My husband was killed while attached to the 2nd Marine Division, my husband was Navy and was assigned to the Marines. Al Gray came to my house, sat in my living room and grieved with me. He came by to see how I, and my 2 year old daughter, were doing. He was right behind me at my husband's funeral service. Al Gray was an honorable gentleman, a short, barrel chested Marine of the old school. Sorry to hear of his passing. He was a man of the people, he treated those he commanded with respect. He served honorably.
I met General Gray out in the field. I really don't know where we were. He asked me if I was ready. I said Yes Sir. He replied smiling of course you are. Back on ship a helicopter ride landing at Beirut International.
Wish I could be so positive. He was always drunk at our dependent briefs on Camp Lejeune, laughed away our concerned questions about our Beirut men. Made the stupid choice of no guns loaded, and look what happened. Every single Officer and he were reprimanded in the final investigation for the blatant stupidity of that choice. They intercepted communication knowing our men would be targets soon. He was political, no real heart, all photo op.
In my 22 years in the Marine Corps I personally shook hands with a Commandant 4 times. The first was Al Gray, the second was Al Gray, 3rd? Al Gray. Guess who the 4th was. That's right, General Al Gray. The man had a habit of just popping in and checking on his Marines because he truly cared. In 1988 my battalion had rotated to Okinawa and our Company Commander ordered that every Marine write his parents to tell them that we had arrived safely. One of our Marines was an orphan and a bit of a smartass. He looked on the back of his ID card where it said something like "If found please mail to Commandant of the Marine Corps, 8th & I Barracks, Washington DC...". The orphan Marine wrote a letter to that address and said in the letter that he considered Commandant Gray to be the father of all Marines and that he had arrived safely in Okinawa. A few days later General Gray arrived at our company CP demanding to see his "son"! Our command was more than a little surprised by the visit to say the least.
I remember providing security for General Gray during his visit to Kaneohe Bay, Hawaii. He got out of his limousine and, dressed in his camouflage utilities and boots, joined a battalion in the middle of their run. He was one of my favorite commandants.
Great story and truly a Marine's marine. I remember General Gray as a leader who led from the front and always took care of his young marines. Semper Fi Old Warrior.
Gen. Gray was the Commandant when I served in the USMC in the late 1980s. In 2019 while crossing K Street in Washington DC, I recognized him, stopped at a red light, behind the wheel of his red Jeep Cherokee. Now in my mid 50s and dressed in my civilian suit, when I was mid way through the cross walk, I stopped in front of him, snapped to attention and saluted him. He returned my salute. I continued walking to my destination, with tears welling in my eyes remembering with fondness my time as an active duty Marine and proud to have served under him.
So sad, I used to be a Crew Chief with a Marine VIP squadron and flew with General Grey many times when he was CG of FMFLANT. He is the only one in the world that I would ever say this about. He was like a Grandfather, I would do anything for him, not only a great General, a great man, but a DAM^ GREAT MARINE!. I shed a tear today.
Rest in peace my brother! What made me cry was with what care and love the flag of our country was folded and presented. How dare anyone desecrate such a blessing object of freedom!
Thank you to whoever posted this I had nothing ever to do with Marine Corps, but this man was a true patriot I can’t watch this without my eyes filling with tears. God bless you, General Gray.
I was a boot recruit in 1983. Memorial Day at Camp LeJeune ...myself and 3 others new Marines were drinking beer out of a Styrofoam cooler on the big green field, next to the main road into Camp Lejeune, where there were displays of all the aircraft and vehicles of the 2nd MAF were being displayed. It was a family day and there were hundreds of families having picnics. We were in civies and were obviously boots by our harcuts, and in civies. A rumpled looking older Marine in cammies walked up to us (no rank insignia were observable on his collar. We thought he was a senior staff nco)...this guy asked if he could join us as we were lounging on the grass. We, being boots said sure, gave him one of the cheap beers we were drinking, thought nothing of it...we talked freely of our experiences in the Corps so far (admin school at Camp Johnson) and what we thought about the Corps so far...(think 4 teenage Maines being open with a guy we thought was a Gunny or MSgt)....when a very natty Capt walked up and said "General, they're waiting on you at..."...that was my introduction to Gen Gray. TBH, he looked pissed at his Aide D'Camp for having ruined the moment....40 years later this is one of my treasured memories of my time in the Corps...having a beer with a General. Edited for Grammer and spelling Super edit: my father was a retired General officer in the USAF. He was forcibly retired the year I was born by the Kennedy administration's RIF of 10,000 flying officers from transitions to jet engine aircraft prior to Vietnam. At my boot camp graduation, my senior drill instructor noticed me saluting my father and hurried over to see what was up. "General, may I present GySgt Chehowski, my senior drill instructor? " he after being dismissed ran/marched the the deputy base commander's vehicle before it could drive away...for the rest of out stay on Parris Island, we had a major at my father's beck and call...despite the fact that my father had retired before the deputy base commander had been commisioned...the military's tradions are odd...
I met the General and got his autograph at the Marine Corp/FBI ball at Camp Smith New York in 1991. A true Marines Marine, I'll never forget serving in the Corp under hi leadership. Semper Fi General, see you when my time comes Sir!!!
I'm Navy and I respect and honor the Marines whom we supported. Most people do not understand that respect is not given it is earned and this man earned the respect of his men.
As a navy man myself, it is my solemn duty to give crap to every marine i meet. Because it's tradition! But i respect the hell out of every Marine, they get shot at and i never did. My salute to every crayon eater out there, you guys have my respect!
I met The Commandant while on mess duty rotation during Desert Storm. He asked if he could do anything for us troops, to make our war readiness better. In a gutsy moment, I asked if he would please call my father and tell him I was okay. That this would give him peace of mind and, in turn, help me stay focused. When I got back from the war, my father said The Commandant had called and it was the proudest two minutes of his life. It's good when leaders show up for the good, not just the bad.
He was a great man, and a Marine's, Marine. I met him 1976 at Camp Lejeune as a Pvt on phone watch. He strolled into my shop and just started talking to me. He deeply cared what was on the minds of his young Marines. As on this day, he snuck out of his office without any of his staff just to visit and get a true measurement of what we thought. He on many occasions said out loud he didn't want to hear from the upper ranks, as they were not as important as the the lower ranks.
My husband is an old US Marine, but definitely still a Marine. He spent time in the hell hole that was Vietnam. We married 5 months after he was discharged. ♥️🇺🇸
Thank you Gen. Alfred Gray. Thank you for all your hard work and dedication. As well as serving for the greatest country in the world. Semper Fi Devil Dog. He was my commandant.
Man, the stories I could tell but one of my favorites. Some Marines from my platoon went down to do some maintenance on gear on one of the RORO ships. They got an afternoon off and decided to play football. My guy says his team was one man short. During the game they line up and suddenly another man appears beside him. He looks over at the dude and guess who? It was Gen Grey. LOL! He was something special, that’s for sure. RIP General!
Yup. Men/male Marines are NOT hardwired to respond to a female giving commands. To me it’s sickening and deprives these Marines of something special. Semper Fi
As a dad of a son and grandfather of grandson who are usmc. On there behalf we thank you for your service and sacrifice. May you rest with God. Amen. SEMPER FI 🇺🇸
Great man that will always be in my heart. He promoted me meritoriously to Sgt (E5) on the stop while he was the CG at CLNC. Took the chevrons off his driver and pinned them on me himself; I served for 26 years and by far this was my best moment. God rest his soul.
Tears of Respect for a true American man an a True Leader as aGeneral who cared and Obed his troops by the dedication he showed and how he Lead. God truly Blessed our Nation by his gift of such a MAN as a patriotic LEADER. R.I.P. sir and. Thanks 🙏
Remember him popping up in the middle of the Saudi Arabian Desert during Desert Shield. I was with 1st Tank Bn, 1st Marine División. Gave us a very motivational speech. RIP Sir!!!!
My husband was a former marine and I was so proud of him. He just passed away and I truly miss him. He was a true marine all the way. I pray every day for all the serviceman and vets because they are truly an amazing bunch of men and women. SEMPER FI
Ich bin kein Amerikaner, aber jedesmal wenn ich eine Beerdigung der US Streitkräfte sehe bin ich Bewegt wie Würdevoll und mit wie viel Ehre die Amerikaner ihre Toten zu Grabe bringen. Wie eine Gesellschaft ihre Soldaten beerdigt zeigt viel von ihrem Ethos. Ruhen sie in Frieden General Gray.
Ich habe vor Jahren dem Nationalfriedhof Arlington in Washington DC einen Besuch abgestattet um speziell die Gräber der Brüder Kennedy zu besuchen.Dabei kam ich zufällig zu einer Beerdigung eines Soldaten.So etwas ehrenvolles hatte ich vorher noch nie gesehen.
Gen. Gray reenlisted me in Okinawa Japan in a private ceremony at air base Iwakuni in 1988. He punched me in the shoulder so I of course punched him in the shoulder. You could have heard a pin drop! Gen. Gray started laughing and said good one Marine! I was not a hero but I walked in the shadow of some hero’s. Thank you for preparing the streets of heaven for me sir!
This ceremony brought tears and memories back from Dad's military honors funeral. He served in WW II aboard the light cruiser USS Bimingham CL-62. He passed in 2013. Because of him and all of his brothers our family had a strong tradition of wartime naval service to our country. I have a friend who is buried ANC. He served as an Army Colonel in Vietnam and later in Iraq.
Was a FMF HM2 Desert Shield/Storm he gave the most inspirational CMC call I ever had. He told us there are 3 types of marines(FMF HMs included) those that are here,those on their way and those who will be on their way. SEMPER FI General Gray
Biggest mistake is going back to a blueside command where everyone is fat, unmotivated and pathetic when I can be suns up guns out enjoying the time of my life with the marines.
I'm US Navy, but I have mad respect for the Corps. Both my brothers served in the Corps, and they always tell me that a Marine doesn't die without permission (courtesy of Full Metal Jacket lol)
My Dad and Al were best friends when they were both Sargents. When Dad passed some years back General Gray sent our family a very moving letter of condolences. It was also funny as hell because he couldn't help but throw in a couple of "Crazy Harry war stories" Fair Winds and Following Seas Devil Dog I hope you and Dad are enjoying a good time.
Wow. Stunning. If anyone who happens to watch this video has never been to ANC, you have to make the trip. I go every year with a bunch of 8th graders at the end of a four day trip. It is truly hallowed ground.
When we took our kids (triplets) to D.C. when they were 12 years old, we spent most of a day taking ourselves through Arlington, including the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, the amphitheater, and lots of famous people's graves. We did the same with Gettysburg and Pearl Harbor - added two days in Honolulu after a week on Maui to get a hole day at Pearl Harbor. We might have missed a lot of stuff as parents, but not these hallowed grounds.
Three weeks ago I was at the celebration for the life of a marine who died at 63. After multiple deployments, he retired and became a pilot for a major airline. He lived in exemplary life. He was the oldest child of the first family I ever was allowed to babysit for so I have known him for a long, long time certainly, his mother is heartbroken his sisters are heartbroken. but this is the first little boy that I knew who grew up to be a man a very courageous and very proper gentleman and my heart just gives out to his family. And to the Marines because you really do only need a few good men and women.
On behalf of the Vast Majority of Australians we Thank You for your Service to the United States and the United States Marine Corp, General Gray. Condolences to your Family and Friends, as well as the Marine Corp. Fair Winds and Following Seas Sir. Guard-- Attention --- Shoulder Arms --- General Salute --- Present Arms ---------- Shoulder Arms --- Order Arms --- Stand At Ease --- Stand Easy. Semper Fi/Bravo Zulu.
@@jspee1965 With all sincerity, as a retired U.S. veteran with 28 years service to my country, I don't think your fellow Aussie was being rude or out-of-line with his "send off" to the USMC Commandant, General Gray, who was being laid to rest. I feel he was being respectful just maybe in an odd and "different" sort of way🥴. If somebody else feels offended, then that is on them. We Americans, as you probably know only too well, living in the States for 22 years, value you Aussies as true friends who have our backs as we have your backs. God bless the USA-ANZACS-GB-CAN. 👍✌
He came to my NCO school back in 1988 and took time to speak to every Marine. I still have the picture of me leaning on his shoulder at our group photo. He was the epitome of leadership. Ductus Exemplo!
My precious husband was a Marine, lived and breathed Marine Corps!!!! He did 2 tours in Vietnam and died a few days after he turned 59 yrs old!!!!!! He was the LOVE OF MY LIFE and I’m just waiting to go HOME to be with him!!!!
While a SSgt at RS Richmond, VA (85-89) I was task with driving General Gray from his LZ to the Commonwealth Club. Had to remind the General of his Almar that all passengers must use a seatbbelt. His 2 aides, 1 Navy Cmdr and a 2 star Marine were not amused. He put it on and smiled.
Arlington National Cemetery is an amazing place. My family and I experienced firsthand the honor and respect that is given to not only the deceased person, but to the family of that individual as well. It is with enormous pride and the utmost level of respect that I thank those hard working people at Arlington National Cemetery. for what they do everyday to help lay the loved ones of military families to rest. My brother's ceremony was beautiful. Thank you.
I first met the Commandant when he visited us in boot camp at MCRD San Diego summer of 1989. We were on the bayonet course, and Gen. Grey shouted encouragement when I beat the living hell out of the yellow rubber dummy. I next met him Spring of 1991 at MCAS Iwakuni in Japan. It was spitting freezing rain as we stood in formation waiting for the Commandant to speak. It was also after April 1, thus we were shivering with our sleeves rolled up per regulation. Gen. Grey took the microphone: “For the love of God, roll your f…..g sleeves down Marines! I thought you air wingers had brains!!” Rest in peace Marine.
😂😂😂the last statement got me rolling, he just had to say it. "I thought you air wingers had brain" Just as we say in the Navy lol. I love you all marines.
Teamwork/Bonded item NATO cruise 1976 Norway and Germany. Was stranded on our LPH due to weather. Called all officers to Wardroom for a school circle. Held us captivated for a hour. Superb leader of Marines. Glad I shook his hand ❤
General Gray was one of the Commandants during my time in service, from 1988 to 1996 (active), and 1996-1997 (reserves). He was a fine and very well respected leader of Marines and did much in improving his Corps, my Corps, OUR Corps. You are missed by this Marine, and scores of other Marines around the world. I can think of no better commanding officer to lead the Marines guarding heaven's gates and streets. SEMPER FIDELIS, and so you may rest Sir!
I was a LCpl with the 7th MEB G1 during Desert Shield/Storm. I just earned NJP while overseas and was about to get booted to 1st CEB. During one of my last solo runs around some random road near an oil refinery, I stopped and listened to Gen Gray speak at a ceremony to the troops. Why did I not know of his visit? No clue. Why my unit wasn’t included. I have an idea. What I do know is from that day forward I understood what being a Marine leader was all about. He had a way with the Marines that I remember to this day.
I was a platoon corpsman with 1st BN 5th Marines during Desert Shield/Desert Storm. I will never forget when we had Commandant's Call in the middle of nowhere with Gen Gray.
Thank you for your service and dedication to our country. You sir, are a hero among heroes. I am indebted to you all, for my freedom wasn't and is not free. We will always be geeatful❤🙏
General Gray was a god****m badass. I met him when we came back from evacuating the embassy of Liberia in 1991 aboard the USS Ponce. I have picture of him and several of us at the barracks of French Creek. He made us better, God grant him the peace he deserves!
From what I've heard from him, you can say with 100% certainty that General Gray, 29th Commander of the USMC was a true leader (Many are born, few are "made") R.I.P. and Semper Fi 🎖🎖🎖🎖greetings from the Netherlands 🧡🔱🦅⚡🧡
My uncle was laid to rest in ANC and it was a very moving experience, even in a driving rainstorm. If you have never paid your respects at Arlington, you must go. Remember this is our most hallowed ground.
Beautiful tribute to a true American patriot, a man that devoted his life to his country and the United States Marine Corps. Semper Fi, Gen. Gray. Semper Fi.
Papa Bear wouldn’t shake my hand or return my salute at OP2CLNC or on USS Shreveport before hostilities… He hugged me and told me how much he loved his Infantry Marines. I LOVE my Commandant. Semper Fidelis. Forever may you rest in peace Sir…
I was at FMFLANT when Gen. Gray took command. I met him at Camp Lejeune with 2nd MarDiv a few years earlier. Gen. Gray had a habit of walking around the post, and you never knew when he might show up. I was the admin NCO for HQ Co when he walked into the office. Damned if he didn't remember me. The man was in charge of countless Marines during his time, and he remembered not just my face but my name as well. RIP.
9m now 75 ,my first military funeral was wheh I was ten ,my moms twin sister lost her 19 year old son ,his plane went down on the side of a mountain ,I will never forget that funeral,my dad was a Marine ,my older brother was as was my husband ,my mom was a WAC ,this 3ax absolutely stunning ,RIP SIR .
I had the pleasure of speaking to General Gray on several occasions while stationed at Marine Barracks 8th & I. He would always take the time to speak to the enlisted Marines while he was outside walking his dog around the Barracks. I’m sorry to hear of his passing. Rest in Peace Sir.
I am not an American. I did not know Gen. Gray but the corps did him proud with this ceremony. I was very impressed with the march arrangement of Onward Christian Soldiers and the dicipline and drill precision that was displayed. It was quite different from the British drill that I am familiar with but excellently executed with precision and grace. Rest in peace and rise in glory sir.
On Friday, 13 August 1988, Gen Gray was the Commissioning Officer at the Summer Texas A&M University Corps of Cadets Commissioning Ceremony when I was Commissioned as a young Army 2nd Lieutenant. I am honored to have him as a part of military career. I did not know him nor did I serve with him but today I am saddened for I have lost a Brother. Rest easy, sir. Until we meet in Valhalla. General, I hope you will allow this old, broke-down Armored Cavalryman to say...Semper Fi, sir.
When I was a boot circa 9/82 after being home on leave from bootcamp, I went to get a haircut at Lejeune by 6th Marines. Sitting in front of me was a grayed hair man with a nice smile getting a haircut started to asked where I was from. I said Jersey Sir. Once he was done the barber took of the barber cape and saw two stars. He was our CG at Lejeune but I was a boot did not know he was our CG just a two star general. I served in Grenada in 83 then Beirut, Lebanon from 83-84. After I left the Corps, I did not see the Commandant until 10/2013. I drove down from NJ to Jacksonville, NC to remember our brothers who died (241 / 200 US Marines) in Beirut, Lebanon. I was a closure for me to see some of my buddies that I served with. I never made it to the 40th eventhough I live in the Raleigh, NC metro area now. General Gray was a good man. Semper Fidelis Sir. May you Rest in Peace.
He was my first Commandant. I met him at 8th & I after an evening parade. We were in PLC Jrs and were taken to an evening parade our last week of OCS as a reward. On leaving we were being herded to the bus and one candidate bumped into this elderly gentleman walking his dog in PT gear. Oh my did the cadre eat that candidate alive. Back on the bus he sat near me and I heard him ask “what did I do?” At that point a prior service laughed and told him he’d just “met” the Commandant!
Met him in 2022 after serving under him in the 80's. He apologized to me for not getting up "because I'm afraid I won't get back down". We both laughed. What an honor it was to meet him. RIP, General!
I met Gen. Gray several times as an enlisted flight engineer when he flew on our aircraft. The first time I was warned that he punches the enlisted aircrew when he meets them. So I was ready. I stood at attention but my back was up against the leading edge of the wing. As predicted he gave me a pretty fair shot on the front left shoulder. I was 6’1” 200 pounds at the time. But backed up by the aircraft. He froze startled, looked around for a second and figured it out. Without a word he smiled and climbed into the aircraft. A very proud, memorable moment with a a great man, leader and Marine! He’s now commanding the Marines patrolling the streets of heaven. Semper Fi!
Gen. Gray was Col. Gray when I was on Okinawa-Camp Hansen-4th Marines in 1974-75. I remember him he was a lot like Gen. Patton strong and to the point. He was a great leader and he led the Marine Corps as well as 4th Marines with an iron will. I met him once at the Officer's Mess at Camp Hansen for I has to pick someone up there. He scared the hell out of me, but I had great respect for him. Semper Fi sir and RIP for you and your wife. N.Catino Cpl USMC 73-77.
@@jackrobinson8328 Semper Fi brother. You were there during the Fall of Saigon. What a trip that was. Have a happy holiday brother. N. Catino Cpl USMC 73-77.
My uncle pass this January 2024. The funeral was sad. He joined the Marines in 1980. I heard the guns i tried not to cry. My mom squeezed my hand tightly. Tears started to come down. Very hard to attend a miltary funeral.
My husband was killed while attached to the 2nd Marine Division, my husband was Navy and was assigned to the Marines. Al Gray came to my house, sat in my living room and grieved with me. He came by to see how I, and my 2 year old daughter, were doing. He was right behind me at my husband's funeral service. Al Gray was an honorable gentleman, a short, barrel chested Marine of the old school. Sorry to hear of his passing. He was a man of the people, he treated those he commanded with respect. He served honorably.
That indeed is a very good man. Honor to him. And honor to your husband, sorry for your loss. Bless you.
I met General Gray out in the field. I really don't know where we were. He asked me if I was ready. I said Yes Sir. He replied smiling of course you are. Back on ship a helicopter ride landing at Beirut International.
Wish I could be so positive. He was always drunk at our dependent briefs on Camp Lejeune, laughed away our concerned questions about our Beirut men. Made the stupid choice of no guns loaded, and look what happened. Every single Officer and he were reprimanded in the final investigation for the blatant stupidity of that choice. They intercepted communication knowing our men would be targets soon. He was political, no real heart, all photo op.
Condolences. 😢
möchte Ihnen nachträglich mein Beileid zum Tod ihres Mannes aussprechen - Viele Grüße aus Deutschland
In my 22 years in the Marine Corps I personally shook hands with a Commandant 4 times. The first was Al Gray, the second was Al Gray, 3rd? Al Gray. Guess who the 4th was. That's right, General Al Gray. The man had a habit of just popping in and checking on his Marines because he truly cared.
In 1988 my battalion had rotated to Okinawa and our Company Commander ordered that every Marine write his parents to tell them that we had arrived safely. One of our Marines was an orphan and a bit of a smartass. He looked on the back of his ID card where it said something like "If found please mail to Commandant of the Marine Corps, 8th & I Barracks, Washington DC...". The orphan Marine wrote a letter to that address and said in the letter that he considered Commandant Gray to be the father of all Marines and that he had arrived safely in Okinawa. A few days later General Gray arrived at our company CP demanding to see his "son"! Our command was more than a little surprised by the visit to say the least.
One of many awesome stories of a great Marine!
This is so honorable! Total respect.
What a great story!
lol awesome. thank you for sharing!
LOL! Not surprised at all.
I remember providing security for General Gray during his visit to Kaneohe Bay, Hawaii. He got out of his limousine and, dressed in his camouflage utilities and boots, joined a battalion in the middle of their run. He was one of my favorite commandants.
Great story and truly a Marine's marine. I remember General Gray as a leader who led from the front and always took care of his young marines. Semper Fi Old Warrior.
Pure moto.. thanks fur sharin. Urah
My mother remembers providing tea for General Grey during his visits to Walmart. He was her favorite teadrimkers
Never met him personally but I can only imagine how much of a presence he had.
He was quite different than P.X. Kelley. It was a period of rapid change and warrior first approach from General Gray.
Gen. Gray was the Commandant when I served in the USMC in the late 1980s. In 2019 while crossing K Street in Washington DC, I recognized him, stopped at a red light, behind the wheel of his red Jeep Cherokee. Now in my mid 50s and dressed in my civilian suit, when I was mid way through the cross walk, I stopped in front of him, snapped to attention and saluted him. He returned my salute. I continued walking to my destination, with tears welling in my eyes remembering with fondness my time as an active duty Marine and proud to have served under him.
Beautiful.
This is by definition Always Faithful, Semper Fi Brother.
Rest In Peace Marine
What a cool story... thanks for sharing.
We will all walk this journey one day, EVERLASTING PEACE BE UNTO YOU
Thank you for your service!!
God’s blessings to you. 🙏🇺🇸🇺🇸
So sad, I used to be a Crew Chief with a Marine VIP squadron and flew with General Grey many times when he was CG of FMFLANT. He is the only one in the world that I would ever say this about. He was like a Grandfather, I would do anything for him, not only a great General, a great man, but a DAM^ GREAT MARINE!. I shed a tear today.
Rest in peace my brother! What made me cry was with what care and love the flag of our country was folded and presented. How dare anyone desecrate such a blessing object of freedom!
The Coast Guard Honor guard did my father's funeral. That flag is my most prized possession.
Thank you to whoever posted this I had nothing ever to do with Marine Corps, but this man was a true patriot I can’t watch this without my eyes filling with tears. God bless you, General Gray.
I was a boot recruit in 1983. Memorial Day at Camp LeJeune ...myself and 3 others new Marines were drinking beer out of a Styrofoam cooler on the big green field, next to the main road into Camp Lejeune, where there were displays of all the aircraft and vehicles of the 2nd MAF were being displayed. It was a family day and there were hundreds of families having picnics. We were in civies and were obviously boots by our harcuts, and in civies. A rumpled looking older Marine in cammies walked up to us (no rank insignia were observable on his collar. We thought he was a senior staff nco)...this guy asked if he could join us as we were lounging on the grass. We, being boots said sure, gave him one of the cheap beers we were drinking, thought nothing of it...we talked freely of our experiences in the Corps so far (admin school at Camp Johnson) and what we thought about the Corps so far...(think 4 teenage Maines being open with a guy we thought was a Gunny or MSgt)....when a very natty Capt walked up and said "General, they're waiting on you at..."...that was my introduction to Gen Gray. TBH, he looked pissed at his Aide D'Camp for having ruined the moment....40 years later this is one of my treasured memories of my time in the Corps...having a beer with a General.
Edited for Grammer and spelling
Super edit: my father was a retired General officer in the USAF. He was forcibly retired the year I was born by the Kennedy administration's RIF of 10,000 flying officers from transitions to jet engine aircraft prior to Vietnam.
At my boot camp graduation, my senior drill instructor noticed me saluting my father and hurried over to see what was up. "General, may I present GySgt Chehowski, my senior drill instructor? " he after being dismissed ran/marched the the deputy base commander's vehicle before it could drive away...for the rest of out stay on Parris Island, we had a major at my father's beck and call...despite the fact that my father had retired before the deputy base commander had been commisioned...the military's tradions are odd...
You're a legend now!
Same time, same place, same school. We probably crossed paths I am sure .
That's outstanding
Thank you for your service! God Bless America! God Bless the Marine Corp.
I met the General and got his autograph at the Marine Corp/FBI ball at Camp Smith New York in 1991. A true Marines Marine, I'll never forget serving in the Corp under hi leadership. Semper Fi General, see you when my time comes Sir!!!
I'm Navy and I respect and honor the Marines whom we supported. Most people do not understand that respect is not given it is earned and this man earned the respect of his men.
One of the very best sorely missed
As a navy man myself, it is my solemn duty to give crap to every marine i meet. Because it's tradition! But i respect the hell out of every Marine, they get shot at and i never did.
My salute to every crayon eater out there, you guys have my respect!
I met The Commandant while on mess duty rotation during Desert Storm. He asked if he could do anything for us troops, to make our war readiness better. In a gutsy moment, I asked if he would please call my father and tell him I was okay. That this would give him peace of mind and, in turn, help me stay focused.
When I got back from the war, my father said The Commandant had called and it was the proudest two minutes of his life. It's good when leaders show up for the good, not just the bad.
A fitting farewell tribute to a Commandant who served his Corps and country so admirably. Rest In Peace, General Gray.
He was a great man, and a Marine's, Marine. I met him 1976 at Camp Lejeune as a Pvt on phone watch. He strolled into my shop and just started talking to me. He deeply cared what was on the minds of his young Marines. As on this day, he snuck out of his office without any of his staff just to visit and get a true measurement of what we thought. He on many occasions said out loud he didn't want to hear from the upper ranks, as they were not as important as the the lower ranks.
Rest in peace Marine. Your service and dedication to our country is so greatly appreciated. From a Vietnam era Army foot soldier.
My husband is an old US Marine, but definitely still a Marine. He spent time in the hell hole that was Vietnam. We married 5 months after he was discharged. ♥️🇺🇸
Thank you Gen. Alfred Gray. Thank you for all your hard work and dedication. As well as serving for the greatest country in the world. Semper Fi Devil Dog. He was my commandant.
Man, the stories I could tell but one of my favorites. Some Marines from my platoon went down to do some maintenance on gear on one of the RORO ships. They got an afternoon off and decided to play football. My guy says his team was one man short. During the game they line up and suddenly another man appears beside him. He looks over at the dude and guess who? It was Gen Grey. LOL! He was something special, that’s for sure. RIP General!
From an old Marine Veteran who misses his days in the Corps God Bless and Rest in Peace.
Yup. Men/male Marines are NOT hardwired to respond to a female giving commands. To me it’s sickening and deprives these Marines of something special. Semper Fi
As a dad of a son and grandfather of grandson who are usmc. On there behalf we thank you for your service and sacrifice. May you rest with God. Amen. SEMPER FI 🇺🇸
I have never served, but so appreciate those (and families) that have. God bless you all, and thank you.
Great man that will always be in my heart. He promoted me meritoriously to Sgt (E5) on the stop while he was the CG at CLNC. Took the chevrons off his driver and pinned them on me himself; I served for 26 years and by far this was my best moment. God rest his soul.
Tears of Respect for a true American man an a True Leader as aGeneral who cared and Obed his troops by the dedication he showed and how he Lead. God truly Blessed our Nation by his gift of such a MAN as a patriotic LEADER. R.I.P. sir and. Thanks 🙏
The only CMC to have his official picture taken in a combat uniform... RIP General and thanks for the memories...
I remember that, and it was symbolic since he was old-school.
General AL Gray and his wife Jan were very dear frie nds of my wife and I. He was an incredible man. I love him. RIP, dear friend! Raleigh, NC.
I did not see her their graveside he must be joining her...good for them.
General Gray was an amazing man. It was a pleasure and privilege to have known him.
Remember him popping up in the middle of the Saudi Arabian Desert during Desert Shield. I was with 1st Tank Bn, 1st Marine División. Gave us a very motivational speech. RIP Sir!!!!
My husband was a former marine and I was so proud of him. He just passed away and I truly miss him. He was a true marine all the way. I pray every day for all the serviceman and vets because they are truly an amazing bunch of men and women. SEMPER FI
Your husband was a Marine. Once a Marine, always a Marine. Never a former Marine. Semper Fi
Ich bin kein Amerikaner, aber jedesmal wenn ich eine Beerdigung der US Streitkräfte sehe bin ich Bewegt wie Würdevoll und mit wie viel Ehre die Amerikaner ihre Toten zu Grabe bringen. Wie eine Gesellschaft ihre Soldaten beerdigt zeigt viel von ihrem Ethos.
Ruhen sie in Frieden General Gray.
Danke sehr!
Genauso ist es.
Danke für den Kommentar.
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Vielen Dank meine Brother.
Ich habe vor Jahren dem Nationalfriedhof Arlington in Washington DC einen Besuch abgestattet um speziell die Gräber der Brüder Kennedy zu besuchen.Dabei kam ich zufällig zu einer Beerdigung eines Soldaten.So etwas ehrenvolles hatte ich vorher noch nie gesehen.
danke schön.
Gen. Gray reenlisted me in Okinawa Japan in a private ceremony at air base Iwakuni in 1988. He punched me in the shoulder so I of course punched him in the shoulder. You could have heard a pin drop! Gen. Gray started laughing and said good one Marine! I was not a hero but I walked in the shadow of some hero’s. Thank you for preparing the streets of heaven for me sir!
Thanks for you service Mate.
My second Commandant. Rest in Peace General Gray. Fair winds and following seas. Semper Fi, Marine.
This ceremony brought tears and memories back from Dad's military honors funeral. He served in WW II aboard the light cruiser USS Bimingham CL-62. He passed in 2013. Because of him and all of his brothers our family had a strong tradition of wartime naval service to our country.
I have a friend who is buried ANC. He served as an Army Colonel in Vietnam and later in Iraq.
Was a FMF HM2 Desert Shield/Storm he gave the most inspirational CMC call I ever had. He told us there are 3 types of marines(FMF HMs included) those that are here,those on their way and those who will be on their way.
SEMPER FI General Gray
Biggest mistake is going back to a blueside command where everyone is fat, unmotivated and pathetic when I can be suns up guns out enjoying the time of my life with the marines.
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He didn't pass away. He simply went to high ground, where now he's reorganizing and refitting the Marines on watch there for the second coming.
The streets of Heaven are guarded by United States Marines....
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Nice!
I'm US Navy, but I have mad respect for the Corps. Both my brothers served in the Corps, and they always tell me that a Marine doesn't die without permission (courtesy of Full Metal Jacket lol)
Love ALL BRANCHES OF THE MILITARY ❤
My Dad and Al were best friends when they were both Sargents. When Dad passed some years back General Gray sent our family a very moving letter of condolences. It was also funny as hell because he couldn't help but throw in a couple of "Crazy Harry war stories" Fair Winds and Following Seas Devil Dog I hope you and Dad are enjoying a good time.
Here is a real American!!! The country should take note because we are loosing them, and not alot are being replaced.
Wow. Stunning. If anyone who happens to watch this video has never been to ANC, you have to make the trip. I go every year with a bunch of 8th graders at the end of a four day trip. It is truly hallowed ground.
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When we took our kids (triplets) to D.C. when they were 12 years old, we spent most of a day taking ourselves through Arlington, including the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, the amphitheater, and lots of famous people's graves. We did the same with Gettysburg and Pearl Harbor - added two days in Honolulu after a week on Maui to get a hole day at Pearl Harbor. We might have missed a lot of stuff as parents, but not these hallowed grounds.
Three weeks ago I was at the celebration for the life of a marine who died at 63. After multiple deployments, he retired and became a pilot for a major airline. He lived in exemplary life. He was the oldest child of the first family I ever was allowed to babysit for so I have known him for a long, long time certainly, his mother is heartbroken his sisters are heartbroken. but this is the first little boy that I knew who grew up to be a man a very courageous and very proper gentleman and my heart just gives out to his family. And to the Marines because you really do only need a few good men and women.
On behalf of the Vast Majority of Australians we Thank You for your Service to the United States and the United States Marine Corp, General Gray. Condolences to your Family and Friends, as well as the Marine Corp. Fair Winds and Following Seas Sir. Guard-- Attention --- Shoulder Arms --- General Salute --- Present Arms ---------- Shoulder Arms --- Order Arms --- Stand At Ease --- Stand Easy. Semper Fi/Bravo Zulu.
Mate, as an Australian that has had the privilege of living in the US legally for 22 years , might want to dial that down..
@@jspee1965 With all sincerity, as a retired U.S. veteran with 28 years service to my country, I don't think your fellow Aussie was being rude or out-of-line with his "send off" to the USMC Commandant, General Gray, who was being laid to rest. I feel he was being respectful just maybe in an odd and "different" sort of way🥴. If somebody else feels offended, then that is on them. We Americans, as you probably know only too well, living in the States for 22 years, value you Aussies as true friends who have our backs as we have your backs. God bless the USA-ANZACS-GB-CAN. 👍✌
@gregbuckenara8063 Thank you, mate!✌
Gen. Gray was commander of the 4th MAB in 1977. He was a great man, American, and Marine. Semper Fi
Also served under him with the 4th MAB. 77-79. MAC, as he called me, from the G4
He came to my NCO school back in 1988 and took time to speak to every Marine. I still have the picture of me leaning on his shoulder at our group photo. He was the epitome of leadership. Ductus Exemplo!
My precious husband was a Marine, lived and breathed Marine Corps!!!! He did 2 tours in Vietnam and died a few days after he turned 59 yrs old!!!!!! He was the LOVE OF MY LIFE and I’m just waiting to go HOME to be with him!!!!
While a SSgt at RS Richmond, VA (85-89) I was task with driving General Gray from his LZ to the Commonwealth Club. Had to remind the General of his Almar that all passengers must use a seatbbelt. His 2 aides, 1 Navy Cmdr and a 2 star Marine were not amused. He put it on and smiled.
Arlington National Cemetery is an amazing place. My family and I experienced firsthand the honor and respect that is given to not only the deceased person, but to the family of that individual as well. It is with enormous pride and the utmost level of respect that I thank those hard working people at Arlington National Cemetery. for what they do everyday to help lay the loved ones of military families to rest. My brother's ceremony was beautiful. Thank you.
I first met the Commandant when he visited us in boot camp at MCRD San Diego summer of 1989. We were on the bayonet course, and Gen. Grey shouted encouragement when I beat the living hell out of the yellow rubber dummy.
I next met him Spring of 1991 at MCAS Iwakuni in Japan. It was spitting freezing rain as we stood in formation waiting for the Commandant to speak. It was also after April 1, thus we were shivering with our sleeves rolled up per regulation. Gen. Grey took the microphone: “For the love of God, roll your f…..g sleeves down Marines! I thought you air wingers had brains!!”
Rest in peace Marine.
how the hell these boys keep that pants so whit ????????????,
😂😂😂the last statement got me rolling, he just had to say it.
"I thought you air wingers had brain"
Just as we say in the Navy lol.
I love you all marines.
He sounds EXACTLY like I would have expected the Commandant of the Marines should sound.
I loved Iwakuni. It has changed so much since 98.
I was PLT 3001, India Co. in 1989. SSgt Smith SDI. Started in January of 89. Spent the Summer at SOI in San Onofre.
Teamwork/Bonded item NATO cruise 1976 Norway and Germany. Was stranded on our LPH due to weather. Called all officers to Wardroom for a school circle. Held us captivated for a hour. Superb leader of Marines. Glad I shook his hand ❤
What an honor it would be to be part of this. RIP sir.
General Gray was one of the Commandants during my time in service, from 1988 to 1996 (active), and 1996-1997 (reserves). He was a fine and very well respected leader of Marines and did much in improving his Corps, my Corps, OUR Corps. You are missed by this Marine, and scores of other Marines around the world. I can think of no better commanding officer to lead the Marines guarding heaven's gates and streets.
SEMPER FIDELIS, and so you may rest Sir!
makes a grown man cry
You are a good man Sir. There is no shame.
making me cry
Very moving.
Yup
I served in the Corps while he was commandant, a great leader. Semper Fi, GySgt USMC retired.
GEN Gray was my Commandant.
mine too
Mine too RIP Marine.
Mine as well.
General Gray and General P.X. Kelly were my Commandants
Same here
I was a LCpl with the 7th MEB G1 during Desert Shield/Storm. I just earned NJP while overseas and was about to get booted to 1st CEB. During one of my last solo runs around some random road near an oil refinery, I stopped and listened to Gen Gray speak at a ceremony to the troops. Why did I not know of his visit? No clue. Why my unit wasn’t included. I have an idea. What I do know is from that day forward I understood what being a Marine leader was all about. He had a way with the Marines that I remember to this day.
I was a platoon corpsman with 1st BN 5th Marines during Desert Shield/Desert Storm.
I will never forget when we had Commandant's Call in the middle of nowhere with Gen Gray.
Do lie anymore Harris you and Biden have lied enough
Thanks for your service Marine.
I remember a CMC Call at the terminal at the airfield in Jubail during desert Sield at the time.
Thank you for your service and dedication to our country. You sir, are a hero among heroes. I am indebted to you all, for my freedom wasn't and is not free. We will always be geeatful❤🙏
Nothing Sharper than Marine Corps dress uniforms! Semper Fi, Marine!
General Gray was a god****m badass. I met him when we came back from evacuating the embassy of Liberia in 1991 aboard the USS Ponce. I have picture of him and several of us at the barracks of French Creek. He made us better, God grant him the peace he deserves!
From what I've heard from him, you can say with 100% certainty that
General Gray, 29th Commander of the USMC was a true leader (Many are born, few are "made") R.I.P. and Semper Fi 🎖🎖🎖🎖greetings from the Netherlands 🧡🔱🦅⚡🧡
a lump in my throat and tear in my eye, this is what makes America so unique😔
Rest in Peace Sir! Thank you for your guidance and contributions to our beloved Corps. Semper Fi!
The greatest Marine and CMC in my lifetime. SemperFi!
RIP GEN,ALFRED GRAY FROM CANADA.GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY.MY HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES FOR AMERCAS HERO😇😇😇😀😇😇😇
My uncle was laid to rest in ANC and it was a very moving experience, even in a driving rainstorm. If you have never paid your respects at Arlington, you must go. Remember this is our most hallowed ground.
Beautiful tribute to a true American patriot, a man that devoted his life to his country and the United States Marine Corps. Semper Fi, Gen. Gray. Semper Fi.
Papa Bear wouldn’t shake my hand or return my salute at OP2CLNC or on USS Shreveport before hostilities… He hugged me and told me how much he loved his Infantry Marines. I LOVE my Commandant. Semper Fidelis. Forever may you rest in peace Sir…
All veterans deserve the upmost Respect.
I disagree. Only those veterans who served honorably or lead honorable lives afterward deserve respect.
I was at FMFLANT when Gen. Gray took command. I met him at Camp Lejeune with 2nd MarDiv a few years earlier. Gen. Gray had a habit of walking around the post, and you never knew when he might show up. I was the admin NCO for HQ Co when he walked into the office. Damned if he didn't remember me. The man was in charge of countless Marines during his time, and he remembered not just my face but my name as well. RIP.
My deepest sorrow to the family and profound thanks for his service to our country.
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Beautiful Service. Rest in Peace sir. 🙏 🇺🇸
I am a retired Canadian Forces member having served 38 years. Truly a great leader and Marine who was loved by all. You will be missed RIP
He promoted me to corporal back in 1990 in Saudi. RIP Sir!!!
Another Great Marine enters Heaven. RIP General Alfred Gray.
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Semper Fi General.
Rest easy sir. May your spirit watch over the Corps.
Every veteran should get such a ceremony
I'm a Brit and visited ANC last month Sep24, there were 15 funerals scheduled for that day, a below average apparently.
9m now 75 ,my first military funeral was wheh I was ten ,my moms twin sister lost her 19 year old son ,his plane went down on the side of a mountain ,I will never forget that funeral,my dad was a Marine ,my older brother was as was my husband ,my mom was a WAC ,this 3ax absolutely stunning ,RIP SIR .
I had the pleasure of speaking to General Gray on several occasions while stationed at Marine Barracks 8th & I. He would always take the time to speak to the enlisted Marines while he was outside walking his dog around the Barracks. I’m sorry to hear of his passing. Rest in Peace Sir.
My Marine died on Memorial Day Weekend this year. He is probably being welcomed by the Commandant-Semper Fi -always
My condolences.
So very sorry for your loss.
You didn't loose him he's just went ahead to wait for you
America's love the Marines very much. The service is very beautiful, and patriotic God bless the general and family
God bless all of those Marines.
Semper Fidelis! I was privileged to serve with General Gray both in Vietnam and when he was Commandant of the Marine Corps in Washington!
I have never seen such a beautiful funeral. The uniforms are magnificent. Thank you USA and the Marine Korb for letting us see this.
Gen. PX Kelly and Gen. Gray were my first 2 commandants during my first enlistment.
Semper Fi
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Ret. Gunny
Thanks for you service Mate.
General Alfred M. Gray, Jr. USMC ( Ret.) Was and Always Will Be My Commandant. Rescat En Pactum, Sir and Semper Fidelis 🇺🇲🦅🌎⚓️🕊🕯🫡‼️
the Best CMC I ever had.
Once a Marine Always a Marine. Semper Fi!
these guys are such good musicians that as they walk, they play and sound perfect. RIP General Gray, and a hand salute to you.
I am not an American. I did not know Gen. Gray but the corps did him proud with this ceremony. I was very impressed with the march arrangement of Onward Christian Soldiers and the dicipline and drill precision that was displayed. It was quite different from the British drill that I am familiar with but excellently executed with precision and grace. Rest in peace and rise in glory sir.
On Friday, 13 August 1988, Gen Gray was the Commissioning Officer at the Summer Texas A&M University Corps of Cadets Commissioning Ceremony when I was Commissioned as a young Army 2nd Lieutenant. I am honored to have him as a part of military career.
I did not know him nor did I serve with him but today I am saddened for I have lost a Brother. Rest easy, sir. Until we meet in Valhalla. General, I hope you will allow this old, broke-down Armored Cavalryman to say...Semper Fi, sir.
Rest well Sir. Fair winds and following seas. Semper Fidelis Brother.
A memorial fitting of general grey. Thank you marines. When we fail on our duty to our maker, we are finished.
Thank you for your service. Rest in peace among our nation’s finest.
What is the march at 0:55 ?
The dignity, tradition, and respect of the service is very moving.
RIP General Alfred Gray.
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Onward Christian Soldiers
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Onward,_Christian_Soldiers
“Onward Christian Soldiers” written by the English Clergyman, Reverend Baring-Gould in 1865. 🇬🇧
Fair winds and following Seas Sir. Thank you for your service and years of Devotion to the Corp and this Great Country
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When I was a boot circa 9/82 after being home on leave from bootcamp, I went to get a haircut at Lejeune by 6th Marines. Sitting in front of me was a grayed hair man with a nice smile getting a haircut started to asked where I was from. I said Jersey Sir. Once he was done the barber took of the barber cape and saw two stars. He was our CG at Lejeune but I was a boot did not know he was our CG just a two star general. I served in Grenada in 83 then Beirut, Lebanon from 83-84. After I left the Corps, I did not see the Commandant until 10/2013. I drove down from NJ to Jacksonville, NC to remember our brothers who died (241 / 200 US Marines) in Beirut, Lebanon. I was a closure for me to see some of my buddies that I served with. I never made it to the 40th eventhough I live in the Raleigh, NC metro area now. General Gray was a good man. Semper Fidelis Sir. May you Rest in Peace.
He was my first Commandant. I met him at 8th & I after an evening parade. We were in PLC Jrs and were taken to an evening parade our last week of OCS as a reward. On leaving we were being herded to the bus and one candidate bumped into this elderly gentleman walking his dog in PT gear. Oh my did the cadre eat that candidate alive. Back on the bus he sat near me and I heard him ask “what did I do?” At that point a prior service laughed and told him he’d just “met” the Commandant!
GEN: Thank you for your Service….interestingly, the “ Empty Saddle” still gets Me….
Met him in 2022 after serving under him in the 80's. He apologized to me for not getting up "because I'm afraid I won't get back down". We both laughed. What an honor it was to meet him. RIP, General!
God Speed Sir. Rest in peace.
I met Gen. Gray several times as an enlisted flight engineer when he flew on our aircraft.
The first time I was warned that he punches the enlisted aircrew when he meets them. So I was ready. I stood at attention but my back was up against the leading edge of the wing. As predicted he gave me a pretty fair shot on the front left shoulder. I was 6’1” 200 pounds at the time. But backed up by the aircraft. He froze startled, looked around for a second and figured it out. Without a word he smiled and climbed into the aircraft. A very proud, memorable moment with a a great man, leader and Marine! He’s now commanding the Marines patrolling the streets of heaven. Semper Fi!
He made some needed changes during his time as Commandant. I didn’t appreciate him then but grew to over time. Semper Fi General.
A befitting farewell to a Marines General. Beautiful procession.
Gen. Gray was Col. Gray when I was on Okinawa-Camp Hansen-4th Marines in 1974-75. I remember him he was a lot like Gen. Patton strong and to the point. He was a great leader and he led the Marine Corps as well as 4th Marines with an iron will. I met him once at the Officer's Mess at Camp Hansen for I has to pick someone up there. He scared the hell out of me, but I had great respect for him. Semper Fi sir and RIP for you and your wife. N.Catino Cpl USMC 73-77.
That's about the time I was at Hansen. Ooh rah brother.
@@jackrobinson8328 Semper Fi brother. You were there during the Fall of Saigon. What a trip that was. Have a happy holiday brother. N. Catino Cpl USMC 73-77.
From my Home Town .. Point Pleasant Beach NJ. Rest easy Sir.🙏🏻🇺🇸
My uncle pass this January 2024. The funeral was sad. He joined the Marines in 1980. I heard the guns i tried not to cry. My mom squeezed my hand tightly. Tears started to come down. Very hard to attend a miltary funeral.
I am a retired Naval Officer with active duty from the1970s. General Gray, Semper fidelis. Requiescat in pace.