My sister became pregnant and her boyfriend married her. They had another child during the marriage. Even though her husband worked everyday took care of the home, my sister was still living the girls gone wild life. He eventually left her. To this day my sister has not remarried and all the men she became involved with never saw her as a potential wife. She’s almost 60 and still single. Listen to what Kevin says, he’s speaking truth.
Ten Lies that Women think Men also believe: 1: Men will forgive their promiscuous past. 2:Men aspire and love being Stepfathers. 3: The men that they friendzoned will always be there for them as a back up plan. After they’ve been pumped and dumped by the Chads and Tyrones. 4: Men want partnerships and don’t want to be the leaders of their relationships. 5: That men will accept them as they are. Regardless of their age, weight or parental situation. 6: Men don’t have standards. 7: Men care about a women’s income and education. 8: Having a degree and a high paying job will increase a woman’s SMV (Sexual Market Place Value) 9: That being fat is the same as being curvy. 10: Men will always find them attractive at any age or size. Even when they’ve hit the wall.
For point number 9, I find it hilarious that being obese is considered curvy. Obese is literally the definition of less curves and having a more cylindrical shape in all directions. So there are no curves unless they count the over head perspective which is pretty much a circle for such people.
As a white Canadian male, what Kevin speaks about, can also apply to "Modern" white women, in general. The similarities are eerily similar. When I was in my 30's I would have benefitted from listening to Kevin. I hope the young men who are listening to Kevin truly think about what he is saying. There is gold in his advice.
@@lertubThe "Modern Women" affliction believes in spreading the sh-t in a fairly equal and dynamic way. In the end, men are all brothers, regardless of race, religion, etc.
She said men can't raise girls. My father raised me and my sister while divorced and single. She is married over 20 years. He never bashed my mother even though she was the one that cheated and left us.
Her: "You think a father can raise a daughter!?" This was such a disturbing response/question. The child is literally HALF of him. If you feel so strongly that the man you made a father is inadequate of raising his own, you are apart of the problem because YOU CHOSE that man.
Single dad here. Raised my boy myself since he was a year old. Now he is 16, straight A student. Plays outside LB in football, and runs 11.24 100M in track. Men raise men.
You are doing a fine job with your child and should be proud…go take a road trip with him for a vacation when you can. Quality time makes memories and creates magical moments. 🌟
Nor only for the black community. I'm a white man from Germany and these trends are here as well and me and all brothers have to be enlightened of modern women desillusions.
@7 Dollar Roethlisberger facts. I think that a lot of women fantasize about the wedding day, but not the actual marriage and the amount of work it takes to sustain that.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 Yup, it's like how they want the high value man but never think about how he got there and maintains it. They want his lifestyle, not fit into it or support it. The women who walk away from these men. They usually have the same complaints, and it aint cheating. It's lack of attention and not being around much smh. 6 figure men travel a lot and work their butts off.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 It's their special day of being a princess in the center of attention. Validated in front of their peer group. A party with cake and wine. That's as deep as it goes. Thy can tick this day off of their bucket list and strategise with their friends how to milk the poor workhorse of a man in divorce so they don't have to work a day in their life. And back on the carousel they go, having broken the man, the narcissists that such women are.
This man is needed. He was taken from us way too soon. He barely scratched the surface with his potential. TBH, I wouldn’t mind watching someone who copies everything about him. His style, his advice, his sayings, desk, lighting, everything. I’d subscribe. Someone needs to pick up the torch.
I've dated a few single mothers in my lifetime and while they each had positive qualities, their sense of entitlement was a bit over the top. One treated me like I was still just an option and another turned out to still have a party mentality and ultimately, we were not compatible for the long haul. In short, my experiences with them has led me to believe that a single mother should NEVER be the first option for a single man without kids! Gents, build your own empire and legacy with your own seed!
You're absolutely correct. I've had the same experience. I dated a woman with a child who use to talk bad about her baby daddy and she was extremely entitled. She would talk crazy like she had a big D,baller waiting for her around the corner. I got out of that situation. I dodged a bullet. Most of these women with children are entitled, delusional,live in a fantasy world and really believe they have more options that they actually have. Most of all they blame the men but they fail to realize they picked the man they had the children with
@@Xeroph619 when I was still in the dating world, this is what I heard from a couple single moms. They preferred a man with no kids or a man with kids much older than their kids.
@TradMum What modern woman is going to let a man lead them? At least a modern blk woman won't. Their social media friends told them that they need to boss up and move like men. Good luck to them
Responsibility HAS to fall on women when it comes to procreation. Take 10 men and 10 women. If one woman sleeps with all the guys, 1 baby is made. If one guy sleeps with all the women, 10 babies are made... Did you not see it when Kevin brought up how most of the black kids are coming from a small minority of guys?
That was a gem of a comparison. You could see the gears in her head turning trying to find a reason why it doesn't apply to her but we all know it's true
This reminds me how my ex kept talking shit about me to my daughter that she made her hate me but I still stayed around for my daughter supporting her and covering her needs I didn’t say a word but when my daughter was 16 I sat her down to talk to her about me she said daddy you don’t need to say anything now I know the true story I remember how she treated you when I was 5 but still want to hear you if you like to talk so I told her truth without making her mom look bad still so now we have very good father daughter relationship thank you God
Single mothers talk sh*t about the father of their children because they lack accountability for the part they played in the failed relationship. In most cases, women are the root cause of it because they have thrown the intelligent part of their nature out the window to focus entirely on their emotions because in their distorted mindset, it's all about how women feel and what they want to feel that fits into their false sense of reality; but when their children become adults, they realize that their mothers were the ones who were sh*tty with bad qualities because accountability felt like kryptonite.
Damn dude thank you for not stooping to your exs level.. it helped your daughter so much.. and made her a healthier person to see her father act with respect and care
Kevin definitely speaks the truth in these videos. My mother, after getting divorced from my father, focused on her career and now at 60 is struggling to find a good job in her field to pay the bills because few companies want to hire her at that age. So she works 2 jobs to make ends meet, but it still isn't enough, so my brother and I have offered to cover the rest of her financial costs so she doesn't end up homeless. Because of this and because of Kevin I will definitely be prioritizing relationships and cooperating with a man so I don't end up in a similar situation when I'm older
Aww so proud of you & your brother thats generous & Loving but yet Sad that its come down to that.. atleast now you see to better your relationship w Men you R on the right path!
She attracts men that have girlfriends or wives because they see her as side chick or just for sex type of woman. She doesn't meet men that are looking for a wife because they overlook her. She still doesn't get it.
My mom never married when she came to America and had me with my then married dad. He was sort of trying to make it work with my mom but he was a Colombian national and got caught up in drugs and got deported. My mom still works but is largely on government assistance, dad got divorced and kicked out of the house from his original wife and after seeing all this I've been with my fiance for the the past 6 years and plan on marrying soon and having a kid hopefully and being a stay at home with a small side job. Life wasn't meant to go about it being single and miserable.
I just came across this show. Kevin gave excellent advice. I just saw in the comments that he passed away a couple of years ago. I'm so sorry to hear that. RIP Kevin 🙏❤️💐
This woman is exactly what's wrong with the community... She takes pride in being a single mother and doesn't even recognize how destructive her mindset is on her children. Telling her daughter to be just like her when she knows she's miserable is ludicrous, speaking down on men consistently in the presence of her young son is absolutely atrocious. You ask most children that are raised in these single mother households if they've ever had a positive tangible male influence & they'll say no, because these women project their hatred for men onto them. I've always said the increase in homosexuality and not only the black community but across the board has been because of shitty parents... Ain't no way the percentage of gays skyrocketed over the past 4 decades cause "it's more accepted" these parents have created an environment of incredible hatred towards men's masculinity that they sissify the boys & then in tern masculinized the girls. It's a horror cycle
I second this.. I thought I was a weirdo to think homosexuality came from poor parenting of single parents talking down on the opposite gender ending up with a whole lot of sissified men.. thanks for pointing that out
@@licioussamuelsit comes from that and also comes from Modern diet and modern lifestyle the atrezen in the water and sprayed on crops biologically turned male frogs female, plastic acts as estrogen screens all day porn, etc
I've said this before too. And homosexuality is higher among blacks than among other demographics which is not surprising when you look at the rates of fatherlessness. It correlates perfectly. Masculine women raising their sons to be either angry and violent or feminine and weak. It's a truly vicious cycle that Kevin worked so hard to undo.
Kevin is a modern day saint. I live in an Asian country and I believe the lack of government support helps keep Asian women grounded. No benefits or social security in a lot of these countries. I'm a father of three, two daughters - and I'm trying to instill my daughters with his wisdom. My favourite saying of his is 'Marry before you carry!' Keep up the good work, Kevin. You're a godsend!
From what I've observed about the asian cultures (at least east, north-east ones like Japan, Korea..) some of the most influental factors are lack of government support (just based off what _you_ say, idk the actual aid the government has for women), family burden culture (taking care of parents, grandparents, etc) and the extreme work culture (996 culture) . From what I see, Asian men don't even *GET* to see how terrible feminism _actually_ is because the other cultural problems mask it so much and come before it. The government bit is also interesting, because studies done in America show that women *_OVERWHELMINGLY_* vote left/democratic and for *MORE* government. They _love_ big daddy government, especially because they basically pay 0 net taxes. Your best bet for your daughter is a more antiquated approach of marrying them off early, but given your cultural circumstance, you might not even be able to do that unfortunately. 1st world societies really f**ked themselves with this feminism shit. 🤡🌎
When I was in school getting my degree, one of the statistics that shocked me and kinda got pushed under the rug was that Single Fathers raise better children then Single Mothers. Kevin’s content just proves it.
I have two friends who are single fathers who raised their kids after intense custody battles to get them. They are definitely better parents across the board of the women they had the kids with and they had to fight tooth and nail to get their children.
@@Love-fn9bi Because the dynamics between men with kids marrying women and women with kids marrying men aren't the same. Men CARE that you have children because that's (generally) money out of their pocket to care for HER kids. And men are (generally) expected to be providers for children anyway, so women who end up with men with kids aren't (generally) being expected to help provide for his kids. That's why men and women are judged differently. The things women look for in a mate and that men look for in a mate are simply are not the same.
Thank god I met my boyfriend at 11 and we started dating at 12 (a few break ups and get back together in our really young teenage years) but now we’re 35 and own a home and we’re even able to take in one of his elderly relatives who couldn’t live alone anymore, we moved him into our downstairs. We’ve gone through EVERYTHING together and he’d do anything for me and I would do anything for him. We’ve had bad days, bad months, even some bad years!!! But never crossed our minds to leave each other. Stronger together.
This channel makes me remember how lucky I am to have my husband. He's better than me and I don't deserve him. The world inflates the heads of women, I'm not excluded from this. This channel helps me keep my head straight and make sure I treat my husband the way he deserves. Thank you.
I would disagree within which you said about yourself second line!@violet5610 "He's better than me .&.I don't deserve him"! I would say if I was to ask your husband! He would say! "You're better for him".&."simply by having you in his life"! Through the good bad.&.any other!! Tears to laughter!! It makes his life a better place to be! Just by having you within it. Never undersell your own value lady.
I agree with you. I struck gold when I met my husband. Nothing made me happier than making him happy. I didn't deserve him but I'm so lucky that he disagreed. And yes, was better than me and that's how it's supposed to be. I submitted to him willingly. Unfortunately, I’ve been a widow for the last five years and I doubt I’ll find another great man.
So you mean a man marry you and you two are not evenly yoked, you're low on morals and values you like discipline and consistently consistency you do nothing with your life you've been amounted to nothing wow maybe he should have married another woman since you think so little of yourself
That comment he made about the kid being up til after 11pm makes a great point. EVERY family I know with the father in the house is so much better organised/structured. I see it with my kids too. All it takes is a look from me and THEY KNOW but their mother can't seem to pull it off. And I didn't realise how rare it had gotten to have a well behaved family but almost every restaurant visit we had people would come up and comment on how well behaved my babies were, I'm talking 1 year olds and toddlers even. I realised folks were just so grateful that their night out wasn't spoiled by spoiled, loud, unruly kids. Kids love and thrive when they understand the rules and have them enforced consistently. I hate that parents raise children. No. You raise them to be adults and adults have to operate within the rules. This shouldn't come as a surprise to any kid who has been raised right.
Yup it's that implied threat of hands on their butts. In school when we had a female sub, it was party time. Male sub? N one wanna test those waters. It's why guys tend to cooperate because no one really wants to get into fisticuffs. Throw women into it and dudes get killed.
I know what you mean. My 1st year teaching I tried being nice and the kids , 9th graders , ran over me. The next quarter I became better by setting and enforcing class rules consistently. Once they release that everything calmed down and I started to enjoy it. The kids did to.
I am an old fart. But I still remember that it was the second drawer on the left that squeaked loudly because that was the one the paddle was kept in. HA. Might not have taught anything else worthwhile but you learned not to disrupt anyone else's chance to learn anything. Wasn't any vandalism or much of any other nonsense either. That said we had two recesses and after lunch to bleed off MOST of our rambunctiousness. And P. E. Kids HAVE to be kids or you TURN THEM INTO "problems". Now recess is used for political correctness indoctrination, gender identity exploration, or something equally non bill-paying.
This Is a thankless job Kevin Samuel is doing and I don't care if he makes a million dollars out of it.the value of this man un the black community Is vastly underrated.
And it's not just a black problem... Granted it's worse in the black community but even in the UK white community this sort of attitude is rife. These women just don't seem to see the correlation... If every partner they've had has been bad then they're either your choosing the small minority of wrong partners or they just keep scaring the good partners away... Why is it that the father of her youngest has married someone else and not her... It's not all women and it's not all men... However it would statistically appear to be a problem with women having too many expectations of the men they are choosing (women being the ones ending the relationships)... You want a $500k a year man? Wtf would he choose you when he can get a newer cleaner version that is willing to work WITH him not against him. Men aren't biologically meant to be monogynous anyway so this whole cheating bs doesn't make sense... Not saying it's fair or right by a man can't help being what a man is. Women aren't that way biologically, it's something that's increased since the whole independent women men aren't shit crap that's been drilled into women these days... Pisses me off listening to these things... But it's so relatable that I can't help it.
I have a father, all the things KS has been saying is no news to me, myself and sister are all married with children for years known, is just I finally realized most people can't stomach this level of truth
I had to come back to this vid to hear more bars because of what I’m going through with a woman now who is actually my son’s mom. But the bar for the day is… “You can’t build with someone who keeps leaving the job site.” -K.S. WOW!!! BARS!!! 🔥🔥🔥
This woman is strange. It's like she gets it and then doesn't get it at the same time. She'll say 'you're right' and then say some other bs in the next breath. I'm afraid it's too late for women like her. You can't mold stale bread.
Unfortunately, she is not that strange. Too many black women are like this, and you are supposed to deal with it, or you are not a strong man. Therefore, I want to die alone. Men will have to adapt.
When my wife left after 20 yrs of marriage, I raised my 2 daughters ALONE...they are now 38 and 40 and doing great...DON'T TELL ME MEN CAN'T RAISE GIRLS!!!!
Nobody’s saying men/women can’t raise children on their own. HOWEVER, are they going to have the same emotional balance and healthy relationship example as someone with a two parent home? Definitely not.
This woman's casual hatred of men is appalling. It's repugnant. She hasn't given any thought to her hatred, contempt, and vilification of men. "And what do you bring to the table?" "I'm nice." She's not even that. She's filled with an idle rage. I pity her son, but her daughter as well.
@@aaronjohnston1584 happiness is relative. Don’t rely on chasing happiness. …. I know a guy who left his wife because he was unhappy, shacked up with a hot young thing who made him happy, and drove himself into a bridge last week - leaving 2 kids.
She think she got a 75% chance of getting married?!? I got no kids but at 46 YO I know where my number is and it is NOT over 50% because I’ve aged out of the process and cannot provide children. We have to know where we stand realistically before we can move up or down.
Don't forget that hypocrite ass Steve Harvey he'll do anything for some money including lie to these women. Steve Harvey has did a lot of damage to black women and they don't even know it. And so has Tyler Perry and he dress up like a woman
Holy f. I was in bet at 1800 or earlier. No tv for me until 10 years old. My parents were very strict but a 5 year old up at almost midnight? What in the f hell? Where is the friggin father?
I'm a 43 year old engaged man (& oh white af) and I've learning a lot from this man. If my fit, friendly, feminine, childless fiancee saw this channel she'd quickly put 2&2 together. Thanks GF.
I think its best if people are honest because clearly having these two idiots raise their “mistake” isn’t working out for society. Coming from a mistake myself. Be honest so we can establish a real solution.
I remember my mom saying I was a mistake. How she should of had an abortion. I laughed it off and told her if she had an abortion I would have really lucked out. Lmao
The risk of getting pregnant is on women. She KNEW he didn't have a rubber on. She WANTED to try and trap him and it didn't work. Now she's passing the buck off. She could have said hey no rubber, no NOTHING. Even WITH the risk falling on to her. He's right accountability is like kryptonite
"So its not his fault he got me pregnant?" It takes 9 months to have a child, I didn't even look at it like "Oh shes trying to use a child to keep a man" I just thought she was being dumb on purpose. There were red flags through her pregnancy but she ignored them and is trying to burden other people, f that Women need to learn that a child will not keep 99% of men, if they don't want to be there, they don't want to be there.
You do know woman only carry the seed right? The man is actually the one who provides the seed to carry. Can't place the blame on the woman the blame is placed on both casual sex having grown individuals who knew if sperm travels up the tube to meet with egg and boom 💥 a baby is conceived
I miss him a lot he was very intelligent I feel like if a lot of women got out of their feelings they would really benefit he taught me a lot as a 19 year old lady REST IN POWER KEVIN 😢🙏🏾💙
@@jeremiahdavis3398 A lot of women don't understand this. They think a man is just suppose to overlook there pass and just accept shit. Doesn't work that way with high quality guys.
The fact that modern women having multiple babies out of wedlock is more excepted than being married to a husband is very telling of why our community is the way it is..smh
@Maynard Mcnair My family hasn't had a marriage since 2014. We've had a lot of babies being born, but no weddings. So, when he said 80% of our kids are born out of wedlock, I never paid attention to it before, but I'm starting to realize how serious it is.
Well.. At least in a 90's kind of world.. She's probably glad she got her girls. My advice is for her to keep her head up. That's right! Whenever this life gets tough, I hope she fights! 👊🏽 💪🏽
She doesn't realize the more she insults the person she chose to have kids with the worse she looks. It's so strange to me that she can laugh at the things she says? This is kind of traumatizing in a way.
They always do this and its because when they say it to other women they get sympathy. "Girl he was abusive/drug dealer/pedo" no other women ever say "WHYD YOU HAVE A KID WITH HIM?"
It's wild how many women seem proud to brag about how crappy their chosen partners were. Lady, that doesn't say anything good about your decision making or maturity
"Im not gonna go get an abortion every time i get pregnant" They act like getting pregnant is something that just happens. The casualness with which black women treat motherhood is astounding to me.
it’s some severe 304 syndrome.. but then again it cuts both ways.. I met a guy who’s girl told him she was pregnant and he was seriously considering ghost in her
What about the men who do the impregnating? I could get behind KS message as a house wife/stay at home mom, but he hardly ever gives men any accountability
Holy shiite I am learning so much. I as well took the stepfather route with a very masculine controlling and ungrateful woman. I love my stepson and he and I have a good solid loving connection to this day. I’m very proud of him in many ways. On the other hand I’ve completely cut his mother out of my life. RIP Kevin and I thank you for caring enough to spread your message. It truly crossed over into my life and has helped me in more ways than I can count🙏🏽
We as a people, need to understand the truth from God! " do not covet your neighbors home. Do not covet his wife, his children. Or his property", the truth is we as men and women must understand whom God is and what our purpose is! ... even though society saids " anyone can be a husband, but it takes someone special to be a dad!" The truth is the truth! We must stop teaching kids the many sins they learn through school and society! The usa allows the religion of satan! The usa allows tv shows like lucifer, the usa has a president who takes his oath to God with the bible, then has homosexuality groups and transgenders! The usa now has a catholic named " joe biden" ...please research to see joe biden gave an evil promise and said he would work like the devil!, people like the show " the view" has evil women. Telling sinful things to their veiwers, also " kamila harris was born with Hinduism and was named after a hindu goddesses " , yet she cackles and laughs about her many sins that she commited to gain political power, ... the usa news teams should show the joe biden evil promise to work like the devil! Congress should watch his evil promise. ,the world has many leaders and eachbof them have the ability to tell the truth! For years the queen of england was married to her cousin and called him " prince not king" now their son king charles is the leader of england and also the head of the church of England, yet the world ignores the truth from God! The 3rd temple is about to return! Red heifers are ready to be sacrificed! And the temple that king Solomon built is written about in the bible! Those whom God hives his testimonials are in the holy bible! " the evil woman Jezebel has many who follow her ways today from hillary clinton, kamila harris, tiffany henyard, fani willis, leticia james, and feminism who tell women to have sex young fornicate and use their bodies to make money and gain control of others!"... while the true God promised in the holy bible book of malachi the holy prophet Elijah will return! He will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children and the children to the fathers or God himself will come and strike the land with a curse! ( even read the book of malachi to read how God gives a warning for men not to treat the wife of their youth treacherously!". In Atlanta mr wade had sex with fani willis world wide they see this case! The judge and Georgia government and usa government have the bible they can read the truth ! Chaplains from the pentagon and armed forces can read the bible! And all can see these events taking place! Still how many ignore " the torah" and the " tanakh "? How many change the holy sabbath day? How many public schools teach santa clause? Easter bunny? Cupid? St Patrick? How many teach secular heroes? How many teach sex education and abortions? While the holy commandments are written in the holy bible and can be read clearly for children to learn truth! ... " faith and works " victory outreach has a founder named " sonny" how many " treasures out of darkness has he helped others? Has he spoken truth to them? How many of them claim God dwells in them?,how many say the still small voice in their mind or heart has spoken to them, so they claim " trinity" ? As they can read the holy bible and see when the king had a dream, he told the holy prophet Daniel to come back and explain and describe the dream before he interprets the dream! And the holy prophet Daniel was able to do that! Think of those now who claim the same God dwells in them! They should be able to rebuke joe biden! They should be able to rebuke the women who teach others to be like the Jezebel! ...those who hear and know about the 3rd temple from God, should know the truth, if God dwells in them! ....so please humble yourself to God! Ask God to forgive you for your many sins! And ask God to take over your life!
Kevin, I'm about 100+ hours into your content and I'm a 53 year old single HVM. This is the BEST interview I have seen you do. While I would prefer to have a black woman as a girlfriend, I have found that I need to go to South America or Africa to find women who are not destroyed by modern feminism and delusional lack of accountability. Thank you for the work that you do!
@@sarahrochellexo Well, according to objective statistical measurements as defined by the commonly accepted definition of HVM, I most definitely am. I'm just stating a fact and it is irrelevant whether you think so or not. What concerns me the most is your attack on me and not commenting on the content of the video, which is the relevant topic here.
@@sarahrochellexo and you being here trying to down a possible HVM, tells me you’re most likely a 40 year old spinster with 4 kids from 4 different daddies, working a minimum wage job, no degree, overweight, eating a bucket of KFC chicken while having skid marks on your only old wore out Victoria secrets drawers watching Baps on cable paid for by an alimony check. So much for assumptions right?
The refusal to accept any accountability is truly disgusting. They giggle like as if this isn't hurting them kids with deeply traumatic experiences due to the men she chose. Now she expects a high value man to come in and save her?? The delusion is fucking unreal!!
When ks says mental illness is real, we can be so combative and hard to listen I know a woman who refuse to go back to live with her man who owns his home because she didn't like something he said. Mind you when she got sick he took care of her. Refusing to cooperate because she got hurt feelings. Queen Latifah still think halfway thru this Convo that men are the problem. I can't
Kevin pointed out that her 5 year old child should not be up at almost midnight and all she did was make excuses for the lack of structure she is providing for that child. It would have been nice if she would have said "you're right, Kevin" and then told her son to go to bed. That's what she should have done.
@@lucky4evr1 kids are adults in training. They thrive with structure. Depriving them of the structure they need is like depriving them of food and water. You are advocating child neglect.
This is an important conversation Kevin Thank you for pointing out the challenges many face We should discuss these issues openly to create positive change
As a women who FOOLISHLY became a single mother at 25 with one, 26 with two. I was in college, before ever getting pregnant, and was working. Then true low self-esteem rose up In me, and boom I attracted exactly what I subconsciously thought of myself! My children are now 17 and 18, believe me the woman I’ve become now would have never ever attracted such matters. Nope, I would have loved myself enough not to even get in that struggle situation! Ladies love y’all beautiful selves, and start young. Don’t even think about becoming no baby mama, until you’re a wife! If you have low self esteem, take yo arse to therapy QUICK! No God don’t put such trials and tribulations on ourselves! I was such a Foolish type of woman back then, and let me tell y’all something it did not add up to a hill of beans. I’m just telling y’all the Truth! Don’t settle for being a Single Mama when it’s Gods will and way for y’all to be wives first! I don’t blame no baby daddies, because deep down I knew better, but just didn’t do better! NO excuses period!!!!!!!! Don’t none of you ladies bring unborn children in a quicksand foundation! The children deserve so much more!
God bless you and keep you. Hopefully your message is heard. I lucked out. My father was a master architect built a firm, taught me architecture. Was dating a girl who had a ignor
My first born has graduated from High School today. I don’t care it may have been accomplished 7 months later. Today, that high school diploma looks so nice and grand. He went through but he got TO IT, and handled his business!
My wife complains often about how the kids give her a hard time when i am not around and asked why is that. I told her the same thing kevin said, because men provide order and structure. All it takes most times is a glance.
I don't comment often. Men are held very accountable, and they need to be. But this just opened my mind to the carelessness of a woman and the possibilities of pregnancy. You're bringing a "Life" who will need to be taught and cared for. It's detrimental for a child not to have a both parents.
They don’t care…they are completely indifferent to the consequences of their lives’ actions. Men can NEVER operate on this low-level frequency and still have the option to pull women of quality. Their plan is to use their child as a means to hold a man capture that they couldn’t otherwise KEEP.
@@xlaw6272 Their so arrogant and deluded they use their prime years to chase bad boys, careers, and hvm and try to lock one down. If it doesn't happen in time, they believe they can consolidate on a average guy later on in life in their 30s or 40s. It's a mating strategy that's failing them, men must be educated on this.
I’m a grown assed Black Man (45) and this almost brought me to tears. THEY came for us, RELENTLESSLY for hundreds of years, and we FOUGHT them back-only to have our own “women” help in our destruction!!??!? God help the CHILDREN! 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
They bought into the feminist movement and said to hell with us. They chose to join a white woman’s movement but when the chips are on the line they get behind their men black women do not
"You guys choose shitty men and then you blame ALL men." K.S. That is such an uncomfortable reality check a lot of women need. Instead of acknowledging and evaluating their mistakes in showing a pattern of falling for seemingly attractive men who are ultimately neglectful, dishonest or unfaithful, the likes of Khadijah will attribute these traits to all men. Accountability is like kryptonite to her. Before anyone misinterprets or twists what I said, I do not blame women for getting into relationships with abusive, manipulative men.
Fail to prepare ,presto fail because those children havnt been put in a position to help them selves let alone anyone else ,here in the UK by age 16 were paying full rent to our parents and not a penny is held back to be gifted to us to use wisley so by the time we're 18 we're debt ridden and living check to check abd when we're 25 plus no different and those mums are asking for help with living costs when they set their breadbusket up failure from the word go .
When women join his IG, I always check out their profiles. It's usually the same thing every time: bikini photos, glamour shots and claims of being a boss/hustler... But then they get on Kevin's show and they have no kind of financial awareness, deal with pookies, and seem to struggle to follow basic logic... Every single night
@@Kii_J >> "the blatant son husband captions on their kids pics" Ouch I physically cringed at that. So true. And the "she's my best friend" captions on a daughter who looks like she is looking for the escape exit.
@Mai A I'm not even surprised. Even when I listen to my female family members have these types of conversations, they sound just like this woman. No accountability. And the saddest part is, they don't realize how foolish it sounds. A bunch of deflections, insults, what aboutisms, and the last resort of saying "i agree": because they've been backed into a corner.
I love Kevin he cracks through women and their bs delusions and make it viral. This content is needed to get out there for the younger generations to see ❤️❤️
Man this hit home for me. I was dating a woman who was so against the grain of the natural order in terms of masculine and feminine. She had that I don’t let any man tell me what to do attitude and a sadly enough I had to let her go. The disrespect, poking the bear play victim mentality becomes exhausting.
Im in the SAME boat as you & she tried to come back Not 1 Not 2 BUT THREE!!!! Of course I dusted it off but I released her back to the street she had her chance & blew it
@@joeysoG same as mine. Even popped up at my house unannounced at 1am! Talking about people go through things and “you’re not perfect either”. I may not be perfect but I’m not disrespectful/cheater/ feminine. I believe she met a good man and she’s not use to that because she looks at herself as low value. So instead of accepting me as she should she tried to tear down my confidence by attempting to humiliate me in public.
@@hw2211 Go listen to a song by Snoop Supafly and Kurupt called "Build You Up, Tear You Down" ... Song makes me laugh when these girls stress me the French toast out
My ex wife,was a party animal and i wasn't being too supportive to her with that kind of lifestyle, i sat her down one day and asked her what percentage of her commitment to family is she willing to give in order to establish a healthy family relationship/ party? the answer was 70% for party 🥳, God dam it !!!! that was my breaking point ,i ran 🏃♂️ as fast as i could to get away from her because she was serious about what she said, she was not a wife material.
I like to rewatch these every once in a while. I know I have some critical decisions to make, considering my mother was JUST like this, and still is. She's upset that none of her kids talk to her because we all know how stubborn she is. She rarely ever keeps herself up aside from getting her hair done, and she doesn't go out or socializes all that often. She still has our dog, but she definitely had that bitter attitude that came behind having 4 kids by two men who really didn't want to be involved. She wasn't a super feminine woman by any stretch of the definition, and her behavior was leaning heavily on masculine for as long as I can remember. I fear for her most times because she lives alone and never tells anybody when something goes wrong. But i think its because reality has sunk in. She understands how unfair it would be to have us hang around at her beck and call. It hurts, lowkey, but that is my mirror if I am not to be a married woman. Kids or no kids.
A man can raise a daughter. The MOST important thing a man can teach his daughter; How a good man works hard, handles his business, acts proper, treats a good woman, morals, respecting herself. What a man expects from a good woman. So when its her turn, she goes looking for a man. She knows what too look for , what's expected.. Men haven't changed. We still more than happy to provide protect, & lead the home. We're not asking for anything different. No special considerations. Whats changed? Who?
Truth, the she knows what qualities to look for! Not because he's good looking or have money. Speaking from experience. Father of 6 grown Daughters and very proud of their outcome with their Husband's
@@alexandernixon873 That's what I'm talking about. I have a daughter. The best thing she ever told me; Daddy I dating a guy, I really like. We're serious. Its a bit creepy( in a good way) He a lot like you. He's a good man. Treats her right.
My wife works nights (not over) after 8 years of not working while the children were young now 11 & 12 year old now, my job now is 5o teach my son and my daughter as a chef my daughter is getting a free cooking class all the time along with my love also how to be a wife to a man
@@holylambmedia Guess, who taught my wife too cook? I knew she couldn't cook. She knew I hated doing laundry. We worked it out. Eventually, her meatloaf is better than mine. My daughters baking bread bringing it, for tomorrow. Women don't understand. If they're there or not ? We still have to do everything else. Cook, clean, do laundry, pay rent, bills. The rest is extra.
As a wife of a high value man, I'm going to do something special for him as soon as I finish here. Lord have MERCY! Thank you GOD that we met and he loves me still.
I am married to a Christian 6 figure man. We met when we were children. I never realized how so lucky I am. Throughout our years the world has twisted up my mind and he was strong enough to pull me out of it. I am crying 😢. Right now. I feel so bad for this woman. I could have been her, If I didn't submit and take his lead. Kevin works hard for for his community 👏. Who would have thought watching him give advice to a this woman would have such an impact on someone like me. This hit hard and I as well will do something special for my husband.
My sister became pregnant and her boyfriend married her. They had another child during the marriage. Even though her husband worked everyday took care of the home, my sister was still living the girls gone wild life. He eventually left her. To this day my sister has not remarried and all the men she became involved with never saw her as a potential wife. She’s almost 60 and still single. Listen to what Kevin says, he’s speaking truth.
My sister is the same way. Unbelievable!
Now she officially belongs to the streets!
@@bluu_ice6554 she's age 60 bruh, the streets already retired the Jersey 20 years ago
Marriage is considered slavery to most women
@@colbalt95 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
Ten Lies that Women think Men also believe:
1: Men will forgive their promiscuous past.
2:Men aspire and love being Stepfathers.
3: The men that they friendzoned will always be there for them as a back up plan. After they’ve been pumped and dumped by the Chads and Tyrones.
4: Men want partnerships and don’t want to be the leaders of their relationships.
5: That men will accept them as they are. Regardless of their age, weight or parental situation.
6: Men don’t have standards.
7: Men care about a women’s income and education.
8: Having a degree and a high paying job will increase a woman’s SMV (Sexual Market Place Value)
9: That being fat is the same as being curvy.
10: Men will always find them attractive at any age or size. Even when they’ve hit the wall.
Number 3 is the best one only simps will wait in the friendzone for there chance.
facts
For point number 9, I find it hilarious that being obese is considered curvy. Obese is literally the definition of less curves and having a more cylindrical shape in all directions. So there are no curves unless they count the over head perspective which is pretty much a circle for such people.
for woman, that is a delusional goal requirement list
Heavy with 8 and 9
As a white Canadian male, what Kevin speaks about, can also apply to "Modern" white women, in general. The similarities are eerily similar. When I was in my 30's I would have benefitted from listening to Kevin. I hope the young men who are listening to Kevin truly think about what he is saying. There is gold in his advice.
You’re correct.
It’s definitely a conversation for all modern women in a westernized reality.
Salute sir
Damn bro, didn’t know white guys were going through the same thing.
Very well put!!
@@lertubThe "Modern Women" affliction believes in spreading the sh-t in a fairly equal and dynamic way. In the end, men are all brothers, regardless of race, religion, etc.
“It’s funny when a man is going to lose his life defending you, but he ain’t a man for you to follow.” -K.S. WOW! BARS! 🔥🔥🔥
Some real shit ain't it .. makes you really think about who you dealing with and why
Ouchh..."be a man n fix this fix that fight for us defend us......but we're not obeying, following or listening to no man"
Straight Proverb!!!!❤️😞😔😢🫶🏾
@@ddawk1019 Your statement(from a woman's pov) just assured that there is hope for us.
Facts
70 year old white male here that enjoys listening to a man with intelligence, and integrity
Same here he's brilliant
White 60 year single female..just eating it up..you’re right..he was brilliant
Share some wisdom with us the younger generation, what should we prepare for or what did you learn in your years?
@@bonganipeter9433 make more money and save more
@El dorado Well said, and same here. It's delightful, listening to a man bringing intelligence and facts to the chaotic matter of relationships.
She said men can't raise girls. My father raised me and my sister while divorced and single. She is married over 20 years. He never bashed my mother even though she was the one that cheated and left us.
God bless that man 👊🏾
Your dad is a good man 🙌🏽.
Single father's raise better children most of the time.
What a man!
A man can't really raise a lil girl to be a woman and a woman can't really raise a lil boy to be a man
Her: "You think a father can raise a daughter!?"
This was such a disturbing response/question. The child is literally HALF of him. If you feel so strongly that the man you made a father is inadequate of raising his own, you are apart of the problem because YOU CHOSE that man.
Mic 🎤 drop for this one..... *Goodnight Errbaddy* ✌️
Exactly!
Ask her if she can raise a son
I raised my daughter by myself
Mic 🎤drop✌️
Single dad here. Raised my boy myself since he was a year old. Now he is 16, straight A student. Plays outside LB in football, and runs 11.24 100M in track. Men raise men.
You are doing a fine job with your child and should be proud…go take a road trip with him for a vacation when you can. Quality time makes memories and creates magical moments. 🌟
Me also sir . Single Black dad. Single Dads raise kids better than single Moms ! Facts
men raise boys to be men women raise men to be beta's/gay
Keep it up bro, need more situations like this rather than the other way around, way too volatile
Salute
Brah Kevin be killing me with these titles 😂 first Andre 3000 now Kadijah lol keep em coming
Oh shit, Crank Lucas is in the house!!! 😎
Bruh lolol. Andre 3000 had me on the floor 🤣 😂 U gotta tell me who kadijah is?
@@watdog2012 kadijah is a character from Living Single. A popular show in the 90s. Played by Queen Latifah
U ain't lying Crank lol 😂🤣
Hilarious as hell because she actually looks like Latifah/Kadijah. Dent in the middle of forehead and all 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
This man is giving therapy for free...being a father figure for free, and giving the cheat codes to relationships to the black community for free.
I was thinking the same.
Truth!
Nor only for the black community. I'm a white man from Germany and these trends are here as well and me and all brothers have to be enlightened of modern women desillusions.
I am Asian. This man is gold. He’s helped me more than anyone else when it comes to real relationships. Gone too soon. RIP.
Does therapy even give you advice like this? Or make you reflect like this?
Im Brazilian and I can see the same thing here. Men needs to know this. So we can raise daughters and sons. R.I.P KS.
This is like listening to a child. This is an adult mother with the wisdom of a ten year old.
Unbearable to watch...and to think, she has offspring. 😳
If you don't *live up* to responsibilities, you don't *grow up.*
That's a slap in the head for all ten year olds.
But looking at queen Latifa
My ten year old has more wisdom than this !!
"You don't get higher than your baby daddy", is one of the biggest facts I've ever heard.
This video has to be one of Queen Latifah's most underappreciated performances.
Lol. Looks just like her.
Lol. She's cute though.
😂
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Samesame mannerisms too. Lol
When Kevin said “it’s not hard to get a husband, it’s hard for y’all to be wives” nothing but facts 📖
@7 Dollar Roethlisberger facts. I think that a lot of women fantasize about the wedding day, but not the actual marriage and the amount of work it takes to sustain that.
Boom
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 Yup, it's like how they want the high value man but never think about how he got there and maintains it. They want his lifestyle, not fit into it or support it. The women who walk away from these men. They usually have the same complaints, and it aint cheating. It's lack of attention and not being around much smh. 6 figure men travel a lot and work their butts off.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 It's their special day of being a princess in the center of attention. Validated in front of their peer group. A party with cake and wine. That's as deep as it goes. Thy can tick this day off of their bucket list and strategise with their friends how to milk the poor workhorse of a man in divorce so they don't have to work a day in their life. And back on the carousel they go, having broken the man, the narcissists that such women are.
as i read this he said it....wow
It’s funny that a “real man” has to lose his life defending you but he’s not a man for you to follow.
Godfather dropping gems.
Right!?
I gave a huge round of applause on that one! Nobody in the coffee shop knew what the hell I was clapping for.
She doesn't value any man
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Mic drop 🎤
This man is needed. He was taken from us way too soon. He barely scratched the surface with his potential. TBH, I wouldn’t mind watching someone who copies everything about him. His style, his advice, his sayings, desk, lighting, everything. I’d subscribe. Someone needs to pick up the torch.
"A man is expected to risk his life and defend you, but you think you're not expected to follow him as a woman and let him lead"-Kevin 💯
That's about it really. No thanks.
Facts most of these modern single woman 👩🏽 want too be the man and so independent well you can be independent and die alone
Make sure she's the right one - as they say, because the wrong one will leave you hanging off a cliff.
@@metalmike570 By a fingernail if you are lucky!
I want this on a shirt
That Kia Optima analogy was golden. Masterfully conveyed the dynamics of the dating scene.
That was golden.
Spot on
Sir.... Watch it again... she did not get that analogy.... she did not realize that she was the used car.
@Babyface Nelson I know right.
Yesssssah that was perfect
I've dated a few single mothers in my lifetime and while they each had positive qualities, their sense of entitlement was a bit over the top. One treated me like I was still just an option and another turned out to still have a party mentality and ultimately, we were not compatible for the long haul. In short, my experiences with them has led me to believe that a single mother should NEVER be the first option for a single man without kids! Gents, build your own empire and legacy with your own seed!
My friend would say he doesn’t like playing on another man’s saved file.
You're absolutely correct. I've had the same experience. I dated a woman with a child who use to talk bad about her baby daddy and she was extremely entitled. She would talk crazy like she had a big D,baller waiting for her around the corner. I got out of that situation. I dodged a bullet. Most of these women with children are entitled, delusional,live in a fantasy world and really believe they have more options that they actually have. Most of all they blame the men but they fail to realize they picked the man they had the children with
Single mothers need to find single fathers. Both sides play the fair game.
Go Kevin!
@@Xeroph619 when I was still in the dating world, this is what I heard from a couple single moms. They preferred a man with no kids or a man with kids much older than their kids.
I’m glad he pointed out the utter lack of structure with the 5 year old! What man wants to deal with that? Times 2?
"You can't build with somebody who keeps leaving the job site" 💯✊🏾 👑
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Kevin and Andrew is what this world need What a tragedy Rip Kevin free Tate
Deep message.
Samuels: "When a man goes to lose his life for you, but he's not a man for you to follow."
Me: Facts!
No answer for dat one
@@freshdude2603 Right.
bars
@@FatherAndTeacherTV that shit hit different when he made that statement
@TradMum What modern woman is going to let a man lead them? At least a modern blk woman won't. Their social media friends told them that they need to boss up and move like men. Good luck to them
"I take care of my kids"
As Chris Rock said...."You're SUPPOSED to take care of your kids ! What do you want? A cookie?"
Ladies want special recognition for being human/ mothers
Men too, women do it and men don’t, what’s up? Cmon, stop making single mothers. Marry her. So many excuses but men spreading seeds like a garden 🙈
Responsibility HAS to fall on women when it comes to procreation.
Take 10 men and 10 women. If one woman sleeps with all the guys, 1 baby is made. If one guy sleeps with all the women, 10 babies are made... Did you not see it when Kevin brought up how most of the black kids are coming from a small minority of guys?
@@tyrone2434
If you actually looked a what Chris Rock said he said it to both men AND women.. Why do you assume he was only talking about women?
@@eleveneleven572 I wasn’t talking to chris rock 🤣 I’m replying to a comment bro please I mean no hate
Kadeesha said I’m not just gonna go out and get an abortion every time I get pregnant… my God how far we have fallen….
Her "I needed a reliable car"
Kevin: " men need a reliable woman" FACTS
That was a gem of a comparison. You could see the gears in her head turning trying to find a reason why it doesn't apply to her but we all know it's true
@@starskater1988 That part hit her so bad
@@hem2032 and YET she still doesn't get it......sad
You do know he’s always referring to hvm and what they want. He rarely mention what average earning men want which is most men..
Went straight over her head though....
This reminds me how my ex kept talking shit about me to my daughter that she made her hate me but I still stayed around for my daughter supporting her and covering her needs I didn’t say a word but when my daughter was 16 I sat her down to talk to her about me she said daddy you don’t need to say anything now I know the true story I remember how she treated you when I was 5 but still want to hear you if you like to talk so I told her truth without making her mom look bad still so now we have very good father daughter relationship thank you God
Amen!!!
Single mothers talk sh*t about the father of their children because they lack accountability for the part they played in the failed relationship. In most cases, women are the root cause of it because they have thrown the intelligent part of their nature out the window to focus entirely on their emotions because in their distorted mindset, it's all about how women feel and what they want to feel that fits into their false sense of reality; but when their children become adults, they realize that their mothers were the ones who were sh*tty with bad qualities because accountability felt like kryptonite.
Damn dude thank you for not stooping to your exs level.. it helped your daughter so much.. and made her a healthier person to see her father act with respect and care
What did this devine entity do?
Your comment made me feel emotional.
Kevin definitely speaks the truth in these videos. My mother, after getting divorced from my father, focused on her career and now at 60 is struggling to find a good job in her field to pay the bills because few companies want to hire her at that age. So she works 2 jobs to make ends meet, but it still isn't enough, so my brother and I have offered to cover the rest of her financial costs so she doesn't end up homeless. Because of this and because of Kevin I will definitely be prioritizing relationships and cooperating with a man so I don't end up in a similar situation when I'm older
You’re wise
🙏💪🍆
Aww so proud of you & your brother thats generous & Loving but yet Sad that its come down to that.. atleast now you see to better your relationship w Men you R on the right path!
She attracts men that have girlfriends or wives because they see her as side chick or just for sex type of woman. She doesn't meet men that are looking for a wife because they overlook her. She still doesn't get it.
My mom never married when she came to America and had me with my then married dad. He was sort of trying to make it work with my mom but he was a Colombian national and got caught up in drugs and got deported. My mom still works but is largely on government assistance, dad got divorced and kicked out of the house from his original wife and after seeing all this I've been with my fiance for the the past 6 years and plan on marrying soon and having a kid hopefully and being a stay at home with a small side job. Life wasn't meant to go about it being single and miserable.
I just came across this show. Kevin gave excellent advice. I just saw in the comments that he passed away a couple of years ago. I'm so sorry to hear that. RIP Kevin 🙏❤️💐
This woman is exactly what's wrong with the community... She takes pride in being a single mother and doesn't even recognize how destructive her mindset is on her children. Telling her daughter to be just like her when she knows she's miserable is ludicrous, speaking down on men consistently in the presence of her young son is absolutely atrocious.
You ask most children that are raised in these single mother households if they've ever had a positive tangible male influence & they'll say no, because these women project their hatred for men onto them. I've always said the increase in homosexuality and not only the black community but across the board has been because of shitty parents... Ain't no way the percentage of gays skyrocketed over the past 4 decades cause "it's more accepted" these parents have created an environment of incredible hatred towards men's masculinity that they sissify the boys & then in tern masculinized the girls. It's a horror cycle
She should leave good men alone.
I second this.. I thought I was a weirdo to think homosexuality came from poor parenting of single parents talking down on the opposite gender ending up with a whole lot of sissified men.. thanks for pointing that out
Big facts, Chiseled Adonis?...now why does this tag look so familiar hmmm?🤔
@@licioussamuelsit comes from that and also comes from Modern diet and modern lifestyle the atrezen in the water and sprayed on crops biologically turned male frogs female, plastic acts as estrogen screens all day porn, etc
I've said this before too. And homosexuality is higher among blacks than among other demographics which is not surprising when you look at the rates of fatherlessness. It correlates perfectly. Masculine women raising their sons to be either angry and violent or feminine and weak. It's a truly vicious cycle that Kevin worked so hard to undo.
Kevin is a modern day saint. I live in an Asian country and I believe the lack of government support helps keep Asian women grounded. No benefits or social security in a lot of these countries. I'm a father of three, two daughters - and I'm trying to instill my daughters with his wisdom. My favourite saying of his is 'Marry before you carry!' Keep up the good work, Kevin. You're a godsend!
100% correct…I am African and there’s not a single government support for no woman…You are either building with a man or you get kicked to the curbs
From what I've observed about the asian cultures (at least east, north-east ones like Japan, Korea..) some of the most influental factors are lack of government support (just based off what _you_ say, idk the actual aid the government has for women), family burden culture (taking care of parents, grandparents, etc) and the extreme work culture (996 culture) .
From what I see, Asian men don't even *GET* to see how terrible feminism _actually_ is because the other cultural problems mask it so much and come before it.
The government bit is also interesting, because studies done in America show that women *_OVERWHELMINGLY_* vote left/democratic and for *MORE* government. They _love_ big daddy government, especially because they basically pay 0 net taxes.
Your best bet for your daughter is a more antiquated approach of marrying them off early, but given your cultural circumstance, you might not even be able to do that unfortunately.
1st world societies really f**ked themselves with this feminism shit. 🤡🌎
Yessir!!!! Women would respect and honor men more if the government didnt take care of them.
@@DTreatz
Great comment. You know your stuff! Take 'Big Daddy Government' away and you will see so called 'strong independent women' melt away.
Benefits keeps modern women too comfortable.
When I was in school getting my degree, one of the statistics that shocked me and kinda got pushed under the rug was that Single Fathers raise better children then Single Mothers. Kevin’s content just proves it.
Perfect...but that does not fit any woman's narrative.
I have two friends who are single fathers who raised their kids after intense custody battles to get them. They are definitely better parents across the board of the women they had the kids with and they had to fight tooth and nail to get their children.
Well a lot more women don’t mind being step mothers, that also play apart too. Men are not judged like women for having kids
@@Love-fn9bi😍
@@Love-fn9bi Because the dynamics between men with kids marrying women and women with kids marrying men aren't the same. Men CARE that you have children because that's (generally) money out of their pocket to care for HER kids. And men are (generally) expected to be providers for children anyway, so women who end up with men with kids aren't (generally) being expected to help provide for his kids. That's why men and women are judged differently. The things women look for in a mate and that men look for in a mate are simply are not the same.
Thank god I met my boyfriend at 11 and we started dating at 12 (a few break ups and get back together in our really young teenage years) but now we’re 35 and own a home and we’re even able to take in one of his elderly relatives who couldn’t live alone anymore, we moved him into our downstairs. We’ve gone through EVERYTHING together and he’d do anything for me and I would do anything for him. We’ve had bad days, bad months, even some bad years!!! But never crossed our minds to leave each other. Stronger together.
This channel makes me remember how lucky I am to have my husband. He's better than me and I don't deserve him. The world inflates the heads of women, I'm not excluded from this. This channel helps me keep my head straight and make sure I treat my husband the way he deserves. Thank you.
I would disagree within which you said about yourself second line!@violet5610
"He's better than me .&.I don't deserve him"!
I would say if I was to ask your husband!
He would say!
"You're better for him".&."simply by having you in his life"!
Through the good bad.&.any other!!
Tears to laughter!!
It makes his life a better place to be!
Just by having you within it.
Never undersell your own value lady.
I agree with you. I struck gold when I met my husband. Nothing made me happier than making him happy. I didn't deserve him but I'm so lucky that he disagreed. And yes, was better than me and that's how it's supposed to be. I submitted to him willingly. Unfortunately, I’ve been a widow for the last five years and I doubt I’ll find another great man.
So you mean a man marry you and you two are not evenly yoked, you're low on morals and values you like discipline and consistently consistency you do nothing with your life you've been amounted to nothing wow maybe he should have married another woman since you think so little of yourself
Sorry to hear. But least you experienced it@@stardustmelody2709
Preach the word!!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️😔😔🥺😢
Kevin: I kept asking myself "who does she remind me of"? Answer: Queen Latifah
queen la queefa
but she ain't got Queen Latifah money.
I thought I was the only one
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When she was cute, with less weight and not sleeping with women.
That comment he made about the kid being up til after 11pm makes a great point. EVERY family I know with the father in the house is so much better organised/structured. I see it with my kids too. All it takes is a look from me and THEY KNOW but their mother can't seem to pull it off. And I didn't realise how rare it had gotten to have a well behaved family but almost every restaurant visit we had people would come up and comment on how well behaved my babies were, I'm talking 1 year olds and toddlers even. I realised folks were just so grateful that their night out wasn't spoiled by spoiled, loud, unruly kids. Kids love and thrive when they understand the rules and have them enforced consistently. I hate that parents raise children. No. You raise them to be adults and adults have to operate within the rules. This shouldn't come as a surprise to any kid who has been raised right.
Yup it's that implied threat of hands on their butts. In school when we had a female sub, it was party time. Male sub? N one wanna test those waters. It's why guys tend to cooperate because no one really wants to get into fisticuffs. Throw women into it and dudes get killed.
Well said .
I know what you mean. My 1st year teaching I tried being nice and the kids , 9th graders , ran over me. The next quarter I became better by setting and enforcing class rules consistently. Once they release that everything calmed down and I started to enjoy it. The kids did to.
I am an old fart. But I still remember that it was the second drawer on the left that squeaked loudly because that was the one the paddle was kept in. HA.
Might not have taught anything else worthwhile but you learned not to disrupt anyone else's chance to learn anything.
Wasn't any vandalism or much of any other nonsense either.
That said we had two recesses and after lunch to bleed off MOST of our rambunctiousness. And P. E.
Kids HAVE to be kids or you TURN THEM INTO "problems".
Now recess is used for political correctness indoctrination, gender identity exploration, or something equally non bill-paying.
Too God be the Glory King 🤴🏽✌🏾
This is by far one of my favorite videos By the Late Great Godfather Rip. This man changed my life so much.
Mines too one of my favorite ones I’ve saw so far
This Is a thankless job Kevin Samuel is doing and I don't care if he makes a million dollars out of it.the value of this man un the black community Is vastly underrated.
I get what you're saying but a job that makes you millions in fans and dollars is not thankless
And it's not just a black problem... Granted it's worse in the black community but even in the UK white community this sort of attitude is rife. These women just don't seem to see the correlation... If every partner they've had has been bad then they're either your choosing the small minority of wrong partners or they just keep scaring the good partners away... Why is it that the father of her youngest has married someone else and not her... It's not all women and it's not all men... However it would statistically appear to be a problem with women having too many expectations of the men they are choosing (women being the ones ending the relationships)... You want a $500k a year man? Wtf would he choose you when he can get a newer cleaner version that is willing to work WITH him not against him. Men aren't biologically meant to be monogynous anyway so this whole cheating bs doesn't make sense... Not saying it's fair or right by a man can't help being what a man is. Women aren't that way biologically, it's something that's increased since the whole independent women men aren't shit crap that's been drilled into women these days... Pisses me off listening to these things... But it's so relatable that I can't help it.
@@kurtmayhew895 Man let the track breath! You are spitting HOT FIRE! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@@cliffpostell508 truth be the truth 👍
I agree. Truth is medicine.
Queen Latifah trippin!!
LOL!! I said the same thing!!! 💯
Holy shit😂
Noice great minds see alike!!!
She trying to "set it off"
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Kevin is single-handedly showing men how to properly evaluate women and not to settle for a low value woman, EVER!!!
Big facts!
Low value women?? For a bunch of yall do nothing ass men? Lmaooo
KS IS A JOKE
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@@jackiedsolis1977 sign language
@@jackiedsolis1977 Why are even here? This isn't Twitter, lady.
This has to be the most POWERFUL KS video made!
Damn, this woman could actually win a Queen Latina look alike contest hands down…
Queen Latifah, yes she looks just like her!
Absolutely! Thats what made the title so funny 🤣
Yes!..I thought I was the only one, she could pass for her sister
Yes.!! Very pretty
@@Jbs6187 I'm not sure of the number. She just looked pleasing to the eye.
“You don’t get no higher than your baby daddy!” Preach Kevin!
especially 2 of them
I do not believe it.
Truck driver.... that's it
@@Richie-xr7zb why not?
@@scotttracy9333 she can't believe it, because she probably has 3 babydaddys and she only has hope left to cling to...
KS is been a father figure to too many of us in the black community, and I don't think he's getting enough credit for this work
I LOVE HIS MENTORSHIP 👋 IT'S NEEDED
Sad that you have to go to you tube to search for your missing father.
He's like that uncle you don't want to believe but you know it's the truth.
It’s sad that most of y’all are fatherless tbh.
I have a father, all the things KS has been saying is no news to me, myself and sister are all married with children for years known, is just I finally realized most people can't stomach this level of truth
I had to come back to this vid to hear more bars because of what I’m going through with a woman now who is actually my son’s mom. But the bar for the day is… “You can’t build with someone who keeps leaving the job site.” -K.S. WOW!!! BARS!!! 🔥🔥🔥
Good luck 🍀
This woman is strange. It's like she gets it and then doesn't get it at the same time. She'll say 'you're right' and then say some other bs in the next breath. I'm afraid it's too late for women like her. You can't mold stale bread.
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Naw she's like most people. She gets it, she doesn't accept it.
Perfectly stated! Her facial expressions and communication is highly bizarre. Just chaotic. Smh
@@naimreed8247 I think you nailed it here.
Unfortunately, she is not that strange. Too many black women are like this, and you are supposed to deal with it, or you are not a strong man. Therefore, I want to die alone. Men will have to adapt.
When my wife left after 20 yrs of marriage, I raised my 2 daughters ALONE...they are now 38 and 40 and doing great...DON'T TELL ME MEN CAN'T RAISE GIRLS!!!!
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Kevin will say their masculine bc the father raised them. Yep
Are they married?
Nobody’s saying men/women can’t raise children on their own. HOWEVER, are they going to have the same emotional balance and healthy relationship example as someone with a two parent home? Definitely not.
facts 💯
This man was doing good died way too soon his message is well needed In our community
I notice his subscribers count is still growing
This woman's casual hatred of men is appalling. It's repugnant. She hasn't given any thought to her hatred, contempt, and vilification of men.
"And what do you bring to the table?"
"I'm nice."
She's not even that. She's filled with an idle rage. I pity her son, but her daughter as well.
I think he was taken out..
@@puddingtame3483 they always come for the truth.
Many believe somebody or somebody's helped him with leaving here early.
Im 47 yrs old no kids own 2 businesses 2 houses totally single but extremely busy
who rubs your feet at night?
@@blaineVannhe’s prob ticklish bro
Are you happy?
@@aaronjohnston1584 happiness is relative. Don’t rely on chasing happiness.
…. I know a guy who left his wife because he was unhappy, shacked up with a hot young thing who made him happy, and drove himself into a bridge last week - leaving 2 kids.
This conversation was so deep. Logic over emotions. This is a true reality show, not like that junk on mainstream media. Thank u KS!
Agreed 👍✌️
Amen
Kevin does it well. It’s basic bait and swap techniques. Nothing ground breaking. Just simple. The Notorious K.R.S.
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Man KS needs a vacation for real he trying but these modern woman just not getting it smh 🤦🏾♂️
Kevin has done more in my opinion for that black community then all the conscious gurus combined...this is real work!!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏☝💪
She think she got a 75% chance of getting married?!? I got no kids but at 46 YO I know where my number is and it is NOT over 50% because I’ve aged out of the process and cannot provide children. We have to know where we stand realistically before we can move up or down.
@@jackievargas8457 do you have eggs though? If so you can work around it.
He is Goated
Don't forget that hypocrite ass Steve Harvey he'll do anything for some money including lie to these women. Steve Harvey has did a lot of damage to black women and they don't even know it. And so has Tyler Perry and he dress up like a woman
Not just the black community.
A 5 year old should not be up at 11:20pm. He is right.
Holy f. I was in bet at 1800 or earlier. No tv for me until 10 years old. My parents were very strict but a 5 year old up at almost midnight? What in the f hell? Where is the friggin father?
@@azmodanpcShe left him with her triflin SSS
I'm a 43 year old engaged man (& oh white af) and I've learning a lot from this man. If my fit, friendly, feminine, childless fiancee saw this channel she'd quickly put 2&2 together. Thanks GF.
When he said that you don't get higher than your baby daddy, her brain short circuited. LMAO!
😂😂😂😂😂
@Edward Robinson 6:01
like you can literally see the hamster wheel in their brain frying
And she's a liar. She said she was 16 when she got pregnant by her 24 year old boyfriend. And claims he was depending on her.... foh.
This worries me and makes me want to continually push guidance into my daughter's lives.
Stay vigilant, the future depends on fathers putting in the work today.
Right on bro
You have to my brother this is the only way that they will be straightforward what's ahead of them. Salute to you
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That you say that and are actively in their lives will almost 100% make your daughters better off than to see the world this way.
This is the conversation every father needs to have with his daughter !
and son
Indeed!
Still relevant today Kevin. You completed your assignment and the momentum continues with other creators. Sleep easy.
Imagine how this woman's son would feel, watching this years later and seeing how his mother generally regards him as a mistake that isn't her fault.
I was basically told that I was to blame for being here. I said, I didnt chose to be here, you made the choice & we know you didn't swallow.
@@DezGrowSpot Ouch!!!!
I think its best if people are honest because clearly having these two idiots raise their “mistake” isn’t working out for society. Coming from a mistake myself. Be honest so we can establish a real solution.
I remember my mom saying I was a mistake. How she should of had an abortion. I laughed it off and told her if she had an abortion I would have really lucked out. Lmao
@@Spokentruths725 ✊✊👊
The risk of getting pregnant is on women. She KNEW he didn't have a rubber on. She WANTED to try and trap him and it didn't work. Now she's passing the buck off. She could have said hey no rubber, no NOTHING. Even WITH the risk falling on to her. He's right accountability is like kryptonite
"So its not his fault he got me pregnant?" It takes 9 months to have a child, I didn't even look at it like "Oh shes trying to use a child to keep a man" I just thought she was being dumb on purpose. There were red flags through her pregnancy but she ignored them and is trying to burden other people, f that
Women need to learn that a child will not keep 99% of men, if they don't want to be there, they don't want to be there.
If a woman has used a pregnancy as a casino chip, get out of that casino---because in the end...the house always wins.
bw pick men based off looks first and foremost that's why they have the problems they have
@@bwstophavingkidsoutofwedlo9872 melanin woman pick men of dysfunction there’s a reflection of themselves selves
You do know woman only carry the seed right? The man is actually the one who provides the seed to carry. Can't place the blame on the woman the blame is placed on both casual sex having grown individuals who knew if sperm travels up the tube to meet with egg and boom 💥 a baby is conceived
I miss him a lot he was very intelligent I feel like if a lot of women got out of their feelings they would really benefit he taught me a lot as a 19 year old lady REST IN POWER KEVIN 😢🙏🏾💙
True most BW was so into their feelings they missed the Message.
Kudos to you young lady and very sad to know that it was a black woman that killed him trust dat very sad
I miss him as well 😢
This videos should be show to high-school!
A master class by Kevin. Absolutely crushing debate. He lays it all out.
She has contradicted herself so many times it’s just embarrassing . I appreciate her honesty but it just exposes the lack of self awareness.
She just liked the attention and enjoyed pulling Kevin leg when discussing stocks and stuff. She lack facts with stuff she was saying. Smh
Man the quote from KS “ you don’t get bigger then your baby daddy” 🎯🎯😭😭
@@jeremiahdavis3398 A lot of women don't understand this. They think a man is just suppose to overlook there pass and just accept shit. Doesn't work that way with high quality guys.
Exactly wat I was thinking
At least she is being open to accept constructive criticism on such a public forum. 🌹
The fact that modern women having multiple babies out of wedlock is more excepted than being married to a husband is very telling of why our community is the way it is..smh
Well said.
Faaacts
@Maynard Mcnair My family hasn't had a marriage since 2014. We've had a lot of babies being born, but no weddings. So, when he said 80% of our kids are born out of wedlock, I never paid attention to it before, but I'm starting to realize how serious it is.
Yep!!!
"Black Family is husband, wife, and children"
"Black Comunity is mother and children."
Sad and very true
10000%
All by design, stay woke
This is so 100% true
Sad but true.
Kevins Wisdom Lives On! RIV!!
This sequel to Living single is so good.
She do look like queen Latifah
😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
khadijah even had some kids, the reboot is lit
“You have abstinence “
Mother of 2:” and I have been doing that.”
No, you have not been doing that.
Lol just few months
They only considered it after they’re used up. Wish an old broad would pull that stunt. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂💯
Well.. At least in a 90's kind of world.. She's probably glad she got her girls. My advice is for her to keep her head up. That's right! Whenever this life gets tough, I hope she fights! 👊🏽 💪🏽
Best comment ever!!💯💯
...and lookin' like Queen Latifah at that 🤦🏽♂️💀😆
True blue, we tight like glue!
Hysterical! She is Dana Owens twin
Lmfao!!
Awesome analysis, Kevin. He is right on every point!
She doesn't realize the more she insults the person she chose to have kids with the worse she looks. It's so strange to me that she can laugh at the things she says? This is kind of traumatizing in a way.
BROOOOO❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️💯
They always do this and its because when they say it to other women they get sympathy. "Girl he was abusive/drug dealer/pedo" no other women ever say "WHYD YOU HAVE A KID WITH HIM?"
@@thedredgod Getting sympathy from other women is powerful.
It's wild how many women seem proud to brag about how crappy their chosen partners were. Lady, that doesn't say anything good about your decision making or maturity
@@casualcausalityy then they’ll be like “he was toxic”
Ok and so was she if she attracted him 💁🏾♀️
"Im not gonna go get an abortion every time i get pregnant"
They act like getting pregnant is something that just happens. The casualness with which black women treat motherhood is astounding to me.
it’s some severe 304 syndrome.. but then again it cuts both ways.. I met a guy who’s girl told him she was pregnant and he was seriously considering ghost in her
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FACTS
P
What about the men who do the impregnating? I could get behind KS message as a house wife/stay at home mom, but he hardly ever gives men any accountability
This sh*t is unbelievable... 🤦🏽... This woman just said "eww" to marrying a man that got her pregnant. You CAN NOT MAKE THIS SH*T UP!!!!
She needs a reality check and she didn't get it here, tho ks tried his best
Facts
Queen Latifah i know that's you! Can't fool me!
"So many women can't have lives because they are taking care of their mother." I felt that 🥺 the truth
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That's the reason I left my X. Her mother still controls her at 55.
Holy shiite I am learning so much. I as well took the stepfather route with a very masculine controlling and ungrateful woman. I love my stepson and he and I have a good solid loving connection to this day. I’m very proud of him in many ways. On the other hand I’ve completely cut his mother out of my life. RIP Kevin and I thank you for caring enough to spread your message. It truly crossed over into my life and has helped me in more ways than I can count🙏🏽
We as a people, need to understand the truth from God! " do not covet your neighbors home. Do not covet his wife, his children. Or his property", the truth is we as men and women must understand whom God is and what our purpose is! ... even though society saids " anyone can be a husband, but it takes someone special to be a dad!" The truth is the truth! We must stop teaching kids the many sins they learn through school and society! The usa allows the religion of satan! The usa allows tv shows like lucifer, the usa has a president who takes his oath to God with the bible, then has homosexuality groups and transgenders! The usa now has a catholic named " joe biden" ...please research to see joe biden gave an evil promise and said he would work like the devil!, people like the show " the view" has evil women. Telling sinful things to their veiwers, also " kamila harris was born with Hinduism and was named after a hindu goddesses " , yet she cackles and laughs about her many sins that she commited to gain political power, ... the usa news teams should show the joe biden evil promise to work like the devil! Congress should watch his evil promise. ,the world has many leaders and eachbof them have the ability to tell the truth! For years the queen of england was married to her cousin and called him " prince not king" now their son king charles is the leader of england and also the head of the church of England, yet the world ignores the truth from God! The 3rd temple is about to return! Red heifers are ready to be sacrificed! And the temple that king Solomon built is written about in the bible! Those whom God hives his testimonials are in the holy bible! " the evil woman Jezebel has many who follow her ways today from hillary clinton, kamila harris, tiffany henyard, fani willis, leticia james, and feminism who tell women to have sex young fornicate and use their bodies to make money and gain control of others!"... while the true God promised in the holy bible book of malachi the holy prophet Elijah will return! He will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children and the children to the fathers or God himself will come and strike the land with a curse! ( even read the book of malachi to read how God gives a warning for men not to treat the wife of their youth treacherously!". In Atlanta mr wade had sex with fani willis world wide they see this case! The judge and Georgia government and usa government have the bible they can read the truth ! Chaplains from the pentagon and armed forces can read the bible! And all can see these events taking place! Still how many ignore " the torah" and the " tanakh "? How many change the holy sabbath day? How many public schools teach santa clause? Easter bunny? Cupid? St Patrick? How many teach secular heroes? How many teach sex education and abortions? While the holy commandments are written in the holy bible and can be read clearly for children to learn truth! ... " faith and works " victory outreach has a founder named " sonny" how many " treasures out of darkness has he helped others? Has he spoken truth to them? How many of them claim God dwells in them?,how many say the still small voice in their mind or heart has spoken to them, so they claim " trinity" ? As they can read the holy bible and see when the king had a dream, he told the holy prophet Daniel to come back and explain and describe the dream before he interprets the dream! And the holy prophet Daniel was able to do that! Think of those now who claim the same God dwells in them! They should be able to rebuke joe biden! They should be able to rebuke the women who teach others to be like the Jezebel! ...those who hear and know about the 3rd temple from God, should know the truth, if God dwells in them! ....so please humble yourself to God! Ask God to forgive you for your many sins! And ask God to take over your life!
You sound like a very good man... I pray that you find your forever queen ...
Kevin, I'm about 100+ hours into your content and I'm a 53 year old single HVM. This is the BEST interview I have seen you do. While I would prefer to have a black woman as a girlfriend, I have found that I need to go to South America or Africa to find women who are not destroyed by modern feminism and delusional lack of accountability. Thank you for the work that you do!
Your dead already this is a illusion
@@sarahrochellexo Well, according to objective statistical measurements as defined by the commonly accepted definition of HVM, I most definitely am. I'm just stating a fact and it is irrelevant whether you think so or not. What concerns me the most is your attack on me and not commenting on the content of the video, which is the relevant topic here.
@@sarahrochellexo and you being here trying to down a possible HVM, tells me you’re most likely a 40 year old spinster with 4 kids from 4 different daddies, working a minimum wage job, no degree, overweight, eating a bucket of KFC chicken while having skid marks on your only old wore out Victoria secrets drawers watching Baps on cable paid for by an alimony check.
So much for assumptions right?
Don’t give up hope! There are still decent black women left here. I hope you find her 😊
@@sarahrochellexo Congratulations! That means you're not overweight! About 10% of what it takes to be a catch for a HVM. Where's the other 90%?
This was a long conversation but a great one!!!
The refusal to accept any accountability is truly disgusting. They giggle like as if this isn't hurting them kids with deeply traumatic experiences due to the men she chose. Now she expects a high value man to come in and save her?? The delusion is fucking unreal!!
I wreck my brain with that shit it stresses me out I see why guys loose it and go off the wall!
Some of these women are truly monsters and I’m not being melodramatic
@@tarharqataseti9261 I use to think I was the problem and it killed me inside but now no way won’t let myself go threw the pain!
LMBOOOO 😂 😂 😂 😂 EXACTLY 💯
@Mic Jack.. Beautifully said..and that's why these females need to DETOX..& come back to reality! Shalam.
When ks says mental illness is real, we can be so combative and hard to listen I know a woman who refuse to go back to live with her man who owns his home because she didn't like something he said. Mind you when she got sick he took care of her. Refusing to cooperate because she got hurt feelings. Queen Latifah still think halfway thru this Convo that men are the problem. I can't
I was about to say she looks like a skinny Queen Latifah.
@just bree Some Men Are.All Men are not the Same.Mostly Everyone on here have been in more than One Relationship
@@paulbunyan9436 My Best Years was & Still is Everyday the Good Lord wakes me up to see Another Day❤🙏❤
I am so glad I am not the only one who thought she looked like Queen Latifah😂
Queen Latifah 😄😂🤣
Kevin pointed out that her 5 year old child should not be up at almost midnight and all she did was make excuses for the lack of structure she is providing for that child. It would have been nice if she would have said "you're right, Kevin" and then told her son to go to bed. That's what she should have done.
Oh please.. there’s no school. Being up late is a treat for me. Let kids be kids. The world is hard enough.. let them enjoy some fun in their lives.
@@lucky4evr1 kids are adults in training. They thrive with structure. Depriving them of the structure they need is like depriving them of food and water. You are advocating child neglect.
I think it's more about structure. I agree that it's the night before the holiday but he is 5 not 10.
And she continued to ignore that 5 year old for this call.
@@lucky4evr1 That is why when the kid grow up, they don't have discipline, or structure. Habits are formed at young age. You apparently, have no clue.
This is an important conversation Kevin Thank you for pointing out the challenges many face We should discuss these issues openly to create positive change
As a women who FOOLISHLY became a single mother at 25 with one, 26 with two. I was in college, before ever getting pregnant, and was working. Then true low self-esteem rose up
In me, and boom I attracted exactly what I subconsciously thought of myself! My children are now 17 and 18, believe me the woman I’ve become now would have never ever attracted such matters. Nope, I would have loved myself enough not to even get in that struggle situation!
Ladies love y’all beautiful selves, and start young. Don’t even think about becoming no baby mama, until you’re a wife! If you have low self esteem, take yo arse to therapy QUICK! No God don’t put such trials and tribulations on ourselves!
I was such a Foolish type of woman back then, and let me tell y’all something it did not add up to a hill of beans. I’m just telling y’all the Truth! Don’t settle for being a Single Mama when it’s Gods will and way for y’all to be wives first! I don’t blame no baby daddies, because deep down I knew better, but just didn’t do better! NO excuses period!!!!!!!!
Don’t none of you ladies bring unborn children in a quicksand foundation! The children deserve so much more!
God bless you and keep you. Hopefully your message is heard.
I lucked out. My father was a master architect built a firm, taught me architecture. Was dating a girl who had a ignor
🔥!
I am so glad you came to this realization and take the responsibilityfor your 🎬 it's true every word you have said may God bless you and your children
My first born has graduated from High School today. I don’t care it may have been accomplished 7 months later. Today, that high school diploma looks so nice and grand. He went through but he got TO IT, and handled his business!
Hopefully your message is heard. God keep you and bless you.
My wife complains often about how the kids give her a hard time when i am not around and asked why is that. I told her the same thing kevin said, because men provide order and structure. All it takes most times is a glance.
Damn right. My dad looked at me or my 3 brothers and we straightened out quick.
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That’s why moms have to be stricter. We are with them more.
Boom. That's the short of it.
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I don't comment often. Men are held very accountable, and they need to be. But this just opened my mind to the carelessness of a woman and the possibilities of pregnancy. You're bringing a "Life" who will need to be taught and cared for. It's detrimental for a child not to have a both parents.
When left to their own devices, they are inherently selfish and narcissistic.
@@casket8530 Exactly!
They don’t care…they are completely indifferent to the consequences of their lives’ actions. Men can NEVER operate on this low-level frequency and still have the option to pull women of quality.
Their plan is to use their child as a means to hold a man capture that they couldn’t otherwise KEEP.
@@P.90.603 yet in EVERY other scenario it’s THEIR BODY THEIR CHOICE
@@xlaw6272 Their so arrogant and deluded they use their prime years to chase bad boys, careers, and hvm and try to lock one down. If it doesn't happen in time, they believe they can consolidate on a average guy later on in life in their 30s or 40s. It's a mating strategy that's failing them, men must be educated on this.
I love how honest the man is. This should be a video ALL young woman watch.
I’m a grown assed Black Man (45) and this almost brought me to tears. THEY came for us, RELENTLESSLY for hundreds of years, and we FOUGHT them back-only to have our own “women” help in our destruction!!??!? God help the CHILDREN! 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
These women are delusional, it's gonna get worse because they love social media more than a man, trust & believe that.
They bought into the feminist movement and said to hell with us. They chose to join a white woman’s movement but when the chips are on the line they get behind their men black women do not
Truer words were never spoken
Do the plantation narrative, sir. Your racial conspiracy theory does to you what feminism does to women.
Everything you need to know is in the (1611) Bible.
"You guys choose shitty men and then you blame ALL men." K.S.
That is such an uncomfortable reality check a lot of women need. Instead of acknowledging and evaluating their mistakes in showing a pattern of falling for seemingly attractive men who are ultimately neglectful, dishonest or unfaithful, the likes of Khadijah will attribute these traits to all men. Accountability is like kryptonite to her.
Before anyone misinterprets or twists what I said, I do not blame women for getting into relationships with abusive, manipulative men.
I do they the gateway to sex.
I concur
I blame them for staying with them and making a baby with them. If they ignore red flags that's on them
"I'm going to make a way" equates to I will be relying on my children to take care of me 😳
Pretty much. My own mother in a nutshell
Preach
@@ieshjust16 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Fail to prepare ,presto fail because those children havnt been put in a position to help them selves let alone anyone else ,here in the UK by age 16 were paying full rent to our parents and not a penny is held back to be gifted to us to use wisley so by the time we're 18 we're debt ridden and living check to check abd when we're 25 plus no different and those mums are asking for help with living costs when they set their breadbusket up failure from the word go .
Or slinging booty
Let’s a 5 year old stay up till 11pm… enough said
When women join his IG, I always check out their profiles. It's usually the same thing every time: bikini photos, glamour shots and claims of being a boss/hustler... But then they get on Kevin's show and they have no kind of financial awareness, deal with pookies, and seem to struggle to follow basic logic...
Every single night
Sadly that is most
Don't forget the blatant son husband captions on their kids pics too
@@Kii_J >> "the blatant son husband captions on their kids pics"
Ouch I physically cringed at that. So true. And the "she's my best friend" captions on a daughter who looks like she is looking for the escape exit.
Whats her IG fams
All...The...Time...
This was a top 5 live for me. The patience of KS is outstanding, I would've been done 10 mins in. Keep doing Gods work KS.
Me to..after the first 5min I wanted to click off because this was difficult to watch .
It was a shame with all that work he did with her...It was like talking to the freaking WALL......*shakes head*
This chick couldn’t back a single point of hers with logic. It was pure emotion as usual.
@Mai A I'm not even surprised. Even when I listen to my female family members have these types of conversations, they sound just like this woman. No accountability. And the saddest part is, they don't realize how foolish it sounds. A bunch of deflections, insults, what aboutisms, and the last resort of saying "i agree": because they've been backed into a corner.
This was painful to get through. Kevin was doing God's work here.
Bravo Mr. Samuels. This was a very good episode that every single mother and single woman needs to hear.
I love Kevin he cracks through women and their bs delusions and make it viral. This content is needed to get out there for the younger generations to see ❤️❤️
Man this hit home for me. I was dating a woman who was so against the grain of the natural order in terms of masculine and feminine. She had that I don’t let any man tell me what to do attitude and a sadly enough I had to let her go. The disrespect, poking the bear play victim mentality becomes exhausting.
Im in the SAME boat as you & she tried to come back Not 1 Not 2 BUT THREE!!!! Of course I dusted it off but I released her back to the street she had her chance & blew it
@@joeysoG same as mine. Even popped up at my house unannounced at 1am! Talking about people go through things and “you’re not perfect either”. I may not be perfect but I’m not disrespectful/cheater/ feminine. I believe she met a good man and she’s not use to that because she looks at herself as low value. So instead of accepting me as she should she tried to tear down my confidence by attempting to humiliate me in public.
@@hw2211 Go listen to a song by Snoop Supafly and Kurupt called "Build You Up, Tear You Down" ... Song makes me laugh when these girls stress me the French toast out
We gonna have to leave them "I aint gonna let a man tell me what to do" women for the streets
My ex wife,was a party animal and i wasn't being too supportive to her with that kind of lifestyle, i sat her down one day and asked her what percentage of her commitment to family is she willing to give in order to establish a healthy family relationship/ party? the answer was 70% for party 🥳, God dam it !!!! that was my breaking point ,i ran 🏃♂️ as fast as i could to get away from her because she was serious about what she said, she was not a wife material.
I like to rewatch these every once in a while. I know I have some critical decisions to make, considering my mother was JUST like this, and still is. She's upset that none of her kids talk to her because we all know how stubborn she is. She rarely ever keeps herself up aside from getting her hair done, and she doesn't go out or socializes all that often. She still has our dog, but she definitely had that bitter attitude that came behind having 4 kids by two men who really didn't want to be involved. She wasn't a super feminine woman by any stretch of the definition, and her behavior was leaning heavily on masculine for as long as I can remember. I fear for her most times because she lives alone and never tells anybody when something goes wrong. But i think its because reality has sunk in. She understands how unfair it would be to have us hang around at her beck and call. It hurts, lowkey, but that is my mirror if I am not to be a married woman. Kids or no kids.
A man can raise a daughter. The MOST important thing a man can teach his daughter; How a good man works hard, handles his business, acts proper, treats a good woman, morals, respecting herself. What a man expects from a good woman. So when its her turn, she goes looking for a man. She knows what too look for , what's expected..
Men haven't changed. We still more than happy to provide protect, & lead the home. We're not asking for anything different. No special considerations. Whats changed? Who?
Truth, the she knows what qualities to look for! Not because he's good looking or have money. Speaking from experience. Father of 6 grown Daughters and very proud of their outcome with their Husband's
@@alexandernixon873 That's what I'm talking about. I have a daughter. The best thing she ever told me; Daddy I dating a guy, I really like. We're serious. Its a bit creepy( in a good way) He a lot like you. He's a good man. Treats her right.
My wife works nights (not over) after 8 years of not working while the children were young now 11 & 12 year old now, my job now is 5o teach my son and my daughter as a chef my daughter is getting a free cooking class all the time along with my love also how to be a wife to a man
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@@holylambmedia Guess, who taught my wife too cook? I knew she couldn't cook. She knew I hated doing laundry. We worked it out. Eventually, her meatloaf is better than mine. My daughters baking bread bringing it, for tomorrow.
Women don't understand. If they're there or not ? We still have to do everything else. Cook, clean, do laundry, pay rent, bills. The rest is extra.
There are so many women in their 30s and 40s that still behave like teenagers. It's exhausting to see now.
As a wife of a high value man, I'm going to do something special for him as soon as I finish here. Lord have MERCY! Thank you GOD that we met and he loves me still.
You do that. Congratulations.
Bet you're a good woman.
@@saltyjosh I asked hubby and he says I am, LOL! And that's all that counts.
I am married to a Christian 6 figure man. We met when we were children. I never realized how so lucky I am. Throughout our years the world has twisted up my mind and he was strong enough to pull me out of it. I am crying 😢. Right now. I feel so bad for this woman. I could have been her, If I didn't submit and take his lead.
Kevin works hard for for his community 👏. Who would have thought watching him give advice to a this woman would have such an impact on someone like me. This hit hard and I as well will do something special for my husband.
I legit hit the gym, came home, cleaned and cooked dinner because baby I’ll keep mine. I’ll keep my HVM.
I. Yea rgg
RIP, KS. Job well done. Too bad you didn't get to enjoy the fruits of your hard work/labor. Salute, good brother.