Be Clear In Your Intent

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  • Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
  • Why men need to be clear in their intent in all aspects of their lives: pickup, dating, relationships, their purpose and mission, friendships, desires, etc. When a man is not clear in his intent, it confuses women they are involved with causing them to become unsure, flakey, back away, lose interest, etc.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 130

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 років тому +211

    The past does not equal the future. Just do the right thing next time. Let the past go.

  • @davidmcgrew3837
    @davidmcgrew3837 6 років тому +105

    Any woman that says " I DONT DO THAT" really does that.

  • @geronimo5947
    @geronimo5947 11 років тому +159

    C`MON MAN !

  • @Drippykel
    @Drippykel 8 років тому +94

    i die watching these, the guys are hilarious but you make it even better with your sarcastic comments

  • @badroukaddou4726
    @badroukaddou4726 11 років тому +29

    Dude you are making a difference in the world by changing lives and teaching them to develop a better version of themselves. Thank you in advance.

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 років тому +40

    That's because you have not read my book yet. Read it to learn the basics. I never said his intention. I said it's a scientific fact that women are more attracted to a man whose feelings are unclear. That happens when they can't figure out what he's going to do next, when he's going to call, how he feels about her, etc. Read the book and it will make sense to you.

  • @stonestephh
    @stonestephh 10 років тому +36

    i applied your methods all the time and i been on top of the world they chase me non stop lol

  • @baltazarpacheco8035
    @baltazarpacheco8035 8 років тому +21

    Corey you made me laugh when you said "James Bond Don't think like that ," lol

  • @wolf359survivor2
    @wolf359survivor2 6 років тому +24

    Holy shit. That first email was painful.

  • @makemarker
    @makemarker 11 років тому +12

    I have also found that when I talk about your material to friends, it is mainly the females that get it and agree with it. The guys are like hard little nutshells and basically refuse to allow themselves to gain some new insights. A friend of mine told me that his gf has gone slightly cold on him lately, and she told me that the problem is his lack of activity and action. Naturally, I tried to help him indirectly but he did not show a sign of interest, so unfortunately I can't force it on him.

  • @slowmercy69
    @slowmercy69 8 років тому +62

    I like this guy

    • @jizzydick
      @jizzydick 4 роки тому +3

      That's pretty gay

    • @slowmercy69
      @slowmercy69 4 роки тому

      @@jizzydick I like your style
      You should look up avoidingthepuddle on twitch, you'll fit right in with us stoners

  • @RichardMPM
    @RichardMPM 6 років тому +8

    Man I gotta tell you in all honesty..When I first clicked in one of your videos I thought you were one more of those guys selling pseudo-science but paying close attention to every e-mail you read and the feedback you're giving I started to compare my failed dates to those of those guys and HOLY SHIT everything is so clear to me now.

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 років тому +58

    That's what happens when you act like a man. Women notice because there are so few of them around.

    • @carloscastillo8647
      @carloscastillo8647 6 років тому

      Coach Corey Wayne if a girl and her girl friend want to do a threesome and I'm one her options to do it with, but she ends up choosing some other dude, I can't see it as "well it's her loss" cause it is a threesome and I wasn't there. PS: it hasn't happened she hasn't decided yet

  • @yeayea4072
    @yeayea4072 6 років тому +4

    Your face at 8:47 was her exact face when she read the text too 😂

  • @armchaircouch
    @armchaircouch 4 роки тому +7

    Chill, humble, confidence is good stuff.

  • @belmany
    @belmany 4 роки тому +6

    almost every time I watch one of these videos, coach tells me some way I fucked up previously and didn't realize

  • @makemarker
    @makemarker 11 років тому +5

    Corey, since I have been following your videos and applying the stuff from your book, I have been absolutely freaked out (positively) by the reaction. Women are checking me out for no "apparent" reason and smiling at me. Perhaps I was blind before and not that I am an ultra good looking guy, but I am going by your positive vibe thing and taking it as that female intuitive thing that is making them notice me. Even though I don't go for every girl, I love just being able to flirt with all of them.

  • @DeNeGaDa
    @DeNeGaDa Рік тому +1

    You crack me up Cory “how can you not know if you kissed her sweet lips ? “😂😂😂😂 4:55

  • @miguelrodriguez6757
    @miguelrodriguez6757 7 років тому +5

    Lots of C'MON MAN in this video. LOL! Couch Corey Wayne, I got the Audio Book of How to be a 3% Man and its AWESOME! I listen to it all the time and as you said "repetition is the mother of all skills" my confidence level is UP. Thanks for all your good advise. YOU ARE THE MAN!

  • @magtfulde898
    @magtfulde898 7 років тому +6

    4:50 hahah first the slap on the forehead and now this "I mean come on man!" look at the camera hahaha

  • @thenorthface4
    @thenorthface4 7 років тому +10

    coach corey, I'm going to meet you someday so I can hear you drop some of your pick up lines lol... love your work!

  • @scottfontaine5106
    @scottfontaine5106 11 років тому +4

    Corey, thanks for your advice videos. I have been looking for good advice for a long time and everyone else gives garbage advice. Your stuff makes sense. I'm a very attractive man, but I have so many "come on man" issues. I don't want to offend a girl, so I don't make physical contact. I don't want to rush a woman, so I just leave it up to her to make the first move. My heart was in the right place, but I have been a weak man. I am ashamed of myself and eager to make positive changes. thanks

  • @CarlosTManatee
    @CarlosTManatee 11 років тому +2

    oh, i see. unclear about feelings as in "does he want to be with me long-term" but not unclear about feelings as in "he wants me". i'm only halfway through the book so far. ;) (great work, btw)

  • @fleadoggreen9062
    @fleadoggreen9062 4 роки тому +1

    So true, that’s where I mess up, I get them close then try stringing them along, not cool

  • @mariustudoratlantageorgiau8142
    @mariustudoratlantageorgiau8142 6 років тому +9

    you are a natural Corey!! hilarious

  • @jaysean4013
    @jaysean4013 8 років тому +18

    coach really enjoys his clints emails :)

  • @JamesCarmichael
    @JamesCarmichael 11 років тому +4

    lol I did this for myself. I'll never go back. I feel too good. Had my testosterone and HGH levels checked and they're twice as high as they were 6 months ago. I'm stronger in the gym, more confident, far more driven and just feel so good. When I was masturbating I was lonely, depressed, weak and jobless. So what your saying doesn't make any sense at all to me. I appreciate your comment, but it completely goes opposite to what I've experienced giving it up.

  • @coreychad6993
    @coreychad6993 6 років тому +6

    Such an important video. Brilliant.

  • @TravelandBang
    @TravelandBang 6 років тому +1

    Corey... At first a couple years ago I first thought what the hell is this preppy dude from Florida going to teach me about women?... I bought the book, read it 15 times and my whole world has changed. My new mantra, what would James Bond do and treat her like my little bratty sister and now I pull nothing but 9s and 10s. I even started teaching his teachings to other men, recommending his book to everyone!

  • @mariustudoratlantageorgiau8142
    @mariustudoratlantageorgiau8142 6 років тому

    Ccooooooooooooooooooorey its solid man. My intent was spoken out loud . No Labels. None . We are partners. !! thats it.
    She heard it. And replyed- Ok baby Ill will not rush you. ..and will let you take the lead on this one

  • @panosbibe5933
    @panosbibe5933 5 років тому +10

    4:24 when i send something stupid and regret it later

  • @aerohk
    @aerohk 4 роки тому +9

    “Girls are attracted to guys whose intent is uncertain” I heard this from somewhere...

    • @mangocrusher1
      @mangocrusher1 9 місяців тому +1

      "... whose feelings are unclear"
      I think feelings and intent are two different things.

  • @leviet7736
    @leviet7736 6 років тому +3

    4:24 i laugh my ass off ! great work man

  • @redfloyd69
    @redfloyd69 5 років тому +14

    How can you make your feelings unclear if you are direct in your intentions? You let them know you find them attractive and want to go out with them, but not necessarily that you are into them or want to pursue a relationship?

    • @thecurrentmoment
      @thecurrentmoment 8 місяців тому +1

      I think what you said is right - show that you are attracted to her but let her earn a place in your life
      Basically you want to see more of her but you haven't decided yet. Like a company making it clear they want to see you back for more interviews and trials for a permanent job offer, or a customer testing a product (but obviously this is to help them decide to make a commitment or not)

  • @makemarker
    @makemarker 11 років тому +1

    The way things are going and her moving an hour away from him to go to college, it would not surprise me. I wanted to help him because if I was in his place with such a good looking, sweet and well poised girl, I would find it tragic to lose her over some stupid male behavior and lack of activity. He told me she stopped saying certain things she used to to show her feelings towards him and to me that is "huge alarm bell". I will only help him now if he asks for help, since I already tried.

  • @simonhellier7281
    @simonhellier7281 4 роки тому +1

    I had an ex who always claimed not to want something, the MOMENT, conditions were right, it’s exactly what she did...c’mon man!

  • @casanovalovemusic
    @casanovalovemusic 11 років тому +5

    21:49 "hell No" lmao funniest part of this vid!!!

  • @d3br0n
    @d3br0n 11 років тому +4

    Your a beast Corey!! I've been watching your videos and just bought your book. I can't wait to get into it!

    • @johnkennedy8795
      @johnkennedy8795 4 роки тому

      How have you got on over the last 6 years bro?

  • @delont1986
    @delont1986 10 років тому +5

    Spot on!

  • @Dannyrainofficial
    @Dannyrainofficial 5 років тому +1

    this video was fire..

  • @edwingaldamez7043
    @edwingaldamez7043 7 років тому +13

    Come on mannnnnnn!

  • @Snydy62
    @Snydy62 11 років тому +1

    Hey Corey, I wanted to let u know that I have been goin out with 2 women for the last 3-4 weeks adding some of the things u say to use. I also have a FWB due to u saying 'be direct with wat u want". I have had no problem getting wat i want out of these women...I was always pretty decent with dates and reading women, but u really made a few things clear to me that helped. Keep up the good work...lol

  • @skullymanewhoa
    @skullymanewhoa 8 років тому +78

    "How could you not know if you kissed her sweet lips? C'mon man."

    • @sain8827
      @sain8827 7 років тому +3

      I died at that point.

    • @JonArcher1113
      @JonArcher1113 5 років тому

      That’s my favorite line!

    • @DC7ify
      @DC7ify 5 років тому

      Lmao! His reaction was priceless

  • @mrsoandso958
    @mrsoandso958 9 років тому +4

    "sounds like a quick-fade to me" That's funny as fuck!

  • @surferfantastic
    @surferfantastic 5 років тому

    In the book you said it’s better to make your intentions unclear

  • @andrebaxter4023
    @andrebaxter4023 5 років тому +2

    Can't grab the home plate without getting the other bases first.

  • @ChicoMuya
    @ChicoMuya 2 роки тому +1

    I love watching these videos. They're informative and hilarious 😂

  • @discosourcedjs
    @discosourcedjs 7 років тому +32

    4:50 Cracked me up!!! hahaha How could you not not if you kissed her sweet lips? C'Mon Man!

  • @johnkennedy8795
    @johnkennedy8795 5 років тому +1

    A Wolf Whistle Cory??? Cmon man

  • @eternal_napalm6442
    @eternal_napalm6442 7 років тому +21

    "How could you not know if you kissed her sweet lips"?
    C'MON, MAN!

  • @HRHooChicken
    @HRHooChicken 4 роки тому +2

    A wolf whistle is that stereotypical whistle you do when a hot girl walks past. Builders usually do it. It’s the ‘wit woo!’ Whistle. I guess it’s not called that in America

  • @carterkississou8006
    @carterkississou8006 11 років тому +1

    thank you Corey !

  • @hankybostik7634
    @hankybostik7634 8 років тому +1

    Thanks coach!🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

  • @johnseonbuchner1867
    @johnseonbuchner1867 11 років тому +1

    absolute classic gall of fame video. hilariuos and INFORMATIVE.

  • @yennilyneribleza3434
    @yennilyneribleza3434 8 років тому +9

    I love you Corey, your awesome 😘

  • @kevin7431
    @kevin7431 7 років тому +1

    Man this is one funny video. I'm certainly no Casanova, but I know enough not to make these basic mistakes.

  • @thetruthoutside8423
    @thetruthoutside8423 10 місяців тому

    This is the point. I am not interested in you as a friend. If you changed your mind, come back to me. Otherwise, good luck to you. No more, no less.

  • @lucaineire
    @lucaineire 11 років тому +1

    Come on man !!

  • @championchuck929
    @championchuck929 11 років тому +6

    COME ON MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN!! Love this guy videos #TruGame

  • @jasonoliver7717
    @jasonoliver7717 6 років тому +1

    so how do you strike a balance between being a good listener and being her emotional shower?

  • @chrisvantran1845
    @chrisvantran1845 6 років тому +2

    Lol @ 21:45 gets me every time 😂

  • @kkdeveauxgue3195
    @kkdeveauxgue3195 6 років тому +1

    CC what if you just met the girl 2 weeks ago and it was love at first sight and you fell in love your texting and trying to prove yourself. What do I do to pull away without abandoning her, cause I know she's the one

  • @scott.macdowell3139
    @scott.macdowell3139 5 років тому +3

    What happened to "Its a scientific fact that woman are attracted to men whos intensions are unclear" ... opposite of this video

  • @henrique_covers2393
    @henrique_covers2393 8 років тому +5

    At 4:24 -> Best Meme Ever.

  • @osenidot
    @osenidot 6 років тому +1

    21:35 loooool

  • @johnkennedy8795
    @johnkennedy8795 5 років тому

    Just got the Book and doing a couple things with the hottest girl I've ever met, She Knew she was hot and would say it,,,,, Well thanks Cory after 7 weeks this chic is eating out my hand,, Just ordered the Book to read but the Videos were enough Cheers Bro, I'm more Alpha I've been in years,

  • @DukeFavre
    @DukeFavre 2 роки тому

    Don't care about her pass relationship. I care about US right here, right now. No drama. Go guys. Enjoy life. Have healthy relationships!

  • @mattyharbison4601
    @mattyharbison4601 6 років тому +2

    😂😂 this one has me dying

  • @SediMusic
    @SediMusic 6 років тому +2

    CMON MAN! LOL

  • @amanking5817
    @amanking5817 3 роки тому

    IM DEAD AT 11:27 😂😂😝😜😅

  • @JamesCarmichael
    @JamesCarmichael 11 років тому +1

    Corey is there any physical things we can do to charge up our masculine energy and control it efficiently? I've recently quit masturbation and porn completely (I'll never go back I feel too good to waste my energy in front of a screen). I feel like I have all this built up sexual energy and its actually overwhelming when I'm in the presence of women. I don't do stupid things, but the women can kinda sense my presence/energy and often come to me, which I'm completely not used to yet.

    • @AARONH85
      @AARONH85 5 років тому

      James Carmichael the gym and get on test

  • @tonji67
    @tonji67 5 років тому +1

    Go watch some old 40s and 50s movies
    and you'll hear what a wolf-whistle is.

    • @Flosseveryday
      @Flosseveryday 5 років тому

      Oh I see what it is now.
      A girl riding a bike that didn't bother to stop did that to him 😂 random

  • @biznachos1
    @biznachos1 9 років тому

    What's the difference between "Hey I'd love to see you, why don't you come to my place and we'll make dinner" and "Hey when are you free to come to my spot and chill". You berated that guy, but the ideas seemed similar.... at least to me.

    • @Ivan-mt5wg
      @Ivan-mt5wg 4 роки тому

      That's for a woman you have had sex with

    • @biznachos1
      @biznachos1 4 роки тому +2

      @@Ivan-mt5wg Lol, thanks, funny I didn't quite get it 5 years ago... I'm married and have a kid now. Was fun to see my noobness back then.

  • @baronhelmut2701
    @baronhelmut2701 6 років тому +2

    Why do you sometimes say that women prefer men whose intentions are unclear, but this video says exactly the opposite.

    • @steveperez3501
      @steveperez3501 6 років тому +6

      He says feelings, not intentions

    • @baronhelmut2701
      @baronhelmut2701 6 років тому

      @@steveperez3501 Im sure he said intentions in another video. I dont remember which one it was but iam 100% sure he said intentions.

    • @steveperez3501
      @steveperez3501 6 років тому

      He must have misspoke. I never heard him say that. I heard him say 'feelings' many times. Hopefully he chimes in himself to clarify.

    • @andrebaxter4023
      @andrebaxter4023 5 років тому

      Baron, he said feelings. Women need to wonder about you for the attraction to grow. That's part of the reason why us as men should start off doing one date a week and using the phone to only set dates. As time passes, usually after the second date, the woman will start to reach out first. After that you can just stop all pursuing and set the next date when she reaches out.

    • @Historyrhymezz
      @Historyrhymezz 4 роки тому +1

      Intent: what he wants
      Mystery: who he is

  • @chriswilson6903
    @chriswilson6903 5 років тому +1

    Why dont these guys read the damn book??!!

  • @fun2drive107
    @fun2drive107 6 років тому +4

    Man first guy the chick did everything but wrap her panties around his neck. How dense. 2nd email yeah 100% right chick that cheats isn't one that has high values. 3rd guy male gay gf priceless. Friend zone! 4th email guy is making dating like a procedure not spontaneous. Too much txt. Great advice not to hang with her friends then he chases her ouch. Not kissing on the 2nd date? Wow this guy has insecurities. Great advice Corey.....

  • @sunnyhill3000
    @sunnyhill3000 5 років тому

    But u also said women are attracted to men whose feeling is unclear...

  • @CarlosTManatee
    @CarlosTManatee 11 років тому +1

    I'm confused. In another set of videos you mention that womens' attraction increases when the man's intention is not clear... ?

    • @nykterion7
      @nykterion7 11 місяців тому

      When emotions are not clear, not intentions to get together and hook up

  • @XLifeLongLearne
    @XLifeLongLearne 11 років тому

    Lol. Awesome video.

  • @kanjilion9946
    @kanjilion9946 7 років тому +2

    come on maan!!! when corey says that in his videos, it means you done fucked up. lol

  • @Zack-dv6rz
    @Zack-dv6rz Рік тому

    Why even bother with a cheater?

  • @1964corpa
    @1964corpa 3 роки тому +1

    I say if you want to wait on the third date for the kiss, wait, you're the man , you decide.

  • @brysoncaldwell916
    @brysoncaldwell916 9 років тому +6

    this guy is funny lmao....

  • @christophermccloud4509
    @christophermccloud4509 7 років тому +1

    pause at 330. the coach looks so stoned

  • @ShadyDogg
    @ShadyDogg 5 років тому +1

    So be clear in your intent but its a scientific fact that women are more attracted towards guys whose feelings are unclear.
    Which one is it?

    • @Historyrhymezz
      @Historyrhymezz 4 роки тому +3

      Lennard Biermann A man clear with intent: friendship or more? Hookup or more?
      but who remains mysterious as a being, as in we want to dig more into your soul

  • @franciscolima9690
    @franciscolima9690 5 років тому +2

    Triple H, Hang out, Have fun, Hook up

  • @corkey29
    @corkey29 5 років тому

    4:50 lmfao

  • @nicking6305
    @nicking6305 8 років тому

    i like this foul-mouthed frat boy dr phil. maybs ill get a 1/4 way through a vid one fine day

  • @rolandrickperry208
    @rolandrickperry208 3 роки тому +1

    This is four years old lol?

  • @austinnguyen9107
    @austinnguyen9107 3 роки тому +1

    8:14 kiss on cheek

    • @fargeeks
      @fargeeks Рік тому +1

      i did worse
      i hugged

  • @ab8893_
    @ab8893_ 11 років тому

    TOUGH MUDDER!!!

  • @discosourcedjs
    @discosourcedjs 6 років тому

    I took a girl out on a date, and end of the date I kissed her, then said, wanna come back to my place and put on some music and chill, and she says to me, 'so you wanna have sex?'.... I was like...errr... yes.... and then she just goes 'okay let's go'! Couldn't believe it...haha BAAMMM!!

  • @CarlosTManatee
    @CarlosTManatee 11 років тому +13

    oh, i see. unclear about feelings as in "does he want to be with me long-term" but not unclear about feelings as in "he wants me". i'm only halfway through the book so far. ;) (great work, btw)