Many of my friends are unmarried at the age 33+ with unhappy face. But many other friends of me are married living an equally stressed out life. We all can live happily if we want. It's up to us.
If one cannot be happy alone,one can never be happy in a relationship, marriage or otherwise! Better to be alone and at peace than committed and stressed out!
Why not be committed and be happy !! Its a fallacy that you can be single and Happy , marriage is not like going on a trip its very much essential to lead a normal Life !! Unless you are a Yogi like few exceptions which is rare !!
@@bullrider9617 I was in relationship for 15 years & got separated when I was 33 age..today I 40 & not married because of past trauma I faced in relationship! Relationship/marriage manytimes RUIN'S LIVES which you can get over ! Single is much better than losing peace of mind brother! Marriage or relationship is not for everybody my brother! Well, I am also divorce attorney brother & trust me I see ugliness regularly in married life of my Clients! Divorce rates are so high brother!
The problem is no one will account for you, Your parents will get old, after some period it's our job to look at them, it's only our job to get it done
28 saal bohtoj zyada nahi hai mai 27 mai vivah hua mera abhi sub kuch normal hai 2 bacche bhi hai.per humare shasthro me jo likha hai humne usko follow kerna hi chod diya hai tho usme aapko kaise hal milega..agar shasthro ke ko thoda bhi follow karoge thub dheere dheere prblms hi kum hone lagenge..
I filed for divorce 20 years ago and single since then and happy with my life. I raised two wonderful children, and they are doing well in life. I do so many things to keep myself busy and have a good job here in the US. I know if I was living in India I would be judged so much for my single status. Your videos are good and you make so much sense.
Bhai I am 38 and unmarried and super happy. Marriage was never a priority for me and my parents and family are not able to pressure me into it. But ye feeling of satisfaction andar se aana chahiye nahi toh happy nahi ho sakte
True, hopefully 60 ka hone pe ye chiz na badal jaye.. There is a big fat chance of that happening though. Western society me ye cheez ho rahi and we can see how that is impacting them.
@@indiboy7 tum log kya ye internet pe dekh ke kuch bhi bolte rehte ho western society this western society that??!😂 Jaise ki tumhara society bahut badiya hai. Ghar se nikle ho kabhi.. Khud se rahe ho? Baahar travel kiya hai? Wahaan rahe ho?. Kuch nahi.. Zyada sanghi podcasts sunna bandh karo. Shadi shuda logon se baat kari hai? Woh khush hain 60 saal ki umar mein? Kya hum unki baat believe kar sakte hai? Khushi and loneliness kaise measure karen? Ye western society se sentences shuru karna bandh karo aur apne aap ko sambhalo aur apna dekho. Ye apne kamre mein Baith kar doosre desh ke koi cherry picked anecdotes and half truths cite karke kuch nahi hoga khudka.
Its better to be alone! Than to marry the wrong person and ruin life forever!🙏🙏 Marriage is not everything in life! If a person cant find the right ,honest & Loyal person! Then dont marry and ruin a life! Divorce happen in both Love & Arranged marriages in this kaliyugha !! Why to simple marry and Destroy eachothers life,if each people cant balance one another!!🤷♂️🤷♂️
Thats one way to look at it. Another is its better to have someone to come home to rather than a empty home. Gets lonlier with age. Kids are the biggest upside of even a not so ideal marriage
I'm 38 and bachelor but living as a single, it doesn't reveal that i am unhappy but reading books visiting forest, talking with common men and knowing tribals and have gut to disobey the bigots , playing with stray animals, loving them, sharing happiness with poorer, somany things which give me energy, yes i am scientific temperament guy, i don't have time to listen any mythology but every second i engage myself with facts and discoveries, i don't feel i am alone or anyone think i am some kind of inferiority but the truth is, if you are not happy when you are single then if you can't happy with commitment to someone else.. Have a nice day to you Sir and all ..☺️🎩🌹💙
All of my 30+ married friends are leading successful lives, enjoying their achievements. On the contrary, my unmarried friends are putting in a lot of effort to establish themselves, and while some are earning well, they seem to be leading somewhat challenging lives. In my opinion, it's important for individuals to acknowledge their age and adjust their actions accordingly.
Yes one should enjoy their married life if they are married. And if they are unmarried, then they should focus their life towards a rich lifestyle and upgrade their life.
Well if they get divorced situation will change steady fast life doesn't go on fixed pattern. Status wise I am far ahead then my siblings and my cousins who are married and two of my cousins now are broke due to divorce you have very flawed analogy.
it is bit tough in India because of the society as they get very personal but like here in the US that is very common thing in the sense to live as a single parent or single person or not married. I am 51 male separated and i happily tell people about it and no one judges
And no one cares either. Hospital mein bas ghanta bajate rehna and not sure nurse will show up or not. If you are single then be as rich as Ratan tata 😂
@@kabirkapoor1205 There are a few good dating apps that i will use to look for someone and it is not hard to find someone my age here but i am just focused on my kids to go to college as they are in high school. Once they are in college i am going to 'ghanta bhajate rahenge' :) like you said.
For a change, I dont agree a bit. I'm 41 single by choice and its a choice that I'm not proud of. Few bad decissions and lack of courage at that time and lost my love and it never happened since. Its been almost 10 years now. I'm very well settled, Have achieved partial financial independence and have enough invested to lead a comfortable life and yet by biggest fear is lonliness. Its my dad and my puppy but I do long for companionship. And what you call 'murde' I've been reading bhagwat geeta and that has helped me a lot. Its your channel and your opinion but I reserve the right to differ.
I have many male clients aged 35+ ,bachelors as well as married, its very clear that the ones who have a good job, salary,fitness are way happier than married ones who are also earning well, the ones with mediocre or low salaries are not happy irrespective of marital status, or they just say 'going on' , For female end i only have single women aged 35+ as clients l don't know why all are unhappy irrespective of having high salary except 1-2 who are happy living alone they only want a pet and a servant
Basically. Jo karna hai karo as long as you aren't harming yourself or others. Live your life according to yourself and set your own standards for yourself.
Buddhist philosophy teaches the path by which anyone can learn, how to achieve peace mind and therefore , it’s relevant for every human being without any boundaries of age and era. So I am afraid that you seems to be selectively ignorant. Now I’m not talking about so called Buddhist religion but his teachings are precious and timeless.
If a person keeps rejecting or quitting people/social circle for their selfish behaviour/ indifferent or faulty attitude towards him, then perhaps he is likely to be left alone only in society. That's why a consistent truth speaker & trustworthy person is often seen alone living away from masses who are largely asses mentally even if earning lakhs of ₹ or💰in cashes/deposits
What’s your opinion of acceptance of alcohol in the society. I am sort of addicted to it and since turning 39 this year, want to get rid of this bad habit.
Think alcohol is a " Urine" ! And who on this planet would drink urine! So that way, if someone forces u ,u still wont drink nor will get addicted to it ! 🤣Let others drink that and ruin their kidneys or Liver etc.. But u dont!!
@@Ninanani-4085 But it’s a deeper relationship than marriage. Only if there is deep harmony n respect between couples, they can be in livein relationship. Where as in marriage, even if husband n wife hate each other, still they can be together because of society
@@prem3992 Whatever u do will have consequences. For men Sex is important and for women Emotion. Still women are bad named n degraded by cunning BroMen instilled patriarchy.. So entering into a Live In for sex is a recipe for disaster. Entering is easy but if goimg out of live in,, Women's emotion and the status given to her by Bromen n Patriarchy, and so her stake in such relationship will come into dangerous play. Ruckus, crime, police, compensation, penal actions...
Live in?? So u are afraid of ending up lonelier but wat free s** food ..let me tell u..it's never a better option.. 😆..r@pe accusation, unwanted pregnancies.. jail time..u prepare for such risks
@@prem3992who told u such nasty stuff?? Ur born out of your parents did they querled hated each other? At least respect the sacrifices they made for your upbringing lol..i can imagine how nasty the comments section going against marriage when the person didn't spoke anything bad about marriage..it depends on you individually..if you are a trashy by attitude u ll fall apart in live in too
I think everything comes with its own Pros ans cons. I am single and 38, sometimes its very difficult and somes times i dont have the burden of married women. Its all upto us how we balance.
Sir, I am also 42 female practicing physician, I am always busy at my work place and I don't have time for family. Also I am not having time to allow for casual dating one nights too. I have adopted self satisfying methods to take care of this issue. I think I agree with you on this topic
Blessed are ppl who are so busy in their profession that they die without ever having to worry about marriage nonsense. But for the rest of us. Marriage is a necessary evil. And so is having kids. Two kids for that matter. Single child policy is worse than not getting married.
He is old and going by old analogy most men who are earning good amount of money are happy suicide!de rate of married men is double of s!ngle mens if marriage brings them so much happiness why they are switching off themselves.
It's experience. Marriage is experience. Parenthood too. If u wnna do it. If nt ready get prepared. Coz majority of population 99.99% do it. Don't b exception
Your intent is in the right place but many things are just not possible in practice. They become so difficult to apply, that the failure rate is very high and its a problem. For example, being friends/ friends with benefits with someone for long. What if they move, leave city, find someone else, just don't want to be with you anymore. The emotional toll it takes when you are alone and the only person you talk to leaves is psychologically scarring, that too for a middle aged person who already had the insecurity of being damaged goods. On the other hand in marriage, it is not that easy to break apart, atleast in India. People stay even if things go bad for a couple of years. Marriage is more secure and long term. Also the basic infrastructure arrangements you are talking about regarding health issues, it can be done only if you have expendable income and live in a big city, where good medical facilities are available. If you live at some place remote, you might die in your bed and no one will notice for days. Marriage is not optional, it is a necessity !!!
sir i worked hard my whole life ,was topper of my batch , studied late night 12 -1 AM , got promoted in Job, fullfilled all my family dreams buy a new House 3 years ago , and now i am 35 , still Single sir , Now i Totally gave up in Love and marriage ,so i want to LIve a MGTOW /aka Bachelor Life and be a Provider for Family . Thank you for this video❤
@@856shaileshkumar no sir ,it's a blessing I just got proposed by a Beautiful girl this morning , in the Gym and Just had a intimacy with my Office Boss in 5star Hotel She is only 25 year old ,so I think the more we age ,The more we get Promotion in Life , but we must keep Working Hard in Every Day to day Life . Thanks for ur cmt. Sir
19:00 when a person is single he has to learn to embrace his mortality. generally in that state of affairs, there is less room for sickness. its pretty much walk or drop. theres noone to pick you up. if you check online, there are many cases where single lonely people die in their house and noone in the society even knows about it. after weeks or months, when the neighbours realize it, they have to do the cleaning up. it may be considered sad but i assume why does the dead man need to give a damn about the mess he left behind? will God not accept him just because the proper rituals were not performed on him? there are many homeless people who die alone. at some point one needs to learn to be a lone wolf and die like a lone wolf when his time comes. there is no choice.
After a certain age, when you don't have the potential to reproduce and get married, then definitely being a lone wolf makes sense. But one should not make that a life purpose. Human Beings are social animals.
Despite whatever anybody says, the old values stand as good as they are. Those values were formed out of thousands of years of experience. Yes, you can go have sex with multiple partners. But there is a cost to pay. First, there is a psychological cost, then the danger of acquiring STDs and then Indian society being nosy will definitely notice you and the news will spread like fire. Finally, you will get tagged, whether you like it or not as "damaged good". Then you can pretty much take it for granted that you will not get alliance from a guy/girl with values, principles. Even biologically it is proven, especially for girls. There is something called "pair bonding". Once you have sex with a multiple men, the girl will keep comparing the sexual encounters with others consciously or subconsciously. The body keeps the memory. Our forefathers were not fools to come up with the rules for mating and good behavior. Best thing is to keep conservative values when it comes to sex. Abstinence is the best before marriage.
Social media destroyed relationships. The amount of attention women get on social media makes them delusional in terms of expectations. The law of hypergamy is real. Marraiges only worked when the women were not independent and dependant on a man because there was a need and requirement which is why the women treated the man well. Most men today are treated miserably by many women but men are still expected to be chivalrous. Which is why men are walking away from relationships and marraige.
@jooniper93 Pair bonding is a biological phenomenon that involves a combination of social interaction and biological factors. It's a key part of romantic relationships, helping people form a strong connection and sense of closeness with each other. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10295201/
Absolutely Ri8..💯 Bro.. Aur Waise bhi aaj ke zamane me गाय पालने ki koi zarurat nahi hai.. Bahut saare Dairy farm खुले hua hai... Baas bahut saara MAAL hone चाहिए पास me..phir to kam chal चल hi जाएगा.. 😅😅😅
Mai soch reha hoon 25 years aise nikl gaye 21st century ke. Pata hi nahin chala kaise. Aise lagta hai ke kal hi main 20th century ki baten kar reha tha. 🙏🙏
Marry the Right person according to you. Please Don't marry out of Frustration, Social/Peer pressure or for Free Sex. If you're lucky you'll find someone or you just won't. #MarryRight
11:49 @Krish.... The situation you described sounds like an incident where the law/cops will get involved. It would be great if a cop and/or a lawyer can share their experiences of dealing with such cases
India me biased law ke rehte hua arrange marriage karne with unknown girl is extremely dangerous💥💥 for male of any age especially if the boy belongs to typical Middle class family. ..so i prefer it's better to stay away from them... Aur Waise bhi aaj ke zamane me गाय पालने ki koi zarurat nahi hai.. Bahut saare Dairy farm खुले hua hai... Baas bahut saara MAAL hone चाहिए पास me..phir to kam chal चल hi जाएगा.. 😅😅😅
I wish I was born in Muslim environment, I would have been father of many kids but unfortunately I was born in urban Hindu environment where I was always directly and indirectly discouraged to get married or make more kids
आपकी बात से मैं सहमत नही हूं मेरा मानना है जीना है तो शेर की तरह जीओ डर दर कर क्यों जीना । आप चार लोगो के सामने किसी व्यक्ति को स्वीकार करने की हिम्मत नही कर सकते तो फिर ऐसे ही डर डर कर जिओ
It's evident you are a Great believer in the afterlife which gives one hope. However it's what we believe in as its subjective. I see nothing settled,no outcome only distress in wars, diseases and all mishaps furthermore ( me exclusive) is its upto humans to control events as there is no divine intervention as seen anywhere at the moment. Thank you Sister for your valuable reply keeping praying if it makes you stronger.
Women should ideally marry by 25 years of age. God designed human beings with a plan. Today women have to be bread winners and also give birth to babies. Academic institutions and economic demand on women are destroying families. As a Christian( I was born in Hindu family) - the values are very clear and favor traditional family. My wife is at home( not from India) and I homeschool my children. Sex outside marriage is a sin.
Homo Sapiens evolved to be hunter gatherers. So, remove that coat and suit, wear some furs, gather some sticks and stones, and run off in the jungles and savannahs and start hunting some wild animals.
@@siddsharma5812 The irony of your statement is that it speaks volumes about how pathetic "sanatan dharam" is. Just "1kg atta" or "ricebag" or whatever bullshit you folks say, is enough to drive someone away from your beloved "sanatan dharam".
Ri8.. Bro.. 💯 😂😂.. Waise bhi aaj ke zamane me गाय पालने ki koi zarurat nahi hai.. Bahut saare Dairy farm खुले hua hai... Baas bahut saara MAAL hone चाहिए पास me..phir to kam chal चल hi जाएगा.. 😅😅😅
If there's a married woman who's fed up of her husband and wants to have purely sexual relation with another man, both knowing all reality, but not the husband. Is this scenario fine?
Arrey kya sir, mai aapko follow krta hu aur maanta bhi hu but ye shaadi wali baat apne thodi hypocrate wali kar di...aapn khud shaadi kr k baithe ho aur bol rhe ho ki koi zarurat nai hai shaadi Krna ki !!
Abhi jab 26-30 ke hai sab toh fark nhi padega bolne mein ki Shaadi nhi karni etc. But jab 35+ hojaoge aur dusron ko dekhoge with their own families fir regret feel hoga. Log itne bewakoof hogye hai aaj kal ki India mein rehte hue American norms se chalna chahte hai.
I see that as arbitrarily conforming to society norms. Nothing good about it. What "regret"? "Usne kiya to mujhe bhi karna hai". Kya chutiya mentality hai. This is such a shitty mentality and is absolutely one of the many reasons people like me feel like leaving this country.
Nothing to regret. Instead you will have more free time to do what you want. No obligations and will have more time and money in your hand. It is better to be single and happy then to be stuck in a miserable relationship or marriage which can end up you being divorced and have to pay alimony for the rest of your lives. Marriages are dying due to many reasons globally and people have to learn to survive somehow without the institution of marriage now.
Want to emphasize more that there is a life after life, as it is a Universal Law that Matter or Energy cannot be created, nor it can be destroyed it changes its state. Islamic Interpretation of Life After Life is as follows (One can go through this): 1) We surely belong to Allah and to Him we shall return. 2) "Day of Judgment" (yawm ad-din) where all human beings who have ever lived will be held accountable for their deeds by being judged by God.
आप की बातो से लगता है की शादी के बाद भी नही देगी.....देगी तो उसके लिए भी साड़ी,जेवरात आदि आदि देना पड़े गा .....उससे तो कम खर्चा में बाहर वाली ही देदेगी 😢😮
Ri8.. 💯 Bro.. Aur Waise bhi aaj ke zamane me गाय पालने ki koi zarurat nahi hai.. Bahut saare Dairy farm खुले hua hai... Baas bahut saara MAAL hone चाहिए पास me..phir to kam chal चल hi जाएगा.. 😅😅😅
Many of my friends are unmarried at the age 33+ with unhappy face. But many other friends of me are married living an equally stressed out life.
We all can live happily if we want. It's up to us.
Yes. Living happily is more important. Whether you are single, divorcee, married or in livein relationship
If one cannot be happy alone,one can never be happy in a relationship, marriage or otherwise!
Better to be alone and at peace than committed and stressed out!
Why not be committed and be happy !!
Its a fallacy that you can be single and Happy , marriage is not like going on a trip its very much essential to lead a normal Life !!
Unless you are a Yogi like few exceptions which is rare !!
@@bullrider9617 I was in relationship for 15 years & got separated when I was 33 age..today I 40 & not married because of past trauma I faced in relationship! Relationship/marriage manytimes RUIN'S LIVES which you can get over ! Single is much better than losing peace of mind brother! Marriage or relationship is not for everybody my brother! Well, I am also divorce attorney brother & trust me I see ugliness regularly in married life of my Clients! Divorce rates are so high brother!
The problem is no one will account for you,
Your parents will get old, after some period it's our job to look at them, it's only our job to get it done
@@bullrider9617 are insne mis quote kiya hai
28 saal bohtoj zyada nahi hai mai 27 mai vivah hua mera abhi sub kuch normal hai 2 bacche bhi hai.per humare shasthro me jo likha hai humne usko follow kerna hi chod diya hai tho usme aapko kaise hal milega..agar shasthro ke ko thoda bhi follow karoge thub dheere dheere prblms hi kum hone lagenge..
I filed for divorce 20 years ago and single since then and happy with my life. I raised two wonderful children, and they are doing well in life. I do so many things to keep myself busy and have a good job here in the US. I know if I was living in India I would be judged so much for my single status. Your videos are good and you make so much sense.
Very nice to hear. Being happy is more important. One can happy being single, married, divorced or in livein. It’s a choice that you make
Hats off to your courage for speaking the truth, 100% agree modern societal problems requires modern solutions.....
Bhai I am 38 and unmarried and super happy. Marriage was never a priority for me and my parents and family are not able to pressure me into it. But ye feeling of satisfaction andar se aana chahiye nahi toh happy nahi ho sakte
True, hopefully 60 ka hone pe ye chiz na badal jaye.. There is a big fat chance of that happening though.
Western society me ye cheez ho rahi and we can see how that is impacting them.
@@indiboy7 tum log kya ye internet pe dekh ke kuch bhi bolte rehte ho western society this western society that??!😂 Jaise ki tumhara society bahut badiya hai. Ghar se nikle ho kabhi.. Khud se rahe ho? Baahar travel kiya hai? Wahaan rahe ho?.
Kuch nahi.. Zyada sanghi podcasts sunna bandh karo.
Shadi shuda logon se baat kari hai? Woh khush hain 60 saal ki umar mein? Kya hum unki baat believe kar sakte hai? Khushi and loneliness kaise measure karen?
Ye western society se sentences shuru karna bandh karo aur apne aap ko sambhalo aur apna dekho. Ye apne kamre mein Baith kar doosre desh ke koi cherry picked anecdotes and half truths cite karke kuch nahi hoga khudka.
Happy ho thik hai. Lekin kuch kaam Kiya ya sirf haat se kaam
@@mmk2044 jaise teri profile picture?
@@mmk2044 saare kaam haath se hi hote hain bhai. Hand job, blow Job, Job job.. Sabh
Its better to be alone! Than to marry the wrong person and ruin life forever!🙏🙏 Marriage is not everything in life! If a person cant find the right ,honest & Loyal person! Then dont marry and ruin a life! Divorce happen in both Love & Arranged marriages in this kaliyugha !!
Why to simple marry and Destroy eachothers life,if each people cant balance one another!!🤷♂️🤷♂️
Thats one way to look at it. Another is its better to have someone to come home to rather than a empty home. Gets lonlier with age. Kids are the biggest upside of even a not so ideal marriage
@@doncorleone3901you can have family and still be lonely
What you are saying is " don't drive because you saw an accident " . It's better to drive a scooter than to wait for car .
@@856shaileshkumar am Talking about living beings that is "Humans" here & not " Objects"!!
Very true
I'm 38 and bachelor but living as a single, it doesn't reveal that i am unhappy but reading books visiting forest, talking with common men and knowing tribals and have gut to disobey the bigots , playing with stray animals, loving them, sharing happiness with poorer, somany things which give me energy, yes i am scientific temperament guy, i don't have time to listen any mythology but every second i engage myself with facts and discoveries, i don't feel i am alone or anyone think i am some kind of inferiority but the truth is, if you are not happy when you are single then if you can't happy with commitment to someone else..
Have a nice day to you Sir and all ..☺️🎩🌹💙
जीवन में 3 ही प्रश्न है
1.कहा रहना है
2 क्या करना है
3 किसके साथ रहना है
इस प्रश्न के उत्तर में पूरा जीवन निकल जाता है
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All of my 30+ married friends are leading successful lives, enjoying their achievements. On the contrary, my unmarried friends are putting in a lot of effort to establish themselves, and while some are earning well, they seem to be leading somewhat challenging lives. In my opinion, it's important for individuals to acknowledge their age and adjust their actions accordingly.
Your outlook is absolutely wrong and hollow..😡😡😡
Yes one should enjoy their married life if they are married. And if they are unmarried, then they should focus their life towards a rich lifestyle and upgrade their life.
Wow.. finally a comment that is actually stressing on the time aspect
@@nupurmotionvintagefilms6172 no wonder he litterally told something that made you look at your own life
Well if they get divorced situation will change steady fast life doesn't go on fixed pattern.
Status wise I am far ahead then my siblings and my cousins who are married and two of my cousins now are broke due to divorce you have very flawed analogy.
Hi Sir! Started watching your content since Lodha ka jalwa days... Love all the new tangents... By the way, guys just be happy!
it is bit tough in India because of the society as they get very personal but like here in the US that is very common thing in the sense to live as a single parent or single person or not married. I am 51 male separated and i happily tell people about it and no one judges
And no one cares either. Hospital mein bas ghanta bajate rehna and not sure nurse will show up or not. If you are single then be as rich as Ratan tata 😂
@@kabirkapoor1205 There are a few good dating apps that i will use to look for someone and it is not hard to find someone my age here but i am just focused on my kids to go to college as they are in high school. Once they are in college i am going to 'ghanta bhajate rahenge' :) like you said.
Yes because in us people have hook up culture they can fuck anybody anytime they want 😂
@@kabirkapoor1205those who have children are doing the same . money has nothing to with it
@@kabirkapoor1205 what a silly reply.
For a change, I dont agree a bit. I'm 41 single by choice and its a choice that I'm not proud of. Few bad decissions and lack of courage at that time and lost my love and it never happened since. Its been almost 10 years now. I'm very well settled, Have achieved partial financial independence and have enough invested to lead a comfortable life and yet by biggest fear is lonliness. Its my dad and my puppy but I do long for companionship. And what you call 'murde' I've been reading bhagwat geeta and that has helped me a lot. Its your channel and your opinion but I reserve the right to differ.
Get married and raise children. It is your pay back to Universe.
Excessive focus on self brings suffering.
Lol
To raise children you don't need to get married. Adopt children & payback to Universe.
😂😂😂
I have many male clients aged 35+ ,bachelors as well as married, its very clear that the ones who have a good job, salary,fitness are way happier than married ones who are also earning well, the ones with mediocre or low salaries are not happy irrespective of marital status, or they just say 'going on' , For female end i only have single women aged 35+ as clients l don't know why all are unhappy irrespective of having high salary except 1-2 who are happy living alone they only want a pet and a servant
Right, women in general seem to crave matrimonial security.
@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxalI love all ur videos
Absolutely Right Boss, There is No Happily Ever After
True. Happiness is a pursuit. There was a Will Smith movie about it as well.
@@danish2462pursuit of happiness is that movie
Am 50, single and happy - I don't feel I missed the bus or any other transport option 😅
Wow great 👌..God bless 🙌 🙏
I want to be like you too.
I am 20 now & don't know if I can be like you
Happy for you but you will never know how it feels when your child calls you Dad.
@@TimeisFlatCircle-ls2fowhat if someone doesn't want that would you know everything.
Basically. Jo karna hai karo as long as you aren't harming yourself or others. Live your life according to yourself and set your own standards for yourself.
समाज को बोलो तेल लगाने 💯😂 well said
Buddhist philosophy teaches the path by which anyone can learn, how to achieve peace mind and therefore , it’s relevant for every human being without any boundaries of age and era. So I am afraid that you seems to be selectively ignorant. Now I’m not talking about so called Buddhist religion but his teachings are precious and timeless.
If a person keeps rejecting or quitting people/social circle for their selfish behaviour/ indifferent or faulty attitude towards him, then perhaps he is likely to be left alone only in society.
That's why a consistent truth speaker & trustworthy person is often seen alone living away from masses who are largely asses mentally even if earning lakhs of ₹ or💰in cashes/deposits
Orat jaat
Kare utpaat😂😂
Superr topic. Pls elaborate more. Sir this is a non spoken topic. Pls come out with more. I am married but care a lot about your concern
What’s your opinion of acceptance of alcohol in the society. I am sort of addicted to it and since turning 39 this year, want to get rid of this bad habit.
my small tip: join self-help group like Alcoholics Anonymous etc. be a part of circle of people who want to get rid of it too.
just get rid of it then, maybe engage yourself in other activities
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Think alcohol is a " Urine" ! And who on this planet would drink urine! So that way, if someone forces u ,u still wont drink nor will get addicted to it ! 🤣Let others drink that and ruin their kidneys or Liver etc.. But u dont!!
You asking this question reflects that you are not happy being an alcoholic. Get rid of this habit and save money and enjoy life.
Most of your videos are 23:07 seconds long or close to that. Any reason for such precise timing?
interesting observation !
wow. i never paid attention to this
Livein relationship and childfree by choice is best option
Meditate, travel and celebrate life
Live-in is also considered like marriage by courts.
@@Ninanani-4085 But it’s a deeper relationship than marriage. Only if there is deep harmony n respect between couples, they can be in livein relationship. Where as in marriage, even if husband n wife hate each other, still they can be together because of society
@@prem3992 Whatever u do will have consequences.
For men Sex is important and for women Emotion. Still women are bad named n degraded by cunning BroMen instilled patriarchy..
So entering into a Live In for sex is a recipe for disaster. Entering is easy but if goimg out of live in,, Women's emotion and the status given to her by Bromen n Patriarchy, and so her stake in such relationship will come into dangerous play.
Ruckus, crime, police, compensation, penal actions...
Live in?? So u are afraid of ending up lonelier but wat free s** food ..let me tell u..it's never a better option.. 😆..r@pe accusation, unwanted pregnancies.. jail time..u prepare for such risks
@@prem3992who told u such nasty stuff?? Ur born out of your parents did they querled hated each other? At least respect the sacrifices they made for your upbringing lol..i can imagine how nasty the comments section going against marriage when the person didn't spoke anything bad about marriage..it depends on you individually..if you are a trashy by attitude u ll fall apart in live in too
I think everything comes with its own Pros ans cons. I am single and 38, sometimes its very difficult and somes times i dont have the burden of married women. Its all upto us how we balance.
You are male and your name is seema 😮?
Sir, I am also 42 female practicing physician, I am always busy at my work place and I don't have time for family. Also I am not having time to allow for casual dating one nights too. I have adopted self satisfying methods to take care of this issue. I think I agree with you on this topic
Blessed are ppl who are so busy in their profession that they die without ever having to worry about marriage nonsense. But for the rest of us. Marriage is a necessary evil. And so is having kids. Two kids for that matter. Single child policy is worse than not getting married.
Hahaha newton banna padega
ajjkl dink couple bd rhe h 😂
Indian Family Life is understood only after Marriage !!
I wish somebody could advice me like this when I was young !!
getting married is not key to your happiness, you were born sad and you will remain so. Work for a higher purpose in your life which will bring joy.
Nothing is permanent in life so just enjoy life
I am 38, govt job, single and happy
Great bro I m the same 😅
He is old and going by old analogy most men who are earning good amount of money are happy suicide!de rate of married men is double of s!ngle mens if marriage brings them so much happiness why they are switching off themselves.
You should read Geeta and analyse it properly rather than declaring it of no use
It's experience. Marriage is experience. Parenthood too.
If u wnna do it. If nt ready get prepared. Coz majority of population 99.99% do it. Don't b exception
Yes Marriage is an experience which needs to be experienced 💞
Your intent is in the right place but many things are just not possible in practice. They become so difficult to apply, that the failure rate is very high and its a problem. For example, being friends/ friends with benefits with someone for long. What if they move, leave city, find someone else, just don't want to be with you anymore. The emotional toll it takes when you are alone and the only person you talk to leaves is psychologically scarring, that too for a middle aged person who already had the insecurity of being damaged goods. On the other hand in marriage, it is not that easy to break apart, atleast in India. People stay even if things go bad for a couple of years. Marriage is more secure and long term. Also the basic infrastructure arrangements you are talking about regarding health issues, it can be done only if you have expendable income and live in a big city, where good medical facilities are available. If you live at some place remote, you might die in your bed and no one will notice for days. Marriage is not optional, it is a necessity !!!
If the married partner is good, then yes getting married is better than non married anyday.
From biological and psychological point of view, casual sex is dangerous.
And in casual sex, there is a risk of Aids and herpatis 😌
Congress supporters
Remain single no need to mingle unless you don't find a good companion as a life partner
Thanks sir comprehensively and compassionately addressed.❤
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17:29 For single male or female
sir i worked hard my whole life ,was topper of my batch , studied late night 12 -1 AM , got promoted in Job, fullfilled all my family dreams buy a new House 3 years ago , and now i am 35 , still Single sir , Now i Totally gave up in Love and marriage ,so i want to LIve a MGTOW /aka Bachelor Life and be a Provider for Family . Thank you for this video❤
All the best. Have a fulfilling life, that's the only thing that really matters 🙏🏻
Mee too. 😊
bhai dont go full on mgtow. agar koi dhang ki mili toh consider kar lena ek baar
Hello mate . You are 35 as you will grow older you will get lonely .
@@856shaileshkumar no sir ,it's a blessing I just got proposed by a Beautiful girl this morning , in the Gym and Just had a intimacy with my Office Boss in 5star Hotel She is only 25 year old ,so I think the more we age ,The more we get Promotion in Life , but we must keep Working Hard in Every Day to day Life . Thanks for ur cmt. Sir
Start listening and Understanding to Acharya Prashant ji on these matters of life.
@shriprashant
Acharya is spot on.
He is idiot
Would begg u to listen osho
19:00 when a person is single he has to learn to embrace his mortality. generally in that state of affairs, there is less room for sickness. its pretty much walk or drop. theres noone to pick you up. if you check online, there are many cases where single lonely people die in their house and noone in the society even knows about it. after weeks or months, when the neighbours realize it, they have to do the cleaning up. it may be considered sad but i assume why does the dead man need to give a damn about the mess he left behind? will God not accept him just because the proper rituals were not performed on him? there are many homeless people who die alone. at some point one needs to learn to be a lone wolf and die like a lone wolf when his time comes. there is no choice.
After a certain age, when you don't have the potential to reproduce and get married, then definitely being a lone wolf makes sense. But one should not make that a life purpose.
Human Beings are social animals.
Just think how many people who were highly intelligent and wise persons but never got recognized and they died with it😢
Main tou single hi rehna chahta hu
The ultimate truth for attracting women is neither money nor status. Those are often external things to make up for internal deficit.
@niteshraj2771 I could sense where you are going. May I know what is the ultimate truth regarding attracting women?
@@salaar75 chill attitude and some money is fine
@@jkuhede That's it?
@@salaar75 in my case? Yes. Also try fitness, no need to be a pro you just need to get slim. And get a good job
@@jkuhede Ok, and how about talking to women? And on what platforms could we find women to date and marry in India?
Despite whatever anybody says, the old values stand as good as they are. Those values were formed out of thousands of years of experience. Yes, you can go have sex with multiple partners. But there is a cost to pay. First, there is a psychological cost, then the danger of acquiring STDs and then Indian society being nosy will definitely notice you and the news will spread like fire. Finally, you will get tagged, whether you like it or not as "damaged good". Then you can pretty much take it for granted that you will not get alliance from a guy/girl with values, principles. Even biologically it is proven, especially for girls. There is something called "pair bonding". Once you have sex with a multiple men, the girl will keep comparing the sexual encounters with others consciously or subconsciously. The body keeps the memory. Our forefathers were not fools to come up with the rules for mating and good behavior. Best thing is to keep conservative values when it comes to sex. Abstinence is the best before marriage.
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Kya gayi guzri faltu bakwas bol rahe ho. Tum jaiso ki bakwas sunke hi is desh se nikalne ka man karta hai.
Boys body also have a memory.
So abstinence before marriage is better.
Social media destroyed relationships. The amount of attention women get on social media makes them delusional in terms of expectations. The law of hypergamy is real. Marraiges only worked when the women were not independent and dependant on a man because there was a need and requirement which is why the women treated the man well. Most men today are treated miserably by many women but men are still expected to be chivalrous. Which is why men are walking away from relationships and marraige.
@jooniper93 Pair bonding is a biological phenomenon that involves a combination of social interaction and biological factors. It's a key part of romantic relationships, helping people form a strong connection and sense of closeness with each other. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10295201/
I am 34. I am single and happy. I have a few gfs. I am engaged in work not earning much but still happy lol
Sir, aap toh full form mein ho😂😂
(One perspective) एक सहज दृष्टिकोण | ❤️🙏🙏👍
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Jise shadi karni he use pahle ek vakil dekhkar sare law ko samaze fir shadi kare andhe hokar na kare bahot danger he khaskar pursho ke kiye
Absolutely Ri8..💯 Bro.. Aur Waise bhi aaj ke zamane me गाय पालने ki koi zarurat nahi hai.. Bahut saare Dairy farm खुले hua hai... Baas bahut saara MAAL hone चाहिए पास me..phir to kam chal चल hi जाएगा.. 😅😅😅
@@peacelover5845yeh sahi hai 😂😂..thailand main toh bht hai 😅😅
Stay single stay happy. Marriage is a defunct institution.
Marriage is modern day slavery.
Where you live in Mumbai
I want to meet you
sir i am 37 and my wife 31 married but no kid yet. i pray that we get kid soon. yes i am unhappy about it
Rightly said Uncle Ji
Mai soch reha hoon 25 years aise nikl gaye 21st century ke. Pata hi nahin chala kaise. Aise lagta hai ke kal hi main 20th century ki baten kar reha tha. 🙏🙏
39 and single hun ki nahi hun mujhe khud pata nahi
Guitar bajaake bhi single ho
Bro is settled with a cat😂@@mgupta3525
Jai Mumbai
Jai Maharashtra
Marry the Right person according to you.
Please Don't marry out of Frustration, Social/Peer pressure or for Free Sex.
If you're lucky you'll find someone or you just won't. #MarryRight
But who is right, I think no 😞 one is really perfect for anyone, it's just they sacrifice something for them
Iss duniya ki koi chiz me sukh lambe samay tak nahi hai. Jab tak moksh nahi milega, tab tak koi anand nahi milega.
11:49
@Krish.... The situation you described sounds like an incident where the law/cops will get involved.
It would be great if a cop and/or a lawyer can share their experiences of dealing with such cases
India me biased law ke rehte hua arrange marriage karne with unknown girl is extremely dangerous💥💥 for male of any age especially if the boy belongs to typical Middle class family. ..so i prefer it's better to stay away from them... Aur Waise bhi aaj ke zamane me गाय पालने ki koi zarurat nahi hai.. Bahut saare Dairy farm खुले hua hai... Baas bahut saara MAAL hone चाहिए पास me..phir to kam chal चल hi जाएगा.. 😅😅😅
Sir are you married?
Yes he is married and has children
I wish I was born in Muslim environment, I would have been father of many kids but unfortunately I was born in urban Hindu environment where I was always directly and indirectly discouraged to get married or make more kids
Zindagi ki ladai khud hi ladni h
Koi god sath nai dega
आपकी बात से मैं सहमत नही हूं मेरा मानना है जीना है तो शेर की तरह जीओ डर दर कर क्यों जीना । आप चार लोगो के सामने किसी व्यक्ति को स्वीकार करने की हिम्मत नही कर सकते तो फिर ऐसे ही डर डर कर जिओ
Video is needed for me too..🤟🏼
Very nice video.
Ok sir we can ignore the people but how can we ignore our body desire it is almost impossible leading happy life without sex
I never had a single girlfriend 😢
Very qualitative content on the youtube. Thank you sir for sharing the great thoughts. This generation really needs such guidance.
Koi nahi pucha Tha app se , App bewaja Religion or dharma ko Khich laye ?
Mr Popatlal from Tarak Mehta Ka Ulta Chasma😂😂
Perfect example 🤣
@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal 😂😂😂
video is on point 😄😄
Happy New Year 🎉
Right sir
Thank youuuuuuuu
One more thing sorry there is nothing after death it's full 🛑 stop.
We all have to die anytime.
After death is eternity
It's evident you are a Great believer in the afterlife which gives one hope.
However it's what we believe in as its subjective.
I see nothing settled,no outcome only distress in wars, diseases and all mishaps furthermore ( me exclusive) is its upto humans to control events as there is no divine intervention as seen anywhere at the moment.
Thank you Sister for your valuable reply keeping praying if it makes you stronger.
एक बात और है सुख लिया नही जा सकता सुख केवल दिया जा सकता है
Women should ideally marry by 25 years of age. God designed human beings with a plan. Today women have to be bread winners and also give birth to babies. Academic institutions and economic demand on women are destroying families. As a Christian( I was born in Hindu family) - the values are very clear and favor traditional family. My wife is at home( not from India) and I homeschool my children. Sex outside marriage is a sin.
1 kg atta😂 conversation
Homo Sapiens evolved to be hunter gatherers.
So, remove that coat and suit, wear some furs, gather some sticks and stones, and run off in the jungles and savannahs and start hunting some wild animals.
@@siddsharma5812 The irony of your statement is that it speaks volumes about how pathetic "sanatan dharam" is. Just "1kg atta" or "ricebag" or whatever bullshit you folks say, is enough to drive someone away from your beloved "sanatan dharam".
@jooniper93 Hope those women won't reap the alimony then...
mera free advice aapko.. uss 38 wali k chakkar mein paday.. toh aapkay bachay kuchay baal bhi udd jaayengay! protect ur hair! Ladki jaayay bhaad mein! .. and yes Happy New year!
Ri8.. Bro.. 💯 😂😂.. Waise bhi aaj ke zamane me गाय पालने ki koi zarurat nahi hai.. Bahut saare Dairy farm खुले hua hai... Baas bahut saara MAAL hone चाहिए पास me..phir to kam chal चल hi जाएगा.. 😅😅😅
bohut hi raw advice hai, thoda meeta theeka lagake boliye na 😂
You mean thoda F word or C word dalna chahiye tha? 😂 Teekha chutney, limbu aur mirchi? Lauda lassun?
@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal 😂😂😂
Mein toh aap ka pankha ban geya hoon!
If there's a married woman who's fed up of her husband and wants to have purely sexual relation with another man, both knowing all reality, but not the husband. Is this scenario fine?
Adultery
cheating lol☠, just get divorced and stop ruining that person's life
Everything is fine...just be careful physically!!
Not fine for the husband. Can't be justified.
Fine? Noooo
Jst divorce and let him breathe
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Arrey kya sir, mai aapko follow krta hu aur maanta bhi hu but ye shaadi wali baat apne thodi hypocrate wali kar di...aapn khud shaadi kr k baithe ho aur bol rhe ho ki koi zarurat nai hai shaadi Krna ki !!
Make some videos on political ideology
Ok
Where is 21st century in India ? Ham to Ram rajya mein raharahehain..😂😂😂
Sabke riti rivaaz hoteh hay. Even communists, urban naxals and athiests have customs.
Why you thought otherwise??
arrey yeh sab kya sikha rehey ho Krishnaraj ji .... samaj kya kahega? kuch duniyadaari hai ki nahi?
Abhi jab 26-30 ke hai sab toh fark nhi padega bolne mein ki Shaadi nhi karni etc. But jab 35+ hojaoge aur dusron ko dekhoge with their own families fir regret feel hoga. Log itne bewakoof hogye hai aaj kal ki India mein rehte hue American norms se chalna chahte hai.
I see that as arbitrarily conforming to society norms. Nothing good about it. What "regret"? "Usne kiya to mujhe bhi karna hai". Kya chutiya mentality hai. This is such a shitty mentality and is absolutely one of the many reasons people like me feel like leaving this country.
Nothing to regret. Instead you will have more free time to do what you want. No obligations and will have more time and money in your hand. It is better to be single and happy then to be stuck in a miserable relationship or marriage which can end up you being divorced and have to pay alimony for the rest of your lives. Marriages are dying due to many reasons globally and people have to learn to survive somehow without the institution of marriage now.
Ask that boys they r suffering from false cases after marriage love guru
@@robinbhandari1401 Sabke saath thodi hota hai bhai. Meri family mein nhi hua kisi ke saath. And i hope aage bhi na ho.
Logg pehle se hi itne American hogye, pure American kyun nahi bann jaate?
Sache Hindu shadi kare aur 4 bache paida kare.
Want to emphasize more that there is a life after life, as it is a Universal Law that Matter or Energy cannot be created, nor it can be destroyed it changes its state.
Islamic Interpretation of Life After Life is as follows (One can go through this):
1) We surely belong to Allah and to Him we shall return.
2) "Day of Judgment" (yawm ad-din) where all human beings who have ever lived will be held accountable for their deeds by being judged by God.
Humbug. Nothing of the sort.
It's not like u don't get any women😂😂😂😂 to live with u..😂😂
1st to comment❤
Meri biti 😭😭?
Are you girl or boy?
Great thoughts
modie is the happiest local law divorcee ,talak wali in india.....😅😅😅😅😅
Good point 😂
आप की बातो से लगता है की शादी के बाद भी नही देगी.....देगी तो उसके लिए भी साड़ी,जेवरात आदि आदि देना पड़े गा .....उससे तो कम खर्चा में बाहर वाली ही देदेगी 😢😮
Ri8.. 💯 Bro.. Aur Waise bhi aaj ke zamane me गाय पालने ki koi zarurat nahi hai.. Bahut saare Dairy farm खुले hua hai... Baas bahut saara MAAL hone चाहिए पास me..phir to kam chal चल hi जाएगा.. 😅😅😅
Kuch bai, this man confused and confuses everyone maybe this logic applies to him and his family.