When two people have a connection and both of them put God first, the love they will share is like no other! This is so pleasing to our Lord as we even see it in scripture. This is the man or woman that God has chosen for you! Too many of us rushed into the wrong relationship and never consulted God Always, always put God first and even in singlehood you will experience joy!
My Godfather is a retired Pastor and he always gives me "pearls of wisdom." He told me that, "Men fall in love with their eyes; and women fall in love with their ears." I believe this to be a true statement as I've gotten older. People have preferences, true...but we have to definitely be wise in our decisions especially in these days and times. Thanks, Stephan. God bless!
I have one guy that asked me out… just no chemistry. He’s not confident and I just can’t get into it. He can barely make conversation. He brings out my male side… and that’s too bad, because I love my feminine side.
Speaking as the unhealed woman (who very much thought she was healed, and has done A LOT of work towards that) who has found the man God has for me, this is absolutely a whole new level of terror and triggering, and he's feeling it, too. We are meant to be on this healing journey together, and we are committed to growing together. 💖
I literally prayed asking God to bless me with a man who is spiritual, respectful and just a good person. Approximately 2 weeks later I met this man in Vegas and everything that day led to me meeting him out of nowhere. Ever since we met he has not stopped calling or texting me. Yes those things you just mentioned I am going through. I started conversations to hear his thoughts on certain issues. I never did this before. Sometimes I do feel like it’s not real so you do know what you’re talking about. Thanks for your videos! I also have to say in ALL those moments I started having doubts, there he is calling or texting! It’s amazing 😊
I mean… I def prayed the same thing and I thought I met that man. Seems like as soon as I expressed the heat behind being intimately involved due to spiritual complications smh things def flamed out the window. I swear it was nice to finally actually feel so so close! We had all of the things listed smh! It’s weird but I’m over it
Wonderful! Just be sure he is not playing you like narcissists do. They shower you with attention, only to keep you hooked. After a while, they take advantage of you at the point at which you are not able to say no anymore. They first hear you out about how you tick, to get to know how to get under your skin. Just be aware of this possibility the first couple of months.
I for a long time believed that everything happens for a reason, and that reason being cause and effect. I didn't believe in Fate, only coincidence. Then I met the man I'm with today, with how everything that happened that lead me to him, there's no way it can just be coincidence! I am setting out to look into Faith and religion because there is no way I just stumbled into this man. I believe there is a God or some higher power out there and they seem to care, which has been an alien thought to me my whole life. Thank you, Stephan, your channel and videos really helped me get on this path.
Your comment reminds me that GOD is sooo gracious…that he was able to draw you in using something that others are still praying for! Wishing you guys a long, strong healthy relationship
Same thing happened to me. I met this guy by coincidence. My friend invited me to a party at his house. The next day I saw him out we exchanged numbers . We barely dated for 2 months. Now we don’t talk. I rejected him bc of my insecurities of him bringing up his ex. Now tables turned he said “he doesn’t want to date me anymore because he mentally can’t deal with me , and thinks that I’m a nice girl “ he apologized and called a week later. My feelings hurt I barely responded. 😩
Wow! This explains my current situation. I such little time he has been so amazing. I was short on a bill and my day was just off and he felt it in our text Messages. He simply ask what was wrong I didn't want to but I told him and he sent me more than what I needed. He communicates on a daily. He also tells me daily how beautiful I am and never fails to mention how into me he is. I always pray ask for guidance. Thank you so much for your videos. I'm definitely taking heed to your advice. Blessings to you❤.
@@tashamack8701 Thank you! You might find the book "Married in 12 months or less" helpful, if you need extra resources, in addition to Stephan's material. 😊
It is the most attractive strength a man can possess if it's genuine. Godly women recognize it immediately, it's a pleasure to be in their presence and to witness the praise of the Lord coming from the dept of their heart. (Eyes to see and ears to hear how they Love King Jesus) Amen
I had this with a guy that asked me out and we had all these qualities. After the 1st date he told me that i may not hear from him the next day because he was going on another date. I asked him how he would feel if i was dating around, shopping, constantly looking, he said he wouldnt like it. When someone cant take the same hurt they give, theyre not my kind of person. Unpopular opinion for many because it was just 1 date and nothing was exclusive, but I honestly believe that someone who keeps shopping around will keep doing that even during the relationship... the mentality of having options is why dating doesnt work these days, some of us are just more intentional
You're so right. You pretty much know on the first date if there is a spark. And if he admits that to you, you'll be wondering what he doesn't admit to. When they date you it should be to date you only and not other women.
If he throws it in ur face like that it ain’t cool There is no need to tell u that in such a way He will hurt u much worse in the future Gods chosen man for u wouldn’t be leading with that 🙏💓
@@bigtreecombatacademy2927 I resonate with this so much- I don’t mind being made aware of something I am doing wrong or not doing- it should be brought to my attention with the goal of not being hurtful and to resolve the issue not attack someone’s character
God has truly gifted you with spiritual insight and practical understanding in how women and men work and think in relationships and how to communicate that to others. Every video I watch speaks to me and helps me. Is what I need to hear to keep me grounded, on the right track when dealing with men, and in waiting for the right one God has for me. Even when it is hard, it can be a struggle with our desires...believe me. But like you said God knows who is best for us and truly that is what I want deep down to have a happy fulfilled God ordained relationship. I don't want to settle for less even if temptation arises. Pray for me! As I keep close to God and keep seeking Him. God Bless you Stephan.
Amén 🙏🏼 great video! I Married the right MAN! When I was 17. We’ve been married for 18 years now and 4 beautiful blessings! It’s a lot of work but it’s so worth it ❤ I don’t want to live this life with anyone else
#4 is hitting me like there is no tomorrow! I've NEVER felt so vulnerable in my life! I feel this man, I recently met is way to good for me! This is a very scary feeling because I feel like he is going to break my heart. 💔 I'm listening to a lot of your videos trying to figure out how to make this potential relationship successful. I believe when we finally meet sparks are going to fly and that connection will be there. We shall see. I'm going to keep educating myself on how to be a better partner. A whole video on feeling vulnerable is needed. 😌
What you need is always going to be better than what you want. Core desires of genuine love, communication, shared values, safety & security, peace, spirituality and family will be there. And the depth of connection will feel like a piece of God. That’s amazing, and so well articulated, Stephan. Comprehensive yet to the point, that’s why we appreciate you and this channel because you’re a force for good. Thank you.🫶😊
I actually really adore your channel. There’s a lot of women like me who can be avoidant, scared in love. You’re really good at explaining the good men, and you’re really good at knowing how a cynical woman like myself thinks when she encounters one.
Yeah there convenient targets though because we know there not actually good men they dress in such a way like there going golfing and they pretend like they care about women and God They also pretend like there not like the other guys but they actually are worse because you won't find out till the very end of the relationship that he was using you. The only women these guys can trick though are there mamas and women that barely became legal to drink. If they had skill and value they would stop picking on the amaters and the girls that don't know any better yet they would date on there level and look for someone that can help keep them successful. She can be younger then him I don't care but not so damn young that she doesn't know what your up to that's gross anyways it's like mixing expired meat with fresh it all goes bad pretty quickly when you put him next to something that has better quality..
You’re getting me through some rough times here. Thank you, God is using you my friend. Thank you for speaking/spreading what God puts in your heart to share with us🙏💕
This was actually truth am scared of me loosing my self in the relationship because I haven't meant someone that give me the peace of mind and I feel empty in my heart I have no worry or doubts over the relationship than in the past
This is so facts. God has given me a man he knew I needed. And I have never in my life felt like this. And not even felt. The facts are so fine to me. I can have the hard conversations with him. And we stay good. We have shared values. Do we agree about everything no. But core issues are the same. He brings out the lady in me. And when I am with him it’s nothing better but god. I agree with this video
This video is right on the nail! It is very important to have that connection on an emotional, mental, and spiritual level! I always tell one of my homegirls that when you put God first, everything else falls into place. Communication has to be consistent and a close relationship with God in order the relationship to thrive and grow. I am gaining so much insight from watching your videos. God bless you! 🙌🏾 🙌🏾 👏🏽 ❤️ 🙏🏽
Exactly Stephan! Yes! Im stronger now! Sick of 32 yrs of abuse. I wont put up w bullshit anymore from any man! I found myself in the process. Ive found my true self and people see my change and dont like it. I say tough shit! This is me loving myself! I truly know what i want and need.
Sooo, I met a guy. I love how he looks, he’s hot AF! Felt drawn to him. BUT, he scares the sh*t out of me - every time we have talked, on message, or real life, I’m kind of clumsy… nervous.. And he makes me want to run for the hills… cause he’s just «too damn good»!!😅 Thanks to him tho, I started taking healing seriously, I’m watching Stephans videos every night before sleep❤️ I want to be the best woman for a man, and myself!! Also, the man brought me closer to God (never been into this).❤
This is so true, I have found him- well he tells me that he found me after some years of searching. He ticks all the qualities you have mentioned. We have not known each other long, yet it feels like we have known each other for years. Most importantly he is a true man of god 🙏🏾 Thank you for your video which has been confirmation
I deserve love and respect just for being alive and I was destined for greatness! Also, if anyone can't acknowledge my worth then they are not meant to be in my life. No one in this world can tell me who I am if they don't know who they are and i live my life on my terms not on the world's terms or society's terms! I am real person with real feelings with their own wishes, desires and needs abs I am nobody's slave, object or possession! I belong to myself and to the most high. A man doesn't love you if he hits you or forces you to compromise your relationship with God and tried to mold you into who he wants you to be rather than appreciating you for who you are! Never sell your dignity for a man.
Point 4 DOES deserve its own video. I hope you make that video. Thank you for bringing it up at all! I see women run away from this all the time because they haven't healed. Too many spend too much time railing against how so many men are terrible and how the world needs better men...and then they have NO idea how to handle one when he shows up...and then they hurt him, thus disincentivizing that same goodness they screamed for.
This is my favorite video you've ever done. Thank you for your consistency and genuine concern with helping us women who are lost when it comes to men.
I recently started talking to a guy & from the 2nd-5th day we will stay hours otp talking about the serious topics. He fits all the points you listed. He’s also vulnerable. Once we met it felt natural bc there wasn’t any awkward moments due to us already knowing so much about e.o… I also pray & keep God first & I send him church links that he’s interested in watching. He’s the same sign as me ♒️ & it’s different for the both of us. I’m glad I came across this video bc I will share it with him. Keep up the great work ❤️❤️
Thank you for this message I’m single and don’t have any male friends right now due to I’m waiting for my husband from the Lord 🙏🏽🙌🏽May God keep blessing you Stephan
Phew thank you. That take some pressure off. I attract these nice men that treat me pretty decent but I don’t find them attractive. I’m like I hope I’m not being vain but I ain’t good at pretending
I think my boyfriend is the man I want to spend my life with, but because of my deep fears and not healing, I am losing him and I am so sad. I just want to be better. We love each other very much
Thank you for this Stephan. I didnt see those red flags. I think that's why my marriage failed, i refused to see that we didnt have a real connection. All the time i kept my true self for fear of rejection. Now, i am dating someone that has more connection, better communication, and it's true, i feel more vulnerable with him but scared at the same time cause im afraid of losing him.
You are spot on. Clear communication and valuable advice. You can witness several connections in different levels when you are awaken to the astral realms
I can't be vulnerable. Or I'm too vulnerable. I can't tell. I have intrusive thoughts that it's right or wrong. Its two extremes and it's exhausting. I get it wrong lots of times. So I try to pray. But I think I might be getting that wrong too. The struggle is real
Yes Stephan, I'm needing help with healing from my past.I've been taken advantage of and abused . I'm working on finding me first ,not making that the next man responsibility to find who I am.
My dear Steph you just gave me five more reasons to trust God He alone can locate and bring this fine gentleman to me Just have to whisper in my Lord s ear Let him be tall strong and muscular , hope am not asking to much 😂 God bless you Stephan Good afternoon all
I like the shirt 😊. When u heal you will recognize him/her. I enjoy being in the field. Listening to your advice makes dating easier. Thanks for the content.
I’ve felt all these things with a man and he was the one that wouldn’t be emotionally vulnerable and ran from the connection. And that there is annoying .
I’m making a promise that the next man I’ll be with is gonna be my husband. I’m so tired of wasting my time with people who just push me away from my purpose. Just got out of toxic relationship with a narcissist man, he loved bomb me and I knew it from day one I should of listened to my gutt.
I think I may have found the woman god has for me We seem insanely aligned , only issue is she lives in another state I’m just being patient and working on myself till it’s gods time for us But I’m taking her out asap
My last relationship was with a narcissist. They can fool you and get you hooked. I even bought him your book He Who Finds A Wife. He read it, took another woman to Florida with him and ended our 4 year relationship when he came home.
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This so helpful as now I know for sure I was the man for my ex and she was the woman for me in college, but we both weren’t mature enough yet to enter into marriage without having the proper understanding, communication, and relationship with God.
I had a guy say he felt more comfortable talking to me than with anyone else but I never initiated the conversations. I always talk to him if he reaches out but i'm not attracted to him like that.
I am currently reading The Man God has for You and I couldn't be more grateful for stumbling over your page... I wish I had come across your content sooner, I could have avoided so much heartbreak
Please please please can you make a video about more on when you mentioned how you'll feel like you're losing yourself because you've identified for so long as being the person with the walls up, etc.? We love you! ❤
Bf I fell in love with him I told God I am done with finding a man, I will just stay on course - serving You. Then God put me on a man's path that has fallen in love with me - but there are so many obstacles. God wants me to love & pour into this man, tho. I still want to stay on course & love Jesus 1'st, but wow my mind is still going back & forth on how & why in the situation right now. Gonna share the Gospel with him this weekend & ask him if he believes in Jesus - & I will share my testimony. I've been putting it off, but I have to tell him I would love to take him (& all his co-workers & clients) with me to Heaven. This is what is & has to be my focus. Thank you Stephan for your guidance. ❤
Oh my God everything in this video I've experienced with my fav ex😭😭 after our relationship is ended I've found myself in a healing journey for a couple of years, such a blessing ❤
I Love how you try to be honest but also light hearted my therory its not the outside that counts its whom you are on the inside we all should be blind tyen we couldnt judge.
Thank you so much Stephan ❤ I’m truly trust in God and I am never trusting in a man because of a man taking my money and he tried to take half of my house, now I believe that some a man will sale himself to a woman for money, I am 39 years old and been through this situation very badly
I had an experience like this and it was refreshing. There was definitely attraction and chemistry apparent.. it was just nice to feel comfortable and really connect with someone on a real level but ehh it ended up fizzling out. I guess he wasn’t for me🤷🏾♀️ I’m letting him go but I’m so grateful for the experience It definitely showed me some fears and insecurities that i needed to heal. I was still open to work through them and allow myself to be open to giving him a try but he started getting distant so we haven’t been able to explore the connection.. i guess that’s something i have to get used to with dating. Currently working on letting go of control and going with the flow but I’m not gonna lie I’m ready for my love lolol hoping i don’t have to kiss too many frogs to get to my prince!🙏🏾🙏🏾
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Totally agree with that❤ 100%
God is the main ingredient for anything to taste good❤
When two people have a connection and both of them put God first, the love they will share is like no other! This is so pleasing to our Lord as we even see it in scripture. This is the man or woman that God has chosen for you! Too many of us rushed into the wrong relationship and never consulted God Always, always put God first and even in singlehood you will experience joy!
Yep
Looks like I found the man God sent me ❤
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You are literally the best relationship coach ever, grateful for your presence ❤
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much. I appreciate that!
Yes...Amen ...
He really is. This man is God sent! Praising God for Stephan!!
God bless him❤
I concur!
My Godfather is a retired Pastor and he always gives me "pearls of wisdom." He told me that, "Men fall in love with their eyes; and women fall in love with their ears." I believe this to be a true statement as I've gotten older. People have preferences, true...but we have to definitely be wise in our decisions especially in these days and times. Thanks, Stephan. God bless!
My pleasure ❤️
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God should and must be the foundation of any relationship.
Most definitely!
Thank you.❤️♥️
Honor God and seek Him first. Then all else will follow. I believe that whole heartedly, because God is faithful!
Most definitely!
I have one guy that asked me out… just no chemistry. He’s not confident and I just can’t get into it. He can barely make conversation. He brings out my male side… and that’s too bad, because I love my feminine side.
I went through this recently. I really wanted to give the beta male a chance but it was hard
Dont do it. That's how my marriage failed. I married the wrong man. I refused to see the red flags.
I hear ya ladies I have had this problem as well.. where are the strong , good godly men…🤔❤️👊
His not the one
That connection is definitely something.. I almost ran from him, we're still here over a year in.. That connection with someone is magical.
Speaking as the unhealed woman (who very much thought she was healed, and has done A LOT of work towards that) who has found the man God has for me, this is absolutely a whole new level of terror and triggering, and he's feeling it, too. We are meant to be on this healing journey together, and we are committed to growing together. 💖
God is working through you right now 🙏
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Amen 🙏🏾
I literally prayed asking God to bless me with a man who is spiritual, respectful and just a good person. Approximately 2 weeks later I met this man in Vegas and everything that day led to me meeting him out of nowhere. Ever since we met he has not stopped calling or texting me. Yes those things you just mentioned I am going through. I started conversations to hear his thoughts on certain issues. I never did this before. Sometimes I do feel like it’s not real so you do know what you’re talking about. Thanks for your videos! I also have to say in ALL those moments I started having doubts, there he is calling or texting! It’s amazing 😊
I mean… I def prayed the same thing and I thought I met that man. Seems like as soon as I expressed the heat behind being intimately involved due to spiritual complications smh things def flamed out the window. I swear it was nice to finally actually feel so so close! We had all of the things listed smh! It’s weird but I’m over it
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks you’re welcome!
Wonderful! Just be sure he is not playing you like narcissists do. They shower you with attention, only to keep you hooked. After a while, they take advantage of you at the point at which you are not able to say no anymore. They first hear you out about how you tick, to get to know how to get under your skin. Just be aware of this possibility the first couple of months.
I for a long time believed that everything happens for a reason, and that reason being cause and effect. I didn't believe in Fate, only coincidence. Then I met the man I'm with today, with how everything that happened that lead me to him, there's no way it can just be coincidence! I am setting out to look into Faith and religion because there is no way I just stumbled into this man. I believe there is a God or some higher power out there and they seem to care, which has been an alien thought to me my whole life. Thank you, Stephan, your channel and videos really helped me get on this path.
Your comment reminds me that GOD is sooo gracious…that he was able to draw you in using something that others are still praying for! Wishing you guys a long, strong healthy relationship
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Same thing happened to me. I met this guy by coincidence. My friend invited me to a party at his house. The next day I saw him out we exchanged numbers . We barely dated for 2 months. Now we don’t talk. I rejected him bc of my insecurities of him bringing up his ex. Now tables turned he said “he doesn’t want to date me anymore because he mentally can’t deal with me , and thinks that I’m a nice girl “ he apologized and called a week later. My feelings hurt I barely responded. 😩
Wow! This explains my current situation. I such little time he has been so amazing. I was short on a bill and my day was just off and he felt it in our text Messages. He simply ask what was wrong I didn't want to but I told him and he sent me more than what I needed. He communicates on a daily. He also tells me daily how beautiful I am and never fails to mention how into me he is. I always pray ask for guidance. Thank you so much for your videos. I'm definitely taking heed to your advice. Blessings to you❤.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I was not physically attracted to my guy for a really long time actually but that grew because of how he is as a person:)
Your videos helped me get my husband, and now I'm sharing your videos with my bestie so she find the right man God has for her! ♥️
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response ❤ 🙏
Beautiful ❤
Aww congratulations!!!!! Hopefully I will find the right man myself.
@@tashamack8701 Thank you! You might find the book "Married in 12 months or less" helpful, if you need extra resources, in addition to Stephan's material. 😊
Is it attractive to see a man that loves God! That is wisdom and confidence.. Stephan, keep drawing closer to him.
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It is the most attractive strength a man can possess if it's genuine. Godly women recognize it immediately, it's a pleasure to be in their presence and to witness the praise of the Lord coming from the dept of their heart. (Eyes to see and ears to hear how they Love King Jesus) Amen
This is SO true! There’s nothing more attractive to me than this and sadly, it’s rare to find.
I had this with a guy that asked me out and we had all these qualities. After the 1st date he told me that i may not hear from him the next day because he was going on another date. I asked him how he would feel if i was dating around, shopping, constantly looking, he said he wouldnt like it. When someone cant take the same hurt they give, theyre not my kind of person.
Unpopular opinion for many because it was just 1 date and nothing was exclusive, but I honestly believe that someone who keeps shopping around will keep doing that even during the relationship... the mentality of having options is why dating doesnt work these days, some of us are just more intentional
You're so right. You pretty much know on the first date if there is a spark. And if he admits that to you, you'll be wondering what he doesn't admit to. When they date you it should be to date you only and not other women.
If he throws it in ur face like that it ain’t cool
There is no need to tell u that in such a way
He will hurt u much worse in the future
Gods chosen man for u wouldn’t be leading with that 🙏💓
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
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I resonate with this so much- I don’t mind being made aware of something I am doing wrong or not doing- it should be brought to my attention with the goal of not being hurtful and to resolve the issue not attack someone’s character
God has truly gifted you with spiritual insight and practical understanding in how women and men work and think in relationships and how to communicate that to others. Every video I watch speaks to me and helps me. Is what I need to hear to keep me grounded, on the right track when dealing with men, and in waiting for the right one God has for me. Even when it is hard, it can be a struggle with our desires...believe me. But like you said God knows who is best for us and truly that is what I want deep down to have a happy fulfilled God ordained relationship. I don't want to settle for less even if temptation arises. Pray for me! As I keep close to God and keep seeking Him. God Bless you Stephan.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well!
Amén 🙏🏼 great video! I Married the right MAN! When I was 17. We’ve been married for 18 years now and 4 beautiful blessings! It’s a lot of work but it’s so worth it ❤ I don’t want to live this life with anyone else
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
I'm 17 and I believe I've found the right one, we're 6 months in 🥹🥰
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#4 is hitting me like there is no tomorrow! I've NEVER felt so vulnerable in my life! I feel this man, I recently met is way to good for me! This is a very scary feeling because I feel like he is going to break my heart. 💔 I'm listening to a lot of your videos trying to figure out how to make this potential relationship successful. I believe when we finally meet sparks are going to fly and that connection will be there. We shall see. I'm going to keep educating myself on how to be a better partner. A whole video on feeling vulnerable is needed. 😌
I felt vulnerable and man I wish I wasn’t smh. Big mad lol
What you need is always going to be better than what you want. Core desires of genuine love, communication, shared values, safety & security, peace, spirituality and family will be there. And the depth of connection will feel like a piece of God. That’s amazing, and so well articulated, Stephan. Comprehensive yet to the point, that’s why we appreciate you and this channel because you’re a force for good. Thank you.🫶😊
I actually really adore your channel. There’s a lot of women like me who can be avoidant, scared in love. You’re really good at explaining the good men, and you’re really good at knowing how a cynical woman like myself thinks when she encounters one.
Yeah there convenient targets though because we know there not actually good men they dress in such a way like there going golfing and they pretend like they care about women and God
They also pretend like there not like the other guys but they actually are worse because you won't find out till the very end of the relationship that he was using you.
The only women these guys can trick though are there mamas and women that barely became legal to drink. If they had skill and value they would stop picking on the amaters and the girls that don't know any better yet they would date on there level and look for someone that can help keep them successful.
She can be younger then him I don't care but not so damn young that she doesn't know what your up to that's gross anyways it's like mixing expired meat with fresh it all goes bad pretty quickly when you put him next to something that has better quality..
You’re getting me through some rough times here. Thank you, God is using you my friend. Thank you for speaking/spreading what God puts in your heart to share with us🙏💕
I almost cried watching this. It’s an amazing feeling to find that one!
This was actually truth am scared of me loosing my self in the relationship because I haven't meant someone that give me the peace of mind and I feel empty in my heart I have no worry or doubts over the relationship than in the past
This is so facts. God has given me a man he knew I needed. And I have never in my life felt like this. And not even felt. The facts are so fine to me. I can have the hard conversations with him. And we stay good. We have shared values. Do we agree about everything no. But core issues are the same. He brings out the lady in me. And when I am with him it’s nothing better but god. I agree with this video
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
This video is right on the nail! It is very important to have that connection on an emotional, mental, and spiritual level! I always tell one of my homegirls that when you put God first, everything else falls into place. Communication has to be consistent and a close relationship with God in order the relationship to thrive and grow. I am gaining so much insight from watching your videos. God bless you! 🙌🏾 🙌🏾 👏🏽 ❤️ 🙏🏽
Exactly Stephan! Yes! Im stronger now! Sick of 32 yrs of abuse. I wont put up w bullshit anymore from any man! I found myself in the process. Ive found my true self and people see my change and dont like it. I say tough shit! This is me loving myself! I truly know what i want and need.
Good for you keep going!!!❤😊
Sooo, I met a guy. I love how he looks, he’s hot AF! Felt drawn to him. BUT, he scares the sh*t out of me - every time we have talked, on message, or real life,
I’m kind of clumsy… nervous.. And he makes me want to run for the hills… cause he’s just «too damn good»!!😅
Thanks to him tho, I started taking healing seriously, I’m watching Stephans videos every night before sleep❤️ I want to be the best woman for a man, and myself!!
Also, the man brought me closer to God (never been into this).❤
I think your quote about the “total package” is spot on…I believe some of us live in a delusional state missing what God has for us.
This is so true, I have found him- well he tells me that he found me after some years of searching. He ticks all the qualities you have mentioned. We have not known each other long, yet it feels like we have known each other for years. Most importantly he is a true man of god 🙏🏾
Thank you for your video which has been confirmation
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
I deserve love and respect just for being alive and I was destined for greatness! Also, if anyone can't acknowledge my worth then they are not meant to be in my life. No one in this world can tell me who I am if they don't know who they are and i live my life on my terms not on the world's terms or society's terms! I am real person with real feelings with their own wishes, desires and needs abs I am nobody's slave, object or possession! I belong to myself and to the most high. A man doesn't love you if he hits you or forces you to compromise your relationship with God and tried to mold you into who he wants you to be rather than appreciating you for who you are! Never sell your dignity for a man.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Yeah I totally tried the no attraction thing. I thought he was a good a guy. Nope nope. I prayed and prayed and God definitely opened my eyes
Point 4 DOES deserve its own video. I hope you make that video. Thank you for bringing it up at all! I see women run away from this all the time because they haven't healed. Too many spend too much time railing against how so many men are terrible and how the world needs better men...and then they have NO idea how to handle one when he shows up...and then they hurt him, thus disincentivizing that same goodness they screamed for.
As a Christian Stephen....I so appreciate this video the most amongst all of your other videos. This is what I'm seeking....all five....thank you.
This is my favorite video you've ever done. Thank you for your consistency and genuine concern with helping us women who are lost when it comes to men.
Glad I could help 🙏
I recently started talking to a guy & from the 2nd-5th day we will stay hours otp talking about the serious topics. He fits all the points you listed. He’s also vulnerable. Once we met it felt natural bc there wasn’t any awkward moments due to us already knowing so much about e.o… I also pray & keep God first & I send him church links that he’s interested in watching. He’s the same sign as me ♒️ & it’s different for the both of us. I’m glad I came across this video bc I will share it with him. Keep up the great work ❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
God has definitely sent me the right man. I couldn’t agree more with these 5 signs as I’ve experienced them all with him :)
I pray that this man enters my life soon according to Gods will!🙏 ❤🫶😇🙌🥰✨️🍯✍️
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Thank you for this message I’m single and don’t have any male friends right now due to I’m waiting for my husband from the Lord 🙏🏽🙌🏽May God keep blessing you Stephan
Good luck sister 🙏💓
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Its well. i am still waiting for the man god has me. and for everyone expecting theirs, thy lord will grant your heart desires. AMEN
Phew thank you. That take some pressure off. I attract these nice men that treat me pretty decent but I don’t find them attractive. I’m like I hope I’m not being vain but I ain’t good at pretending
Stephan
Can you make a video or do you have a video specifically for older people for dating ?
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
Really the best relationship coach
I like that shirt on you today ❤
I think my boyfriend is the man I want to spend my life with, but because of my deep fears and not healing, I am losing him and I am so sad. I just want to be better. We love each other very much
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Gather confidence
Prepare me Lord please get me ready. 🙏🏼☺️💓
Thank you for this Stephan.
I didnt see those red flags. I think that's why my marriage failed, i refused to see that we didnt have a real connection. All the time i kept my true self for fear of rejection.
Now, i am dating someone that has more connection, better communication, and it's true, i feel more vulnerable with him but scared at the same time cause im afraid of losing him.
Dear brother am listening your advices because you are anointed from God. Thank you I love you stay blessed as always!
I appreciate that 🙏
You are spot on. Clear communication and valuable advice. You can witness several connections in different levels when you are awaken to the astral realms
From day 1, the communication has been amazing!😊
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
I can't be vulnerable. Or I'm too vulnerable. I can't tell. I have intrusive thoughts that it's right or wrong. Its two extremes and it's exhausting. I get it wrong lots of times. So I try to pray. But I think I might be getting that wrong too. The struggle is real
OMG yes I had masculine energy previously and now I’m all up in feminine energy and I’m scared
Thank you for constantly reinforcing the truths that we receive in our closets 🙌🙌
My pleasure ❤️
The Lord knew that I needed this. ❤
as one of the lucky ladies who has actually found what God had for me, I approve all of these messages.
Wow!!! #4 was wayyyyyyyyy wayyyyyy wayyyy all Truth!!!! Amazing 💯💯💯💯
True facts God comes first
Yes Stephan, I'm needing help with healing from my past.I've been taken advantage of and abused . I'm working on finding me first ,not making that the next man responsibility to find who I am.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
My dear Steph you just gave me five more reasons to trust God
He alone can locate and bring this fine gentleman to me
Just have to whisper in my Lord s ear
Let him be tall strong and muscular , hope am not asking to much 😂
God bless you Stephan
Good afternoon all
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
Watching This Confirms My Relationship & Our New Family Is Heaven Sent
I like the shirt 😊. When u heal you will recognize him/her. I enjoy being in the field. Listening to your advice makes dating easier. Thanks for the content.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
Amen! Our desires should align with God's will . Daddy knows best!
I MARRIED someone who I’m not attracted to and I’m paying for it now. Man you speak the truth 😢
bruh😭🤣
These points are so important and to mindful of,
Good lawrd!! You are speaking the truth!! Boy do I know! 😂 that was 🔥 🔥 🔥
Oh wow!!!!😮😊 I'm looking forward to him!!!!❤ So much love, beautiful soul and thank you!
My pleasure ❤️
Great quote!❤️💯
Great video 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
You’re welcome 😉
❤Thank You Young Man..God Is The Forefront❤..
Most definitely!
I’m in it as we speak Stephan❣️ Thank you so much!
I’ve felt all these things with a man and he was the one that wouldn’t be emotionally vulnerable and ran from the connection. And that there is annoying .
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
❤❤I’m ready for my Kingdom Man
I pray that you receive the man who i truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
I’m making a promise that the next man I’ll be with is gonna be my husband. I’m so tired of wasting my time with people who just push me away from my purpose. Just got out of toxic relationship with a narcissist man, he loved bomb me and I knew it from day one I should of listened to my gutt.
Always important to listen to your intuition. I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you 🙏🏻!!
I LOVE your videos, patiently waiting for Mr. right for me 🙏
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏 ❤️
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you ☺️ I hope so too!
I think I may have found the woman god has for me
We seem insanely aligned , only issue is she lives in another state
I’m just being patient and working on myself till it’s gods time for us
But I’m taking her out asap
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
enjoyed the info on vulnerability ....that's what is happening for me.
My last relationship was with a narcissist. They can fool you and get you hooked. I even bought him your book He Who Finds A Wife. He read it, took another woman to Florida with him and ended our 4 year relationship when he came home.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@stephan, please try and do subtitles on your videos. Like this
This video has subtitles of eight different languages. Click on the settings icon below the video on the right hand side and then click on subtitles/CC in the menu that appears to see the subtitle options available ❤
Great video. Thank you. I'm learning a lot from your videos. Such great information.
I love your wisdom you speak and in a Christian way! ❤
The quality of the relationship doesn't suffer when he's more attracted to you than you are to him🎉
This so helpful as now I know for sure I was the man for my ex and she was the woman for me in college, but we both weren’t mature enough yet to enter into marriage without having the proper understanding, communication, and relationship with God.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
I had a guy say he felt more comfortable talking to me than with anyone else but I never initiated the conversations. I always talk to him if he reaches out but i'm not attracted to him like that.
I am currently reading The Man God has for You and I couldn't be more grateful for stumbling over your page... I wish I had come across your content sooner, I could have avoided so much heartbreak
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Please please please can you make a video about more on when you mentioned how you'll feel like you're losing yourself because you've identified for so long as being the person with the walls up, etc.? We love you! ❤
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
Thank you I’m listening from France 🇫🇷
Bf I fell in love with him I told God I am done with finding a man, I will just stay on course - serving You. Then God put me on a man's path that has fallen in love with me - but there are so many obstacles. God wants me to love & pour into this man, tho. I still want to stay on course & love Jesus 1'st, but wow my mind is still going back & forth on how & why in the situation right now. Gonna share the Gospel with him this weekend & ask him if he believes in Jesus - & I will share my testimony. I've been putting it off, but I have to tell him I would love to take him (& all his co-workers & clients) with me to Heaven. This is what is & has to be my focus. Thank you Stephan for your guidance. ❤
Oh my God everything in this video I've experienced with my fav ex😭😭 after our relationship is ended I've found myself in a healing journey for a couple of years, such a blessing ❤
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
Thank you Stephan. I am a fan of you and your podcast.
I Love how you try to be honest but also light hearted my therory its not the outside that counts its whom you are on the inside we all should be blind tyen we couldnt judge.
Happy you put the attraction part for #1; honestly i thought i may not be attracted to him, also a Christian here
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
Sometimes you speak so loud that is uncomfortable using headphones. Thank you for the video, good resume ✨
Everything you've said is so true and resonates, thank you.
My pleasure ❤️
Thank you so much Stephan ❤
I’m truly trust in God and I am never trusting in a man because of a man taking my money and he tried to take half of my house, now I believe that some a man will sale himself to a woman for money, I am 39 years old and been through this situation very badly
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
You hit right on the nose…I’m definitely going through exactly….you are always stating facts👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾
Valuable information. Much appreciated. Thank you! 💪🏽💯🙏🏽💗
God bless you bro. So helpful. Love and light always brother
We have all these, but he's holding back due to extremely bad experiences in the past with wrong women....I'm praying all the time.
🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
I had an experience like this and it was refreshing. There was definitely attraction and chemistry apparent.. it was just nice to feel comfortable and really connect with someone on a real level but ehh it ended up fizzling out. I guess he wasn’t for me🤷🏾♀️ I’m letting him go but I’m so grateful for the experience It definitely showed me some fears and insecurities that i needed to heal. I was still open to work through them and allow myself to be open to giving him a try but he started getting distant so we haven’t been able to explore the connection.. i guess that’s something i have to get used to with dating. Currently working on letting go of control and going with the flow but I’m not gonna lie I’m ready for my love lolol hoping i don’t have to kiss too many frogs to get to my prince!🙏🏾🙏🏾