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  • Опубліковано 17 сер 2024
  • Sharing alll the questions & exercises to help you design your dream life, from clarifying what you want, to planning, prioritizing, and taking action! If you want to dive deeper and truly commit to this path, check out my online course on Creating Your Dream Life → www.lavendaire...
    Blog post with the full list of questions: www.lavendaire...
    // more videos on life design
    → how to figure out what to do with your life: intentional living | bit.ly/2WvmZHB
    → how to make a vision board | bit.ly/2QGITlm
    → vivid vision exercise: journal prompts | bit.ly/2Bfbwyf
    → "imaginary lives" exercise from The Artist's Way | bit.ly/2LoCrN9
    // timestamps
    0:00 intro
    0:52 1. dream life questionnaire
    2:59 what most ppl get wrong
    3:17 2. create a vision board
    3:57 planning & executing
    4:05 3. prioritize: foundations first
    4:51 4. dreamlining exercise
    6:33 5. build a rough timeline
    7:50 6. break it down
    8:27 creating my dream life in phases
    9:44 my guidelines for my dream life
    11:00 building lavendaire: why it felt aligned
    12:26 building financial freedom
    13:20 the journey continues
    14:43 what's important
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    // ABOUT
    I’m Aileen, a lifestyle creator sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 352

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  8 місяців тому +3

    ✨ Plan your most intentional & successful year with the 2024 Artist of Life Workbook, a powerful guided journal for achieving your dream life → lavendaire.com/workbook

  • @anamikamaruthara
    @anamikamaruthara 2 роки тому +429

    This sentence is still echoing in my mind.
    "You're a light in this world. Your light is unique and incomparable to others"
    Love you

  • @LindasFavorites
    @LindasFavorites 2 роки тому +265

    I NEEDED this! I've been feeling kinda lost, again, lately. I'm 35 now, but still have a dream I want to come to fruition. So, thank you, sincerely.

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 2 роки тому +299

    I feel like I am constantly GO GO GOing that I never stop to think and reflect on these questions!!! I'm so excited to journal and answer these questions!!!

    • @rootedro
      @rootedro 2 роки тому +9

      Sometimes slowing down is the best thing you can do for yourself❤️

    • @Astro_molldoll
      @Astro_molldoll 2 роки тому +4

      I feel the same way! It’s so good to stop and think about what you truly want

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 2 роки тому +1

      @@Astro_molldoll i need to remember to stop and breathe eeek

    • @jletsgoo
      @jletsgoo 2 роки тому +1

      mhm 🤧 need to spare some time to reflect once in a while

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому +11

      yes!! it starts with intention :)

  • @aida087
    @aida087 2 роки тому +99

    Aileen first off.... Thank you SO much for this!! I am 58 years old, am trying to get back my health, and embarrassingly still trying to get over "fear of failure" and figuring out my purpose in life!! This morning, I was decluttering my phone home screen and your channel icon that I have on my screen screamed out to me and I felt a push to come here, so thankful I did!! As I'm listening to you giving all of this BEAUTIFUL and heartfelt advice, I wanted to cry but instead, smiled because THIS, EVERYTHING you spoke of is what I've SO wanted and SO need right now!! And I am a visual and creative person but never even thought of, or had the time in putting together all you spoke of!! God bless you and thank you Aileen, you are such a BEAUTIFUL soul!! I can't wait to answer these questions and I cannot wait to start "living MY dream life.... "Better late than never" is my motto!!💖🥰🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому +20

      I appreciate you so much!! Wow, sending you lots of love & support for your dream life 🙏🏼

    • @aida087
      @aida087 2 роки тому +10

      @@lavendaire Aww thank you Aileen, so appreciate you!! I watched your 20's video, so inspiring and going to show it to my 14 and 9 year old granddaughters so that when they become of age, they know that with dreams come goals and, they too can live the lives of their dreams!! I wish more young people would heed your advice!!💖🥰🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @Rose-id9sj
      @Rose-id9sj 2 роки тому +4

      @@aida087 YEAHH THAT’S AWESOME I hope ur granddaughters follow that journey

    • @anthonammal7998
      @anthonammal7998 2 роки тому +6

      It is never too late to be what you might have been. George Eliot - British author

    • @aida087
      @aida087 2 роки тому

      @@anthonammal7998 I've always loved this quote thank you!! 💖🥰🙏🏼

  • @F0reverblessed
    @F0reverblessed 2 роки тому +123

    Discover yourself and REdiscovering yourself if you have to! Having a detailed plan on what life you want to live will not only make it more real, it’ll hold you accountable!
    From a self love content creator to another; loved this video Aileen. Discovering ourselves is so important! ❤️

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому +9

      yes girl! sending you lots of love ✨

    • @F0reverblessed
      @F0reverblessed 2 роки тому +3

      @@lavendaire Thank you so much! Sending you a warm virtual hug! 🤗❤️

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  2 роки тому +109

    Enjoy spending your time with these questions + exercises! Remember, you don't have to have all the answers. Take your time :)
    Check out my online course on Creating Your Dream Life → lavendaire.com/dreamlife
    See the list of questions on the blog post → www.lavendaire.com/design-dream-life/

    • @jyotipandeyyoutube
      @jyotipandeyyoutube 2 роки тому

      I want to be a successful youtuber but I am never getting views on my videos. I have been trying for 5 years now. I started Following Lavendaire 3 yeArs back And I have seen Tremendous growth in her . Idk What's wrong with my videos . I am so disappointed I think my videos will never go viral . It seems like everybody who said UA-cam is not for you was correct . I have failed 😞😞😞😞😞

    • @annaugcitaly
      @annaugcitaly 2 роки тому

      These questions made me reflect what I really want in my dream life 💕💕💕

    • @potnurukeerthana8700
      @potnurukeerthana8700 2 роки тому +1

      You look like a fairy with your little magic hand gesture. 🪄

    • @azuzhassen2794
      @azuzhassen2794 2 роки тому

      You need islam to be perfect and happy 😊 let your self know islam ☪️

    • @caliwa
      @caliwa 2 роки тому

      If someone can answer my question I would really appreciate it. Should I do the life that I want for myself within the next few years? Because I might end up changing my mind and wanting to move someone new but I am worried that I will always be chasing a different dream life. Any tips?

  • @RehannahB
    @RehannahB 2 роки тому +25

    Wow you look like a fairy princess 🧚🏻✨ maybe a fairy godmother helping us make dreams come true with practical magic lol 😌

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому +4

      haha yesss sending you sparkles thru the screen ✨✨

  • @gracepower8847
    @gracepower8847 2 роки тому +19

    This is actually perfect timing. I have been really struggling with depression and anxiety lately, and this reminded me that I have the power over my own life and my own desires. Thank you, Aileen. You are truly changing lives.

  • @JenniferYang
    @JenniferYang 2 роки тому +9

    hi Aileen! I recently just graduated college and didn't realize that I was on autopilot until my senior year of college. It finally hit me that I was just following and doing what others and my parents wanted me to do. But I too, desire the things you wanted in life; financial freedom, doing what you love, being creative, helping others, freedom, work whenever and wherever you want, and all that! I have started journaling more to figure out what I want and what my dream life would look like and it's helped me so much with being more clear! I can't wait to incorporate these questions that you have in your video to my journal! Now, it's kinda the hard part, figuring out how I can achieve these desires and what to do to get to each step.

  • @jemimaorakwue3450
    @jemimaorakwue3450 2 роки тому +53

    This is such good perfect timing! Im currently in a gap year. Figuring out what to do in my life before I go to uni next year. I have plenty of time to think about the things you have told me. When i heard your story about starting lavendaire, i smiled because i found ur channel a few years after u started which was around 2018 or 2017. Im very happy your channel has become successful since then! Thank you so much for ur advice Aileen!!!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому +5

      wow, enjoy your gap year! ✨

  • @halda241
    @halda241 2 роки тому +16

    One thing I admire about aileen is her beauty glow from the inside. ✨ she has such beautiful soul 💛

  • @MonaLisa-yd9qu
    @MonaLisa-yd9qu 2 роки тому +25

    To be honest having a hard time right now...its like i can't figure out what to do next...its like i am lacking behind and i can't find any meaning in it. I know what my dream life looks like but i don't know where to start, that is it even for me? Can i achieve it? My heart goes for everyone who is struggling and for lavendaire who makes such amazing videos to remind that dream life is possible🌼❤

  • @love_anneliese
    @love_anneliese 2 роки тому +61

    This is my recent FAVOURITE Lavendaire video! I rewatched it to jot down all the questions and steps 💗 it’s truly a wonderful video~ inspiring and helpful 🥰 thanks for making it for us, Aileen

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому +5

      yay! happy it helped ✨✨

  • @samruddhighodake223
    @samruddhighodake223 2 роки тому +3

    My ideal dream life look like having peace of mind, joy, financially independent, exploring the world, being nice and kind to others, finding joy in little moments.💓

  • @adaadler3947
    @adaadler3947 2 роки тому +14

    I have phases of dream life
    Phase 1) I’m in school, studying and dating. I’m in a cute studio apartment and I’m working from home. I have a dog and a cat and I’m meeting interesting people
    Phase 2) I’m working and traveling, having fun (still single) and becoming more cultured
    Phase 3) I’ve settled down, own a farm and rescue dogs and other animals. Maybe I get married and adopt kids. I’m homeschooling them and creating a better generation. I’m independent and at at peace with my life. No regrets

  • @randomviews59
    @randomviews59 2 роки тому +9

    I’m living for this fairy god mother/ princess Aileen aesthetic😭💞 So cute!🌸👑🧚

  • @gabriellas
    @gabriellas 2 роки тому +10

    my dream life is traveling as a digital nomad for most of the year :) working online, passive income, and enjoying my days in a new city with other cool people... so more cool cosmopolitan than backpacker with one set of shoes haha working to make this happen by next year!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому +3

      this honestly sounds so fun!

    • @lightgivener
      @lightgivener 2 роки тому

      How are you planning to give back to the community or make the world a better place?

  • @carolinebon
    @carolinebon 2 роки тому +15

    You're my favorite artist of life, Aileen. 💖 The way you help and sums up your idea, really motivates me to strive and become a better version of myself. Hope everyone watching your videos, be the successful version of themselves in all areas of their lives.

    • @user-yk3ih4qm8g
      @user-yk3ih4qm8g 2 роки тому

      AISURU.TOKYO/piit?[Making-love]💞
      (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*18 years and over
      UA-cam: This is fine
      Someone: Says "heck"
      UA-cam: Be gone
      #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾

  • @MariJadeWrites
    @MariJadeWrites Рік тому +4

    I started creating my 2023 vision board today and it's such a fun exercise 🥰 i am building my dream creative career and am enjoying every step of it. I am also trying out dreamlining exercise as well.

  • @sarrahvee
    @sarrahvee 2 роки тому +5

    This puts so much clarity. I worry about so many things that it’s making me anxious every day. There’s much I want to learn about my self and the things I want for my self but there are people I love that I also want to support. Hay… I know it’s going to take a long time to get there but watching your video just added more light to the things I want my self to have. Thanks Aileen! 💜

  • @aesthetxcjin4884
    @aesthetxcjin4884 2 роки тому +23

    oh , i was thinking to design my life newly....and our queen posted right away...thanks you Lavendaire

    • @user-yk3ih4qm8g
      @user-yk3ih4qm8g 2 роки тому +1

      AISURU.TOKYO/piit?[Making-love]💞
      (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*18 years and over
      UA-cam: This is fine
      Someone: Says "heck"
      UA-cam: Be gone
      #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾

  • @mariavazquezcastro6975
    @mariavazquezcastro6975 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your experience and explaining the steps so succinctly. I am actually in my 50s and 10 years ago I was diagnosed with breast cancer: I was 44, a single mother of a 5-year-old boy, and thousands of miles away from my family. This diagnosis was a wake-up call, so I started my personal growth journey. I am waaaaay happier now, happier than I have ever been. I have started working on that dream life. I know it takes time and effort, but it's totally possible and definitely worth it. I will keep watching your videos and taking notes.

  • @YourActiveDose
    @YourActiveDose 2 роки тому +7

    Journey of self discovery has always been hard to pursue because of the external factors, social media effects, and the ego preventing us from considering our flaws and living by them but not through them. Love the video and its simplicity. Thank you ♥

  • @itsciarajames
    @itsciarajames 2 роки тому +5

    This is such a timely video! I always feel like I never have enough time to myself. Now, more than ever, I feel the weight of it. I am so ready for my dream life to start! I’m going to make time this weekend to start dreaming! Thank you so much! 🤍✨

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому

      this was your sign to start! ✨

  • @carolinycristina4219
    @carolinycristina4219 2 роки тому +14

    - Quais as características da minha vida dos sonhos?
    - Onde eu quero morar/viver?
    - Como estou passando meu dia-a-dia?
    - Quais são os hábitos diários na minha vida ideal?
    - Como um dia típico na minha vida se parece?
    - Como uma semana típica na minha vida se parece?
    - Como meu ano geralmente se parece?
    - Quem são as pessoas a minha volta? E quantas vezes a gente conversa ou vê um ao outro?
    - Que tipo de comida eu estou comendo? Como eu estou jantando?
    - O que eu estou fazendo por diversão? E quantas vezes eu faço isso?
    - Quais bens materiais eu tenho?
    - Que coisas imateriais eu tenho?
    - Como eu passo minhas férias? Para onde eu viajo?
    - Quanto dinheiro eu estou fazendo? Como eu estou usando o meu dinheiro?
    - Como eu vou dar de volta?
    - Como eu me pareço?
    - Como eu me sinto?

  • @fatimaezzahra4460
    @fatimaezzahra4460 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you for All the positive vibes 🌸💖

  • @elizabethnyambura925
    @elizabethnyambura925 2 роки тому +2

    I have been raking my mind all day trying to find the best answer to what my dream lifestyle looks like ever since I came across the question on a random post today, this video definitely puts everything into perspective esp when it comes to setting the intention

  • @estherestelle7920
    @estherestelle7920 2 роки тому +9

    This is so hard for me because I'm such a bohemian soul. I like to be unstructured and spontaneous, that's what truly makes me happy, to be able to get up in the morning and decide that morning how I want to spend it. Feeling free to direct my own paths.

    • @mastandstars5869
      @mastandstars5869 2 роки тому +1

      this

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому +8

      and that's okay and that's beautiful! living in the present :)

    • @awilliams7796
      @awilliams7796 2 роки тому

      Maybe working backwards and working out what would give you the freedom to live where you want etc.

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  Рік тому +5

    Hi loves! ✨ We just launched a new community program ft. masterminds and monthly live events for personal growth & wellness! Learn more & join here → lavendaire.com/DLC 🫶

  • @LyssieLysse
    @LyssieLysse 2 роки тому +1

    This is no coincidence! I seen a video similar to this one back in 2018 when I found out about Aileen. I was going through a lot then, had no direction in my life and had major anxiety. Now, I’m working my dream job and starting to live a life that I’m proud of. It’s cool how things come full circle.

  • @a.b.2405
    @a.b.2405 2 роки тому +4

    I want to focus on my education, starting a career I enjoy, my spirituality, and my fitness first. I feel like I don’t have to worry about money since the money will come once I start my career. I have a part time job now, but I’m not in lack (thankfully).

  • @taploykao
    @taploykao 2 роки тому +2

    I felt the goosebumps every time I flipped through my past Artist of Life workbooks. Thank you for these tools that you created, Aileen! I am working towards my dream life 😍

  • @jeon_artemis
    @jeon_artemis 5 місяців тому

    Watching this video after Aileen's latest video.. in this video she says she is dreaming about her oen home... And her latest video was a vlog of moving in with Wilson into her OWN home.
    I feel so proud of her and I feel inspired that, if she can, I can too 💖

  • @mariamnader2016
    @mariamnader2016 2 роки тому +4

    U r litterally my number 1 youtuber 💜

  • @jeonjungkook5565
    @jeonjungkook5565 2 роки тому +14

    This channel truly help me alot with everything 💜

    • @user-yk3ih4qm8g
      @user-yk3ih4qm8g 2 роки тому

      AISURU.TOKYO/piit?[Making-love]💞
      (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*18 years and over
      UA-cam: This is fine
      Someone: Says "heck"
      UA-cam: Be gone
      #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾

  • @daisyzill
    @daisyzill 2 роки тому +6

    Love this video, it's contents, and the cute emojis in the title 🥰
    I recently got a new job that I really fulfills me and now feel like the rest of my life can fall into place. This video is just what I needed to finish building my dream life ✨

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому +1

      Beautiful! Congrats 😍

  • @kimstringer7968
    @kimstringer7968 2 роки тому +3

    My new favorite video! And perfect timing, I am finally building my dream home after a five year journey. The home is in another state, so this is the perfect time before moving, to get straight on what my dream life in my new home closer to family, will look like! So excited about creating the intention and the plan! 💖
    Looking forward to more videos about creating passive income! Thanks for this video 😊

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому

      Wow amazing! Happy for you 👏🏻💓

  • @yurikain9354
    @yurikain9354 2 роки тому +4

    I’m watching it before my internship today. And give me lots of motivation!❤️‍🔥
    I still have time this morning so I’ll do those exercises right now!!!
    BTW, I’m practicing English by shadowing your video everyday! Thank you very much for sharing it on your Instagram story the other day!❤️🥺✨

  • @sublimebutterfly55
    @sublimebutterfly55 2 роки тому

    Hello, I’m 20 years old I just turned 20 in September and I found this video at the most perfect time. I realized the day before my birthday that this is a new chapter in my life and I am transforming weekly! Yesterday I went through your videos and saved all the ones about creating the life of your dreams and being productive because I realized I am unorganized. You are the perfect person for me to learn from because it is simply put pretty! You are helping me create and put into words the life of my dreams. Knowing Is half the battle and you show me the other half I need to get where I want to be. I am very thankful for you sharing your journey and Sharing your day to day life. It is so amazing and important. Thank you💓💓sending love from Louisiana!

  • @sukhithamadhavi3376
    @sukhithamadhavi3376 2 роки тому +2

    She helps us sooo much with our lives ❤✨
    She deserves the world ❤❤

  • @ghoulamorous
    @ghoulamorous 2 роки тому +1

    I totally understand the desire to have a physical close knit group who shares your same values. I have the same values as you and I struggle to find them in my area too!
    But I’ve discovered in my dream life is that I’m meant to share my mess as a message to help others who feel lost, confused, stuck, or hopeless in their journey of life and feel less alone. I’m learning to sculpt out the time to get serious and dedicate to my blog and UA-cam. I plan on uploading my video next week about my return and updates cos ya girl was gone for awhile and is ready to get down to business!
    I always love your content and resonate with all your videos. Wishing you continued love, success, and happiness! 💕

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому +1

      love this - wishing you the best!! ✨

  • @aliciarose2237
    @aliciarose2237 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for making this video! It was everything I needed to hear at this point in my life. Also, thank you for sharing that you still live at home with your mother, while you are still building and creating your dream life! This was so inspiring and doing the journaling exercises made me dream life feel so much more tangible!! ❤❤❤

  • @ananya9884
    @ananya9884 2 роки тому +5

    Your content is always all about the situation I am currently facing 💜

    • @user-yk3ih4qm8g
      @user-yk3ih4qm8g 2 роки тому

      AISURU.TOKYO/piit?[Making-love]💞
      (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*18 years and over
      UA-cam: This is fine
      Someone: Says "heck"
      UA-cam: Be gone
      #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾

  • @lazifatunnoor4274
    @lazifatunnoor4274 2 роки тому +2

    Hey Aileen!! Commenting after sooooo long. I was going through a terrible time in my life, well I am in a better state now. Congratulations on 1.5M subs!!! I am soooo happy for you. Love sooooo sooo sooo much!! May God BLESS U EVEN MORE!!! Stay blessed and safe! Always looking forward to your videos when going through tough times, it really helps me. thank you so much Aileen!! Love u so much!

  • @ashleyunveiled
    @ashleyunveiled 2 роки тому +1

    I watched the Vivid Vision video last night 😯 and now this came out. Not coincidence at all 🥰

  • @fareehamohammad542
    @fareehamohammad542 2 роки тому

    Upon completing every question in the dream life questionnaire, I feel like I have a clear goal in mind.
    I feel powerful understanding myself and knowing the five w's in my dream life.
    Love you

  • @mayayaya44
    @mayayaya44 2 роки тому

    Watching your video today felt like a rays of sunshine on my face. I'm at the beginning of this process but it feels so late for me like I've always been expected to know what to do and find a profitable job but here I am, just finished university and not knowing what to do with my life. I feel pressure to figure it out as quickly as possible so your video felt really refreshing and comforting. Thank u!

  • @manvy5927
    @manvy5927 2 роки тому +3

    OMG I'VE BEEN NEEDING THIS, MANIFESTED😭💜💖

  • @wateenabusaleh0570
    @wateenabusaleh0570 2 роки тому +4

    I was thinking about that topic now and wow the video was released,I love you 💕
    And thank you for always giving me a good energy🥺 ✨

  • @torya_zanella
    @torya_zanella 2 роки тому

    wow! i NEEDED this, for real, just got out of collage and i'm trying to figure out HOW I can do what i want, make a living out of it and BELIEVE in my dreams. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!

  • @aulia_fajrin
    @aulia_fajrin 2 роки тому +3

    Love the positive vibes

  • @suhanirehman730
    @suhanirehman730 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much 🥺. You always save my life by posting relatable content ❤️😭

  • @room.0123
    @room.0123 2 роки тому

    This is so helpful to me right now; graduated a few months back and currently have zero plans and directions on what I want to pursue next or do with my life. This video really helped and made me think through what I truly want.

  • @autumn5725
    @autumn5725 2 роки тому

    Everything you said hit me so hard! I am currently trying to figure out my life. I also don’t want to go down the path that everyone expected me to go down with my major. But because of this I’m lost. I have a dream life I want to build, but I have no idea where to start and I begin to second guess myself, feeling like I can’t catch up with society. I really needed to hear what you said, it gave me the confidence to be at peace with myself and move at my own pace💕💕

  • @karine568
    @karine568 Рік тому

    this video came in a perfect time. I began my uni this year and I've been feeling kind lost in life, I'll answer those questions for sure.
    love your channel and how you inspire me every time I watch your videos

  • @HereForTheShips
    @HereForTheShips 2 роки тому +1

    Knowing you live at your mom's place gave me so much reassurance, ngl. I also live at my mom's and it seems I'll be here much longer than anticipated, since I returned to University a couple years ago and I can't afford to live anywhere else atm. Anyway returning to University even though I'm in my 30s is part of my plan to build my dream life, so I have to have patience! But it's so hard when my mom's so incredibly controlling. "My house, my rules" sort of thing. I'm not allowed to go out by myself, travel, etc. If I do, it's a terrible time bc she won't leave me alone. She's an artist at making you feel guilty for being happy 😅 But I'm okay because I know it's temporary. Anyway this video helped me so much to remind myself why I'm trying this University thing all over again. lol

  • @crismaure919
    @crismaure919 2 роки тому +1

    You really inspired me to love my self and be myself, love your vids, thanks... YOU'RE MY HEROOOO😭😭😭💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💓

  • @marikaheitmann5206
    @marikaheitmann5206 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you! 😊 What I know for sure is that I don't want to live in a big city, but rather in the countryside with a small/medium city nearby. And I want to have a positive impact on nature/climate. I want to feel peaceful, balanced and excited about life at the same time. ❤ I want to take time for fun things and be grateful, appreciate the small things. Love myself and others. Have a few, close friends, a partner, my family relatively close by and a tidy, clean and cosy home. 🍀

    • @kennzfrenzy
      @kennzfrenzy Рік тому

      Even though this is a year ago, this is actually very close to what I want LOL

  • @ritasoleman9264
    @ritasoleman9264 2 роки тому +1

    You have no idea how much this helps...

  • @katerinareicheltova7062
    @katerinareicheltova7062 2 роки тому +1

    So proud of you to achieve what you had defined as your dream life! 💜

  • @socialmite2435
    @socialmite2435 2 роки тому

    This video has helped me so much! I had to watch it twice. Once to soak everything in and another to write everything down. I know people say this every year, but I really think 2022 will be the year of change for me. I don’t want to be in the same place I was this year. Thank you so much!

  • @lillyb6260
    @lillyb6260 2 роки тому

    I never thought about setting parameters like you described. I needed that! This has given me so much more clarity. Thanks!

  • @Cj7sky
    @Cj7sky 2 роки тому

    Thank you 🙏 a lot of these things seem obvious but getting from knowing to DOING can be a difficult first step and you help outline that process SO well!! The way you frame this is just so great and helpful!!

  • @jiajiachen1149
    @jiajiachen1149 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. The design part is very important. I'm always very impatient in the journey. It took me 2 years to figure out my path too! Thank you, for letting me know I'm not alone, and that everyone has their timeline, we just got to control what we can control and give ourselves credit.

  • @fayecooper604
    @fayecooper604 2 роки тому

    Lavandaire is the absolute best. Such a kind and inspirational person ❤

  • @avivit98
    @avivit98 2 роки тому +1

    Hi, I wanted to jump in to say thank you.
    You-
    Amazing
    I really think you can change my life, and that you are already changing the lives of so many people.
    I love you
    I wish you only good, joy and that you will continue to upload videos to your channel :)
    Love
    Avivit (from Israel)

  • @peifertwins
    @peifertwins 2 роки тому +2

    Yes! Needed this! Love your content 💜💖

  • @adventurepantsmcgee
    @adventurepantsmcgee 2 роки тому

    Clarified in my dream life: I am able to play tennis multiple times a week because I have flexibility in my work schedule, where I'm my own boss. I travel internationally 4x per year, and a few more times nationally to visit family and friends. I enjoy cooking because I have time to make it taste good, as well as healthy. I have lots of time for experiencing new hikes with my boyfriend and our dog.
    Thanks for the video! 💚 Excellent information.

  • @yourcalmplace
    @yourcalmplace 2 роки тому +1

    Whoever reading this, you’ll be succesful someday. Just keep on pushing ❤️

  • @pp-rh9wz
    @pp-rh9wz 2 роки тому +1

    woww your words are so powerful to me. it's really encouraging. thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @jecoliaha282
    @jecoliaha282 Рік тому

    Questions:
    1. Where do I want to live?
    2. How am I spending my day/month/year?
    3. Who are the people around me? And how often do I talk to them?
    4. What type of food am I eating?
    5. What am I doing for fun and how often am I doing it?
    6. What material and non-material thing do I have?
    7. How am I vacationing?
    8. How do I look?
    9. How much money am I making and how am I using my money?
    10. How will I give back?
    11. How do I feel?
    Planning and Executing
    1. Prioritize (create a flowchart; what parts of your dream life are crucial to building up on to create a flow...)
    2. Dream lining (make a spreadsheet of all your typical expenditure in your dream life)
    3. Build a rough timeline (what is possible in 2, 3, 4 years?) - break it down and plan out how to execute them

  • @PetDKK
    @PetDKK 2 роки тому

    Thank you for another amazing video, Aileen!
    If someone wants to easily get started, here are all the questions from the video, for you to copy and paste.
    What are the characteristics of my dream life?
    Where do I want to live?
    How am I spending my day-to-day? What does a typical day in my life look like? What are the daily habits in my ideal life?
    What does a typical week in my life look like?
    How does my year generally look
    Who are the people around me?
    How often do we talk or see each other?
    What type of food am I eating? How am I dining?
    What am I doing for fun? How often am I doing it?
    What material things do I have?
    What non-material things do I have?
    How am I vacationing? Where do I travel to?
    How much money am I making? How am I using my money?
    How will I give back?
    How do I look?
    How do I feel?

  • @mjtc2856
    @mjtc2856 2 роки тому

    You don't know how the right time your video helps me.
    Thank you lavendaire!

  • @justanothernailshop
    @justanothernailshop 2 роки тому

    The criteria you wanted is exactly the same as mine. Omg everything is aligning perfectly for me! This video is meant for me! I am halfway there and I am so grateful to have found you, Lavendaire🌹✨ Thank you😘

  • @MsLGR1
    @MsLGR1 2 роки тому

    thank you for this! I needed it and I can't wait to dig deeper in what I truly want in my dream life. Sending so much love to everyone on here! You got this

  • @doninicole1114
    @doninicole1114 2 роки тому

    thank you so much for this. i have been watching your videos for a few years now and I can say that, through your helpful videos, i have been able to figure out what my passions are and getting closer to my dream goals!! you are an amazing human being. much love

    • @doninicole1114
      @doninicole1114 2 роки тому

      you are literally like my internet life coach haha :)

  • @pinkymarak3087
    @pinkymarak3087 2 роки тому

    Hey Aileen, I've been watching your videos from last year. You are truly a inspiration! Honestly, for the couple of years, i struggled exploring what i really wanr in my life and now i found it. Thank you so much for this video🥺💙💜💟

  • @teenygurly8027
    @teenygurly8027 2 роки тому +2

    I love this chanel .😊💜I'm still 16 old. this were so useful to me💜😊thank u so much.

  • @rawmagnolia
    @rawmagnolia 2 роки тому

    Eileen you do such great work. I’m so happy and grateful I came across your channel. I honestly don’t think I’ve ever really contemplated what my dream life looks like. Thank you for making these exercise videos. I can’t wait to dive into this idea.

  • @kashvi9767
    @kashvi9767 2 роки тому

    How someone can put most relatable video at most relatable time
    Love you loads🧡

  • @lavred
    @lavred 2 роки тому +1

    Omg I'm so grateful for you, thank you thank you thank you! Your so relatable the things you knew you wanted I want to , gotta go start my vision board xx

  • @FuzzyStripetail
    @FuzzyStripetail 2 роки тому +2

    Lavendaire certainly looked like a dream wearing her princess-y dress.

  • @aramideugbomeh
    @aramideugbomeh 2 роки тому

    Thank you for putting this out. Your voice, it's so soothing, I don't know if you have been told before. But I found it to be so.

  • @hikarutrang
    @hikarutrang 2 роки тому

    Love the princess dress! As always, thank you for your work ^ ^

  • @mayarnoza
    @mayarnoza 2 роки тому

    Saved this to watch today as my Sunday selfcare.🌸 You're always my number 1 inspiration to designing my dream life. I'm on my journey and I'm loving it. It's very fulfilling. -Much love.From one of your silent fan💓

  • @buvic3321
    @buvic3321 2 роки тому

    as a visual learner this helps me so much
    thank you Aileen!

  • @aprilesplana4035
    @aprilesplana4035 2 роки тому

    This came at the right time! ☺️💚 I was sitting for long hours yesterday thinking how to build the life I want (again 😅). But, I ended up organizing my phone apps because seriously, I didn't know how or where to start (again 😅). I super loved the questions! Never thought any of those, really. This feels like bringing us closer to making our dream life a reality.😊
    Very important that we need to know exactly what we want in life, so we can take the right actions towards them. Loved this so much!! ❤️😭❤️
    Thank you again, Aileen. ☺️🌸
    To everyone - May all your dreams come true!! ☺️💚

  • @jaishaarain3116
    @jaishaarain3116 2 роки тому +1

    I really loved your today's video ❤ I noted all the questions and now I'm going to answer them and reflect on what I really want and then break it down into smaller goals! *-* again Thanks for this beautiful video. I really appreciate your creativity.
    Imma check that vision board video next *-*

  • @_souldier
    @_souldier 2 роки тому +2

    dream life?
    my dream life is
    having every single one my goals
    achieved without one single worry left in the world.

  • @isabellepoynter5193
    @isabellepoynter5193 2 роки тому +1

    How did you know I needed this?

  • @johngomes4278
    @johngomes4278 Рік тому

    You and your channel is so awesome 👍 thank you for teaching me about visualization!

  • @Nikita-wh8wl
    @Nikita-wh8wl 2 роки тому +1

    Send you all my love from Italy!

  • @dahlia9423
    @dahlia9423 2 роки тому

    I love your hair colour, rlly matches the vibe of the video😝😚!!

  • @MelissaLearns
    @MelissaLearns 2 роки тому

    I got so excited and immediately clicked thinking this was the launch video for the new artist of life workbook for next year.
    I'm trying to be as quick as I can when I order so it will arrive in Canada before the new year so I can fill out the beginning before 2022 begins!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому +1

      Ahh the official launch date is 10/22. But we always soft launch to our email list a day earlier :) FYI if you’re not on it already!

  • @heather3851
    @heather3851 2 роки тому +1

    I think I just manifested this vd.. Cos I've been thru a real hard time in the search of how I can change my life or how I can get started.. I watched a few vds but not that satisfied😢 but as always Aileen helped me out... 🌹
    Thank you so much.. I just wanted to let you know.. Hopefully u will see this.. 🌸

  • @meenakshi7538
    @meenakshi7538 2 роки тому

    Aileen has become the timing queen

  • @harukawa295
    @harukawa295 2 роки тому

    Years of following you, love you, thank youuuu ❤️👍🏻

  • @brittanywashington5194
    @brittanywashington5194 2 роки тому +1

    Miss Aileen you need to come clean about where you get your tops from. You are always delivering words of wisdom whilst looking gorgeous!!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 роки тому +1

      Hehe this top was from Revolve - I have to find what the brand is, I forgot

  • @manjur4365
    @manjur4365 2 роки тому +1

    Thank u Aileen 😘 for this amazing video, really a most needed one at this time. Actually I was very sad abt how I am gonna create my dream life but after seeing this video I got a clarity ❤️👍