Perfectionist mindset is running you RAGGED

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  • Опубліковано 2 лют 2025

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  • @christyb7455
    @christyb7455 2 місяці тому +27

    I don’t know where you’ve been all my life but I found you today and I am THRILLED ❤❤

    • @DaniRenae
      @DaniRenae  2 місяці тому +3

      AWHHH welcome!!!

  • @galiabotello9812
    @galiabotello9812 2 місяці тому +5

    I need to 👂 this!!!! 🙌🏻

  • @sheesegamerz2434
    @sheesegamerz2434 Місяць тому +1

    😢❤ You are so right!!

  • @nikirrae8495
    @nikirrae8495 2 місяці тому +12

    I hope you aren’t getting over whelmed with comments about this. These people know DAMN WELL they aren’t deep cleaning their house every night lol. They just aren’t posting it on the internet so they feel they can criticize. It’s crazy. Real people know that’s not how it works.

  • @stephaniestoffels9558
    @stephaniestoffels9558 2 місяці тому +8

    I agree 100! I’m a single momma of a 2 yr old with a full time job. I clean maybe 3 days a week. I don’t have time to work 40 hrs and be the only person at home and cook and do laundry. And I do all yard work, mow etc.

  • @TravelinRosy2025
    @TravelinRosy2025 2 місяці тому +6

    Sleep is important yesss❤

  • @Lauryncarnley93
    @Lauryncarnley93 2 місяці тому +6

    I feel like it’s also a generational thing we are raised by our mamas who are raised by our grandma’s who taught them that cleanliness was next to godliness and it showed how much you have a woman you were by how well organized and clean your home is

  • @jen-web
    @jen-web 2 місяці тому +5

    More vlog & message type vids plz! Your sassy personality is absolutely charming! ❤❤❤

  • @makenasasmr9437
    @makenasasmr9437 2 місяці тому +5

    👏 queen Dani!

  • @Scott_From_Canada
    @Scott_From_Canada 2 місяці тому +4

    It’s nice to see others talking about this. My husband and I both work full time and we both came home from working 10+ hours just to get the babe in bed and sit like zombies. I try to clean but last night we got in bed early and just relaxed, clean house be damned lol. It was nice 😅

  • @Kreinhardtfam
    @Kreinhardtfam 2 місяці тому +4

    You are so right Dani! We push ourselves so much anymore. It is necessary to take time a couple times a week or 20-30 minutes once or twice a day to sit and do something you love. Grow something, read something, craft something, draw something, indulge in a show you love. You will find yourself scrolling less, less stressed and a bit more productive than you thought.

  • @alangiles776
    @alangiles776 2 місяці тому +3

    Hi Danielle 🙂
    It's difficult to keep everything clean when you have pets. I have cats 🐈 and they jump up on the work tops constantly. ❤

  • @lemonlime2054
    @lemonlime2054 2 місяці тому +2

    Missed your car videos!

  • @EmmiIgnatius
    @EmmiIgnatius 2 місяці тому +4

    Words of wisdom, girl! 💪

  • @taylorvandelay682
    @taylorvandelay682 2 місяці тому +2

    Yessss I’ve missed your vlogs! I originally found you from your ASMR but now I find these vlogs even MORE relaxing haha

  • @cayleighsteury2730
    @cayleighsteury2730 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for this Dani! ❤ really needed this today!

    • @DaniRenae
      @DaniRenae  2 місяці тому +1

      I am glad this message found you at the right time 💖

  • @yardenrice
    @yardenrice 2 місяці тому +4

    I love and appreciate your videos. Thank you. ❤

    • @DaniRenae
      @DaniRenae  2 місяці тому +2

      Glad you like them! Thank you 💖💖💖

  • @MelissaReist
    @MelissaReist Місяць тому

    I really needed to hear this. Thank you 💕💕🫶

  • @mandydouglass1606
    @mandydouglass1606 2 місяці тому +2

    All good advice!

  • @Mamalives
    @Mamalives 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you

  • @frantajansky4693
    @frantajansky4693 2 місяці тому +1

    Truths. And you work so hard I know this from your awesome shorts. I love your videos. Greetings from Czech republic 💘💘💘🫂

    • @DaniRenae
      @DaniRenae  2 місяці тому +2

      Hi friend!!! 💖💖

  • @PSL_Lover2024
    @PSL_Lover2024 4 дні тому

    I'm driving myself crazy lately putting things away and organizing. I came from a hoarder household and I have an 11 month old. It's too much. I have to wash all the bottles, sweep, vacuum, put things away. It's a lot! I can't even always cook dinner bc it's just too much. I could never be a sahm!!!!!! I would obsess too much over everything. We're always constantly moving. I recently bought a new couch and my mom is retired and ask me if I'm watching the news. I told her NO! 🚫 I haven't even been able to sit on my couch. My sister and husband sit more on my couch than I do. I will be taking one night and doing a bath and relaxing and painting my nails. Doing a face mask and relaxing. My eye has been twitching since Christmas. It's too much!!!!!!

  • @AdrianaPerez-r4y
    @AdrianaPerez-r4y 2 місяці тому +3

    Hi Mrs Dani nd I’m a new subscriber

    • @DaniRenae
      @DaniRenae  2 місяці тому +1

      Welcome!!! 💖💖💖💖

    • @AdrianaPerez-r4y
      @AdrianaPerez-r4y 2 місяці тому +1

      @ yes ma’am I was just going through my videos and I happen to see yours and I really like how you talk about reality

    • @AdrianaPerez-r4y
      @AdrianaPerez-r4y 2 місяці тому +1

      @ thank you

    • @AdrianaPerez-r4y
      @AdrianaPerez-r4y 2 місяці тому

      Ur welcome

  • @YZEtc
    @YZEtc 2 місяці тому

    Freedom of choice is what you got, Dani.🙂

  • @ZackyYabes
    @ZackyYabes 2 місяці тому +1

    Great video! Nice

  • @rachiedempfit
    @rachiedempfit 2 місяці тому

    I can’t go to bed with a mess cause that’s just how my mom always did it. A lottttt of my habits come from what she always does. My husband doesn’t understand why I have to clean up before bed 😂

  • @connie_daisy
    @connie_daisy 2 місяці тому

    4:13 😂

  • @TravelinRosy2025
    @TravelinRosy2025 2 місяці тому +1

    Girl i grew up italian home its sacrilege but i agree with u not my mom lol

  • @TravelinRosy2025
    @TravelinRosy2025 2 місяці тому

    Im.a perfectionist n i need to stop u ryt ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @TravelinRosy2025
    @TravelinRosy2025 2 місяці тому

    Im kinda same way i meed a clean house but im learning

  • @TravelinRosy2025
    @TravelinRosy2025 2 місяці тому

    U ryt

  • @TravelinRosy2025
    @TravelinRosy2025 2 місяці тому

    I may not super clean but i hate clutterr so as long as i hv no clutter i can skip vacuum n other shit

  • @TravelinRosy2025
    @TravelinRosy2025 2 місяці тому

    Im not q mom but i comment u good 4u❤

  • @BeYOUtifulBooks
    @BeYOUtifulBooks 2 місяці тому +1

    So true 🫶🏻the burnout is real!

  • @MaddieBullock
    @MaddieBullock 2 місяці тому +1

    Perfectionism sucks so much 🫠