Insane Double Standards for Liking Instagram Pics | Joe Budden Explains

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  • @clifmillercm
    @clifmillercm 4 місяці тому +87

    Parks said it best. No matter the woman, if she look good enough she has a chance with any guy. For men there’s likely no real chance. 😂

    • @Charmer4856
      @Charmer4856 4 місяці тому +2

      Tell it!

    • @AJOSUE
      @AJOSUE 4 місяці тому +1

      💯

    • @pacificbjorn
      @pacificbjorn 4 місяці тому +4

      Men gotta have game, skills, money etc. it’s a lot harder for men to get a woman. Hence the double standards

  • @krisj827
    @krisj827 4 місяці тому +80

    The double standard is ridiculous. You can like pics but your spouse or significant other can't just means both of y'all need to get off social media

    • @vondongaming
      @vondongaming 4 місяці тому +2

      So.. men have to get drafted ans women don't that's not fair but are women saying draft us shut up

    • @qthe6thman
      @qthe6thman 4 місяці тому +5

      ​@vondongaming women are being drafted too if you read the bill. Stay off the shade room sassy man

    • @dominoowens5116
      @dominoowens5116 4 місяці тому

      Welp 🤷🏽🤷🏽 it be like that

    • @jay_1212
      @jay_1212 4 місяці тому

      @@vondongamingwtf does that have to do with anything? That was a rule created by men as well that only men to be drafted in the first place. Stop defending nonsense

    • @Kirbystare1992
      @Kirbystare1992 4 місяці тому

      @@jay_1212who created it doesn’t matter double standards exist get over it. If a girl says to a guy that she used to mess around with girls the man generally speaking won’t hold it against her and still date her. If a guy says to a girl that he used to mess with dudes 9/10 she’s not dating.

  • @TheEsotericChild_
    @TheEsotericChild_ 4 місяці тому +59

    People take social media too seriously… a like is just a like. It’s not as deep as people make it.

    • @IndianG-Trini
      @IndianG-Trini 4 місяці тому +5

      While I agree, I do think a like could turn into something else.

    • @cjohnson_
      @cjohnson_ 4 місяці тому +6

      Exactly. And people gon do wtf they want to do. A like isn't starting or stopping shit. If a mfer cheating, IG isn't the litmus test. People need to get a grip.

    • @cjohnson_
      @cjohnson_ 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@IndianG-Trini so could saying hi irl...I mean????? You can't police people from cheating.

    • @pacificbjorn
      @pacificbjorn 4 місяці тому +1

      A like turns into a DM let’s relax

  • @Checkmate9moves
    @Checkmate9moves 4 місяці тому +25

    Never underestimate our communities ability to justify bad behavior

    • @kozmiclando
      @kozmiclando 4 місяці тому

      True…We Justified The Bad Behavior Of Co1onizers, To The Point That We Allow Those Wicked Individuals & Their Descendants Rule Over Us. Brilliant Point

  • @JordanClemons
    @JordanClemons 4 місяці тому +4

    Learned along time ago that IG is for the insecure and immature. It was one of the easiest decisions for me not to be on there.

  • @sonyap8253
    @sonyap8253 4 місяці тому +52

    If she can't, you shouldn't either. Disrespect is Disrespect.

    • @Luiz-w5s
      @Luiz-w5s 4 місяці тому

      Double standards. Women have theirs too. The broke ones bash another man for being broke. They don't want a broke partner, but are broke themselves and believe they DESERVE a rich guy. And when they are the rich ones, they call dating a man who makes less then them "dating down", and mock women who would do that.

    • @krisj827
      @krisj827 4 місяці тому +2

      Exactly.

    • @Luiz-w5s
      @Luiz-w5s 4 місяці тому +2

      I hate this youtube censorship. You make a simple comment desagreeing politely and they delete it.

    • @mantronixtube
      @mantronixtube 4 місяці тому +1

      exactly why do these men have to hit like ? or follow ? there are plenty of good men who aren’t lurkers on other women if they aren’t their partner .

    • @MrNoSubscribes
      @MrNoSubscribes 4 місяці тому

      ​@@mantronixtube It ain't men it's men like Joe

  • @JustSavwill
    @JustSavwill 4 місяці тому +8

    My ex would gaslight me about this very behavior. Now he’s in a relationship with the girl I noticed he’d be on evvvverrrryy thrist trap photo shed post. Ladies just leave when you notice this stuff. It means they like what they see and want to let the other person know. LEAVE!

    • @jonnyseablue6911
      @jonnyseablue6911 4 місяці тому +1

      He was sparing you you argued now look at you giving the same advice that got you here😂😂 he’s in a comforting place now God bless that King

    • @JustSavwill
      @JustSavwill 4 місяці тому

      @@jonnyseablue6911 what’s funny is, he tried getting back with me while dealing with her. I got the last laugh. She can have my trash I dumped.

    • @JustSavwill
      @JustSavwill 4 місяці тому +1

      @@jonnyseablue6911that’s why he tried getting back with me while dealing with her. 😂 “he sparred you”. Yeah okay 👍

    • @jonnyseablue6911
      @jonnyseablue6911 4 місяці тому +1

      @@JustSavwill baby we all try to double back doesn’t mean anything special 😅

    • @JustSavwill
      @JustSavwill 4 місяці тому

      @@jonnyseablue6911 ok. End of the day. I’m straight.

  • @AlexXDiety
    @AlexXDiety 4 місяці тому +17

    This guy is trying so hard not to acknowledge shit we all know. Pretend on your own time, my guy.

  • @lonnieholmes9723
    @lonnieholmes9723 4 місяці тому +3

    Perceived equality of result is the bane of this conversation. Each relationship has its own level of respect and decorum. Men liking pics should mean anything but hopping in the DMs means everything. Women. Receiving DMs mean nothing but liking pics means everything.

  • @GinaJyneen
    @GinaJyneen 4 місяці тому +2

    We need to bring back Perez Hiltons site cus he exposed alllll the white mess back in the day! 🤣

  • @Duckytattz
    @Duckytattz 4 місяці тому +2

    If humans are the standard for morality, right and wrong, then nothing is inherently wrong. It’s just subjective.
    This is not what I believe, but what a majority of the world lives by.

  • @belowaveragegamer95
    @belowaveragegamer95 4 місяці тому +3

    I hate how double standards are only an issue when it comes to us lol. I guarantee you women aren’t complaining about theirs. Hell a few podcasts ago ya’ll were saying it’s fine for your girl to have a girls trip but know she won’t let you have a guys trip

  • @Bandicucu
    @Bandicucu 4 місяці тому +2

    “If you’re gonna do it let your girl go do it”
    Joe: nah you’re bugging
    Lmfaoo facts
    5:24

  • @Boundlessconversations
    @Boundlessconversations 4 місяці тому

    I think it depends on what they are liking as well. It adds context a bit past the ‘liking’ action. It is a double standard but doesn’t make it a right double standard.

  • @justexciting7241
    @justexciting7241 4 місяці тому

    "Thats why she made you wear the hat" got me 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dantaemay5868
    @dantaemay5868 4 місяці тому

    4:13 I’m with Parkss. “The Viking?!”

  • @mrnogood
    @mrnogood 4 місяці тому +3

    Who is this new light skinned ninja? Where is everybody at?

  • @Tenthsky7
    @Tenthsky7 4 місяці тому +1

    Fire 🔥 episode 💪🏽💪🏽

  • @Goddessessenceoasis
    @Goddessessenceoasis 4 місяці тому +1

    Why is there always half the cast off camera ?

  • @troyeclectic777
    @troyeclectic777 4 місяці тому +4

    Joe you can get away with the likes cause you Joe Bezzy. Regular Degulars can’t throw IG models likes without being labeled thirsty

  • @deandreray3500
    @deandreray3500 4 місяці тому +18

    All the men here have hair on their faces and are debating Instagram likes on pictures😂

    • @jonnyseablue6911
      @jonnyseablue6911 4 місяці тому

      There’s 18yr olds with hair on their face also poor observation

  • @lewlootpack4459
    @lewlootpack4459 4 місяці тому +1

    A double standard that works for a man 🤯
    Society: let's debate this, immejiately.
    I would tune back in for topics like this.

  • @TharsanJeyachandran
    @TharsanJeyachandran 4 місяці тому

    great ep

  • @dasasinmusic
    @dasasinmusic 4 місяці тому +5

    This double standard doesn't make any sense. Sounds like a bunch of insecurity. If you're worried about what could happen if your significant other likes someone's pic then you don't have a strong enough bond

    • @BigbearTKO
      @BigbearTKO 4 місяці тому

      This what the ladies call…. Gaslighting lmao. You never gunna find a shorty who is bad and all about you who is okay with you liking every thots picture. It’s not gunna happen dawg lol and tryna say the bond isn’t strong enough because they not with it is indeed manipulative.

    • @dasasinmusic
      @dasasinmusic 4 місяці тому +1

      @@BigbearTKO oh I agree which is why it's unnecessary. But to rationalize that its ok for you and not your girl doesn't make sense. Cus if you're worried about how it makes her look, then it makes sense for her to be worried about how it makes you look when you do it

    • @pacificbjorn
      @pacificbjorn 4 місяці тому

      @@BigbearTKOwomen don’t understand this because they don’t have to put any effort or game to get a man. Privilege is invisible to those who have it

  • @Waliocoolioflo
    @Waliocoolioflo 4 місяці тому +1

    Double standards are apart of life it ain't that deep. More than half these double standards benefit women anyway so I don't understand why they always complaining, can't have it both ways dh. 😅😂😂

  • @Ninobeige
    @Ninobeige 4 місяці тому +2

    Ian is terribly wrong. lol

  • @kozmiclando
    @kozmiclando 4 місяці тому

    “Their Mess Just Looks A Little Cleaner” Gotta Be One Of The Most Boot Lickery Statements I Heard In This Generation

  • @claualexis1737
    @claualexis1737 4 місяці тому

    They are correct in one thing this whole convo....and that is Mel is not in here to hear this shennanigans. MYYYYYY GAD!

  • @JackOfSpades23
    @JackOfSpades23 4 місяці тому

    Depends on who the person is whose pic you’re liking. If it’s a recent ex or like somebody your girl is constantly bringing up, then it can possibly lead to problems. They could be seen as a very real threat. Celebs and IG models? It can possibly speak to what it is you actually want or fantasize about 😂😂

  • @mathewmcfool
    @mathewmcfool 4 місяці тому +1

    damn, you're talking about liking pictures 😔

  • @l0vekosha420
    @l0vekosha420 4 місяці тому +2

    I’ve only heard this argument from women. 😂 I could care less what you like I don’t even check.

  • @DontCome2LA
    @DontCome2LA 4 місяці тому +1

    Nah we do or we dont

  • @sonyap8253
    @sonyap8253 4 місяці тому +5

    It is you being thirsty. If dhe respond, what now? It's opening the door.

  • @richardsmtih5569
    @richardsmtih5569 4 місяці тому +1

    Is that Andy Mineo? Sound like him.

  • @jdamoormartinirossi791
    @jdamoormartinirossi791 4 місяці тому

    It's not a double standard when the rules are different.

  • @SuperCarlo06
    @SuperCarlo06 Місяць тому

    I'm not liking Ish. My girl feels it's cheating if I like anything. I'll keep looking at cars..

  • @lamaranthony4028
    @lamaranthony4028 4 місяці тому

    Who is off camera talking?

  • @MrJ1S
    @MrJ1S 4 місяці тому +1

    I don't see why either 1 would want to like or comment. Especially cuz women can get the attention
    And especially since as a man I know this girl with 400k followers is not gonna notice my like or comment

  • @nmajiedt6396
    @nmajiedt6396 4 місяці тому

    Double standards are wack. No woman is going along with that!

  • @ELITEPSYCHE100
    @ELITEPSYCHE100 4 місяці тому +1

    Who da hell are they talking to 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @aarojpoll
      @aarojpoll 4 місяці тому

      It seems to be Ian his business partner or manager I'm not sure

  • @snooptiger7141
    @snooptiger7141 4 місяці тому

    9:05 PAUSE 😆😆😆

  • @DontCome2LA
    @DontCome2LA 4 місяці тому

    9:36 parks for 3

  • @ronnysavage
    @ronnysavage 4 місяці тому

    And "ART" AssRT

  • @christopherhaynes8101
    @christopherhaynes8101 4 місяці тому

    Justin Jefferson would go snatch shorty chain 😂

  • @r_e_c130
    @r_e_c130 4 місяці тому +2

    Ian is horrible... Take his mic please

  • @therealkrisrose7982
    @therealkrisrose7982 4 місяці тому +1

    Ya sound insecure man lol. Homie said if his girl
    Like pics of body gym looking dudes he will get mad. Dawg then put that work in the gym then facts

  • @Demsky83
    @Demsky83 4 місяці тому

    Ian heavy on the blue pill

  • @Gifted_Since1981
    @Gifted_Since1981 4 місяці тому +1

    I swear, I NEVER wanna hear from Ian….

  • @raymondflores1583
    @raymondflores1583 4 місяці тому

    nah as a 24 year old seeing these old heads talk about ig likes and comments to this level is comical i hope not to live like this or with a wife who is an instragram comment or like away from not being my wife at any stage in my life. and just to put my two cents in no actual decent woman is under other dudes comments and likes on social media, if she look good enough she getting slid on in the dms anyway all these rules just project insecurity and no trust

  • @asteriskwitdajuice
    @asteriskwitdajuice 4 місяці тому

    Good morning

  • @seels7256
    @seels7256 4 місяці тому

    In summary Social media is trash

  • @justexciting7241
    @justexciting7241 4 місяці тому

    Whos the corny voiced dude speaking GET HIM OUTTA HERE LOL

  • @jjupiter1218
    @jjupiter1218 4 місяці тому

    If black blogs don’t cover black creators would those creators have the same publicity they do now? IMO the black blogs keep these ppl’s names in ppl mouths and then they get clout and can build a following. There are white grassroots blogs that do the exact same thing. Why does Black support get criticized when it’s not this 100% disney fairytale thing like the world is not a lemonade stand 🙃
    White blogs not gonna supplement the coverage that black blogs do.

  • @andretti3698
    @andretti3698 4 місяці тому

    Yall know who be in the comments? Mal 🤣

  • @TheAfricanPie
    @TheAfricanPie 4 місяці тому

    W art.

  • @letstalkaboutit1414
    @letstalkaboutit1414 4 місяці тому

    Are they brothers?

  • @BristolBerg
    @BristolBerg 4 місяці тому +12

    Pod been dead for the past month with these basic ass topic. I have not completed a whole in a min.

  • @ridewithbry9424
    @ridewithbry9424 4 місяці тому

    Ian not gay??

  • @MrJkev23
    @MrJkev23 4 місяці тому

    I know he ain’t say insecurity bruh lol pandering at its finest

  • @aarojpoll
    @aarojpoll 4 місяці тому

    I'm sorry but the show is just better without Melissa Ford it's not her fault it's just they don't care what women think and her presence keeps them from being the scumbags they need to be

  • @Plantbasdnetwork
    @Plantbasdnetwork 4 місяці тому

    Ian sound like a cheater 😂

  • @buggs5554
    @buggs5554 4 місяці тому

    😂😂😂😂