She's classy? Yet she was having casual sex with a man, got pregnant...I guess bc he married her??😂😂😂 She's classy.... So many women have been bashed for casually having sex with men, rightfully so. What makes her different?? Under this same channel
I’m so glad they were polite to each other and not knocking each other down. They are a great team for co-parenting and I think they still love each other 🙏❤️
Yah “sounds like “ which means it most likely was opposite especially since they still could never give an actual reason they divorced in first place lol.
I agree. They had no good reason to divorce. Ultimately, he brought this financial inconvenience on his self, but there is hope for them, I hope they both use their good senses, tap into that part of the brain, and get back together, you can see, deep down inside, they still want to.
@dance4life1208 "Outside" children are moreso "outside" a marriage children aka via affairs and shady 5hit.... Kids of a prior marriage or relationship shouldn't be referred to as "outside" children...because they were are "outside" of anything....they were "before"
They both seem like nice people. Surprised it didn't work out, usually relationships ships with age gaps have issues due to maturity but she seems mature beyond her years.
Both parties have to sit down and discuss how step children will he disciplined and what will be expected of them before they get married. Very Important to do. Children may have certain behaviors that the steparent cannot tolerate and vice versa.
It's difficult for the non parent of the kids to discipline them. I would never get involved with someone who has kids from a previous relationship. It's not worth the problems that it can create. Plus, I'm 51 years old. 😂
My two cents: I think they have love for each other but recognize that being in a romantic relationship is not the move for "them". I'm glad they've found/are finding their balance with it.
It seems like they both realize the relationship was never going to work and have made peace with it, and simply have no beef. There was no cheating, no other partners. They just had specific differences of opinions when it came to the kids.
Marriage can be hard. During a marriage you will have attacks in your relationship that you never experienced when you were dating. People really need to understand that and try to work through the tough times. It seems like there was no abuse and they had a great marriage. They don’t even seem to know why they divorced. Divorce can be an easy way out instead of pushing through to the other side and communicating. I think this is why many marriages in America end in divorce. People do not want to do anything that is harder than what they thought it would be. Even if happiness is on the other side.
Hello and good day to you beautiful smile woman from a 55 years of age black man never been married,,, however I do listen to married couples and they tell me it is a full time job 👍
I love how the defendant checked JM about putting his daughters in college. He put his kid in college, and before when they were married the kid was under THEIR supervision, not just hers. Lol JM doubled down and reiterated HER supervision 😂
It was his way or the highway, when it came to his other kids, that she didn't bargain for having in the home in the 1st place. And he had no problem committing fraud to get her out of the picture. They are much better off apart. He saw her as servant, and she saw him as a better man than he is.
My ex was the same way, I dnt have kids,he had 3 he wld never agree with the way I discipline even though I got them up for school and I wld have them after school,im glad he was a cheater,thats why I left 😂,ill never date a dad again
I'm married but I personally always knew I also wouldn't date a man with children. It adds an extra element to the relationship having to deal with exes and you have to realize that you'll never be those children's parent.
Sounds liike she saw what he had from the outside looking in. She even wanted his kids from their mother. But the SH** got real and she can't handle the down time only when they're up. Its been about financial stability for her all along. She can't survive a struggle.
They did seem well together, but not having the same views on parenting is a big deal & can often be a deal breaker. Which sounds like what their problem was when it came to his other children
These comments are so biased...she said "I found him to be a mature man, good father with a good job." I've seen women be bashed for saying this...she's praised throughout the comments...funny JM fans 😂😂😂
@@tom11zz884 In your opinion, what keeps a woman happy? Also, what does the term "man up" mean to you? I hear more men use the term 'man up"/ Are they proponents of feminist theory or talk?
I LOVE TO COMPLIMENT PEOPLE!!!!!!!, I DON'T COPY ANYONE!!!!!!!! I HATE YOU FOR COPYING MY WRITING STYLE!!! I SAY "MY WRITING STYLE"!!!, BECAUSE IF YOU LOOK AT THE COMMENTS OF THE SHOWS THAT I WATCH!!!!!, THE MAURY SHOW, JUDGE MATHIS, JERRY SPRINGER, AND PEOPLE'S COURT!! IT'S ALL STANDARD ENGLISH WRITING WITH MISSPELLED WORDS!!! GHETTO ENGLISH LIKE YOURS!!! THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT A PERIOD LOOKS LIKE!!!! AT THE END OF A COMMENT OR A REPLY JUST LEAVE IT BLANK!!! STARTING A COMMENT OR A REPLY WITH A LOWER CASE LETTER INSTEAD OF A CAPITAL LETTER!!!! THERE WERE NEVER ANY COMMENTS WITH ALL CAPITAL LETTERS AND EXCLAMATION POINTS!!!!!, I STARTED THIS WITH MY VERY FIRST COMMENT!!!!!!! YOU HAVE PROBABLY BEEN COMMENTING FOR MORE THAN ONE MONTH!!!!! DID YOU WRITE IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS!!!!!!, BEFORE YOU PRESSED "TOP COMMENT"!!!, AND SAW MY COMMENT IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS??!!!!!! LOOK AT ANY OF YOUR COMMENTS THAT YOU WROTE IN THE PAST!!!!! WERE YOUR COMMENTS WRITTEN IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS?!!!!!!!! WAS ANYBODY ELSE'S COMMENT WRITTEN IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS?!!!! NO!!!!!!!!!, YOU HAVE TO KNOW HOW TO SPELL!!!!, TO WRITE IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS!!!! I KNOW HOW TO TYPE BECAUSE I WAS A DATA ENTRY SUPERVISOR FOR 15 1/2 YEARS!!!!!, TYPING IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS!!!!, IS EASY TO ME!!!! I'M A VERY CREATIVE WRITER!!!, I QUALIFY FOR THE HONORS ENGLISH PROGRAM!!! I TOOK THE TEST BUT I NEVER WENT TO COLLEGE BECAUSE I HAD THE JOB TITLE SUPERVISOR!!!!!, AND THE SALARY!!!, AND THE RAISE'S AND BENEFITS OF 2 JOBS OUT OF 4 THAT I WAS A SUPERVISOR!!!! I WAS ALSO A RETAIL SUPERVISOR AT THE HOUSE OF BLUES 💙 I'M A BOSS!!!!! YOU ARE A GHETTO HOOD RAT 🐀
I still don't know why women so easily put all their trust in men. Having no job and no income even if you are married he can abandon you and kick you out to the streets. Alot of divorced women are homeless.
@@God-Love-Freedom I can’t say she is or isn’t but I CAN say he didn’t do anything wrong. She’s Suing him knowing he doesn’t make enough. This is her former husband. Who was good to her. Who does that?
@@God-Love-Freedom go back and listen to the case PLS and THANK YOU. Not a loan. He was supposed to pay 4500 for the divorce. If he’s a good man why make him pay to divorce you? Everything was good he’s a good dad didn’t cheat and he admits he can’t afford it. I just feel she was being spiteful towards a good man.
They are good people and had a great marriage. Either they're not telling the truth, or they need to get back together! He's a genius, and she's the hottie.
wow they communicated so well. i was very interested in their case. why mathis gotta ask all these questions then get upset that they were answering them? ugh, his impatience.
Women date men with kids and be shocked when he gets custody 😂 Don’t date men with kids if you have none. You’re literally at high risk of becoming a mom of multiple children overnight
I guess in your world, men and women with children are the same?! The biggest L is getting a woman with kids on average. You'd be broke as a man getting tangled up in that mess
@@ptclaverit’s no benefit for women with no children to get with a man with kids it’s a real L and only brings drama and problems case in point this case. I’m tired of you men not holding men with children accountable the same as women with kids getting with a man who has no children HYPOCRITES!
@@dawniipoo322 I actually have I married a man with 2 kids with two different women. I knew going in his kids may have to live w us full time and I would go from a mom of 3 to a mom of 5! She spoke mostly on his kids coming to live and disagreeing about how to discipline. I can tell you don’t listen.
@@ptclaver you’d be broke either way. I married a man who had two kids. When he fell short and lost his job guess WHO was paying for 5 kids. I have 3 myself plus his 2! I purchased FIVE winter coats and boots. Was I supposed to just forget about his kids even tho he was my husband? And this is about if you don’t have kids don’t date people who do because it’s ALOT to adjust to.
You don’t know if she has an attitude and her hair is like any other woman’s hair tired of you 🦝s trying to make it seem like because the woman is Caucasian or non black she’s feminine with no attitude
For those who are highlighting interracial coupling (especially Adrian), IMO, in this case, that opinion is a matter of genetics only. What I mean is that these two people have the same culture. Individuals are defined by socioeconomic-cultural factors more so than racial identity. Being Black is NOT monolithic. Race/ethnicity/nationality is what you are at birth, socioeconomic-cultural, educational factors, etc. define what you BECOME. That's just my theory, but I do think it's correct. EDIT: In other words, everybody who LOOKS like you, are not necessarily LIKE you.
Ppl don't seem to communicate what they expect from each other before they get married and should we even marry at all. It should be serious and honest if not it may not work no matter who u are.
I see a man who is dedicated to his kids and will stand up for them against anyone. I see a woman who probably felt like her husband wasn’t protecting her the way he promised. No bad guys here. Just principled people with different principles. There was a compromise there that didn’t include divorce imo
You cannot go deep in the Spirit if you're deep in the flesh! The carnal mind is an enemy of God. It doesn't have faith and therefore cannot believe God. It cannot access the things of the Kingdom that we already have in Christ Jesus. Come out of your flesh!
Pops had a nice young snow bunny and he blew it because he allowed his toxic ex to throw her bad ass kids into the mix like grenades. They only been divorced 2 years he needs to get back with her.
this man had the type of woman im asking god for my entire life , an he messed thst up? nicca , yall really doing crazy things out here with good good opp
You must not know who Will Smith is. Has everything. Wife still slept around and putting him through the ringer. Women leave good men everyday. Doesn't matter if he's doing everything right. They find a reason to leave.
You must be young, brother. She looks great, she seems to be about it but she gives up when the going gets tough. You don't want that in a life partner.
I don't know what to say about this one, there're gonna be OK, she seems like she didn't want to be there and she wants him back. Good luck to you. He seemed a little arrogant but it might have been his price about his older daughter.
Neither of them could explain why they got divorced because they realized it sounds silly saying it out loud. Here's my take: She was probably an overstimulated young mom who bit off more than she could chew. Meanwhile he wasn't as helpful in blending the family. There. That's the reason. 😊
That was the Problem.....she wanted to take the children away from the mom.... which sounds like she had bad intentions from the beginning.....She just wanted to Control them and he wasn't HAVING IT... White women tears.....Its more to it.....they trying to hide something...... her face expressions say alot.... 😂😂😂😂
I like these too but I don't think they do good in a marriage. I'm glad that they are able to co-parent. I think the stress of being newly married, in a new home and having to take on additional responsibilities got to be too much. It's not easy to be in a relationship and it's not easy to be a parent. I think the pressures of Life overwhelm both of them and that's what caused their marriage to end. It took 8 minutes for me to figure that out watching her go on and on.😂 I wish them the best of luck and I think that they will do fine
I hope the fellas caught Judge Mathis' response when she said she thought his kids would be better with them (with their father in other words). He said, "you wanna take THE WOMAN'S kids?" As if they aren't her husband's (the father's) kids as well. These judges don't even consider the kids as yours. You're really just a dollar amount in their eyes. Stay out of family court men. It will be you against the mother AND the courts. Oh, and she was right to support her husband getting his kids. That's what any decent wife should do. And obviously she was right seeing as how the mother ended up asking them to take the kids not that long after.
Most judges are men. Most of the time, it’s men who abandon children, not women. Both fathers and mothers teach their daughters that if she becomes pregnant, men can walk away, but she’ll be left holding the baby. If you have a problem with how men view men, tell men who abandon their children to improve their behavior, so that the “image” of men will improve with both men and women. #boymath
We are so used to seeing toxic co-parenting that people are shocked that they’re not bashing each other smh sad world we live in
Both of them work in education,most people who work in those fields are less toxic than most other people on earth
I had to take a double look because I thought he was Rupaul😂😂😂
YOOOOOO. You're an ASSSS HAHAHAHAHAHAHA JEEEZ I am dying
When two classy people collide. Nice change of pace on this one.
She's classy? Yet she was having casual sex with a man, got pregnant...I guess bc he married her??😂😂😂 She's classy....
So many women have been bashed for casually having sex with men, rightfully so. What makes her different??
Under this same channel
He works in education,that spoke for itself
I’m so glad they were polite to each other and not knocking each other down. They are a great team for co-parenting and I think they still love each other 🙏❤️
At any minute I was waiting for judge Mathis to say “let me get some background from him”. He let this lady talk like 6-8 minutes straight 😂
😂😂😂
Ikr😂
He was curious about the relationship she was telling him
They should have just separated for a while. Sounds like they had a great marriage.
Being a step parent is tough, especially if you're not on the same page with the discipline with your spouse. I feel her pain... Peace
Yah “sounds like “ which means it most likely was opposite especially since they still could never give an actual reason they divorced in first place lol.
His outside kids were a problem though as well as the ex.
I agree. They had no good reason to divorce. Ultimately, he brought this financial inconvenience on his self, but there is hope for them, I hope they both use their good senses, tap into that part of the brain, and get back together, you can see, deep down inside, they still want to.
@dance4life1208
"Outside" children are moreso "outside" a marriage children aka via affairs and shady 5hit....
Kids of a prior marriage or relationship shouldn't be referred to as "outside" children...because they were are "outside" of anything....they were "before"
They both seem like nice people. Surprised it didn't work out, usually relationships ships with age gaps have issues due to maturity but she seems mature beyond her years.
His outside kids
His ex ruined it
I done cooked and came back and they still aint said why they divorced
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A true modern day marriage 😂
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Same. Have folded my laundry and all.
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Respect to these two, both were super respectful to each other and the court. Hope the best to the and there children.
They never heard of counseling or parenting classes lol
I wouldn’t be surprised if they get back together! I have to salute both of them for damage control during their problem years. I wish them luck…
Both parties have to sit down and discuss how step children will he disciplined and what will be expected of them before they get married. Very Important to do. Children may have certain behaviors that the steparent cannot tolerate and vice versa.
It's difficult for the non parent of the kids to discipline them. I would never get involved with someone who has kids from a previous relationship. It's not worth the problems that it can create. Plus, I'm 51 years old. 😂
My two cents: I think they have love for each other but recognize that being in a romantic relationship is not the move for "them". I'm glad they've found/are finding their balance with it.
Nah she got tired of his outside kids and ex
I can’t believe I fixed coffee put clothes in the washer took clothes out the washer and put in the dryer and they just getting to the defendant😂😂
It seems like they both realize the relationship was never going to work and have made peace with it, and simply have no beef. There was no cheating, no other partners. They just had specific differences of opinions when it came to the kids.
can’t believe how long it took for the plaintiff to tell Judge Mathis the reason why her and the defendant divorced. wow. 😩
I really feel like she was trying to fight against someone saying it was because she went for a much older man.
I kno rite damn
@@Barbiekell-86😂😂😂
😂😂 he has his choices
I still missed it lmao
Awww hope they can get things straightened out and get back together
she started a “casual relationship “ with him before he closed his last one , got pregnant and wonders why his kids mom don’t want to be buddies…
Marriage can be hard. During a marriage you will have attacks in your relationship that you never experienced when you were dating. People really need to understand that and try to work through the tough times. It seems like there was no abuse and they had a great marriage. They don’t even seem to know why they divorced. Divorce can be an easy way out instead of pushing through to the other side and communicating. I think this is why many marriages in America end in divorce. People do not want to do anything that is harder than what they thought it would be. Even if happiness is on the other side.
Hello and good day to you beautiful smile woman from a 55 years of age black man never been married,,, however I do listen to married couples and they tell me it is a full time job 👍
I love how the defendant checked JM about putting his daughters in college. He put his kid in college, and before when they were married the kid was under THEIR supervision, not just hers. Lol JM doubled down and reiterated HER supervision 😂
How can JM make that presumptuous statement about the girls not going to college if not for the plaintiff
It was his way or the highway, when it came to his other kids, that she didn't bargain for having in the home in the 1st place. And he had no problem committing fraud to get her out of the picture. They are much better off apart. He saw her as servant, and she saw him as a better man than he is.
Yup
They should get back together . What they went through is part of marriage. Especially when you have an ex and children involved.
There is no fool like an old fool.
Ummm strange relationship, she had to just want stability
Exactly
Yep
Yall don't find the look weird😅?
Thank you! It's good to see that all of JM fans aren't clueless...check out these other comments about how class this lady is😂😂😂😂it's hilarious
I can't lie this the type of situation I would want the woman seems like she is peaceful and supportive
Sounds like their time as a couple was up, otherwise this could've been saved, if they both cared to save it.
Just because someone is beautiful not a reason for it to be a blessing.
My ex was the same way, I dnt have kids,he had 3 he wld never agree with the way I discipline even though I got them up for school and I wld have them after school,im glad he was a cheater,thats why I left 😂,ill never date a dad again
That's called a cognitive error. Overgeneralization, Filtering.
I'm married but I personally always knew I also wouldn't date a man with children. It adds an extra element to the relationship having to deal with exes and you have to realize that you'll never be those children's parent.
Bottom line... They should have stayed 'friends with no benefits'...He came with baggage and she should have walked away early on.
Sounds liike she saw what he had from the outside looking in. She even wanted his kids from their mother. But the SH** got real and she can't handle the down time only when they're up. Its been about financial stability for her all along. She can't survive a struggle.
Nah she seems legit old head looking like a clown
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This was oddly weird. I don't see why they don't just work it out. Like come on. We ain't getting any younger. They're not toxic at all.
They did seem well together, but not having the same views on parenting is a big deal & can often be a deal breaker. Which sounds like what their problem was when it came to his other children
“Well it was the year… such and such” 😂😂😂😂
I like them and honestly hope they get back together. They still have love and respect for each other
Wow I pray they find their way back together. He’s a good man Savannah!
😂😂😂 waiting to exhale
These comments are so biased...she said "I found him to be a mature man, good father with a good job."
I've seen women be bashed for saying this...she's praised throughout the comments...funny JM fans
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Thanks so much ❤
The defendant needs to man up or he will never keep a woman happy
Man up how??? Please explain for me.
Man’ing up doesn’t make a woman happy. She does
More silly feminist talk...lol
"Man Up" has nothing to do with keeping a woman happy.
He was working 2 jobs fool and raising his daughters. wth you talking about???
@@tom11zz884 In your opinion, what keeps a woman happy? Also, what does the term "man up" mean to you? I hear more men use the term 'man up"/ Are they proponents of feminist theory or talk?
Is that Ru Paul ?😮
I thought I was the only one who thought that😮
@@fwb1012yalll!! I thought so too 😂😂😂
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@@roxyj3182 😂🤣
She is absolutely gorgeous
Hopefully they can work it out
They are so freaking cute together! Gosh !
Listening to her talk and present her case 😴😴
She was really just tryna speed up the process
Wtf did I just watch
I'VE NEVER GOTTEN PREGNANT GETTING TO KNOW SOMEONE 😂
You caught that too? LOL
I LOVE TO COMPLIMENT PEOPLE!!!!!!!, I DON'T COPY ANYONE!!!!!!!! I HATE YOU FOR COPYING MY WRITING STYLE!!! I SAY "MY WRITING STYLE"!!!, BECAUSE IF YOU LOOK AT THE COMMENTS OF THE SHOWS THAT I WATCH!!!!!, THE MAURY SHOW, JUDGE MATHIS, JERRY SPRINGER, AND PEOPLE'S COURT!! IT'S ALL STANDARD ENGLISH WRITING WITH MISSPELLED WORDS!!! GHETTO ENGLISH LIKE YOURS!!! THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT A PERIOD LOOKS LIKE!!!! AT THE END OF A COMMENT OR A REPLY JUST LEAVE IT BLANK!!! STARTING A COMMENT OR A REPLY WITH A LOWER CASE LETTER INSTEAD OF A CAPITAL LETTER!!!! THERE WERE NEVER ANY COMMENTS WITH ALL CAPITAL LETTERS AND EXCLAMATION POINTS!!!!!, I STARTED THIS WITH MY VERY FIRST COMMENT!!!!!!! YOU HAVE PROBABLY BEEN COMMENTING FOR MORE THAN ONE MONTH!!!!! DID YOU WRITE IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS!!!!!!, BEFORE YOU PRESSED "TOP COMMENT"!!!, AND SAW MY COMMENT IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS??!!!!!! LOOK AT ANY OF YOUR COMMENTS THAT YOU WROTE IN THE PAST!!!!! WERE YOUR COMMENTS WRITTEN IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS?!!!!!!!! WAS ANYBODY ELSE'S COMMENT WRITTEN IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS?!!!! NO!!!!!!!!!, YOU HAVE TO KNOW HOW TO SPELL!!!!, TO WRITE IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS!!!! I KNOW HOW TO TYPE BECAUSE I WAS A DATA ENTRY SUPERVISOR FOR 15 1/2 YEARS!!!!!, TYPING IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS!!!!, IS EASY TO ME!!!! I'M A VERY CREATIVE WRITER!!!, I QUALIFY FOR THE HONORS ENGLISH PROGRAM!!! I TOOK THE TEST BUT I NEVER WENT TO COLLEGE BECAUSE I HAD THE JOB TITLE SUPERVISOR!!!!!, AND THE SALARY!!!, AND THE RAISE'S AND BENEFITS OF 2 JOBS OUT OF 4 THAT I WAS A SUPERVISOR!!!! I WAS ALSO A RETAIL SUPERVISOR AT THE HOUSE OF BLUES 💙 I'M A BOSS!!!!! YOU ARE A GHETTO HOOD RAT 🐀
FACT!
Divorces are expensive 😢
He had a beautiful, hardworking gem for a wife.
Seems like he placed his older children above her in the household.
A family needs to work as a team.
I still don't know why women so easily put all their trust in men. Having no job and no income even if you are married he can abandon you and kick you out to the streets. Alot of divorced women are homeless.
Communication is the key to life ❤
If this dude pull a hott lady like the plaintiff i need to go back to the drawing board and step my game up 😅
Money that’s why she’s suing a good man
@@deja14
Isn’t she a good woman?
@@God-Love-Freedom I can’t say she is or isn’t but I CAN say he didn’t do anything wrong. She’s Suing him knowing he doesn’t make enough. This is her former husband. Who was good to her. Who does that?
@@deja14
Wasn’t she good to him to loan him money?
@@God-Love-Freedom go back and listen to the case PLS and THANK YOU.
Not a loan. He was supposed to pay 4500 for the divorce. If he’s a good man why make him pay to divorce you? Everything was good he’s a good dad didn’t cheat and he admits he can’t afford it. I just feel she was being spiteful towards a good man.
I really like her as a mother , that’s good she took on all that , he lucked up with her period !!!!
They are good people and had a great marriage. Either they're not telling the truth, or they need to get back together! He's a genius, and she's the hottie.
wow they communicated so well. i was very interested in their case. why mathis gotta ask all these questions then get upset that they were answering them? ugh, his impatience.
He looks like Rupaul’s out of drag.
They were oddly very similar. Hopefully they can work things out
They had there second child too soon. They didn't get chance to form a system. Kids always change things.
Ok……this is the prime example of why I don’t date someone that is fresh out of a relationship with children.
They will end up back together. It sounds like they had dark cloud over their marriage for the moment. It could’ve been worked out.
Y’all Clearly In Love Still
Lack of Communication is to be blame... I hope they reconcile that family 🎉
I’m with judge Mathis they still in love ❤ it’s cute … the man just saying she perfect she smart she so good with money lol it’s soo adorable ❤😂😂😂
Women date men with kids and be shocked when he gets custody 😂
Don’t date men with kids if you have none. You’re literally at high risk of becoming a mom of multiple children overnight
I guess in your world, men and women with children are the same?! The biggest L is getting a woman with kids on average. You'd be broke as a man getting tangled up in that mess
@@ptclaverit’s no benefit for women with no children to get with a man with kids it’s a real L and only brings drama and problems case in point this case. I’m tired of you men not holding men with children accountable the same as women with kids getting with a man who has no children HYPOCRITES!
That wasn't her issue though,I can tell you haven't experienced this before
@@dawniipoo322 I actually have I married a man with 2 kids with two different women. I knew going in his kids may have to live w us full time and I would go from a mom of 3 to a mom of 5! She spoke mostly on his kids coming to live and disagreeing about how to discipline. I can tell you don’t listen.
@@ptclaver you’d be broke either way. I married a man who had two kids. When he fell short and lost his job guess WHO was paying for 5 kids. I have 3 myself plus his 2! I purchased FIVE winter coats and boots. Was I supposed to just forget about his kids even tho he was my husband?
And this is about if you don’t have kids don’t date people who do because it’s ALOT to adjust to.
Divorce for that? SMH
This could've been some up in 2mins
"we" ain't ever been pregnant.
They need to work it out.
She seems like a wonderful woman.
Beautiful, feminine, no attitude, nice hair.
I think someone will snag her up.
I'm wondering how in the world did he manage to 😅
She’s in the same boat as the women with the bad hair.
Yess. I like her.
She got two kids and when she gets overwhelmed she bails so, i don't know If I'd wanna commit to her.
You don’t know if she has an attitude and her hair is like any other woman’s hair tired of you 🦝s trying to make it seem like because the woman is Caucasian or non black she’s feminine with no attitude
For those who are highlighting interracial coupling (especially Adrian), IMO, in this case, that opinion is a matter of genetics only. What I mean is that these two people have the same culture. Individuals are defined by socioeconomic-cultural factors more so than racial identity. Being Black is NOT monolithic. Race/ethnicity/nationality is what you are at birth, socioeconomic-cultural, educational factors, etc. define what you BECOME. That's just my theory, but I do think it's correct. EDIT: In other words, everybody who LOOKS like you, are not necessarily LIKE you.
They might as well get back together
Ppl don't seem to communicate what they expect from each other before they get married and should we even marry at all. It should be serious and honest if not it may not work no matter who u are.
I see a man who is dedicated to his kids and will stand up for them against anyone. I see a woman who probably felt like her husband wasn’t protecting her the way he promised. No bad guys here. Just principled people with different principles. There was a compromise there that didn’t include divorce imo
Of course this lady using him to control him
You cannot go deep in the Spirit if you're deep in the flesh! The carnal mind is an enemy of God. It doesn't have faith and therefore cannot believe God. It cannot access the things of the Kingdom that we already have in Christ Jesus.
Come out of your flesh!
Just stop
@@clarencegreen113 Nvr.
I'm here My Beloved Favorite Judge ***ASHAY ***
I think it probably was the two different styles of parenting maybe. Communication could have fixed a lot of this probably.
Pops had a nice young snow bunny and he blew it because he allowed his toxic ex to throw her bad ass kids into the mix like grenades. They only been divorced 2 years he needs to get back with her.
:54 - 13 years older? looks more like 30 years older. cant believe she'd emotionally invest in an Uncle Remus = Zippidee Doo - NAH
They make the cutest couple and probably would still be together if it wasn’t the outside kids honestly
They getting back together eventually. They seem to still be much in love still
“NaterrieBlacynblett: Ashay “
This is sad when a person working in education isn't making enough money. The minds of our kids is important.
#UHHH🤔💭💭💭💭💭😒😒😒😒
#WHY AM I GETTING*RU-PAUL* VIBES¿¿¿🤔💭😒😒😒😒😒😳😮💨😮💨
He definitely looks like Ru-paul 😂😂
this man had the type of woman im asking god for my entire life , an he messed thst up? nicca , yall really doing crazy things out here with good good opp
*Cold Hard Facts* 🎯
How did he even pull her? 😅
You must not know who Will Smith is. Has everything. Wife still slept around and putting him through the ringer. Women leave good men everyday. Doesn't matter if he's doing everything right. They find a reason to leave.
She’s in the same boat as the women you haven’t prayed to God for.
You must be young, brother. She looks great, she seems to be about it but she gives up when the going gets tough. You don't want that in a life partner.
Damn I thought that was Ru Paul
I hope they get back together 😣😣
I don't know what to say about this one, there're gonna be OK, she seems like she didn't want to be there and she wants him back. Good luck to you. He seemed a little arrogant but it might have been his price about his older daughter.
She's insecure and looking for a father figure to provide balance and cater to her... this not a good symbiosis. 😅
He looks like RuPaul😩
Buddy must have used that silver tongue to bag her.
She meet him really young I can guarantee she just wanted to live her life that she didn’t get to live ..
If men believe this about very young women, then why do older men pursue very young women?
Background information 10 minutes.
Case information 3 minutes.
Matured man without good job (less pay ) would have not been an option, basing a future with materialistic stuff instead of focusing on building up
She married Rupaul. 😍
Neither of them could explain why they got divorced because they realized it sounds silly saying it out loud.
Here's my take: She was probably an overstimulated young mom who bit off more than she could chew. Meanwhile he wasn't as helpful in blending the family. There. That's the reason. 😊
That was the Problem.....she wanted to take the children away from the mom.... which sounds like she had bad intentions from the beginning.....She just wanted to Control them and he wasn't HAVING IT... White women tears.....Its more to it.....they trying to hide something...... her face expressions say alot....
😂😂😂😂
She is fine. I like that right there. Bro messed up a good thing. If you are watching this, reach out. Yeah, I am shooting my shot on UA-cam..lol
What’s the age difference here?
She said he's 13 years older
I like these too but I don't think they do good in a marriage. I'm glad that they are able to co-parent. I think the stress of being newly married, in a new home and having to take on additional responsibilities got to be too much. It's not easy to be in a relationship and it's not easy to be a parent. I think the pressures of Life overwhelm both of them and that's what caused their marriage to end. It took 8 minutes for me to figure that out watching her go on and on.😂 I wish them the best of luck and I think that they will do fine
I hope the fellas caught Judge Mathis' response when she said she thought his kids would be better with them (with their father in other words). He said, "you wanna take THE WOMAN'S kids?" As if they aren't her husband's (the father's) kids as well. These judges don't even consider the kids as yours. You're really just a dollar amount in their eyes. Stay out of family court men. It will be you against the mother AND the courts.
Oh, and she was right to support her husband getting his kids. That's what any decent wife should do. And obviously she was right seeing as how the mother ended up asking them to take the kids not that long after.
Most judges are men. Most of the time, it’s men who abandon children, not women. Both fathers and mothers teach their daughters that if she becomes pregnant, men can walk away, but she’ll be left holding the baby. If you have a problem with how men view men, tell men who abandon their children to improve their behavior, so that the “image” of men will improve with both men and women. #boymath
As long as you realize your comment is YOUR opinion. Another person fighting the so-called war of the sexes.
He’s giving Rupaul vibes