I'm Not an Alcoholic Anymore... and it's a BIG Problem!
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I follow you guys because of your traveling content. Im not watching to see you guys drink. I think most or your viewers will agree. Im from SC USA and have been to Azores twice and went to Madeira last October (during the fires unfortunately) didn't get to see all the great places you talk about. Ive never watched any of you videos to see you get wasted. Keep up the great traveling content. That's what your channel was built on and that's what your viewers want to see.
I also struggled with alcohol. It was so bad I found it easier to log the days I didn't drink rather than drink. I woke up on morning with pancreatitis. I went to hospital they told me I had to quit drinking. Talk about having a life changing moment F me. 13 days later I got out. Quit drinking for about 2 months...One beer won't hurt, two beers won't hurt, one shot will be fine. Almost exactly one year later went back in the hospital. I struggled with this for another 3 years. In 2013 I had my last drink. The damage to my pancreas is permeant. I still struggle today with finding the fun in things. Im an open book with alcohol. I'm a closed dusty book on the shelf without. If it wasn't for my wife id probably not be here. Amalie is going to be your support and she will play a major roll in your success. Keep it up its not a sprint it's an endurance race and you'll be fine with Amalie by your side.
Never watched you for the drinking to be honest. After recently travelling long term i shelved the alcohol for a number of months (budgetary reasons) and after a while you wonder why you ever bothered with it in the first place. You'll get there. Its a lifelong habit and that mindset is hard to change. I had the same with smoking. Wish you the best of luck with it 👍
The main reason that leads me to watch your videos is a set of things, such as your friendliness, sincerity and humor that you always put into the content you cover on your channel, wrapped in the excellence of photography and editing. As for the rest... if you already know, never forget; Addiction to alcohol, drugs and gambling is forever, what can make a difference is having this reality always present in your head every day, as all it takes is a small temptation and consequent slip-up, for everything to go back to the way it was before, even if it's been decades since you last stopped drinking, etc...
All the best to you and please continue to be happy :)
@@quintatorneiro3074 Well said 👏
I watch you guys because I like you your funny nothing to do with the alcohol. You should be proud of yourself.
Guys honestly. I watch you for several years. And to be honest when you were drunk. I personally find it embarrassing.
I love your videos because of your great personality and amazing sense of humor. Even the videos that you might think there it’s not much “entertaining” they are still fun.
It’s your life. It’s what you need as individuals and not what people “wants” for fun. I prefer to see this kinds of channel. Keep going guys.
I couldn't agree more.
I like videos with Joen when he is not drinking much, much more than when he is drinking. I’d love to watch videos on Joen learning to have fun or just learning who he is without alcohol.
3 years sober here, don't worry about losing viewers because you're sober. You don't need those assholes in your life. Your content is always wonderful..
2y 3mo here. Nice work!
Good luck Joen, please don't drink to keep subscribers happy we just want you to be healthy and happy, well done for sharing. 😘
I am a portuguese guy living in Copenhagen, so yes we kinda switched countries guys, and alcohol was not why I started following you. I started watching you because despite being Portuguese, you guys showed me places in my own country which I have never visited, I have learned that you can travel and work remotely, I got to know brands and products through your sponsored videos and used discount codes and you also helped me understand Danes better while adapting to this new culture. You inspire people even when your content is not about traveling, like watching Amelia being a interior designer and having a great taste decorating the house. I know alcohol its part of danish culture, and it is very common in those rainy days, when the sun sets around 15 o'clock, to just have some friends over and enjoy the evening by having a drink but guys remember you are in Portugal, there's a lot to do to keep your mind busy. If you want to stop drinking, find a purpose, try to see how can the content become even better without it, don't think that it will become worst! Maybe you can start a healthier diet and make content about that, which will motivate others to do the same. So good luck Joen!! Gonna be waiting here for the next video with the title "como perder barriga de cerveja em dois meses" 😁
I watch you guys to see the beauty of Portugal. I’m American and we are going to Portugal for the second time in a few weeks. Yall have helped us see beauty in Portugal. You don’t have to be drunk to go to a nice restaurant or enjoy a sunset. Addiction is no joke. Don’t let UA-cam fuel your addiction. Do what is best for you and the real fans will be here.
Thanks! Appreciate your kind words. The challenge is indeed to not let UA-cam dictate my life, but it's also our and my passion. We've been at this for 6 years and desperately want to succeed at it.. only too much one could say.. Life is hard 😂
@@joenandamalie and because it's hard, it's so much sweeter when you prevail, and you will prevail because you both are naturals, and you are good at this, and you're doing the work and putting energy into it.When you do prevail, be sure to celebrate before moving the goal post. :)
I agree 💯 ! I found you guys and I see your channel because of Portugal adventures. Not alcohol adventures. :)
Stay away please
Joen, Amalie, you both have great personalities that complement one another.Your videos are most enjoyable. Joen, I feel you are using a loss of subscribers as an excuse to start drinking again. I can tell you from witnessing friends and relatives going down a path of alcohol addiction, is not a path you want to travel. You both have humor that we viewers enjoy immensely. Alcohol is not necessary. Be healthy and "Stay Classy".
Yes! I feel this to be true too-- don´t use a loss of subscribers as an excuse!
Amelia is right. It's about balance and finding the right balance is the challenge that needs to be worked on. Absolute abstention is seldom successful or sustainable. Best of luck. Rooting for you guys!
Your community loves you guys regardless. They actually would prefer for you to be healthy and happy...and believe it or not, that can happen without alcohol. Love the videos and you sharing your knowledge of the countries/places you visit. Keep it up...we are here for it!
It’s not about restricting your life but self control. Controlling emotional and physical impulses, including anger. Doesn’t mean not feeling or expressing, but doing so in a nondestructive way. There are some great philosophy books out there to study. No guru required.
Thanks Greg. The concept of self-control is fairly new to me, but I'm starting to get it. I really just need to be more cognitive and not a little child giving into every single impulse. What books are you suggesting?
Aw, I'm a new subscriber and I love watching you both talk and be vulnerable on cam. I'm rooting for you from Texas on your success being alcohol free. You'll live longer. 29 years ago, it was really hard for me to quit smoking. If I could do that, you've got this beat. Just avoid going anywhere where there's alcohol present until you get over the hump. You could use your youtube channel to help others dealing with the same thing as you. You could even use your channel as "healthy living" in general. I think your personalities are likeable and relatable enough to carry your channel in this type of topic. Don't give up! You can do this! Just be tough to fight through those physical urges to drink. Don't give in. If you do, doesn't mean you failed. Get up on that horse and keep riding. Enough rambling. You've got this!
7 years sober after 55 years of drinking my life away. Vacations take on a whole new challenge, the pressure to drink never ends. I particularly enjoy watching people waste money and brain cells, oblivious to the damage to your body and how they come off to others around them. Thank you for raising awareness around sober lifestyles. ❤🎉
Hey guys! I love your channel! I was born in the Azores but came to Canada as a baby over 40 years ago. Although I love Canada, my heart has always belonged to Portugal. And because my wife and I watch your channel, it has made us want to go live in Portugal. You guys know how to show the beauty of where we are from…. And btw, your channel is not dying. It’s actually grown into something even more special for us all! 😊
Continuem a fazer o excelente trabalho como têm feito até aqui, mostrando o que de bom há por aí, só com uma diferença, sem álcool.
Joen, I feel very well what you go through, me not with drinking, but with sweets! It's very difficult to get rid of these bad habits, but for a more healthy lifestyle we've to restrict or even better eliminate them. After a few weeks you'll feel better, you don't need it more and your liver will appreciate it as well!
Actually, I like watching you guys because you show very interesting places, and you both have great personalities. I actually cut out alcohol a few years ago, and I went through the same issue. I would always get bombed and be very outgoing. At first, without the alcohol, I was very introverted. But recently, I started training my brain to have a positive fun baseline. I believe it is actually working. I am becoming much more outgoing, just naturally...and with no hangover. rewiring your brain takes time and effort, but it's extremely powerful. I use the DNRS program, but there are others, and and you dont need to buy a brain training program to change your mindstate, but I find it very helpful. You guys are awesome!
Do you guys know the age demographic of your audience? I'm 53, moved to Portugal 2.5 years ago...which is how I found you in the first place. Sure part of the fun of watching you two was to see what Portugal had to offer ...experiences, places to eat, places to see, etc. you were like tour guides inspiring the next bucket list of things to do here. Anyhow...depending on your audience here's what I would suggest/ real estate (eg. best new developments)...food (eg. best sushi in Portugal)... experience (eg. best sunset cruise... best sunset locations for photography)...best deals for tours...best festivals to see. Best private beach area for a picnic. Best coffee...etc. It doesn't have to cost the most...just the best experience of getting the most value possible. Best castle to explore...there's so many things you can feature and have fun with. When you feature others, the focus is not directly on you...rather the viewer gets the pleasure of watching you experience something that will inspire them to think...oh, I'd like to do that! oh...as for the alcohol, your future self will thank you for your positive change now.
I think you are going through FOMO more than anything. You both are kind and funny and always a joy to watch and listen to. Do not give in to the addiction just for views cuz in the long run it would be losing more than an audience.... Love you both!!! I prefer the walks and exploring your interests more than the partying, I can have more fun doing that part myself. I first started watching because you two are of similar interests to what my hubby and I enjoy and that hasn´t changed. UA-cam does a terrible job of pushing creators to feel like they always got to be growing. Enjoy the ride more =)
❤❤❤❤❤I quit drinking 10 years ago. You’re funnier when you’re sober!
You have my support as far as what is most important for your lives, do what you gotta do! But…… Joen and Alcohol, that’s truly a special combo😍🔥
Oooh! With Amalie’s super creativity in the kitchen and the incredible garden you are planning I am looking forward to some amazing non alcoholic cocktail videos! I love drinks with herbs. Pair them with some
appetizers made with ingredients from your garden 😊
I’m not here for an alcohol or non alcohol show. You guys are just fun and seem like great people. We just enjoy your personalities and your insights on things. Just take care of yourselves first.
My wife and I (and 2 daughters) watch your channel because of how hilarious and entertaining you are. Not once do we equate your comedic touch, and epic storyline with alcohol. You have an incredible skill with storytelling , editing, and taking your audience on a journey . I can imagine your UA-cam channel reaching a much wider audience... even after you shed some of these initial followers. Wellness is much Sexier than UA-cam followers . I'll get off my soap box. In conclusion , keep the adventures coming!!!
You guys are fun to watch even when you're not drinking. When I played basketball I used to say that I get high on jump shots. What's your jump shot?
The original comment i posted for some reason didn't come out properly, so let me try and retype it again!
Im impressed with your honesty in this video.
I love my beer and its a theme to my life (for BBQ's, Friends coming over, after work, editing videos etc)
Any achievements or milestones dont feel complete without an icecold beer.
Let me just say that UA-cam has been shit for every creator i know this year, and i know that my views have been a quarter of what they were, but thats not due to beer.
I think its all over youtube (or im just making crap videos without beer... who knows 😂)
Joen, you are just a beautifull soul, you don't need the alchool for being fun, just try to be yourself and know yourself and you'll find the most endeaver of all.
You don't need validationn from no one....
You two are beautifull ❤
SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!!! I'm coming back. You are fun and lovely without drink.
You guys are the reason why my wife and I have been to Portugal six times and have followed all the destinations where you have gone. I really never thought much about your drinking being a reason to see your beautiful videos..
Hi guys. I’m in your boat Joan I’ve been drinking for years and only recently understood it isn’t what I thought it was it’s just all I know. I thought it was part of a good time also part of ignoring things that I know are wrong but don’t want to face… having a glass of wine or beer with dinner I love but it would always turn into more because I can’t have just one. I respect your honesty and approach to this because of being the same ( although I don’t think we are alone😂) your videos are more realistic when you drink because there are so many people like us but reality is we all see clearly and do better when we don’t go mad we just don’t see it after a drink. Keep up your dreams you’re living (which just so happens to be mine living in Portugal or Madeira) can’t wait for the next video thank you both for your honesty…. 👍🏽
I've been watching for years and you can stay alcohol free. Healthy living is key to success in travel and life. Stay strong.
Joen, don't forget that you and your life are the most important and precious things. You may lose some followers now, but you will gain a healthier life long term. And of course, some new followers will appear along the way which will feel identified with your content. In my opinion, your videos are getting better and better. It's easier to just do "lifestyle" videos like many others do, but do that and show more substance is not so simple. I love to see your human and vulnerable side, bringing important subjects to the table, speak about stuff freely, and I think we need that to remind us of who we are.
I totally agree with Amalie just have fun, you can do that without alcohol. Show us how it's done!
Suggestion to replace alcohol: become a world-class expert in coffee and tea. I don't care about alcohol, but I love coffee ☕
And nature is very cool also.
Don't worry about the channel "dying." You're growing up and you've figured out that there's just so much luxury travel you can do before you get bored. There's much more to life. You're infinitely more interesting as you evolve. You are discovering the more complicated parts of being human. I love your new approach. I'm a bit older than you and am enjoying your journey. Stick with it. And Amalie I understand your anxieties about motherhood completely. I took the plunge and it's the best thing I ever did. Hard to explain why and it wouldn't make sense. But know you're not alone in your feelings. It's okay. Sending you good thoughts and all my best wishes!
Think you guys are great and your naturally funny when drinking or not! I really enjoy your algarve vlogs but really enjoyed your helping your parents move too 👍🏼
Thanks, Lloyd! We will continue to drink... a lot of smoothies and distilled water 🤣
Thank You So Much for your honesty and openness. That’s what makes you both so likable and relatable. I’m in the same situation. I love you both ❤ !
Good luck on solving your issues. You guys have a great channel!
This is a very important video many people should relate to. People who never drink will have a difficult time understanding that the social drinking culture is bigger than the drinking itself. It’s interesting to note a link to dementia for both heavy drinkers and non drinkers. That suggests to me that the social aspect of moderate drinking has health benefits. Yes, “chasing” that feeling is so true. We develop a tolerance to the extent that we might as well not be drinking at all. I do find that first or second drink is the sweet spot, though it’s too easy to continue drinking beyond that. Amelia is content with one drink; Joen three. Did you know females absorb alcohol differently than men?! Men generally need twice as many drinks as women to feel the same effect. Clicking glasses of Perrier with you! Cheers my friends! ❤
Proud of you! Also, the Coral no-alcohol is a fab substitute when you need that cold-beer-in-your-hand pick me up
Your audience may be more diverse than you think judging on comments from the episode on having a child and advice from many mature viewers. Watching your show helps me connect with Madeira where we have a 2nd home. You are the eyes and ears of what's going on which is so helpful. Keep up the good work! (What about non alcoholic beer which is quite common in Germany and taste pretty good!) 😊
As Leslie Jones would say “get therapy!”
The views were not about Joen getting drunk, was about the lifestyle.
You need to cultivate moderation! perhaps harder than stop drinking is to cultivate moderation. And stick with it. Set limits for the week and month. Once you figure it out the most enjoyable drinking will become
Hello 👋 agree Life with no alcohol is no fun everything in moderation!
When you've been doing something for 20+ years, it's going to take more than a couple of weeks to unlearn and relearn what fun is. Give yourself some credit & be patient and kind with yourself :)
I have been watching you guys since 2017, and I too like Joen have trouble to give up alcohol completely. I have learned to drink moderately and not give it up completely, as that is too extreme. Best to drink less and to take in all the present! I have lost too many memories and that is sad! And your restaurant and food and tourist videos are the best! Thank you
I have several friends who just cannot stop when they start drinking alcohol. They do it anyway. I sit there with them and have my 2 or 3 drinks over the course of 6 hours, and they can't understand how I can be happy if I am sober. I have drank alcohol for 40 years and have been drunk only once. That was back at university when I was young. Swore I would never do it again, and I kept my word. I just don't like the feeling. Having said that, I love being surrounded by drunks at a party LOL
Nothing worse than being a drunk, stay strong ❤️❤️
your channel attracted me for other reasons than drinking escapades. I my self quiting on and off for health reasons . it's not easy. I can't imagine going back to visit Portugal and not have wine while there. I am just like you I can't have one glass of wine and stop. trying to talk myself into that I will drink during Portugal vacation and then stop when get home
I also have quit certain alcohols, specifically hard liquor like whiskey because it's extremely bad for your vital organs,so even though my doctor advised me of that info I decided to stop of my own accord.although I don't really understand why so many people say"when I start I can't just stop at one" ,who's counting?I guess if you have to keep track of how many drinking have then that maybe the definition of alcoholism.I don't, but then again I don't drink to get drunk.No judgement here just my personal observation.
some people can't stop at one not because of addiction to alcohol but perhaps don't deny themselves of the pleasure? I like my Red Breast Whiskey neat more than the daily recommended 2 once serving. and then there is Hennessy white ...
I agree with some of the comments above. I’m also here because of your fantastic work in showing us the beauties of Portugal and Madeira. And keep up the good work of keeping sober. Look after yourselves and your health 😌.
you dont have to quit, you just need to moderate, dont drink everyday..
I love your videos and it doesn't matter to me if you are drinking or not. You guys both have great personalities. I watch to see beautiful Portugal, to see restaurants, shops, and locations. Alcohol in your videos or no alcohol doesn't even enter my mind. I just like to see what fun antics you guys are up to and learn a little more about Portugal or wherever you are traveling to. Thank you for your honest sharing of your concerns and I look forward to seeing your future videos.
I enjoy a glass of wine, sometimes two or more but I also can go weeks without any. Everyone is different, you know what you need to do and that's the beginning. There are probably support groups there such as AA (alcoholic Anonymous) like here in the US. For what I've heard, outside support is essential. I hope all goes well and I will definitely continue to watch and enjoy your channel. 😍
Thank you for finally being honest about your drinking Joen. Respect comes to those who admit they have a problem and are looking to change their life. We only have one go around in this life, make it a good life! Good luck!
I'm exactly and 100% the same as you my friend. Could be me speaking! No off switch for me when it comes to booze either. Good luck my friend
You were young when you started your YT channel. Younger people tend to party more. Now you are a bit older and are feeling the effects more profoundly. If you can't moderate then abstain. I know it's super hard because I am also at a crossroads with alcohol and I'm 15 years your senior. The reason I unsubscribed from your channel was partly due to your behavior while drinking. You weren't being kind to yourself or others and I know you have a big heart Joen. It takes a lot of emotional intelligence to find why we self soothe and how we can be more kind to ourselves. We are rooting for you two and wish you can find the happiness within that you provide to others.
It’s interesting because I’ve just found your account and really enjoyed how enriching your content is, had no idea you were party people before 😅
My husband and I are trying to find a life outside of finding places to drink so your content is perfect for us- thank you for sharing ❤
It’s both good, it’ll just appeal to different people I guess
Welcome aboard! And thanks for your kind words!
I love your videos I’m a subscriber because of your immaculate videos and not your drinking issues. Keep up the great work. 😊
Joen loved you with alcohol and love you without alcohol. When I do win the lottery, I’m paying for your home in Madeira so you can stay in Madeira. Love you guys so SO MUCH!!!!!!!
First, all my congratulations to Joen for is behaviour avoiding alcohol.
There are different perspectives , of course alcohol is not healthy...
All excess habits in life are negative, even water or love...
It depends on each of us...
The "control" is the key to enjoy the flavours, the colours, to catch the moment in the right way.
You are fantastic in your channel providing a lot for all, including for Portugal!
Maybe found the good balance to not fall in restrictions that restrict your pleasure in life/moments
Big kisses to both and success😊!
Spoken like a true Portuguese. Viva a Vida
Iam a true Portuguese 🤪💪👍☀️
I am too.lol.
Keep up the good work! Don't pay too much attention to haters' comments, which clearly aren't constructive at all. You guys are FUN, that's a fact, regardless of the channel showing videos containing any scenes of you guys tipsy or consuming alcohol. The quality of the videos is for sure top 1%.
I love watching your channel.
To drink or not is irrelevant.
You have wonderful content.
You are not boring... both your personalities outshine the alcohol induced high. Be yourselves and enjoy your beautiful new home in Madeira. You can talk about the history of your new home. Explore the deep sea that surrounds you. Stories of the first settlers of Madeira. There is so much more to do than look forward to having a hangover the day after.
Good for you!!!!❤❤❤❤
Fun is to see your content, your great scenic vídeos, your storytelling.
Humans love to see others making fool of themselves, but thats selfish because they dont care about others.
If you think you should stop drinking go ahead, because thats the right path for you and the ones who care for you.
I also dont drink and Im crazy enough.
We started watching for the Beauty and the excitement you both had for Portugal. There is much more to Portugal than drinking. You have to find that passion for it again. The key to life is moderation. This is why you have a life partner. Bring that passion and love to each video. We will always be watching
LOL. I don't watch your videos for the drinking. It's fine and good that you are taking care of yourself. Hugs to you both.
I feel your pain 😔
Thanks!
Greg, THANK YOU. Your support means a lot to us. Truly! Big hugs from us 3 ❤
We love you without your drinking. You guys ROCK!
Hey! Great drone video 😉 You guys are NOT boring without alcohol, I doubt very much that your channel will die. It’s hard, I’m sure, but I’m sure in time you’ll be able to adjust.
I’m sticking with you.
I can’t see that my reply posted so I’ll add as a stand alone comment.
Recommended reading: Plato not Prozac by Lou Marinoff, A Guide to the Good Life by William Irvine, courage is Calling by Ryan Holiday, Discipline is Destiny also by Holiday, James Bond Stockdale - Courage Under Fire, Philosophy for Life and Other Dangerous Situations by Jules Evans. Start with any of them. Study 30-60 minutes a day. Form your own Philosophy of Life. Good luck.
Alcohol is not a synonym for fun. You are both interesting and funny and articulate without needing liquid courage. Modeling healthy choices is great. And Balance is something to aspire to
Joen, i had the same problem in the past... solution ? New girlfriend, sports, nature and, the most important, yoga! yes, yoga can change you and your life ! I love your videos ❤ hug from Ericeira
I used to have the same problem now I don’t drink anything during the weekdays just drink a couple glass of wine on weekends
I have been watching your channel for awhile as well and to be honest, I don't like the drunken days either:( I love watching you two go to the different areas, I feel like you guys are my personal tour guides ☺️ I love traveling and I basically watch traveling videos 😊 Good Luck Joen!! We're all out here rooting for you!! #teamJoen😉 praying for you!
Honestly guys I've never seen drinking as part of your fantastic UA-cam channel so hey just chill
OMG! @ 35 I drank and partied like it was 1999 baby! But I only did it on the WEEKENDS!! Not everyday, reason why I always looked forward to the weekend!!
I finally gave it all up when I turned 45! Now I just have my casual glass of wine or beer with dinner and my espresso after dinner, espresso kills your the taste and need for more alcohol, at least for me it does.
Saw in the video you planned a route through the Algarve, passing by Portimao! If you come here, let's meet up at one of our "Portimao Digital Nomads" meetups. We love your channel; you've been a big inspiration for many of us to move to Portugal. Lots of people here would be thrilled to meet you! ❣
Thanks for your honesty. Have you tried non alcoholic gin? It's amazing and gives you so many different options as the botanicals used vary and so you get to try so many flavours. Not sure if you get non alcoholic wine/sparkling wine in Portugal but you get an excellent variety in South Africa. Look into non alcoholic options - they are becoming more and more popular (think mocktails too) and you will have a whole new angle of recommendations for your channel!
I must say that I miss your travels in Portugal - loved these videos most of all. It was your vibrant personalities and the gorgeous scenery that made me watch - NOT the alcohol.
I restrict my wine intake to mostly half a glass or maximum 1 glass. It is a small french boule wine glass and only in the evening. I see other couples at times share a whole bottle for lunch 😮 I don’t know how they do it 😅 I get tipsy after 1 glass and don’t like the feeling.
Congratulations brother
I’ve been sober for over 30 years and guess what .. life goes on and it’s as fun as I make it. I love traveling, going to spas, relaxing in a jacuzzi with a cup of decaf. Yeah I even gave up caffeine cuz I got addicted to that too. I enjoy drinking decaf coffee.
I love history so I watch history related videos and then go visit those places. I just spent the new years holiday in Istanbul. There’s nothing wrong with alcohol if you can handle it but I never could, alcoholism runs in my family going back generations in the Azores. My own uncle who was a primary care doctor who moved to Oporto after med school died of alcohol related illnesses. Not many people got sober in his generation. Today we have so many treatment options . We’re lucky .
The whole idea of having to drink to have fun is ridiculous but it’s very popular belief. Seems to me that your drinking phase is over now it’s time to find out what you really like to do and then make videos doing that. How about starting a podcast?
I love this video and your honesty. You are a beautiful loving couple. The absence of alcohol is maybe like a death. You need time to mourn it and then to find a new normal going forward. You are still very smart and funny and clever without the alcohol. Good luck on your journey.
Portugal is to Guilty for making you addicted to alcohol, good food, wine and the weather 😅😂
Funny I have been watching you for a while and have never noticed alcohol issues. I defenitely do not watch your videos because of the alcohol in it. It's rather because of your conversations, the things I learn, the humour, the relationship, your kind nature, the food, the landscape, the culture... and so much more. You please do not worry of not drinking. It's such a small part of your life and your personalities and dramas are really what people are here for. Godspeed.
Just start to follow the new healthy couple 😊🙏
I've enjoyed your journey so far but please keep off the alcohol, you know your addiction and yes i will diffenlty continue to follow your channel...keep strong and away from the addiction 💪💪💪❤️
You can do this! A read a book called this naked mind by Annie grace it was fantastic. We go a few months ata time without drinking…. It’s ok
I love your travel videos and that you’re living the dream!
And… I love drinking water, sparkling water out of a wine glass anywhere and every where. Garnish with mint, citrus, berries… make it exciting 😅
the keyword is balance, drink a glass of wine but don't empty the bottle
We love you, alcohol or no alcohol ,just be yourselfs and the spontanious comming. ❤
Stay strong, you don’t have to drink to have fun. Good for you👏🏻👏🏻. I know what would shake things up on this channel…….a baby🍼😆
I believe sometimes alcohool can bring us some happiness but it's certainly temporary. We must have the courage to resist if we don't have health problems after 50's. I myself do some kind of struggle to resist and maybe the key to resist is making some abstemic periods to have some balance.
It is not necessary to get drunk to have fun or be cool. That is embracing to see someone drunk. It’s a sign of no self control and sense of self. I love wine and mixed drinks. But!! I stop before feeling drunk. I do not see the fun in getting drunk and loosing control and possibly getting sick.
You dont need to restrict everything! The secret is called moderation!
Respect 🙏
Good for you Joen! I have been a long time viewer of your channel and love it because of the beauty that you show of Portugal. You both are lots of fun. You do NOT need the alcohol. You both have amazing personalities. In fact, I really didn’t appreciate the times that you were drunk. I wish you both all the best on this new journey. I will definitely be watching. Your skills on making videos are amazing and you two have a wonderful relationship. Maybe one day you will be able to drink a glass of wine with a meal and stop at that instead of “eating the whole tree of apples”. Moderation is always best when it comes to drinking. Wishing you both health, happiness and prosperity. Hugs ❤
Just keep going, guys!
Cheers 🙌🏼
@@joenandamalie you can still drink, but use common sense, but I know it's not easy . I believe you can do it , just drink less .
No one's leaving your channel because you don't drink...You can still travel, eat, shos us Portugal and have fun!! Yes, lots of serious discussion, but mix it up with the fun and we'll all be there for it all!! That said I'm like Joen...Black or white, no grey! My doctor told me recently I can have 1 glass of wine 3 days/week and I thought what about 3 glasses once a week...lol! It's a struggle, but health is wealth! I look forward to one glass of wine so cheers to that!!
Joen, we like the new spiritual you. You should be proud of yourself. We turned off so many of your old vlogs because you were "drunk". The new content is just as good, stay with it, and nurture it. It's not the alcohol that makes you guys unique but the chemistry between you two. Stay strong. You got this !! ❤
Thanks for your kinds words! 🧙🏻
I would rather see you healthy than entertaining. I will not leave your channel. I like your Danish sense of humor. I love it when your mother swears. Whoever watches your channel to see you get drunk might not really care about you guys. I know it's a struggle.
Good luck!