fight, flight, freeze, (and some psychologists also say fawn, which is like when a baby deer starts fawning in nature for its attacker to almost take pity on it - which can be equivalent in humans to people pleasing), it makes perfect sense that your natural response is to want to push it away or run away. That's what the brain is often biologically programmed to do. But we can change all of that. It is completely possible to develop new habits in the brain to alter the way we respond to things. It will take time and practice though (and most of all mindfulness and awareness). It's actually quite empowering, I think! And I believe you absolutely can find methods that work for you. There are tons of resources to help online as well (if you dig into mindfulness and neuroplasticity, that may be a good place to start). I really enjoy them too, so thank you for continuing to respond haha 😊
Wonderful advice! I'm wanting to start my journey into historical dress. I'm in my 50s and have often watched historical dramas internally lamenting that I can't dress like that. After having discovered the historical/vintage dress community, I am so inspired by all of y'all! Thank you for sharing your journey and advice!
That scenery is amazing and goes perfectly with the amazing message. I started wearing historically inspired clothing that could pass as modern enough, but I stopped caring about what others think. I like the way you dress, and your decision to dress historically inspires me to be more daring and wear what I really want to. Thank you sooo much!
I love that you’re openly left-handed! Seriously, it was one of the things that divided me from my peers in school, but it’s a core part of who I am. As someone who is socially transitioning, I love your attire. I might find the energy to make myself a new outfit this year, and you are such an inspiration.
Such a beautiful video and such inspiring content! Beautiful visuals, wonderfully well thought out words, and your voice and the music is so soothing. Thanks for putting all your creativity out into the world. Hugs 💛
Awwww thank you, Heather! I was craving releasing some cinematic content, so this video just needed to happen (for my own creative sanity 😉). Hugs!! ❤️
Thanks for highlighting the positive reactions from others - need to remember that side more as I get up the courage :) Also, the video felt very like meditation - your voice is confident, soothing and relaxing.
My pleasure, Cora! It’s important to remember that typically the good will outweigh the bad with wearing what you want to, though the brain likes to latch on and remember the bad a lot more for some reason 😂 thank you for your kind comment! And I wish you all the best of luck with continuing to build up the courage, you can do it 😊
Really spot on with the psychology and absolutely wonderful advice and perspective! I don't wear strictly historical clothing, but I've always dressed... weird... especially as a non-feminine-presenting guy who's just very comfortable wearing skirts and long, flowy things... that really throws people off. I get a lot of negative comments, unfortunately, but I learned to really not give a single f about what criticism people have regarding what I'm wearing. I figure, they might just be jealous because I look so comfortable and they don't have the courage to try something unconventional. I still am queer though and I get scared sometimes (ok, often, I live in a conservative town) of being the victim of a hate crime; I really want to live in a world where that's not a thing anymore, it's so stupid and pointless.
Thanks so much for your comment! I'm so sorry to hear that the world we live in leaves you feeling scared as a queer person. I, too, wish our world was more compassionate and understanding as everyone is entitled to live their most authentic life as long as they aren't hurting another. It's tragic that some feel they can control the way others choose to identify or express themselves.
What a lovely and beautiful video. The editing was superb and on point all the way through. I especially loved the closing of the book at the end. Predictable, maybe not the most original, but it felt exactly like the perfect ending to those shots of you reading. Sublime. What's interesting to me is that everything you said can be applied for almost any other situation where judgement from onlookers is unavoidable. Getting a tattoo, doing a sport others may think is silly, creating a UA-cam channel or streaming on Twitch, delving into theatre or dancing performance, doing environmental work or protesting for a cause you believe in. Cosplay, steampunk, high fashion, cross-dressing, makeup or anything you wear, not just historical fashion. There are so many things we want to do, but never dare trying because of that fear of judgement. Because I think it's really just that, fear, holding us back for almost any new thing we know would go against the mainstream perception. Breaking through that fear is not easy, and it will take some time, but ultimately you will find that it was not that big of a deal after all. Why else do you think dressing up on Halloween does not feel all that weird at all? Perhaps the judgement we carry inside ourselves is the true obstacle. We are so caught up in the idea of what others *might* think that we never even get to the point where people can think anything at all. People will judge you no matter how you look, what you do or how you do it. Most never voice it. Perhaps they will if you try that thing you want to try, or perhaps they won't. Either way it's still only just thoughts and you are the only one who can put weight into those thoughts. Speaking from personal experience (mainly in the LGBTQ+ community and in moving to the other side of the world), you will usually find more love and support than anything else when expressing yourself in a new way. If you never try, think about all that love you will miss out on. That is real, in contrast to judgement and imagined thoughts that hold no power at all. I shall end my essay by answering the question in the video description; depression. I barely have the energy to dress myself at all, so I know I could not deal with a completely new style and type of wardrobe. One day, perhaps, I shall be able to sew my own historical garments and wear them proudly in public.
Thank you, Maia, for sharing all this! You're definitely right, there is so much possibility and opportunity to find love and acceptance, and sometimes in the most unexpected of places. It's a beautiful thing, and it makes all the risk in life worth it. I'm sorry to hear you experience depression (and all the challenges that come with it). I have a ton of empathy for what I imagine you're going through (without knowing first hand because, of course, I'm not in your shoes) due to my own mental health struggles, and they can just be so debilitating. So I wish you peace, recovery, strength, patience with yourself, and many other things. It's wonderful that you have that goal to hopefully work towards one day and always to stay focused on, in particular during your most difficult days. Sometimes just having a plan to do something in the future can make all the difference (along with having a support system that really cares and gets it). If you ever want to email and talk about it, just know that I am here and ready to listen (you can find my email on the About section of my channel 😊).
What a wonderful video. Thank you for sharing such uplifting words of encouragement. Your philosophy pertains to almost all aspects of expressing individuality, and I bless you for sharing it.
Huge thank you for this video! It gave me sense of confidence in myself, and principles and approaches that you shared can be applied to any situation in our lives!
I'm glad I stumbled upon this as I'm in the middle of learning how to sew my own clothes. I've been interested in aesthetic styles like cottagecore and light academia so integrating historical clothing feels an exciting next step.Also the quarantines & the globel pandemic had forced a lot of time for me to research which eras I like on my body vs what I like to see other wear. I have a few patterns based on 1790s-1820s as they mostly higher than the natural waist to accommodate weight fluctuations in that area due to my PCOS.
I’m so glad you’re here too! Welcome to the channel 😊 it’s wonderful you’re discovering what you feel would work best for your own body. I’m so sorry you have to go through PCOS too! A few of my friends suffer from it and it can be so hard sometimes!
Ironically, these are garments patterned after menswear of the time! So this is a form of menswear designed for women to wear and was considered extremely masculine historically 😂
Great topic! I too was insecure initialy wearing victorian style clothing as a man, i developed my own style by mixing it with modern wear, like jeans & cowboy boots, i think i will also start a channel as it is my passion. I really love victorian/steampunk style.
I am also into history and i wear historical fashion, i get a lot of compliments outside. Many people love it! I feel like the beauty of historical or vintage fashion is that it has life and beauty in it, rather modern clothes has no life nor beauty in it. Thats why modern fashion is no special but when it comes to historical fashion its special in it own way! My family might not like it. But the importance is wear whatever you love to wear.
I love this advice! Thank you! I’d also like to add that a lot of the attention we get isn’t necessarily going to be bad. Seeing someone in historical dress is surprising and a little humorous. And that’s ok! Think of how surprising we would have found it just a few years ago to see someone dressing so differently. As kids we might have even giggled a little. As long as the attention is not malicious, we can smile right along with whomever is looking at us. Hopefully we are giving people a break from the mundane and planting a seed of courage for them to be brave and unique themselves!
As a person who was routinely made fun of in school for being different, I really appreciate this video and the strategies you suggest for feeling more comfortable "doing your own thing". After watching this, I feel so much more confident beginning a history bounding practice, and I have plans to make a petticoat I can use as a history bounding skirt AND as an 18th century petticoat when needed. Thank you so much for speaking about this. I really needed to hear everything you said.
That’s awesome Julie! I’m glad you enjoyed it that much 😊 I’m very passionate about psychology myself and my therapists over the past 5-6 years have helped so much.
A wonderful video! So true! Often people are just "hurting" for whatever reason. Some people wish they had the courage, but can't or won't admit it. Perhaps they dealt with similar rejections. From my experience, telling "white lies" does not feel so good, but there are situations when it is better to use them. It all depends on the situation. I don't wear historical fashion every day, but I wish I could. I really wish I could sew them myself, and videos like yours are an inspiration!
What a GREAT video. When I was a young boy I once wore Lederhosen to school because I thought they were so exciting. Of course everyone at school laughed at me but I don't remember their ridicule or laughter effecting me that much. I think I just wrote their laughter and comments off as them not being able to see the joy that I could see. We must do our best to forge our unique path and identity, lest we emerge from conformity decades later depressed and unfulfilled, mourning a life that might have been.
Though I don’t struggle with much worry about judgement, I really needed to hear that “ thoughts are just thoughts”. I have a lot of trouble understanding why people with say some things and it helps.
I’m glad it helps! It’s probably one of the biggest things I’ve learned with OCD therapy. Thoughts are just thoughts and feelings are just feelings, and just because someone has a certain thought or feeling doesn’t make it true. It’s liberating, especially with OCD, because you have zero control over intrusive thoughts or feelings and if you start believing them all, it leads to a dark place.
This is lovely! I think I might include this in a lesson I'm building for my archeology class. I talk about clothing in the archeological record, and I also talk about experimental archeology. I can sneak this in as part of the clothing lesson and teach them not just about clothing, but about confidence and caring about themselves. Thank you so much for making this loving and compassionate video!
I love this whole video, especially your openness about the OCD you experience. Anything that helps do away with the stigma around mental health conditions...
OH wow this is so beautiful!!! It does incorage me to order some traditional clothing I don't dare to wear because I am not in Europe and people will not understand. I want to wear traditional european, mainly north and western Europe. I have a romanian head band that is traditional in Romania, over there I felt comportable to have it on my head, as other also (mainly old women ) were also using this traditonal head band, but when I came back to my "over progressive" country I felt as if I cannot wear it anymore becouse people will laught at me being "ganndma like" and i am 27 . AndI didn't use it almost at all since (alomost a year) and it is such a same becouse I love this head bend so much, and it does remind me of my soul more than my "normal clothing" and of who I want to be. This really inspires me to try and wear this traditional clothing once more.
What a brilliant video presentation. Totally hit the nail on the head on the subject matter. I'm a vintage wearing Scotts-Canadian Englishman into his heritage and wear styles from Elizabethan all the way through too the 1950's and this video has helped me put others and their view points in to perspective. A Big thank you and you now have another subscriber..
I’m so happy to hear that Bourne! And that’s wonderful that you wear such a variety of historical/vintage clothing. Thank you for the sub and the comment!
This is one of the most beautiful videos I've ever watched! Gorgeous job on the filming & editing, it was so peaceful. ☺️ I am getting more confident in wearing what I want the older I get. However, I'm sometimes held back by the thought that since I am not conventionally beautiful or thin that I don't have the same allowance to be different. I'm trying to overcome that assumption, and embrace my size, looks & historybounding. I like the thought of wearing art. 💜💜💜
Thank you so much Rachael! It’s totally understandable that you feel like that sometimes, especially with the way contemporary society makes us feel, as if we all aren’t enough and we need to fix something. It’s so wonderful to hear that you are embracing who you are for you, because honestly, screw conventional size and beauty. I feel like it’s just an illusion anyways and is based so much on subjective experience and also what’s trending at the time. I think you’re absolutely beautiful! 😊
Hello! New viewer here. What wonderful advice for anyone and this is honestly one of my top favorite videos on UA-cam. Thank you so much for filming this and I LOVE your clothing!
I have always worn over the top things. In my opinion it is a good thing to be the best dressed person in the room. So it was very easy for me to move to the beautiful shape that is the Victorian era. I love to watch the smiles on Peoples faces even if it is in mockery, they smiled. The shining eyes of the young little girls in the store when they see you. Even when no one says anything you make an impact. It really boils down to being proud of who you are.
Definitely, feeling confidient in one’s own skin and with one’s authentic self expression is such a huge thing, and it often takes courage to be able to live a life that strays away from societal “norms”
I've gotten into Song-dynasty Hanfu over the past year, and what got me past that initial hurdle was... being a trans woman. Some proportion of the people I encounter were going to hate me anyways, so what does it matter if they also think I'm dressed weird?
I am about at the ripe old age of 53 about to start on my history bounding adventure. My 3 awesome adult children smile as they say mum is going to dress like a female hobbit. Your beautiful words have made me more determined than ever to do it. My husband is just seeing my history bounding adventure as me being the real me at long last
Vasi, I know you’ve mentioned doing meditation from a young age. Watching this video was incredibly relaxing and made me think, if you ever narrated some guided meditation I would absolutely watch it! ❤
Aww thank you so much! I'll definitely think about it. I have no idea what sort of meditation I would guide, but perhaps I'll think of something that also feels authentic.
@@VBirchwood I hope you do, because just your saying "thoughts are just thoughts" has been very beneficial in my day to day life. Thank you for this video, it's so valuable beyond just the context of dressing in historical fashion ❤
I think as Individuals we sort of like to think we’re the main character in our own movie, we’re the most important person in the world, so we’d prefer everybody else was boring snd the same so we feel more unique ourselves. It’s hard to fill this deep need when you’ve got somebody so different ant fancy walking around because for those moments your together you become the main character
Frankly, I'm surprised you get any criticism at all. You're a beautiful young woman and your costumes are amazing. Still, the best lesson you can teach yourself is that you simply don't have to care what other people think.
Thank you! Someone in the world will criticise anything, no matter what one does or doesn't do. I definitely have reached a point where generally most things don't bother me (with regards to criticism in public) but I felt it was important to make this video because everyone is at a different place in their journey.
Omg ….to be judged because you wear some clothes doesn’t matter what kind of clothes …..WTF IS GOING ON WITH THIS STUPID WORLD????? I love history of fashion from old ages….is very elegant and beautiful …..YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND VERY SMART!!!! Thank you for your videos!!!!
Thank you very much! People always have (and potentially always will) judge others for whatever reason, and the reasons always change depending on so many factours. Which is why it's important I think to learn to embrace oneself regardless of the judgement, because there's a good chance some form of it will always be there.
I for one find you very refreshing. You are very smart and articulate, and quite the craftsman and your videos are superb. I wish that we were friends. It would be such fun.
I live your life through my home decor while enjoying the Victorian era in every aspect of my home. The only areas of modern conveniences would be the kitchen and bath, otherwise I live the Victorian era to the extreme with Victorian clutter of opulence. This is my comfort zone and my refuge where I find peace and tranquility.
This is great to hear Gloria 😊 I would never want to live in Victorian times personally (as I think many wouldn't for a number of reasons), but I do also really love the clutter of opulence and maximalism of the period (for the middle and upper classes of course, since it was different for the working and lower classes).
How beautiful! I have actually noticed that I get a lot of positive comments about my outfits. This far I have yet to get any negative ones. My modern clothes never get any comments so it os always a surprise when a stranger stops me in the street and tells me that he or she loves my outfit.
Sorry Katja! I responded to this comment, but it seems to not have posted. That's amazing that you only get positive comments so far! Do you think it has to do with the clothes being modern, as then they are more familiar to people? Vs. how it might be for someone wearing something more archaic and therefore unfamiliar. I'm sure your outfits are absolutely gorgeous!
@@VBirchwood No, I meant when I’m historybounding in Victorian or Edwardian style. I have a channel too in case you are interested (just commented with my private account): with my hands dream is my channel name. I have also had several people commenting my outfits behind my back so that I have heard and even those comments have bwwn positive. A Finnish magazine did a story about my costumes and even then the comments were so friendly and admiring and several people requested tips to make long skirts in Victorian style!
Oh that’s your account as well, amazing thanks! I will give it a subscribe 😊 that’s so lovely to hear it’s been positive. Over all, I’ve had quite positive reactions, just occasionally ones of people laughing or making fun of it, which I actually find to be more humorous than anything.
@@VBirchwood Yeah, it’s sort of funny to play dressup as an adult but why not? It helps if one can see one’s hobby in a humorous fashion. Luckily there’s no need for one’s clothing to always be serious! Life is too short to care aboit things like that!
Yes I very much agree. I think at this point my clothes are just clothes personally, and I don’t think twice about what I’m wearing because this is just what I wear! I think we should all have fun with what we want to do in life (as long as it doesn’t hurt others).
i need more historical wardrobe (only have 2 short tunics and one pair of pants) as i found it to be more comfortable than modern clothing, only benefit i found to modern clothing was the easy of put on/take off
After finding you,Iam no longer going to worry about what anyone thinks or if they’re embarrassed by my beautiful clothes and iam trying to make a petty coat like in the video🤪😍🥰💪
Thank you for watching! If there is anything stopping you from wearing what you want in public, what exactly is it?
One of the things that stops me is not always knowing what makes an outfit cohesive. I have favorite pieces but putting them together feels hard. I lean towards one favorite statement item and all the rest of my outfit being neutral, because I don't know how to make multiple statement pieces be more interchangeable and cohesive in outfits.
I often find myself judging too-wide collars as too embarrassing, even if I like them. I've internalized other's comments on them.
Lastly, I really love bright colors but have gotten people calling bright outfits 'clownish' or that it's 'like a pimp' multiple times in the past. It makes me so frustrated because I know that's often just a misalignment of style and/or society driven prejudice, but it still makes me self-conscious.
I want to undo that type of internalization of other people's opinions that don't match my own, but sometimes it's hard to even catch yourself believing something because of others voices in the back of your head, instead of what you actually believe. I never thought I looked clownish and what does looking like-a-pimp even mean? It's just rude to say that to anyone. And I like some larger collars. I want to judge an outfit on cohesion (and tying unique things together) but not on whether someone else will like it.
One thing that stops me is that I am still young, so I live with my parents, and they would most lik disapprove of me wearing historical clothes at all.
@@OscarFeathers I’m so sorry to hear that ☹️ I’m sure that’s extremely frustrating. Do you think there are subtle ways you can implement historical elements that are maybe more “mainstream”?
Simply don’t have that many garments made, hard to make it look fresh, but I am working on it!
@@ThistleandInkwell You've got this! It takes quite some time to build up a historical wardrobe, so take your time too and be patient with yourself 😊
In my teens I wore a lot of ripped jeans, black, and long skirts. My parents hated what I wore. In my twenties I wore a lot of formal ladylike blouses and skirts. My punk friends thought I was square. In my thirties I went through a rough patch of depression and I wore a lot of pyjamas and whatever was comfy. Everyone was concerned. I'm in my forties now and I know that no matter what I wear, someone is going to have an opinion. But I'm still the same person I ever was and long skirts, waistcoats, and frilly blouses make ME happy.
You're awesome Natalie! Keep on pursuing what makes YOU happy (as I'm sure you will). ❤️
Damn straight!
When I was 5 years old my mother gave me the Mother Goose book to help me figure out what I wanted to dress up as for Halloween. I chose Old Mother Hubbard and loved what my mother made me to wear than I ever did in modern clothing. When I was 7 years old I wandered into the adult section of the library and found Women's Costume in Detail 1730 - 1930. I couldn't get enough of it and desperately wanted to stay home from school so I could read it all day. I would sit and watch my mother sew for hours until I learned how to do it myself. She taught me how to knit and I taught myself how to crochet. I majored in historical costuming when I got my bachelor's degree. It has been a deep-seated longing, an unwavering dream all my life to wear historical clothing everyday and to make each item myself. I'm 61 now and think this video of yours has finally convinced me to just do it. Thank you!
Recently I learned about the "Ten Second Rule," and I wish we were all taught this while growing up. If someone can't change something in less than ten seconds, don't bring it up! Salad in your teeth? Ten second fix. You don't like someone's outfit? Definitely not a ten second fix, what good are you doing telling them so?
This is a brilliant rule! Love this. Thanks for sharing 😊
I was taught this but as a 5 minute rule
@@eilatanggoh693 If there's something that needs a needle and thread, 5min is probably appropriate .
I want to add an advice: never let your sense of self or confidence be affected by people staring at you! I stare at people all the time (i try not to bc it’s not polite but sometimes i can’t help myself) and it’s always either because i admire a person’s ambiance or look - am even captivated by it - or because i am genuinely interested and hope to get a better insight by simply looking because i’m too awkward to go up to strangers and ask questions. I think lots of stares are motivated by such reasons rather than by ill motivations
Take a picture.
*REMEMBER* that feeling you get when you see another person in a historical outfit - THAT is how 99% of people feel when they see you...
The 1%, well that's either jealousy that they don't have the confidence or genuine ignorance. They dint understand WHY you would wear that, it's so outside the boundaries of their world.
Well said!
not a historical dresser but i definitely have my own style and used to get bullied at school for wearing skirts and dresses every day , became a tomboy between 13 and 14, i’m now 16 (still pretty young) and now i just wear whatever i want because i’ve learned that i don’t value their opinions.
I’m proud of you though for getting to that place and also realising it by 16 too. It’s wonderful that you’re pursuing the path of authenticity and doing what actually brings you joy 😊
@@VBirchwood thank you!
Not sure if you read comments on videos that are 2 years old, but thank you so much for this. I always struggled with how others might see me and what they think, even though I only wore unusual clothes as a teenager. I lately get into historical clothing, and exactly those fears is what made me wonder if I am "ready" for it. Your words however are very calming and motivating, thank you and please keep up with what you are doing, love your videos.
Thank you so much! Keep on wearing the clothes that feel authentically you. The world needs more people bravely being themselves (obviously without harming others of course).
Finally at age 72 I feel comfortable in me. I love the 1800-1910 ish styles and I want to learn to make these styles, because I really like them.
That’s wonderful! Congrats 😊
Very well said. I have often discovered that those who criticize the loudest are often the ones who are the most insecure about their own looks. Another thing to think on is just look at all those people of Walmart pictures. These people wear some of the wildest and silliest articles of clothing (or lack there of) to go shopping in. If this people have no shame about the way they dress, why should you? Its not like you are wearing Sponge Bob pajamas with matching bathrobe and slippers. You are dressed nicely. I typically find that when I go history bounding, that I get lots of complements on how nice I look. Often I find myself in discussions about sewing with people. Most of the time I get complement like "where did you get your skirt? Its so pretty." To which I proudly say "I made it." Which usually leads to conversation about sewing. I too one had a little girl tell me I looked like a princess. Totally made my day. 😁
Thanks for your comment 😊 I think a lot of it is cultural as well. In Russia, for instance, it is often looked down upon to wear sweats or anything overly casual (especially things like spongebob PJs lol) to go out in public. While in America, this is more societally accepted. That's the other thing about judgment. It differs so much from place to place what you will get judged upon, depending on that society's own preconceived notions and perspectives. Just like, if I were wearing historical fashion 150 years ago, that would have been totally OK. I would have been mainstream. So it just goes to show that in many ways, judgement is inevitable, and in many ways, it is also an illusion. It is constantly shifting and changing, with cultures and periods of time. Even more reason to take it with a grain of salt 😊 It's great you've had conversations about sewing with people because of what you're wearing. It's always incredible when that's the outcome of wearing what you want to wear out and about. And it's wonderful to proudly wear the things you've sewn.
@@VBirchwood at some point I stopped caring about what society told me what I should and shouldn't do. All my life it was expected that I would go to college and have a career. But the more I pursued that the more unhappy I became. When I started having kids I got a lot if negative feedback about being a stay at home mom. I stopped wearing pants years ago because I just never likes to wear them. I wore them because it was socially excepted. One day I just stopped caring about what everyone else thought. It was like the ability to care was just turned off and I just did the things that made me happy. My life just seems so much more enriching as a result. When Morgan Donner brought the idea of dressing historically for everyday, coining the phrase history bounding, I knew that would be something I would want to do. Especially now that my kids are older and my daughter no longer wants me to sew for her, I feel like I have a new outlet for my creativity. Especially since I have always loved the way people used to dress prior to the 20's and all the long flowing skirts and beautiful dresses.
"You offended someone? Good. That means you had an opinion."
-Winston Churchill
I started wearing Victorian era/Steampunk clothes a few years ago. I just got a cloak this year, I don't ever want to wear a traditional coat again! I find it funny the range of responses I get. Some are what I like to call the, "Ahh another rouge scholar belting out the latest soliloquy" lol and then there are the ones that really make your day and hopefully theirs as well. Cool to find more people that dress similar to the way I do!
Ahhh that’s awesome to hear that you wear historical/historically-inspired clothing as well! It really is quite fascinating how much responses can vary lol. Thanks for watching 😊
Things I try to instill in my kids: 1. Don't yuck on someone else's yum. If someone's interests aren't your style but don't directly harm others, let them enjoy their thing. 2. Get express consent before offering advice or feedback. 3. Be your authentic self and know that when someone ridicules or criticizes your appearance, choice of fashion, style, it says far more about them than it does about you.
Appreciated your thoughts on this, and love that you have such a healthy perspective on other folks' comments and also feel confident wearing clothing you love and enjoy.
I also wanted to say thanks for speaking about your OCD and getting treatment. As the parent of a teen with OCD who is currently undergoing treatment, I deeply appreciate folks speaking about their experiences or even referencing them in passing. It helps destigmatize OCD. Thank you.
Thanks so much! Those are all wonderful things to teach your children. I appreciate you acknowledging my mention of OCD as well, as it is extremely misrepresented and normalisation of it is so crucial (as you say.)
I’m actually about to film a video regarding my OCD journey which should hopefully be out in January, so more content to come on that topic 😊
The best of luck to your teen on their treatment! One of the best things a therapist ever told me was, “never stop seeking support.”
This was do beautiful. The calming images paired with your strong message - a true piece of art. It is just what I needed to continue my path in wearing historybounding clothes, as I am also struggling most with the perception of other people. Thank you
Awww thanks so much for your lovely comment! I'm so happy to hear this is exactly what you needed at this moment 💕Keep going with the historybounding 😊
Please don't hurry to misinterpret why people stare at you or what they actually think. Please rest assured that vast majority of them secretly adore what you wear and want to have a closer look at what they've seen so many times on TV. Many wish they had your courage, so it's all good.
I watched the construction of your waist coat. And I have to say, you look absolutely fantastic. Never let anyone criticize the skill and craftsmanship that you possess.
Every once in a while, if I see a woman wearing something I think is pretty, or looks good on them (I’m talking about strangers here, not people I know, simply because it’s so random for them), I will stop them and tell them. Why? Because I believe that random compliments from anyone, but strangers in particular, can go a long way to brightening that person’s day. I also do it because I never heard these kind words directed at myself, so I direct them to strangers and I feel better knowing that I brightened their day, if only for a minute or two.
I want to wear clothes I've made because I have woven the fabric and that's a whole new layer of achievement and a reason to walk tall! It's especially nice when someone complements the garment and I can say "I wove this, as well as sewed it," with a big fat grin on my face, and they almost fall over because they've never come across handwoven fabric before, and it's just as good as -- no, *better than* -- shop bought fabric, and wow, I'm really clever to have done that!! (I'm not sure clever is the right word but that's often what I hear.)
I want to wear historical clothing because it will keep me warm! Modern skirts are utterly pathetic when it comes to warmth, as they are neither long enough (I mean, nylon tights, what use are *they* ?!?!) nor thick enough. I have a project in mind using some lovely tweedy-mix 100% fine wool, which I thought I could weave and felt; but instead of making a coat, as was my original idea, I reckon I'll make a petticoat and a top skirt, as well as cotton or linen (purchased fabric, or else I'll be 105 before I finish this project) petticoats for other seasons. Then I can have warm legs and feet indoors and out. And invest in a corset, which I've secretly been longing for for 30 years, ever since I wore a basque to be married in -- it just felt so good to be held or wrapped (swaddled?) like that. I've no strong desire to train my waist to be tiny, but a little less 'relaxed' a silhouette would be welcome, as will the support to improve my posture, which is giving me aches in my back and shoulders these days. Yes, I've watched your corset- wearing video, or rather, your video *about* wearing a corset for over 2 years, and it has confirmed me in my decision to go ahead and buy and wear one, just because I want to (yay!).
So thank you, V, you are a part of my journey now, and I think you're wonderful and will keep watching!
Warmest greetings from Katherine in Kent, UK 🤗🤗🤗👌😁
This is so awesome, and definitely does take knowing where your clothes come from to an entirely different level. Thanks for sharing 😊
I really like the cinematography in this video gives of the vibes of you being an 18th century adventurer.
Thank you! I was hoping it could create that vibe for people, so I'm glad it succeeded (for you) 😊
À few years ago, we used to go to restaurants with a few friends and we would dress for the occasion. Victorian 19th century for Asian, viking for Greek, Japanese for celtica bar... Always a style different from the theme of the place. And people smiled and were appreciative. We often got a free tea or beverage for the effort, offered by the owner of the place. It was fun, and logical to be looked at, since we were out of place but it was OK.
So wonderfully said. I wear vintage style clothing every day. It is an expression of my vintage soul. I am so happy being my authentic self. Recently people have told me I am an inspiration to them and they are ready to step up and live their authentic lives. It warms my heart to know I am able to reach others in such a positive way. Keep up the great work.
Your photograph and channel are both so beautiful! 😊It's always deeply encouraging when choosing to live authentically inspires others to do the same, or inspires them in whatever other way it might. Thanks for the compliments!
Such a lovely video. I hope it inspires many people to dare to wear What they want, historical, or just strange or unusual clothing! Your words were really intelligent and you explained so wonderfully. You’re right! Thoughts are just thoughts, and it’s good to remind oneself ☺️
Thank you so much for your comment and kind words, Lilja! It's always great to hear from you 😊
@@VBirchwood i always look forward to new videos from you 🥰
@@LiljaHusmo That's so sweet, thank you! I love watching all your new videos too 😊
Didn't know you had OCD. I recently became aware of pure OCD like intrusive thoughts and urges. I think you describing that one. Agreed 100% Vasi, not everyone has the privilege to look There best. Some may be facing there inner demons. The nature walk looks so peaceful reminds me of my own walking path. The only problem was tarantulas come out in sunset.
I do indeed! This is my first time talking about it on here though. I plan to go more into depth about it in the future. I would say most OCD starts with thoughts, and then certain physical or mental compulsions have to be created because of the thoughts. In my case, it is more pure O, more so that the compulsions are mental and I mainly experience intense intrusive images that create deep dissociation/derealisation, and a slew of other things that comes along with that (like fatigue, brain fog, panic, anxiety, etc.) These days I'm doing much much better, even if still in recovery, but a couple of years ago it was debilitating and I could barely leave my home for 2-3 months due to the paralysing and crippling fear. It's important that accurate awareness is brought to the topic of OCD though, as it is so often a misconceived mental health condition.
Everyone is definitely facing their own things, and that's totally okay. I think it's important for us to approach others with compassion for that exact fact, because what's going on in a person's life is often so much more complex than how it seems on the surface.
I'm glad to hear you found the walking path peaceful! Your tarantula situation still sounds terrifying though lol.
One must either be a work of art or wear a work of art. - Oscar Wilde
Great quote, thanks for sharing it 😊
I love it!
Started making my own late-18th century coats and waistcoats for casual wear earlier this year. This video is always a wonderful treasure to got back to. Currently making a splendid wool coat for the later seasons.
That’s so amazing to hear! Your projects sound lovely 😊
Vasi, I really needed to hear this and it made me cry. I have been trying to put my art out lately and I feel great shame every time I want people to look at what I've done. I immediately want to burn it with fire. My partner will only say "uh, huh" and glance at it.
Because of your video I realize I don't have to internalize their disregard. It's going to be hard but your words have helped me immensely.
I love seeing people dress different, historical, vintage or plain dress is so exciting to see, cultural as well. I prefer simplicity and comfort personally, so organic materials in earthy tones or minimalist secondhand is my favorite. Yes, understanding where criticism comes from is very important; people have been so ingrained with “societal norms” they do not know how to process those who step outside them. Beautiful footage and advice.
Great advice there!
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I have a very eclectic family.
My wife wear a mix of of the fifties and twenties, and I wear late 17th century....
And my daughter? well she is the personification of the words pink and purple and she's deeply in love with Kyary pamyu pamyu style... so yeah over the top.
You should see the reactions we get when we go outside for shopping .
Hahaha I’m sure they’re brilliant! It’s great you all wear exactly what makes your hearts full though!
I’ve never worried too much what other people think of me or what I wear. I’m just learning to sew and went to a local community sewing room to get some help with my first project - a pair of split crotch bloomers to I can more easily use the bathroom when wearing a corset. I was just slightly embarrassed to tell them what I wanted to work on though I knew, of course, that obviously they would need to know. As a way of explanation I said, “I do steam punk.” They got very excited. “Oh, well you will have to meet A., she comes here and she does steam punk!” Of course, I already knew A. I loved it that they were so encouraging. The only criticism, if I would call it that, I’ve gotten was when I went to buy some fabric for my next project, an Edwardian walking skirt. The woman at the fabric store acted like I was strange. What a contrast! Meanwhile, back at the sewing room they loved it that not only was I making that but also taking the time to flatline it and do a good job. Recently the woman who runs the place gave me two antique chemises that someone gave to the center. The donor asked if the center would have any use for them and right away the director thought of me. I am happy to be their caretaker. They are stained from having spent years in a trunk but the detail on them is inspiring.
Mostly what I find when I go out dressed up is that total strangers will start conversations with me and they enjoy my creative expression. I’m almost 70 years old. Who cares what other people think? When we express our true selves we attract others who appreciate those things about us and it gives us room to be ourselves even more.
I love to wear Victorian styled clothing as well as formal clothing. I recently started getting into ouji fashion. I have recently been adding more pieces in more wardrobe. I combined new black formal pants, with my formal shoes, my white Victorian styled blouse with its own ribbon bow and a new black vest that compliments the high collar. As soon as I went to work, one of my coworkers asked me if it was dress like a pirate day. -_- I didn’t even bother to discuss the Victorian aspects of my look. My sleeves weren’t trumpet sleeves or even puff sleeves. They perhaps thought that because of the large bow. People also get confused why I dress this way. They think it’s for a special occasion, but I just like the style is all. I’ve been working on being more courageous and embracing what I love. I shouldn’t let remarks get in the way of what I want to wear, especially when I add some fun accessories later on like more string bow ties, perhaps hats, jabbots, and such. ^_^
I’m very happy to hear that you’re continuing to wear what you love to regardless of the remarks! Thanks for sharing 😊
"Those are their thoughts, and thoughts are just thoughts." Beautifully put. Thanks for sharing this video. I think this advice goes for anyone who is ambitious, counter culture, who swims up stream. Thanks for bringing inspiration and calm.
Youre an inspiration. Thank you.
This was so lovely to listen to and to look at. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences (and adressing the amazing phenomenon of neuroplasticity)! I always fear judgement from others, even my own family, even though I actaully don't have any reason to. This makes me feel uncomfortable when I'm putting on some lipstick, curling my hair or wearing some extra fancy shoes. When I get no feedback, I'll imagine what people could be thinking about me but do not dare to say out loud. And if there is a reaction to my appearence, it better be exclusively positive or otherwise my self-esteem is going to crumble immediately. When I curled my hair last time, my mother was so surprised that I gathered from her facial expression that she dislikes my look, when actually, I think, she liked it once she got used to it. (Because I really look like an entirely different person with curled hair. :D) Also she isn't really into fashion and I'm always thinking that she might think that I'm too vain. - There you go: just thoughts. But I think a lot and even create my own worlds in my thoughts. Maybe that's the reason why thoughts in general have such a strong impact on me.
However I'm planning to incorporate more historical elements into my wardrobe. Because I love all the different styles and the experience to wear a piece of history and the confidence that actually comes from wearing something that you have made with your own hands. So, thanks again for sharing. There will never be too many videos on this matter out there.
I think everything you are feeling is completely natural, and many others experience these feelings too! So just know you are not alone.
I certainly did for a long time as well, and still do feel these experience you describe sometimes and it was really therapy and reprogramming my thought habits that helped. I am obviously not a therapist and cannot give you mental health advice, but I must say, it's wonderful firstly that you have the awareness to recognise your responses, etc. That's really the first step.
Is there something you can tell yourself internally/mentally when the thought arises that creates the discomfort that can help remind you that the thought is just a thought and we are the ones that place meaning upon each thought? (Thoughts are trying to get our attention often times to protect us or keep us safe from a "perceived threat", which in this instance might be the very natural and primitive fear of rejection, and so in turn, the thought will get as loud and as noticeable as it possibly can (which includes being as absurd as possible sometimes), because it thinks then you will take notice and in turn keep yourself safe. In reality, it is more of an overreaction of the brain, as there isn't an actual physical life-threatening threat).
The thing I always tell myself internally, in particular when dealing with OCD, is "Hi Thought! Thank you for sharing that. Maybe it will happen, or maybe not. I don't know. And that's okay. You're just a thought. And I'll cross that bridge if/when it comes to it."
Hopefully, this helps. Thank you, as always, for your comment and for watching 😊
@@VBirchwood I never really developed a strategy to deal with my reactions. My instinct is rather to push everything away from me that could hurt me potentially or already has hurt me. Which isn't exactly a very healthy coping mechanism but also kind of natural response, I guess. Maybe I can find a way to face these things and not be as afraid of them. Your are actually the first person I met that really talked about how thoughts are just thoughts. They don't have to be hurtful and they can be changed.
Thank you, too, for your response! I really enjoy these little conversations :-)
@@girlwithoutpearlearring If we consider that our primitive response is fight, flight, freeze, (and some psychologists also say fawn, which is like when a baby deer starts fawning in nature for its attacker to almost take pity on it - which can be equivalent in humans to people pleasing), it makes perfect sense that your natural response is to want to push it away or run away. That's what the brain is often biologically programmed to do. But we can change all of that. It is completely possible to develop new habits in the brain to alter the way we respond to things. It will take time and practice though (and most of all mindfulness and awareness). It's actually quite empowering, I think! And I believe you absolutely can find methods that work for you. There are tons of resources to help online as well (if you dig into mindfulness and neuroplasticity, that may be a good place to start).
I really enjoy them too, so thank you for continuing to respond haha 😊
Wonderful advice! I'm wanting to start my journey into historical dress. I'm in my 50s and have often watched historical dramas internally lamenting that I can't dress like that. After having discovered the historical/vintage dress community, I am so inspired by all of y'all! Thank you for sharing your journey and advice!
That scenery is amazing and goes perfectly with the amazing message. I started wearing historically inspired clothing that could pass as modern enough, but I stopped caring about what others think. I like the way you dress, and your decision to dress historically inspires me to be more daring and wear what I really want to. Thank you sooo much!
This is all very kind of you to say, thank you very much! 😊
I love that you’re openly left-handed! Seriously, it was one of the things that divided me from my peers in school, but it’s a core part of who I am.
As someone who is socially transitioning, I love your attire. I might find the energy to make myself a new outfit this year, and you are such an inspiration.
Such a beautiful video and such inspiring content! Beautiful visuals, wonderfully well thought out words, and your voice and the music is so soothing. Thanks for putting all your creativity out into the world. Hugs 💛
Awwww thank you, Heather! I was craving releasing some cinematic content, so this video just needed to happen (for my own creative sanity 😉). Hugs!! ❤️
Thanks for highlighting the positive reactions from others - need to remember that side more as I get up the courage :) Also, the video felt very like meditation - your voice is confident, soothing and relaxing.
My pleasure, Cora! It’s important to remember that typically the good will outweigh the bad with wearing what you want to, though the brain likes to latch on and remember the bad a lot more for some reason 😂 thank you for your kind comment! And I wish you all the best of luck with continuing to build up the courage, you can do it 😊
Really spot on with the psychology and absolutely wonderful advice and perspective!
I don't wear strictly historical clothing, but I've always dressed... weird... especially as a non-feminine-presenting guy who's just very comfortable wearing skirts and long, flowy things... that really throws people off. I get a lot of negative comments, unfortunately, but I learned to really not give a single f about what criticism people have regarding what I'm wearing. I figure, they might just be jealous because I look so comfortable and they don't have the courage to try something unconventional.
I still am queer though and I get scared sometimes (ok, often, I live in a conservative town) of being the victim of a hate crime; I really want to live in a world where that's not a thing anymore, it's so stupid and pointless.
Thanks so much for your comment!
I'm so sorry to hear that the world we live in leaves you feeling scared as a queer person. I, too, wish our world was more compassionate and understanding as everyone is entitled to live their most authentic life as long as they aren't hurting another. It's tragic that some feel they can control the way others choose to identify or express themselves.
What a lovely and beautiful video. The editing was superb and on point all the way through. I especially loved the closing of the book at the end. Predictable, maybe not the most original, but it felt exactly like the perfect ending to those shots of you reading. Sublime.
What's interesting to me is that everything you said can be applied for almost any other situation where judgement from onlookers is unavoidable. Getting a tattoo, doing a sport others may think is silly, creating a UA-cam channel or streaming on Twitch, delving into theatre or dancing performance, doing environmental work or protesting for a cause you believe in. Cosplay, steampunk, high fashion, cross-dressing, makeup or anything you wear, not just historical fashion.
There are so many things we want to do, but never dare trying because of that fear of judgement. Because I think it's really just that, fear, holding us back for almost any new thing we know would go against the mainstream perception. Breaking through that fear is not easy, and it will take some time, but ultimately you will find that it was not that big of a deal after all. Why else do you think dressing up on Halloween does not feel all that weird at all?
Perhaps the judgement we carry inside ourselves is the true obstacle. We are so caught up in the idea of what others *might* think that we never even get to the point where people can think anything at all. People will judge you no matter how you look, what you do or how you do it. Most never voice it. Perhaps they will if you try that thing you want to try, or perhaps they won't. Either way it's still only just thoughts and you are the only one who can put weight into those thoughts.
Speaking from personal experience (mainly in the LGBTQ+ community and in moving to the other side of the world), you will usually find more love and support than anything else when expressing yourself in a new way. If you never try, think about all that love you will miss out on. That is real, in contrast to judgement and imagined thoughts that hold no power at all.
I shall end my essay by answering the question in the video description; depression. I barely have the energy to dress myself at all, so I know I could not deal with a completely new style and type of wardrobe. One day, perhaps, I shall be able to sew my own historical garments and wear them proudly in public.
Thank you, Maia, for sharing all this! You're definitely right, there is so much possibility and opportunity to find love and acceptance, and sometimes in the most unexpected of places. It's a beautiful thing, and it makes all the risk in life worth it. I'm sorry to hear you experience depression (and all the challenges that come with it). I have a ton of empathy for what I imagine you're going through (without knowing first hand because, of course, I'm not in your shoes) due to my own mental health struggles, and they can just be so debilitating. So I wish you peace, recovery, strength, patience with yourself, and many other things. It's wonderful that you have that goal to hopefully work towards one day and always to stay focused on, in particular during your most difficult days. Sometimes just having a plan to do something in the future can make all the difference (along with having a support system that really cares and gets it). If you ever want to email and talk about it, just know that I am here and ready to listen (you can find my email on the About section of my channel 😊).
You must be about my daughter's age. Yet you are wise beyond your age, in my ooinion. We really enjoy your life's journey.
What a wonderful video. Thank you for sharing such uplifting words of encouragement. Your philosophy pertains to almost all aspects of expressing individuality, and I bless you for sharing it.
So glad you liked the video!
Huge thank you for this video! It gave me sense of confidence in myself, and principles and approaches that you shared can be applied to any situation in our lives!
I'm glad I stumbled upon this as I'm in the middle of learning how to sew my own clothes. I've been interested in aesthetic styles like cottagecore and light academia so integrating historical clothing feels an exciting next step.Also the quarantines & the globel pandemic had forced a lot of time for me to research which eras I like on my body vs what I like to see other wear. I have a few patterns based on 1790s-1820s as they mostly higher than the natural waist to accommodate weight fluctuations in that area due to my PCOS.
I’m so glad you’re here too! Welcome to the channel 😊 it’s wonderful you’re discovering what you feel would work best for your own body. I’m so sorry you have to go through PCOS too! A few of my friends suffer from it and it can be so hard sometimes!
The elegance and feminity of these garments are fantastic , they really makes you shine . Be proud of your choise
Ironically, these are garments patterned after menswear of the time! So this is a form of menswear designed for women to wear and was considered extremely masculine historically 😂
@@VBirchwood Thx for correcting me , still think it look better on the body than most we have today :)
Great topic! I too was insecure initialy wearing victorian style clothing as a man, i developed my own style by mixing it with modern wear, like jeans & cowboy boots, i think i will also start a channel as it is my passion. I really love victorian/steampunk style.
Thank you! You should definitely go for it 😊All the best!
I am also into history and i wear historical fashion, i get a lot of compliments outside. Many people love it! I feel like the beauty of historical or vintage fashion is that it has life and beauty in it, rather modern clothes has no life nor beauty in it. Thats why modern fashion is no special but when it comes to historical fashion its special in it own way! My family might not like it. But the importance is wear whatever you love to wear.
How would one say, in the 18th or 19th century -- or would one -- YOU GO, GIRL!!!
This is honestly a beautiful video and made me cry in a good way. thank you
V. Birchwood - as a young woman, you sound wise beyond your years. Good luck and be true to yourself!
I love this advice! Thank you!
I’d also like to add that a lot of the attention we get isn’t necessarily going to be bad. Seeing someone in historical dress is surprising and a little humorous. And that’s ok!
Think of how surprising we would have found it just a few years ago to see someone dressing so differently. As kids we might have even giggled a little.
As long as the attention is not malicious, we can smile right along with whomever is looking at us. Hopefully we are giving people a break from the mundane and planting a seed of courage for them to be brave and unique themselves!
I love the beautiful, peaceful style of this video being filmed in nature.
Thank you very much!
Smile and Nod! A simple way of saying "I agree to disagree" with grace and no hurt feelings.
I love what you do.
As a person who was routinely made fun of in school for being different, I really appreciate this video and the strategies you suggest for feeling more comfortable "doing your own thing". After watching this, I feel so much more confident beginning a history bounding practice, and I have plans to make a petticoat I can use as a history bounding skirt AND as an 18th century petticoat when needed. Thank you so much for speaking about this. I really needed to hear everything you said.
That is so great to hear Ashleigh! I think making a petticoat is an awesome idea! 🥰
Thank you so much for this discussion. I'm sending it to my niece, who is studying psychology. Bet she'll love it!
That’s awesome Julie! I’m glad you enjoyed it that much 😊 I’m very passionate about psychology myself and my therapists over the past 5-6 years have helped so much.
Food for thought; thank you. And a beautiful film, too.
Thank you Katherine 😊
A wonderful video! So true! Often people are just "hurting" for whatever reason. Some people wish they had the courage, but can't or won't admit it. Perhaps they dealt with similar rejections. From my experience, telling "white lies" does not feel so good, but there are situations when it is better to use them. It all depends on the situation. I don't wear historical fashion every day, but I wish I could. I really wish I could sew them myself, and videos like yours are an inspiration!
I love the suggestion of 'wearable art'! :) Definitely borrowing that!
Thank you! That’s wonderful 😊
I enjoy dressing up as my pirate character in my novel sometimes. It's neat that you wear historical everyday.
What a GREAT video. When I was a young boy I once wore Lederhosen to school because I thought they were so exciting. Of course everyone at school laughed at me but I don't remember their ridicule or laughter effecting me that much. I think I just wrote their laughter and comments off as them not being able to see the joy that I could see. We must do our best to forge our unique path and identity, lest we emerge from conformity decades later depressed and unfulfilled, mourning a life that might have been.
Thankyou for this. Im so afraid of what my partner would say if i started dressing like this but now i care a little less!
Though I don’t struggle with much worry about judgement, I really needed to hear that “ thoughts are just thoughts”. I have a lot of trouble understanding why people with say some things and it helps.
I’m glad it helps! It’s probably one of the biggest things I’ve learned with OCD therapy. Thoughts are just thoughts and feelings are just feelings, and just because someone has a certain thought or feeling doesn’t make it true. It’s liberating, especially with OCD, because you have zero control over intrusive thoughts or feelings and if you start believing them all, it leads to a dark place.
Great advice. Thank you for the tips. They can help in other aspects of our lives as well. 👍😊
Thank you so much for this video. It's wonderfully made and very helpful.
I'm glad to hear that! Thank you for your comment, Eva 😊
@@VBirchwood you are always welcome 😇
It helps that you make it look effortless. You fit with that attire so well that my brain takes a second to register that it's not the norm.
Great video! I wear a lot of clothing in a 1940s/50s way. Moat see me as over dressed but it makes me feel good!
This is lovely! I think I might include this in a lesson I'm building for my archeology class. I talk about clothing in the archeological record, and I also talk about experimental archeology. I can sneak this in as part of the clothing lesson and teach them not just about clothing, but about confidence and caring about themselves. Thank you so much for making this loving and compassionate video!
That sounds amazing! Thank you! 😊
I love this whole video, especially your openness about the OCD you experience. Anything that helps do away with the stigma around mental health conditions...
Thank you so much! I totally agree. I’m actually working on a full video right now about my ocd experience, so it’ll be out in the next few months 🥰
OH wow this is so beautiful!!!
It does incorage me to order some traditional clothing I don't dare to wear because I am not in Europe and people will not understand. I want to wear traditional european, mainly north and western Europe.
I have a romanian head band that is traditional in Romania, over there I felt comportable to have it on my head, as other also (mainly old women ) were also using this traditonal head band, but when I came back to my "over progressive" country I felt as if I cannot wear it anymore becouse people will laught at me being "ganndma like" and i am 27 .
AndI didn't use it almost at all since (alomost a year) and it is such a same becouse I love this head bend so much, and it does remind me of my soul more than my "normal clothing" and of who I want to be.
This really inspires me to try and wear this traditional clothing once more.
What a brilliant video presentation. Totally hit the nail on the head on the subject matter. I'm a vintage wearing Scotts-Canadian Englishman into his heritage and wear styles from Elizabethan all the way through too the 1950's and this video has helped me put others and their view points in to perspective. A Big thank you and you now have another subscriber..
I’m so happy to hear that Bourne! And that’s wonderful that you wear such a variety of historical/vintage clothing. Thank you for the sub and the comment!
I hope your words reach all those who need to hear them. I am so glad I found your channel.
Thank you very much Elizabeth 😊 welcome to the channel!
wow the imagery and message in this video is so beautiful. I can see you put so much effort into the production of your videos
Thank you, Beatrice! Making these videos is a huge passion for me, so I absolutely love putting them together for you all ❤️
This is one of the most beautiful videos I've ever watched! Gorgeous job on the filming & editing, it was so peaceful. ☺️ I am getting more confident in wearing what I want the older I get. However, I'm sometimes held back by the thought that since I am not conventionally beautiful or thin that I don't have the same allowance to be different. I'm trying to overcome that assumption, and embrace my size, looks & historybounding. I like the thought of wearing art. 💜💜💜
Thank you so much Rachael! It’s totally understandable that you feel like that sometimes, especially with the way contemporary society makes us feel, as if we all aren’t enough and we need to fix something. It’s so wonderful to hear that you are embracing who you are for you, because honestly, screw conventional size and beauty. I feel like it’s just an illusion anyways and is based so much on subjective experience and also what’s trending at the time. I think you’re absolutely beautiful! 😊
@@VBirchwood thank you so much!! And, at very least, we have this little online community to befriend. Thank you for making this video. ❤️
That’s very true! I’d say having this little community goes a very long way. It’s my pleasure, thank you for watching 💕
Thanks for sharing this message 🙏
Hello! New viewer here. What wonderful advice for anyone and this is honestly one of my top favorite videos on UA-cam. Thank you so much for filming this and I LOVE your clothing!
Welcome to the channel Elizabeth! Thank you so much for your lovely comment 🥰
I have so many vintage and just different styles in my closet. I get intimidated out of wearing them. Your message was inspiring to me. Thank you!
I’m so happy to hear that Karen! I hope you’re well 😊
i could listen to this all day
thank you 😊
@@VBirchwood these sort of channels are my favourive. iv'e been historybounding for a year now. i don't plan on stopping!
That’s wonderful!
I have always worn over the top things. In my opinion it is a good thing to be the best dressed person in the room. So it was very easy for me to move to the beautiful shape that is the Victorian era. I love to watch the smiles on Peoples faces even if it is in mockery, they smiled. The shining eyes of the young little girls in the store when they see you. Even when no one says anything you make an impact. It really boils down to being proud of who you are.
Definitely, feeling confidient in one’s own skin and with one’s authentic self expression is such a huge thing, and it often takes courage to be able to live a life that strays away from societal “norms”
This is so beautiful! Thank you!
I've gotten into Song-dynasty Hanfu over the past year, and what got me past that initial hurdle was... being a trans woman. Some proportion of the people I encounter were going to hate me anyways, so what does it matter if they also think I'm dressed weird?
I am about at the ripe old age of 53 about to start on my history bounding adventure. My 3 awesome adult children smile as they say mum is going to dress like a female hobbit. Your beautiful words have made me more determined than ever to do it. My husband is just seeing my history bounding adventure as me being the real me at long last
Vasi, I know you’ve mentioned doing meditation from a young age. Watching this video was incredibly relaxing and made me think, if you ever narrated some guided meditation I would absolutely watch it! ❤
Aww thank you so much! I'll definitely think about it. I have no idea what sort of meditation I would guide, but perhaps I'll think of something that also feels authentic.
@@VBirchwood I hope you do, because just your saying "thoughts are just thoughts" has been very beneficial in my day to day life. Thank you for this video, it's so valuable beyond just the context of dressing in historical fashion ❤
thank you so much for giving the world more ❤
Beautiful countryside, gorgeous clothes, and wise words.
Thank you!
I think as Individuals we sort of like to think we’re the main character in our own movie, we’re the most important person in the world, so we’d prefer everybody else was boring snd the same so we feel more unique ourselves.
It’s hard to fill this deep need when you’ve got somebody so different ant fancy walking around because for those moments your together you become the main character
So lovely! You brightened my day! Xo
Beautifully stated
Frankly, I'm surprised you get any criticism at all. You're a beautiful young woman and your costumes are amazing. Still, the best lesson you can teach yourself is that you simply don't have to care what other people think.
Thank you! Someone in the world will criticise anything, no matter what one does or doesn't do. I definitely have reached a point where generally most things don't bother me (with regards to criticism in public) but I felt it was important to make this video because everyone is at a different place in their journey.
@@VBirchwood Agreed, and the video is a lovely way of addressing this.
Thank you very much 😊
Omg ….to be judged because you wear some clothes doesn’t matter what kind of clothes …..WTF IS GOING ON WITH THIS STUPID WORLD????? I love history of fashion from old ages….is very elegant and beautiful …..YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND VERY SMART!!!! Thank you for your videos!!!!
Thank you very much! People always have (and potentially always will) judge others for whatever reason, and the reasons always change depending on so many factours. Which is why it's important I think to learn to embrace oneself regardless of the judgement, because there's a good chance some form of it will always be there.
I for one find you very refreshing. You are very smart and articulate, and quite the craftsman and your videos are superb. I wish that we were friends. It would be such fun.
I live your life through my home decor while enjoying the Victorian era in every aspect of my home. The only areas of modern conveniences would be the kitchen and bath, otherwise I live the Victorian era to the extreme with Victorian clutter of opulence. This is my comfort zone and my refuge where I find peace and tranquility.
This is great to hear Gloria 😊 I would never want to live in Victorian times personally (as I think many wouldn't for a number of reasons), but I do also really love the clutter of opulence and maximalism of the period (for the middle and upper classes of course, since it was different for the working and lower classes).
How beautiful! I have actually noticed that I get a lot of positive comments about my outfits. This far I have yet to get any negative ones. My modern clothes never get any comments so it os always a surprise when a stranger stops me in the street and tells me that he or she loves my outfit.
Sorry Katja! I responded to this comment, but it seems to not have posted. That's amazing that you only get positive comments so far! Do you think it has to do with the clothes being modern, as then they are more familiar to people? Vs. how it might be for someone wearing something more archaic and therefore unfamiliar. I'm sure your outfits are absolutely gorgeous!
@@VBirchwood No, I meant when I’m historybounding in Victorian or Edwardian style. I have a channel too in case you are interested (just commented with my private account): with my hands dream is my channel name. I have also had several people commenting my outfits behind my back so that I have heard and even those comments have bwwn positive. A Finnish magazine did a story about my costumes and even then the comments were so friendly and admiring and several people requested tips to make long skirts in Victorian style!
Oh that’s your account as well, amazing thanks! I will give it a subscribe 😊 that’s so lovely to hear it’s been positive. Over all, I’ve had quite positive reactions, just occasionally ones of people laughing or making fun of it, which I actually find to be more humorous than anything.
@@VBirchwood Yeah, it’s sort of funny to play dressup as an adult but why not? It helps if one can see one’s hobby in a humorous fashion. Luckily there’s no need for one’s clothing to always be serious! Life is too short to care aboit things like that!
Yes I very much agree. I think at this point my clothes are just clothes personally, and I don’t think twice about what I’m wearing because this is just what I wear! I think we should all have fun with what we want to do in life (as long as it doesn’t hurt others).
Bless you, lovely one xxx
Thank you so much for this !
My pleasure! Thanks for watching 😊
Thank you for sharing part of your story and experience. It has been very helpful to me. 🙂
Aww thank you so much! I’m so glad it’s been helpful 😊
Thank you for sharing.
Thanks for watching! 🥰
Beautifully said, applicable info in all aspects of life :)
Thank you, Akyuna 😊 I was hoping it would apply to many different aspects for others, as in general these are just useful life things to be aware of.
@@VBirchwood Definitely :) you achieved that for sure in this video
Thank you, I hope you’re doing really well 🙂
i need more historical wardrobe (only have 2 short tunics and one pair of pants) as i found it to be more comfortable than modern clothing, only benefit i found to modern clothing was the easy of put on/take off
Once again a powerful and wonderful message to help empower others.
Thank you very much! I'm glad that you feel this way 😊
@@VBirchwood
Could you do a feature of historical uses of gloves and hats?
Sure! I’ll add it to my list 😊 thanks!
thanks to you i wear colonial dresses,i actually only have two dresses and one skirt,but i feel beautiful in them and i love you
Awww this is so lovely Emily! Thanks so much for your comment.
After finding you,Iam no longer going to worry about what anyone thinks or if they’re embarrassed by my beautiful clothes and iam trying to make a petty coat like in the video🤪😍🥰💪