This is such a dumb situation - on both sides. I don’t get into things with strangers - you never know if they have a knife, gun, or are just generally unhinged.
I agree. All the same, however, this whole idiocy started because defendant Pogue decided to make a petty issue out of rubbish and nonsense, as someone socially unattractively stepping through his open door which was meant for his wife; who was allegedly taking too long to go through. If I had to use the restroom and I was threatened to urinate into my underwear, I'm sorry about the indecorum. I am RACING into that restroom; if a door is kindly being held open and no one was going through. Where Mr. Xue went wrong was turning around and fanning the flames by firing back "no, YOU'RE rude" at the defendant; an equally dumb move. All of this would have would have pleasantly been prevented if Mr. Pogue simply realized that someone really needed to use the restroom. Mr. Xue wasn't just racing in for no reason.
This would NEVER happen in Canada. If you hold the door open for 1 family member, and there’s a gaggle of strangers also traveling in the same direction, CONGRATULATIONS, you’re now employed as a door man.
I wait until the people come through the door and usually one of the people will hold the door open for me. Or I wait until the person holding the door tells me to go ahead.
Hahaha if you watch her she’s shaking her head at everything he says from the beginning. I love that the people watching have as much fun as we do. If I lived in LA when this was on I’d go to every taping.
yeah I was cringing too for a minute there! I used to work in a rock quarry and truckers would ask to use our nice office bathroom. I told them a condition of use was to leave it as clean as they found it and wash their hands. I could hear if the sink turned on or not. Had to chase one dude back into the bathroom to wash! After being told! Sheesh.
He offered a little too much information there. lol. You can just say you used the bathroom and came out. You don't need to specify what you did or which appliances you used. We'll figure it out.
My kids always loved opening doors for people, now they’re 20 and 18 and they still do it automatically 😊. It’s so validating to see the traits you instilled from a young age. Such a difference in being born and being raised. In this day and age, they were both lucky neither one got shot! Now being rude can kill you ☹️
I always hold the door open if someone is coming in!! I'm from Alabama though so you know, we got that southern hospitality!!! We're nice to everyone until you do us wrong, lol!! Love y'all!!!
I don't doubt southern hospitality, but it's just something you do if you were raised right! I guess I'm just defending the north as well 😄 most people in NY do this too (not NYC but upstate and Long Island suburbs)
@@nthgth Some good hospitality you got going on in NY with that Asian woman who got stabbed up 40 times by a certain Homeless guy who they simply passed off as 'mentally ill.'
One winter up north blowing away, falling down, sliding involuntarily on ice - with hundreds of people around you..... your concerns are different. You yell some obscenity and you both move on.
@@nthgth45 minutes might as well be Iraq. Born in queens, live in Brooklyn. New Yorkers are some of the nicest people in the world. We just have our own way of talking and speak the way we feel. But if your in a jam in my neighborhood, a ton of people would stop what they are doing to help.
I don't consider walking through an open door rude at all. What's really rude is expecting everyone else to stop coming and going thru the only door because you weren't holding it specifically for them.
Defendant has the most fragile ego. He hogged the door and expected the world around him to stop. Then was pondering about his hurt feelings while the plaintiff was in the washroom 😂.
I am an Asian American, and to be honest, Chinese has a culture of being RUDE on making linning. You are in line for something, and if a bus fully load with Chinese rourist coming to the event, they will burst right after getting off the bus and cut into the line without ever looking that people are lining up for.
Yes. I worked at a casino cage and most people who tried to cut in line were Asian. I had to call out several and told them they cannot cut,they need to go to the end of the line. It must be a cultural thing. But I can't fathom why anyone,no matter what the culture,would think it's ok to cut in line in front of a bunch of other people.
I experienced this as a foreigner in Hong Kong. I was leading a group of American college girls around an amusement park, and the locals were pushing past us in a cue for an exhibit. This is extremely rude back home, so they didn’t know how to handle it. I moved to the back of our group and turned myself into a human barricade. People actually ran into my leg I’d propped up on the rails, and looked at me like I was crazy. We didn’t speak the same language, but when I shook my head and said “no” firmly they got the hint.
So true! I was in Tokyo shopping one day and a group of Chinese tourists came by. I had picked up a cute baby onesie and was admiring it when suddenly it was snatched out of my hand. I was shocked and looked over and it was a tiny Chinese babushka. She looked at it, smiled, and then handed it back to me😂 that’s when I realized there’s a stark difference between Japanese and Chinese culture.
This reminds me of a time I was going into Starbucks. A woman with a tray of drinks was walking out, as I was walking in. I stepped to the side to hold the door for her. A 20 something rushed in front of her to leave first. I wanted to trip that rude twit. Some people just have no respect these days!
Your right. I’m in college and sometimes when I’m coming in, I opened the door for others to come out, and they don’t even say thank you. Is usually the younger generation. Just plain rude.
i know right? JJ is suggesting that during the time he's holding the door waiting for the wife, nobody in that busy restaurant is allowed to cross the doorway LOL.... come on.....
Yea if she was really far away I'd have probably gone through too. I think a simple excuse me or thank you after he went in would have changed the situation. But I'm guessing that didn't happen. Need to see part 2 😣
I’ll hold the door for the first door but if they don’t say thank you, then I only open the second door enough for me to go in. They usually run into the door. Should have said thank you. 😊
How do you get back infront of them after they went past you while you were holding the door? Also why do you treat blind people so poorly, clearly they didn't say thank you because they didn't see you holding the door, that's the only explanation as to why they would walk into the second door.
So you're only holding the door for people so they say "thank you"? You're only supposed to do things out of the "kindness" of your heart, not your ego.
@@a-a-ron772 Imagine walking into a building and opening the door for yourself, whilst someone is coming up behind you to walk in. I hold the 🚪 for them to hold for themselves. I hope that helps.
?? Never been to a restaurant that did not have a front entrance with standard, double door access... that pretentious asian brat clearly thinks the world revolves around him, as he could easily have opened and entered through the other door next to the door that the father had held opened for his family. (Maybe getting bitch slapped into next week for being too lazy to open his own door, will finally teach him that he is not better than everyone else and maybe next time he will think first, before insulting anyone. We all know miserable, entitled people like this obnoxious asian guy, and we all know he has been getting away with treating everyone like trash for ages, until he finally met a guy that was not going to play that game! Cheers to the father that tried to knock everyone of the smug asian guys grilled teeth down his throat!)
when i’ve been in a similar situation, i’ll stop and wait for the person the door is being held for to make it to the door (couple of seconds max), but usually the person holding the door will tell me to go ahead. i say thank you and go about my way. it’s that easy 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
This happened to me once: I was holding the door for my wife to leave a restaurant, a beyond rude woman walked in, nose up in the air, thinking she was the bee's knees, and as she was squeezing past me, hissed at me that she can open her own door.
This happens ALL the time when I'm with my kids and my grandmother, I always become the businesses door opener,which I actually don't mind! Luckily I always get a thank you! People always open doors for me as well, Just common courtesy I guess.
To me too, but then it happened that women who rudely barged in also hissed at me that they can open their own door. So I stopped doing it, and now take care nobody other than my wife goes through that door while I hold it for her.
@@sunbeam9222 Oh, I'm still a gentleman to the women I know, I just won't try to mindread what some random woman likes or doesn't like. Effinism is a women's project, and if they don't like the result it's their job to fix it. They are so strong and independent, they got this.
I get the defendant being annoyed initially because I can’t stand when people do that either. But he should have left it alone after their first exchange.
Speaking of rude, I was at a grocery store one time and I saw a woman coming towards the door, so being the gentleman I am, I held the door open for her. Well, she snapped at me with “why are you holding the door for me?! Do I look disabled to you?!” I said “fine,” and let the door go, 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣!! She just glared at me so I said “have a nice day, KAREN!!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Damned if you do, damned if you don't. My rule of thumb is if the woman looks like she's over 30, I'll hold the door for her. If she looks under 30, I'll just gently give her the door but not hold it for her.
I'm on the plaintiff's side. If I had to pee really bad and he was going slow I would scoot past them too. The defendant is a petty hothead. I bet he's probably been in road rage incidents.
@Marlon White he hasn't even spoken yet. We still don't know what happened. Not saying he's innocent of it, but we have one side of the story so far. He's said about 5 words so far.
idk, i lived in CA for years before going back to the east coast.... Californians are soft af. The remarkable lack of effort it takes to offend people out there is nothing like I've ever seen before.
How did someone let their wife and kids into the restaurant, go home, change clothes completely and come back to fight someone all in the span of this man using the bathroom????
i mean as someone who has lived here my whole life it is pretty much true. There is a bit of divide between northern and southern but yes. people are very coddled and entitled
@@LaLobita2011 I will go to my grave saying San Fran is not SoCal 🤣🤣 California is definitely it's own country, like Texas 😂 it really is beautiful, but there's a whole wide world of beauty.. won't go back 💚
@@shaykrazi3640 Very true. I'm an east coast native and I lived in CA for 6 years. Biggest culture shock for me was how incredibly sensitive people were. It's so easy to offend anyone and people are quick to get upset when you call them out for anything, even if they're clearly wrong..... so bizarre and backwards to what I grew up around.
Thanks JJ, this is the picture you painted for me and who else? (When you get past 5, then return to experience Real Life! Where was the plaintiffs Mom, she could have held her babies' hand!)
Umm idk why JJ is trying to villainies the plaintiff. The defendants were probably huddled around the exit/entrance doors and hogging the whole space. In order to walk out, all he did was slip past them and the defendant’s very fragile ego got hurt. For the defendant to punch him following the incident is crazy and Jj should be directing her anger at him.
Listen at 2:09 - Defendant's wife was no wear near the door, and he was holding the door open for his family as he waited for them. So per plaintiff's words, there was "hogging the whole space". Instead of squeezing in just ask "may I?" like a polite person. But that doesn't mean he shoud be hit for it. Still would like so watch that part 2 though that's taking a while. lol
I would hardly call it vilifying. She told him that he was rude and he was. Then he escalated it by saying it back to the defendant. Ridiculous and childish. It doesn't excuse assault but I would hardly call it, making him a villain. By the way, "villainies" isn't a word.
BUT DID HE ACTUALLY HAVE A DIFFERENT OUTFIT ON??? Lmao... The Plaintiff telling a story like he went to pee and the Defendant ran to his car and whipped on his "fighting clothes", like he was cool with getting it stained with blood... Or it was supposed to be a disguise to witnesses, idk 🤣
You shouldn't have been rude, but it didn't give Karl the right to touch him. Karl is older, which means he's supposed to know better. He had to be adult in the situation.
You ever see fosters home for imaginary friends? The episode where everyone went to the mall to get Madame Foster a birthday present and the character Wilt is holding the door for everyone going in and leaving the mall and he’s literally out there all day 😂😂😂
WOW! The maturity of the plaintiff was amazing!!! And at 20 years old!!! He is not an accurate representation of Northern CA but he sure is making them look better lol.
WOAHHHH WOAHHHHHHH WOAHHHHHHH hold up! After seeing part 2 I had to come back and update this lol. He is literally suing this man JUST because he punched him!!!!! Okay now he makes CA look bad again lmfao what a wimp omg!!!!!!!!
This reinforces my dread for society..first off the little weasel plaintiff could have just said "Im sorry " when the defendant called him rude and it would have been over
So far I don't believe the plaintiff is telling everything as it is, but we'll see what the defendant says next. Defendant's body language is questionable to me so far
"If you grew up in Brooklyn, you're not so interested in your feelings. You're interested in getting across the street." 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hilarious.
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@@paulineslonim3391 I thought so!
This is facts though lol
These days though, feelings come first there too.
This is such a dumb situation - on both sides. I don’t get into things with strangers - you never know if they have a knife, gun, or are just generally unhinged.
I agree. All the same, however, this whole idiocy started because defendant Pogue decided to make a petty issue out of rubbish and nonsense, as someone socially unattractively stepping through his open door which was meant for his wife; who was allegedly taking too long to go through.
If I had to use the restroom and I was threatened to urinate into my underwear, I'm sorry about the indecorum. I am RACING into that restroom; if a door is kindly being held open and no one was going through.
Where Mr. Xue went wrong was turning around and fanning the flames by firing back "no, YOU'RE rude" at the defendant; an equally dumb move.
All of this would have would have pleasantly been prevented if Mr. Pogue simply realized that someone really needed to use the restroom. Mr. Xue wasn't just racing in for no reason.
Agreed. Especially nowadays.. many people are unhinged ....
@@achen5689
This would NEVER happen in Canada. If you hold the door open for 1 family member, and there’s a gaggle of strangers also traveling in the same direction, CONGRATULATIONS, you’re now employed as a door man.
FR 🤣 🇨🇦
So true! And if this happened, then the "sorry!" Storm would begin
Same in Maine. Most people think we are part of canaduh anyways lol
Well, that's normally what happens in California too... 😅
@@natashamcavoy2432 💯🇨🇦
In the Midwest we'd just say, "Ope sorry, I'm just gonna squeeze past ya here quick." Of course these two boneheads had to escalate the issue.
We do say that tho
In Canada as well lmao I find myself saying that all the time "Excuse me, I'm just gonna squeeze past :3 "
Add a "yall"or a "honey" and ya got the whole of Appalachia as well.
I wait until the people come through the door and usually one of the people will hold the door open for me. Or I wait until the person holding the door tells me to go ahead.
Bless your hearts
Unless defending yourself, there’s no reason to put your hands on someone.
Comfort, it’s a nice gesture 😊
At least one more reason to fight or hurt someone.
@@shavonneaga7740 😢
Wrong is always a reason to put your hands on someone 😆 you just have to decide if you woke up with a violence that morning!!!!!
@@angeladavis2010 lmfao we choosing violence we drag em out by his dread locs 🤣🤣🤣
Who ends up in court over holding a door open? 😂
Only this dude 😂
Merica!
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Frl I’ve never heard of a case over a door being held open 😂
😂😂😂
Even if it happened as told and he was rude for doing it but that doesn’t mean you hit a person.
Hold that thought, we haven't heard from the defendant yet.
Nah he hogged the entrance
Indeed. Whether someone is rude, doesn't mean you hit someone. That's assault.
@@giancarloc1985 Having watched part 2 of the case, both litigants were in the wrong. I agree 💯.
Yeah the defendant is a bitch for wanting to fight. It wasn't that deep.
The black women's reaction @3:39-3:41, when the plaintiff said the defendant said he came back in with different clothes 😂😂🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂 the head tilt is hilarious
Lol a whole bunch of em!
😂😂
her and 2 others around her did the exact same move all at once, and so did i cuz i was really confused 😂🤣
Hahaha if you watch her she’s shaking her head at everything he says from the beginning. I love that the people watching have as much fun as we do. If I lived in LA when this was on I’d go to every taping.
In my town in the U.S., you hold the door for elderly, kids, someone carrying a baby, someone with their hands full, etc. No second thought needed.
I’m so happy JJ clarified that he used the bathroom & then washed his hand cause I was like uhm what!? 🙃😂
yeah I was cringing too for a minute there! I used to work in a rock quarry and truckers would ask to use our nice office bathroom. I told them a condition of use was to leave it as clean as they found it and wash their hands. I could hear if the sink turned on or not. Had to chase one dude back into the bathroom to wash! After being told! Sheesh.
He wasn't thinking!
Hang Ups
The women behind him when he says it too lol. Three of them are like 😟
He offered a little too much information there. lol. You can just say you used the bathroom and came out. You don't need to specify what you did or which appliances you used. We'll figure it out.
My kids always loved opening doors for people, now they’re 20 and 18 and they still do it automatically 😊. It’s so validating to see the traits you instilled from a young age. Such a difference in being born and being raised. In this day and age, they were both lucky neither one got shot! Now being rude can kill you ☹️
I'm in my early 30s, and that was something I was taught to do. I thought that holding the door was a normal human interaction to do.
I always hold the door open if someone is coming in!! I'm from Alabama though so you know, we got that southern hospitality!!! We're nice to everyone until you do us wrong, lol!! Love y'all!!!
I don't doubt southern hospitality, but it's just something you do if you were raised right! I guess I'm just defending the north as well 😄 most people in NY do this too (not NYC but upstate and Long Island suburbs)
Nope, that is indeed Southern hospitality, because I have been to the South and those people were so sweet to me in spite of my brown skin.
@@russwriter17 then northern and southern hospitality are synonyms lol
@@nthgth Some good hospitality you got going on in NY with that Asian woman who got stabbed up 40 times by a certain Homeless guy who they simply passed off as 'mentally ill.'
@@russwriter17 right bc that always happens. Or, that _never_ happens below a certain latitude 😑
Idk if New York City politeness is the standard we should all live by 😂😂
Good point😂
😂😂😂
I don't think NYC _anything_ should be an aspirational standard. Having grown up 45 min drive/ train ride from the City.
Except maybe bridge design.
One winter up north blowing away, falling down, sliding involuntarily on ice - with hundreds of people around you..... your concerns are different. You yell some obscenity and you both move on.
@@nthgth45 minutes might as well be Iraq. Born in queens, live in Brooklyn. New Yorkers are some of the nicest people in the world. We just have our own way of talking and speak the way we feel. But if your in a jam in my neighborhood, a ton of people would stop what they are doing to help.
Love judge Judy we need more judges like her
Yeah right, she should be a judge and not a feelings police. OH YOU WERE RUDE! Today everything is considered rude!?
I don't consider walking through an open door rude at all. What's really rude is expecting everyone else to stop coming and going thru the only door because you weren't holding it specifically for them.
I LOVED how JJ called out Cali for being the state where "feelings" seems to be ruling everything; "I feel offended, therefore I'm right!"
That's liberalism for you
Try crazy conservatives in the south. They are a whole different level 😬
Yeah we should all be mindless robots.
@@lewid019 are your feelings hurt
It's all of America now.
All this could have been avoided if the plaintiff knew how to say “ excuse me please “
No one says excuse me anymore.. manners are basically non existent now!! 😳
That's pretty soft of you
Defendant could also just not care. So busy being a tough guy he got his hurt feelings hurt when someone walked through a door. Poor thing
@Seth Brown Exactly
Usually an open door means you can walk through it
It still does not justify assaulting him. The Defendant probably has anger issues
Defendant has the most fragile ego. He hogged the door and expected the world around him to stop. Then was pondering about his hurt feelings while the plaintiff was in the washroom 😂.
He was just trying to be like Trump.
Dumb and dumber if you ask me.
I am an Asian American, and to be honest, Chinese has a culture of being RUDE on making linning. You are in line for something, and if a bus fully load with Chinese rourist coming to the event, they will burst right after getting off the bus and cut into the line without ever looking that people are lining up for.
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Yes. I worked at a casino cage and most people who tried to cut in line were Asian. I had to call out several and told them they cannot cut,they need to go to the end of the line. It must be a cultural thing. But I can't fathom why anyone,no matter what the culture,would think it's ok to cut in line in front of a bunch of other people.
I experienced this as a foreigner in Hong Kong. I was leading a group of American college girls around an amusement park, and the locals were pushing past us in a cue for an exhibit. This is extremely rude back home, so they didn’t know how to handle it. I moved to the back of our group and turned myself into a human barricade. People actually ran into my leg I’d propped up on the rails, and looked at me like I was crazy. We didn’t speak the same language, but when I shook my head and said “no” firmly they got the hint.
So true! I was in Tokyo shopping one day and a group of Chinese tourists came by. I had picked up a cute baby onesie and was admiring it when suddenly it was snatched out of my hand. I was shocked and looked over and it was a tiny Chinese babushka. She looked at it, smiled, and then handed it back to me😂 that’s when I realized there’s a stark difference between Japanese and Chinese culture.
This reminds me of a time I was going into Starbucks. A woman with a tray of drinks was walking out, as I was walking in. I stepped to the side to hold the door for her. A 20 something rushed in front of her to leave first. I wanted to trip that rude twit. Some people just have no respect these days!
Your right. I’m in college and sometimes when I’m coming in, I opened the door for others to come out, and they don’t even say thank you. Is usually the younger generation. Just plain rude.
Disagree with Judy; if the wife was really far away from the door then I do not blame him for going through.
i know right? JJ is suggesting that during the time he's holding the door waiting for the wife, nobody in that busy restaurant is allowed to cross the doorway LOL.... come on.....
You haven’t heard from the defendant yet
Yea if she was really far away I'd have probably gone through too. I think a simple excuse me or thank you after he went in would have changed the situation. But I'm guessing that didn't happen. Need to see part 2 😣
True, but he did say squeeze in. Doesn't sound like she was that far away to me. Still rude but not worth fighting over. Let's see......
Exactly. She is not the queen of England that I have to wait for like forever for her to take her time to exit the door. It's a public restaurant ffs
I get high on Judy giggling at her own jokes 3:13
I’ll hold the door for the first door but if they don’t say thank you, then I only open the second door enough for me to go in. They usually run into the door.
Should have said thank you. 😊
How do you get back infront of them after they went past you while you were holding the door? Also why do you treat blind people so poorly, clearly they didn't say thank you because they didn't see you holding the door, that's the only explanation as to why they would walk into the second door.
So you're only holding the door for people so they say "thank you"? You're only supposed to do things out of the "kindness" of your heart, not your ego.
@@a-a-ron772 Imagine walking into a building and opening the door for yourself, whilst someone is coming up behind you to walk in. I hold the 🚪 for them to hold for themselves.
I hope that helps.
?? Never been to a restaurant that did not have a front entrance with standard, double door access... that pretentious asian brat clearly thinks the world revolves around him, as he could easily have opened and entered through the other door next to the door that the father had held opened for his family. (Maybe getting bitch slapped into next week for being too lazy to open his own door, will finally teach him that he is not better than everyone else and maybe next time he will think first, before insulting anyone. We all know miserable, entitled people like this obnoxious asian guy, and we all know he has been getting away with treating everyone like trash for ages, until he finally met a guy that was not going to play that game! Cheers to the father that tried to knock everyone of the smug asian guys grilled teeth down his throat!)
Pretty true about California. As an east coast native, I lived in CA for 6 years and one thing I noticed was how incredibly sensitive people were.
Where's part 2? The suspence is killing me! I'm gonna faint lol 😆
The older guy lost the case, had to pay 2k for punching the "rude" guy.
It’s posted
when i’ve been in a similar situation, i’ll stop and wait for the person the door is being held for to make it to the door (couple of seconds max), but usually the person holding the door will tell me to go ahead. i say thank you and go about my way.
it’s that easy 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Yep!
two weird people are happened to be in the same place at the same time LOL, it takes two to tango.
This happened to me once: I was holding the door for my wife to leave a restaurant, a beyond rude woman walked in, nose up in the air, thinking she was the bee's knees, and as she was squeezing past me, hissed at me that she can open her own door.
"Excuse me" and/or "Thank You" would have worked.
This happens ALL the time when I'm with my kids and my grandmother, I always become the businesses door opener,which I actually don't mind! Luckily I always get a thank you! People always open doors for me as well, Just common courtesy I guess.
To me too, but then it happened that women who rudely barged in also hissed at me that they can open their own door. So I stopped doing it, and now take care nobody other than my wife goes through that door while I hold it for her.
Yes exactly. Not something you need to end up in court over 🙈
@@YouD0ntSaysad that you stop being a gentleman because some stuck up cows are telling you to.
@@sunbeam9222
Oh, I'm still a gentleman to the women I know, I just won't try to mindread what some random woman likes or doesn't like. Effinism is a women's project, and if they don't like the result it's their job to fix it. They are so strong and independent, they got this.
@@YouD0ntSay ouch you sound a bit resentful Maybe the pathetic gender war has got you also, shame.
Idk: if the wife is taking too long to get to the door and I’m having a bathroom emergency I may not wait either
But wouldnt you say “thank you!” Or “sorry! Emergency!”
But you would probably say "Do you mind" or" Excuse me I need to pass in a hurry"
@@katbar6066 not if I’m about to piss on myself !
🤣🤣@@Gavin_Gavalli
Always be Humble and Kind
"my feelings my feelings!".....lol. 2:44
A simple “excuse me & thank you” . The defendant was wrong for returning and assaulting the kid but at the same time that kid needs to learn manners.
JJ: You were rude squeezing past.
Also JJ: In BrOoKlYn We DoNt CaRe AbOut FeELiNgS, JuSt GeTTinG AcrOsS the StReEt
I get the defendant being annoyed initially because I can’t stand when people do that either. But he should have left it alone after their first exchange.
Speaking of rude, I was at a grocery store one time and I saw a woman coming towards the door, so being the gentleman I am, I held the door open for her. Well, she snapped at me with “why are you holding the door for me?! Do I look disabled to you?!” I said “fine,” and let the door go, 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣!! She just glared at me so I said “have a nice day, KAREN!!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Damned if you do, damned if you don't. My rule of thumb is if the woman looks like she's over 30, I'll hold the door for her. If she looks under 30, I'll just gently give her the door but not hold it for her.
@@professional.commentatorperfect solution!😊
That's B.S. and you know it.
@@smashthebug4723 Nah some feminist-minded women are like that though.
Mother always taught me to be polite and respectful to others no matter what.
Even if they're disrespectful to you? Even if they're bullying you?
Yeah, right, Judge Judy, she should be a judge and not a feelings police. OH YOU WERE RUDE! Today everything is considered rude!?
My mother taught me not to use violence to solve my problems! It's worked well for the entirety of my life
Meanwhile in Canada someone will open the door for you while you’re a good 2 metres away from the door 😂😂
Dang straight I will.
We also say thank you to ATM machines.
That's it, I'm moving to Canada. 🇨🇦✈️
@@QAsession it's not really that way in Canada. They are just as rude!! Maybe it depends where in Canada?! I'm Canadian btw🙂
Same for Michigan! 😂
I'm on the plaintiff's side. If I had to pee really bad and he was going slow I would scoot past them too. The defendant is a petty hothead. I bet he's probably been in road rage incidents.
And you could tell that how?
@@drejones1823 The fact that he hit him because he scoot passed him. Imagine cutting him off in traffic he'll probably shoot you.
@@drejones1823 Easy to tell things by somebody's demeanor
@Marlon White he hasn't even spoken yet. We still don't know what happened. Not saying he's innocent of it, but we have one side of the story so far. He's said about 5 words so far.
You could still be polite and ask Karl if you can go in first because I need to use the restroom? Just say please, thank you, and excuse me.
She said people in California hung up on they “feelings.” 😅
Part 2? The suspense is killing me
Did you survive? 🤣🤣🤣
Hahaha, hopefully you make it through part 2 because there's a part 3 😂
I'm from California and this is the most ridiculous thing ever. I promise we're not all this way haha!
idk, i lived in CA for years before going back to the east coast.... Californians are soft af. The remarkable lack of effort it takes to offend people out there is nothing like I've ever seen before.
True. But again, not all of us 🤣
How did someone let their wife and kids into the restaurant, go home, change clothes completely and come back to fight someone all in the span of this man using the bathroom????
Lol I dont think you heard the case very well.
I don t think the defendant had time to go home and back during the time the plaintif used the bathroom...
He couldn't use the bathroom. He wasn't a customer yet.
This has got to be the pettiest case I have ever heard. Even Karens in the court have brought better cases than this.
All this over a freakin door 😂😂
Did Judge Judy just diss Cali hahaha
I literally would’ve just told him I’m about to shit myself. I’m sure that would shut him up real quick 🤣
Cali was talking about feelings before rest of us 😆
Hahaha 🤣 that dig at the whole state of Cali 😂😂
Unfortunately true, the younger, the worst…..(Angeleno here)
@@shaykrazi3640 I was raised in North county Diego for 23 years, left 14 years ago and will never go back lol
i mean as someone who has lived here my whole life it is pretty much true. There is a bit of divide between northern and southern but yes. people are very coddled and entitled
@@LaLobita2011 I will go to my grave saying San Fran is not SoCal 🤣🤣 California is definitely it's own country, like Texas 😂 it really is beautiful, but there's a whole wide world of beauty.. won't go back 💚
@@shaykrazi3640 Very true. I'm an east coast native and I lived in CA for 6 years. Biggest culture shock for me was how incredibly sensitive people were. It's so easy to offend anyone and people are quick to get upset when you call them out for anything, even if they're clearly wrong..... so bizarre and backwards to what I grew up around.
Thanks JJ, this is the picture you painted for me and who else? (When you get past 5, then return to experience Real Life! Where was the plaintiffs Mom, she could have held her babies' hand!)
Umm idk why JJ is trying to villainies the plaintiff. The defendants were probably huddled around the exit/entrance doors and hogging the whole space. In order to walk out, all he did was slip past them and the defendant’s very fragile ego got hurt. For the defendant to punch him following the incident is crazy and Jj should be directing her anger at him.
Listen at 2:09 - Defendant's wife was no wear near the door, and he was holding the door open for his family as he waited for them. So per plaintiff's words, there was "hogging the whole space". Instead of squeezing in just ask "may I?" like a polite person. But that doesn't mean he shoud be hit for it. Still would like so watch that part 2 though that's taking a while. lol
I would hardly call it vilifying. She told him that he was rude and he was. Then he escalated it by saying it back to the defendant. Ridiculous and childish. It doesn't excuse assault but I would hardly call it, making him a villain. By the way, "villainies" isn't a word.
What you said about huddling around the door is the opposite from the plaintiff claims happened.
I am from the Midwest n I will wait patiently for the person to exit not be a rude person n squeeze by
Some people have way too much time on their hands.
i just say your welcome very loudly when this happens
This is such a petty case lmao
Lol why is he telling her his toilet process 😂
Yess JJ!! Brooklyn girl here! ✨
BUT DID HE ACTUALLY HAVE A DIFFERENT OUTFIT ON???
Lmao... The Plaintiff telling a story like he went to pee and the Defendant ran to his car and whipped on his "fighting clothes", like he was cool with getting it stained with blood... Or it was supposed to be a disguise to witnesses, idk 🤣
“In that order” is exactly what i was thinking. Then i thought ehh irrelevant info, psh judge wanted to know too 😂
3:34 that’s a face of no remorse 😂😂😂
Could’ve just said: “Excuse me” no?
You shouldn't have been rude, but it didn't give Karl the right to touch him. Karl is older, which means he's supposed to know better. He had to be adult in the situation.
The phrase, "excuse me" is nearly extinct. It's almost an insult to utter such words
Lol, if someone called me rude for ANYTHING, I'd be apologizing profusely and offer to buy them dessert LOL what is all this??
Sounds like the plaintiff was just some clueless idiot with no social skills and the defendant has anger problems and can't just let little stuff go.
So far two wrongs, one on each side. Now the question is who threw the first punch.
In that order?😂😂😂JJ killed me
With a name like “you you”, he must get confused a lot . Seriously
I live in San Mateo, dying to know which restaurant it was.
And today tones and feelings are more important than ever...
In the midwest, this wouldn't happen. That door would be held open for everybody--coming in, going out, people on the street, EVERYBODY 😂😂😂
You ever see fosters home for imaginary friends? The episode where everyone went to the mall to get Madame Foster a birthday present and the character Wilt is holding the door for everyone going in and leaving the mall and he’s literally out there all day 😂😂😂
"YOU YOU XUE
Says defendant called him rude"
LOL.
Here in the South,we wait politely or say," Excuse me, Ya'll,I'm sorry,"then go by.👍😁
Did you grow up in California? 😂😂 Enough said.
WOW! The maturity of the plaintiff was amazing!!! And at 20 years old!!! He is not an accurate representation of Northern CA but he sure is making them look better lol.
WOAHHHH WOAHHHHHHH WOAHHHHHHH hold up! After seeing part 2 I had to come back and update this lol. He is literally suing this man JUST because he punched him!!!!! Okay now he makes CA look bad again lmfao what a wimp omg!!!!!!!!
You You Xue trying to Sue Sue Sue
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You You Xue 😂😂😂 I love it
This reinforces my dread for society..first off the little weasel plaintiff could have just said "Im sorry " when the defendant called him rude and it would have been over
Shocked from the title this would be a two part-er
Two sides to every story
Difference between growing up in Cali and NY… y’all heard it from JJ 😂😂 2:38
Who in their right mind goes to brunch on Sunday at noon with 6 people? YIKES! That's too early and too many people..LOL
“You want a challenge tough guy” 😂😂😂😂😂
2:34 Love this being from Brooklyn!
"I washed my hands. Used the toilet"
jj serious face: in that order????!!!
Judy grew up in Brooklyn? That explains so much haha!!!
So far I don't believe the plaintiff is telling everything as it is, but we'll see what the defendant says next. Defendant's body language is questionable to me so far
I wash my hands before and after using the bathroom so I get it lol
Before makes more sense! Unless you have an accident lol
I opened the door open for someone at a Haven Park in Wales. Next thing I seen was 15-20 people coming. I held it open for them. 2 people thanked me.
JJ calling out people for being sensible...love it!
Door Rage.
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2:40 JJ, laying it down like it is.
"in that order" 🤣
😂 You You Xue what a name 😂😂😂 !! You, You, Sue ; hahahaha hahahaha 😆 😂 !!
What a waste of time and space this case is
In the midwest we’d be fighting each other for the right to hold the door lol
Inasmuch as the young gentleman was somewhat at fault, he is so well articulated and composed.
I think you mean "although," but yes
😂that man went and put on fighting clothes
i can tell the difference between rude & assault.
2:22 he wasn’t rude at all. I’d do the same. But I’m not rude you’re rude 😂
Rude, but understandably rude