There are so many more things in China that Westerners will simply never understand or have never heard of, so I will follow up on this topic. This is also why multiculturalism has failed in the west
The people who get into these doomed relationships is also because a lot of misfits running from their own dysfunction and trauma get together. They think going to another community will be the fix. Unfortunately the problems are often internal and are difficult to overcome.
I found it amusing and cute at times when I had Chinese gf’s how I’d get scolded for not immediately removing my shoes when entering my own apartment or when they’d dust my shelves, or turn some objects in different directions, clean any dirty dishes left in sink due to my place bad ‘feng shui’. I did learn to be neater at least despite not giving into their crazy ideas of marrying again :) I will say some of the most solid and long lasting marriages I’ve seen were western guys married to ladies from China. I think our dear historian is too pessimistic!
i am breaking up with my thai bar girl girl friend thanks for helping she asked me for 50 000 usd for the payment to her parents i was about to transfer the money and i saw this so i didnt.
@free2chasehappy...What are you talking about ? East Asian countries have a increase of immigrants comming in from Europe, North America and the Asian region in general. Japan has increase of ( Filipino, Kurdish, Chinese, Korean, Indian, American immigrants ( labour workers and so called ''expats'' a p.c word for ''W_immigrants''.
You can escape your women by moving to the other side of the world but you can't escape yourself. This is in no way to dimish how messed up the "modern" women are in the West but rather to point out that people also need to be self-critical and realistic when looking to find love abroad.
Taking off shoes is honouring the house/family/tradition a sign of respect, nearly all cultures did this in ancient times, common sense not to bring the crap picked up outside, in the house.
I mean if interacial and multiculturalism is a failure. Why do we see so many Western-European men with Asian/Oriental women on day to day basis in places like Canada, US, UK, Australia, Netherlands, New Zealand ? I notice alot W_nationalist men who are Western European complain about ''Interacial dating and multiculturalism'' when its Western-European women dating outside their ethnic-cultural sphere so to say. Then all of sudden its the end of ''western civilization''. But the moment Bob or Matthew dates a Ching-Li or Kim then all of sudden there no issue ( which is a double standard). Alot these guys in the west who make these arguments are often MGTOW/alt-right W_nationalist men who have no succses in the dating game and start hating on men who do have succes especially on the non-W men who are with WW.
The guys complaining about WW dating non-W men have a right to because it skews the already poor sex ratio in the West and is creating a discontent society. Just as Asian men have a right to complain about passport bros making _their_ sex ratio worse. You might enforce racial equality in employment by passing laws, but there will never be racial equality in s3xual matters. I'm not an incel BTW.
If in China she can get a guy with an apartment and money, then why she would go for a foreign guy wanting to wait with the house purchase, marriage, and who rents in the west and has near zero social capital to easily get jobs in China, the way native would?
My parents were an interracial a marriage. White mother, Japanese father. The grandparents all hated each other. But my parents were together until my mother was killed by a drunk driver. I was adult at the time, so they had at least 30 years of marriage.
I always think going to China as a passport bro is quite stupid. China has an excess men issue, not women, from memory there are 30million more men than women in China (thanks to the 1 child policy), that is roughly the population of Australia and New Zealand combined. When you go fishing, you want to go where the fishes are, not where the fishermen outnumbers the fishes. China would be highly recommended for gay passport bros or straight passport sis.
Another thing that most people don't think about is the biracial child. He/she will have problems growing up as biracial, especially in high school as he/she starts dating. I won't go too much into this topic and hopefully @Chinese Historian will cover it on his next video.
exactly, i just became aware how perfectly people from romania, moldova, former USSR would be fit for taking a chinese wife... 😂 it seems that the westerners are the only weirdos in the world who would open a present just right when is received...
Intercultural relationships are a beautiful thing,but they're not always a walk in the park. Both parties need to be mindful that they probably will face some challenges and have to go through a big learning curve. It's crucial for each person to teach their partner about their culture and the dos and don'ts. If you truly love each other you will be patient, understanding and willing to take the time to learn from each other's culture and family! A lot of people get into such relationships naively without considering the differences in mentality. In a intercultural relationship if the couple loves each other enough to compromise, and can adapt to eachother's cultural mores and remain respectful and united. Then the relationship can last. Gotta do a bit of research and investigating before seriously dating someone of a different country. In order for multiculturalism to work in a country, there has to be set rules and boundaries that are followed by everyone and not only by a few. That's what's lacking. Also governments must put in place a sort of introductory sessions that new comers must take and study in order to be educated on how the country they're moving to functions, what's the belief systems, the customs, the social norms. One area governments have failed is by letting people immigrate without any knowledge of how things roll. When foreigners from Africa, North and South America, Europe move to for example China, South Korea, Japan they adapt to how the life is there, they follow their systems of doing things they're forced to learn a bit of the language to get by etc. Being too lax with no structure as in the case in North America well ... nuff said.
I think this is mainly a US guys thing, people in the US just know their culture and find it hard to adapt to others/find a middle ground - European men usually are better in that aspect so as the rest of the world except also India and Pakistan
I think a lot of non-North Americans misunderstand the wearing shoes in the house thing. I don't think they realize that oftentimes, we only allow non-relatives/non-family members to wear shoes in the house, beause we want to be perceived as gracious hosts/very accomodating/non-rude/high in hospitality. My own mom would always let strangers (such as real estate agents or her co-workers who were visiting our house for a dinner party) wear their shoes indoors, but as soon as they left, my mom would leap to the drawer where all the rags are stored, grab one, spray some sort of disinfectant or soap onto the floor where the guests had stepped, and start rubbing vigourously to try to lift off any dirt that fell off any shoes onto her floor! My mom would always make me and my dad take off our shoes. I also noticed that when my aunts and uncles and cousins came over for dinner parties on special holidays, they'd all take off their shoes. I remember reading an article where a guy from India wrote a comment stating that in India, guests are king, though it's not as extreme as it is in the West where Westerners will bend-over-backwards to accomodate guests. I'm guessing he was referring to things like Swedes removing their crosses from their church rooftops in order to not offend their biggest group of newcomers into Sweden. I've also heard of office workers in Sweden removing all their cute piglet/piggy stuffed animals/plushies, magnets, stickers, bobbleheads, etc. from their desks and office refridgerators for the same reason. Other countries aren't that hospitable/accomodating.
FYI, I have several friends in Thailand, and none of them are even attempting to learn Thai (they’re married to thai women). If you are going to marry a foreigner, learn the language at least lol
Hey the big face thing you said is kinda exadrated maby the lose face thing at least in bejing its not like that. And also whats wrong with taking of shoes it stops dirt mud and stuff being all over your floor honestly. I really liked this video honestly maby ur just hanging out with the wrong people passport bros suck hope this video convinces them to stop😅
@onlineonlineaccount2368 but is true is better like da I don't mind mind people mixing but for most part is better to stay with ur lineage and ur way of thinking
@ I hear you bro, but you yourself a product of mixed union right ? You stated you being Spanish and Portugese. Yes 2 nations close to each other in culture but also quite different many ways. You also need to understand women are not ''ethnically loyal''. Women date men for various of reasons ( romantic, socio-economic, hypergamy, sociatal status etc.) If women see this among men that have these elements. They wil date him.
@onlineonlineaccount2368 I'm tri racial I did a DNA test and white black and indigineous came out but. Mostly Spanish and Portuguese so I'm goin to try to stay in da linage it will be hard but not impossible
@Monkeylife322...Its normal because the nation was created out of multiculturalism and having a multiethnic background after British colonialism ( Malays, Chinese and Indians and mixture of these 3 groups through inter-ethnic relationships).
@onlineonlineaccount2368 and underneath there is always simmering racism. I love Malaysia it's basically my 2nd home, but once you really get to understand Malaysia you understand that each group barely tolerates the others. Multiculturalism is really not easy and probably as much a burden as a blessing. However it has given Malaysia a lot of advantages over their neighbours, but a lot of that is also the legal and social foundation of the former British colony.
@ Hi, yes of course Malaysia is not a perfect country. And was shaped out of British colonialism/western imperialism. Malaysia in nature is the land of Malay ethnic groups who are muslim. The Chinese and Indians where brought there for work/labour/commerce/trade. Despite the 3 groups all being Asian. They are different in culture, customs, values and civilizational aspects. This does lead to misunderstaning, miscommunication with a background of low education and illiteracy back in the days is toxic pool of ethnic discrimination/ethnocentrism. The British also played into this by divide and rule and playing the groups against each other as colonial powers often did to serve their own interest.This root never left Malaysian society and has shaped in new form till this day.
After several attempts with Asian ladies (two marriages with Thai and Indonesian), I finally have a Chinese gf from Shandong. We have two kids and so far it is working well.
Three isues: First, while you are correct that "multiculturalism" can lead to challenges to both parties within a multicultural marriage, race per se is a different issue. For example, white-asian couples within the same nation/culture have a much LOWER divorce rate than average. Second, even in marriages between those of different cultures, it depends a lot on the cultures themselves. For example, while I can certainly see potential problems in marriages between a Muslim and a non-Muslim, other cultual mixing--say, between those of a Hispanic and non-Hispanic background, seem to work out far better. Of course, terms "Hispanic" or "Latino" embrace a wide variety of racial backgrounds and race mixing, which again proves my point. Most Hispanic/Latinos from the Americas are miixed race, including mixes of extreme cultural differences, as between members of pre-Columbian tribes and European Hispanics. Finally, just because some Westerners are abysmally ignorant of other cultures and traditions--including those in Asia--that does not apply to all, and people genuinely in love with one another will be motivated to understand their cultural differences and make efforts to bridge such issues in a positive way.
There are so many more things in China that Westerners will simply never understand or have never heard of, so I will follow up on this topic. This is also why multiculturalism has failed in the west
You still can't stop us from culturally enriching Little China girl with our BWCs.
@@nickkorkodylas5005 And then your sons come out looking like ChineseHistorian2022 so who really gets the last laugh? LOL
😂@@PurpleDoritos666
@@nickkorkodylas5005 You say that like it's a good thing, checked Western demographics?
@@PurpleDoritos666 Just reproducing more Rodger Elliots ''selfhating Hapas'' as usual.
I'm breaking up with my Chinese girlfriend, thank you for saving my life.
Don’t be too hasty! 😂
Western women ain’t even good either 😂
@@NexusS4GIceJellyMarry a black woman then. Your kids will be Albert Einstein.
@ They only want Tyrones not an average black men. JBW card is the only option for most white dudes
The people who get into these doomed relationships is also because a lot of misfits running from their own dysfunction and trauma get together. They think going to another community will be the fix. Unfortunately the problems are often internal and are difficult to overcome.
Race traitors are usually the outcasts of their own race so they have to go overseas to find comparative advantage.
Another banger. Keep Em coming man. You content is just hella based man hahaha.
I found it amusing and cute at times when I had Chinese gf’s how I’d get scolded for not immediately removing my shoes when entering my own apartment or when they’d dust my shelves, or turn some objects in different directions, clean any dirty dishes left in sink due to my place bad ‘feng shui’. I did learn to be neater at least despite not giving into their crazy ideas of marrying again :) I will say some of the most solid and long lasting marriages I’ve seen were western guys married to ladies from China. I think our dear historian is too pessimistic!
I’m married 30 years with a Chinese wife… but these modern Chinese girls aren’t the same! Woke Internet has ruined women everywhere!!!
CH you keep us "Gamed up" when it comes to Chinese culture. Very interesting. ✅✅👍🏾👍🏾💯💯
Take it with a grain of salt. He maybe disillusioned but jaded given his own disposition within the complexities of dealing with cultural norms.
i am breaking up with my thai bar girl girl friend thanks for helping she asked me for 50 000 usd for the payment to her parents i was about to transfer the money and i saw this so i didnt.
Do Chinese people have any fart phobias?
Respect to east asian countries for not letting immigrants overrun their countries at the risk of economic collapse.
Not complaining about going into theirs for resources and minerals
@free2chasehappy...What are you talking about ? East Asian countries have a increase of immigrants comming in from Europe, North America and the Asian region in general. Japan has increase of ( Filipino, Kurdish, Chinese, Korean, Indian, American immigrants ( labour workers and so called ''expats'' a p.c word for ''W_immigrants''.
@onlineonlineaccount2368 what a mess.
@onlineonlineaccount2368 Kurds are causing problems and creating their own enclaves already. Does anyone know why Japan allows them in?
Thanks for the lesson.
You can escape your women by moving to the other side of the world but you can't escape yourself. This is in no way to dimish how messed up the "modern" women are in the West but rather to point out that people also need to be self-critical and realistic when looking to find love abroad.
Taking off shoes is honouring the house/family/tradition a sign of respect, nearly all cultures did this in ancient times, common sense not to bring the crap picked up outside, in the house.
I mean if interacial and multiculturalism is a failure. Why do we see so many Western-European men with Asian/Oriental women on day to day basis in places like Canada, US, UK, Australia, Netherlands, New Zealand ? I notice alot W_nationalist men who are Western European complain about ''Interacial dating and multiculturalism'' when its Western-European women dating outside their ethnic-cultural sphere so to say. Then all of sudden its the end of ''western civilization''. But the moment Bob or Matthew dates a Ching-Li or Kim then all of sudden there no issue ( which is a double standard). Alot these guys in the west who make these arguments are often MGTOW/alt-right W_nationalist men who have no succses in the dating game and start hating on men who do have succes especially on the non-W men who are with WW.
The guys complaining about WW dating non-W men have a right to because it skews the already poor sex ratio in the West and is creating a discontent society. Just as Asian men have a right to complain about passport bros making _their_ sex ratio worse. You might enforce racial equality in employment by passing laws, but there will never be racial equality in s3xual matters. I'm not an incel BTW.
If in China she can get a guy with an apartment and money, then why she would go for a foreign guy wanting to wait with the house purchase, marriage, and who rents in the west and has near zero social capital to easily get jobs in China, the way native would?
My parents were an interracial a marriage. White mother, Japanese father. The grandparents all hated each other. But my parents were together until my mother was killed by a drunk driver. I was adult at the time, so they had at least 30 years of marriage.
In Poland we also MUST to take off our shoes before enter o the house.its crucial :)
I always think going to China as a passport bro is quite stupid. China has an excess men issue, not women, from memory there are 30million more men than women in China (thanks to the 1 child policy), that is roughly the population of Australia and New Zealand combined.
When you go fishing, you want to go where the fishes are, not where the fishermen outnumbers the fishes. China would be highly recommended for gay passport bros or straight passport sis.
Dating and marriage outside your race and culture is a bad idea, period.
Why should one respect another who is disrespectful.
Another thing that most people don't think about is the biracial child. He/she will have problems growing up as biracial, especially in high school as he/she starts dating. I won't go too much into this topic and hopefully @Chinese Historian will cover it on his next video.
To think his china man could be so much more based than many white men. Ooof
Based? Did you mean biased?
Here around the balkans, we have very similar norms as well, glasses have to touch, take off shoes before enter, etc etc
exactly, i just became aware how perfectly people from romania, moldova, former USSR would be fit for taking a chinese wife... 😂 it seems that the westerners are the only weirdos in the world who would open a present just right when is received...
Not the reasons I was expecting. There are many others.
Intercultural relationships are a beautiful thing,but they're not always a walk in the park. Both parties need to be mindful that they probably will face some challenges and have to go through a big learning curve. It's crucial for each person to teach their partner about their culture and the dos and don'ts. If you truly love each other you will be patient, understanding and willing to take the time to learn from each other's culture and family!
A lot of people get into such relationships naively without considering the differences in mentality.
In a intercultural relationship if the couple loves each other enough to compromise, and can adapt to eachother's cultural mores and remain respectful and united. Then the relationship can last.
Gotta do a bit of research and investigating before seriously dating someone of a different country.
In order for multiculturalism to work in a country, there has to be set rules and boundaries that are followed by everyone and not only by a few. That's what's lacking. Also governments must put in place a sort of introductory sessions that new comers must take and study in order to be educated on how the country they're moving to functions, what's the belief systems, the customs, the social norms. One area governments have failed is by letting people immigrate without any knowledge of how things roll.
When foreigners from Africa, North and South America, Europe move to for example China, South Korea, Japan they adapt to how the life is there, they follow their systems of doing things they're forced to learn a bit of the language to get by etc. Being too lax with no structure as in the case in North America well ... nuff said.
I think this is mainly a US guys thing, people in the US just know their culture and find it hard to adapt to others/find a middle ground - European men usually are better in that aspect so as the rest of the world except also India and Pakistan
this sounds more like a social ineptitude problem more than a multiculturalism problem
I think a lot of non-North Americans misunderstand the wearing shoes in the house thing. I don't think they realize that oftentimes, we only allow non-relatives/non-family members to wear shoes in the house, beause we want to be perceived as gracious hosts/very accomodating/non-rude/high in hospitality. My own mom would always let strangers (such as real estate agents or her co-workers who were visiting our house for a dinner party) wear their shoes indoors, but as soon as they left, my mom would leap to the drawer where all the rags are stored, grab one, spray some sort of disinfectant or soap onto the floor where the guests had stepped, and start rubbing vigourously to try to lift off any dirt that fell off any shoes onto her floor! My mom would always make me and my dad take off our shoes. I also noticed that when my aunts and uncles and cousins came over for dinner parties on special holidays, they'd all take off their shoes. I remember reading an article where a guy from India wrote a comment stating that in India, guests are king, though it's not as extreme as it is in the West where Westerners will bend-over-backwards to accomodate guests. I'm guessing he was referring to things like Swedes removing their crosses from their church rooftops in order to not offend their biggest group of newcomers into Sweden. I've also heard of office workers in Sweden removing all their cute piglet/piggy stuffed animals/plushies, magnets, stickers, bobbleheads, etc. from their desks and office refridgerators for the same reason. Other countries aren't that hospitable/accomodating.
FYI, I have several friends in Thailand, and none of them are even attempting to learn Thai (they’re married to thai women). If you are going to marry a foreigner, learn the language at least lol
Hey the big face thing you said is kinda exadrated maby the lose face thing at least in bejing its not like that. And also whats wrong with taking of shoes it stops dirt mud and stuff being all over your floor honestly. I really liked this video honestly maby ur just hanging out with the wrong people passport bros suck hope this video convinces them to stop😅
So true I'm latino with Spanish and portugu6 lineage but I grew in American new jersey I will try to stick to my own kind in every aspect
White
Good luck with that ''ideal'' that is very unpragmatic in a world of today.
@onlineonlineaccount2368 but is true is better like da I don't mind mind people mixing but for most part is better to stay with ur lineage and ur way of thinking
@ I hear you bro, but you yourself a product of mixed union right ? You stated you being Spanish and Portugese. Yes 2 nations close to each other in culture but also quite different many ways. You also need to understand women are not ''ethnically loyal''. Women date men for various of reasons ( romantic, socio-economic, hypergamy, sociatal status etc.) If women see this among men that have these elements. They wil date him.
@onlineonlineaccount2368 I'm tri racial I did a DNA test and white black and indigineous came out but. Mostly Spanish and Portuguese so I'm goin to try to stay in da linage it will be hard but not impossible
In Malaysia its heavily multiculturalism
@Monkeylife322...Its normal because the nation was created out of multiculturalism and having a multiethnic background after British colonialism ( Malays, Chinese and Indians and mixture of these 3 groups through inter-ethnic relationships).
@onlineonlineaccount2368 and underneath there is always simmering racism. I love Malaysia it's basically my 2nd home, but once you really get to understand Malaysia you understand that each group barely tolerates the others. Multiculturalism is really not easy and probably as much a burden as a blessing. However it has given Malaysia a lot of advantages over their neighbours, but a lot of that is also the legal and social foundation of the former British colony.
@ Hi, yes of course Malaysia is not a perfect country. And was shaped out of British colonialism/western imperialism. Malaysia in nature is the land of Malay ethnic groups who are muslim. The Chinese and Indians where brought there for work/labour/commerce/trade. Despite the 3 groups all being Asian.
They are different in culture, customs, values and civilizational aspects. This does lead to misunderstaning, miscommunication with a background of low education and illiteracy back in the days is toxic pool of ethnic discrimination/ethnocentrism. The British also played into this by divide and rule and playing the groups against each other as colonial powers often did to serve their own interest.This root never left Malaysian society and has shaped in new form till this day.
Really flimsy reason for a divorce. I was hoping to know better.
After several attempts with Asian ladies (two marriages with Thai and Indonesian), I finally have a Chinese gf from Shandong. We have two kids and so far it is working well.
I feel bad for your kids. All the wasians I've ever met have serious identity issues lol.
Yellow fever is strong with you lol
@@tacticalpause3767 yes, a passport bro with yellow fever.
Your mixed kids have bad blood.
Dang you are leaving a trail of destruction….have you no shame?
Three isues: First, while you are correct that "multiculturalism" can lead to challenges to both parties within a multicultural marriage, race per se is a different issue. For example, white-asian couples within the same nation/culture have a much LOWER divorce rate than average.
Second, even in marriages between those of different cultures, it depends a lot on the cultures themselves. For example, while I can certainly see potential problems in marriages between a Muslim and a non-Muslim, other cultual mixing--say, between those of a Hispanic and non-Hispanic background, seem to work out far better. Of course, terms "Hispanic" or "Latino" embrace a wide variety of racial backgrounds and race mixing, which again proves my point. Most Hispanic/Latinos from the Americas are miixed race, including mixes of extreme cultural differences, as between members of pre-Columbian tribes and European Hispanics.
Finally, just because some Westerners are abysmally ignorant of other cultures and traditions--including those in Asia--that does not apply to all, and people genuinely in love with one another will be motivated to understand their cultural differences and make efforts to bridge such issues in a positive way.
It feels very close to russian culture except for the 红包。
Also don’t dip or chew tobacco while holding a spit bottle 😂
What about not wearing a condom?....
Not true at all. If both people are like it each and share common goals and values then it works. Nothing to do with race😂
@CommandoMaster....Tell that to the many insecure and MGTOW alt-righ W_nationalist incels.
It only works if one or both lose their culture.
@@Normie-c7s Not true at all.
@onlineonlineaccount2368 I see you commenting but not proving anything. Good day.
@ Eloborate why one or both need to lose their culture for it to work then ? LOL.
That's with Chinese but out of a dozen Philippine women and USA men I only know one failed marriage and that was to an abusive Mexican heritage man
Yes agree
Divorce rate American men to foreign women is about 25%
Interesting Fake of Jack Wolfskin.
well observed
No
Youre wrong
Divorce rate is actually lower
Ive studied the stats