Wear shoes that are healthy for your feet. Fancy shoe companies will NOT pay for your doctor's appointments to correct the damage their "stylish" shoes create!!!
True true! Years of pointy heels and now in my later years my feet are a wreck and sandals are a distant memory. I was glamorous in my youth .. but the price I paid is definitely not worth it. Now shoes are so hard to find to fit my horrible feet. Sigh… what price beauty?
Having worn pointy heeled shoes for too many years - they were the finest, however they still resulted in my disforming my toes, I wholeheartedly applaud what I consider to be the “ liberation of the feet”. Why sacrifice health to beauty when we can have both? There are many aspects of the new shoes aesthetic that I love, good common sense is one of them.
I agree 100%. The high-heeled clogs made me roar with laughter. As a Dutchwoman I can tell you that clogs were designed for use in marshes and farmlands! But here's my question: what does the elegant woman with arthritis wear?
Thank you for this video! I agree...don't lose looking elegant to follow trends like these. I also had clogs a long time ago and they weren't comfortable at all. I have resisted buying them again.
Was so happy to see clogs come back. I loved them "the first time around" and I love them now. Comfortable? I must say I find them very, very comfortable to walk, never any problems getting around in them.
I have found Dansko clogs to be extremely comfortable and move naturally. You can't wear them with everything but they look great with a pair of jeans and a sweater/blazer
I agree 100% with the shoes/sandals you chose to cover. Every time I see the Birkenstock style sandal, it makes me think of Fred Flintstone, and he didn’t wear sandals, he just had big feet. And that’s what that style does to anyone who wears them. Question? Why do women wear thick-soled boots with a beautiful outfit? I’ll never know. You may have guessed, you really hit a chord with me. Thanks for covering these ugly shoes and sandals.
Maybe people like myself with arthritis of the feet who can’t put pressure on their big toe? We have to wear rigid soles that don’t bend and shoes with a wide toe box. Not attractive but no option.
@@Ilovechicpeas Hi llovechicpeas, you know you’re the exception to the rule. I’m referring to people who don’t need to wear them, but do. I have two friends who wear the more stylish flat shoes because of bad surgery and arthritis. Thanks for sharing.
For some of us with foot problems, Birkenstocks are a Godsend and the only sandal we can wear in the summer. Dainty shoes ruined my feet, and wearing Birkenstocks have corrected my foot issues.
@@natmiller6863 You got it‼️👍🏼 I mentioned above that I don't own these kind of shoes and I have never worn any, but ladies let me tell you something.... The older we get the more our body changes as well... and those one's who are now arrogant, who have never had any issues with their body or legs or arms or whatever might end up some day with exact these *shoes*. If they like it - or not ‼️
I’ve been diagnosed with big toe arthritis and as a result am unable to wear heels which I love. Unfortunately for some, the type of shoes you featured are the only ones people like myself can wear due to limited movement in the big toe.
Yes, the ugly clunky shoes are not elegant and pretty. But, I live in a city amd we have to walk. Sometimes 10 miles a day. None of the stylish shoes have enough support for my lifestyle. Loafers come close but my feet are narrow and I walk right out of them. What to do?
I have some very fine looking wedges that are beautiful with longer dresses. Having spent my youth in 4” stilettos, my ankles and toes are now distorted to the point I need an operation. I now require comfort and balance instead of the classic elegance of a high heel. I’m a classic dresser and always complemented on what I put together, so I think it’s just about finding a good balance, I also think it depends on what type of woman you are. Confidence is everything, no matter what you wear.
Well I guess I’m the villain in this story: I own two pairs of clogs, I own Birkenstocks and the fisherman sandals as well, all these shoes are utility pieces meant for hiking, cycling, beach walks, summer activities, travel, gardening etc. Ugly? For sure -I would never wear them to town OR when dressed up. In our summer house and on holiday? Yeah baby!
I own several pairs of Birkenstock’s, and I’m planning to buy some fisherman sandals as well. No apologies from me. Just like I’m not a fan of high heels (I do love kitten heels, low wedges and a small block heel) . I think high heels can translate as overdone and overly thought out. But, each person likes what they like.
lol guess I'm the villain's villain then...I wouldn't be caught dead wearing birkenstocks or fisherman sandals, not even while hiking or cycling or faffing around in the garden 😂 but what's a villain's villain called?
Oh, Gemma! Bravo!! I am so on board with your thoughts about all these shoes! Chunky shoes equals Clunky shoes and definitely not flattering on the foot! Straps around the ankles actually cut off the leg “at the ankle”! Sometimes, I wonder…don’t they look in the mirror, ya know? Thank you for bringing this topic to light! 💕
Usually if you have long toned legs tclucky shoes work well because you aren't vying for every inches of leg real estate. I'm my opion her recommendations were a bit grandmother's and maternal looking. White slip on heal and white slip on sandals like what is this a retirement catalogue?
My biggest mistake purchase this year that I splurged on were the chunky loafers. I wore them once and felt like I was wearing cement clodhoppers. In the donation bin! What a waste, but a lesson learned.
To me, clothes, shoes and accessories are all about play, not about being "classy", sophisticated, etc., unless of course that is your priority, and that's fine too. My adult daughter is very "classical" in her look, it works for her. I used to be, but I'm not anymore, as it doesn't work well on me. I like to "break" an outfit with something totally unexpected, knocking the whole thing a bit off kilter. That's the "play" part for me. 😊
Yes, these shoes look ugly. But some of them have soles or padding in them to make them feel as though you are walking on pillows. Some people need the support of thick straps to hold the shoe on their feet. Others have foot issues that prevent them from wearing the elegant shoes we would all love to have. I cannot wear slip ons, slides or loafers. No matter what, they fall off my feet. I wear what is comfortable for me to wear and walk in. If they look ugly, there are more important things in life than ugly shoes. Anyway, I can look elegant from the ankles up. Lol.
I love the look of lots of these chunky shoes and am enjoying the trend. I love the juxtaposition of the the heavy masculine footwear with the feminine pieces or with the more androgynous suit or tailored trousers. I pulled the look into my wardrobe with a couple of pieces and I’m loving it!
Exactly, this woman is conflating elegance with outdated. Also I have long toned legs so they actually look quite nice in a chunky hee the flat sandals and slip on white heel she recommended was old maiden
I used to wear clunky espadrille wedges as a teenager; my mum always said that it looked like I had a couple of house bricks on my feet! I used to roll my eyes at the time, but looking back....she was absolutely right!
I do have some clogs… I occasionally wear them with jeans. I have always had clogs, I like the height they give me, they are comfortable, I like the way they look and sound. I don’t care if they’re in fashion or not. I’ve bought now and again since the ‘60’s. I love beautiful shoes and boots also. I wear pretty sandals in the summer. They all get worn. I agree with you on the ugly clunky sandals. I always watch your videos, they’re very well done and helpful. ❤️🌷
With the exception of the 'fisherman sandal' I totally agree with you about the others as have a pair of the former (cognac in color and have a good gripping sole) as might wear them for protection of my toes on certain terrains as well in a warm climate, where otherwise one might choose sneakers/trainers which do not appeal to me. On that note however, slip on sandals with a low block or kitten heel and single vamp strap IMO are not only that unstable to walk in but can be very noisy on rigid surfaces with their flap-flap-flap-flap..... 😊.
I don't know how you kept a straight face throughout your video, Gemma! It gave me the giggles. Your analogy to the golf clubs is spot on! And the clunking clog walking video.....haha!
I am a nurse and wear black leather clogs with my scrubs. I'm on my feet in these for 12hr shifts. Wouldn't wear them if they weren't comfortable. But not for general wear for me. I had a navy leather wooden sole pair in the early 80s and yes they were noisy 😄
I have two pair of the Veronica Beard Dacey clogs, and while I love them, you’re correct, they clomp when I walk and can only be worn for a few hours at a time.
Women w/ thick ankles/calves can pull of some chunky platform sandals, b/c it creates the illusion that the ankle is smaller. I’m tempted to buy Birkenstock’s b/c they look so comfortable. 😄
I badly sprained my ankle 8 weeks ago and it is still healing if it wasn't for me purchasing a pair of Dad Sandals I wouldn't have been able to manage to walk and improve mobility. I have worn them with everything and to be honest I quite like them. I am looking forward to wearing my other Sandals and heels but that's still a long way off. It's made me re think about shoes in general . I am sporty and dance a lot and being restricted has made me appreciate how lucky I am to have good mobility normally. We aren't all wearing them through choice. But as I said they have helped me a lot. Great video...thanks.
These aren’t just ugly, they’re HIDEOUS!! I wish people would consider what looks good rather than follow the latest trends. That has little to do with having actual style. Love your videos!!
I have a pair of clogs that I bought about 10 years ago that are very comfortable, but they do have a small "lip" on the heel that helps keep them in place. So, maybe they are more like mules, but they definitely look like clogs.
I find a lot of the "trendy, fashionable" shoes so ugly! I don't understand! Sometimes people have such a nice outfit, and then you look at the shoes...😆. Thank you for this video!
Totally agree! I think some designers are sitting back & laughing their heads off at the shoe-fashion victims clomping around like Frankenstein's monster.
I'm not a fan of most of these shoes personally but I do love a platform. I love comfortable height as someone only 5 feet. I accept they might look like cinder blocks but I have come to terms with that.
You are absolutely right! Yes, the beauty might be in the eye of the spectator, but it's just personal preference. Real beauty is always balance and harmony which these shoes certainly don't have.
I liked to wear chunky boots (like the brand "Dockers") in my 20s, especially in fall/winter ... now I'm 50 and totally agree with your perception and opinion 👍- and I wonder how I was able to walk around all day in those heavy pieces?! 😉😄 Sunny regards 🌞
It’s all about the proportions (and arch support, of course)! I love my flat form espadrilles, cork sandals and one pair of fisherman’s sandals. But I only buy them with soles about an inch thick and flexible, in colors that blend with my skin. My feet are big enough to make the clumpy versions you showed look like cement blocks - especially those Dr. Martens!🤣 Great tips as always!
You are so right. I have been thinking all year that shoes have got so ugly I am just not going there. I clomped around in clogs and Frankenstein shoes back in the 70s. Never again.
Agree 100 💯 per cent! I bought chunky loafer earlier this season and brought them right back the day after when my husband told me I looked like I had a surgery boots on!
I love the chunky look. Unfortunately I’m too old to pull it off. But I think the older we get the harder it is to walk in the elegant shoes. Everything gives me blisters. I’m always searching for comfortable shoes. So I welcome ugly shoes if they are comfortable and trendy.
Giiiiiirl no!! You’re never too old!! Wear those chunky shoes, you’ll look bad ass!! My 63 year old mother in law has platforms and she *rocks* the hell out of them! And also in my personal opinion the “elegant shoes” only reveal your age.. the first ones she showed are basically slides with heels, barely different from crocs with heels if you ask me 👀💀
Totally agree. Some shoes might be fashionable but then I don’t really understand WHY because they are so ugly !! Don’t they see that and just believe they should buy because some company says they are trendy?
After the pandemic 😷 MANY women & men, want to continue to have comfort in all wardrobe staples. I like the vast opportunities in the new fashions. We all know that “Elegance” will never go out of style & I agree about the super clunky look - though I actually do like most of the shoes you mentioned. 😂 Lest not forget that some people were/ are stuck at home & understand that they don’t want to wear slippers all day, anymore!
I believe elegance is an attitude which has room for the chunky shoe trend. Sometimes practicality must meet form and function, particularly if you live in a city where walking is your primary mode of transportation. I believe there are sophisticated versions of the trends that make for a happy medium.
Your opinions are my opinions! Completely agree. I did own a pair of clogs in the 70"s because they were in style for a while then, but they were hard to walk in.
I agree with most of your choices and think those chunky/heavy shoes ruin an outfit. However, I have 2 pairs of clogs by Merrell and they are the most comfortable shoes I own. I have foot problems and need an arch support also I cannot have an over flexible base so the inflexibility you dislike is what makes my feet pain-free. I do struggle with how to they drag down a look but sometimes comfort must win.
I'm with you. Shoes can make or break an outfit. Thick, chunky shoes are not generally flattering. I much prefer classic, sleek sandals and loafers. And yes, I owned clogs but they were indeed uncomfortable.
Great video Gemma! I despise Birenstocks as well, but here in northern California both men and women wear them as a statement, like driving a Prius. Our daughter bought a pair recently, in metallic silver! Gaaah!!
I agree totally with what you have shown. I think that the chunky boots and the chunky shoes are so unfeminine. I really don't see why women wear them. Thanks for the video 🥰
Great video Gemma, as always. I have witnessed my daughter go from being a classy pretty lady to a bizarre looking fashion victim when wearing a very clumpy boot. It seems as if all our femininity is being taken away from us with the latest fashions. There quite simply is not one current trend that is relevant to me at 54 years old, any clothing that is boxy, oversized, chunky, cutouts or masculine has no appeal whatsoever to me and I feel as if my age group are being ignored and left behind because of it (I do remember chunky soles and clogs etc from the seventies and they weren't great then!). The divide is immense and quite sudden as if it caters ONLY for the young (30year old and below). I now feel I have to be even stronger in my views of my own style in order to feel ok with the way I choose to dress. To be able to dovetail a trend into my classic wardrobe is great but these days it just does not work! Who are these dress designers? and who are we to feel we should concur with what is only their ideas of clothing?
I recently returned to a high-end mall for the first time since the pandemic started. I was appalled when I saw those ugly, chunky designer sneakers costing hundreds of dollars. I agree that chunky shoes seem to be all the rage. The mall used to equally cater to all ages; now, it seems to focus more on early 30s and younger. Like you, I loathe boxy, masculine cuts of fashion. I was sad that our Nordstrom eliminated classy designers, such as Burberry and St. John’s, and started focusing more on “younger” labels. I guess I will have to stick with my favorites that I bought 20+ years ago and look classic (even though people are so casual in my hometown these days-the only people who wear jackets/sportcoats these days in town are attorneys and my mom-so sad).
@@alexandraeverafter1015 In a world where peoples views and opinions are so openly aired on social media and we are made to feel we need to be the same as those around us, to reflect society, that is what I see around me. My daughter, as an example isn't choosing her trendy clothing because she likes them BUT because she feels the need to fit in, being led by others ideas. I adore dressing when done appropriately, choosing what is right for me, my age and lifestyle. So sad that we are being pressured to be led I just hope that eventually things take a natural turn for the good, one can only hope! I am lucky that I have a husband who encourages me to be happy, to be myself and to show the world, so to speak, that there is much more to life than being following the crowd and to feel free!
@@d18nac my thoughts exactly. The best style is the style you’re comfortable with. I agree social media dictates what is cool and what isn’t. I am sorry your daughter feels pressured to choose what everybody else is wearing, not what she actually likes. Pressure to fit in costs money, and I wish I could get back the money from my purchases (way before social media) I made just to fit in (my “popularity level” didn’t even budge). That was still a learning experience. I am glad your husband likes you just the way you are, not for who he wants you to be! I wish there were more people like that-unfortunately, there are too many of the latter!
You’re absolutely correct! No one looks good in these styles. Thin legs, robust legs all look horrible and the beautiful outfits are ruined! Thanks for your honesty!
Great video Gemma! Firstly your opinions matter. We tune in and have the luxury of taking what we want from your content🥰 Secondly, I struggle every summer with shoes. With all my dance training,I need something around my ankle or I fall off the darn shoe. I like a sling back or a nice driving loafer with a thin sole.
Yeah! Someone is finally speaking the truth about ugly shoes!!! It's like the Emperor's new clothes -- finally someone has the courage to say he is naked!! Graceful and elegant still wins in my book. Thank you for standing up for elegance!!!!
I do have some clogs, not traditional ones though much daintier made by Pikolinos and they’re not at all clompy they’re tan with a punched hole design and beautiful soft leather with a small square leather covered heel and I’ve had them for years and have a bag to match! I can nod to the trend without buying new and be much smarter and more comfortable ;)
I think platform thick espadrilles are meant to be worn under flares, wide leg pants and maxi skirts. You know the proportions would be more balanced that way.
I agree with you 100%. I am in my 60s now and have hated ugly, big soled, clumsy looking shoes ever since I was old enough to care what was on my feet! My heart sinks at the start of every season when the fashion industry decides that these sorts of shoes or boots are what we should be wearing because it always comes down to the high street. Over the year’s I’ve become convinced that the fashion industry likes to make women look as ugly as possible! I have never followed trends and refuse to wear any of them and will hunt high and low to find daintier, more elegant shoes or else wear shoes I have bought some years ago that come from a ‘prettier flattering shoe time’. 🥰💜
That’s a really interesting point about designers trying to make women look ugly. Is this a new subversive way to continue to control us…? I just watched A Very British Scandal with Claire Foy and reeled in horror at the power of men. Seems like they’re just getting more sneaky now.
I actually like all of these types of shoes except the clogs. I hv petite ankles but because im petite with tiny feet i think i pull them off as opposed to a taller lady with long thin legs.
I love clogs and have been wearing them for years regardless if they are trendy or not. They look great with wide leg jeans or trousers. Simple elegant slides are uncomfortable and unpractical unless you are not walking or standing.
Unfortunately, I have wide feet and for many years I have tried dainty and feminine shoes which hurt/deformed my feet. Now I wear what's most comfortable and healthy for my feet and they happen to be all chunky shoes and sandals like Birkenstock, Blundstone or Fisherman style sandals. And they will continue to be my staple shoes even when the chunky style fall out of trend
Gemma, I love you and your style videos, which is why I watch them all with interest. You are wise, elegant and stylish, having impeccable taste. These shoes make my eyes bleed. I have 200+ shoes and they are all beautiful, elegant and dainty. These are all hideous and I nearly cried at them, but thank you for sharing your thoughts and pointing out the ugliness of these styles. Let them all burn.... please. Long live elegance and femininity!!! Keep up the good sartorial advice my friend 😘💋❤
I agree, I have skinny ankles and thin calfs and these shoes make my feet look enormous. I have bee on the hunt for comfortable sandals for all day sight seeing that aren't too bulky. I've been looking for years and cant find the best solution.
What is the alternative to a chunky boot for long/feminine dresses? That are easy ish to walk in and are smart casual? for example at a pub/day/night event? Like a mini festival
Hi , I would like to have your advice: what type of clothes goes well with this type of shoe : chunky heel , low platform (it isn't a sandal, it is closed toe shoes) . Color black. Thank in advance for your help.
I literally despise the ugly dad sandals, Birkenstock’s 😱 UGH!!! Any shoes with very thick soles don’t allow your foot to bend when you walk, so you can’t walk gracefully. Agree on the chunky boots too, can’t we decide what looks great, regardless of the fashion statement of the year?
I remember seeing a comic strip about Birkenstock's. I never forgot it! The first frame had a doctor telling his female patient he was unfortunately out of birth control. The second frame had him holding up a pair of Birkenstock sandals and saying, "Just use these instead." Hahaha!
I live at the beach and wear a polished boho capsule and wow my shearling Birkenstocks were fantastic for the season. It was a major stretch for me to wear those, now I get the popularity,
Wear shoes that are healthy for your feet. Fancy shoe companies will NOT pay for your doctor's appointments to correct the damage their "stylish" shoes create!!!
Yes, not so elegant later on in life. Some people become literally crippled.
True true! Years of pointy heels and now in my later years my feet are a wreck and sandals are a distant memory. I was glamorous in my youth .. but the price I paid is definitely not worth it. Now shoes are so hard to find to fit my horrible feet. Sigh… what price beauty?
Yep and just because some styles are ugly to some they might not be ugly to some others and doesn't make them any less elegant if choose to wear them
Please do a video on elegant shoes you can walk in for 4-8 hours outside
That could be a pair of clean white sneaker!
Agree 100%. Just because something is in style doesn’t make it fashionable or sophisticated!
I totally agree with you
I don't own any of these except for some beautiful Doc Browns that I wear thru autumn and winter if necessary... It depends on the occasion.
Agree! 👍🌞
amen to that !
Amen!!
Having worn pointy heeled shoes for too many years - they were the finest, however they still resulted in my disforming my toes, I wholeheartedly applaud what I consider to be the “ liberation of the feet”. Why sacrifice health to beauty when we can have both? There are many aspects of the new shoes aesthetic that I love, good common sense is one of them.
I so agree, I have feet issues as well. I often wonder why women put themselves through the things they do for fashion. You don’t see men doing this.
But rubber flip-flops isn’t one of them. Sorry. Leave them at the beach.
I agree 100%. The high-heeled clogs made me roar with laughter. As a Dutchwoman I can tell you that clogs were designed for use in marshes and farmlands! But here's my question: what does the elegant woman with arthritis wear?
Thank you for this video! I agree...don't lose looking elegant to follow trends like these. I also had clogs a long time ago and they weren't comfortable at all. I have resisted buying them again.
Was so happy to see clogs come back. I loved them "the first time around" and I love them now. Comfortable? I must say I find them very, very comfortable to walk, never any problems getting around in them.
TOTALLY 💯 AGREE!! They are FUN 🤩
I have found Dansko clogs to be extremely comfortable and move naturally. You can't wear them with everything but they look great with a pair of jeans and a sweater/blazer
I agree 100% with the shoes/sandals you chose to cover. Every time I see the Birkenstock style sandal, it makes me think of Fred Flintstone, and he didn’t wear sandals, he just had big feet. And that’s what that style does to anyone who wears them. Question? Why do women wear thick-soled boots with a beautiful outfit? I’ll never know. You may have guessed, you really hit a chord with me. Thanks for covering these ugly shoes and sandals.
Maybe people like myself with arthritis of the feet who can’t put pressure on their big toe? We have to wear rigid soles that don’t bend and shoes with a wide toe box. Not attractive but no option.
@@Ilovechicpeas Hi llovechicpeas, you know you’re the exception to the rule. I’m referring to people who don’t need to wear them, but do. I have two friends who wear the more stylish flat shoes because of bad surgery and arthritis. Thanks for sharing.
For some of us with foot problems, Birkenstocks are a Godsend and the only sandal we can wear in the summer. Dainty shoes ruined my feet, and wearing Birkenstocks have corrected my foot issues.
Wear what makes you happy is the best style tip.
A smile is the greatest fashion accessory that finishes any outfit 😊
@@natmiller6863 You got it‼️👍🏼
I mentioned above that I don't own these kind of shoes and I have never worn any, but ladies let me tell you something....
The older we get the more our body changes as well... and those one's who are now arrogant, who have never had any issues with their body or legs or arms or whatever might end up some day with exact these *shoes*.
If they like it - or not ‼️
I’ve been diagnosed with big toe arthritis and as a result am unable to wear heels which I love. Unfortunately for some, the type of shoes you featured are the only ones people like myself can wear due to limited movement in the big toe.
I have the same problem.
same... I understand you
And me.
Yours are REAL LIFE issues, Which make one realize:
we should be careful in the JUDGMENT 👩⚖️ others’ choices.
Yes, the ugly clunky shoes are not elegant and pretty. But, I live in a city amd we have to walk. Sometimes 10 miles a day. None of the stylish shoes have enough support for my lifestyle. Loafers come close but my feet are narrow and I walk right out of them. What to do?
I was having to walk with a cane before I bought Birkenstock. Fashion is great,but healthy feet matter more and I am thankful for these shoes.
I have some very fine looking wedges that are beautiful with longer dresses. Having spent my youth in 4” stilettos, my ankles and toes are now distorted to the point I need an operation. I now require comfort and balance instead of the classic elegance of a high heel.
I’m a classic dresser and always complemented on what I put together, so I think it’s just about finding a good balance, I also think it depends on what type of woman you are. Confidence is everything, no matter what you wear.
I agree with you on all these picks. I have been skipping so many trendy shoes and sticking to my classics!
Well I guess I’m the villain in this story: I own two pairs of clogs, I own Birkenstocks and the fisherman sandals as well, all these shoes are utility pieces meant for hiking, cycling, beach walks, summer activities, travel, gardening etc. Ugly? For sure -I would never wear them to town OR when dressed up. In our summer house and on holiday? Yeah baby!
@Nelly understandably so! English is not my first language either...😜🇸🇪
Doesn’t make you a villain, just yourself, and that is always the way to go.
The right shoe(s) for the right occasion(s)! 👍😉
Sunny regards 🌞
I own several pairs of Birkenstock’s, and I’m planning to buy some fisherman sandals as well. No apologies from me. Just like I’m not a fan of high heels (I do love kitten heels, low wedges and a small block heel) . I think high heels can translate as overdone and overly thought out. But, each person likes what they like.
lol guess I'm the villain's villain then...I wouldn't be caught dead wearing birkenstocks or fisherman sandals, not even while hiking or cycling or faffing around in the garden 😂 but what's a villain's villain called?
Oh, Gemma! Bravo!! I am so on board with your thoughts about all these shoes! Chunky shoes equals Clunky shoes and definitely not flattering on the foot! Straps around the ankles actually cut off the leg “at the ankle”! Sometimes, I wonder…don’t they look in the mirror, ya know? Thank you for bringing this topic to light! 💕
Usually if you have long toned legs tclucky shoes work well because you aren't vying for every inches of leg real estate. I'm my opion her recommendations were a bit grandmother's and maternal looking. White slip on heal and white slip on sandals like what is this a retirement catalogue?
You are so so honest about these trends.
I really appreciate and respect your opinion.
I completely agree with you. Your golf club visual says it all.
My biggest mistake purchase this year that I splurged on were the chunky loafers. I wore them once and felt like I was wearing cement clodhoppers. In the donation bin! What a waste, but a lesson learned.
The golf clubs got me! 😆🤣 This reminds me of Olive Oil of “Popeye” cartoons. 😆. 5:18
To me, clothes, shoes and accessories are all about play, not about being "classy", sophisticated, etc., unless of course that is your priority, and that's fine too. My adult daughter is very "classical" in her look, it works for her. I used to be, but I'm not anymore, as it doesn't work well on me. I like to "break" an outfit with something totally unexpected, knocking the whole thing a bit off kilter. That's the "play" part for me. 😊
Yes, these shoes look ugly. But some of them have soles or padding in them to make them feel as though you are walking on pillows. Some people need the support of thick straps to hold the shoe on their feet.
Others have foot issues that prevent them from wearing the elegant shoes we would all love to have.
I cannot wear slip ons, slides or loafers. No matter what, they fall off my feet. I wear what is comfortable for me to wear and walk in. If they look ugly, there are more important things in life than ugly shoes. Anyway, I can look elegant from the ankles up. Lol.
My mother would fall if she wore anything that would slip off her feet 🦶🏻 & that, for her could be deadly.
I love the look of lots of these chunky shoes and am enjoying the trend. I love the juxtaposition of the the heavy masculine footwear with the feminine pieces or with the more androgynous suit or tailored trousers. I pulled the look into my wardrobe with a couple of pieces and I’m loving it!
Exactly, this woman is conflating elegance with outdated. Also I have long toned legs so they actually look quite nice in a chunky hee the flat sandals and slip on white heel she recommended was old maiden
I used to wear clunky espadrille wedges as a teenager; my mum always said that it looked like I had a couple of house bricks on my feet! I used to roll my eyes at the time, but looking back....she was absolutely right!
Even the spanish queen wears espadrilles in the summer en she looks very stylisch.
The goed ones are handmade and they are very comfortabel.
@@tolde I am sure they can be comfortable; they just look bad!
I do have some clogs… I occasionally wear them with jeans. I have always had clogs, I like the height they give me, they are comfortable, I like the way they look and sound. I don’t care if they’re in fashion or not. I’ve bought now and again since the ‘60’s. I love beautiful shoes and boots also. I wear pretty sandals in the summer. They all get worn.
I agree with you on the ugly clunky sandals. I always watch your videos, they’re very well done and helpful. ❤️🌷
With the exception of the 'fisherman sandal' I totally agree with you about the others as have a pair of the former (cognac in color and have a good gripping sole) as might wear them for protection of my toes on certain terrains as well in a warm climate, where otherwise one might choose sneakers/trainers which do not appeal to me. On that note however, slip on sandals with a low block or kitten heel and single vamp strap IMO are not only that unstable to walk in but can be very noisy on rigid surfaces with their flap-flap-flap-flap..... 😊.
I don't know how you kept a straight face throughout your video, Gemma! It gave me the giggles. Your analogy to the golf clubs is spot on! And the clunking clog walking video.....haha!
I am a nurse and wear black leather clogs with my scrubs. I'm on my feet in these for 12hr shifts. Wouldn't wear them if they weren't comfortable. But not for general wear for me. I had a navy leather wooden sole pair in the early 80s and yes they were noisy 😄
Dear and classy Gemma, I couldn’t agree more!!! Love your videos. Thank you. ❤️
I had some…just purged them from my closet for my annual spring cleaning! 💐🌷💞
Great 👍 Video . Classy natural lady & always keeps it classy & straight forward 👌 👏
I have two pair of the Veronica Beard Dacey clogs, and while I love them, you’re correct, they clomp when I walk and can only be worn for a few hours at a time.
Women w/ thick ankles/calves can pull of some chunky platform sandals, b/c it creates the illusion that the ankle is smaller. I’m tempted to buy Birkenstock’s b/c they look so comfortable. 😄
Gemma, totally agree with you on all these! I had a chuckle on the "golf club" look! Thanks
I had cloggs when I was a teenager...they're noisy, and very uncomfortable!
I badly sprained my ankle 8 weeks ago and it is still healing if it wasn't for me purchasing a pair of Dad Sandals I wouldn't have been able to manage to walk and improve mobility. I have worn them with everything and to be honest I quite like them. I am looking forward to wearing my other Sandals and heels but that's still a long way off.
It's made me re think about shoes in general . I am sporty and dance a lot and being restricted has made me appreciate how lucky I am to have good mobility normally.
We aren't all wearing them through choice. But as I said they have helped me a lot. Great video...thanks.
I wish you had added the crocs too. I can't seem to understand the sudden fixation about them.
The short video clip of the clogs had me laughing out loud. 🤣😂😆🤣😂
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These aren’t just ugly, they’re HIDEOUS!! I wish people would consider what looks good rather than follow the latest trends. That has little to do with having actual style. Love your videos!!
I have a pair of clogs that I bought about 10 years ago that are very comfortable, but they do have a small "lip" on the heel that helps keep them in place. So, maybe they are more like mules, but they definitely look like clogs.
Totally agree, I have been looking for a chunky shoe, but have not found a pair I like. I have skinnie ankles so I can't do too chunky.
I find a lot of the "trendy, fashionable" shoes so ugly! I don't understand! Sometimes people have such a nice outfit, and then you look at the shoes...😆. Thank you for this video!
I agree - those shoes can ruin a lovely completely! 🙁
Sunny regards 🌞
Totally agree! I think some designers are sitting back & laughing their heads off at the shoe-fashion victims clomping around like Frankenstein's monster.
Clogs Are In Style. They Are More Comfortable Then High Heels. They Are Great With Jeans.
I completely agree, they are all so ugly. Why do people want to ruin a beautiful outfit with the wrong shoes!
I'm not a fan of most of these shoes personally but I do love a platform. I love comfortable height as someone only 5 feet. I accept they might look like cinder blocks but I have come to terms with that.
You are absolutely right! Yes, the beauty might be in the eye of the spectator, but it's just personal preference. Real beauty is always balance and harmony which these shoes certainly don't have.
I liked to wear chunky boots (like the brand "Dockers") in my 20s, especially in fall/winter ... now I'm 50 and totally agree with your perception and opinion 👍- and I wonder how I was able to walk around all day in those heavy pieces?! 😉😄
Sunny regards 🌞
It’s all about the proportions (and arch support, of course)! I love my flat form espadrilles, cork sandals and one pair of fisherman’s sandals. But I only buy them with soles about an inch thick and flexible, in colors that blend with my skin. My feet are big enough to make the clumpy versions you showed look like cement blocks - especially those Dr. Martens!🤣 Great tips as always!
Loved everything! Your style is amazing. Keep up the good work! Sending lots of love 💕
Thank God someone finally said it! Couldn’t agree with you more, Gemma. 😊
You are so right. I have been thinking all year that shoes have got so ugly I am just not going there. I clomped around in clogs and Frankenstein shoes back in the 70s. Never again.
Robert Clergerie makes the most beautiful iterations of platform footwear for any stylish, elegant and modern woman.
OMG. It went from fisherman's shoes to truck tire shoes. And WTH was that on the left at 5:46 ??? I can't stop laughing!!! Thank you, Gemma 🙃
Agree 100 💯 per cent! I bought chunky loafer earlier this season and brought them right back the day after when my husband told me I looked like I had a surgery boots on!
Lol! 😆
I love the chunky look. Unfortunately I’m too old to pull it off. But I think the older we get the harder it is to walk in the elegant shoes. Everything gives me blisters. I’m always searching for comfortable shoes. So I welcome ugly shoes if they are comfortable and trendy.
Giiiiiirl no!! You’re never too old!! Wear those chunky shoes, you’ll look bad ass!! My 63 year old mother in law has platforms and she *rocks* the hell out of them!
And also in my personal opinion the “elegant shoes” only reveal your age.. the first ones she showed are basically slides with heels, barely different from crocs with heels if you ask me 👀💀
Totally agree. Some shoes might be fashionable but then I don’t really understand WHY because they are so ugly !! Don’t they see that and just believe they should buy because some company says they are trendy?
Totally agree! Many, many ppl are wearing these thinking they look good...
After the pandemic 😷 MANY women & men, want to continue to have comfort in all wardrobe staples. I like the vast opportunities in the new fashions. We all know that “Elegance” will never go out of style & I agree about the super clunky look - though I actually do like most of the shoes you mentioned. 😂
Lest not forget that some people were/ are stuck at home & understand that they don’t want to wear slippers all day, anymore!
I totally agree with you on all chosen shoes and to be honest this video made me laugh out loud bc it's really funny how people walk with these. 😂😂
I believe elegance is an attitude which has room for the chunky shoe trend. Sometimes practicality must meet form and function, particularly if you live in a city where walking is your primary mode of transportation. I believe there are sophisticated versions of the trends that make for a happy medium.
Totally agree with your wise assessments!
Your opinions are my opinions! Completely agree. I did own a pair of clogs in the 70"s because they were in style for a while then, but they were hard to walk in.
I totally agree with you these thick heavy shoes ruin any outfit. however I do love the espadrilles in the summer
I couldn't agree more, these style of shoes don't flatter anyone. Glad I'm not the only one who felt that way.
I agree with most of your choices and think those chunky/heavy shoes ruin an outfit. However, I have 2 pairs of clogs by Merrell and they are the most comfortable shoes I own. I have foot problems and need an arch support also I cannot have an over flexible base so the inflexibility you dislike is what makes my feet pain-free. I do struggle with how to they drag down a look but sometimes comfort must win.
I'm with you. Shoes can make or break an outfit. Thick, chunky shoes are not generally flattering. I much prefer classic, sleek sandals and loafers. And yes, I owned clogs but they were indeed uncomfortable.
I so agree with you!! I cannot handle these chunky sandals!! Ugh
Totally agree! I just wear hiking sandals for a HIKE! And my clocks (years ago I thought they are cool) - are just worn in m garden 🤭😘🌷
Great video Gemma! I despise Birenstocks as well, but here in northern California both men and women wear them as a statement, like driving a Prius. Our daughter bought a pair recently, in metallic silver! Gaaah!!
It's all a matter of opinion. I like both of those styles of shoes, and conduct myself like a lady. And yes, even with elegance.
I agree totally with what you have shown. I think that the chunky boots and the chunky shoes are so unfeminine. I really don't see why women wear them. Thanks for the video 🥰
Great video Gemma, as always. I have witnessed my daughter go from being a classy pretty lady to a bizarre looking fashion victim when wearing a very clumpy boot. It seems as if all our femininity is being taken away from us with the latest fashions. There quite simply is not one current trend that is relevant to me at 54 years old, any clothing that is boxy, oversized, chunky, cutouts or masculine has no appeal whatsoever to me and I feel as if my age group are being ignored and left behind because of it (I do remember chunky soles and clogs etc from the seventies and they weren't great then!). The divide is immense and quite sudden as if it caters ONLY for the young (30year old and below). I now feel I have to be even stronger in my views of my own style in order to feel ok with the way I choose to dress. To be able to dovetail a trend into my classic wardrobe is great but these days it just does not work! Who are these dress designers? and who are we to feel we should concur with what is only their ideas of clothing?
I recently returned to a high-end mall for the first time since the pandemic started. I was appalled when I saw those ugly, chunky designer sneakers costing hundreds of dollars. I agree that chunky shoes seem to be all the rage. The mall used to equally cater to all ages; now, it seems to focus more on early 30s and younger. Like you, I loathe boxy, masculine cuts of fashion. I was sad that our Nordstrom eliminated classy designers, such as Burberry and St. John’s, and started focusing more on “younger” labels. I guess I will have to stick with my favorites that I bought 20+ years ago and look classic (even though people are so casual in my hometown these days-the only people who wear jackets/sportcoats these days in town are attorneys and my mom-so sad).
@@alexandraeverafter1015 In a world where peoples views and opinions are so openly aired on social media and we are made to feel we need to be the same as those around us, to reflect society, that is what I see around me. My daughter, as an example isn't choosing her trendy clothing because she likes them BUT because she feels the need to fit in, being led by others ideas. I adore dressing when done appropriately, choosing what is right for me, my age and lifestyle. So sad that we are being pressured to be led I just hope that eventually things take a natural turn for the good, one can only hope! I am lucky that I have a husband who encourages me to be happy, to be myself and to show the world, so to speak, that there is much more to life than being following the crowd and to feel free!
@@d18nac my thoughts exactly. The best style is the style you’re comfortable with. I agree social media dictates what is cool and what isn’t. I am sorry your daughter feels pressured to choose what everybody else is wearing, not what she actually likes. Pressure to fit in costs money, and I wish I could get back the money from my purchases (way before social media) I made just to fit in (my “popularity level” didn’t even budge). That was still a learning experience. I am glad your husband likes you just the way you are, not for who he wants you to be! I wish there were more people like that-unfortunately, there are too many of the latter!
agree.. just thinking of beach or bath sandals.. there are many thick look one.. am tempted to buy and now am thinking😅
You’re absolutely correct! No one looks good in these styles. Thin legs, robust legs all look horrible and the beautiful outfits are ruined! Thanks for your honesty!
Great video Gemma! Firstly your opinions matter. We tune in and have the luxury of taking what we want from your content🥰 Secondly, I struggle every summer with shoes. With all my dance training,I need something around my ankle or I fall off the darn shoe. I like a sling back or a nice driving loafer with a thin sole.
Yeah! Someone is finally speaking the truth about ugly shoes!!! It's like the Emperor's new clothes -- finally someone has the courage to say he is naked!! Graceful and elegant still wins in my book. Thank you for standing up for elegance!!!!
I do have some clogs, not traditional ones though much daintier made by Pikolinos and they’re not at all clompy they’re tan with a punched hole design and beautiful soft leather with a small square leather covered heel and I’ve had them for years and have a bag to match! I can nod to the trend without buying new and be much smarter and more comfortable ;)
I think platform thick espadrilles are meant to be worn under flares, wide leg pants and maxi skirts. You know the proportions would be more balanced that way.
I agree with you 100%. I am in my 60s now and have hated ugly, big soled, clumsy looking shoes ever since I was old enough to care what was on my feet! My heart sinks at the start of every season when the fashion industry decides that these sorts of shoes or boots are what we should be wearing because it always comes down to the high street. Over the year’s I’ve become convinced that the fashion industry likes to make women look as ugly as possible! I have never followed trends and refuse to wear any of them and will hunt high and low to find daintier, more elegant shoes or else wear shoes I have bought some years ago that come from a ‘prettier flattering shoe time’. 🥰💜
That’s a really interesting point about designers trying to make women look ugly. Is this a new subversive way to continue to control us…? I just watched A Very British Scandal with Claire Foy and reeled in horror at the power of men. Seems like they’re just getting more sneaky now.
I actually like all of these types of shoes except the clogs. I hv petite ankles but because im petite with tiny feet i think i pull them off as opposed to a taller lady with long thin legs.
Me, too, some chunkiness improves the proportions of my little, undersized feet.🙂
I love clogs and have been wearing them for years regardless if they are trendy or not. They look great with wide leg jeans or trousers.
Simple elegant slides are uncomfortable and unpractical unless you are not walking or standing.
I totally agree with you . Everything you said is right!!
Gemma! You're opinions do matter, and therefore, I subscribe to your channel, hence, your opinion! You have exquisite taste and style!
Not all the time you want to look “elegant” and “sotisphicated”!!! Thats shoes are perfect for an fun saturday afternoon 🧐
You forgot one! Crocs. Aaaaaarrrggghhhh!!!!!!
Unfortunately, I have wide feet and for many years I have tried dainty and feminine shoes which hurt/deformed my feet. Now I wear what's most comfortable and healthy for my feet and they happen to be all chunky shoes and sandals like Birkenstock, Blundstone or Fisherman style sandals. And they will continue to be my staple shoes even when the chunky style fall out of trend
When the vid segment came on with the feet in clogs walking along the path, I lost it completely 😂😂 great vid overall 😃
Glad you enjoyed it
Gemma, I love you and your style videos, which is why I watch them all with interest. You are wise, elegant and stylish, having impeccable taste. These shoes make my eyes bleed. I have 200+ shoes and they are all beautiful, elegant and dainty. These are all hideous and I nearly cried at them, but thank you for sharing your thoughts and pointing out the ugliness of these styles. Let them all burn.... please. Long live elegance and femininity!!! Keep up the good sartorial advice my friend 😘💋❤
I'm so glad you did this video
I agree, I have skinny ankles and thin calfs and these shoes make my feet look enormous. I have bee on the hunt for comfortable sandals for all day sight seeing that aren't too bulky. I've been looking for years and cant find the best solution.
What is the alternative to a chunky boot for long/feminine dresses? That are easy ish to walk in and are smart casual? for example at a pub/day/night event? Like a mini festival
I totally agree 💯
I totally agree.
I wouldn't be caught dead in those shoes. They just scream to me 😱 "I've given up on life!" 😆
I feel the same. I can't understand the attraction of these clunky shoes. You can have comfortable stylish shoes. Comfortable doesn't mean ugly.
Tell us what to wear if we have arthritis and other mobility issues.
Hi , I would like to have your advice: what type of clothes goes well with this type of shoe : chunky heel , low platform (it isn't a sandal, it is closed toe shoes) . Color black.
Thank in advance for your help.
I literally despise the ugly dad sandals, Birkenstock’s 😱 UGH!!! Any shoes with very thick soles don’t allow your foot to bend when you walk, so you can’t walk gracefully. Agree on the chunky boots too, can’t we decide what looks great, regardless of the fashion statement of the year?
I remember seeing a comic strip about Birkenstock's. I never forgot it! The first frame had a doctor telling his female patient he was unfortunately out of birth control. The second frame had him holding up a pair of Birkenstock sandals and saying, "Just use these instead." Hahaha!
I live at the beach and wear a polished boho capsule and wow my shearling Birkenstocks were fantastic for the season. It was a major stretch for me to wear those, now I get the popularity,
Love this. Gave my the courage to skip these ugly trends