The One With Martha Caldwell

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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 245

  • @jilliebeanisnotmylover
    @jilliebeanisnotmylover 4 місяці тому +476

    Thank you for sharing so much about your mom with us, Bob. We feel so connected to you because of how much you share. It's so clear how the love she poured into you comes through, and I hope you're able to cherish the memories for the rest of your days 💕💕

  • @phil9711
    @phil9711 Рік тому +138

    Ms. Caldwell not liking that mic in her face took me all the way out. Definitely something my mother would do. “Boy get that mic out of my face!”

  • @boybriar
    @boybriar 4 місяці тому +71

    The One With Martha Caldwell was always an episode of the podcast I would go back and rewatch, her spirit and humour was everything. Rest in peace.

  • @adamtravis9380
    @adamtravis9380 Рік тому +90

    She said she chose the name based on wherever her finger landed in the book… truly the winner of the idgaf wars

  • @AleshiaWilliams-s2s
    @AleshiaWilliams-s2s 4 місяці тому +10

    Just here to leave my condolences and love.

  • @puff3136
    @puff3136 4 місяці тому +5

    You can tell Bob’s mother was such a kind, fun and wise person. My condolences to Bob

  • @upgradedu
    @upgradedu 4 місяці тому +4

    Bob you are so lucky to have had a Mom as amazing as Martha Caldwell. We are all better for having experienced her through you. ✨💟💐

  • @javk8673
    @javk8673 4 місяці тому +10

    RIP Miss Martha 😞 . Sending love and support , I've lost my mother and know the pain 😢 . I'm sorry for your loss

  • @anderson.ribeiro
    @anderson.ribeiro 4 місяці тому +3

    Such a cute episode! Loooove miss Martha!

  • @canopus5178
    @canopus5178 4 місяці тому +1

    Rest in peace 🤍 a legendary mother 🤍🤍🤍

  • @NefariousWTF
    @NefariousWTF Рік тому +5

    Bob PLEASE 🙏 do a family exclusive. It'll almost be like a We're Here episode since you're from a small town in GA

  • @mikaally8111
    @mikaally8111 4 місяці тому +2

    This broke my heart😢

  • @snazzylicous8974
    @snazzylicous8974 Рік тому +24

    Monét the cusp of gen z is if you are 27 you missed it hun 😂

  • @thesaucysassy
    @thesaucysassy Рік тому +12

    Bob mocking trinity 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Babyspice39
    @Babyspice39 4 місяці тому +4

    A beautiful Soul ❤

  • @LLB911
    @LLB911 4 місяці тому

    Sending my condolences Bob 🥰

  • @justinmcl
    @justinmcl Рік тому +9

    AMAIZNG EPISODE

  • @FiODBD
    @FiODBD 4 місяці тому

    Bob we love your mom so much😘

  • @steverz91
    @steverz91 4 місяці тому

    Much love for Bob ❤❤❤

  • @onY0urmark
    @onY0urmark 11 місяців тому

    This was so lovely i always wished i'd had a bigger family and it's nice to see the love. would be glad to meet the aunts and uncles

  • @blakehawkes9597
    @blakehawkes9597 4 місяці тому

    Re-visiting this, I comment this a lot but I lost my mom and I am also reeling, it touched my heart to hear Martha say she loves the name Blake, my name given by my adoptive mother, and my middle name is Christopher :) given by my biological mother love you Bob

  • @kaylagurl98
    @kaylagurl98 Рік тому +1

    We had PAL in Philly too Monét!! I remember them in the summer time😂

  • @katwebbxo
    @katwebbxo 4 місяці тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @handicatsuniverse7257
    @handicatsuniverse7257 4 місяці тому

    Enjoyed this video hahaha

  • @LintonF1
    @LintonF1 Рік тому

    1:09:16 I’m dyinggggg 😂

  • @FireEmblemElitist
    @FireEmblemElitist 4 місяці тому

    12:12 what did Monet think she said?

  • @javk8673
    @javk8673 4 місяці тому

    I have a Samsung phone not an android phone..... Bob thats an android. They are referring to the OS

  • @callher6
    @callher6 4 місяці тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @tylerwolff5104
    @tylerwolff5104 4 місяці тому +129

    For everyone sending well wishes in the comment section, please remember to address Martha by her first name or Ms.Caldwell. She specified in the past that Ms.Martha wasn’t something she liked to be addressed as.
    Aside from that, so much love to Bob and their family. We were so lucky that Bob shared Martha with us and, as someone who had a difficult relationship with my mother, seeing the beautiful relationship Bob and Martha had and all the beautiful qualities she imparted onto Bob was truly special. You could always tell how important Martha was to Bob and it was so heartwarming to see.

  • @leablade
    @leablade Рік тому +162

    I don't think monet understands how much I, a broke grad student, would pay for a sweet as Saint Lucia t-shirt/merch of any kind

    • @OpulentPomegranate
      @OpulentPomegranate Рік тому +6

      As another broke grad student please say it again so they can hear you!! It’s a need at this point!! 😩

    • @OccamsSledgehammer
      @OccamsSledgehammer 4 місяці тому +1

      I’d buy at least 1

  • @mitzigonzalez3729
    @mitzigonzalez3729 4 місяці тому +74

    The first minute starting strong with that pic of Moreka 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @TabancaQueen
    @TabancaQueen 4 місяці тому +70

    Long live Ms. Martha Caldwell!!!! The beauty, the brains and the absolute intelligent brawn of a beautiful woman.♥️🤎♥️🤎

  • @RylandTucker
    @RylandTucker Рік тому +348

    Monet…. How many times does Gen Z have to sit you down to have this talk?

    • @happyblacklegends
      @happyblacklegends Рік тому +98

      How many times do we have to teach you this lesson old man?! 😂😭🫧🧽🪸🍍🐟🌊🤙

    • @Maria-y
      @Maria-y Рік тому +54

      If he was born in 1995 I would understand why he thought maybe he was both but he’s from 1990. 😂

    • @NoahBroughton
      @NoahBroughton Рік тому +8

      @@happyblacklegends thank you for your service. This was the comment I came for haha.

    • @isabelle9548
      @isabelle9548 4 місяці тому +22

      as if she doesnt miss the cut off by like 7 yrs lol

    • @youwatts
      @youwatts 4 місяці тому +3

      Excited to see Bob reference this comment with another: by the way, the fans GATHERED you about that!

  • @KarinKamryn
    @KarinKamryn Рік тому +71

    Your mom is a sweetheart. And she was right, Monet was tired lol.
    “That’s knock-kneed love” 💀

  • @TheInternetsFairy
    @TheInternetsFairy 4 місяці тому +52

    Truly MOTHER!!! Such a kind soul 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @MaryJoMamaJojo
    @MaryJoMamaJojo Рік тому +34

    I was so happy to see Bob's mom was going to be on the podcast! We have so much in common it's like seeing an old friend... both single moms raising 2 sons born in the 80s in GA while working long hours and both dealing with a disability. She's so fun and it's so obvious how much she and Bob love each other❤️❤️

  • @llcooljay520
    @llcooljay520 4 місяці тому +17

    Oh no, I didn’t realize Martha Caldwell had passed. Devastating. I’m so sorry to hear this, Bob, and family.

  • @mistahkrazy805
    @mistahkrazy805 4 місяці тому +65

    Rest in Paradise Ms. Caldwell.
    I lost my grandmother today, at 3pm. Getting the call interrupted the podcast. My grandmother was one of the most important female figures in my life. I will forever miss her, but I will never forget the lessons, the laughs, and the love she gave me. I want to see my mom now.
    I love you Bobby, I know Grandpa is there with you on your way.

    • @shawnalynn5198
      @shawnalynn5198 4 місяці тому +1

      I'm sorry for your loss 💔

    • @mnj4621
      @mnj4621 4 місяці тому +1

      Sending you lots of love 🤍

    • @cottagecorefrog
      @cottagecorefrog 4 місяці тому +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss ❤

  • @ludicojo
    @ludicojo Рік тому +42

    Apparently it’s Colleen vs the Caldwells lmao

  • @Rai_S82
    @Rai_S82 Рік тому +16

    Bob, I LOVED that video of you and your mum watching WAP together, but didn't it get removed?! I tried to watch it recently and I seem to remember there being a problem...
    I will never forget her saying "They got one thing right- there's some hoes in this house." 🤣🤣

  • @tinaortiz7871
    @tinaortiz7871 4 місяці тому +145

    We all love Miss Martha, So sorry for your loss, Thank you for sharing her with us.

  • @eboneseese2534
    @eboneseese2534 4 місяці тому +11

    ❤️ miss martha

  • @Jacob42086
    @Jacob42086 4 місяці тому +5

    How are these from 9 months ago??

    • @Acidus
      @Acidus 4 місяці тому +2

      This is the ad-free version that was originally uploaded last summer for Patreon subscribers. Unlisted videos that have never been public get a new date when it's published to the public. Bob's special Woke Man in a Dress was also Patreon-exclusive for quite a few months.

  • @sydrose7589
    @sydrose7589 4 місяці тому +12

    bob is so much of his mother, his face, his mannerisms, the way they both were just pickin monet apart 😂 i love her sm! rest in peace miss caldwell and bob im so sorry for your loss 💜 thank u guys for sharing this with us

  • @katrinamartinez1144
    @katrinamartinez1144 Рік тому +29

    Not Monet saying "smuggling you" but it was smothering lol

  • @Jboops
    @Jboops Рік тому +23

    Hearing Moné talk about breadfruit and dasheen made me so happy 🇩🇲🇩🇲🇩🇲 sa ka fète Moné from your sister island! 🫶🏾

    • @nicolebertrand4453
      @nicolebertrand4453 4 місяці тому

      Another Dominican here? 🇩🇲🇩🇲🇩🇲🇩🇲🇩🇲 love Monet and Bob 💓

    • @Himmel.Himmel
      @Himmel.Himmel 3 місяці тому

      Jamaican here, I love me some breadfruit and dasheen, Caribbeans up!

  • @starring-night4223
    @starring-night4223 Рік тому +12

    This episode reminded me so much of my late mother- Bob, your mom is so sweet and endearing! Thank you for sharing this with us and with me.. It put a huge smile on my face and helped me remember all the good times I use to have with my mom. Love you guys :)

  • @danielroberts9056
    @danielroberts9056 4 місяці тому +15

    Thank you Ms Martha Caldwell for being a light in this world and raising such an incredible icon who adds so much joy to our lives. Rest in Power Martha ❤

  • @VAMPYRICBASSIST
    @VAMPYRICBASSIST 4 місяці тому +9

    🙏Thank you Martha Caldwell for going through everything you did, and for sharing your son's talents with us. Martha, you indirectly, saved thousands, maybe millions of people from their sadness or other emotional issues. Bob has helped many of us and we owe that to Mrs. Martha. Rest in Peace and Power!😭🙏💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @Dalepixels
    @Dalepixels Рік тому +12

    Youre a darn gem Ms Caldwell ❤
    Edit to capitalize the C in Caldwell

  • @naomijoyturner
    @naomijoyturner Рік тому +11

    i loooove martha & bob’s relationship :) it kills me when monet gaslights them and they look at mo w/ the same deadpan “😐😐”

  • @rjh1290
    @rjh1290 Рік тому +36

    Ms. Martha confidently saying "yes" when Bob said she tries to trick him into meeting fans absolutely killed me lmao

  • @charmrussell7629
    @charmrussell7629 Рік тому +14

    Church’s chicken taste like Popeyes is blasphemy 😂🤣

  • @yvonne3902
    @yvonne3902 Рік тому +10

    rising up to defend my adhd sister, i be looking at myself on video calls too 😭😭

  • @JS-tj4iw
    @JS-tj4iw Рік тому +6

    49:40 Not me relating to the rat story. When I was 10 my family used the sticky traps and then my brother killed the rat with a pocketknife and it just squeaked/squealed 😵‍💫

  • @Theye101499
    @Theye101499 Рік тому +10

    Churches chicken is so good, it's a little greasy, but it's crispy and the sides are so delicious

  • @happyblacklegends
    @happyblacklegends Рік тому +9

    Martha 😮❤ Mizz The Drag Queen?! 🥹🫣🤌🏿

  • @Themiscyrax
    @Themiscyrax 4 місяці тому +16

    When Bob was guest hosting the Trixie and Katya show, he said his mom would refer to his dog Grizzly as his brother 😂
    Full quote: "When I was a kid, my mom just called my dog my brother. Walk your brother, your brother is hungry, feed your brother." RIP Miss Martha

  • @user00616
    @user00616 4 місяці тому +10

    Martha, you’re a legend. 🥺🙏🏻🤍

  • @abe924fly
    @abe924fly Рік тому +12

    MAMA CALDWELL

  • @ericdwhitmorec
    @ericdwhitmorec 4 місяці тому +2

    "I better not see you on Drag Race Again unless you are replacing RuPaul.". She said they Don't Know How to Treat You! And Drag Race Caribbean is coming

  • @JoseAlvarez-bj2cm
    @JoseAlvarez-bj2cm 4 місяці тому +5

    LONG LIVE MARTHA CALDWELL
    LONG LIVE MARTHA CALDWELL
    LONG LIVE MARTHA CALDWELL

  • @MSMETALBABY
    @MSMETALBABY 4 місяці тому +7

    That's such a beautiful picture of her. Thank you Bob, for sharing your family with us. 💖💖

  • @Abigail.444
    @Abigail.444 4 місяці тому +5

    Your mom is so real about that cat story Bob!🤣 I’m scared of bugs and if there was like a bug on the front door to leave to work I’d also be an hour late!🤣
    Edit: I just read the comments and I’m so sorry for your loss! From just this video alone I gathered that she is such a sweet, kind maybe a little stern but with love and funny woman. Bless her soul and know that all of us are with you in spirit Bob. Thank you for sharing this and her with us.❤️🕊️

  • @yvonne3902
    @yvonne3902 Рік тому +8

    i love when sneaky lil boyfrien gets on camera!!! we love you jacob!!!

  • @emstenn
    @emstenn Рік тому +11

    The ending killed me 😂 we are so blessed to have this episode 👏

  • @neilm409
    @neilm409 4 місяці тому +3

    Rest in peace Martha❤️ You will be greatly missed

  • @Quammii
    @Quammii Рік тому +8

    Cmon fine ass uncle stevie!!

  • @fancyboi82
    @fancyboi82 4 місяці тому +9

    Rest in Power Martha Caldwell 🥺💕

  • @mondaynightballroom20
    @mondaynightballroom20 4 місяці тому +24

    It was so heartbreaking to hear about Martha's passing, and then doubly sad to think about how Bob must be feeling. There was so much love and care between them, and such an obvious fondness, which means Bob has lost not only a parent and one of life's guideposts but also a friend. What a wonderful example of what a parent-child relationship could be, and thank you for sharing it.

  • @rpdrthundercloud
    @rpdrthundercloud 4 місяці тому +7

    May she be in peace now, I enjoed all the moments you talked about her, and the episode with her ❤

  • @aneesahtimbo6803
    @aneesahtimbo6803 4 місяці тому +4

    rest in peace martha

  • @willglover418
    @willglover418 4 місяці тому +7

    A true star. May she rest peacefully.

  • @itsfrankthedank1184
    @itsfrankthedank1184 4 місяці тому +6

    Rest in Power Miss Martha ❤️❤️❤️

  • @SkrinkLaDa
    @SkrinkLaDa 4 місяці тому +19

    Rest in peace, Ms Martha. Thank you for sharing yourself with us and for raising such an absolutely amazing child. You'll remain in the memories of thousands of people.

  • @shantel7434
    @shantel7434 4 місяці тому +5

    rest easy beautiful ❤ my heart goes out to you bob

  • @BritneyAlea
    @BritneyAlea 4 місяці тому +5

    Sorry for your loss Bob! Your mom seemed like such a pure spirit! ❤🕊️

  • @queenhowell3164
    @queenhowell3164 4 місяці тому +5

    “Knock knee’d at that” I’m a New Yorker born and raised but boy oh boy do I love little southern gems like that! Colloquial phrases ❤❤❤

  • @isabellakelley1205
    @isabellakelley1205 Рік тому +6

    Feed the children we want Sweet as St Lucia

  • @phil9711
    @phil9711 Рік тому +15

    Not Bob snitching on his brother 😂😂😂

    • @MaryJoMamaJojo
      @MaryJoMamaJojo Рік тому +3

      That reminded me of my sons! They are in their 30s and still surprise me with childhood stories about each other. I also got told recently about a college story that made me glad I didn't know about it at the time!

  • @hikarireacts3815
    @hikarireacts3815 4 місяці тому +4

    Rest in Power Ms. Martha, you will surely be missed. My condolences to Bob and his family and also Monét. A ball of sunshine with stories for the ages left behind🕊❤️🕊❤️🕊

  • @123lobos
    @123lobos Рік тому +6

    Haven’t even watched the whole thing yet but this will probably be my favorite ❤

  • @Owlettproductions
    @Owlettproductions 4 місяці тому +3

    ROBERTA!!! Sending you much much love. Thank you for sharing your lovely mother with us. What she has put into this world not only will be with you forever but has touched us all!! 🖤

  • @jaythescientistt
    @jaythescientistt 4 місяці тому +3

    rip ms. caldwell. hope you’re doing okay, bob. 💕

  • @natashaharris4042
    @natashaharris4042 4 місяці тому +2

    By far one of the best episodes and I listen to almost all of them. Monet, when can we meet your fam?

  • @residentsweetie
    @residentsweetie Рік тому +4

    Jacob looking cuuuuute 😏

  • @FuzzyBSMcgee
    @FuzzyBSMcgee Рік тому +4

    Omfg bob and I really have so many similarities. I was also the younger brother being smother lmao excepted our birthdays our opposite ends of the same months. My old brother is Jan. 24th & I’m June 3rd

  • @JaneticsInk
    @JaneticsInk Рік тому +3

    I had 19aunts and uncles. 12 and 7. #trinisbelike🇹🇹

  • @mikeindiamikeindia4109
    @mikeindiamikeindia4109 Рік тому +7

    You Favor Her Bob ❤

  • @davidmedina4058
    @davidmedina4058 4 місяці тому +3

    Rest In Power Martha Caldwell ♥️ Thank you for sharing your amazing momma with us Bob 🕊

  • @miizzsarahdee
    @miizzsarahdee 4 місяці тому +3

    RIP Ms. Caldwell ❤

  • @christyallen8816
    @christyallen8816 4 місяці тому +2

    RIP Martha Caldwell

  • @jettsmith7
    @jettsmith7 4 місяці тому +1

    "You know white people, black people, mixed people, people of all Reece's pieces, hairstyles"--Rihanna

  • @yowzahful
    @yowzahful 4 місяці тому +2

    Rip Miss Caldwell 🙏 😢 my thoughts are with you and your family Bob ❤

  • @rachelwindsor1736
    @rachelwindsor1736 4 місяці тому +3

    Sorry for your loss Bob, Martha Caldwell is a legend ❤

  • @cate3183
    @cate3183 4 місяці тому +2

    We love you Martha. Rest in peace.

  • @javierlopeztapia5588
    @javierlopeztapia5588 Рік тому +6

    The rant Bob went on @2:30 is literally him

  • @EverythingKash
    @EverythingKash 4 місяці тому +3

    *RIP Martha Caldwell* 🕊

  • @loganfarmer3241
    @loganfarmer3241 4 місяці тому +2

    RIP Martha ❤❤ Sending you all the love Bob

  • @johndavis29209
    @johndavis29209 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm sorry but how do you not know uncalley valley? Its a term used to describe things that look just slightly off of what they are supposed to look like. From what I understand, it's like an area between something looking completely differently and something looking exactly as it's supposed to. Since we, as pattern recognizing animals, are constantly recognizing stimulus in our environment, things will look uncomfortable to us when something looks just a little off. I didn't even google this, stop gaslighting us into thinking we're dumb bitches lol.

    • @vanlifebae
      @vanlifebae 4 місяці тому +1

      You acting like you didn't get it from tiktok anyways 😂 so lame

    • @johndavis29209
      @johndavis29209 4 місяці тому +1

      @@vanlifebae no bitch some of us read books and watch movies lol stop using those apps, I really think they make you crazy.

    • @sydneyp7867
      @sydneyp7867 4 місяці тому

      Because not everyone knows everything

    • @johndavis29209
      @johndavis29209 4 місяці тому

      @@sydneyp7867 you're telling me that every time you've come across the word "uncalley" you just go off like context clues? I don't get it?