Good morning team LNN, What is your take home from today's conversation? For young people in their 20's, how are you dating? What do you know about love and how is it coming along? If you would wish to participate in our next panel discussion, please send us a brief summary to our email Info@Lnn.digital You can reach our beautiful guests here; Rodah 0720 638 840 Judy on Instagram at Judy_Lesta Felgonah Oyuga you can get her books at Nuria Bookstore Our episode is proudly powered by TapTap Send! Tell your loved ones abroad to download the TapTap send app on either Play Store or App Store and use the code LYNN to get $20/£15/€15 and AED 50 bonus on your first transaction where the amount is $50/£50/€50 or more! TapTap Send has convenient, safe and fast transactions! To share your story on Rebuilding, send a brief summary to our emails Info@Lnn.digital or Lynn.ngugi@Lnn.digital Thank you so much for watching
Ooooh my God Lynn, I'm so happy there's room for 20's in on this conversations. I'm 25 and for a minute i swear to God, i had this marriage pressure, and the more i sought it the more it pulled further, because unbeknownst to me, i hadn't bought into marrying, because i literally felt quite still young, jameni. This societal construct can be heated at times. I'm elated and waiting on those girlies in the next, i'm already intrigued at the thought of hearing the thought process of my fellow girlies in their 20s. I want marriage yes, but can i at least be bold enough to say, it's not just for me as of now, without feeling stressed that 'men will be scarce' ama feel threatened by all the social norms surrounding the 'late marriage' narrative.
Lynn Lynn Lynn............Turning 41 on Thursday and wow whatdo i come across the minute i come online!!! I am so heere for itI have so much to say but let me watch first!!!! Im so excited
Hello Lynn thank you for bringing these beautiful ladies! I loved this conversation it is necessary now days! We need them back please! Thank you Lynn you are a blessing to the world 🌎 we love you!
This....i went to campus at eighteen and felt too old. It is due to expectations, once you hit puberty, but now I love life. No longer care about age. Just live until you can't
Pole. People are always projecting their insecurities and biases on to others. That's why it's very important to know who you are so that you can remain stay true to what you want and need
I am 50. It’s exciting to be YOU and in charge of YOU. Those who can’t handle you should pass they’re actually blocking the way for the RIGHT PERSON. Menopause is a phase not a factor for definition. Being a grandma is not personality or character. PLEASE NOTE “it’s our children who have had their own children “ This should not stop me from being ME.
So refreshing to see women know themselves, love themselves, and unapologetic about their choices. We need more of these conversations to be heard in our younger generations meetings ❤
Being single is liberating but at some point..you really cant help but wonder why ,especially when everything seems to be in place but finding a mate is what seems difficult..i was by myself for the longest time,and was always pondering and asking myself when and why?it reached a points i let it go..i stopped Being negative and saying negative things about men and marriage, i convinced myself that i would be just fine by myself until He came by my place of work ..asked to be his girlfriend, 6 months later got married and now living together.
I gave my parents and teachers my first 20 years, i then gave my family ( husband and children) the next 20 years. At this stage i gave up a lot of my comfort to carry pregnancy, breastfeed and nurture the children. I decided in my next 20 ( 40-60) i want to live my life.
I have enjoyed the conversation ❤i love how felgonah is honest giving her experiences she's soo authentic, Rodah i love the way she is affirming and positive finally judy is calm and minding her own happiness without allowing negative vibes
I loved this session today. I’m a 45 year old lady, enjoying my 40s totally since here we live with no reservation or regrets. We know what we want and we don’t hold on to what doesn’t develop us. About sex in our 40s, Judy is so right. We orgasm so easily because to us making love isn’t a chore or a competition. We know our bodies and we can guide our partners on how to please us without feeling shy. Women in their 40s have a higher sex drive than when we were in our 20s and I guess that’s why we resonate with younger partners in their 30s since our sex drives are at the same level. Amazing Panel.
Go go mama I started dating my man when I was 38 and he was 59 after few years he married me in a big wedding am 51 and he’s 72 the love my man has for me God knows stick there mama
this is a real talk ,i am married but not happy.i feel like i got married before i understood myself..iam now 28 only and i feel like nimefika mwisho,i feel i wasted myself,sometimes i feel like commiting suicide but i remember i have a kid ,i have to be there for her.i watched these ladies today talking,they are full of life,they are enjoying life at their 40s and i told myself i can still start over again
Yeah,u can start over again,l was barely married for two years,l was drained emotionally,and myself esteem was at zero.l gatheed my courage and left the marriage with my son,now single and happy forcussing on myself and my baby's life.
This was a very healthy conversation. The panelists nailed. It's true life begins at 40. Women in their 40s know what they want and how they want it. Sex drive is top notch and enjoyable. Self esteem is 100% courage to speak up their mind. I got married at 40 and life has been enjoyable 12 years and counting. 😅😅
I love Fel. She seems happy, self-aware, lovable and content. I love a woman who is comfortable in herself as a whole and has nothing to prove. Cheers Fel!Love the discussion.
Am 40 single and a mother of 2. We parted ways with their father. I chose to be happy no matter the status. I feel happy and peaceful. We are not encouraging people to be single but to accept and embrace your status and choose happiness. Still waiting for my match, i believe i will get one..
At 40 everything becomes more clear. And everything matures to a higher level at 40 😊. Thanks Lynn for such talks. Now set a hook up meet up for single 40 woman. 😅😂.
Lynn a few episode ideas 1. Feature persons from the childfree community both women and men of varied ages and even those who changed their mind on the issue 2. People who have left toxic work spaces. The experience, the effect and life after especially here where the job market has crumbled and people are desperate.
Lynn please now bring people who are over 25 and they have chosen a childfree life. We need to debunk this issue and stop the negative stereotypes against us
@@MyJOSE2013 thats why I said Lynn Ngugi needs to debunk this issue, particularly among the younger demographics, because we have people like you who spread negative stereotypes about them
I was left by baby dady at 20 my son was 2yrs i met a guy at 24yrs he told me to take back my son to his father ndio anioe i left the guy i sucrificef for my kids stayed single for my kids at 38yrs a started to pray for my rib at 40 got married officially life begins at 40
On Friday, the 29th, I am making 54 years. I am a smart, clean, and elegant woman, so composed that I am admired by all ages. It's up to me to choose who date 😂😂
I'm 39yrs but by the time I was 31 I was made to think that there was something wrong with me for not dating, being married or better still have at least a child. I lost myself as I tried to get into either of the suggested status, got into the wrong relationship and ended up with being heart broken of a lifetime and I'm now nursing my broken heart and healing from a trauma that I don't know how or if I will ever recover from. This episode was quite enlightening. I felt home while listening to it since I could relate with the ladies experiences as well. God bless you Lynn really did a good job with interview. The ladies are gorgeous and I loved their energies.
This reminds of my lovely cousin ,,when she turned 32 her mommy started pressuring her azae mtoii atalea...but u know the mommy had her life..akhi let pple be if they are not comfortable with the opinions well and good..
I'm 37yrs single and no child and I don't feel anything odd about it niko sawa tu and I DON'T stress over it, it's God's work to give us good husbands and children not me and if it's in my destiny to have a GOOD husband and children well and good if not it's still well and good.
@@mercywamunga2965why do we spiritualize everything for heavens sake?????matters concerning relationship are yours to decide.God has nothing to do with choosing a spouse for you. God has given us brains.
Truth be told every age is enjoyable..i enjoyed my teens, twenties, thirties and now early forties the sweetness continues..Take care of your health, have your own money, love God, love people, forgive easily and enjoy every moment. life is beautiful!
Lynn bring More of these...I am turning 45 Year's old.... Divorced 4 Year's ago and a Mother of 1 Boy 8 Year's old....Not yet ready to date....I am giving time to My Son... traveling the world for now with Him
Good and Real discussion, we need now a panel that will have Men on the table so that we get a balanced response from both perspective. My key Lesson is that everyone has different experiences as per the Panelist and my only concern is sometimes people respond depending on their experience which may be good or bad. But the best approach is everyone to know themselves and ensure a balance. An extremes has its own shortcomings. Thanks
Am 27 watching this and all these inspiring women, telling us what our mothers never told us,and giving us encouragement and lessons learned.this is great
please Lynn bring Judy lesta again am a woman at 40s but I really don't like my marriage life ...she has inspired me with her calmness and she is very intelligent she knows what to say ..I love watching this show amazing
At 40, we are more aware of ourselves, we ask important/difficult questions on dates and maybe it challenges the men and they see us as difficult compared the younger women. But also at 40, we don’t know how to receive love because we have taught ourselves to be independent and we have been on the giving side of life. At the end of the day, love comes to all of us. We just have to be open to see it and receive it.
This is a great show, but what I know everyone runs their race. Its a high time society respects the single mums, they have done a great job raising those kids alone especially Mt. Kenya men, style up and support your kids out there!!!! To every single mum 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
You claim you are independent women. The reason men don't care about those kids is because some of them we are not even sure that we fathered them. Again, the ego and pride with Mt Kenyan women is so huge. How can you take care of the kids where the woman pretends that she don't need a man
many of those single mothers are raising broken children. Because they are often bitter and often transfer their pain to children. Nothing special for being single mom
There is no problem 40 year old ladies dating but please leave the boys under 25 alone let the boys find their purpose in life and build their families we need our boys for a better Kenya please ladies
The things i have learnt just from listening to the shows from Lynn, i could never have learnt in a lifetime. Thankyou Lynn, God always bless you & the guests who share their experiences with us.
This show is real....@ Lyn niko 5th floor and soon walking down the aisle. Napenda kupendwa, and nime Pata yule ana elewa My language of love and I understand his❤
Love yourself first before looking for love somewhere else. It is also very important to heal and let it go from your past relationship first before you get involved with someone. Above all, God loves us all.
Hi Lynn, I would like to share experience on inspire series...I've been in long distance dating and been married to the same man for now 18yrs and known him for 21yrs . This story will inspire those who wants to give up on long distances relationship and or marriage. I will also share tips
@@gerezakatembo worth is not always money,worth is a man treating a woman with dignity that she deserves,you already projecting just because she mentioned,good thing men are different
The girl just next to lynn.... the ways she's expressing her truth is so amazing. Then Judy... you are just amazing. There's nothing as good as understanding who we really are❤
I love this discussion ..all this women are living their lives ...Judy lesta doesn't look 46 she looks 30...I admire her so much...rhoda is bold all the best
This was a very entertaining panel😅😅😅 Please please have them on again. Perhaps they could next tackle, work life balance Also could you consider interviewing men over 40 who are unmarried. Its assumed that single men over 40 have a 'kasoro' but perhaps society is wrong. That would be an interesting one
I've just started the showw and i can't hide my excitment and cant fail to say that I ALREADY LOVE THE LADY IN THE MIDDLE!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ If we could meet smhwere, we wld bcme very good friends automatically!!! I m even pausing to ready the subtitles for what she is saying in Kiswahili!!! She is a vibe!!!!!!! She is sooo amazing!!! She makes you pay attention and listen to her!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I SALUTE U MAMA!!!!
THE BEST AGE IS THE AGE YOU ARE IN NOW. WHY? BECAUSE YOU CAN'T CHANGE YOUR PAST(OR GO BACK TO IT), AND YOU CAN'T CONTROL THE FUTURE. MAKE THE MOST OF THIS PRESENT MOMENT....
..and you missed Akothee 😊..she should have been here I have been thinking, every generation got fed stuff that made them who they are, good and bad. Most say 40-55 women were hammered to study and be strong and not depend on husbands. That's because their parents aka the generation before them had suffered the negative consequences of being dependent on men, so naturally they wished better for their daughters. In the process, all the liberal and feminist movements cashed in big time at the expense of balance and at the expense of these young women. So the women focused on careers and independence. Meanwhile, their male counterparts fell behind with little to no support and mentorship. All these are gen x and earlier. In comes gen y and millennials who observe the failures of gen x and older and also find themselves in the thick of technology and speed. So now they try to strike a balance. Notice how these ones get married very young only to divorce young too....they notice their parents utter misery and the labels of 'singo matha', 'old and independent spinster' and want none of that. In trying to be more super women and strike a balance they still end up also in their own type of problems. Note now all kids grade 7 and below are from a totally different planet. Their share of problems is coming too. So, if we all appreciate that ideologies fed to so called 'generations' are the problem, them we will all be ok in our lanes. It's about keeping to your lane and loving it I dont think men are really 'afraid' of women. Just like generations and ideologies, they are also caught up in their situations which they dont understand, so they label it. They label 'strong, independent' women (if we insist on such terms) as 'old'. Then women label them 'afraid'. Men are just as confused,and to make it worse they have no male models and mentors. Women have all along had churches and feminist movements etc Men have not had these, actually their besties have been clubs, alcohol and sex. Basically, its not those vs these, its just confusion. 😂😂😂😂everyone is confused and is confusing everyone else😂😂 Meanwhile, lets all acknowledge that a good or bad relationship will be just thay no matter our age.
Yeah I agree with you, ideas and ideologies have consequences. We are human beings and the best thing we have to agree is that even choices have consequences. As time goes things become more complicated and tough, relationship s, finance, culture and human life.
Thank u Lynn for bringing this discussion obout ladies over 40s,me am happy Lynn am 46yrs with 6kids and still rocking ❤usijidharau in this life,jipende tu
Wooow. Such amazing content... who feels like the interview was soo short... @Lynn, we don't mind a season 2 with these amazing ladies❤.... aki lakini nimecheka... they are soo funny....
its sad when we dont face reality men have their limits and women also have their limits.. what matters is to get along and have people who take us for who we are.
I admire Judy Lesta....she is so firm and feminine....I have gained so much masculinity mentality but looking around keenly I have come to realize it too destructive and a very strong personality even for many men,including strong men.Aging make people better...hiyo nayo ni ukweli.
From the first interview I will always love this show ..listening to the three I have come to love Judy ..lesta she calm and smart..amazing Lynn ngungi show
All I see is opposing views rather than negativity or uncomfortability, some even coming from women themselves. (Hope no one will call them pickme for their views) it is all in everyone's experiences.
Oyuga, your upbringing must have been great. I affirm you as I wish you the best in getting a man. With your sense of humour, natural beauty and intentional in your pursuit for companionship, you are spot on👏🙌
It is imperative that we also gather insights from men within the same age demographics. There appears to be a communication gap that requires further elucidation.
Good morning team LNN,
What is your take home from today's conversation?
For young people in their 20's, how are you dating? What do you know about love and how is it coming along? If you would wish to participate in our next panel discussion, please send us a brief summary to our email Info@Lnn.digital
You can reach our beautiful guests here;
Rodah 0720 638 840
Judy on Instagram at Judy_Lesta
Felgonah Oyuga you can get her books at Nuria Bookstore
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Ooooh my God Lynn, I'm so happy there's room for 20's in on this conversations. I'm 25 and for a minute i swear to God, i had this marriage pressure, and the more i sought it the more it pulled further, because unbeknownst to me, i hadn't bought into marrying, because i literally felt quite still young, jameni. This societal construct can be heated at times. I'm elated and waiting on those girlies in the next, i'm already intrigued at the thought of hearing the thought process of my fellow girlies in their 20s. I want marriage yes, but can i at least be bold enough to say, it's not just for me as of now, without feeling stressed that 'men will be scarce' ama feel threatened by all the social norms surrounding the 'late marriage' narrative.
Lynn Lynn Lynn............Turning 41 on Thursday and wow whatdo i come across the minute i come online!!! I am so heere for itI have so much to say but let me watch first!!!! Im so excited
Hello Lynn thank you for bringing these beautiful ladies! I loved this conversation it is necessary now days! We need them back please! Thank you Lynn you are a blessing to the world 🌎 we love you!
Am 51 with 3 grown up kids and a grand child and am getting married next month to a very wonderful man .
Waoh congratulations 👏
🎉🎉wowwwww congratulations...this is amazing...would be good to hear your story
Happy for you
Wow. how great
@@mwebazacharity1240 my story is amazing story I would one day like to share it with the world.
This is a great episode. Lynn could you bring men over 45 who have never married but would love to marry? I would love to hear their view
Would love to hear this too
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I've been single for 15yrs..no headache,no stress, no questioning, I actually wonder why people fear to be single 😮😮. It's the best life, for me.
Single and contented or to a certain point nature demands ?
How have managed!!
@@isaackamali1978 I am also wondering what happens if nature demands..we really need God's intervention
@@isaackamali1978 it's true to be single and have peace 😢
@@julietkutegeka1513If nature demands what🎉? Ama you mean societal demands?
All that matters is money 🤑
I was told i was 'old' since 13😥😥. By 18 i felt like 30... society will tel you anything. Choose what to listen to
This....i went to campus at eighteen and felt too old. It is due to expectations, once you hit puberty, but now I love life. No longer care about age. Just live until you can't
Pole. People are always projecting their insecurities and biases on to others. That's why it's very important to know who you are so that you can remain stay true to what you want and need
I am 50. It’s exciting to be YOU and in charge of YOU. Those who can’t handle you should pass they’re actually blocking the way for the RIGHT PERSON. Menopause is a phase not a factor for definition. Being a grandma is not personality or character. PLEASE NOTE “it’s our children who have had their own children “ This should not stop me from being ME.
This is a new one, great!
What you need is a young man to drain the drainage. Don't be scared to spend. Its what he needs.
I love you
So refreshing to see women know themselves, love themselves, and unapologetic about their choices. We need more of these conversations to be heard in our younger generations meetings ❤
Being single is liberating but at some point..you really cant help but wonder why ,especially when everything seems to be in place but finding a mate is what seems difficult..i was by myself for the longest time,and was always pondering and asking myself when and why?it reached a points i let it go..i stopped Being negative and saying negative things about men and marriage, i convinced myself that i would be just fine by myself until He came by my place of work ..asked to be his girlfriend, 6 months later got married and now living together.
Wow to God be the glory
I gave my parents and teachers my first 20 years, i then gave my family ( husband and children) the next 20 years. At this stage i gave up a lot of my comfort to carry pregnancy, breastfeed and nurture the children. I decided in my next 20 ( 40-60) i want to live my life.
I have enjoyed the conversation ❤i love how felgonah is honest giving her experiences she's soo authentic, Rodah i love the way she is affirming and positive finally judy is calm and minding her own happiness without allowing negative vibes
I loved this session today. I’m a 45 year old lady, enjoying my 40s totally since here we live with no reservation or regrets. We know what we want and we don’t hold on to what doesn’t develop us. About sex in our 40s, Judy is so right. We orgasm so easily because to us making love isn’t a chore or a competition. We know our bodies and we can guide our partners on how to please us without feeling shy. Women in their 40s have a higher sex drive than when we were in our 20s and I guess that’s why we resonate with younger partners in their 30s since our sex drives are at the same level. Amazing Panel.
Very well said 😊
Am 40 with two daughters and currently dating a 70 year old divorced man and he truly loves me ❤❤❤
Go go mama I started dating my man when I was 38 and he was 59 after few years he married me in a big wedding am 51 and he’s 72 the love my man has for me God knows stick there mama
Weeeehhhhhh😅
I was 30 he was 52. 20yrs later our son is turning 19. Llife is beautiful I will chose him again.
so happy for both of you. be good to his kids and the whole family
So happy for you
Am 44 I have a kid 18 yrs and am getting married next year🎉🎉
🎉🎉 congrats
🎉🎉🎉
how wonderful !
this is a real talk ,i am married but not happy.i feel like i got married before i understood myself..iam now 28 only and i feel like nimefika mwisho,i feel i wasted myself,sometimes i feel like commiting suicide but i remember i have a kid ,i have to be there for her.i watched these ladies today talking,they are full of life,they are enjoying life at their 40s and i told myself i can still start over again
You can dear I got married barely after high school 10 years later I couldn't take it anymore I walked out with my 2 boys very happy and peaceful
Yeah,u can start over again,l was barely married for two years,l was drained emotionally,and myself esteem was at zero.l gatheed my courage and left the marriage with my son,now single and happy forcussing on myself and my baby's life.
Stick to your marriage and adjust to what you can get respect your partner and be humble good days are ahead
@@mikekaringa1433Both parties should.
Not yet ! You are still a baby
This was a very healthy conversation. The panelists nailed. It's true life begins at 40. Women in their 40s know what they want and how they want it. Sex drive is top notch and enjoyable. Self esteem is 100% courage to speak up their mind. I got married at 40 and life has been enjoyable 12 years and counting. 😅😅
I love Fel. She seems happy, self-aware, lovable and content. I love a woman who is comfortable in herself as a whole and has nothing to prove. Cheers Fel!Love the discussion.
Am 40 single and a mother of 2. We parted ways with their father. I chose to be happy no matter the status. I feel happy and peaceful. We are not encouraging people to be single but to accept and embrace your status and choose happiness. Still waiting for my match, i believe i will get one..
thats the way to go. a happy lady is attractive . stress and bitterness makes one undesirable
That's the spirit
Part 2 please with the same panel and more..
Bring single men over 40 we hear their take on this....
Loved the energy in the room. I love how women are so liberated, doing their thing and loving it. More grace, ladies!
The energy coming from Miss Musyoka is way out of this world. I would listen to her the whole day😀
At 40 everything becomes more clear. And everything matures to a higher level at 40 😊. Thanks Lynn for such talks. Now set a hook up meet up for single 40 woman. 😅😂.
That's where IAM
@Janerwambu934, 😅😅😅I had to wait 10 yrs longer.
@@sherrisolomon2843 ooh my pole sana😊... Hope your in the right space now.
Me too to that
Lynn a few episode ideas
1. Feature persons from the childfree community both women and men of varied ages and even those who changed their mind on the issue
2. People who have left toxic work spaces. The experience, the effect and life after especially here where the job market has crumbled and people are desperate.
Hapo kwa leaving work places that seems perfect kumbe 😢😢
number 2 ppl are suffering in toxic workplaces the conversation needs to be had i agree completely
Lynn please now bring people who are over 25 and they have chosen a childfree life. We need to debunk this issue and stop the negative stereotypes against us
The best to interview are those above 40 like Sheila mwanyiga. those from 25 are probably reasoning with hormones or heartbroken
@@MyJOSE2013 thats why I said Lynn Ngugi needs to debunk this issue, particularly among the younger demographics, because we have people like you who spread negative stereotypes about them
@@MyJOSE2013 Not all of us suffer from broken hearts or imbalanced hormones.
Thats harmful mis-information
@@CompassionQueen summit vine ring a bell?
At 25 they might change their mind later
I was left by baby dady at 20 my son was 2yrs i met a guy at 24yrs he told me to take back my son to his father ndio anioe i left the guy i sucrificef for my kids stayed single for my kids at 38yrs a started to pray for my rib at 40 got married officially life begins at 40
Good for you baby girl.
On Friday, the 29th, I am making 54 years. I am a smart, clean, and elegant woman, so composed that I am admired by all ages.
It's up to me to choose who date 😂😂
Same here 51 smart clean elegant looking good people who wants me in their 30s they think am there age mate it’s me to choose 😂
Maumau😅
How can i meet you
😂😂😂😂sawa
@@allanmureithi8692utazeeka pia, ata labda hutaona hio miaka! Respect women, walikuzaa
I'm 39yrs but by the time I was 31 I was made to think that there was something wrong with me for not dating, being married or better still have at least a child. I lost myself as I tried to get into either of the suggested status, got into the wrong relationship and ended up with being heart broken of a lifetime and I'm now nursing my broken heart and healing from a trauma that I don't know how or if I will ever recover from. This episode was quite enlightening. I felt home while listening to it since I could relate with the ladies experiences as well. God bless you Lynn really did a good job with interview. The ladies are gorgeous and I loved their energies.
@sarahwanjiru4002 Don't worry YOU DEFINITELY WILL. Just pray and ask our Divine Creator to heal your heart and give the healing time.
Good vibes to you Sarah, may you experience full recovery.
Pole. Just pray and go for therapy. It well help you heal
This reminds of my lovely cousin ,,when she turned 32 her mommy started pressuring her azae mtoii atalea...but u know the mommy had her life..akhi let pple be if they are not comfortable with the opinions well and good..
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I'm 37yrs single and no child and I don't feel anything odd about it niko sawa tu and I DON'T stress over it, it's God's work to give us good husbands and children not me and if it's in my destiny to have a GOOD husband and children well and good if not it's still well and good.
Very well said🎉🎉🎉
His timing is the best .
Don't settle mami. You deserve the very best.
haha siz open your eyes..such thinking will lead to regrets. God has never chosen a spouse for anybody. Its upon you to decide for yourself
@@mercywamunga2965why do we spiritualize everything for heavens sake?????matters concerning relationship are yours to decide.God has nothing to do with choosing a spouse for you. God has given us brains.
Indeed with age comes great wisdom. Proud of these 40+ ladies and all the best
Truth be told every age is enjoyable..i enjoyed my teens, twenties, thirties and now early forties the sweetness continues..Take care of your health, have your own money, love God, love people, forgive easily and enjoy every moment. life is beautiful!
Love your show Lynn. Please remember your international audience who do not speak your language ,so please translate whenever such is interjected.
Just turn on CC, the translations are there. Thanks LNN team
What is CC? I have issues with translation tooo.
What is this CC translation please? I am Cameroonian and there are times I delete a show bcos of language barrier
Lynn bring More of these...I am turning 45 Year's old.... Divorced 4 Year's ago and a Mother of 1 Boy 8 Year's old....Not yet ready to date....I am giving time to My Son... traveling the world for now with Him
Thanks Lynn for this talk. Some of us a staying in bad marriages due to society.
Single is peaceful. Relationships are good if ni peaceful pia no forcing things
Loved the maturity here. Kuna generation ingine inawana sana ata basic convo becomes a non starter. Well done.👏
thank you
Good and Real discussion, we need now a panel that will have Men on the table so that we get a balanced response from both perspective. My key Lesson is that everyone has different experiences as per the Panelist and my only concern is sometimes people respond depending on their experience which may be good or bad. But the best approach is everyone to know themselves and ensure a balance. An extremes has its own shortcomings. Thanks
I'm 43 yrs a widower with 2 grownup kids getting married again next year
Am 27 watching this and all these inspiring women, telling us what our mothers never told us,and giving us encouragement and lessons learned.this is great
please Lynn bring Judy lesta again am a woman at 40s but I really don't like my marriage life ...she has inspired me with her calmness and she is very intelligent she knows what to say ..I love watching this show amazing
At 40, we are more aware of ourselves, we ask important/difficult questions on dates and maybe it challenges the men and they see us as difficult compared the younger women.
But also at 40, we don’t know how to receive love because we have taught ourselves to be independent and we have been on the giving side of life.
At the end of the day, love comes to all of us. We just have to be open to see it and receive it.
You are so right
At 40 you have hit the wall and simply unattractive to high value males.
Younger women will give men their own children. That's the difference. Has nothing to do with "asking questions while being difficult".
My mum died before reaching 40yrs am looking forward to reach 40yrs in 2yrs time and celebrate kabisa
May God keep you.
@@sharonjumba4648 amen thank you
Am here with my 📝 thanks LYNN and all LNN community you are really doing an impactful job to the world 🌍
I'm 40 single 2 kids. I'm living my happy life, no stress. Anything that is possible at any age is a mindset issue, not a number 🎉🎉🎉
Wow! Mom how are you😊
Very true
This is a great show, but what I know everyone runs their race. Its a high time society respects the single mums, they have done a great job raising those kids alone especially Mt. Kenya men, style up and support your kids out there!!!! To every single mum
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You claim you are independent women. The reason men don't care about those kids is because some of them we are not even sure that we fathered them. Again, the ego and pride with Mt Kenyan women is so huge. How can you take care of the kids where the woman pretends that she don't need a man
@@bernardthuo2455I dont follow very well what the conversation is about.
many of those single mothers are raising broken children. Because they are often bitter and often transfer their pain to children. Nothing special for being single mom
Great job raising them to where? to prostitution! Poverty! Prison! Suicides! Drugs! Social degenerates....I'll wait.
There is no problem 40 year old ladies dating but please leave the boys under 25 alone let the boys find their purpose in life and build their families we need our boys for a better Kenya please ladies
I am a 45 y/old single and I APPROVE this message!! 100%%
Facts
25 years old boy is enough to be ur son.😢
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It's so powerful thank you Lynn for always enlightening us cause it's through your platform where we get to learn, unlearn and re_learn
Life begins at 40
I think life starts at 40 only if you did the necessary and proper preparations in your earlier years
Nobody is damaged goods we all have a second chance to redeem ourselves. ❤
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@@tiberiusmaiko743You're only damaged if God says you are.
The things i have learnt just from listening to the shows from Lynn, i could never have learnt in a lifetime. Thankyou Lynn, God always bless you & the guests who share their experiences with us.
Goodmorning Nyambu...40's girls we are rocking the street😍😍😍
What a fun show!!! You ladies have made my day.
This show is real....@ Lyn niko 5th floor and soon walking down the aisle. Napenda kupendwa, and nime Pata yule ana elewa My language of love and I understand his❤
This was an amazing panel of empowered ladies who shared their experiences.
You have opened up conversations that are an eye opener.
Love yourself first before looking for love somewhere else.
It is also very important to heal and let it go from your past relationship first before you get involved with someone.
Above all, God loves us all.
Hi Lynn, I would like to share experience on inspire series...I've been in long distance dating and been married to the same man for now 18yrs and known him for 21yrs . This story will inspire those who wants to give up on long distances relationship and or marriage. I will also share tips
Am 40 a single parent of one teenage boy,and am hopeful i will still get my match.a good man who knows worth of a woman
then accept men who are asking you out.
@@davemusyoka5144maybe you should ask her ....
@@davemusyoka5144 that is not good advice. You can’t just say yes to anyone they must be the right person.
what is your worth?
@@gerezakatembo worth is not always money,worth is a man treating a woman with dignity that she deserves,you already projecting just because she mentioned,good thing men are different
True its a mindset.
I am 60 yrs old woman & young at heart.
The girl just next to lynn.... the ways she's expressing her truth is so amazing. Then Judy... you are just amazing. There's nothing as good as understanding who we really are❤
I love how Lynn knows how to lead these ladies to talk 😂
I love this discussion ..all this women are living their lives ...Judy lesta doesn't look 46 she looks 30...I admire her so much...rhoda is bold all the best
This was a very entertaining panel😅😅😅 Please please have them on again. Perhaps they could next tackle, work life balance Also could you consider interviewing men over 40 who are unmarried. Its assumed that single men over 40 have a 'kasoro' but perhaps society is wrong. That would be an interesting one
Waah her sister died at 33 like mine as well. It teaches me to appreciate every single day of my life.,and thank God for it.
I've just started the showw and i can't hide my excitment and cant fail to say that I ALREADY LOVE THE LADY IN THE MIDDLE!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ If we could meet smhwere, we wld bcme very good friends automatically!!! I m even pausing to ready the subtitles for what she is saying in Kiswahili!!! She is a vibe!!!!!!! She is sooo amazing!!! She makes you pay attention and listen to her!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I SALUTE U MAMA!!!!
THE BEST AGE IS THE AGE YOU ARE IN NOW. WHY? BECAUSE YOU CAN'T CHANGE YOUR PAST(OR GO BACK TO IT), AND YOU CAN'T CONTROL THE FUTURE. MAKE THE MOST OF THIS PRESENT MOMENT....
exactly
..and you missed Akothee 😊..she should have been here
I have been thinking, every generation got fed stuff that made them who they are, good and bad. Most say 40-55 women were hammered to study and be strong and not depend on husbands. That's because their parents aka the generation before them had suffered the negative consequences of being dependent on men, so naturally they wished better for their daughters. In the process, all the liberal and feminist movements cashed in big time at the expense of balance and at the expense of these young women. So the women focused on careers and independence.
Meanwhile, their male counterparts fell behind with little to no support and mentorship. All these are gen x and earlier.
In comes gen y and millennials who observe the failures of gen x and older and also find themselves in the thick of technology and speed. So now they try to strike a balance. Notice how these ones get married very young only to divorce young too....they notice their parents utter misery and the labels of 'singo matha', 'old and independent spinster' and want none of that. In trying to be more super women and strike a balance they still end up also in their own type of problems.
Note now all kids grade 7 and below are from a totally different planet. Their share of problems is coming too.
So, if we all appreciate that ideologies fed to so called 'generations' are the problem, them we will all be ok in our lanes. It's about keeping to your lane and loving it
I dont think men are really 'afraid' of women. Just like generations and ideologies, they are also caught up in their situations which they dont understand, so they label it. They label 'strong, independent' women (if we insist on such terms) as 'old'. Then women label them 'afraid'. Men are just as confused,and to make it worse they have no male models and mentors. Women have all along had churches and feminist movements etc Men have not had these, actually their besties have been clubs, alcohol and sex.
Basically, its not those vs these, its just confusion. 😂😂😂😂everyone is confused and is confusing everyone else😂😂
Meanwhile, lets all acknowledge that a good or bad relationship will be just thay no matter our age.
Yeah I agree with you, ideas and ideologies have consequences.
We are human beings and the best thing we have to agree is that even choices have consequences. As time goes things become more complicated and tough, relationship s, finance, culture and human life.
I'm proudly 46,had many lessons which are guiding me thru life. I'm living my queen life unapologetically.
Shosho mode pro max edition.
Thank u Lynn for bringing this discussion obout ladies over 40s,me am happy Lynn am 46yrs with 6kids and still rocking ❤usijidharau in this life,jipende tu
Yes yes children need to see us having healthy relationships!!!
16:58 ❤40 is so young any age any time, with God there is no age, it is his appointed time and the right time, ( that's your Kairos moment)
Wooow. Such amazing content... who feels like the interview was soo short... @Lynn, we don't mind a season 2 with these amazing ladies❤.... aki lakini nimecheka... they are soo funny....
Please bring the men in 40 to hear their view's on dating,sex .
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They should probably bring 50yr old men. 40yr old men are very comfortable coz of the wider dating sample space.
its sad when we dont face reality men have their limits and women also have their limits.. what matters is to get along and have people who take us for who we are.
As a woman at 40, is it possible to get married? Yes. Is it probable? No.
All the woman are great But I love judylesta ..I love how she calm and she brings her points the topic is great ....thank you.....lynn Ngungi
Young ladies on your 20s avoid listening to this type of conversation your time is now and not later
Yes..your 20s are your prime years.
Chase the bag young gals get married with your own career men of nowadays aren't providers but sex chaser's and deadbeats
the discussion if for women in their 40s though. not for the younger women
@@MyJOSE2013 cheating you and energetic women on their 20s that their doing good in 40s
I really hope that too coz they are really misleading…they are 40 and lonely
Women at 40:are the cutest...I'm almost 50 and I look hotter than I was in my 20s.keep soaring.
I admire Judy Lesta....she is so firm and feminine....I have gained so much masculinity mentality but looking around keenly I have come to realize it too destructive and a very strong personality even for many men,including strong men.Aging make people better...hiyo nayo ni ukweli.
From the first interview I will always love this show ..listening to the three I have come to love Judy ..lesta she calm and smart..amazing Lynn ngungi show
Am at 40 and the show today brought a wakening point 😅
Thanks much Lynn. This are wonderful girls/ ladies on board. I appreciate their openness of heart as they have communicated. The conversation was good
JUDY LESTA is looking young and beautyful...you should bring her back ..her English is on point....she understand herself .....love all the ladies
its too sweet to see this ladies the lovely judylesta I admire you mum you are so inspiring ...thank you Lynn please have them back
Have gone through the comments and it's interesting how men are uncomfortable with this conversation.. anywho... Beautiful women there.
I noticed it too. Too much negativity from the men
Men are just logical and women are just delusional, period!
All I see is opposing views rather than negativity or uncomfortability, some even coming from women themselves. (Hope no one will call them pickme for their views) it is all in everyone's experiences.
Self love start by one self and am grateful for you ladies. You do not need to hide something for someone to love you
Strong Beautiful Ladies, determined , telling the way it is, Thanks Lynn for yr site.. so inspiring ❤❤❤
Wah thanks Lynne for this discussion i have noticed that am not alone my hope is renewed
They are looking good at their 40's..
I wish these amazing ladies would speak in English so we can all understand!
❤❤❤Thanks for the positive feedback Jeska,my apologies for speaking in Swahili and sheng 🙏be blessed
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This dark woman is so beautiful,all of you are beautiful as well. Thanks for the insightful conversation.❤❤❤❤❤
Your age is a mindset. At 40 and my mind is renewed. Am about to become what God called me to be. Old for who?
😂 you mean with your beauty you were unable to find a man with the charms of a beautiful woman.
@@dominicorero712and a low caliber man watched the show and had an opinion. To reduce beauty to looks is so low boss
@@dominicorero712😂😂you gonno chills😂
Fire! Fire! Fire! Best show yet 🎉🎉 I wish I'd watched it earlier. Love all these women, I'm very inspired ❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏Karibu saana be blessed.
Oyuga, your upbringing must have been great. I affirm you as I wish you the best in getting a man. With your sense of humour, natural beauty and intentional in your pursuit for companionship, you are spot on👏🙌
I use tap tap Lynn and I love it. You are amazing ❤
Next time you're in the UK give me a nudge🙏❤️!
This episode was so refreshing 😍
I have gained strength thanks girls and all the best
My take away ...@43 there is no scarcity of men.Great conversation .
What is great about it? Do not be delusional a high value man would not marry or date a woman over 40 with kids.
A single male pilot at 43 yrs cannot date a woman over 40....
@@alphamode4660 ...Your thoughts are respected...the over 40 will not lack men to marry them.
@@lucietee4354 Weak men that is the case.Alpha and Sigma males are not attracted to women over 40.
IAM 45 with an energy of 25....Single mama of 2....Was married for 18 yrs....nikaachwa...the best blessing EVER....
@@minjirekurutu1560 yep...God ndio nilibakisha ikabidi nikazane Na watoto and healing too coz it's very important too.
This was a very lively session. Thanks sana Lynn now its time we heard men in their 30s and a second session in their 40s. Barikiwa
It is imperative that we also gather insights from men within the same age demographics. There appears to be a communication gap that requires further elucidation.
Great conversation with beautiful unapologetic ladies 😍😍 Lynn pole Kwa homba😅😅but on a serious note pole, love you girl 💗
Mindset development and growing together is very important --
I love this and you forgot something at 40+ we become more juicer ❤❤