Dear Friends, I welcome you to join me on this journey of truth, transparency and integrity. You can join me by watching the full series, reading the articles I share on the Truth Series website, reflecting on your own practices of these traits, and making changes in your own life if you desire to. We are in this together and I am here to support you on this journey. robingreenfield.org/truth Love, Robin
As a fellow autistic person, this makes so much sense. The masking, managing my own needs and balancing those of others, coming across in ways that don’t match my intentions… I relate because I have lived all of it too. It stinks to feel misunderstood/not seen, and also like we’re letting down others/not living in alignment with our values. I’m honestly not sure how long to expect until that comes around, but I’m looking forward to following your journey and continuing to learn from your experience. I think part of it is just who we are as autistic people, and the more we can be open with others about that, the more likely they are to be understanding. But of course plenty of it IS learnable and changeable behavior patterns! Looking ahead with hope!
This is the first time I've heard that you have Asperger's "On the Spectrum". It makes a great deal of sense to me why the techniques of "Non-Violent Communication" have become so important to you. You clearly are constantly striving to strengthen your emotional awareness, something that doesn't come easily to those "on the spectrum". You mentioned regretting assuming others should be able to do something because you could. It is also a truth that nearly every person who interacts with a person with Asperger's has the natural tendency to assume they have the same emotional awareness that they do in the moment. Even if a person is aware another has Asperger's, there is a need to constantly strive to adjust ones emotional expectations. I believe it would be more helpful, if those who might host you, or those who might work with you were made aware that you have Asperger's, because that isn't at all apparent from your public persona. Being aware will help with shifting ones emotional expectations. Brent is likely aware that you have Asperger's, and it likely helped him be more forgiving and it is great that you guys had that open and honest "Feedback" communication.
Hi Robin, thank you for the healing and connection you offer through this video. We have strengths and challenges in each of us, and we hope we will be judged by our strengths. However, the challenge of disrupted relationships as a result of our own shortcomings is a very significant one. I have the same problem, and it is part of my invisible disability. I encourage you to consider your challenges with relationships as a disability. You can't change who you are completely. Therefore in our communication, we must make adjustments to account for our own failings. These are like safety nets and guard rails that serve to protect us, and our colleagues from our failings. What I feel is missing from these videos are examples of what you could offer at your best. For example, I would like to hear you reflect on your past experiences with your own suggestions as to what you would have done differently. Phrase out what you would have said if you had your chance over again. That way we will get to see the side of you at your best, and you will get a chance to grow as you attempt that challenge of "role-playing" a better self.
A model any human who wishes to shead molt or transmorph to their next best self can follow. Ty for doing this work and taking us along for the ride. ur quite the specimen that i always thought I'd be just by being vulnerable and honest, but that can fail miserably when shared w people who r looking to cause pain instead of growing. I now have a renewed sense of hope to get beyond things i couldnt get past before. I hope ur finding liberation from shinning light in ur corners many try to hide. I always wished people could interact this way w eachother instead of strife to cast shadows to make things confusing to sherk personal responsibility.
It's interesting to hear about some of your weaknesses. I've watched you do things and thought "wow, that's so great and it would be really hard for me to do that." But I guess there are also things I do that would be hard for you. And I think the best thing for each of us would be to do what we feel capable of and not try to live up to someone else's standards or compare our successes to other people's successes.
9:02 Pain gets shared just like Joy and festivity 😊😊🙏🙏🙏 Forgiving for any interaction done earlier is not possible without understanding that our culture only gets us so 🙏🙏🙏far
In this Video and the last one, you look like you are Still carrying some heavy Burdens. Can see it in your Eyes. You still need a lot of Deep Healing,like many people on this earth.🙏🏻
Dear Friend, “perfectionism damages the soul”… We are all human. We are born to work on the challenges that being human entails. The families we are born to, give us various life lessons. Unfortunately some of those lessons are traumatic. Which takes a life time to heal. I’ve done some reading on the subject of death. ( I’m 71yrs old) According to some theories, be fore our soul, is allowed to progress to the next afterlife phase. We are given a “life review It sounds to me you are doing your “ life review “ Be fore you die. There is nothing wrong with trying to improve oneself. Again that is what we are here to do. Do it with love and understanding of yourself.❤ Love yourself. Enjoy life, Robin. ❤
I am interested in nonviolent communication 101 with Steve Torma. I didn't see it listed under the video, so I wondered if you could share that link? Thank you, Robin! I'm learning so much from this series.
It takes a lot of guts to open up about all this that is naturally so humane. Imagine how beautiful the human life experience could be if we all open up about our dark side that we keep so heavily guarded. I have been on the receiving end of condescendence. It would hurt badly and I would end up crying and then quite depressed for few days afterwards. For years I expected, hoped, insisted, dreamed that the other person has to change and felt disappointed and disempowered. In time I have learned that every experience we have comes to teach us something about ourselves and the other person function is just as a trigger for that learning to occur. And that learning and growth has empowered me. At this point I can see the other person with compassionate heart. That is, understanding that the other person behaviour doesn't have anything to do with me but all with how that person feels about him/herself. And with this approach I see the other person starts his/her healing as well. I think we don't come to this world to build a career/family and accumulate stuff. But we need our basic needs of food, clothing and shelter met so that we can dedicate our lives to inner growth, a growth that keeps evolving throughout our entire life till we leave this body. It is the school of life. Thanks for doing this Robin .... It is inspiring and encouraging 🙏
Hello Robin, I love these transparency vids. I’m so happy you’re doing this for the world to hear uncensored truth. We all need to improve on this but takes courage and willingness to be uncomfortable. Rooting for you and your journey. I am on the truth and transparency track with you too, but it’s been a process. These vids help ppl ask deep questions about intention, expectation, judgment and much more. Thank you. ❤
I don’t think you SHOULD feel bad about things that happened in your past, Robin. Regarding this I tell myself all the time no one is perfect and I’m someone who’s certainly not about to be. That said I really appreciated your post still.
It seems you have chosen to live in voluntary survival mode. I would expect you to have thin patience even though you depend on the kindness of strangers at times. My advice is to not live in total discomfort and then maybe you could approach people in a more relaxed fashion. ❤
take on someone else's guilt? other people's problems? robin - do you want to be a canonized saint?🤣 you are not a hundred dollar bill - for everyone to like you🤣
Aren't you still managing people though? Didn't you just release another letter of mourning a few months ago to people you have been hosting you? It looked like you were still are taking on too much and then apologizing for being rude and citing your workload as a reason again.
You do realise Robin that what you disclose in your transparancy videos involves others who have a right to privacy. If anything you disclose can be related to a person that hasnt given permission to sharing their data you can be in violation of the dataprotection laws. For example in your sexual past video you talked about very sensitive information , namely medical data. You mentioned a sexual partner with herpes. Did she consent to you sharing this very personal information? I guess not. These transparancy videos make me very uncomfortable. I dont see the point of them. The motivation behind them seems to be selfish: to absolve yourself and wash your hands. Talk about these matters with the people involved. Dont throw all this on the internet!!
if you take responsability for those actions, make change, offer to do public speaking for awareness. is that selfish motivation or a struggle to break free from patterns? the uncomfortableness has to do with our own insecurities. I went from fearing something was very wrong to feeling that the mourning letter was about continued problem solving. Pushing away doesn't solve anything but I understand your discomfort!
„Did she consent…” who is she? No names were ever mentioned, no description of the persons Robin interacted with. Do you really believe that any privacy data was breached? Also your comment about “selfish motivations” when Robin mentions in every second sentence that he invites the people he hurt to heal in every possible way? I do not see what you see and I wonder why you see what you see…perhaps a lot of healing needs to happen to you and me and all of us to see the Truth.
Dear Friends,
I welcome you to join me on this journey of truth, transparency and integrity.
You can join me by watching the full series, reading the articles I share on the Truth Series website, reflecting on your own practices of these traits, and making changes in your own life if you desire to.
We are in this together and I am here to support you on this journey.
robingreenfield.org/truth
Love,
Robin
As a fellow autistic person, this makes so much sense. The masking, managing my own needs and balancing those of others, coming across in ways that don’t match my intentions… I relate because I have lived all of it too. It stinks to feel misunderstood/not seen, and also like we’re letting down others/not living in alignment with our values. I’m honestly not sure how long to expect until that comes around, but I’m looking forward to following your journey and continuing to learn from your experience. I think part of it is just who we are as autistic people, and the more we can be open with others about that, the more likely they are to be understanding. But of course plenty of it IS learnable and changeable behavior patterns! Looking ahead with hope!
This is the first time I've heard that you have Asperger's "On the Spectrum". It makes a great deal of sense to me why the techniques of "Non-Violent Communication" have become so important to you. You clearly are constantly striving to strengthen your emotional awareness, something that doesn't come easily to those "on the spectrum". You mentioned regretting assuming others should be able to do something because you could. It is also a truth that nearly every person who interacts with a person with Asperger's has the natural tendency to assume they have the same emotional awareness that they do in the moment. Even if a person is aware another has Asperger's, there is a need to constantly strive to adjust ones emotional expectations. I believe it would be more helpful, if those who might host you, or those who might work with you were made aware that you have Asperger's, because that isn't at all apparent from your public persona. Being aware will help with shifting ones emotional expectations. Brent is likely aware that you have Asperger's, and it likely helped him be more forgiving and it is great that you guys had that open and honest "Feedback" communication.
This is a valuable response.
Everywhere you go, there YOU are...
Hi Robin, thank you for the healing and connection you offer through this video. We have strengths and challenges in each of us, and we hope we will be judged by our strengths. However, the challenge of disrupted relationships as a result of our own shortcomings is a very significant one. I have the same problem, and it is part of my invisible disability. I encourage you to consider your challenges with relationships as a disability. You can't change who you are completely. Therefore in our communication, we must make adjustments to account for our own failings. These are like safety nets and guard rails that serve to protect us, and our colleagues from our failings. What I feel is missing from these videos are examples of what you could offer at your best. For example, I would like to hear you reflect on your past experiences with your own suggestions as to what you would have done differently. Phrase out what you would have said if you had your chance over again. That way we will get to see the side of you at your best, and you will get a chance to grow as you attempt that challenge of "role-playing" a better self.
A model any human who wishes to shead molt or transmorph to their next best self can follow. Ty for doing this work and taking us along for the ride. ur quite the specimen that i always thought I'd be just by being vulnerable and honest, but that can fail miserably when shared w people who r looking to cause pain instead of growing. I now have a renewed sense of hope to get beyond things i couldnt get past before. I hope ur finding liberation from shinning light in ur corners many try to hide. I always wished people could interact this way w eachother instead of strife to cast shadows to make things confusing to sherk personal responsibility.
It's interesting to hear about some of your weaknesses. I've watched you do things and thought "wow, that's so great and it would be really hard for me to do that." But I guess there are also things I do that would be hard for you. And I think the best thing for each of us would be to do what we feel capable of and not try to live up to someone else's standards or compare our successes to other people's successes.
3:51 Way beyond saying sorry 😊😊 Being alive with Gratitude😊😊
Robin, you are the most emotionally mature and self-aware man with Asperger’s that I know of. I’m proud of you for the work you put in yourself
Lmao
Wait he has asbergers?? I just started watching, does he reveal that later in the video?
@@dbuc4671 yes, latter half of the video he mentions it
Mine word for this year is Transparency… thank you for sharing this information is going to help me a lot 🙏
9:02 Pain gets shared just like Joy and festivity 😊😊🙏🙏🙏
Forgiving for any interaction done earlier is not possible without understanding that our culture only gets us so 🙏🙏🙏far
In this Video and the last one, you look like you are Still carrying some heavy Burdens. Can see it in your Eyes. You still need a lot of Deep Healing,like many people on this earth.🙏🏻
Dear Friend, “perfectionism damages the soul”…
We are all human. We are born to work on the challenges that being human entails.
The families we are born to, give us various life lessons. Unfortunately some of those lessons are traumatic. Which takes a life time to heal.
I’ve done some reading on the subject of death. ( I’m 71yrs old)
According to some theories, be fore our soul, is allowed to progress to the next afterlife phase. We are given a “life review
It sounds to me you are doing your “ life review “
Be fore you die.
There is nothing wrong with trying to improve oneself. Again that is what we are here to do.
Do it with love and understanding of yourself.❤
Love yourself. Enjoy life, Robin. ❤
16:56 Really such level of transparency 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for sharing
“My heart is singing,” you're amazing! 🦋
13:31 Best way to live in peace rather than die and rest in peace.🙏🙏🙏
I am interested in nonviolent communication 101 with Steve Torma. I didn't see it listed under the video, so I wondered if you could share that link? Thank you, Robin! I'm learning so much from this series.
We love you Robin❤️ I appreciate your honesty
It takes a lot of guts to open up about all this that is naturally so humane. Imagine how beautiful the human life experience could be if we all open up about our dark side that we keep so heavily guarded. I have been on the receiving end of condescendence. It would hurt badly and I would end up crying and then quite depressed for few days afterwards. For years I expected, hoped, insisted, dreamed that the other person has to change and felt disappointed and disempowered. In time I have learned that every experience we have comes to teach us something about ourselves and the other person function is just as a trigger for that learning to occur. And that learning and growth has empowered me. At this point I can see the other person with compassionate heart. That is, understanding that the other person behaviour doesn't have anything to do with me but all with how that person feels about him/herself. And with this approach I see the other person starts his/her healing as well. I think we don't come to this world to build a career/family and accumulate stuff. But we need our basic needs of food, clothing and shelter met so that we can dedicate our lives to inner growth, a growth that keeps evolving throughout our entire life till we leave this body. It is the school of life. Thanks for doing this Robin .... It is inspiring and encouraging 🙏
both letters, just excellent
12:02 You are a northern light that will help a large section of humanity to heal.🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hello Robin, I love these transparency vids. I’m so happy you’re doing this for the world to hear uncensored truth. We all need to improve on this but takes courage and willingness to be uncomfortable. Rooting for you and your journey. I am on the truth and transparency track with you too, but it’s been a process. These vids help ppl ask deep questions about intention, expectation, judgment and much more. Thank you. ❤
I don’t think you SHOULD feel bad about things that happened in your past, Robin. Regarding this I tell myself all the time no one is perfect and I’m someone who’s certainly not about to be. That said I really appreciated your post still.
It seems you have chosen to live in voluntary survival mode. I would expect you to have thin patience even though you depend on the kindness of strangers at times. My advice is to not live in total discomfort and then maybe you could approach people in a more relaxed fashion. ❤
Second this!
I’m on the healing journey with you. Thank you for doing this💚 May we all heal and awaken…🙏🏻🌎🕊️✨
Ypu ate doing great
✌️
take on someone else's guilt?
other people's problems?
robin - do you want to be a canonized saint?🤣
you are not a hundred dollar bill - for everyone to like you🤣
Have you heard of BASHAR? Channeled by Daryl Anka. You’d love it!
You’ve come a long way!
Aren't you still managing people though? Didn't you just release another letter of mourning a few months ago to people you have been hosting you? It looked like you were still are taking on too much and then apologizing for being rude and citing your workload as a reason again.
You do realise Robin that what you disclose in your transparancy videos involves others who have a right to privacy. If anything you disclose can be related to a person that hasnt given permission to sharing their data you can be in violation of the dataprotection laws. For example in your sexual past video you talked about very sensitive information , namely medical data. You mentioned a sexual partner with herpes. Did she consent to you sharing this very personal information? I guess not. These transparancy videos make me very uncomfortable. I dont see the point of them. The motivation behind them seems to be selfish: to absolve yourself and wash your hands. Talk about these matters with the people involved. Dont throw all this on the internet!!
He didn't mention their names or details about who they are precisely.
The internet might be his only option.
if you take responsability for those actions, make change, offer to do public speaking for awareness. is that selfish motivation or a struggle to break free from patterns? the uncomfortableness has to do with our own insecurities. I went from fearing something was very wrong to feeling that the mourning letter was about continued problem solving. Pushing away doesn't solve anything but I understand your discomfort!
@ that doesnt matter, if the person involved is identifable, for example by mutual friends, its a breach of privacy and her trust
„Did she consent…” who is she? No names were ever mentioned, no description of the persons Robin interacted with. Do you really believe that any privacy data was breached? Also your comment about “selfish motivations” when Robin mentions in every second sentence that he invites the people he hurt to heal in every possible way? I do not see what you see and I wonder why you see what you see…perhaps a lot of healing needs to happen to you and me and all of us to see the Truth.
not arrested for rape or financial fraud yet? thank god. hope he's not cancelled for work place bullying this time. lol you have to laugh
i really suspect a lot of social media/whatever media personalities probably have a similar story, the common theme seems to be using people