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38:18 At this point, when this guy was NOT fired for sexual harassment and assault, you should not be threatening a lawsuit...you should be actually filling one.
Really stop wasting time warning them and do it.
Nothing says to give notice about filing suit, fool.
Yes, and that crazy dude should have been arrested for assault for dislocating her thumb too.
Dude he literally jumped on her and dislocated her finger because she didn't want to have sex with him this is NOT a normal behaviour and I'm sure she was really scared i would be scared if i was in her place as well so i think threatening with lawsuit just so she can get him away from her is pretty understandable and dude please try to understand this from the girls pov too trust me this guy is an example why we girls have a fear from guys
Yes 🙌🏻
Couldn't agree more
It concerns me that guys aren't taken seriously.
Stalkings are a traumatic experience that can go very wrong resulting in attacks and possibly murder against BOTH genders - not just women.
Absolutely. I was stalked. There were no laws against it then. It was terrifying. I'm sure it's terrifying for everyone. Why so many people act like female stalkers aren't as scary or dangerous. Do men not have feeling? Ugh.
My husband was repeatedly sexually assaulted as a kid and when his mom died, the therapist they went to basically told him to get over it and "grow up". He was 15 when she passed and the abuse began in his single digits. Men's boundaries absolutely need to be taken seriously and given the same consideration and care.
@@michelewalburn4376 I mean they are definitely scary but not nearly as dangerous
@@frostbite3318 how
The "shh, don't wake him" one was terrifying, the fact that the police didn't believe him, the fact that they managed to evade the cameras, and especially the fact that OP will probably never get closure or ever know who it was.
That "Face face face face face face" part kind of had a nice beat to it.
I think reddit is broken
No, this is a ploy by shitty content creators to get people to comment about it, thus increasing user engagement and getting it recommended more
@@spooky5338 well it's working sooooooo
@@watsoncouch3800 The idea is to educate people on it so they avoid channels that do it, i know itll never work but i personally hide all channels that do it
@@spooky5338 it could also be the fact someone somewhere just doesn't care enough to make a simple fix on editing the easiest types of videos.
Aw all these poor guys who aren't believed when they are being stalked is just so sad
It sucks to say this but that's a regular occurrence. Women get seen as victims, and men as perpetrators. It's been so deeply ingrained in people for so long it's not likely to change unless not only the majority of people wake up to the problems it causes but until the people in power have reason to care about anyone aside from themselves.
Most people can at least acknowledge the problem being the people in power being a bad fit for the people without, but it's an extremely common misstep to blame the reason for that on a gender, racial, or party-based demographic instead of just plain selfishness.
Sorry for the rant, I've had this conversation with so many people in the past and you wouldn't believe how many come to the same realization as you, then you think they finally get what we need to do and they go and blame "the patriarchy", or democrats/republicans, or whatever deflects from the problem and possibly even blames the victims.
Fall hug me
At least now males claims of domestic abuse are being taken more seriously ever since the Amber and Johnny Depp trial.
Women aren't believed either. They're seen as exaggerating, imagining it, or being hysterical.
Stalking should be taken seriously in general, no matter what. Because it's the prologue to something worse.
@@rugalbernstein5913luckily with every generation it seems like we’re closer to actual true equality. Once radicals of both sides are gone, it’ll be over.
They're not glitches, they're remixing the audio to spice it up!
Why would they
@@Alex-kv1vi to spice it up
face face face face face
This whole I just thought it was my phone. Face face face and brush that went missing brush that went missing brush that went missing...
Haha as much as i like this comment lol. I do hate the glitches tho just idk kinda low effort
I had two stalkers. I've talked about it elsewhere on YT.
When I was still at highschool, a woman in my city was found dead, naked from the waist down. She had told all her friends about this creep who wouldn't leave her alone and followed her everywhere. She'd been to the police and they said there was nothing they count do until he did something. (This was before anti-stalking laws in my state.) The first thing he did was rape and murder her.
I was a teenager and already getting unwanted attention and touching. I was terrified.
Crap like this is why I say cops are useless...
@@deszalt4492 "innocent until proven guilty"... Yeah, it's definitely the fault of people following the law
Friend had a stalker and she encouraged the local junkies to rough him up a bit. She no longer has a stalker.
Modern problems require old school solutions
I fully support employing some goons to take care of the problem.
My twin was stalked. He reported it but they didn’t take him seriously. They only took him seriously when the guy tried to break into our house.
An old coworker of mine had a restraining order against her ex. He applied for our job, which you have to pass a background check to get, and got the job. My coworker brought up the restraining order to our POS supervisor, and he tried to say, "oh, we'll just put him in another location, so you don't have to work together." On top of this probably resulting in her losing potential extra shifts (she was a key holder and could take shifts at any of the four stores), it also meant her ex now had access to her work schedule and whatever building she was working at. But, luckily, she got the union involved, and they politely told the ex to fuck off and told our supervisor he was a twat (which was not the first or last time).
I've noticed a lot of people don't mention HOW they actually met their stalker? They just start out with this one guy blah blah blah. I'm just very curious as to how they are meeting these people! Some do mention how they met but idk just seems like a weird detail to leave out especially because it's the most interesting and important detail
@@WhitneyDahlin , in my ex-coworker's case, they were in the same "religion," and he was a friend of the family, who her dad picked for her, and they had been "dating" since they were like 13. He had been verbally and mentally abusive to her for years. When she was finally "allowed" to get a job and really interact with people outside the Kingdom Hall, she realized the relationship wasn't healthy, told her dad, and the relationship stopped.
She met a new guy, got married at 19 after six months of dating, and moved like 4 hours away.
Ima just start stalking police officers who don't take men being stalked seriously, to see how they like it. Maybe slip in a little "Say hi to Cheryl and the daughter for me."
Men should be taken seriously ffs. And women should be able to be friendly without guys immediately thinking "she wants me, obviously"
You're asking for too much.
If we can get overly obsessive people to stalk local and state officials, I bet this would be taken much more seriously.
In the words of Patsy Stone "The only way to deal with a stalker is to cut off his stalk."
YES!!! 😎👍🏻
All they are now is just an er
@@shinydecidueye9593 because that's where you'll send them
Samantha Alvarez Huahaauauhaauauahahauauauahahauahahauauahan errrrrrr
Now this, is truuuuuth.
The person that was in the military and kept getting her underwear and uniforms stolen was the scariest one. It makes me sick the police didn't believe her.
I know. that's a sign of a deranged stalker she could have been killed
That's serial killer vibes.
OP was a guy. The fact that he was a guy made the police think it was not real.
@@daokoxd1145 oh ok. I missed that part. Stalking should be taken seriously no matter the gender.
It was dead obvious it was his boyfriend.
He had cameras, changed locks, moved and still things were happening without anybody getting filmed entering the place.
Where would the stalker gotten keys after he changed them and the moved and had again new keys ?
Anybody entering the home and taking a set of keys would have been filmed.
If he moved different places there's no way the stalker could systematically bribe the locksmith.
It's already almost impossible to bribe a locksmith in the first place, they would be coresponsible for any home invasion, assault or murder or any crime for that matter commited with said keys, so nobody wants to risk that for a bit of cash.
And in the end, he gets a pic of his boyfriend.
Allegedly the only ppl being there would be the boyfriend and said stalker.
And then the final move was him ALONE without his boyfriend, in another state, and then only did the stalker say goodbye ?
Nah.. notice what all of this has in common ?
It was always his boyfriend.
The cameras never picked anyone else getting in, because no one ever did.
His boyfriend could leave these whenever OP left the house or was asleep or even just in another room.
Either the dude wanted to scare and isolate him to be dependent on him or he had some weird fetish.
But notice how everything stopped when op moved alone ?
Op is incredibly naïve at this point, he might not want to believe it bit its extremely obvious what was happening.
My single coworker that had a 4 year old child had a stalker that watched her from across the street and followed her. At that time there were no laws against stalking unless they committed a crime. This stalker got inside her apt and you can imagine what terrible thing happened next. While he was calling his friend from my coworkers house to come over and join in, the girl ran into her childs room locked the door and got out of the window and was saved by her neighbor. Her employer, a local wealthy family, got involved and worked with state legislature and got stalking laws passed. This guy was caught and arrested within a wèek. However it was found out that he was released for good behavior from a neighboring southeastern state for raping a 13 yr old girl. Our justice system should keep these sick people in jail ... They can NEVER be rehabilitated. And laws passed that judges are held accountable and politicians are held responsible for state laws that allow this to continue to happen. Sex offenders having to register on a sex offender list and be on the honor system to keep it updated IS NOT punishment.
Or the punishment for sex offenses in all of America should be what it is in Louisiana, fry them in the electric chair. We shoot predatory animals whenever they attack a human why should it be any different with predatory humans?
You're right. They can never be rehabilitated, and while they're on the streets, they're a constant danger!
I can’t believe that dude called someone else to join in. Traumatizing.
The thing i find annoying/weird is how many of the stories have people laughing it off it should be taken seriously if it occurs more than once sure you can think that it's not a big problem but when someone says it happens more than once or they find out their number and other info is when its time to be serious
And also document everything to provide a time line. That alone can become evidence of malfeasance.
3 audio glitches in a single story? Really?
I'm used to there only being 1 or 2 per video...
This guy makes so many vids per day and only has to use txt 2 speech. But couldnt even be bothered to check for audio errors. Lol lazy as hell
@@meyeneetuks4680 joke or Nah?
Reddit’s drunk.
Are the glitches made on purpose? Because it's a "no" for me
Also glitched outro too
Ex-Wife.
She kept making fake Facebook accounts to try and message me, even though we'd both moved on and started families of our own.
Suddenly she stopped, and I thought nothing of it.
Until, I found out she died as the result of a police helicopter crashing through the pub she was in.
holy crap that took a twist
That was a wild ride to read
Wow. I didn't expect that
My ex bf stalks me. He's an adult sexual groomer and malignant narcissist. Every single person I interact with eventually gets groomed. My network is his network and he utilizes them to third party abuse me. It's a lonely life but somewhat empowering. He's suspected of being a sociopath, I've inadvertently learnt his tricks. After years of this I must admit I'm wired differently.
You good?
I feel this one, a woman I thought was a friend of mine turned out to be a predator who’s repeatedly groomed and assaulted people, including me.
@@TheParadoxGamer1 hope your alright and doing well
Stalker came to my house once. Husband and his three brothers were all Frontline Marines. When the police Arrived my husband and my brother in laws just told them. "We chased them off and he tripped" This guy had a cracked skull, brain hemorrhaging and multiple dislocations. Police just say "Ugh huh" But had no proof a horrible beat down to the point of death happened.
"He fell down the concrete stairs."
@@jamesnorman9160 "and bounced a few times"
@@danielm.595 then jim bo stumbled while we were bringing him back up the stairs and he fell again.
@@jamesnorman9160 0
So he’s dead?
I had a stalker, it wasn't a fun time. I was followed in between classes and had school restraining orders, it got to the point I would hide in the offices. I have a suspicion the police got involved because she wasn't seen again, and just, disappeared.
I had a similar experience, I should have gotten the school involved (and maybe the police), but I was too ashamed to tell anyone about it.
My brother was stalked and almost kidnapped. They only got involved because the guy tried to break into our house.
I had two stalkers and at one time they were both stalking me at the same time. One was about my own age and scary and the other was older than my dad and creepy plus very persistent. The younger one backed off when I got married but the old one didn’t back off until my husband threatened him and he scurried away.
9:40 this story is the most terrifying
It was dead obvious it was his boyfriend.
He had cameras, changed locks, moved and still things were happening without anybody getting filmed entering the place.
Where would the stalker gotten keys after he changed them and the moved and had again new keys ?
Anybody entering the home and taking a set of keys would have been filmed.
If he moved different places there's no way the stalker could systematically follow him, like straight up moving instantly too or bribe the locksmith.
It's already almost impossible to bribe a locksmith in the first place, they would be coresponsible for any home invasion, assault or murder or any crime for that matter commited with said keys, so nobody wants to risk that for a bit of cash.
And in the end, he gets a pic of his boyfriend.
Allegedly the only ppl being there would be the boyfriend and said stalker.
And then the final move was him ALONE without his boyfriend, in another state, and then only did the stalker say goodbye ?
Nah.. notice what all of this has in common ?
It was always his boyfriend.
The cameras never picked anyone else getting in, because no one ever did.
His boyfriend could leave these whenever OP left the house or was asleep or even just in another room.
Either the dude wanted to scare and isolate him to be dependent on him or he had some weird fetish.
But notice how everything stopped when op moved alone ?
Op is incredibly naïve at this point, he might not want to believe it bit its extremely obvious what was happening.
It’s super fucked up that people dont take guys being stalked serious, but when women are stalked, there’s a big investigation and the guy is given like 20 years in prison, because the guy being stalked isn’t REALLY being stalked, because he “is a guy so must enjoy the attention” and the guy ”thinks he is God’s gift to women” guarantee if I got stalked the cops would do nothing, but if my sister was stalked, the guy wouldn’t be able to leave his house fast enough before the cops bust his doors down
Not to discredit your claim, but man or woman, no one does enough to combat stalking and protecting the victims of stalking.
@@reylime2991 yeah, it sucks
I can understand your frustration. I had a really scary time with an ex when I was single. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. You are constantly looking over your shoulder, have problems concentrating and sleeping, and never know what will happen next or when it will happen.
The problem is that male stalkers are more likely to kill the object of their obsession than female stalkers, so law enforcement doesn’t take female stalkers as seriously. That has to change, because no matter what the statistics say, every case is different, every perpetrator is different, and everyone deserves the same protection under the law.
It wasn’t that long ago that the stalking of women wasn’t taken seriously, so hopefully things will change for men, too.
And where are you getting this misinformation? There was literally a show about this, and the MAJORITY of the times, the police did NOTHING. Most cases were ones in which the victim wasn't alive to tell their tale. Most people don't take stalking seriously PERIOD.
Uh, the "big investigation" usually only happens when the woman is found dead.
I have a crazy one. Guy moved into our complex.
Day one, never met the man, he knocks on my door, addressing me by name (my full name no one really knows) and also my mother's name, giving me his phone number written in crayon on a card.
I was already a little creeped out just by him knowing our names, but I'm in customer service - I know how to send people off with a smile. He never knocks on my door again but I still see him hanging out in random places around the complex just kinda staring at people, and I kinda felt he was looking into windows.
He was an odd man, wore strange socks and had very short shorts on at all times, no matter the weather. I didn't drive, so I walked everywhere through busy streets. And multiple times I'd found him following behind me until I had to cross through traffic, to which I'd find him waiting across the street at the bus stop, never at a set time and often on days where there were no busses running.
About a month after he moved in, our entire complex got a printed letter taped to every single one of our doors, warning us that he is a dangerous man, accusing him of doing awful things to a child. (Whoever did that is brave, thank you) The complex manager, instead of taking it at all seriously, prints out their own letter rebutting that, telling us how he's a veteran and he has ptsd and he's just "odd" but he's harmless.
I continue staying the hell away and now looking at him in an even darker light.
Well, things go further down hill, there was a house across the street with a young family living there and he was next accused of trying to lure the children to him with the promise of a new lunchbox.
A lot of people don't know what to believe, but he'd been following me around (I had a very young baby face at the time) and giving me the creeps otherwise until this point, so I practically ran if I ever saw him.
It all came to a head when I wake up one morning to a cop's intercom telling someone to "come out with your hands on your head." Look out to see the parking and street completely blocked off by a mountain of police vehicles, at least fifty officers, a lot of them holding assault rifles rather than pistols and a group on their way into his corner of the complex with a battering ram.
He'd some how blocked off his door to the point the battering ram didn't work (or something) and he had made a movie-esque tied together scarf/towel rope to climb out of his window in the back of the complex and then booked it... directly across the street and tried to hop the fence to the BORDER PATROL office we had there. He got a face full of pavement, no shots fired.
What was found in his apartment was a lot of gross stuff, including a couch that was raised and angled so he could better stare out his window that faced the aforementioned young family, with binoculars. Plus a lot of other evidence.
He wasn't in prison long at all.
Ok, my stalking is experience is actually pretty mild, but it made me uncomfortable. There were these middle school girls who followed me onto the tram and asked me to sing and do karate for them. At first, it was cute. But it started to get uncomfortable when I needed to get off the tram at my stop and the girl would literally grab my sleeve and beg me not to go. Eventually, I stayed later at school to finish my math homework and avoid her and my grandpa was my getaway driver.
Did you sing Everybody was Kung foo fighting? And were you fast as lightning?
@@jarrarwinks8470 Read the room mate. No one's laughing because they're recounting a traumatic experience or more and possibly reliving it too.
If you're trolling, that wasn't even a good attempt at it.
@@DiscoTimelordASD Ok. I'm missing a giant chunk of my foot due to an abusive relationship with a girl I use to date, I get through it with jokes, and randomly posting shitty ones, that was the height of me doing it, about 4 weeks after it happened actually. Also, I only posted that because they said it was mild, and not so bad, if it was worse or they did not say it was mild I wouldn't have posted that.
@@DiscoTimelordASD I will say I do feel bad for doing that though.
@@jarrarwinks8470 My apologies. That was extremely insensitive of me. I should not try to gatekeep trauma. Thank you for reminding me to be a more considerate human being and I am so sorry for what you've been through.
Ya I had a guy drive me nuts after I dated him for a while. He kept calling and sending flowers etc. Every day he left a message on my phone. Finally I got tired of this, so.......I married him. He stopped bugging me so often, and now we have been happily married for 16 years. Lol
That's funny I too married my stalker
I shoot my stalker i the knee
@@izek402 I didn't think of that. Bahahaha
Sounds just like he loved you
Someone is definitely going to misinterpretat this comment.
That person was me I had to read it a few times.
"Im going to fire you if your stalker keeps showing up"
Bro what the fuck
Aww! The one where they both apologize and become friends is so sweet! Just goes to show how much therapy can help someone.
This was decades ago when I was in HS, this guy was new to my school, he had just gotten out of juvie, he was very quiet and kept to himself, he was also very tall, thin, a bit disheveled, and strangely quiet. My teacher asked me to tutor him during study hall and I agreed, I never spoke to him outside of the subject I was helping him with so I didn't think he was interested in me, until one day as I was getting my coat out of my locker he walked up to me and handed me a note and walked away, and all he wrote was I'm in love with you, I was shocked. The next day during our study period I just very nicely said I wasn't interested. I stopped tutoring him and then he started following me home from school everyday, sometimes he'd stand across the street from my house and just stare at it, my sister who was older than me noticed and asked me about him and I told her, this continued for some time, until one day he didn't come in to school, he had an overdose of pills and was sent to get help somewhere, I never saw him again after.
It's genuinely disturbing how across the globe, stalking isn't taken seriously. It takes someone being physically assaulted or murdered often times for any sort of real punishment. So sad...
I really hate when people don’t take shit like this seriously, especially with guys. Stalking, rape, sexual harassment, assault, etc. should be taken seriously REGARDLESS of gender. BEING STALKED IS NOT FUNNY, AND NEVER WILL BE. TAKE 👏 THAT 👏 SHIT 👏 SERIOUSLY 👏
I had one at work. I was 16 and had my first job in Poundland and it was mainly 23-60+ year olds there and didn’t really like me because of my age. And this 25 year old (the never grew out of the emo phase type) started talking to me a few months in. I was also going through that emo phase so it was nice to talk to someone on shift about stuff that wasn’t work.
My first sign should have been how openly he told me he had nits to maybe not be friendly to him but it was nice to have a work friend.
After a few weeks he told me how he liked girls younger than him even saying he liked girls younger than me. I felt uncomfortable and started to put a barrier between us until he called me. I never gave him my number but he told me one of the managers gave it him after he asked. Then he turned up at my school after I finished, tried to say I had to go pick my younger sisters up and he offered to join me. Luckily a friends mum pulled me into her car and drove me off. Again never told him where I went to school so my logic was that it must have been on Facebook somewhere. That then turned into him bluntly telling me what he’d want to do to me over text and asking me to come round.
I gave my notice in after six months and got pulled into the managers room to say that he had put in a complaint against me and they would sort out all of the problems if I didn’t quit (middle of Christmas period). So i stayed another week until he tried to kiss me and then told me how he had sex with a 14 year old but wished it was me. I left with immediate affect and called in sick during my notice period. I continued to get calls off of him.
Still shocks me to this day that management would put a near minor in danger like that. Wish I had told a parent but didn’t realise how obscene the friendship was or my rights as a worker.
The channel that brings back the annoyance of an old record skipping on a turntable. I'm done.
"I think he was more weird than dangerous." No he was dangerous. He hot angry at the refusal of a relationship. That's a red flag.
Always involve someone else, the cops, an SO, parents, my nieces...
The guy in the forces who's stuff went missing and the person was in his house and took pics of his partner. It's the partner.
The most obvious answer is usually correct. Apparently wanted him to leave the armed forces.
Yeah, I was thinking about it, bc it would be sooo hard for someone from outside do all those things
@@guilhermeluispessoa5288I was wondering about that. The schedule, the picture, their ability to evade security systems. There's definitely more to that story.
Had a coworker who was an MP for 20 years. I think she knew someone who caught the stalker of a service member near base. Apparently, when you're caught doing recon on a military installation, being a stalker is terrible, but a lot better than the other things you're going to be accused of in that scenario...
Maybe I have a stalker. I just figured that it was malicious intent/ harrassment. Over the past year, I've had lugnuts stolen off my car, roof rack and various other bolts removed. One time my entire left rear wheel had all of its lugnuts loosened. I've had the combat helmet lining stolen, a few times. Not the helmet, just the lining. A entire bag full of my cold weather gear went missing. Eh.... I'm sure that it's just malicious intent instead of stalking.
"My entire wheel had all its lug nuts loosened". I suspect your local police would call that criminal intent, that is, action intenting you to come to harm.
@@felicitybywater8012 yeah but what can they do? Increasing patrols around where I park, maybe. I informed my NCOs and Commanding officers ( I'm military) about the incidents that have been occurring. My stuff is still disappearing but at least my car is being left alone.
@@hendyallen5993 Is this actually happening on base?
Can you get a dash cam? They’ve really gone down in price, and it would be worth it for piece of mind. Good luck!
@@mkuti-childress3625 yeah it's been happening on base. Since I posted someone has let the air out of the tire and replaced the cap. They are specifically removing and changing parts that are on the side of the car, I believe to avoid dashcam. I'm going to the MPs tomorrow. Not that I expect them to do anything about it.
@@hendyallen5993 make sure your family and friends know, and have it in writing. If you could do this in a non-threatening manner, let your CO know how bad it would look if a soldier died or was injured under suspicious circumstances, especially for their career... I don't know about other branches, but I know the Army doesn't want to deal with that again...
Whoever this is, you train directly with them. Why else would someone alter your helmet, a very special piece of equipment used only in very specific circumstance.
I had a stalker at work a few months ago after just starting my job. He was a vendor and I worked at a grocery store. He saw me cashiering one day and came up to talk to me wearing a mask, hat, and his work uniform. He made casual small talk with me and I did the same. He offered to buy me Starbucks since I “looked tired.” Which I declined. He left. He came back 10 mins later and gave me his phone number which I took but never texted. I hoped he’d get the hint. 2 days later I was closing the front end when he came up to my register without a mask and not in his work uniform. He talked to me like we were friends and I had no idea who he was but figured I must’ve known him in high school or something. Instead of telling me his name when I asked he told me the company he worked for. When I asked for his store member card (it says your name on the bottom of the register screen) he was about to type it in, took one look at me and said nevermind. He left and I was weirded out but then he came back ten minutes later with a drink that he said was for some friend. He then proceeded to ask me when I was off of work and was very persistent about it. I never gave him a straight answer but I was supposed to get off shortly after that interaction. Before I left I called my dad and asked for a ride since I would usually walk home and didn’t want to risk being followed. Two days later and it was one of my days off of work. He came back, found the department I usually worked in which I never told him about and the door to it was sorta hidden. He was asking other cashiers for me too and they didn’t give him a straight answer. He bought a gift card for Starbucks even though I can’t drink coffee (which I never mentioned bc you generally try not to talk to them when they’re being weird.) he went upstairs in to the employees only area where my boss and manager found him and confronted him. I got a call when I was with my friends about it. Still never knew his name but he got banned from the store. My dad texted his number pretending to be me and we found out pretty quickly that he wasn’t a good person. Stay safe!
Sound like a you problem
3 glitches in the same story at 24:32! How lazy can you possibly get, it's like the voicebot gets tired.
I’ve thought this wasn’t intentional, then I saw people say it was intentional, and now I have no idea which it is…
Told this story before but I think it fits here too. 10th grade a senior shows interest in dating me. I was all for it but my parents were not on board with dating at all, and later it was revealed my mom wasn't thrilled about this guy at all. So I told him to wait and he continued to walk around the school with me and hang out. Once he told me he wanted us to go out in secret because he really liked me. Red flag that and I held my ground. I slowly started to dislike him because he was disrespectful to my parent's wishes and he tried to follow me to every class and had become a teachers aid in my last class as well as weaseling into my friends group. My group was really accepting so none of us minded him and even after everything I wouldn't have cared. I think the last straw was when my friend who was also a senior told me he was telling everyone we were together. After I told him to leave me alone he writes on FB that he was so heart broken and how he had all these plans. I was all too happy to dodge the bullet but he was still a teacher's aid and he had joined drama club with me. Then he started dating a friend of mine, someone I hadn't really hung out with much that year but our relationship definitely died when they started dating.
dude ok so my friend (v) and her boyfriend (c) had broken up and since c was still obsessed with her, i started talking to him to get him to chill tf out and leave her alone. anyways, after a school thing one night, v dropped me off at my house to pick something up bc we were having a sleepover, and c was stalking her location and memorized where my house was. after that, he kinda held it over my head and said things like "i'm about to walk by your house :)"
fast forward a week or two and he's fucking obsessed with me. i'm talking not letting me touch anything he deemed dangerous, telling him whatever i'm eating, etc. he asked me out yesterday and i said idk (that translates to "absolutely fucking not"). he started drinking (i don't believe him at all, he sobered up way too quick for him to be actually drunk) and asked if he can kiss me after he gets back from his trip to another state. i say we'll see bc i don't wanna make him mad and then he says "i'm still gonna do it no matter what"
so yeah this is fun 👍 and is actually still happening currently so wish me luck or something
Please get an authority at your school or a parent or adult involved. That’s super creepy and inappropriate. Keep all texts that you get from him and get witnesses if you have them to talk to said authority to get them to believe you. His last comment is intent to commit assault- he’s dangerous and won’t take no for an answer. Please protect yourself ❤️
not sure this counts as a stalker, but in middle school, the boy who lived down the street from me (about a year odler) liked me, when I didn't reciprocate his feelings he got realy creepy, trying to touch me on the school bus in ways I wasn't comfortable with, showing up at my house and doing violent things to try and impress me. I have anger problems, he saw that and assumed I was into guys who were strong and violent. he tried to choke out his brother to prove he was good enough. he ended up getting expelled after he cut open the back off my shorts on the bus (he sat right behind me and stuck his scissors through the point where the seat and seat back meet.)
17:14
1. If Joe is 10 to 12 years older than OP, and he's best friends with Jen's boyfriend, then how old is the boyfriend?
2. Why did Jen think some guy who would have been in his late 20s would be a great date for her high school friend?
3. Regardless of whatever age OP was at the time, its sus af that he even agreed to go to a high school prom.
I hate those loops! Why doesn’t the UA-camr fix them before uploading????
I think its a running gag at this point. I watch probably 10 or so different UA-camrs who read reddit. A few with bot voices but most are actual people. I listen to this channel specifically for these loops because they're so unexpected they make me laugh.
They’re too lazy to watch their own video and edit out the loops.
Because people comment about it which makes it show up more on UA-cam so more people see it
@@Vosia71 frog
@@ToxicTory44 Exactly. I recommend RadioTTS for reddit content, all these other channels are ass!
The weirdest stalking is when the person who was cheated with stalks the person who was cheated on. Like, shouldn't you be happy that you got the person you helped cheat with instead of being obsessed with the person they cheated on? Kind of goes to show that they have buyers remorse and are insane for blaming the person they stole their cheater from.
I was in high-school so this is a long time ago.
There was this guy who was in the special ed classes. He was just a little slow reading and writing but otherwise he was normal (no hate, I suck at math). Junior year, he started hanging out where I was but at a distance and just watched. Didn't really notice until someone pointed it out.
Senior year, he started standing in plain view and just staring. It was creepy but I just ignored it. Over the year he would get closer and follow me everywhere. I'd be in class and look up and he's looking in the door window or outside looking in. I started having to go to the bathroom with friends because one day he tried to walk in and a teacher caught him.
Second half of the school year, he would block me from coming into the school and tell me I should be his gf or else. I'd always say no. He started looking at who I was talking to and would try to start fights with them later. He'd tell them I belonged to him and they needed to fuck off. I finally got sick of this and told some teachers who said they would keep an eye in him.
Seemed to get better at school, but not at home.
Had a big orange cat who started developing a habit of jumping on me and digging through my blinds when I went to sleep. (bed was right next to window) i had curtains so I would lift the blinds maybe a quarter of an inch but my cat continued to get in the blinds. One night he was growling (nothing like cat growls in your sleep to make you feel safe) and I opened my curtains enough to look outside. It was pitch black outside and then I saw the guy from schools eyes and this slow, creepy, joker like smile. I haven't mentioned that he was black so it was literally all of him I could see. Screamed bloody murder.
There were footprints outside my window in the flowerbed. for them to be that fully defined, he had been coming to my house and trying to look in for a long time.
Parents told teachers, told police. His parents laid hard into him being led on by me (? how?!) and I liked him watching me.
Years later, I get a job as a cashier in a local grocery store. One day, the manager comes over and tells me we have a new worker and brings the stalker. He got that same exact look he did when he was outside my window. Tokd my manager about him dn he told me he would be kept in a different schedule and area. Didn't matter. He looked up my schedule and would come in those days. He yelled at other baggers for working at my station, he followed me for lunch. No disciplinary action did anything.
I finally snapped when I was trying to get something under my counter and when I bent down felt him standing almost on me. I started yelling that I would press charges against him and if he dodnt immediately get away from me I would defend myself. I didn't feel safe. He laughed and tried to grab my wrist. The customer I was helping was a big burly dude who came around and pulled him away. He began telling me how its so easy to fake being bad at things so they put your in (his words not mine) "the retarded classes." You get free reign to walk the school and watch your bitches.
He didn't have the issues people said he did, he was just sadisticly smart.
He was fired, I quit. Tried to press charges but they played the "hes not all there" card.
Found out not too long after that he had found his way into another girls house and was caught standing in her room. He was arrested but released. Nit sure whats going on with him now and I never want to see his face again.
The stalker it was dead obvious it was his boyfriend.
He had cameras, changed locks, moved and still things were happening without anybody getting filmed entering the place.
Where would the stalker gotten keys after he changed them and then moved and had again new keys ?
Anybody entering the home and taking a set of keys would have been filmed.
Hell you'd need keys first to get in without breaking in.
If he moved different places there's no way the stalker could systematically bribe the locksmith.
It's already almost impossible to bribe a locksmith in the first place, they would be coresponsible for any home invasion, assault or murder or any crime for that matter commited with said keys, so nobody wants to risk that for a bit of cash.
And in the end, he gets a pic of his boyfriend.
Allegedly the only ppl being there would be the boyfriend and said stalker.
And then the final move was him ALONE without his boyfriend, in another state, and then only did the stalker say goodbye ?
Nah.. notice what all of this has in common ?
It was always his boyfriend.
The cameras never picked anyone else getting in, because no one ever did.
His boyfriend could leave these whenever OP left the house or was asleep or even just in another room.
Either the dude wanted to scare and isolate him to be dependent on him or he had some weird fetish.
But notice how everything stopped when op moved alone ?
Op is incredibly naïve at this point, he might not want to believe it, but its extremely obvious what was happening.
That's what I thought.
So I had two stalkers. One was mild. High school guy who was friends with my neighbor became obsessed with me. I was the same age. His mom worked at the school. He'd follow me around, hang out with his friends and try to walk by my house non stop. His friend was getting annoyed because it wasn't a crush, it was just creepy. He left me alone when he got a girlfriend. I found out years later that she set him up with his girlfriend so he'd leave me alone. I have no clue what he's up to these days.
Second stalker was a guy I was planning to go on a date with from a dating website. He was fine, until he got creepy. He started saying a bunch of stuff about how he could take care of me and I would never have to leave his house. When I told him that wasn't okay he threatened my life. I noped out of that and blocked him. I immediately went to the police to file a police report. A few days later he came to my job and I was able to file an order of protection. He never bothered me again. This was all less than a week.
oooooooooooo 45 min long video about stalkers????? Yes pls, all the glitches....not so much
29:47 Op doesn't understand how lucky they were that the stalking was detected and shut down at the very beginning.
There is no reason to request being seated in a particular waiter's section who is a stranger. If the waiter is a friend of yours, then yes, otherwise no.
I didn't really have a stalker but when I was younger whenever my family would move into a new house the phone would ring. If I answered the call I would either get the silent person or the heavy breather. It never happened to anyone else.
I've bad a bad Facebook stalker who was sending chainmail to my friends. He was stealing my FB pictures and posting them, he remains anonymous through a page but he wound send me screenshots of my address and dirty messages...even screenshots of my house on Google maps...I deleted my FB and still till this day never looked back.....btw I was about 11 or 12 when this happened
I hate how the police don't take it seriously if a man is being stalked.
I was stalked by a coworker and it was scary. at first he was really nice and brought me food every day for lunch and coffee a lot. then I saw his personality. he was mean spirited. (Capricorn). so I started distancing myself. he would drop stuff off at my house all the time when I told him not to. I ended up quitting the job and he did drive bys at my house trying to see if I was home. then made a fake snapchat and started berating me for "scaring" him thinking something happened to me. he should have gotten the fucking hint when i stopped talking to him. the last thing he did was send me a check in the mail for 500$. I tore it up.
that's some next level desperation
Awww, you could have tried to get him charged for solicitation. /s
capricorn
I'm calling bullshit on this story. Capricorns can be mean, yes. But desperate? Aw hell naw.
What's up with the audio glitches? You do it to extent the video time?
I don't think they even increase how long the video is
If they do, then they only do it by like 1 or 2 seconds
Its cuz they lazy
@@theeaterofworlds9599 they probably don't review the video.
They definitely don't extend the video, you'll notice they only last until the end of the sentence and overwrite anything that would've been said. Same exact time taken, just less words being read.
I cannot be the only one who thought my headphones were broken when the glitches started happening- Opened the comments at the speed of light, lol.
Story around the 10 minute mark - that is disgusting how that poor girl was treated by that asshole and by her own colleagues even after the creep was fired. Wtf is wrong with those people that they isolate her as punishment for reporting sexual harassment to HR?! Shame on that company. 🤬
It always amazes me how at the end of a lot of these stories’ narrator says “I heard that person got ‘blank’” (example: so the guy got fired. I heard he got fired from the next job he had for sexual harassment)
I just don’t know how everyone ends up getting intel about the he guy/company/thing when they aren’t in contact with them anymore. Maybe Im overthinking it, but im glad that we get some closure to the stories!
Get off your arse and fix the glitches. Tired of having to stop working just to put out my phone to read the glitch part .
"Brush that went missing, brush that went missing, right down Santa Clause Lane".
I'm a reporter, and a couple of years ago I started getting letters from a guy, all hand delivered. These were single-spaced, double sided, hand written nonsensical letters. Started off with one letter, three pages in length, then it went to three at a time, all in the same style as the first one. RCMP did nothing because "there was nothing threatening" in the letters, even though (to me, anyway) the increased number of letters was an escalation. At one point I was told that because I'm considered to be a public figure because of my job, things like this will occasionally happen. We couldn't identify him because this was at the point during the pandemic where masking was required everywhere you went, and he always wore sunglasses too. He did stop writing to me after a while, but eventually became fixated on someone else, something I learned after RCMP called me to get details of what I went through with him. I still don't know what happened with him, or if he's still in the area.
I've noticed a lot of people don't mention HOW they actually met their stalker? They just start out with this one guy blah blah blah. I'm just very curious as to how they are meeting these people! Some do mention how they met but idk just seems like a weird detail to leave out especially because it's the most interesting and important detail
The guy who put his hand down that woman's dress...so let me get this straight: short of murder, I can get away with doing *anything* as long as I'm bringing in the sales?
I had an ex girlfriend stalker. I broke up with her because she cheated on me. She showed up at my home, keyed my car, egged my house, and sent death threats to my family. Got the police involved and she fucked off.
It's scary how much these people can affect you. You do things out of fear that you wouldn't do normally, even after they are gone.
So he sexually harasses a co-worker while she's working then assaults her right while she's talking to a client & the boss says it's not a problem, her co-workers are angry w her & she loses part of her sales territory. The boss punished the victim for being harassed & assaulted by a co-worker. The boss is the problem.
He threatened me for three years, because I was responsible to forwarding an SEC document where he was found guilty of securities fraud, and I suspected they didn't want to continue to hire him as an actor for character appearance. They already had complaints on him and the document was the final straw. He then stalked my wedding via text the day after the ceremony, a sort of "still have eyes on you." 'reminder' And last July he died from a still undisclosed condition. Can't say I miss him.
Not a stalker, but definitely obsessed with my weird looking high school self, to this day I don’t know why. A friend of one of my brothers, who was also the older brother of a friend of mine. Never in my life was I so happy to have overprotective parents lol. Guy shows up to my house WITH A LIMO and asks if I want a ride. I think their parents owned a business. I told him I’d have to ask my mom, tell her and then beg her to say I can’t go. She wouldn’t have let me anyway. Tell him I can’t. He asked to borrow one of my CDs and when he returned it, he had drawn on a piece of paper a heart with our names in it, and a knife going through it with my brothers name. TF....
The only reason it didn’t get worse, and I thank God to this day, was because of one of my cousins. She’s like my godmother and was a guidance counselor at our school. I don’t know how she got wind of what he was doing, but she did. Years later I found out she called him into her office and put the fear of God into him. He never bothered me again.
More recently, a few years ago, guy was bothering a coworker and wouldn’t leave her alone. I stepped in to “help” so she could escape. Seems anyone was good enough for this guy. He wouldn’t shut up and let me leave to keep working. Coworker went to the back to warn management. Guy leaves for a few minutes, I think I’m good. One of the managers and another male coworker come over to ask what’s going on. As I’m explaining it to them, the guy comes back! Starts asking me questions and only looking at me. My manager tries answering instead, and he ignores him. I answer as politely as I can while trying to hide behind my, over 6ft tall manager, and my manager doesn’t skip a beat as soon as I’m done talking. Says I’m needed in the office. Our loss prevention was notified and told to be on the lookout. Didn’t see him after that, thank God. Freaking weird.
Last one that happened that really made me scared for my safety. Same job. I was leaving for the day, had earbuds in. Didn’t realize he was trying to talk to me. Well, he was talking in Spanish and assumed I couldn’t understand. So I responded in Spanish. Big mistake. But that company pounded into the employees heads that you always took care of “guests” and you represent the company even off the clock (uniform gave it away), so act accordingly. Never again will I let fear of losing my job put me in such a scary situation. Anyway, to try and stop typing, long story short. Guy starts asking me to go eat. I say no thank you. I’m tired and want to go home. I was about to get on the escalator to go to employee parking, guy GRABS MY ARM and stops and asks again to go eat. I said no, I want to go home. I’m surprised I didn’t fall running down the thing two flights. Ran into employee services, shakily ask the attending to call security. They never found him. Escorted me to my car and made sure I got out safe. I was checking my rear view the whole way.
17:40-ish Soooo was it just my high school that only allowed people 21 or younger to come as guests to prom?!
Not taking stalking seriously is disturbing. Women can be just as terrifying as men and I’ve heard every excuse under the sun including “they’re on the spectrum”, and I don’t give a shit. Get help if everyone you interact with runs away from you, get help. Men and women, their is no such thing as playing hard to get. Self awareness is a beautiful thing, try it. For everyone else, be armed with a weapon if some sort. Take your power back!
People gave me the he had “good intentions” he wanted to be my friend and I didn’t, so him stalking me couldn’t possibly be that bad if he didn’t have any bad intentions.
7:15 Sorry, but I'm calling bullshit on this. I'm meant to believe your stalker evaded your cameras, your alarms, and crept into your house to photograph your boyfriend without being detected? And that he left you multiple notes without you seeing him even once. The whole thing just reads like a creepy pasta (either that or your bf is fucking with you).
We really need to teach basic employment laws and stuff in school so people understand they don’t have to put up with harassment at work. Like some of these situations go on too long with the person going to the cops.
I had one now I’m scared of the discord call sound lol.
I've been stalked twice by Indians during my studies at university.
#1
I was outside the library waiting for a friend and a bunch of Indians were pointing and staring at me. One of them came up and introduced himself. I wasn't interested and wasn't listening to his life story. A month or so later, we crossed paths again and he was retelling my activities and whereabouts since we met. Turns out he and his friends were following me and reporting back to him. I was too passive and non confrontational to tell him to F off. It got too much when he got angry with me when he found out I had male friends and I was not to speak to them. That's when I grew a pair and told him where to shove his delusion that we were an item. Never heard from him again.
#2
Pretty much the same thing as #1. Minding my own business studying when a different indian wanted to be in my life. He pestered for my email and number, which I refused. He just didn't get that I wasn't interested. He did the same surveillance thing and followed me. He even set up an email for me as I refused to give him mine. I ended up changing the password and closed the account. Never saw him again.
I spent most of my uni days looking over my shoulder and studied near other people as potential witnesses. I avoided Indians for a time as well.
Same but Arabs see the video "Stalking for love"
Narrator.exe has stopped working
The ex-bf at 6:20 is pissing me off
I had had a quite a few stockers 😢 enough for me to need therapy. The more severe case it was a male in his 50 when I was around 25, I had a baby and a kindergarten. My car needed a tire repair and I was just at small tire shop a few blocks from my home waiting to have it fixed. Well this man thought he could impress me with the riches his family has in Mexico when he was growing up, riches he doesn't have now 💀 well he would end up following me from there to grocery stores my child's school and my home that was 2 blocks from the school! One day he followed me inside the school! I told school security and it turned out he had been stocking other mothers too and they couldn't kicking him out because "he was picking up his nieces" 🙄 well a few days later he followed me to the Detroit's Riverwalk, that if you don't know it's a border area with Canada and it's a very secure area. I went there because he was following me at the grocery store and then followed when driving! Since it's an area surveillance by border patrol, state police and the Riverwalk security they told me to keep walking into the pathway and they would get him! It's turned out that the man was an illegal Mexican immigrant and got deported after that because I did file a police report and all! So he is completely gone out of my life 🤗
*3 audio glitches in one story* the comment that got showed: *DANG,THAT SOUNDS H O R R I B L E*
bro i alnmost pooed myself when the face part
Really digging the remix on this ET
I’ve noticed this happening in a lot of the videos, why does it skip or repeat itself for like 5 to 10 seconds and then go on is that like intentional or is that something wrong with the audio
Ah, I thought I’d fat fingered my phone!
Video creator is too lazy to listen to the video to see if it has corrupted audio, it's getting more common lately
I've had multiple stalkers during my lifetime. The first one was when I was a teenager. It started when I was about seven years old or so. He was a sheriff's son and that's how he got away with it as long as he did. His main MO was reaching through my bedroom window and stealing my panties (and this, boys and girls, is why I still will not wear bikini underwear) when I wasn't home. He left me alone when he miscalculated and I WAS home. I slashed his arm from his shoulder to his wrist.
The second one was when I was working in the computer lab at the VA hospital. He was a creep of the highest order. Then he moved to Kentucky and we had peace.
The third one was after my roommate and I retired. We only knew of him to nod to him when we passed in the hallway. He is banned from our apartment complex, and last we checked, he was incarcerated in another county.
REVIEW- YOUR VIDEOS- BEFORE YOU UPLOAD THEM!!
Every phone has a block feature. Every app had a block feature. Just for starters.
That therapist one sounds more lonely than stalker-y
I had just watched Greta and am now morbidly curious about female on female stalking
44:08 lmao yes, you are correct
My ex was a stalker, he stalked me and my stupid self went out with him, I agreed to it because he threatened to unalive himself if I didn't. I feel sick about him now, he'd watch me constantly, stroke my hair and arms, compliment me, and message me constantly. He'd actually been warned to stop stalking another girl from our year in school, b transferred his creepy attention from her to me. After I escaped that binfire of a relationship, he began stalking a 13 year old girl, he was almost 18 by then. I expect to see his name in the papers for harassing some poor woman, I don't think that will happen, I KNOW it will as he just cannot help himself
Well; I tolerated it for as long as I possibly could. The glitches are too annoying and I’m unsubbing.
Had this kid in my Secondary school that nobody liked, but he would only go to me and my friends because he wouldn't be lonely, well jokes on him, we hated him, so we basically tried our best to kick him out of our group, but still resisted. One time, my friend felt a bit sad, but frustrated, so I asked him what happened, and basically that kid followed him home and knew where he lives, and is scared of what he's going to do. But unfortunately, he wasn't the only friend to be stalked, he stalked all of us, including me. We had no idea of what to do, but just hope that he doesn't do something wrong to us.
Harris Waseem, if you're somehow reading this: Screw you for making our lives in hell! You were the worst!
The notes one is sooo creepy. Like, how??? How did they *never* get caught??
I live in an area with lots of gangs and I’ve always tried to be kind to them and do them some favours so if needed they would help me out, so when I noticed this guy that was always following me, I told some of them and I haven’t seen the guy since. I think he but I’m not sure
14:08 this is the end of the story but i really liked it. the redditer has a good moral compass
These stories don't sound very scary with a computer voice.
What is up with the text to speech things repeating the same word over and over again?
The more I listen the more I wonder how they can dedicate so much time doing this.
12:12 should have sued….. pretty sure this is illegal
Anyone else think these glitches have the max head room feel too it?
i dont really know how to tell stories but i currently have a stalker so this new guy came to our school the first day he came into my chemistry class and math class i think and he was looking at me like literally almost every single minute i was really creeped out anyways the next day he was suddenly in all my classes and was somehow always close to me and at lunch he asked me to show him around school a little bit and well i did but he was cool I guess but whenever im talking to one of my friends he always interrupts our convo and he was soo obsessed with me he was so annoying too and then when i was walking home i swear someone was following me so i was not about to go home i went to a cafe and i could see him coming into the cafe and then sat in the table in front of me and we started to chat and laugh it took my mind off the person that was following me well at least i think someone was following me so it was getting late and i decided to go home. 30 minutes later im in my room, my parents are on a business trip and i have no sibilings anyways it was night time i was really sleepy so i went to sleep and i woke in the middle of the night and i thought i saw a person i thought i was just hallucinating so i went back to sleep and i realized hoodie was missing like??? its like 6am in the morning rn and i think someone is watching me efuwysdgfhd i think he is stalker idk
That one where the guy dislocated her thumb because she wouldn't go out with him, I sighed out loud because FUCKING NICE GUYS, OF COURSE!