living alone diaries: i quit my 9-5, going on a date, my at-home matcha latte recipe and mommy talks
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- Опубліковано 8 кві 2023
- hey boos 🫶🏾,
i'm finally pulling myself out of my sad girl funk and we're back with another video :)
I've been having a few emo weeks, but I think what I've really been loving is reconnecting with my momma and leaning on her a bit more and letting her into my world. If you follow me on IG/TikTok, then you've heard phone convos between me and my mom before, lolll. Well, she's back again and I just love the way she pours into me when I'm down bad or my lil' feelings are hurt. can you and your momma relate? comment below!
YES. I quit my 9-5 and i'm now a full-time creator (!!!) cannot believe I am living out my literal dream. the Universe is amazing. thank you all for your continued love and support to help get me here- I LOVE Y'ALL DEEP 💗. the sky is not the limit. keep dreaming and keep pursing. Don't stop!
YES. I went on a date. Omg, it's amazing what a few months can do lol. time is truly the healer and essence of everything. I did some chit chatting on what I envision my dating life to look like right now in this season of singleness for me and i'm curious to know where you are on your journey of singleness and dating, if you are?
i hope your week is going amazing! take care all ways, always. enjoy! xo ❣️
(make sure you watch in 4k, the quality is top tier 🤩)
links to some of my favs mentioned:
💖Matcha Latte recipe💖:
liketk.it/43hGr
this video is NOT sponsored, all opinions are my own.
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music: Soundcloud & Epidemic Sounds - Навчання та стиль
Came for the matcha stayed for the vibezzz
perioddddd! shout out to us Matcha loversssss! so happy you stayed for the good vibes 🥰❣️
Can your mom give us all that same pep talk??😫 she's definitely a REAL one & coming through with the words, I need to post her message on my page to listen to it for my own motivation lol
LOL. she’s such a real one. so happy her and i are reconnecting again and she still pours into me like we never fell off 🥹💕 and yes girl! post it, save it whatever you gotta do. i get it, this single life after a while gets tough AF! sending you big hugs!
@@AmaniRakeia thank you babes! I really needed that
@@AmaniRakeia stopping using profanity and put your trust in God, you're not happy because you're not Christian
Right can we get a feature from mom 😍
Your mom gave me so many NYC vibes. I was like yesss this is how we pep talk frfr!!!
Girl I literally quit my job 2 weeks ago to pursue my path.. the fear exists but I have faith in myself and the divine. Because as you said we wouldn’t have gotten the vision of it wasn’t for us.
It’s an emotional roller coaster but having a 9-5 that is not in alignment is also an emotional roller coaster.
omg! yessss big big shoutout to you! it’s not easy to drown out the opinions of others and the fear they might instill in you! you got this, i’m rooting for us both! congratulations, sis! ❤
@@AmaniRakeia CONGRATULATIONS TO US!!!
And that’s so true, I have people around me that believes that only hard work can reap benefits and I always tell them I’m doing heart work, I’m not forcing anything. I didn’t come here to be in survival mode, I came here to shake some shit up and experience ease..
@KHATANIA So Divine "heart" work over/vs hard work yess I'm loving this!! 💛
“ it’s ok to be lonely, just assuring yourself you’re not alone. “ needed to hear that.
so happy that resonated with you boo 🥹💕
Said the same thing to my 32yo! Baby, YOU are the prize! Know your worth! You don't have to settle! Wait on God to send the one who will support YOU with your goals!👏🏽👏🏽
Nah…your mom is definitely IT!!! Omg!! I love the way she uplifts and encourages you.🥹🙏🏾
awww, thank you soooo much! one thing about her is that she gonna keep it 100, while still being so gentle 🥹💕 love her!
Loool her mom gave her utter GARBAGE advice
This is what happens when you grow up without a dad. You grow up believing utter nonsense like "just be patient, the right man will come along" 😂
If she had a dad in her life she would have someone to actually give her a plan to get what she wants, instead of empty hollow words leaving her stuck at square one
@@AmaniRakeia سیجچ
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That momma talk is needed! I promise as a person who rushed it when I was your age and starting over at 31, she right! Take the time to just be, live, work, travel bc the right one will fall into your lap through. I dipped out when the bs was bsing lmao! It’s not worth it!
yessss, it was SO, SO needed! definitely working on my patience during this journey. sometimes it's hard, but other days i'm glad i don't have the added stress of an emotionally draining or toxic situationship. you're so right! 💗
Your mom is EVERYTHING!!!! EV-VER-YYYYYYY-THING OKAYYYYYYY!!!! Love her and love these affirmations for you!!! EVERYTHING she said🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
she truly issss! thank you so much boo! 💗
Loving all the support in the comments!! This is my sign as I’m constantly looking back at all the years I’ve been procrastinating on my calling and I makes me deeply sad. But I know it’s not over until our last breath so I’ll get my mind, spirit and body back on track and figure out the next step. For now thank you for the virtual motivation! 🎉 sending you hugs all the best lovely!! ❤
omg, me tooooo it's warming my heart 🥰. it's never too late! i think the most beautiful thing is that you've found what your passion is and now you're ready to create an action plan. once i get to the point of making that action plan i feel a huge weight lifted off my shoulder. i'm rooting for you my love!! 💗
The mom talk had me in tearsss!! Congratulations on starting your new journey ✨🎉
awww babes 🥺💞 thank you so, so much!!
The chat with you Mom was everything. I wish I grew up having talks like this with my Mom. Your Mom sounds so proud. She said I DID THAT. LOL😂. I love it.Your such a beautiful young lady. Giving Brandy Vibes. And everything your Mom was saying was pure facts. In due time everything you desire will come. I'm so glad to be able to see the journey. I think young people should discover themselves more before being tied down in a relationship. Travel, move a couple of times, and really learn what you like and dislike. I got pregnant young at 19 and did the single Mom thing so I didn't have the freedom to explore the world like I could have. And now that I have a adult kid I'm trying figure out what I like and dislike and reinvent somethings before God blesses me with that one. Enjoy the journey young lady with no meaningless soul ties. You're doing a great job Honey.
awww, thank you so much for your sweet words. this made me smile 💗 these past few years in LA alone have been such an interesting journey and chapter of discovering myself. there's so much more for me to explore and learn on my own and i'm excited for it all. it definitely does get lonely at times, but i know it'll all come together in due time.
@@AmaniRakeia you got this Boo.
@@ajiawillis7447 thank you so much!! 💗
thank you for including your convo with your mom!
felt like she was speaking to my soul, too!!!!!!
hiii babessss 💗 at this point, she's all of our mommas lollll love you moreeeeee!! thank you so much for watching 🥹
Your mom gave you the Best advice ever!💐 I love how she basically listen to you but then also gave you reassurance and confidence that it's not you. I also love the advice you gave,when you did your getting ready. That was so on point I'm glad I came across your page. I wish you the best in your new endeavors.
Today makes a month that i quit my 9 to 5 to be a stay at home wife and mom ❤ congratulations to you , it’s freeing
ahhh, omg!! congratulations to you, sis!! ❤❤ it’s so freeing!! i’m rooting for you!!
I hear the New York accent in momma. She reminds me so much of my childhood friend who’s passed 😢 and always given great advice but boy did she talk fast 😂 I miss her so much and wish I can hear her voice again
LOL yes, she's been in NY all her life. i'm so sorry to hear about your childhood friend 💗. sending you big, big hugs
I honestly feel the same regarding my dating life. Hearing your mother talk to you reminds me of my own mother. I legit started to tear up with you. Love this and you have a new subscriber!!!
yes girl! setting these boundaries for myself is as i'm re-opening myself up to dating again is so, so important! thank you so, so much for watching and being here! 💗
Congrats on taking this huge step towards being your true authentic self. That sponsorship was definitely a sign.
thank you so, so much Alexis!! 🥺💞 it wasn’t easy, but i did it any now i know that anything is possible. so grateful for that sponsorship 😭🙏🏾
My mum gives me these talks too! It’s hard but I think it’s just a reminder that something good is coming! Settling is not an option tbh
i love that!! and you're so right. settling is not at all a part of the plan! 💗 we got this!
aww man. 🥹 i discovered your channel about a week ago & i’ve been binge watching since then, from your first vlog to now & what a full circle moment, the self-employment, the 10k subbies & the date. ❤ wishing you all the best. really love your energy, your living alone diaries have been so therapeutic and an inspiration. love from South Africa!x
Your mom gave me such this warm feeling..I needed to hear this and I love your vlogs..🤍
had to spin the block real quick to peek into the archives. watching you affirm your belief and trust in yourself is so inspiring and the convo with your mom made me cry. much success to you ms. amani 💕
I will always be here for THE RIGHT, WRONG OR INDIFFRANCE. THATS WHAT MOMS DO. and you keep doing what's makes you happy! And your energy is definitely real and fun. I so love you! You love yourself more, and everything will fall into place.
Mom.
Love love.
Your BIGGEST FAN AND CHEERLEADER. WATCHING YOU TO GET TO THE FINISH LINE. ❤
i just discovered you and i love your energy!! i’ve been in a posting slump and you’ve given me motivation ❤ so happy you’re making the moves to be happy!
Moms was spittin that REAL 🤎
The best support is from our momma 💕💕💕 it just fuels us different 🥺 you got this!! Your mamma assures it!! 🙌🏽💫
Congratulations on your overall happiness of setting yourself free. This was such an encouraging watch 🥰
Hi Amani
So glad you have your mom to pick you up when you are down
Found you last week and I’ve watched almost All your videos and I love them ❤❤❤
hi my love!! omg, this made me smile 🥹💕 thank you so, so much!! so happy you’re here ❤
So excited for your next chapter! I hope u had fun on your date! I can't wait to hear the deets!🎉
awww, thank you sooo much! can’t wait to share the teeeaaaaa ❤
Mommy's advice was great!!! All in due timing!!!
I honestly don’t know how I stumbled across your vlogs last week but you have been so helpful while I’m in my single season….. I’m subscribed!! now I have to go watch all the other videos lol! ❤
Goodluck with this journey ma! 💗I wish you all the best!
I love you energy! I instantly subscribed 🫶🏾
your momma said what needed to be said! I really enjoyed this blog and I love your editing. Congrats on quitting your 9-5 and taking on the role as a full time creator 🎉🎉
she sure didddd!! thank you so so much for your kind words! i'm so excited for this new journey 💗
First off YAY to 10k, love the growth and there is more to come and I can't wait to see it. Love your mom's motivation I needed to hear that as well. ❤❤❤
we made it to 10k girrrrlll!!! omg! there's so much more to come and i'm so happy to have you here on this journey with me 💗
And I am here to stay.
You got this 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Can’t wait to hear about your date. From the looks of it, it looks like it went well 🤞🏾
can't wait to spill the teeaaaaa 👀
love your channel so much♥️sending you lots of love!!
aww, thank you so so much my love! i appreciate it! ❤
YOU ARE PERFECTLY ON THE RIGHT TRACK.. 🎉KEEP IT UP!
Your an inspiration! Even to me.. makes me want to be bold and open my life.. to help others ❤
if you settle you gonna get a bag of bs!!!! yesss mommaaaa - thats a momma!!!! Glad I came across your page again --- proud of you girl!!!!
I rewinded back 3X to hear your mom’s pep talk. I needed to hear that message. I’m gonna record that & put it on my phone 💯💯
replay it as many times as you need to!! 💗
Love your energy
Congratulations on all your new life endeavors 🎉and continue to celebrate all your victories even the small ones! 😊
thank you so, so much Carmen! 💗 i appreciate you!
Kudos to you and making that move, very brave, excited for your next steps!! I left my job of 5 years about a year ago, it was definitely a leap of faith, and it was the best thing. Love the pep talk from mom, 100% agree that you don't want to settle and lower your standards for companionship. Focusing on my career and leveling up in life has shown me fewer and fewer options though, so that's probably the other side of the coin. I've recently adopted the same approach to dating that you described, less pressure, more fun, enjoy!!
I love your content sis your so sweet and so in tuned with your emotions and great communicator being vulnerable is something I’m always working on love it sis 💜 from a fellow ♏️
awww, thank you so so much, sis! i swear vulnerability and communication is my super power loll. keep working at it! love you scorpio sissss 🦂💗
Your welcome love you to girl!! I’m hoping to be consistent in my content as well I see you quit your job sis that’s such a big move your going to receive all the blessings you deserve!
You are soo talented and I have been obsessed with your vlogs! I wish you the best on your new journey 🥰
Awww, this warmed my heart sooo much!! i appreciate you 💗
I literally love u little sis.. you remind me of me when I was your age. As a matter of fact.. YOU Represent 80% (if not more) of Black women!!
your mum made me cry too. She the best ❣
awww my heart 🥹💗
So so excited for you!!!
thank you so much! ❤❤❤
I've fallen in love with this channel 💗
awww, this made me smileeeeee thank you so so muchhhh! i really appreciate you for watching and being here 🥹
You got this❤ we are here for you 🎉
awww, thank you so so much!! i appreciate it 🥰
Awww you seem happier this video. Happy your happy stay blessed girl.
Awww, i'm so happy you can feel the energy! i feel like i'm gradually getting back to my joy and happiness 💗
I just want to say I tried Matcha for the first time yesterday b/c of you and now I see what the hype is about. I like it!! 🙌🏽
hey love, I'm new here :) i love your content. your mommy sounds so new york i love it! lol (im a bronx girl)
Congrats to you! Keep following your dreams.
I love your energy 😍 Subscribed!
Good to see you back babes! Hopefully, everything is okay! Love you lots! 💕😊
sooooo happy to be back! i've been down bad and saaaad. lol things are looking up though. thank you so much babes! love you too 💗
@@AmaniRakeia glad to hear it! I’ve been in the same boat! It’s going to be better! 😘
Congratulations on being a full time content creator!🎉 Can you maybe do a video on how to be come a full time content creator and what you have learnt along the way?❤️❤️ also just subscribed because I love you videos, they are so inspiring and I love your vibe✨!!
🎉Yayeee.. for everything you belive in..Continue to be bold Ms. SUNSHINE!
Your mom is amazing
love her downnn ❤
Congratulations on doing what makes you happy. That’s what life is about. New sub I really love your channel.
Hey girl how you doing i hope all is well and I am 26 also and been single for three years now and I will keep you in my prayers and god will send you the right person when it’s time like your mom said
This vlog was so fun! New subscriber
I love love love Matcha! I am going to order that Limited addition one before it sells out. Great video. Thank you for sharing!!!
i love matcha tooooo!! 💗 yes! i love the Nodoka blend! it's listed in the description for you :) or you can check Ippodo's website!
new subscriber
hiiiii maya gurrrrllll 🥰❣️ yes girl you for this!! the time will come a lot sooner than you think! don’t stop pursuing! ✨ i’m rooting for you!!
Beautifully said I agree and understand 💯 congratulations on your journey God has your back trust and believe
thank you so, so much! going to keep the faith on this new journey! 💗
I am beyond proud of you Amani!! All your dreams are coming true, you are inspiring me! ❤ also can your mom call me because I needed that same pep talk😊!
I'm here for it!! Let's get those videos and brands going and make that $$$!!
yaaassss! it’s time to get it going!! ❤
I aint never clicked so fast !!!!! im a new subscriber and I love it here !
yayyyy! thank you so much for watching 🥰💕
I’ve never tried Matcha 🍵 but this makes me want to try it for sure ! Looks delicious
girrrrlll!! you have to try matcha! when i first tried matcha it was at starbucks and i would order the mango dragon fruit lemonade or strawberry acai lemonade and add 2-3 scoops of matcha in it. it was the perfecccct drink and a great way to get used to the taste of matcha.
Girl why are you living my life lol even the talks with your mom is how mine be going with mine 😂 so here for this content
Whoever you were on the phone with is a real one 👏🏾
hehe that was my mom 🥰💕
❤ I needed that talk so tell her I said thanks vlog momma 😂
Hey 💗. I hope you’re doing well. You made my day by posting a video. 😊
omg, hi Brit baby!! 💗💗💗 i am doing a bit better thank you for your well wishes. your comment just made me smile 🥹. i hope you enjoy!
yasss the video was right on time girl. omg, I want to know how your date went. now I have to wait 😢 I love this for you though!…I’m patiently waiting on my date lol
Keep going! 🫶🏽
Love it for you! 🥺
thank you soooo much my love 🥰
I like the full video.😁
#1#LOVE LOVE LOVE #LOVE THIS ONE#LOVE IT
Congrats on becoming a full time Creator!
thank you so so much!! 🥰
Hey sisss! Lovely vlog, per usual! You looked so good for your date but not you leaving us hanging with the tea 😂💕
Oh and congrats on taking the leap and putting you first! 🎉
hey sis!! thank you so, so much! you know i had to leave y'all with just a little taste 😉 lollll. i'm so excited for this new chapter!!
I’m going to replay that phone call whenever I’m feeling down.
Hi there @Amani Rakeia . I just found your channel and I'm here for it. May I ask where you got the teapot ?
Hi
Yes be patient trust me I know .. I’m married and I’m not happy at all girl ..
If I had to do it over i would’ve waited.. your season is coming ..
yes i love watching your UA-cam channel you’re funny and beautiful.
🫶🏾peace and love
You go woman! Get that matcha DANCE on....
Love your heart 🥹
Oh and Congrats! You did your big one! You will be a success! I did the same thing in October 2022! Best decision ever!
thank you so, soooo much! 💗 OMG huge congrats and shout out to youuuu!! you deserve!
Really enjoyed the Vlog honeyyy
yay!! so happy to hear! thank you so much for watching my love 💗
@@AmaniRakeia no problem! 🖤
Yes to boundaries. And good luck, sis. I met my now husband on Hinge. Best decision I ever made even though it took my best friend a while to convince me to join me 😂
boundaries are important! still working through learning how to stand firm on them, but it's a process. i loveeeee this for you!! you gotta tell me more about your hinge experience when meeting hubby! 💗
Congratulations 🎉
thank you so much 😊❤
1. Mom was talking to us both😭 I felt every single thing she said! Love that.
2. Where is your tye die hoodie from?? It’s so cute!
she sure waaassss a MESSAGE!! LOL and my hoodie is from this brand called Neoity. i think they have an IG and wesbite too! i ended up getting it from the Melrose trading post here in LA.
The way I can relate with dating ❤
so happy to hear we're on the same wavelength 🥰
Keep your head up dear, I’m in the same boat as you are but trust me I’ve been talking to my lord and savior to keep me afloat, keep my mental health in order and just as your mother said keep praying God will send the right person along. I know waiting is hard and it gets lonely but it will happen on Gods time and not our own timing.
thank you so much for your kind words my love. it truly means a lot, we got this!
Girl I wanna live the same way! I’m battling waking up w such stress and uneasiness of the day cause this job is not it for me ugh
girrrrrl, i could not keep doing and living that lifestyle any longer. it wasn't worth it. sending you big hugs on your journey babes 💗
Fuuuuuùuu.. these non since boys.. You will be good. This is your time to Grow as the Woman u are intended to be! ❤
I seen Matcha latte recipe in the title - so had to watch being that I have all the ingredients and none of the know how...lol. Watched entire video and was like yes mama - feed her spirit feed her spirit!
Your mom pep talk gotta get put on the imaginary album 😭🫶🏾
Shout out to MOMS ❤️
biggg shout out to herrrrr ❤
Your mom seems SUPER cool!
Be careful meeting on dating apps! Just make sure to meet in a well lit PUBLIC place and NEVER go to their house and don't invite them to yours for MONTHSSSSS! (I know you know all of this already) you're a smart, intelligent young lady! Just speaking to you as if you were my child. But I'm happy you went on a date, can't wait to hear the details! From the expression on your face in the closing, it was a good one!
she's pretty cool! lolll and yes, of course! thank you so much for your well wishes and advice. can't wait to share how it all went 🥰💗
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i've discovered your channel today, subscribed and i'm watching all the videos....
aw! thank you so much! so happy you’re here 😊 thank you for watching ❤
“If you settle for anything, you gonna end up with a bag of BS!” 😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨
Your mom sounds like she’s from jersey🤔 love her pep talk and energy 🥰
LOL, she's from New York!