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Bang Chan's comforting speeches and helpful advices
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- Опубліковано 30 чер 2020
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Happy Birthday Stays ,, stray kids love you and so do I and here is more encouraging words from our leader ,, you're not alone
Happy late bday stay, so glad i get to share my birthday with you amazing people 💜💜
@Zr Rm yo chill.. You could've phrased that in a nicer way.
Why get therapy when you have bang Chan
Me: crying
Chan: don't cry!
Me: shocked while crying and smiling
Me lol
same
I was teary, and when he said that, I was shocked. It's like he was telling me face to face not to cry cause he could see me
I’m crying right now and smiled I’m happy bang chan and stray kids exist🥺
@@HiHi-mt3rz same, i hope u are good ❤️
**time stamps!**
0:04: "come to me, come to us, come to stray kids"
0:58: "don't hurt yourself."
2:06: dealing with nervousness
3:55: dealing with negative thoughts
4:43: "i'd rather do something, than do nothing!"
5:50: when you're going through a rough time, think of happy memories
6:16: dealing with stress and anxiety
8:32: focus on the future! keep looking forward!
Thanks for 5:50 :)
@@carolynjerald8785 you’re welcome!! 💕
Please the one in 02:06 which chan's room episode
Thank you! ^^
@@inolynch7526 i’m not sure i’m sorry :(
I want to meet Chan hes so sweet and I would go to him for everything
Imagine him as your parent.. the best dad ever. He wouldn’t be the type to scream at you for nothing
@@tteee7241 I wish tho 😭
I just need a hug from this man
@@serendipityfilms6769 Same we all do
@@tteee7241 wish i had a dad like him maybe in another life
when he said "don't hurt yourself" it made me instantly regret what i did a few minutes ago, and i had the audacity to do it when its almost his birthday, i wish i could apologize to him
I believe in you, you can do this 💕
Yea u can get through it 💕
you can do this ily 💖
I believe in you, you can do this❤
i'm glad you listened to him! just remember that you're not alone and stray kids + stays are here for you, so keep going! you are very strong for making it this far and I know, life is really hard. but hey, that's life. continue to be you and don't let your struggles control you! things will get better I promise and keep going :)
me: crying cause since some time i have really hard time and feel psychically bad
chan: no, don’t cry!
it made it worse
we're here for you ,, i hope things get better real soon ♥️
❤️❤️ I hope U feel better soon and I don't know U and it might be unbelievable but I love U stay strong ❤️❤️
@@lixieskz2451 oh god, i didnt see that message earlier, im sorry i didnt answer!! thank u so much and yeah things got actually better🥺❤️
@@kirastokes33 thank u so much!🥺❤️ yes, i do feel better right now!! thank u once again, love u too🥺❤️
Fighting 😉💪💖
I’m in the toilets in college sobbing my eyes out because I’m so stressed and sad. I swear channies a literal angel I have a feeling I’ll be coming back to this video a lot.
I'm really late but you got this 💞 I'm only in middle school but it's really hard for me so I can only imagine how bad college is
You got this bestie! Never give up keep going if you have too much stress or depressed it’s ok to take a tiny break but make sure to eat and drink or take care of yourself! Love u ❤️❤️
Ive been skipping my classes because of anxiety, its been about two weeks of classes. I feel so guilty now and im trying to get back my classes up. Thankfully my professors understand my situation and will let me make it up.
@@doriannawhite1363 im so sorry to hear this. I hope you get better by the day! Here have sum chicky nuggies 🤲🏻
I feel this currently
Bro I’m literally at my breaking point I’m so done with life I’m watching these to try and stay alive and I’m balling my eyes out and when he said”don’t cry” I felt like we’re on a face time and he was comforting me that hit so hard it made me smile
I hope you're feeling better now
@@ChanniesHugs I am thank you❤️
Please, don’t kill or hurt yourself. I might not know you, but I love you.
@@katarina5233 I love you too 🥺❤️
We're all in this together, love, please stay with us. I don't want to live in a world that doesn't have you in it. I love you so much and Jesus loves you even more ❤
my parents always take my phone or say "all you watch is korean people and never study!"/" oh my god why do like these korean people they're a waste of time you need to study more!" but they don't know that those korean people are the only thing that makes me happy... and if they take it away from me then... i don't know what i would do with my life.
I was crying one time listening to one of BTS’s speeches I cried so hard she asked me what happened and I told her and she said I’m so caring ..... I thought she’d call me stupid but she didn’t.... I really love my mom .... I’m so lucky 😭gurl always remember that we STAYS love ya 💜💜💜💜💜
I don’t study either;)
hyuka lixie DONT. DO . ANYTHING. WITH. YOURSELF. WE . LOVE . YOU.😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@@sufiya6322 I won't 🥺❤ thank you!
hyuka lixie 😭😭😭love ya
Whatever he speaks is so comforting :(
Chan saved me
He saved us and I hope we can save him too
I am new to skz but i already love himm!! I am a baby stayy!
@@varshanalokesh3303 welcome baby stay!🫂 I hope you enjoy your "stay"😊
Same
online schools are just worse than real life, and it's taking a big toll on me. chan's room is all i need to watch right now but my energy's still going down. nevertheless, thank you for uploading this
Same..i feel u
if you need to talk or rant im here for you .
Yes I’m so grateful he’s coming here every week cuz online school has just been super stressful
same...
i really feel u😭
my mom keeps taking my phone, which is my only escape from bad thoughts and I had such a hard time right now:(( I just took my phone back because I can't deal with it anymore but I'm so scared of getting punished for this, my anxiety was getting so bad just now thank you so much for making this
omg i hope things get better for u at home :(
glad I could help in anyway
Same my phone is my only escape
@@ak-mx8dv same...
I wish I can come and help you...TT
I'm so sorry you have to go through that, I'm going through something similar, I wish I could bail both of us out
God litteraly saw us and send this beautiful soul on earth because he knew that because of him many people would do better and try harder in life. And I also think that we're here in kpop is also not a coincidence. It's because he saw us.
Things will get better and remind yourself that Chan wants to see you smile. SO DON'T FORGET TO SMILE ☺
I wish this man knew how hes helped millions of people i absolutely love him and I know we don't know him in person but he's saved my life he makes me think my lifes worth it ik its a small chance but Chris if you see this comment, thank you so so so much ❤ 💜 💙 ♥
"just come to us and talk to us if youre feeling down."
If it was only that simple😭
I totally agree with this. Korea is overseas from where I live, and I want to meet Bang Chan and talk to him about all of my problems and ask for advice, it feels like he's the only one I can talk to that won't get upset with the way I feel. Even though I'm talking to him on a poster, it feels like I'm talking to the real Bang Chan.
This deserves more likes and views. I really want Bang Chan as my bestfriend. He so sweet, gives the best advices etc. I love him. And thankyou for making this, I need this.
I wish I could have a best friend like Chan. Someone who I can go to when I feel down, and get amazing advice from. Sadly, I'm stuck in quarantine.. But it's okay, because I have Chan and other STAYs..
ROBLOX_Variety it’s all gonna be okay. I’m here for you if you need me:) take a deep breath and just think everything will be okay. Believe in yourself
@@Kitty-fs6xi Thank you. It means a lot that someone cares. Stay safe and healthy!
@@the_ffca_me youre welcome! You too❤️❤️
you already have him as a best friend ! ☺️ we all do 🥺❤️❤️
Chan: Speaking in english.
Jeongin: Just smile and wave boys, smile and wave.
I broke down so hard when he said, “Don’t hurt yourself”. 🥀
You can do this! 💕 stay strong angel!☺️
same-
@@yobro9087I love you. If you can't hug anyone right now or anything, I can recommend you to hug trees because they are strong ones, also they are there since forever so they may give you a solution. *Kiss on the forehead* Stay strong Stay ❤️
Me: *crying*
BangChan: *talks about problems*
Me: 🙂
BangChan: *comforts me*
I.N: *smiles*
Me: 😁
I was feeling so down and was confused about what to do about it. Then I remembered, there is Chan. He must have said comforting words for stays. And here am I
you don’t know how many times ive rewatched this, literally this man is the light of my life and he’s like my go-to comfort idol.
bang chan : don't cry nooo don't cry
me : *sobbing*
Tip: listen to the cafe/ piano music with rain sounds while listening to this when your studying or anything especially this sound "RAINY DAY COFFEE SHOP AMBIENCE: Piano Music and Rain Sounds With Distant Thunder" ~ ily STAYS, take care of yourself, drink water and *hugs*
stay strong! 💕💕
thank you 😭🤗
me: *crying*
Chan: don't cry :D
me: *crying and laughing*
Online school is terrible it’s been making me so stressed half the time my work doesn’t get submitted and then my parents yell at me for not doing my work and ever since school started I started self harming again because that’s how I handle stress but thank you for uploading this
please dont hurt yourself,, i know things are tough now but I hope these times pass and things get bettet real soon.
Aniway when he said don't cry I was literally crying
The live where he says, “don’t hurt yourself” is a simple sentence but that one sentence saved so many lives. May it be STAYs or people who just came across the video or whatever or however they may have found the sources, at the end of the day, I don’t think he knows how many lives he has saved by that. And that is why SKZ is my ult favourite band, no offence to all the others, but like, yh
A year ago on this month, I started going through depression, it resulted in self-harm, there wasn’t that much people there for me, my friends would try to hide my scars while being around people, I felt ashamed because of it, I didn’t stan stray kids at the time but a few months ago was when I started stanning them, I never knew such an amazing person could have a big beautiful heart❤️ I’ve been going through some difficult stuff lately and hearing his words bring me strength and comfort❤️ Chan isn’t just a idol, he’s STAY’s bestfriend and light💕 I love you Channie🥺❤️ (I cried while writing this🥺)
please don't hurt yourself , you have so many people who care about you , i hope these hard times pass real soon. stay strong i believe in you
Pls get better I wish the best for u 💕
Hey, I was scrolling through the comments and I don't know if things are still hard for you. But it won't hurt to try and cheer someone up^^ I have been having a really though time as well, for a few years actually, so yeah, I really know how bad you can feel. It absolutely sucks, right? But I am sure you are an amazing person, not like a perfect human or anything, but just an amazing human being. Though it might be sad and also sound incredibly corny maybe, even your scars are part of what makes you beautiful. Because they tell the story of a human, a human who has been through a lot, yet is still going in one way or another. Just try to hold on a bit longer yeah? Let's try it together, you can do it!^^
@@Raelyn1117 things are still a little tough for me, I’m struggling with low self esteem and anxiety at the moment, I’m trying to work on myself the best I can but it’s really hard, I’m trying so hard to be strong but it’s still hard for me, especially since I always put others before myself, I appreciate the kind words, I’m often used to being told mean things so when someone tells me something like this, I appreciate it💜 I’m hoping that I could get better mentally, so I’ll keep doing my best, it’s really heartwarming to see stays checking in on other stays, skz would be so proud >333 I hope that things get better soon for you too❤️ I send you a huge hug💙 like Chan has said before “hugs make everything better!” Things may be hard at the moment but they will eventually get better soon :) thank you for your kind words❤️
@@ans1r1 Hey, it's okay that things are still though. Even though it sucks, it takes time. But you're trying your best and that's actually a lot, even if people not always see it. You should be proud of yourself for how far you've come, I am at least. Taking care of yourself and your mental health is quite a bit of work, so you're doing a good job.
Aww, big hug for you as well! Let's keep trying our best together yeah?^^
woah- i swear i stopped breathing as soon as the first clip came on
Is he watching me or what? Cuz the moment i started crying he said "don't cry!!"
BANGCHAN BEST BOY!! He really is one of a kind
if i ever get a chance, just once, to meet chan i would tell him how much he means to me. and tell him he was the reason ive decided to stay strong and push forward. hey chan and stray kids ! if you see this, i love you eight boys so much, my eight happy pills.
if I ever even saw him at a concert I would cry, I also really love him and the other stray kids
Our comfort zone
Fun fact: you didn't came here for no reason.cuz same
I just wanna say that the person reading this is amazing and beautiful in each and every way, it's okay to doubt yourself, to cry, to feel like the whole world hates you but remember that our stay's area family and family we'll always be there no matter what. You deserve everything blessing that comes to, after all, we makes stray kids stay and they make us stay, we are more family-like than anyone, we will be here for you. I know the world seems to stop at this time but stray kids are still working hard, you are the reason I stay.
The second he said “don’t cry no” I started crying. Chan, you really are stays safe space.
school has been making me feel super useless. so i really needed some comfort. thank you for making this video 🥺 i feel a lot better now, thanks to channie
2:30 am
09.08.2020
If you need someone to talk, here I am
omg you’re so sweet 🥺🥺 thank you
You are Wonderful
I think everyone should have a Chan to talk with, he's one of the most encouraging person that I know
My dad says i am wothless and all stuff like that, today he said he would leave bc i am not a social person he’s drunk 99% of the time and chan tbh rlly helps me trough this, having a mental breakdown rn so yeah🙃
I'm really sorry you're going through this. You don't deserve to be treated this way and I hope you're able to escape this environment as soon as possible. I'm grateful you have found comfort in Chan's words, I hope you know you are worthy of so much love please stay strong and stay safe. I wish you the absolute best
i'm so sorry sweetie💜i pray you get out of this environnment
I'm sorry you're going through this ,, no one deserves to be treated this way , you're worthy of love and respect, and if your family is not a safe place for you, know for sure that we are a one for you.
I’M CRYING 😭😭😭my dad is a really helpful guy I’m really Lucky to have my parents 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I feel so sorry for you 😭
I’ve gotten bullied but I eventually stood up for myself.... be brave gurl!
It must be terrible to go through that. Please take care of yourself, love you 💜
When he said dont hurt yourself i started BAWLING OMG
It’s ok ❤️ I hope you’re doing well now.
I was so confused for a sec when he went "dont cry", that just made me cry harder lol
he said “don’t cry” when i was just started ceying now i’m crying more
I was feeling down and I instantly knew who could help me
skz and stays really aren't just idols and their fandom, they're a family, and it's become my escape from everything.
chan is more supportive than my parents will ever be
I'm literally BAWLING MY EYES OUT
this man... he has taken care of the parenting job which most parents suck at...
Thanks for coming in our lives chan, I dont know how to pay u honestly...
I accidentally hurt my baby brother and I tried to help but he said to go away and I felt terrible. I immediately searched up Chan and I feel so much better. The effect this man has on my standards....
📈
I’d do anything to see that sweet smile in real life. I’m watching this before going back to school after my lunch break, I can be my true self in school. I cant be this teenage girl that looks up to kpop boys and finds my happiness through them. Chans woderful advice is what gets me through the day, I get anxious in school I picture chan giving me a big ole’ hug and telling me everything will be alright. Chan helps me with a lot.
this man will never know how greatful I am for him.
TBH
Chan was the first ever idol that made me cry... T~T
Bangchan is a legend honestly
He's such a good leader 😣😣😣😣
Me coming here cause I feel overwhelmed from this week.
Chan: No!!! Don’t cry!!
Me not crying: *suddenly starts bawling like a crazy person*
Its crazy because you don't find people like him i don't what i would do without him 💔
The dislike is a no soul person
Just like most of us I started crying and then chan said "don't cry!" Bro I feel so loved by all stray kids and stay like how could I not cry??
I've had much a terrible day and so many things happened in my family and I've been losing it so I can't tell you how much this means to me thank you for compiling this
Thank you so much really
I'm glad I could help in any way ,, I hope tomorrow is a better day
@@lixieskz2451
I hope you have a great day! Thank you once again
This is why I love Stray Kids and Chan! Their advices, music, personality just saved me out of the darkness place on this world! Thank you so much ☺️ Chan ❤️
i want to hug him and cry in his arms... he seems like such a sweet man and he deserves the world
if you guys little more motivation here is another video to comfort you and give you little hope , things are gonna get better , ily and so does bang chan and skz
I came here because anxiety was getting really bad... and I actually smiled from the last two clips (other clips probably made me smile too but I don't remember, I was too focused on what chan was saying). I hope this man knows how many people he helps to heal around the world. he and skz saved my life
if u want to talk with me you can contact me on instagram I'm @_imsosad._
stay safe
It's so comforting to listen to Chan... feels like I'm listening to a close friend... lots of times I feel so sad, I feel like sadness might be my main emotion... but Chan makes me smile, cry, laugh... he's the best medicine... he makes me happy again...
When you’re down or hit a slump, think about special memories or remind yourself of that, it’ll make you feel happier or better
0:54
"Don't cry"
This man knows everything
Chan saved us...he did something that not even our parents couldn't do for us 😢❤
i felt so anxious today at school i thought i was going to throw up. sometimes i want to just leave so bad i pray and wish for hours to disappear or get into an accident so i can stop being a burden and annoying to people. at the end of the day ive come to realize no one knows you better than you know yourself and you cant rely or trust ANYONE. even the ppl that u think know u dont actually know u. and no one will fight for u the way yiull fight for yourself. thats what ive learned from life.
i know how you feel :( but trust me you are not annoying , i'm sure there are alot of people who love you and care for you , i know how hard it is to get these thoughts out of your head but i believe that you're strong enough to fight them. life is tough but you aren't alone
This is very comforting to know that Channie really cares about us all so much! Thank you, Stray Kids, for being my motivation, comfort, and general reason to live (sometimes... don't worry, I'm not suicidal or anything).
pls he doesn't understand his impact. like seriously, he's one of the best men I have ever heard of. us just seeing him brightens our day
i’m here again 🧍school has been stressing me out :(
12:40 am
10.14.2020
Gosh I'd do anything to be friends with this man. I've never felt so safe my whole life..if comfort was a person then it'd definitely be Chan. i hope that i can meet him one day and give him a big hug and thank him for everything he did for us
I'm really glad to have chan, for me, I hurt myself, I barely eat much, but I'm not sure why. I don't have any real reason, I just have that feeling of wanting too. I battle with that a lot of the time, listening to skz and watching their videos really distracts me from doing that stuff. I know this seems attention seeking but I just want anyone to know, if you're going through a tough time, and you're like me and don't have a reason, or you might have a reason. Like chan says, go to skz, listen to his voice, stay distracted by happy things. always know chan, skz, stay, are here for you, just start talking and we will always, always be here to listen. Some of us may not be the best at giving advice but we will do out best, we might stay quiet because we don't know what to say, but that will never mean we are disappointed and we don't want you to feel sorry about doing or feeling a certain way about yourself, we will help you, and we will always be here, we will give each other the wings we need to fly
How crazy it is that a person who's far away from you and who doesn't know about your existence can actually comfort you and make you feel a lot better, I love him so much 💜
I just lost hope for today..keep on crying..I'm listening to their songs to console myself..n finally going to yt searching motivation from bangchan
I'm just a week old stay but I listen to him every day it really heals me when I watch him I'm so grateful to him
tysm for made this.. i really need it
I am not a STAY rather I am an army and I never thought any other idol could make me feel this comforted but, this guy has such a pure soul. He really heals people with his words and smiles... I hope he is happy just happy from his heart. I like their music but this guy has definitely become one of the go-to in my low times other than. STAYS u r lucky to have this angle.
cool now I'm curling in my bed under my blanket and my mom thinks I'm a weirdo
The way Jeongin was seeing Bang Chan just melts my heart 😢😢
he make me feel so safe and hes honestly the light in my life i really need him
chan: don't cry
me: *crying for the past 2 hours* cries even more
Bang chan: don’t hurt yourself
Me: *looks at my cuts* 🥺😭
Hey, I hope you're doing a bit better? Things might be really though right now, in whatever way it might be. Life is being shitty for me as well to be honest, for quite some time. But things really will get better yeah, you can do it! Let's hold on a little longer, shall we?^^
I started bawling- I hope ur okay now- just a reminder that you are loved and you are worth so so goddamn much❤️
This guy is so much mature for his age. Always giving us advices and treating us nicely. He always responds to the messages in vlive making us stays flutter. He produces, composes, sings and raps. What can't he do? He is a great leader and I hope people appreciate him for that. Where can I get a bangchan in my life? 😭
Hearing Chan say not to hurt yourself… I cannot even begin to express how much I cried upon listening to that.
This man is too good for us, he really deserves the world.. 💙
I need him rn. Imagine having a bro like him😢
I love the ways he tries to comfort stays by speaking korean and English both😭💜 ....and I just feel like people who are with me can't make feel happy but a person who stays literally milesssss away can make me happy💜💜😭😭
Hearing him say "We will always try to fix you guys" is a little uncomfortable to hear. Man's got a big heart and wants to help everybody, but the sad reality is you can't save everyone and any attempt to do so is just gonna hurt you in the end.
Since I'm pretty sure everyone here rn is sad: 4:10 right here you can see that Jeongin has no idea what Chan is saying and I can't💀
oml haha, thank you for making me laugh♡
He saved me from my depression he helped me get better I still struggle with it but I’m not bad anymore and when I get depressed I play this and it makes me feel better
I miss him. I miss those old moments when I would keep my Sunday evenings free just to see Chan, when I used to find so much in his words, his stories, the songs he played, his presence. I miss how close I felt to him, how even a single thought of him was very comforting to me. I don't know what changed, maybe its just life, things change, situations change, and people change. But I will try to remember how much just his presence has helped me, healed me and given me strength. Chan has been such an important part of my life in the past years and I am so grateful he still is. I am so thankful to know him and hear him and his songs. Even if its just through internet, I am grateful how big of a presence he has had on my life
i’m not a stay but i always listen to all bangchan’s advice because it really helps whenever i’m in my lowest point
No matter how hard I try to not overthink about things, I just cant. Especially with school, Literally stressing my ass off and I have to deal with my mom yelling at me 24/7
Me too :(
I have,so much schoolwork and I feel like i have to do it all and have so much stress then my mom gets mad,at mad when I dont do other things
When he said to not hurt ourselves i felt so ashamed to have done so. He is better than my actual therapist🖤🤙🏻Love STAY.
channie is literally what each human should be like. He cares so much for us 😭. As a person with anxiety disorder ( might have depression too idk ) hearing someone speak about it and trying to make you feel better is so helpful ❤️🩹
Me : *about to fall asleep*
Chan : 🗣SAUR🔊DON'T🚫FORGET💥THE☝️PAST‼️BE🦅WELL❤️🔥TODAY👹AND⁉️LOOK🔥FORWARD🔛🔝
when he said “it’s better to do something than nothing” it made me sob bc I feel the pressure of graduating from middle school. And my missing assignments are making me feel unworthy of love and comfort there always voice inside my head saying “you’re not doing enough, you’ll never be successful in high school and in life”... but I’ve been making more efforts into my schoolwork little by little. I’m FAR from being able to do ALL of my missing assignments, but I just want to finish this year strong my way. Thank you bang Chan my forever ult bais 💘💓
Thinking of happy things works sometimes but I really can think of anything happy without my mind destroying it and making it sad again
even though i am not a stay his words are really comforting tears formed in my eyes and he just said “dont cry” i am definitely gonna become a stay now
Stray kids and stay are my family. I love you all, thank you so much
This man is such a safe space for me and I couldn’t be more grateful for it
I genuinely appreciate Chan so much. He's simply amazing.
I was crying and then he said "Nooo don't cry" and that just made me smile