Heir & Spare: William & Harry (2023) - FULL DOCUMENTARY
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- Опубліковано 5 кві 2023
- Heavy is the head that wears the crown, but heavier is the burden of being next in line.
The British Royal family is built on the traditional duty until death. For every heir to the throne, there is a spare.
The eldest son of King Charles III, Prince William, is next in line, leaving his brother Harry on the sidelines.
Despite being close during their childhood and teenage years, the looming pressure of the expectations of the crown has driven a wedge between the brothers.
When one steps up, the other must step back.
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I Think sometimes people seem to forget Prince William lost his mother too.
And he is not into a drama all the time
Your exactly right William lost his mother to, Harry acts like he is a only child
Agreed! I've said the same thing in a past comment!
@@pava682 he has his drama keep silent
Harry isn't William & both lads lost their mum that day,but both has dealt with it differently. The public see snippets yet act as they know them personally! They read something and take to the Internet to cast rubbish they know nothing about. The only people that truly knows what has and is going on is the family in question. The public would do best not responding to venomous lies from the press,that have been proven to tell lies! Let the family sort it out between them.
We tend to overlook how difficult William's childhood was, though I do remember thinking that he seemed to be very shy in comparison to Harry and thought that he might find the burden of being the heir difficult, but Catherine has supported him and been at his side when he has needed her throughout an even more difficult period of his life.
so true
When his mother died he was not married yet
Both of them
So true ! William & Kate were followed by the media since their teenage dating years...
@@Verbsdescribeus there were not that exclusive yet William Moore still trying to work it out with the girls
It is sad that people who are leveled headed like William always get overlooked, they were both under the brutal spotlight all their lives and lost their mother, but no one saw William was suffering as badly as Harry and praise his exceptional capability to cope with his life! Spectators always focus on whomever makes the loudest noise in public!
Level headed!?!? You are out.of touch. He's a robot. He follows orders. He's not level headed, he's a SHEEP.
lol, no. William isn't level headed, he's a bully who is always in a rage. He's controlling and selfish and no, he didn't have the same situation as Harry. William as always the spoiled one, the one who was told he was special and he would be King. He got the bigger bedroom while they stuck Harry in what amounted to a broom closet. William literally got more food than Harry, the bigger portion always went to William. They stuck Harry in boarding school the week after Diana died, and isolated him there, with Charles only seeing him two times in 9 months. Once at Christmas and once when he used Harry for a photo op to make himself look like a good father, when he was the opposite.
Harry was forbidden to leave school on weekends, while William got to spend an hour every Sunday with the Queen and Charles. This went on for years, until Harry graduated. William always got special treatment and Harry was an afterthought.. They stuck him in basement apartments while William got a huge, sunny flat at Kensington Palace. Harry is a saint for surviving all that and not being bitter. One Christmas at Sandringham, Charles had invited so many people, there was no bedroom for Harry so they literally stuck him in the servant's quarters. That's just a twin bed and a wardrobe. That's how little they thought of him. He was right to escape that kind of indentured servitude.
Stop believing the lies as told by megain.@@a.madison9625
In my family my baby sister is the extroverted, naughty one. I’m the more quiet, responsible one. It’s incredible how different the expectations are for me vs her. But we suffered similar life experiences
I hope you don't blame William for what happened when they were growing up. @@a.madison9625
I would think being the "spare" would be a pretty sweet gig -- all of the perks of being a royal with only a fraction of the pressure and responsibility.
Well strange then, That Harry and his family left the UK and went to live in anther country, Why because he knew the truth of his mothers death and wanted to keep them safe, after his mothers death/ Murder in the French Tunnel?
Exactly
Then maybe you should be the spare.
Totally. Being a spare is probably a blessing in disguise
Exactly! He and Meghan screwed up. They could have lived in one of the Commonwealths.
Let's be clear.. harry ceased to be the "spare" as soon as George was borne as his direct heir.. In fact.. he was never even a real spare.. as William had George before Prince Charles ascended the throne.
Wtf does that matter
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obviously matters to harold
That’s what you take away from this?
@@sheilalovett5075
what about it? Harold is not even a real Windsor.. so there's that
Be he was treated like a second class citizen for being the one who would replace william in case of dead before George was born. Therefore he was always The spare and you understand that lol
I don’t understand the fascination with Harry being the spare, and being overlooked. He isn’t the first and he won’t be the last. Anne was overlooked once Andrew was born, now Harry is overlooked now that George, Charlotte and Luis are in the picture. This is how it goes with the spare…as more are born in the line, they become lesser.
Add the equally media-hyped "controversial" relationship between Elizabeth and Margaret. I think the "heir-vs-spare" first became an issue during the Abdication of 1936 when the heir stepped down and the spare became king.
Miolim
Oh no the problem with the heir and spare has been going on long
before the Edward VIII.
Knowing that why no Isn’t Harry more excepting of his role? If he doesn’t want anything to do with the newspaper? Please help me understand his behavior.
I think Harry's behavior is rooted in the fact that his mom died at twelve years old. It stunted his emotional and mental growth.
Harry has Peter Pan syndrome,
and I think Meghan was able to use Harry's mental health issues to take advantage him to get her way.
As for the newspapers Harry likes to use the papers when it's good for him(and Meghan).
However, when the the media criticizes Harry he plays the poor
me card. Harry has complained about being in the media spotlight, but has complained that when George becomes of age Harry won't be in the spotlight because of indifference.
*George, Charlotte and Louis*
The calmness of William saying to the paparazi after the Opera Interview "we are very much not a racist family" is so admirable. Sounds like a future King to me.
Megain’s race depends on her mood and how much sympathy/attention she needs from her ‘die hard fans,’ and they refuse to accept she has faults.
sounds like a liar to me.
@lisabradford8180 I would want to knoe how my baby will look like if my husband has a different eye, hair or even skin colour. Not cos I would love or want the baby less. Out of curiosity.
@@elizabethrose5333 you i can possibily believe; the RF i don't
@@lisabradford8180 Even if Harry has backpedalled and stated that the remarks were not made as Meghan described?
I think it speaks volumes that William sought out that nanny and she was a guest at his wedding.
Megan was not a ‘movie star’ LMAO majority of ppl didn’t even know about her
Riggghhttt?!
@@jmala3192I was just going to say the same thing!! Movie star??? Hardly! B list cable tv actress? Yes!
@AC-wm8fi B-List in Canada, yeah! D-List, or even non-existent, in America!
Her 'star carreer' ended with the discontinuation of Suits and she was never offered another role.
Kkkate was a yatch girl 😂😂
Imagine being under a microscope from the moment you were born? I used to think being a royal must be so fulfilling and glamorous, but now I realize it’s a life filled with scrutiny, competition, judgement and gossip. There’s no amount of money, palaces, and crowns that would make me give up my privacy and peace.
Peace & privacy = priceless.
Glamorous?? This is not America
@@lilij1915 You should go on a worldwide tour to talk about how you think you’re doing something when you’re not. 😅
Service! It’s a life of service and privilege.
@@lilij1915 You are so obsessed with me. Weirdo.
@@marshapetersburg6694 That’s very true. It is a life of service and privilege.
I’m 39 & have just lost my mum, I cannot imagine the bravery of William! He was 15 🥲 hearing him talking to other bereaved people is inspiring ❤ I really admire him
I’m so sorry! I hope you are ok.
I am not sure that age is everything. Losing a close relative at any age can be devastating and life changing if the bond is a very close one and the death is sudden and unexpected. Some people experience this and don't have anyone to turn to.
I am so sorry. I lost my mum in March of 2021. I was 35 at the time. No matter what your age you still miss your mother/father. We only get one set of parents,and noone no matter how kind hearted can take their place.
I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my mum 4 years ago. I think of her everyday. Bless you. Peace. 🙏🏻
Thank you so much 🙏❤️
I love how playful Diana was with them. Her cheeky fun side sat well especially with little boys.
Loss and grief. My heart goes out to all children who have lost parents. From the separation to their mums death. One loss after the other.
True 👍🏾
Y s, but life does work out like that. Most of us have a laundry list by the e we turned 40 and we still had all the other worries of life.
Amen
I sincerely thank you for being so kind. I lost my mom when I was 21 & dad @ 23. It really took a giant toll on me.
However I was an adult. They lost their mom when they were so young. I CANNOT IMAGINE how DIFFICULT it MUST'VE been on those 2 @ that time.
And to make it that much worse they couldn't grieve like the children they were. Instead they had to hold it together & walk behind her while the ENTIRE WORLD watched on T.V. (myself included) & thousands in person.
I know they weren't forced to walk behind Dianas coffin & the boys felt it was their last way to honour their Mother but I still felt so bad for them.
William has grown into such an incredible & fantastic MAN HUSBAND & FATHER & is doing an incredible job raising his children.
He couldnt have chosen a better wife than Catherine. She is just breathtakingly gorgeous & such a wonderful MOTHER, WIFE & PRINCESS!
Harry cannot forget his grief. The media cannot stop publishing about his mother's life, and her videos and pictures are DAILY in front of us and today they advertise her "secret loves." Come on, there is no such thing; those secrets were told over and over over again, they are NOT secrets.
Whats so sad for William is he has no sibling support, mother to support him and sadly only when his father dies he will be King. So he wont have any of his family supporting him like Princess Margaret for Elizabeth, Princess Anne for Charles. Like Princess Charlotte will be for George. God bless you William, thank God you have your cousins.
It is sad but it is William's own doing.
He has a wonderful wife and the family as well
@@lisabradford8180 William had nothing to do with Harry's sudden about face on leaving. Given all the lies in the interviews with Harry nobody takes much notice of what he says any more.
His Choice
Thankfully he has a loving partner, wife & friend in Catherine.
The worst thing of all was that Harry knew his grandad was gravely ill and in hospital. The whole family knew the Queen was ill herself and worried.The world was going through the pandemic..and STILL Harry went along with the treacherous interview..CAN YOU IMAGINE? What kind of human would do such a thing? He was paid for that…how incredibly awful..
Grow up. Harry can't control when things are released. At least Harry has the guts to sit there and speak his thoughts and feelings; Instead of running to a newspaper to spew lies to gain advantage over someone else.
@@issae6535the irony of you telling someone to grow up when talking about Harry, a narcissistic manchild, is truly hilarious. You also clearly know nothing about the history of the Royal family and how they protected Harry's embarassing childish antics through the years 😂😂
Sorry but Harry didn’t have guts, he had a signed contract with Netflix, Oprah, publishers etc for $$$$, that’s not courage, that’s greed and disgraceful
@@missmew3499 how could he possibly embarrass a family with such a long history of marrying their own kinfolk. C’mon man.
@@issae6535But Harry has lied. Many things he said on the Oprah Winfrey show were proved FALSE/Lies.
William is kinda son you wanna have as a heir… he understands duty
Or he’s just a push over like the rest of
William must be kind ti Harry so that the soul of his mother Diana may Happy not Sad
the heaven will not prolong may be that king charles be a king of England that is why he become sick and also camillamay not be prolong be a queen
I think William has turned out to be a rather SNOB! I think he’s treated Harry like a red headed stepchild . Mainly because he didn’t like Harry’s choice for a wife! I also think Camilla is keeping this feud going as well!
Camilla has been a thorn in this families side for decades!
He shits on his own brother and disseminates information to strengthen his own positon. Wake up.
I love the documentary, but I dont feel bad for Harry at all, people forget The King had two brothers, and the late Her Majesty the Queen had a sister, these spares all found their own lane and went on to have their own careers. Dont forget the daughter of the Queen, Princess Anne, who held the firm strong.
Margaret and Andrew, the actual spares, had unhappy, questionable lives.
Both Margaret and Andrew were entitled and spoiled so they had questionable lives.
And what about Margaret?
So true!
The problem is that neither the family nor Britton will allow Harry a lane that doesn’t involve scapegoating. Cheap and petty.
When Harry wrote the book Spare, he was not a spare. William's three children were already born
Of course he means when he was young and I’m sure they were treated differently by some , it obviously had an effect
Once William and Catherine announced their engagement, Harry should have been looking for something meaningful to do - apart from the armed services. He knew that in no time, he'd no longer be the Spare, but how much charity work did he do, given the huge sums of money he was given to live on. That was the trade off - do the charity work and get paid from the Duchy of Cornwall. You don't get paid for doing nothing, and he wanted to be the party prince. Nice story about his losing his virginity by the way. Pure class - but that was the life he was living and you're not considered a working royal for the lifestyle he was living.
@@monique8641 he wasnt allowed to work as he was to close to the throne at that time
@@melissahamson7684 I was talking about charity work, which the Royal family is expected to do.
That is correct.
I think that Harry doesn’t believe in consequences of his actions, whereas William is very much aware of His duty. I am the youngest of three. Understanding the role you play in the family dynamic is definitely defined , whether you are aware or not, is always present.
Harry should be happy that he escaped the pressure of being the leader/King……William on the other hand has the great responsibility of the people and kingdom.
I am Sure Harry and his married wife are happy, they are now in safe place, after his mothers death " Diana's words, were also very revealing, she said "I will die in an car accident" its on you tube or eBay I think still to this day, I watched it yesterday again, and her death was spot, on after the crash in the French Tunnel. I think she had a gut instinct after hearing Charles talking on the phone to Camilla late and night, as well as the love love letters she sent to Charles. And also that Charles married Camila straight after Diana's death and had her crowned Queen, its still available on
you tube
According to the news Harry didn't scape.
@@jennygoddard6875 you need to recheck your facts. There is nothing immediate about 8 years. When was she crowned queen, exactly?
Life goes on.
They (Charles and Camilla) didn't get married until 2005. That was almost 8 years after Diana passed. If I were Harry and I thought my family killed my mother, I'd be screaming it from the rooftops. The fact that he isn't indicates to me that he knows she was chased by the paparazzi and got into a car with a drunk driver.
@@jennygoddard6875
Harry didn’t have to worry about his actions. He had his bad behavior covered up by the RF. It was funny and fun at the beginning. It got much worse as he aged.
I CANNOT imagine the vast amount of sadness that a 12 and 15 year old feels when their parent dies tragically! My mother AND stepmother both died when I was 27 (two months apart) and I had nightmares for two years straight afterward.
sorry for your loss
But imagine all these losses as Murders. Never-ending tabloids about their secrets. Digging up old pictures and placing them on magazine covers decades after they have gone. There is no forgetting when the whole world pays good money to see pictures of your loved ones decades after their death.
Imagin that the death becouse 3 men wre careless and he was murdered
@@ZsuzsannaBudapestnot trying to be rude but Ma'am, please be more sensitive towards people who are sharing their sad stories about their losses here by stating what they should imagine or not.
That's really not nice of you, and I think you should have known that by now.
Anyways
I hope you understand my comment, it's really not trying to be mean or disrespectful, just trying to explain.
With all due respect -
Greetings from Croatia ☺️
Dear gentle soul from Croatia! I am not aware that I had made hurtful comments against some people who reported their pain. But the incredible lack of uninformed criticism against the young couple really is glaringly all about the deep loss of their beloved Prince who chose a wife and left for California. It is the definition of whining, which they projected on Prince and his wife Meghan. @@Baky_T
Prince William and Princess Kate is the future of the Monarch.
GOD BLESS THEM AND FAMILY 👪 🙏 ❤
Last time i checked, her name is *C*atherine, Princess of Wales.
Help!!!
Kate is s good puppet only a pretty face.
She always says yes sir to everything, no matter how bad it is.
She puts women more behind.
Meghan married for money, Catherine for love .
@@angelikakatarzynaszalas5007 You actually know them?
William has always had to handle himself as future king. Harry, on the other hand, always acted up, no matter where or who he was with. He's still acting like a college student with his behavior. Now we see William's children's behavior and what an encouraging sign. Charlotte rules the roost which, like Anne, will be a good thing.
William maintains a facade, and the Royal machinery has been concealing his antics for years. There have been rumours of affairs, he literally took out an injunction to stop UK papers from publishing the stories. Several journalists have repeatedly said that his antics are concealed. He has a notorious short temper and is known to rage at his father, wife, staff and friends. Jobson, Junior, Robert Lacey have written about it. Jobson said Camilla was horrified at his fits of rage. He rails at Kate, and she has learnt to fight back. They throw things at each other. Harry confirmed everything when he revealed that William physically attacked him. They seem to have a very High staff turnover rate. Kate has had 5 private secretaries in 5 years (Google it). Their children's behaviour is concerning. George looks petrified, Charlotte is too bossy and Louis' behaviour at the Jubilee was atrocious.
I agree. As any modern royal, he was raised completely equally to William. William was two years older, of course he was a few steps ahead in life and some people confuse that with being treated differently but I don't think that was ever the case. Their parents made sure they were treated equally, never divided them, they were hands-on parents. While William had to carry the burden of being a future king and therefore not having the chance to choose a different career or lifepath, the world was Harry's oyster. He was in the incredible position of having been raised equally to a future king, given the same education, hobbies, privileges but also having the choice to be absolutely anything he'd wanted to be. Astronaut? Surgeon? Musician? Veterinarian? He just had to point at something and he would've got the best education, private tutors, books, absolutely anything to help him achieve his goals. And what did he choose in the end? The victim, the spare. Because that's the only thing he doesn't have to do ANY work for, he can jut sit on his pile of inherited money and whine, blame, trash others because he's a victim, he's the spare. Like we should feel sorry for the entitled man who even found ribbon cutting and shaking hands so exhausting that he and his wife had to quit.
@@fanni24 I wasn’t aware working royals could have another occupation. Harry and Meghan wouldn’t have had access to their own choices as working royals, right? Princess Ann didn’t want that life for her children, and it seems all are fine with it.
@@michelejensen1527 As working royals they can't have regular occupations because they're technically public servants, paid by the country, they have diplomatic roles and represent the head of state (the king) which is a full-time job in other countries as well. They also publicise British charities as patrons so more people are aware of them and donate to them. So they technically have a full-time occupation if they go down the working royal route that Harry and Meghan willingly chose when they got married. The late Queen offered them the choice of having no royal titles (Harry would still stay Prince just like Princess Anne but his wife wouldn't get a title just like Anne's husband didn't either), no state wedding paid by taxpayer money, no travels and trips around the world as representatives of the British Monarchy, OR the working royal life with a dukedom, titles, a public wedding, charities/patronages given to them according to their personal interests (Meghan was made patron of the Royal Theatre or something along those lines), royal trips around the world and of course a life-long duty. IMO Harry and Meghan only chose the working royal life to elevate their public image, settle into the royalty status, then break out of it, move to the US and make big money with big companies and business endeavors. But it's of course a huge conflict of interest as they can't use taxpayer money to spend on themselves but also venture out and use their gifted royal titles (which they should use to be patrons of small British charities and causes important to the UK) to get millions of dollars from lucrative business deals that only pay them because they can exploit their royal titles in the US through Netflix, Hollywood, etc.
Whether you like it or not Harry is more of a human and William is stone, like his father.
It is si painful that many many think "por Harry, but never think that William was suffering the same or Even worse knowing he had to support his little brother. Harry only thinks about himself.
Harry is thinking about his family as he should
@@deedramcconis1763
William is his family too
@@deedramcconis1763Selling your Status and family for💰💵 is not thinking of your family.
Harry only thinks about himself.? such a spiteful comment, Harry was quite young when his Mother Diana, died in that French tunnel, any child would be. To loose your mother must be dreadful. for both William and Harry. it will always live in there memory.
*Harry created an entire organization dedicated to helping others. Invictus Games has been an enormous success* that helps wounded veterans. What has Bulliam accomplished? And please don’t say that Earthshot crap that doesn’t even invite the winners of the prize to attend the actual ceremony. *How is Bulliam’s plan to bring peace in the Middle East going*
I truly believe William has it harder than harry. He gets over looked because he’s not as narcissistic as harry but William being in line for the throne is so much more stressful than standing around with your thumb up your ass being jealous as harry does.
Absolutely
William has married into a very stable loving family which has made a huge difference to his emotional world and must have helped to balm his wounds. Harry more or less lost it as an older teen, all is not well at the palace,, there is no place for error, emotions and humanness which Harry needed. It is true the Meghan was treated abominably by the British Press. Utterly vile, when Archie was born, some one posted a picture of a Human Mother and Father exiting a hospital with a monkey between them. Once Meghan wore a brown hat, that turned into a Poo Emoji, how low do you do go? She received death threats......who would want to stay U.K. under these circumstances.
Then you truly haven't paid attention. William has had everything handed to him on a silver platter and he put off being a working royal for as long as possible. Harry isn't narcissitic at all, it's a wonder he made it through his childhood, considering he was isolated and abandoned by Charles as soon as Diana died. Harry was never jealous of William, he never wanted to be King. Harry is on video in 2009 saying if he was allowed, he would live outside the UK. They wouldn't let him, but he always wanted to leave.
@@a.madison9625 I don’t agree with any of your fairytales
@@a.madison9625 Yes Harry did leave The UK, with his family to live in another country, to keep them safe, he knew his mother was murdered, that's why he left the UK.
Paul Burrell gets crazier with every interview. W & H did not call him "Uncle Paul" and it was not his job to change their diapers.
He was Diana rock and therefore there is a possibility he did change diapers and called uncle paul
Your little grey cells are telling you this eh! 🤔
I don’t believe a word Paul Burrell says. I think he makes a lot of stories up to be keep himself in the news & other media. Wonder how much he is getting paid.
@@railiedouglas3018 He wasn't as relevant as he wants everyone to believe. He was the butler.
I find this channel manipulative... showing ppl what they want ppl to know.... dissapointing really
Outdated - Harry has not been the "Spare" for as old as George is, becuz when George was born Harry as a "spare" became irrelevant! George is the next heir!
William and Harry shared an office together and Harry was never treated as "spare" but perhaps he should have been and made more aware of his future responsibilities as a second son. Most landowners left their property to their eldest sons, but their daughters and other sons would always know they wouldn't have the same good fortune from the beginning.
But George is the heir to the hier and not spare.
@@wendyturney8914 : Harry lived in servants's hovel on the grounds of Kensington whilst William had the best of Kensington Palace a 21 room apartment to which Harry could not just turn up to visit his bro - he was never invited but publi knew of the opulent state it is in given the amount £s spent to refurbish it for them. He then got upgraded to a better servant's quarters after getting married. He paid for the refurbishment
Seems you do not know what you are talking about!
@@mamkhwa8286 : Harry was spare until George was born. Before George if anything had happened to William - Harry as spare would then move from spare to heir. Once George was born Harry was no longer William's spare - George automatically became William's heir.
I quite agree with you Jill but you are so funny, i could stop laughing at the way you described Harry's habitats.
I see both as representative of their parents, in their spirit and demeanour.
William is dutiful, industrious within the confines of his role as Heir - distant, out of reach.
Harry, natural and real - accessible, approachable.
William has been moulded in the image of his father and grandmother, and, we cannot expect anything less from the future King.
Harry has been incredibly true to himself, honourable to his own family and his convictions, in ways that William couldn't countenance.
Harry understood that he didn't have to play by the rules of the game, when the table from which the game is being played, is crooked and unfair.
He utilised his position, to make a better life for his own family; went against the grain.
They both were born, raised and destined to walk different paths.
I think they’re both perfect representation of how different siblings are. But we have to remember that throughout history, this was the way of it. The first born son was literally prepped and educated to be King because after he has children, the succession then goes directly down his line. Harry is not a spare, he’s just his brother. Now, UNLESS, something happens, god forbid, to one of William’s 3 children, Harry is now like 5th or 7th to the throne. I hate that idea of him being the “spare.” It’s just not the case. The only time the brother is the “spare,” is really only during their younger years before they get married and have children of their own. In extreme cases of death down that whole line, that’s when we get brothers becoming king, or if they’ve usurped the throne like Richard, or through abdication like their great uncle had done. But nowadays truly extraordinary circumstances must occur before Harry is in line to be King. Nobody called Andrew a spare so this concept of considering Harry that is a bizarre one for me.
I don't think anyone referred to Princess Margaret as the "spare" after their father had the crown forced upon him by his brother, Edward VIII.
I think what happened to Prince Charles was awful because clearly he wasn't ready to be King. He had to find a bride and Diana was 19 at the time. Its ridulous when you look back on it now because clearly you are not physically and more importantly emotionally ready for it. Charles was always awkward and shy. Anne should have been the number one because she was a stronger personality and more st one minded.
Diana used to laugh at her role in the RF. She would say, "I produced an Heir and Spare." It was a joke that she told about herself. She knew she was more than that.
yes siblings diff but having diff fathers… genetics can’t be ignored
wonder how much personality Harry has of his father since physically twin..
@@Think-dont-believe Are you kidding? Harry's face looks just like Charles but with the Spencer coloring. There is a photo of Charles when he was about 2 and it is Harry's face. William was lucky, he looks just like his mother.
It’s amazing how one woman can cause so much damage to a family. It happens all the time. It happened to my family. My brother chose a narcissistic woman over me and our family. They divorced a few years ago and we have him back, but so much time was lost that we’ll never get back. My son grew up without the only male figure in his life, his uncle. It’s sad when I think back on it. Oh well, onward and upward.
Yes indeed , isn’t it amazing what a narcissist can do. His so entrapped in her aswell , it’s so sad , hopefully one day he wakes up , i’ve been under a narcissist spell so I know how hard it is to get out. ❤ I’m glad you got your brother back
and the fact remains that even if he does wake up and get rid of her and reunite with the royal family, the the victim changes, instead of Diana losing her mother, and Harry losing his mother we will then have Archie & Lily losing their father....at least as a set....and yet another divorce....diana's parents divorced, harry and megan will hypothetically divorce. It's a vicious circle. But lets not blame Diana and Megan....no this started long before they were born, with Charles and Camilla. They are the ones who are the family stain, right along with Charle's brothers for their shenanigans and along with Charles Uncle "David" the King that abducted. The Royal Family was a mess long before Diana and Megan.
@@deanawade5878 very true but fact remains you can’t help who you fall in love with . If Camilla and Charles would have been allowed to marry then none of it would of happened , sometimes who owns our heart and who we have to be with are 2 different things , hence the term the one that got away. Charles was now allowed to love he had a life of obligation .
@@The_huntress111 still sad
@@deanawade5878 yes of course I agree it’s very sad and would have been horrible for Diana aswell. But we all know in life there’s always that someone who owns our heart and logic plays no part in it , Charles chose Camilla his family chose Diana and because of his life of obligation he must oblige to there wishes , but we can’t turn our feelings off , at one point we’ve all loved someone we shouldn’t love . But yes it’s still sad 😞
can we let those two brothers figure out by themselves without us judging?? they love each other, they just don’t like each other at the moment. witch siblings don’t have a fight? just because they are royals doesn’t mean they’re not humans. They will eventually figure out.😢
Yes, especially when we only know certain details about their relationship, not the whole picture.
The only ones that do tell alls is harry & Meghan . Dont worry when William is king one day he wil strip both harry meghan & his kids too of all titles . In order to be a royal you must do charity work & not make money for profit . . Trust me the william will aleave them both of any "burden " of being a member of the family
True, but Harry has burnt all the bridges and feels like totally abandoned William when he needed the most and threw him under the bus. The role of a sibling cannot be replaced by anyone and H must stop reading tabloids if he can't deal with "the truth" that, he was always irrelevant in succession 😑 [i always thought he knew that b4 the actress came into the picture ]
@@Sun.Shine- Good morning,imagine being called the spare. that’s hurtful, kids are kids & equals. we shouldn’t put them through pain & much responsibility at a young age coz once they turn into adulthood is hard for them. By the way the actress has a name, Meghan Markle. have a great bank holiday monday 🙂
@@MissFaisa Markle definitely has been very successful in the so called “yachting business”. She was obsessed of climbing socially. But then she was too entitled and money grabbing to do the job. Nothing to brag or be praises about.
After talking about his brother's genitals, he has no argument. Absolutely horrific to still be playing the privacy card after that. He's shown such pure hatred "arch nemesis" and imagining killing his father, his image can never be rehabilitated as he is evil
My God, that lie was supposed to have happened 25 years ago? Harry was just 12 years old when his mother Died/murdered in the French Tunnel. also imagining killing his father, ? Charles his father, is now married to Camilla, his Mistress who for a very long time behind Diana's back and had her crowned queen in the UK, He is King. That is disgusting and shows they were both cheaters. Camilla and Charles.
Who is evil? You must be talking about yourself!
I agree, he showed the darkness he has on the inside..... that revelation about his brother's genital was not his story to tell.... he has shown his true color and it's dark and evil imo
@@Kadiekay1harry?? Where he say this?
Harry is very immature and lacks common sense.
So much time has passed, but even today when I see how the two boys followed their mother's coffin I can't stop crying,Yes, they grew up, they got married, they have children.But that searing pain of what happened on August 31, 1997 is here.Diana was so bright and radiant that she can never be forgotten. Courage, Prince William and Prince Harry, you have a lot to accomplish and may you succeed in making the world a better place as your mother would have wanted.
I too feel that image. I wept with them or instead of them, but I cried a lot.
I think she was a wonderful mother. William has said so in many podcasts. All these podcasts help to let his children know what a grandmother she would have been to his children. Negative comments should never be made. If u don’t have anything good to say, then don’t say anything.
Harry must love his brother they endured so much. However there is jealousy. William has more money, a prettier wife and will be King.
Harry must love his brother they endured so much. However there is jealousy. William has more money, a prettier wife and will be King.
Linda I think another reason why William is better off is because Harry’s emotional and mental health was stunted at twelve when his mom died.
Perhaps
@@lilij1915 15 actually
My heart absolutely goes out to both William and Harry. I was 9 when their mother died and vividly remember learning of her death , her funeral procession, and randomly, Elton John singing at her funeral. I lost my mother at 22, so I can definitely understand a bit what it’s like to lose your mother, though 2.5 billion people didn’t watch my mom’s funeral. I wish Harry peace. His dad made the woman who brought so much pain in his mother’s life, his wife and Queen. That’s tough. I wish he and Meghan much happiness going forward.
You're absolutely right. How hard must it be for both boys to see the woman who, along with their father, made their mother's life hell now crowned as queen.
I just wish they could mend fences. Family relationships are the most valuable thing you can have.
Very well said, thank you.
@@pamfendlason3817 NO, not if those relationships are involved in TREASON! Harry is ONLY a half-brother to William and that CORD was SEVERED when Harry (and MM) tried to DESTROY William (so Harry could be King after Charles). NOTE: In a Monarchy, TREASON is treated just like Attempted Murder BECAUSE the goals are the same. TOTAL DESTRUCTION OF THE RIGHTFUL HEIR! Your notion of a “reconciliation” due to “family” is TOTALLY MISGUIDED and would never be agreed to by ANY rightful heir. Also, it’s TOO LATE! The agencies (MI-5, MI-6, Scotland Yard and Palace Security are ALL ON GUARD to make certain that Harry NEVER again enters a Royal residence. And the current Monarch cannot call them off sicne that looks like collusion. (They can’t even have food or drink at any area that plans on welcoming Harry.) No real wife (like Catherine) would NEVER agree to “reconcile” with a MONSTER like HARRY who HATES with the degree of hatred that would DESTROY his half-brother and children (who are ALL rightful heirs). What loving wife would invite a serpent to dine at her table? Blood may be physically thicker than water, but that’s all. Remember, the FIRST murder in the Bible was that of Fratricide! G-d had a realistic notion of brothers. Remember, the office of “Prince of Wales” was created to STOP the heir from killing his father (so the heir could inherit on his own timetable).
megan will never allow Harry to mend any fences
Often when people get married, it completely changes the dynamic. It happens in every family. It often depends on the new additions to the family and their willingness to maintain a good relationship between the two brothers. Hope they will find a way to reconcile. They are nice together. I wish all the best to this family and good luck.
William has been lucky in that Mike Tindall and his cousin Zara have stepped up to support him as have the remaining RF and the Middletons. I don't think Harry is so fortunate, he has neither extended family or in-laws to look out for him, he is not in his country of birth and I am not sure if MM would sacrifice her own career or celebrity status if he needed her help.
Harry, the fact that it happened so quickly.... Usually means you've been taken hostage
A hostage is someone who has been captured by a person or organization and who may be killed or injured if people do not do what that person or organization demands. It is hopeful that two hostages will be freed in the next few days. Read about the team of authors behind Collins Dictionaries.
And that's possible true of Harry, because of the lies spread about him and his mothers death/murder in the French tunnel!
Heir or spare I dont care!!!! The most important thing is that they came out from the same womb of their mother!!!! Got it?❤
I would think that being the 'spare' would be a better position, in my opinion. You get almost all the privileges without the heavy responsibility. Harry could have used his position in the Royal family to do so, so much good and he threw it away. He missed out on seeing it from this vantage point - he could have had a wonderful life....
@gallopinggoose7997 he was pleasing his wife, he's gullible and naive outside the palace, and that's not a judgment. I would consider that to be a fact
Harry lost his mother Diana in the French tunnel, with very suspicious reasons, That is also why Harry left the UK with his family to keep them safe by living in another country!
My heart goes out to both of them - they are like us, trying to navigate their way in the world through their own lenses. I wish we could put the journalists personal lives out there for all the world to see. Especially, Rupert Murdoch.
His name is appropriate , murder rhymed.
William took his time and married very well, a steadfast family oriented woman we have seen blossom into a charitable and fashion icon. Harry raced into the arms of a relative stranger and jumped off a marital cliff....hoping for the best. William learned from his parents woes, and Harry has seemingly copied the disaster that he himself experienced.
William fooled around a long time and then took the last woman left around.
@@mmason9836Whether she was the last women around or the first women around, she's proven to be a women full of class and dignity who's been nothing but a blessing to the royal family she's shown that she's respectful, responsible, family oriented and actually follows protocol and rules without whining.
@@mmason9836how was she the last left around. That's utter rubbish. He could have had many women after her, but he chose her..and thanks heaven he did. She had proven to be the best thing that's happened to the royal family.
lol, the women William wanted to marry, Jecca and Lily, both turned him down. He got stuck marrying Kate because she had her eye on the crown. He began cheating on her when she was pregnant with George and he would rather be with his mistress, Rose Hanbury, than with Kate. He hasn't lived with Kate for the past year, he's at Kensington Palace and she's in Windsor with the kids. They're leading separate lives. In fact, he hasn't seen her since July 6th and it's September 7 now. They're both going to France this weekend, but they're going separately and going to different soccer matches. What kind of happily married couple does that?
He's just like Charles, cheating on Diana. Kate better watch it or he will divorce her as well. Harry is the only one with a happy marriage. He actually loves his wife, he wasn't forced to get married to produce an heir and a spare the way William was.
@a.madison9625 Nothing like a fine conspiracy theory suiting the awful Sussex lying duo. Thought you might have figured that out by now?
In any monarchy the heir wants the freedom that a spare might have.
Harry had it all - status, money, family, was loved by most for his work with the Invictus Games, a beautiful home, a son, a daughter and a wife he loved but he threw it all away. He was not bound by the same rules as William, he could have his freedom or his privacy and everything else but nothing was enough. Not sure quite what it is that he wants these days as he has lost the respect of his extended family and most people, has few prospects of earning a living from any reputable means, is probably losing the respect of his wife and he doesn't appear to have an escape route or Plan B.
@@wendyturney8914 erm, no.
EVERYTHING he has said and done since his marriage is controlled by his wife.
It has to be proven his kids exist.
@@wendyturney8914 Total lies, just crap you talking about Harry like you knew him, but as that was 25 years ago, I doubt that totally, and Harry has NOT lost respect in the UK? but Just lies to sell used to sale newspapers, and convince the people in the UK
@@wendyturney8914 Did you ever even met Harry 25 years ago? that I doubt. also that fact that he doesn't appear to have an escape route, Why do you think he left the England with his family ? Harry knows the truth, read his book Spare. He left to keep his family safe in another Country. Look up the real Facts. I know what country he went to with his family. It was Australia.
That is crap. They are both strong in their love and devotion to their own family. Yes, MM is a powerful lady, but she loves him. Where does this insane idea come from? They have rented children? Don't believe that. @@Quaker-tc8ue
Long live the future King William and Queen Catherine.
Help!!
The day before Diana was killed, I was in a head-on car crash right at the top of the hill, a few hundred yards from my house. I was injured and was recovering at home in bed when my husband at the time, brought me the paper. I was shocked beyond belief!!
I am a 49 year old from the U.S. I have no ties to the monarchy whatsoever. (As far as I know) I have always been interested and immensely respected the royals. Like many, I was so devastated when the world lost our Princess. I was one of theUS citizens who was skeptical but excited when Harry and Meghan started courting. However I had a feeling she wouldn't be good for Harry more than anything do the cultural differences I've seen that in my own family. Megan has no respect whatsoever for Harry's culture I was actually a fan until I realize the damage she has done. Harry I know you miss your mom but you have chosen evil over good and I understand your struggles even though I'm not a royal or a princess by far add me the same mistakes. It's so very sad so very sad that Harry allowed Megan to ruin his relationship with his family.
The wise people say, " Don't build up your happiness on someone else's tears" because it'll get you back.
H&M could choose different way to build their happy live in their way.
Instead, because of their controversial actions, they lost trust and respect in their both families and public.
Paul Burrell is obsessed with Diana. Every documentary about Diana, he always pops up in it
He was her best friend he worked for her for 15 years & he worked for the queen before he worked for diana . He seeen firsthand her mood swings her ghosting people she thought wronged her .
@@partlycloudy3519 He may have said that he was her best friend, but there were plenty of people of the same level as Diana who she considered to be her friends. He was a member of staff, who was no longer employed after her death, but has spent the rest of his life sponging off her memory and making some mighty clangers of mistakes.
@@monique8641, completely agree with you on that
He knows where the money is to line his pockets. Personally I believe he was& still is in love with Diana. Being in these interviews he acts weird every time he says her name His eyes light at the very mention of her name yet he won’t speak out against the things Harry is saying about Diana. If he was such a good friend he wouldn’t let Harry get away saying the things he does. Some needs to put this Paul & Harry into a trash pail & nail the lid down. This guy irritates me.
@@partlycloudy3519 ghosting people she thought wronged her . That was Camila and Charles, I hope Diana haunts them till they die and then face God for the sins of adulteries in her marriage to Charles.
The thing is - all royalty aside. Who would try to take his whole family down like that in the public. Telling family related private stories and secrets and talk bad about family members like that?
Who would openly tell the world his brother is circumcised & he is not. Who would tell the world he rubs his mother’s favourite hand cream on his manhood to the world. Royal or not people don’t do that. I shouldn’t say who would as Harry did & still does. What bothers me is he hasn’t just stopped with his family he’s attacking ex girlfriends. Chelsea doesn’t deserve Harry talking about her knowing full well he’s not just hurting her but her husband & friends had to listen to listen to what Harry is spouting off. Shameful
@@maryskinner1329 Oh Gosh more lies about Harry who you never met or knew 25 years ago?
@@jennygoddard6875 Read harry book....Liked or not @maryskinner1329 is telling the truth!
@@jennygoddard6875not lies, she’s just quoting what H wrote in his book Spare.
@@jennygoddard6875hello sugar....those items are directly grom Harry's book...take YOUR made up nonsense elsewhere!
Harry seems to be influenced by the Hollywood, playing the victim. I understand his side, feel for him, and not judging him. But wow! Fantastic documentary!! Thank you!
Harry was a victim, he lost his mother at a very young age, how painful is that to a child? She adored her two sons
It is time to stop gossiping about Harry and leave him alone. Live and let live!
@@jennygoddard6875you are saying william DIDN'T lose his mother also??????????? My god sugar.... no wonder your group regularly threatens the Wales children.....
@@valentinastrelnikova5036if only Harry would leave his family & us all alone.....
They have provided the Media with lots of material.They will never be poor.
I miss Diana like the rest of the world. It was a tragic loss. However, how long do we need to rehash this? Let her soul rest in peace and Harry and MM need to stop cashing in on her tragic pass!
And how are they cashing in on Diana’s memory? What are you talking about? Harry has lost his Mum when he was a child and it will always stay with him.
Harry has a problem with tabloid press. A lot of stars in Hollywood have been traumatized by tabloid press. He is not cashing in on his mom. His mom’s last moments exist because of the tabloid media in his eyes. He has said it a million times, he has a phobia of the tabloid press and might even hates them. This has influenced his relationship with his family members and made indirectly him and his brother fight and forced him to flee England making him an outcast in his own family.
That is not your call how long the Princes are allowed to stay publicly Diana's sons.
The Royal family are human like us ,just remember this 😊
Just barely.
You get those dynamics in other families not just Royals. Being second born is often different. The eldest is often treated as more important. Middle children are often scape goats or are ignored. Girls are sometimes treated as less important. Parents often like one child more than the others.
Other than primogeniture, most families do not have issues of succession, duty-without-remuneration & journalists prying & photographing whilst people like Burrell present private stories for scurrilous reasons & for huge money.
I'm # 5 out of 8, and you are right, the eldest carries a lot of burden being the first. The "baby" seems to get away with everything! 😂
Having been both a child of & a parent myself, I wouldn't say a parent "likes" one child more than another, but maybe a parent just finds it easier to connect with one more than the other.
@@cindytartt4048True to some degree you are right but not long ago the first born child would inherit the estate and the second would become a priest or some other spare position. Second class citizens are not treated as well as first class citizens right. Children fight and even kill over their parents estates.
@@magaperson3402 how is that true, was you treated that way, if so, I am so sorry for you
The looking btw heir and spare such huge difference.
Prince William is born to be heir. We are glad god chooses him.
The freaking background music was so loud I couldn't hear the story 😢
In the old days, Harry would have married a wife who set him up to kill his heir brother or who had him poisoned herself. This kind of royal dramas have been going on for centuries. Weak princes marrying ambitious wives.
Well, I think Harry succeeded in everything you said... He is weak for sure.
I feel Harry was always jealous of Wills. 👑 Wills has class, Harry hasn't..🥱
Wills will make a truly amazing KING 👑 I hope I'm still alive when it happens. God bless the Royal family. 🖤🖤🖤🖤
Harry never complained about being a spare until he lost that position, with the birth of Williams children...or probably more to the point, when Meghan got into his life and experienced how that impacted on her status. With her around, him NOT being the heir became a big issue...and what followed is their never ending vitriol aimed at Prince William and Princess Catherine.
Because of the way the monarchy is structured, I think it is what it is. You can say "what if" all day long but it doesn't change the fact that life has no guarantees. It's heartbreaking that they both lost their mother at such a young age, which could have caused Harry to rebel, possibly. And now he's totally distanced himself as far as possible from the royal family. His father never loved Diana, it was all just a mess. But the royals will continue on regardless of what happens, and protect their monarchy as they always have.
@moteleyes2 You are so confused. Have you gone back 4 generations to see where Diana's family's power and money came from? (Hint: The name "Spencer" is NOT involved.) Have you studied the 7 sources of Diana's mental illness? Or, do you just believe Diana's lies? Your version is malicious gossip! And very mean and harmful and unfair. (Repeating false gossip does not involve brains or wisdom.)
Diana was no angel, she had numerous affairs. She knew how Charles felt about Camilla, EVERYONE knew. Diana thought she could change Charles, make him love her. You can’t do that. She was chosen as the baby maker, sadly, nothing more.
Diana loved being Princess of Wales nut never loved Charles!
@@abbatrouble - She was a naive teen who was infatuated with Charles and the idea of being a princess and eventually Queen consort.
@@abbatroublethat, my dear, is utter bs. She absolutely adored him but realised within several years that this love would never be reciprocated. Nonetheless, no one thinks she was at all perfect. She was a flawed woman & that’s undoubted.
I think its telling that Harry claims that William and him weren't close like everyone else is claiming. I also don't believe a word Paul says either.
Paul's knowledge stops when Diana died and he had no job at the palace. I've heard him making stuff up or covering up matters about which he knew nothing. He's had no official contact with the RF since Diana died and is only guessing by now. How would he know anything about the princes given that he's had no contact since they were children.
They weren’t close cause they are really different and Harry admired to have a bit of jealousy
Megans creepy obsession with princess Catherine is very concerning !!!!
The media finally turned to brother against one another. A big congratulations 🎉👏👏👏
No Harry did that, read his own books.
In his book “Spare”, one of the reoccurring themes Harry wrote about was how he didn’t cry after his mom died, which Paul contradicted by saying Harry *sobbed* in his arms the first time he returned to Kensington Palace.
Charles told the boys not to cry in public , that's how cold the RF are. Despicable.
There a lot of discrepancies in Harry’s book.
@@jackieholt51 That doesn’t change that Harry wrote he *never* cried.
@@ichangedmynameforyoutube True, but that was a blatant one contradicting the major theme of the book.
@@AF-ut7rb No he probably still does, the point I made how his dad , had told them both to hold it . Two young boys.
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Meghan was the worst thing that ever happened to Harry. She was totally unsuited to a life of service - too self-serving and self-focused.
They are 2 very different people and their personalities shows this. No family is perfect 👌
Interesting how the Royal Biographer Penny Junor talks about Diana's sons walking behind her coffin, saying they walked with their father, their grandfather and Charles Spencer instead of categorically stating 'their maternal uncle Charles Spencer' or something to that effect. It is like a deliberate yet very very subtle way of distancing the two boys from their maternal relatives and by default throwing light on how their Father and Grandfather were doing the decent thing of walking behind the coffin. 20 min into this documentary and Penny Junor's tone, facial expressions, choice of words, sentence formations, etc set a theme of 'that incompetent mother and poor William'. While not a word of the boys' father and how he really was the main and biggest reason for a lot of that family going up in flames. It seems like a very effective documentary to lure people into adopting a certain mindset for and against certain people in the UK Royalty. If one is not observant enough - they'll get pulled in and quickly lose any sense of objectivity. Frankly speaking, a very public cheater and adulterer is the UK's new Monarch. When that itself is acceptable, anything else is paltry.
Walking behind the coffin wasn't about the boys, it was a tribute to Diana and it was supposed to be about her. Charles Spencer wasn't an uncle to her, he was her brother but it was more appropriate to actually name him and also highlight that as a Spencer, he was close family to Diana, than just throw it out there that he was the boys' uncle or Diana's brother. He deserved to be called by his name.
As for who caused more traumat to the boys or who didn't, Diana heavily burdened William with her marital struggles and even her affairs with other men. William was a young boy and shouldn't have been the subject to Diana's venting. She was insecure and relied on a 10ish year old boy who also happened to be her son. What healthy, emotionally mature mother does that? She should've gone to a therapist if she'd needed someone to talk about her problems to.
I fear you're the one who's losing objectivity when you shame Charles for adultery but excuse Diana for the very same reason -- even worse, you simply fail to write about it as if it had never happened. She was an adulterer. I hope you can cope with that.
@@fanni24Diana was an adulterer is true, HOWEVER, she did not reach out for comfort until CHARLES made it clear that his love was NOT for her. He made it clear to Diana that she was a pawn in the game and he would do whatever he felt like doing. Can't blame her for looking for comfort elsewhere.
@@carlaforth7707 That might be true but honestly, it doesn't justify cheating in my opinion. The whole marriage was a mess and the press made it even worse by interfering and invading their privacy. I don't think Charles' cheating was right, I don't think that Diana's cheating was right either and I don't think it was the right thing for Charles to do to hurt Diana by confessing his love for Camilla, nor was it right how Diana played games with the press to make the public love her and hate Charles. It was a terrible business between those two and their children were the real losers in that position. William seems to be healed from that trauma mentally and emotionally but Harry is clearly still affected by it, not having processed and accepted it yet.
@@fanni24yes, you are so right. The children are the ones that were the real victims in that whole mess.
Yesss I also noticed
It blows my mind how people act like siblings don’t go through things growing up,I am praying that they stick together like Diana would want them too.
You cross To study the History Monastery money 💰💰
They didn’t, everything started when megnut came.
A clear distinction between the relationship that is William & Catherine, compared to Harry & Meghan, is that Catherine has supported William in becoming the best version of himSelf, YEARS before the married... they were still in college as friends, when she encouraged him not to drop out & to pursue courses that felt good for him... they are major support systems to/for each other, which proves the stability & security of not only their marriage but the example they are setting, including in how they raise their kids.
With Harry & Meghan, she feeds his insecurities, his traumas, his fears... it's a trauma bond. 2 people using each other for validation... & I was initially very supportive of them, as many were around the globe! Their wedding was beautiful, & people lined the streets outside the church to be in support, for miles down the road even to cheer them on! So the fact that they have the nerve to keep using racism projected on the whole, is just mindblowing to me! Meghan loves looking like a victim & because of what Harry witnessed with his mother, his undealt with trauma is primed to be triggered by a woman that he loves even REMOTELY being the focus of scrutiny... THAT'S the rub with what makes their relationship so toxic & part of why the brothers' relationship has been strained so much. It's sad, but this is what narcs do; they try to separate you from the people who love & care for you the most. The ones that they can tell you have a meaningful bond with, so that they can remain your focus & get as much as your attention as possible. If anyone questions obvious codependency or red flags, then the narc will play a victim card to win over their supply.
I think its a blessing for the British kingdom, that William is next in line, because he & Catherine will do an amazing job,
Whaaaat??
@@birmania5754 What was unclear?
Bingo.!
Team Prince William. He is a class act and made both parents proud.
Yes ,
he is a true Windsor . . .
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@@ritahorvath8207 a name the royals changed thier names to in order to sound more english (which they r not) they are flipping brothers not captains of rival teams!! Diana would turning in her grave
Comments like this are always amusing because they're so wrong. William tormented Diana when she was alive by refusing to take her phone calls. He blamed her for the divorce event tho it was Charles and Camilla who were behind it. Diana didn't want to get divorced, she said she was fine with Charles living with Camilla at Highgrove and leave her alone in Kensington Palace with the boys, but Camilla wanted to get married so they forced Diana out.
But William didn't care, he told her if she's just kept her mouth shut and never did that TV interview, they wouldn't be divorced. He ignored the fact that Charles also did an interview where he admitted cheating with Camilla. He took his father's side anyway and broke Diana's heart by refusing her calls. He was having a temper fit the day she died and refused to talk to her when she called from Paris. He disapproved of her dating Dodi, probably parroting his father's views. He also called her "paranoid," again repeating Charles' gaslighting. William is horrible.
Harry never treated her like that. He was 100% on her side.
The Windsors are not British.@@danztosti8528
Harry inherited his mothers moral codes, help the poor, create better life for women@@a.madison9625
I lost my dad same age as them, i have a brother too, if he betrayed me that would be the biggest loss in my life and I'm of the kind i don't believe people change. Once broken cannot be put together.
Harry didn’t betray William full stop!
@@dhyanidsouza2430 you must be trolling. Someone can't be as delirious as this
@@freespiritable But you are?
Diana was quite right to replace nanny Barnes if she was becoming too familiar with her boys. In my mind, having the boys cuddling in bed with the nanny was very inappropriate if that's what was happening, and overstepped the bounds of her employment. Penny Junor tries very hard to paint Diana in a negative light, even suggesting that Diana was "possessive" & had no right to be a mother to her children as she saw fit and proper.
I find it hard to agree. An infant deserves a close loving relationship with their caregiver, preferably a parent, but at least someone who is a regular in their day to day life
Human interactions are incredibly important for young children in learning how to form relationships, bonds, connections. Diana was hardly burdened with a heavy workload, she didn't have a 9-5 job, she had royal engagements a few times a week but apart from that she could be with her boys. It was not the nanny's fault that the children formed a close bond with her instead of their mother because she wasn't around that much. Of course that's understandable in a way because Diana herself also came from a noble family where nannies raised children and spent most of their time with them so they were often closer than to their own mothers.
@@fanni24 On the contrary, in Diana's situation their mother wasn't with the children while growing up because custody was awarded to their father in a bitter divorce battle. The British courts customarily give custody to men who have aristocratic titles of nobility like Diana's father had. Her father was 8th Earl Spencer, which is the reason why Diana was titled Lady Diana Spencer prior to her marriage to Prince Charles. Her father, John Spencer, served as equerry to King George VI and to Queen Elizabeth II, so it's obvious that he was no doubt given preference over Diana's mother in the divorce.
As for the attention Diana's sons received from their mother, I doubt that nannies could have possibly loved and cared for the boys as much as Diana did. She was well known for spending time with the boys as much as possible, especially on school breaks and holidays. If either of the boy's parents were cold & distant, I suspect it was Charles, not Diana.
Diana was jealous of anyone who took the love she wanted. It is documented that the way she got rid of Nanny Barnes really affected William. She was just gone from his life suddenly because of her jealousy.
I was a nanny and an au pair, the parents had no problem me being close to the children and on occasions cuddle. Children show their love to you that way, you don't reject their search to be close to you, be it physical or emotional. When they get older they are more independent and don't tend to hug you as much as a nanny.
And as it turned out William and all Harry’s friends who urged caution were right. Oh well. Hopefully he will find another way of making money than slagging off his family. Maybe, since “service is universal” they will consider doing something other than photo shoots.
Its the press and photographers that do all the photo shots. Harry and William never slag of there there families
Love between brothers are and will not be destroyed. Wish you all the best dear William and Harry. Your dearest mum Diana is always caring for you both.
How people have forgotten to be kind. Even at the highest of society. Sadly this is irreversible 😢
Kindness would be needed on both sides for this situation and even if shown would be likely to be twisted and retold as a different "truth". Trust has gone forever, the best that can be achieved is toleration as long as the only topic of conversation if the British weather and even that might be miscontrued.
Family is special and people should respect that bond God gave families for strength. The family that prays together stays together.
Families are created by mothers.
This would be a valid documentary if it wasn’t for Burrell claiming he was practically their father when he was nothing but a mere servant.
Thank you!!! I can hardly watch documentaries that he is involved in. Listening to him you’d think that Diana’s life revolved around him and all his “advice” etc. I wasn’t a fan of Diana particularly but OMG!!! It’s just grating!!!!
Harry and MM's documentary didn't mention how she told a friend that she ghosted that they were one plane crash away from the throne.
Penny Junor is one of the worst people to ever expect a non biased opinion on Charles and Diana.she disliked Diana and never misses an opportunity to express her dislike…
she witnessed Dianas BPD so I guess she realises she wasn't the saint every one tries to make her out to be. Makes a change from those who cant move on and still openly mourn with the baying mob when they didnt even know her. Different perspectives, different views but Penny knew her better than most of us mere mortals.
I can’t remember one interview PJ has ever done that was positive about Diana.
I really like Diana I loved everything about her, but as the years went by realised she was no angel. She played the press like Harry is doing now, she tipped them off where she'd be, but when she didn't want them she was annoyed. I realised she wanted to be more important than the future king. However she was a much better person than Meghan she did genuinely do some good. Meghan is all about Meghan. As Jordan Peterson said about Meghan when she opens her mouth she drips fakeness.
I wish they wouldn’t use penny’s opinions as part of these programmes. Every one I have ever watched with her in it, she is negative about Diana, saying some pretty unkind things. That dickie arbiter is also horrible. He referred to Diana as ugly in certain photos!!
I agree!!
In the book of Anne Glenconner, Lady in waiting, it said that the her nanny, Barbara Burnes who looked after her children, then went to look after prince William and Harry and stayed with them since the princes went to school, so she didn't quit when william was 4, as this lady is saying...
Harry pretends the Netflix show and his ‘novel,’ Spare is his side of some story, but the reality is that it’s self serving, egotistical, mean & grubby. He’ll never recover whilst the new royals will go from success to success in his absence.
I don't care what you think, but Harry no doubt is glad to no longer be a royal I am sure. and have a life and love that he wants.
Thank god, William was born first.
Why make the music so loud that it drowns out the voices?
I really enjoyed this. Thank you for the video!
It is sad that Harry didn't realize how important his support was to William, also how many people LOVED Harry and his wild free spirit and he could have paved such a great life with the hand he was dealt and couldn't see it. I am sure William felt pressure and sometimes wished William had Harry's easy come, easy go because William was restrained by duties. It was a doubled sided coin for each and I wonder how things could have been different if they could have communicated better and Harry would listen and understand the roles. I guarantee if Harry would have stepped up like Anne has, Harry would still be as popular and loved by the people, He would have been so respected by standing next to William and his father but he chose a different path, that clearly has not worked out for him. I am in Texas and grew up with these 2, and it has been sad to watch this disconnect of the family. Titles and rank only go so far, but family tops all of that, at the end of the day, when the job of the day is done... you look to your family and I am positive William could have used his brother as someone to bounce ideas off of and just be "William" around Harry, ( I know he has Catherine, but you always need your trusted brother or a male mate that can understand strains and vent to on another level) but that has been ruined, William will never trust Harry again. Heartbreaking and as much as Harry prances around the USA, we can see it in his eyes... He has lost a piece of himself with his choices.
Thank goodness William has Mike Tindell as a good friend and great replacement for the brother who trashed and betrayed him.
I don't understand why people act like they shouldn't be allowed to go out and make a living, like everyone has to. "They should donate their earnings to charity."
"Excuse me, sir? Do you donate your earnings to charity?"
I was a young adult when Diana died and my heart ached for those kids. But this: 8:12 I cannot agree with. My mother died when I was 13 y/o, after a long illness. I would not have felt my grief devalued if others were grieving too; I think it would have been a blessing to know that somebody else gave a s***.
We weren't supposed to speak of Mum, & the lack of care I received after she died contributed to joys like molestation, neglect, drugs & alcohol use, promiscuity & the complete inability to trust anyone, ever. I know that these 2 fared better than that and I'm glad. (Edit: spelling)
Let me cry a River for Harry. Meanwhile William accepts and defends the monarchy. The Princess Royal would never “whine” about her incredibly privileged life! Instead the Princess Royal worked longer and harder to serve the British people. Take heed Harry to the example of the Princess Royal
why anyone would defend a useless relic of the past is beyond me tbh
The life of the heir vs the life of the spare are very different, and in my opinion it doesn't need to be a contest about who has it worse because there really is no way to measure it. No two people walk the same path even if they grow up in the same environment.
I can't help but to wonder why everyone has apparently forgotten that the Queen herself had a very similar relationship with her own sister. She and Princess Margaret were very close as children but had a very tumultuous relationship as adults due to many of the same issues that William and Harry have.
That is Princess Margaret, I suppose? Princess Anne is her daughter.
There are millions of ways to measure it. William has never had it as hard as Harry. William is the heir, he has always been protected from birth, Harry just the opposite. They began throwing Harry under the bus to cover up for William's misdeeds when Harry was only a child, and he was never able to defend himself, he always had to be the scapegoat for William. Here's an example.
Camilla's son is a cocaine addict. You can Google it, he's been to rehab. He was at University with William and he was William's drug dealer. Every bad thing you think Harry has done, William did them 2 years earlier but it was covered up, so you never heard about it. So when William got caught with drugs, Charles and Camilla called an editor at the Daily Mail, and told them that Harry had been caught with weed, and he had to go to rehab. That wasn't true in the slightest, they simply made it up so the papers would report on that and leave William alone.
So imagine you're Harry, you're 14 years old and you wake up one day and the front page of the Daily Mail says: DRUG ADDICT HARRY IS IN REHAB. Now, you're in your bedroom and you know you haven't been caught and you're not in rehab. You know your brother and Tom were caught with drugs and nothing was going to happen to them. But what do you do? You call your dad and ask him to call the papers and tell them you're not in rehab. And your dad says, "Just ignore it darling boy, don't pay attention to it"
Of course you don't understand at the time that your dad and Camilla concocted the story in order to protect William but eventually you figure it out and you're still not allowed to say anyth9ing. Then multiply that by 10,000 times that it happens again. That was Harry's life. And imagine that William knows exactly what you're going through and he doesn't care. In fact, he tells you that's your role in life, to cover up for all his messes.
Harry held back in Spare, he could have told much worse things. I'm glad he escaped. No one deserves to be treated like that.
But the queens sister didn’t then go and blurt lies, exaggerate the truth, outright ignore advice about relationships, blame others for her mistakes, diss & blame the British public. Harry has not acted with respect & dignity. He has just decided to play the victim card.
@EmilyCheetham actually she did a few of those things, and didn't hide her feelings either.
And when were you there to know if Harry was telling the truth or not? My guess is that you weren't. Nor was I. I just happen to have a different opinion than some of you busybodies who seen to believe that you have a say in who he decides to marry. Because that's when all of this started. A bunch of bigots are mad because she isn't 100% white. I've seen and heard plenty about it. And I don't care! I'm too busy living my own life to be so invested in a stranger's. He doesn't owe any of you a thing. Move on.
@@madreep A. It was proven that not everything said on the Oprah Winfrey show was true. Also B. I didn’t have a problem with her when they married. I was very happy for them and watch the wedding. It’s once they started refusing anyone so much as see a picture of their first born, then complaining about things and wanting to be half in half out etc that I started to think they weren’t very good.
So William called Markle 'difficult, rude, and abusive". Well he sure as hell wasn't wrong. And her and that bloody grip of doom she always has on Harry...
Yeah, he was totally wrong. He couldn't control her so he hates her, it's not difficult to understand. She told him to "Please get your finger out of my face," and ever since then he bullied her out of the Palace. As for her grip, he's the one who can't stop holding on to her, we just saw a week of it in Dusselldorf. I'm glad he has someone who loves nd understands him because he lost that when Diana died. Some people enjoy hearing the truth instead of the Palace Propaganda. William has never had it as hard as Harry.
William is the heir, he has always been protected from birth, Harry just the opposite. They began throwing Harry under the bus to cover up for William's misdeeds when Harry was only a child, and he was never able to defend himself, he always had to be the scapegoat for William. Here's an example.
Camilla's son is a cocaine addict. You can Google it, he's been to rehab. He was at University with William and he was William's drug dealer. Every bad thing you think Harry has done, William did them 2 years earlier but it was covered up, so you never heard about it. So when William got caught with drugs, Charles and Camilla called an editor at the Daily Mail, and told them that Harry had been caught with weed, and he had to go to rehab. That wasn't true in the slightest, they simply made it up so the papers would report on that and leave William alone.
So imagine you're Harry, you're 14 years old and you wake up one day and the front page of the Daily Mail says: DRUG ADDICT HARRY IS IN REHAB. Now, you're in your bedroom and you know you haven't been caught and you're not in rehab. You know your brother and Tom were caught with drugs and nothing was going to happen to them. But what do you do? You call your dad and ask him to call the papers and tell them you're not in rehab. And your dad says, "Just ignore it darling boy, don't pay attention to it"
Of course you don't understand at the time that your dad and Camilla concocted the story in order to protect William but eventually you figure it out and you're still not allowed to say anyth9ing. Then multiply that by 10,000 times that it happens again. That was Harry's life. And imagine that William knows exactly what you're going through and he doesn't care. In fact, he tells you that's your role in life, to cover up for all his messes.
Harry held back in Spare, he could have told much worse things. I'm glad he escaped. No one deserves to be treated like that.
@@a.madison9625, yeah and it's William's face on that Nazi costume 🤦♀And if you want to leave the press and live "a normal life" it makes total sense that you give interviews, make podcasts, make show... yeah, super normal 🙄🙄
@@claudiateixeira5158 The FACT is, Harry was a teen who sought the advice of his OLDER brother who told him to wear that vile costume. Where was William's judgement? Why does he get off scott free when it wsa his idea for Harry to wear that? Harry has apologized, William has done nothing but hide behind his title, as usual. And what was William doing, throwing parties where his guests were in Blackface and mocking Jewish people? We all know now that William and Kate are racists, it's all out in the open. So you can stop pretending there's a problem with Harry.
He also never said he wanted privacy or to disappear from the planet. He DOES have a normal life and yes, it's quite normal to produce documentaries, travel, make podcasts and everything else that keeps the economy going for hundreds of employees. Harry is 100 times the man William will ever be, and Harry got the smarter, prettier wife as well.
@@a.madison9625, wait! Am I talking to Harry? Please, grow up.
@@claudiateixeira5158 A normal private jet set life of polo playing, living in huge mansions, attending one celebrity event after another, trashing your family at every opportunity - and that is "normal" to you?
The music is WAY too loud to hear the voices clearly.
This goes to show that all people have different stories. And those watching on the sidelines need not judge any of them. Whether they need/want to be heard or not, each and every one of them maintains that right.
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Agreed both deserve their own opinions, both have had it hard at times. But Harry outright LIED and exaggerated. He blamed the British public and dissed them. He didn’t listen then complained when things went wrong. He wanted all the glory without the hard work. Much of the British public have lost all respect the had for Harry and Megan. No family is perfect but what Harry and Megan have done was wrong.
@@EmilyCheethamyes. What those two have done is despicable. They're evil.
@@missmew3499 well at-least Harry and Megan are out in America and we don’t hear much from them most of the time. I think they would cause a lot more trouble if they were in uk.
Im American and I remember going to pick uo my newspapers to deliver and reading on the front page about Diana's death. I was young, but I cried. I knew how amazing she was and I felt awful for the boys.
What I don't understand is why so much hatred towards his brother. It's not his fault he was born first that was a wise decision made by our Heavenly Father, nobody else. He knew Henry would choose evil. So thank God for that 🙏❤
30 minutes in.. when Harry described the beginning of their fast and star's aligning relationship... it was truly the exact description of my most soul destroying and torment filled past failed relationships. He is more describing a personality disorder than true love.. and it's kinda sad to see how much faith he held in what he perceived as true mutual love. Hindsight really is everything. But I really don't know what happens in Harry's case- if things don't work out.. because he really has no life to which he can return. Megan has full control.. and he is the most unprivileged and isolated -yet seemingly privileged Prince on the face of this earth.
His Mum would be so sad...
I so agree, Harry was just used as a scape goat for the death of his mother as was Diana who many replies blame her for her own death!
He won, in hindsight we now know the media was sabotaging him so he would not bring a case against him which his father and brother settled quietly.
I thank all the powers that be, that Prince William was firstborn 🙏🙏🙏
Do you think Diana would be happy with gingers hatred of this father and brother? She respected the Monarchy as does William. #2 has unhealthy obsession with vengeance, he has the audacity to compare Diana with malicious Meg
Allegedly
Prince William and Harry came from the same stock. Sometimes, realism shows itself, and since Harry no longer has the cover of the Palace, we see his truth.
Let’s look at Princess Royal, Anne. There is no excuse. Harry is a grown man, and Princess Charlotte already exhibits to be an amazing supporter of Prince George. Everyone has their role. They are all important. It’s sad that Harry couldn’t see that. He was important to the Firm, but it took a viscous snake to make him think otherwise. I suppose they are meant for each other. This is not a love story… Harry and Meghan are a tragic story.
Look at the Sussexes now. They have failed on their own doing. All the lies have been exposed. Her mocking the late Queen is irreparable. We will never forget. Never.
Princess Diana was a wonderful mother and a beautiful human being ❤
But I do not think she would like the man that Harry has become though she would still love him. Harry's children face a very uncertain future
Gone way too soon...
She was far from “pure as the driven snow”
Queen Camilla very beautiful better than Diana
She stalked her lover’s wife when he ended the affair. Shes gone Fatal Attraction on anyone that rejects her. Google Oliver Hoare.
I forgot how heart stopping gorgeous William was. Whew, chile
WAS being the operative word.
@@lisabradford8180 he's still better looking g than most and definitely better looking than his brother, just in an older more dignified way.
Stay mad
@@takerkellygiveusbacktupac617 i can't be mad when i'm too busy LMAO! 🤡🤡😂😂
@@lisabradford8180 baby, that's not the flex you think it is.... at all.
Have a lovely night.
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Why does everyone say Spare, PH is supposed to be his brother's right hand man, filling in for his brother, for e.g charity event etc. Did anyone see how William was looking at 12 year old Harry, when they walked behind their mother's coffin, he was worried about the impact on PH, its a tender look, caring, he loved his brother. How many times did his sister-in-law, Catherine try to get them to reconcile?
Prayers for the healing of this FAMILY