I really think they are missing the point with this one. HE never said body-count doesn't matter. Someone else chimed in with that. What he was saying, in my opinion, is dudes that are concerned about body-count, and if I am reading between the lines correctly, women with body-counts that are concerning, don't even travel in the same solar system. What I'm hearing is he doesn't associate with hoes, simps, or fuck-boys.
He clearly said he can take her to the spots, he confident in what he got, he not worried about who else she f'g with, he not rolling in the community where she handing it out to, he not gonna run into the dudes she f'g with. Those dudes don't shop where he shop...this dude out his mind. There are THOTs in every type of community, they just dress and act different. A man that is about his business and on his purpose is concerned about body count, it can/will help tell you the spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical maturity, view, abilities, and attributes of a prospective wife. He just ga e these ladies permission to be reckless, and not prize one of the greatest gifts they can give a man.
I’ve watched a few of these and it’s rare that dude miss. But he was WAY off here. I don’t want nothing to do with a chick that’s been ran through. Period.
Ladies this is not a request to go and raise your body count and then search for a rich man. The same dude saying he don't shop where I shop is the same dude that don't want dozens of guys telling him that they hit that.
He’s literally saying he doesn’t care if anyone told him that cause he’s so confident and loves himself and her unconditionally, UNCONDITIONALLY that that literally doesn’t matter
A high body count is always something that has been a dealbreaker for me because it shows sexual immorality and a lack of impulse control, and I'm a straight woman. The one time I allowed myself to look past that with a man, he cheated on me. Further instilling that as my standard. I consider high over 20 by 30 years of age.
@@FASBLAQUENo it is. I'm a man in my 40's and I've only slept with 4 women and that was intentional. It's not because I'm ugly or broke, no. From the very first time I started having sex, I intentionally chose to not separate emotions from sex so I only have sex with women I am dating in a long-term relationship. Every woman I have been with I dated for years. I am also a monogamist and I don't cheat. It's not that hard to have standards.
@@ANBU_Black_0ps24 Well, if you're being honest, men like you are rare. Andrew Tate said that men think high body count is status for men, and he's right. I have heard men lie on women and say that they had them just to make the woman look like a 304 that nobody would want. The truth is that they want the woman and are mad that she doesn't want him. These men today are childish and wonder why women don't want them or will even want to listen to them.
So you’re justifying sexism & misogyny as it pertains to sexual promiscuity. Got it. Men can smash as many women as they want and it’s cool. Women smash as many men as they want and they’re “damaged goods”. You’re a hypocrite.
@@rjtherenegade7743 I don’t know how a master key could exist without locks that open easy. This man is straight up demonizing women for become a “master” 😂
HE'S RIGHT.......BECAUSE IF THE MAN SEES YOU AS SOMEONE HE WANTS, THAT'S NOT HIS CONCERN. AS A MAN ONCE SAID, "I DONT CARE IF YOU BEEN WITH 100 MEN, I WANT TO BE 101"
I respect your answer and your thought process but as a good educated and black women loving man and father. This fella isn't giving the full story. Your past matters because it's a good indicator of one's character. The term quality over quantity really does mean something to men in this exact situation. Much respect and love sista
@Deucefiggity Sorry mister, but a current suitor told me that personally.....they want to marry me and have been waiting patiently to do so. And the fact that the statement is coming from a man......EVERYBODY AIN'T LOOKING AT THINGS THE SAME WAY. P E R I O D!
This went over plenty of heads. TRIPP FONTANE isn't for everyone. I don't need all that competition anyway 😍😍😍 TRIPP I see you. Now if we can only carve out a particular meeting space where I can see you in the physical. Let's exchange energy and fragrances and stories. #ManifestingTRIPP
Ladies, please don't listen to him on this advice. Once A man learns your past he will sleep with you but you are excluded from wife category. Trust these dudes in the comments.
He is speaking facts, it’s the context of what he’s saying not the face value of what he’s saying. I’ve always had woman with low body counts. I don’t do clubs/lounges, very random, once blue moon. I know if I want some, I just go to the club. It’s easy, as he said “I ain’t tryna call ya easy”.
Nope, because some of us don't even care what men think and are not even trying to get married. It's not a flex and the freedom of doing what you want with who you want is the American dream.
Thank you 😂 he BUGGIN. Its a difference between you may have been with somebody i know vs you may have been wit EVERYBODY i know. If you been around the block its a wrap son
@@MultiMilPrethat's not true. Ain't no way in hell you're staying with that girl who had you so fooled that she was good after you find out her jersey is retired in her high school football locker room. You can sell that lie to someone else
i dont care about body count in the sense that women whose body count is high dont have access to me. we will never be in the same spaces on purpose to find that type of thing out
There's A LOTTA men mad as hell over hot girl summers but won't apply the same standards to themselves AND the men in their circle. Sauce for the goose, Fellas. SAUCE FOR THE GOOSE! 😂😂
Thank you, bc I think I’ve only ever had one dude ask me that, EVER. We didn’t even talk after that. No one worth anything asks questions like that or “So, what do you bring to the table?”. Where these dudes come from? 😂😂😂
@@user-xe3kw1ry2zIf you got a std or whatever disease that is not your past that is your present. There is a difference between knowing a person’s status and who they slept with and their body count. Common sense and being mindful of others goes a long way in a healthy relationship.
The “who” matters much more than “how many.” Men are more concerned that they will run into people that “knew” his girl. A higher number makes that more likely but if most of that was in a place y’all won’t be in, it matters a lot less.
When I first met my Man it was love at first sight for me. We had sex pretty soon ( a couple of months later) because the chemistry was blinding. When the infatuation waned, we took time to get to know one another and now we are a couple of 5 years. He ( or any man-including my ex-husband) has ever even cared about my body count. The quality of my past relationships - yes, but not the number of ppl that I've been intimate with. Age nor number of partners necessarily correlate with things that truly matter; Either you're healthy, whole and desirable or not.
Decision making, self esteem, values, ability to pair bond, upbringing, flightiness, Standards, self-control... That is a list of a few things that truly matter and that a man or woman's body count can give us some insight on. I'm not saying everyone should be asking about body count. I'm just saying it's crazy to think there is no correlation there at all.
If he found out you been smashed by 50+ dudes, he'd be out in a heartbeat.. Men don't ask about body count because they don't wanna ruin your image in their eyes.. But best believe if he were to find out you've been ran through(not saying you actually have) there would be no going back....
To many relationships have ended when a man found out his lady been ran through. If he doesn't and you have a high body count, keep it that way. Best the woman deny it at all.
One of the few times where this guy ain't right. Ask any man in the world if he had to choose between the two prettiest women in the world,, one with less than 10 bodies and the other one with 50 or more bodies,, over 90% will pick the one with fewer bodies. Even the woman you've always wanted if you realised she has like 50 bodies you'll lose attraction naturally.
Damn, THATS THE ONLY two factors ??? Not who they are as women? Not if they can cook, funny, has a perfect credit score, has a nice job, emotionally intelligent? ONLY their body count? Wow, way to dehumanize women.
@@jamarlatimore It was an example,so I didn't mention everything to look for,, the assumption was the two women had almost everything you were looking for then you realize one has 50 bodies the other one has 10
I'm reading some of the ladies' comments and some say that it shouldn't matter about woman's body count so, I say let's put it in prospective, let's say you worked hard, and you finally can afford those Red Bottom pumps you always wanted but the salesclerk informs you that the record shows these shoes have been worn and resoled 20 times are you still going to buy them at full price? how about some Christian Dior try on panties when you want to get some sexy lingerie, but body count doesn't matter when it comes to Viginia for a man but women want their material stuff brand new provide by a man, but a man has to stilled for something that's been ran through more time than a train been in and out of a tunnel
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@@orangegreen7 And that is exactly what he’s saying. Understand the context of what he’s saying. He don’t deal with them woman and he ain’t where them woman normally be at.
@@aaronanderson3076 That’s the point, you know them woman because you’ve been around them. You don’t want them. The woman you want ain’t like the rest.
His woman has a high body count. He has to do a bold face lie to maintain his integrity. Everyone gets an opinon based hall pass. I disagree with this analogy.
This!!! After a certain age you’ve definitely been through a few things. As long as the past is not our present we’re good over here. Our children are grown, we make decent money, our bills are paid, we’re traveling, we can go get what we want when we want it and enjoying each other. The older you get, the more simple you want life to be.
I would, I do and I will. You ain’t guilting me into not. It’s not immature at all. It’s not insecure or whatever other bullshit you want to say to guilt me into not asking. Shame is needed you ladies. Have tried to remove it from your lives. In every aspect of life your past has consequences and can get you ahead or stop your opportunities. And a woman sleeping around is definitely gonna stop her opportunities. I will never accept a woman that’s had a threesome or been around the block. It’s never happening. I will take my turn and move on. Men and women can’t be compared as well that’s another crazy thing feminism has made the norm. Which is absolutely stupid.
He usually on his square but not this time. You giving these women license to keep making toxic attachments that they subconsciously can’t shake. Creating unrealistic expectations for the next dude who ain’t the last 5 dudes she was imprinted by. He made it seem like it’s cool to claim community P 🥴. Where they do that at?
If Kita doesn’t heal, I don’t see her ever being in a healthy marriage. Hopefully now since Kittie Rose been on, she will be receptive to advice. Kita shows so much animosity towards her hurt and pain of that she’s been through. This panel doesn’t help her tbh. It’s not enough man and woman on the platform to call her out or hold her accountable. She always self reflects her pain. And this what woman look to, another woman that they can agree to validate themselves to for the pain/trama them been thru. Instead of dealing with it and self reflecting like maybe I am the problem and work on me to fix it.
I finally found a moment where I thought he was completely wrong. Like I get what he was trying to say but if you read between the lines he still tells on himself and says body count matters. He just found a slick way of not telling y’all it matters. Smh he usually be snapping on his other takes but hot damn bruh, stop dancing around without telling these women what they really need to hear. Tell ‘em what you would tell your daughter.
Lol why this is true. Ladies theres also an implications here. Thats means if i can have you, i can have other women as well lol. If i see you so lightly that i dont care who you sleeping with, its cause i can easily replace you. Ive never asked a woman body count, but its also cause i dont want to be asked 🤣. Dont ask me when was the last time i had sex 😂. Lol i remember i slept with a woman, she then later asked when was the last time i had sex. She wasnt happy with the answer 3 days ago.
So you already had your body count going, but the woman is supposed to be ashamed of her body count? I know your answer is going to be out the box, but just try anyway.🙄
@@Philosific That wudn't a flex, n*gg*. It ain't like you can't be easily replaced also right in front of your face. We don't do it because all we would be doing is replacing you with another dusty a$$ n*gg* for more of the same dusty sh!t. Ain't nobody got time for that.🙄😂
@@FASBLAQUE It’s not the same. If you view any and everything between the genders it’s completely opposite. A woman views things in her perspective not a man’s. We are not made the same. Hence why some woman look at things as a man, your not a man. Like masculine woman, everything is compared equal viewpoint, the values are the same, the survival in masculinity is different from femininity. As some woman find it weak, it’s very much powerful, it’s just weak from where you are. Expecting a leader and your in same head space, how can you not combat. You have a boss and your the employee give the boss rules, allow him to run it. But you have to learn during your healing to understand the moral and values your lead is giving you.
@@MultiMilPre Yes, it is the same. If you were a true thinking person you would know that there is only one gender. Masculine and feminine are just two extremes of the same thing. Of course, you can't think that far, because you are indoctrinated and brainwashed by white male patriarchy. You want to be like the very thing that you hate. Physical strength of the masculine became obsolete when fire power was invented. I say that, because you silly men in your immaturity view masculinity as physical power while it's much deeper than that. The fact that women have the power of thought just like men do should have taught you that, and thick skulls make soft behinds. It's a good thing that the woman who was hit in the head with a brick by one of you unevolved beasts didn't think like me, because they would have found dude laying there with a plug in his behind and wet all up. Anybody with superior thought is the boss and superior thought does not exclude women, and that's what you all are afraid of while you think you're players. You're afraid of women who think better and quicker than you, because you can't control a woman like that!🙄🤔
Yep! Real men are not even sitting around with this men children discussing things like this, because they got their sh!t together and not blaming their shortcomings on women. They're out here enjoying their life while, because they handle their business. These weak men in here want women to deal with their dysfunctions, because they didn't listen to their mothers growing up and picked up the habits of dysfunctional men. Now, they're whining and wanting a woman who will be their surrogate mother. Uh uh!!!! Leave these whiny little boys alone and get you a MAN! If he cares for you he knows what you need and will give without you having to ask.
Every man who is considering you as a wife or being in a serious relationship will and has asked about your pass relationships and how many men you fffed and you will lie because it does matter 😂
@@MultiMilPre Says the idiot who thinks he knows how many sex partners ya woman has had. Don't nobody know that, but her and God. "Body count matters to dudes who ain't getting the count!"🙄🤫
@@FASBLAQUE Of course you do, that’s where you’re mental at. Build a higher level of consciousness. Grow and develop. Lean not to your understanding because your understanding can be too low to comprehend. Experience and growth, self development. It’s not others, it’s you. That I am who I am bs, you only who you are because you allowed the traumas and hurt to form you who you are. Dig deep, not face value. Face value holds no weight, only to low vibration or non real conscious people.
If he feels that strongly about it, then marry a prostitute. My man be serving Jewels of life, but not this time. There's so much more to it than that. But go on ahead with that logic. Good luck to you sir. smhlmao
Y’all comments seem as bad as woman’s. Y’all can’t compartmentalize wth he’s actually saying. He doesn’t deal or be in them areas where majority of the 304’s be to even have to worry about it.
YUP, I personally know females in my younger years who have slept with over a hundred dudes from different states across the country and still got wifed up and impregnated by ninjas like it ain’t nothin’. Man was I flabbergasted 😮 Not judging anyone cause everyone lives their lives however they desire. But I was thinking dude must not be embarrassed walking around and flaunting this community 🐈 as his woman cause ain’t no way bra 🤦🏽♀️😩
That was real talk , even if i did shop where he shops. No real man is going to ask you your body count who wants to know that . If he did ask just keep it on one hand .
My mama always said tell him nothing when it comes to body count. She use to say " If you have ex-husbands or baby daddies, that's all the number he needs to know. The rest is none of his business." She was adamant about that!!
That mentality sets you up for failure if he finds out you been ran through by anybody bedsides you. She should have been telling you if you can’t be honest and/or proud about it, don’t do it.
@@HoneyBadger90 She also told us that too. But at the end of the day it's still nobodies business who I have been with. I have been married for 24 years in a loving relationship. My husband has never asked me about body count. I treat him great and vice versa. I guess I am old school because talking about body count is so juvenile to me.
He’s normally correct- he missed on this one. Most men are not going to be able to take it well. He may be extremely emotionally intelligent and spiritually evolved. But anywhere else- just don’t tell.
This fella is gaming the audience right there and now. He knows he’s lying. Where ever he shopped ? I’ve been there, where ever he’s landed I’ve landed ! 4 grown kids and 3 grandkids later … I’m telling you I would not have built what I built with a loose woman I would not be sitting here retired at 47 yrs old and walking Florida beaches with some woman that was loose … it’s not the body count that matters. It’s the damage that was done to the soul before the woman decided to throw herself around. A woman that’s spiritually and mentally healthy will not throw her toto to just anyone ! A woman that’s hurt or has a cluttered soul and lacks values will use that cut as a tool.
Idk what this ninja is talking about….Complete bad advice…for the type of men y’all be wanting body count definitely matters…Of course they aren’t going to flat out ask you the question that is completely corny but he will have his own way of figuring out what type of woman you are when it comes to guarding and protecting your body through conversation and spending time with you…so ladies don’t listen to this bs
I like him but that's cap most men absolutely care about your body count I think it's true that he doesn't but most men absolutely do especially for the women that are demanding a man who makes six figures or more especially for the women who have a lot of requirements your body count absolutely matters
Dis bro lyin! The WIFE, "WILL" get the thorough background check! He's top tier 🧢. YOUR BACKGROUND MATTERS! Just like it matters when you apply for them "GOOD" jobs it applies to the "GOOD" men.
Tripp is preaching so hard and true i start feeling like a groupie frfr!! What he said is facts.. I never once ever worried about a woman body count.. If I'm about my business and confident in who I am.. I don't need to worry about any man before me..
You are not telling the truth. Confident Men do not worry about body count until they've been told then they start to worry . No matter how confident you are ,,if you realise that the girl you've been chasing after has over 50 bodies, you'll definitely lose some attraction or respect or both. His point only works if the woman has an understandable body count let's say 10 or below at 30 isn't that bad according to today's standards.
He saying he doesn’t ask which is fine but once he find out she ran through than he go trying to leave. Or he truly doesn’t care idk I hate people that just be saying shit and try to make it sound politically correct or better than most like go sit tf down
You can get diseases by not worrying about past sex history and don't matter if you and dude shop at the same place if you've been with the same woman.See you on Maury.
You can get diseases regardless of your body count. It has nothing to do with body count and everything to do with protecting yourself. Y’all sound ignorant asf.
This is a guy who is arguing against scientific study as it pertains to the ability to maintain a long-term relationship the scientific and psychological study concludes that the higher the body count the less likely the woman is able to stay in a relationship long term
It’s both true and false right? I mean there ain’t shit you can do about who she slept with before you started trying unless your intentions for a relationship were laid out and that number swelled during that time. At that point you would have a choice to leave. But the other thing is I see where you would want to see what your percentages of catching the ‘hey-hey’ are but then if that’s a concern then….🤣🤣🤣. Every once in a while as you mature you can have a conversation with a woman about body count and that woman can make you feel confident in her decision making while at the same time telling you it’s not your concern. And if you are mature and a real man you can move forward the way you need to with that person. At the end of the day WTF are you going to do with that information.
The wild thing is why doesn’t a man’s body count matter?!?!? It’s misogynistic that men can make women feel like that and women can’t do the same to men.
Mens body count does matter to an extent. The character of a man will determine his morality. A man that is constantly sleeping around with women shows no self control and without that self control that man is simply a danger. A danger to himself, that woman, his community and his culture.
I agree with a lot this brother says, but not this. No man wants a woman that's been a hoe, and it has nothing to do with what I got or where I live or shop, we don't want a high mileage box!
No woman wants a high mileage 🍆 either, especially because of STD's so what's y'all's point? Y'all are in here bragging about your body count, but think women should be ashamed of hers.🙄🤭
That’s not the context of what he means. He’s not in the environment where they are. Clubs, lounges, etc. The best woman aren’t in them spots or areas. I can understand because of who I am and I’ve always had low body count woman.
How did we all watch the same video. He’s saying secure men aren’t even asking this question when they meet a women that checks all the boxes for him. Also “hoes” are everywhere. Doctors, a few First Ladies in the White House. Teaching Sunday school .. name a place and there was a time.
@@jellafigo22 You have to compartmentalize what he’s saying and not take it out of context. A hoe is easy to find/spot as a rare gem is hard to find. I say that, as the count to dam high, you learn as you learn yourself as a man. Asking about body count doesn’t matter, only if there aren’t that many options and that man see you as a potential because of where he is. Most men get with whom they have access to, not the woman they want. There’s a difference between wanting to fck and she’s actually what I want. Fcking still no need to ask, I just want guts. That one I want, has already been vetted. I already know how she moves, handle shyt and values that she adds to my life. Idgaf about her body count because I know what she brings and adds to me, solely she adds to the man I am. To sum it up, it matters just not to bring it up. I want you, I want you for a reason. A stripper, hoe, OF, etc doesn’t fit to who I am. We fcking, I want you solely for that.
I agree with him completely. Im not worried about your past and what you did before me. Im worried about your present and future. WHO ARE YOU RIGHT NOW!!! FELLAS DONT LET BRO MESSAGE GO OVER YALL HEAD!!!!
I rarely disagree with this guy.
This is one of those rare moments.
I really think they are missing the point with this one. HE never said body-count doesn't matter. Someone else chimed in with that. What he was saying, in my opinion, is dudes that are concerned about body-count, and if I am reading between the lines correctly, women with body-counts that are concerning, don't even travel in the same solar system. What I'm hearing is he doesn't associate with hoes, simps, or fuck-boys.
Faxxxxxxology👊🏾
There are whores in every solar system. He just doesn't want to know if the chicks in his are one of them. Ignorance is bliss for him.
Agreed
My brother Tripp
He clearly said he can take her to the spots, he confident in what he got, he not worried about who else she f'g with, he not rolling in the community where she handing it out to, he not gonna run into the dudes she f'g with. Those dudes don't shop where he shop...this dude out his mind. There are THOTs in every type of community, they just dress and act different. A man that is about his business and on his purpose is concerned about body count, it can/will help tell you the spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical maturity, view, abilities, and attributes of a prospective wife. He just ga e these ladies permission to be reckless, and not prize one of the greatest gifts they can give a man.
I’ve watched a few of these and it’s rare that dude miss. But he was WAY off here. I don’t want nothing to do with a chick that’s been ran through. Period.
Even Jordan had an off night, and THIS was that game. 😂
@@GMacII*whistles
"SCOTTIE"
LMMFAO
You ran through yourself. Sit Down!🙄
"Ran through"..... Now I know that your motivations are motivated by slut shaming.
@@FASBLAQUE Big time
Ladies this is not a request to go and raise your body count and then search for a rich man.
The same dude saying he don't shop where I shop is the same dude that don't want dozens of guys telling him that they hit that.
He’s literally saying he doesn’t care if anyone told him that cause he’s so confident and loves himself and her unconditionally, UNCONDITIONALLY that that literally doesn’t matter
I DISAGREE WITH HIM WHEN HE SAYS "BODY COUNT" doesn't matter because even if it does matter its OK, Preferences are Preferences at the end of it all😊
offset voice: C-A-P 😂
A high body count is always something that has been a dealbreaker for me because it shows sexual immorality and a lack of impulse control, and I'm a straight woman. The one time I allowed myself to look past that with a man, he cheated on me. Further instilling that as my standard. I consider high over 20 by 30 years of age.
Hunty, if you're over the age of 21 and waiting for a man who has a low body count you gon' be 50 years old and still waiting. It's not that simple.
@@FASBLAQUENo it is. I'm a man in my 40's and I've only slept with 4 women and that was intentional. It's not because I'm ugly or broke, no. From the very first time I started having sex, I intentionally chose to not separate emotions from sex so I only have sex with women I am dating in a long-term relationship. Every woman I have been with I dated for years. I am also a monogamist and I don't cheat. It's not that hard to have standards.
@@ANBU_Black_0ps24 Well, if you're being honest, men like you are rare. Andrew Tate said that men think high body count is status for men, and he's right. I have heard men lie on women and say that they had them just to make the woman look like a 304 that nobody would want. The truth is that they want the woman and are mad that she doesn't want him. These men today are childish and wonder why women don't want them or will even want to listen to them.
@@FASBLAQUE nonsense! I read that the avg. American men will have 5 partners in his lifetime. African American men tend to be extremely promiscuous!
Yo! A man’s body count does not equate whether or not he will cheat. That’s just silly.
A key that opens many locks is called a _Master Key,_ but a lock that opens to *ANY* key is a shitty lock.
So you’re justifying sexism & misogyny as it pertains to sexual promiscuity. Got it.
Men can smash as many women as they want and it’s cool.
Women smash as many men as they want and they’re “damaged goods”.
You’re a hypocrite.
Whoa
Entering a lock is not the same as opening one
So you’re justifying male promiscuity with a shitty analogy, yet demonizing female promiscuity.
That’s sexist, misogynistic, & hypocritical.
@@rjtherenegade7743 I don’t know how a master key could exist without locks that open easy. This man is straight up demonizing women for become a “master” 😂
HE'S RIGHT.......BECAUSE IF THE MAN SEES YOU AS SOMEONE HE WANTS, THAT'S NOT HIS CONCERN.
AS A MAN ONCE SAID, "I DONT CARE IF YOU BEEN WITH 100 MEN, I WANT TO BE 101"
I respect your answer and your thought process but as a good educated and black women loving man and father. This fella isn't giving the full story. Your past matters because it's a good indicator of one's character. The term quality over quantity really does mean something to men in this exact situation. Much respect and love sista
@Deucefiggity Sorry mister, but a current suitor told me that personally.....they want to marry me and have been waiting patiently to do so. And the fact that the statement is coming from a man......EVERYBODY AIN'T LOOKING AT THINGS THE SAME WAY. P E R I O D!
Sad how much women don’t protect their temple but gaslight men who worry who you let play around in it 😢
Sad how grown men think a woman's temple is a playground to play with. Sounds like you hate your own mother.🙄🤔
It’s sad that women let men make them feel bad for doing what feels right to them. It’s misogynistic.
The ability to pair bond is extremely important for a stable long-term relationship.
His point was made.Whoever got it, it was meant for...that too proves THE point.
This went over plenty of heads. TRIPP FONTANE isn't for everyone. I don't need all that competition anyway 😍😍😍 TRIPP I see you. Now if we can only carve out a particular meeting space where I can see you in the physical. Let's exchange energy and fragrances and stories. #ManifestingTRIPP
Chuck-D voice "Don't believe the hype"😆😂🤣
Ladies, please don't listen to him on this advice. Once A man learns your past he will sleep with you but you are excluded from wife category. Trust these dudes in the comments.
He is speaking facts, it’s the context of what he’s saying not the face value of what he’s saying. I’ve always had woman with low body counts. I don’t do clubs/lounges, very random, once blue moon. I know if I want some, I just go to the club. It’s easy, as he said “I ain’t tryna call ya easy”.
Nope, because some of us don't even care what men think and are not even trying to get married. It's not a flex and the freedom of doing what you want with who you want is the American dream.
Thank you 😂 he BUGGIN. Its a difference between you may have been with somebody i know vs you may have been wit EVERYBODY i know. If you been around the block its a wrap son
Please listen to this person !! Glad there’s some good chicks out there still!! Salute!!
@@MultiMilPrethat's not true. Ain't no way in hell you're staying with that girl who had you so fooled that she was good after you find out her jersey is retired in her high school football locker room. You can sell that lie to someone else
He has a point, but does not have a point. Not once did he say I will marry you. Pay attention ladies.
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i dont care about body count in the sense that women whose body count is high dont have access to me. we will never be in the same spaces on purpose to find that type of thing out
That's not true at all. The ones with the highest body counts be the ones you least expect. A lot of you dudes are in for a ride awakening smmfh
That's hella true. @@aaronanderson3076
There's A LOTTA men mad as hell over hot girl summers but won't apply the same standards to themselves AND the men in their circle. Sauce for the goose, Fellas. SAUCE FOR THE GOOSE! 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣they listening but they dont hear what he just said... Ignorance is bliss......
Okay Steve Harvey Jr. now get ready for the flames 🔥 coming your way. That’s a simp statement for the ages😂😂😂
Thank you, bc I think I’ve only ever had one dude ask me that, EVER. We didn’t even talk after that. No one worth anything asks questions like that or “So, what do you bring to the table?”. Where these dudes come from? 😂😂😂
He just gave this women permission to continue to thot it up….good for him more situationships for us😂😂😂😂
They not askin cuz they do they homework n find out other ways. Ghats only uf they truely interested
Thats false asf
It’s not if you know where to choose your woman. 🤣
Body count only matters to sexist incels and insecure dweebs. You sound goofy asf 😂
We supposed to work together as a unit black ppl we gotta do better...
I don’t really agree this but that’s his mind set I wouldn’t say all men feel this way
Well said
Totally not concerned about her body count or past unless it comes into our present. Keep your past in the past.
Bull... I got a right to kno your past. They could have Aids or a history of diseases. B mindful of others
@@user-xe3kw1ry2zIf you got a std or whatever disease that is not your past that is your present.
There is a difference between knowing a person’s status and who they slept with and their body count. Common sense and being mindful of others goes a long way in a healthy relationship.
@@user-xe3kw1ry2z That's not the past.
@@user-xe3kw1ry2z You can catch disease and only have had one person. Your math ain't mathing.🙄
@@user-xe3kw1ry2z you can have an std with only one partner
The “who” matters much more than “how many.” Men are more concerned that they will run into people that “knew” his girl. A higher number makes that more likely but if most of that was in a place y’all won’t be in, it matters a lot less.
Body count is and indication of discipline. The higher the easier someone can slide in 👉
This cap 🧢 Don’t believe it ladies.
Dude talking nonsense 😂
When I first met my Man it was love at first sight for me. We had sex pretty soon ( a couple of months later) because the chemistry was blinding. When the infatuation waned, we took time to get to know one another and now we are a couple of 5 years. He ( or any man-including my ex-husband) has ever even cared about my body count. The quality of my past relationships - yes, but not the number of ppl that I've been intimate with. Age nor number of partners necessarily correlate with things that truly matter; Either you're healthy, whole and desirable or not.
Decision making, self esteem, values, ability to pair bond, upbringing, flightiness, Standards, self-control...
That is a list of a few things that truly matter and that a man or woman's body count can give us some insight on.
I'm not saying everyone should be asking about body count. I'm just saying it's crazy to think there is no correlation there at all.
The bullshit you tell yourselves SMH
I call cap. But hey some men have no standards in a relationship.
If he found out you been smashed by 50+ dudes, he'd be out in a heartbeat.. Men don't ask about body count because they don't wanna ruin your image in their eyes.. But best believe if he were to find out you've been ran through(not saying you actually have) there would be no going back....
To many relationships have ended when a man found out his lady been ran through. If he doesn't and you have a high body count, keep it that way. Best the woman deny it at all.
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One of the few times where this guy ain't right. Ask any man in the world if he had to choose between the two prettiest women in the world,, one with less than 10 bodies and the other one with 50 or more bodies,, over 90% will pick the one with fewer bodies. Even the woman you've always wanted if you realised she has like 50 bodies you'll lose attraction naturally.
Damn, THATS THE ONLY two factors ??? Not who they are as women? Not if they can cook, funny, has a perfect credit score, has a nice job, emotionally intelligent? ONLY their body count? Wow, way to dehumanize women.
@@jamarlatimore It was an example,so I didn't mention everything to look for,, the assumption was the two women had almost everything you were looking for then you realize one has 50 bodies the other one has 10
This advise is without a doubt, the exception and NOT the rule. #TRUTH
I'm reading some of the ladies' comments and some say that it shouldn't matter about woman's body count
so, I say let's put it in prospective, let's say you worked hard, and you finally can afford those Red Bottom pumps you always wanted
but the salesclerk informs you that the record shows these shoes have been worn and resoled 20 times are you still going to buy them at full price?
how about some Christian Dior try on panties when you want to get some sexy lingerie, but body count doesn't matter when it comes to Viginia for a man but
women want their material stuff brand new provide by a man, but a man has to stilled for something that's been ran through more time than a train been in and out of a tunnel
Love the prospective 🤞🏾💯
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Exactly. This dude has been great but he is capping on this. He knows well enough he is not making a known round the way girl his wife.
@@orangegreen7 And that is exactly what he’s saying. Understand the context of what he’s saying. He don’t deal with them woman and he ain’t where them woman normally be at.
@@MultiMilPrethat's a lie y'all need to believe. You're around those women everyday you just don't know it. Hence...the point of the conversation
@@aaronanderson3076 That’s the point, you know them woman because you’ve been around them. You don’t want them. The woman you want ain’t like the rest.
@@MultiMilPre that makes no sense in the context of my statement and is devoid of reality
His woman has a high body count. He has to do a bold face lie to maintain his integrity. Everyone gets an opinon based hall pass. I disagree with this analogy.
Who ask someone their body count in the first place ? And who actually answers that?
Ladies take care of your preciousness and don’t believe what this guy or them hoes say! Teaching my daughters, nieces, and lil cousins better. Foh
People gotta stop going to UA-cam for advice on relationships
.. the doors of the church are open ..
who is asking these questions, especially after a certain age
Right 🤭😮💨
This!!! After a certain age you’ve definitely been through a few things. As long as the past is not our present we’re good over here. Our children are grown, we make decent money, our bills are paid, we’re traveling, we can go get what we want when we want it and enjoying each other. The older you get, the more simple you want life to be.
I would, I do and I will.
You ain’t guilting me into not. It’s not immature at all. It’s not insecure or whatever other bullshit you want to say to guilt me into not asking. Shame is needed you ladies. Have tried to remove it from your lives.
In every aspect of life your past has consequences and can get you ahead or stop your opportunities.
And a woman sleeping around is definitely gonna stop her opportunities.
I will never accept a woman that’s had a threesome or been around the block. It’s never happening.
I will take my turn and move on.
Men and women can’t be compared as well that’s another crazy thing feminism has made the norm. Which is absolutely stupid.
He usually on his square but not this time. You giving these women license to keep making toxic attachments that they subconsciously can’t shake. Creating unrealistic expectations for the next dude who ain’t the last 5 dudes she was imprinted by. He made it seem like it’s cool to claim community P 🥴. Where they do that at?
He's wrong on this one... I like his points in most cases, this one right here is far in left field and absolutely WRONG
If Kita doesn’t heal, I don’t see her ever being in a healthy marriage. Hopefully now since Kittie Rose been on, she will be receptive to advice. Kita shows so much animosity towards her hurt and pain of that she’s been through. This panel doesn’t help her tbh. It’s not enough man and woman on the platform to call her out or hold her accountable. She always self reflects her pain. And this what woman look to, another woman that they can agree to validate themselves to for the pain/trama them been thru. Instead of dealing with it and self reflecting like maybe I am the problem and work on me to fix it.
Do anyone know the names of the people that’s on the panel? Or a page to watch the entire episode?
@@MindYaDamnBidnezz Thank you.
just got to say it lady's y'all are missing the point about what he is saying. your pass does indeed affect the way a man values you.
I finally found a moment where I thought he was completely wrong. Like I get what he was trying to say but if you read between the lines he still tells on himself and says body count matters. He just found a slick way of not telling y’all it matters. Smh he usually be snapping on his other takes but hot damn bruh, stop dancing around without telling these women what they really need to hear. Tell ‘em what you would tell your daughter.
Lol why this is true. Ladies theres also an implications here. Thats means if i can have you, i can have other women as well lol. If i see you so lightly that i dont care who you sleeping with, its cause i can easily replace you.
Ive never asked a woman body count, but its also cause i dont want to be asked 🤣. Dont ask me when was the last time i had sex 😂. Lol i remember i slept with a woman, she then later asked when was the last time i had sex. She wasnt happy with the answer 3 days ago.
So you already had your body count going, but the woman is supposed to be ashamed of her body count? I know your answer is going to be out the box, but just try anyway.🙄
@@FASBLAQUE lol when did i say that? My point was that her body count generally is irrelevant to a man who is attractive to women.
@@Philosific That wudn't a flex, n*gg*. It ain't like you can't be easily replaced also right in front of your face. We don't do it because all we would be doing is replacing you with another dusty a$$ n*gg* for more of the same dusty sh!t. Ain't nobody got time for that.🙄😂
@@FASBLAQUE It’s not the same. If you view any and everything between the genders it’s completely opposite. A woman views things in her perspective not a man’s. We are not made the same. Hence why some woman look at things as a man, your not a man. Like masculine woman, everything is compared equal viewpoint, the values are the same, the survival in masculinity is different from femininity. As some woman find it weak, it’s very much powerful, it’s just weak from where you are. Expecting a leader and your in same head space, how can you not combat. You have a boss and your the employee give the boss rules, allow him to run it. But you have to learn during your healing to understand the moral and values your lead is giving you.
@@MultiMilPre Yes, it is the same. If you were a true thinking person you would know that there is only one gender. Masculine and feminine are just two extremes of the same thing. Of course, you can't think that far, because you are indoctrinated and brainwashed by white male patriarchy. You want to be like the very thing that you hate. Physical strength of the masculine became obsolete when fire power was invented. I say that, because you silly men in your immaturity view masculinity as physical power while it's much deeper than that. The fact that women have the power of thought just like men do should have taught you that, and thick skulls make soft behinds. It's a good thing that the woman who was hit in the head with a brick by one of you unevolved beasts didn't think like me, because they would have found dude laying there with a plug in his behind and wet all up. Anybody with superior thought is the boss and superior thought does not exclude women, and that's what you all are afraid of while you think you're players. You're afraid of women who think better and quicker than you, because you can't control a woman like that!🙄🤔
Ladies this guy is setting you,all up dont listen to him.
Yep! Real men are not even sitting around with this men children discussing things like this, because they got their sh!t together and not blaming their shortcomings on women. They're out here enjoying their life while, because they handle their business. These weak men in here want women to deal with their dysfunctions, because they didn't listen to their mothers growing up and picked up the habits of dysfunctional men. Now, they're whining and wanting a woman who will be their surrogate mother. Uh uh!!!! Leave these whiny little boys alone and get you a MAN! If he cares for you he knows what you need and will give without you having to ask.
Body count only matters to sexist incels and insecure dweebs. You sound goofy asf 😂
Yet I seen another show where he said he wouldn't date a women who has a lot of bodies. Smh
Me too 🤭🤭🤭
Yes👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾 tell em honey
If you are known to sleep around in the streets men will care don't get it twisted.
Every man who is considering you as a wife or being in a serious relationship will and has asked about your pass relationships and how many men you fffed and you will lie because it does matter 😂
Ok pick me
@@enyonamagbemadzo8684 you called me a pick me cool but you didn’t call me a liar
@@enyonamagbemadzo8684 stop projecting I can smell you through your comment loose girl
Dude is fragile af.
Lol, you don’t understand the context of what he’s saying
@@MultiMilPre Says the idiot who thinks he knows how many sex partners ya woman has had. Don't nobody know that, but her and God. "Body count matters to dudes who ain't getting the count!"🙄🤫
@@MultiMilPre All I hear is, "Wah, wah, wah.😊
@@FASBLAQUE Of course you do, that’s where you’re mental at. Build a higher level of consciousness. Grow and develop. Lean not to your understanding because your understanding can be too low to comprehend. Experience and growth, self development. It’s not others, it’s you. That I am who I am bs, you only who you are because you allowed the traumas and hurt to form you who you are. Dig deep, not face value. Face value holds no weight, only to low vibration or non real conscious people.
Stop projecting
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If he feels that strongly about it, then marry a prostitute. My man be serving Jewels of life, but not this time. There's so much more to it than that. But go on ahead with that logic. Good luck to you sir. smhlmao
Jesus did.
Simp advice
Facts 💯
Y’all comments seem as bad as woman’s. Y’all can’t compartmentalize wth he’s actually saying. He doesn’t deal or be in them areas where majority of the 304’s be to even have to worry about it.
@@MultiMilPreexactly
Body count doesn't matter until we find out the number.. There I fixed it....
YUP, I personally know females in my younger years who have slept with over a hundred dudes from different states across the country and still got wifed up and impregnated by ninjas like it ain’t nothin’. Man was I flabbergasted 😮 Not judging anyone cause everyone lives their lives however they desire. But I was thinking dude must not be embarrassed walking around and flaunting this community 🐈 as his woman cause ain’t no way bra 🤦🏽♀️😩
So he not worried about Aids…🤔
She might need to be worried about Aids based on his body count. Aids works both ways.
I would never tell nobody my BODY COUNT ( its nunya)
Good luck🤫
Would any man buy a used car that 5 other people used at market price?
Using this analogy, many men are used cars too with how much they sleep around.
Women are not objects so they cannot be “used”. Y’all sexist incels sound goofy asf. Only insecure incels and dweebs care about body count.
Looks don't matter either
That was real talk , even if i did shop where he shops. No real man is going to ask you your body count who wants to know that . If he did ask just keep it on one hand .
My mama always said tell him nothing when it comes to body count. She use to say " If you have ex-husbands or baby daddies, that's all the number he needs to know. The rest is none of his business." She was adamant about that!!
That mentality sets you up for failure if he finds out you been ran through by anybody bedsides you. She should have been telling you if you can’t be honest and/or proud about it, don’t do it.
@@HoneyBadger90 She also told us that too. But at the end of the day it's still nobodies business who I have been with. I have been married for 24 years in a loving relationship. My husband has never asked me about body count. I treat him great and vice versa. I guess I am old school because talking about body count is so juvenile to me.
He’s normally correct- he missed on this one. Most men are not going to be able to take it well. He may be extremely emotionally intelligent and spiritually evolved. But anywhere else- just don’t tell.
I’ll ask why not 🤷🏿♂️and whatever you did to them do to me lol…well not everything some dudes be wayyyyyyyyy out there smh lol
WOAH YES SIR!!!! 👍👍👍💯💯💯
This fella is gaming the audience right there and now. He knows he’s lying. Where ever he shopped ? I’ve been there, where ever he’s landed I’ve landed ! 4 grown kids and 3 grandkids later … I’m telling you I would not have built what I built with a loose woman I would not be sitting here retired at 47 yrs old and walking Florida beaches with some woman that was loose … it’s not the body count that matters. It’s the damage that was done to the soul before the woman decided to throw herself around. A woman that’s spiritually and mentally healthy will not throw her toto to just anyone ! A woman that’s hurt or has a cluttered soul and lacks values will use that cut as a tool.
As a woman, I fully agree!!
Agreed!!
Is there any more room on this vehicle, because it looks like we're riding together on this one.
that girl is insanely ANNOYING
F that haha
Idk what this ninja is talking about….Complete bad advice…for the type of men y’all be wanting body count definitely matters…Of course they aren’t going to flat out ask you the question that is completely corny but he will have his own way of figuring out what type of woman you are when it comes to guarding and protecting your body through conversation and spending time with you…so ladies don’t listen to this bs
I like him but that's cap most men absolutely care about your body count I think it's true that he doesn't but most men absolutely do especially for the women that are demanding a man who makes six figures or more especially for the women who have a lot of requirements your body count absolutely matters
Body count only matters to insecure dweebs and sexist incels. Not real men who are confident. You sound goofy asf 😂
Thank you
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Dis bro lyin! The WIFE, "WILL" get the thorough background check! He's top tier 🧢. YOUR BACKGROUND MATTERS! Just like it matters when you apply for them "GOOD" jobs it applies to the "GOOD" men.
CAP
Tripp is preaching so hard and true i start feeling like a groupie frfr!! What he said is facts.. I never once ever worried about a woman body count.. If I'm about my business and confident in who I am.. I don't need to worry about any man before me..
You are not telling the truth. Confident Men do not worry about body count until they've been told then they start to worry . No matter how confident you are ,,if you realise that the girl you've been chasing after has over 50 bodies, you'll definitely lose some attraction or respect or both. His point only works if the woman has an understandable body count let's say 10 or below at 30 isn't that bad according to today's standards.
Nothing to look at here, just another minstrel show for losers.
Super Simp. 😂
He saying he doesn’t ask which is fine but once he find out she ran through than he go trying to leave. Or he truly doesn’t care idk I hate people that just be saying shit and try to make it sound politically correct or better than most like go sit tf down
Boop
You can get diseases by not worrying about past sex history and don't matter if you and dude shop at the same place if you've been with the same woman.See you on Maury.
You can get diseases regardless of your body count. It has nothing to do with body count and everything to do with protecting yourself. Y’all sound ignorant asf.
It's sad
This is a guy who is arguing against scientific study as it pertains to the ability to maintain a long-term relationship the scientific and psychological study concludes that the higher the body count the less likely the woman is able to stay in a relationship long term
There’s no real scientific study that suggests that. Body count and loyalty have nothing to do with each other.
It’s both true and false right? I mean there ain’t shit you can do about who she slept with before you started trying unless your intentions for a relationship were laid out and that number swelled during that time. At that point you would have a choice to leave. But the other thing is I see where you would want to see what your percentages of catching the ‘hey-hey’ are but then if that’s a concern then….🤣🤣🤣. Every once in a while as you mature you can have a conversation with a woman about body count and that woman can make you feel confident in her decision making while at the same time telling you it’s not your concern. And if you are mature and a real man you can move forward the way you need to with that person. At the end of the day WTF are you going to do with that information.
The wild thing is why doesn’t a man’s body count matter?!?!? It’s misogynistic that men can make women feel like that and women can’t do the same to men.
Mens body count does matter to an extent. The character of a man will determine his morality. A man that is constantly sleeping around with women shows no self control and without that self control that man is simply a danger. A danger to himself, that woman, his community and his culture.
I agree with a lot this brother says, but not this. No man wants a woman that's been a hoe, and it has nothing to do with what I got or where I live or shop, we don't want a high mileage box!
I get it 🤞🏾💯
No woman wants a high mileage 🍆 either, especially because of STD's so what's y'all's point? Y'all are in here bragging about your body count, but think women should be ashamed of hers.🙄🤭
That’s not the context of what he means. He’s not in the environment where they are. Clubs, lounges, etc. The best woman aren’t in them spots or areas. I can understand because of who I am and I’ve always had low body count woman.
How did we all watch the same video. He’s saying secure men aren’t even asking this question when they meet a women that checks all the boxes for him. Also “hoes” are everywhere. Doctors, a few First Ladies in the White House. Teaching Sunday school .. name a place and there was a time.
@@jellafigo22 You have to compartmentalize what he’s saying and not take it out of context. A hoe is easy to find/spot as a rare gem is hard to find. I say that, as the count to dam high, you learn as you learn yourself as a man. Asking about body count doesn’t matter, only if there aren’t that many options and that man see you as a potential because of where he is. Most men get with whom they have access to, not the woman they want. There’s a difference between wanting to fck and she’s actually what I want. Fcking still no need to ask, I just want guts. That one I want, has already been vetted. I already know how she moves, handle shyt and values that she adds to my life. Idgaf about her body count because I know what she brings and adds to me, solely she adds to the man I am. To sum it up, it matters just not to bring it up. I want you, I want you for a reason. A stripper, hoe, OF, etc doesn’t fit to who I am. We fcking, I want you solely for that.
Nah bruh!!!! Shit don’t count cuz u ain’t tryna build wit her foreal!!! If u vettin for marriage that shit counts!!!
I need a HIV / AIDS test just to view this video!
wrongest advise....if a man learns of your bodies he drops you from wife material....asap
I agree with him completely. Im not worried about your past and what you did before me. Im worried about your present and future. WHO ARE YOU RIGHT NOW!!! FELLAS DONT LET BRO MESSAGE GO OVER YALL HEAD!!!!
WHAT'S HIS NAME?
Tripp
Um I highly doubt this lol he’s just trying to make yall with high body count feel secure lol don’t fall for this mess! He 🧢
Man's missed the mark with this one.
First time for everything