If you want to lead a successful life, do the OPPOSITE.

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  • @TatianaJames
    @TatianaJames  2 роки тому +432

    I wake up each day thinking how grateful I am because I truly wouldn't want to trade my life with anyone else. To me, that's the definition of success. But how did I end up here? I realized that a key to success is learning to think for yourself. The easy thing to do is to subscribe to what the majority is doing/saying because then you don't have to think for yourself. But I urge you to look around and ask yourself if you want the results that the majority have? You might come to realize that although the advice people give you comes with good intention, it's based on their model of the world... but what if you want to break free from that model? I knew I did. That's when I started seeing success in all areas of my life. You're fully capable, you just need to trust yourself to make the best decisions for you in your life... nobody knows your heart like you do.

    • @enlightenhuman2736
      @enlightenhuman2736 Рік тому

      The message 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @conradstough7581
      @conradstough7581 Рік тому +1

      Well said, thanks for the videos you post and for being true to God and yourself. It's a rare quality and if you read your comments, I want you to know you're doing the right thing and you're appreciated 👏

    • @paolapar
      @paolapar Рік тому

      Love this! Loved your video!!! 💜

    • @tivakudzemagunda23
      @tivakudzemagunda23 Рік тому

      Thank You so much!!! 🤗❤️This is exactly what l needed

    • @damarisfuenteslorenzo
      @damarisfuenteslorenzo Рік тому

      Any tip to build self-confidence when you feel like rubbish? :(

  • @TheBlakebliss
    @TheBlakebliss Рік тому +52

    “If something is the truth then questioning it isn’t a threat” well said!

  • @mehditate
    @mehditate Рік тому +248

    I'm 28 as well and was broke a couple of years ago. I grew up down the street from Hermes (the owner of the luxury brand), my neighbour was literally a king, but after high school, life hit me pretty hard. Life hit me pretty hard. I used to live in Miami being around street violence, guns, death, and I even used to eat $3 a day, 25 cents noodles, expired toast and canned campbell tomato soup. I survived the Boston Marathon Bombing which was a few feet away and I saw all the blood the people screaming and I was alone at 18. I also used to live in a room with no kitchen, trash bag as a window and bugs crawling on me at night. I also took boxing to protect myself and learned how to defend against bigger threats. Now I live in a nordic wood cabin in the north of Sweden where I go down to a lake to breathe and heal my past and I post on UA-cam to help others who need it the most 🙏🏽💜

    • @CosmicKindness
      @CosmicKindness Рік тому

      I hear ya can't wait to move out of Miami we're getting robbed by our HOA Hammocks they all just got arrested and the president is facing 150yrs in prison for raising our fees by 400 percent. Big changes are happening

    • @kaycampbell364
      @kaycampbell364 Рік тому +5

      What do you do for a living

    • @LucaAnamaria
      @LucaAnamaria Рік тому +6

      Wow, what a story! Good for you for rising like a phoenix from the ashes.

    • @moniryousefian8782
      @moniryousefian8782 Рік тому +2

      I'm so proud of you Mehdi your life story and bravery n determination you had in such a young age to change your situation n have a better life is quite remarkable I'm sure by sharing your story you're helping lots of people including myself, keep sharing n doing the good job and I really hope you're proud of yourself too. Much love ❤👍🙏🤗

    • @LifeinGlow
      @LifeinGlow Рік тому +5

      Thanks for for sharing Mehdi! What helped you get out to where you are now?

  • @H4Ni262
    @H4Ni262 Рік тому +84

    Hi Tatiana I just wanna say thank you. Because I’m 15 year old girl and I always see MEN talking about success( which is not bad, and I learned a lot) but always questioned if maybe woman can’t achieve the same. Because I never saw any. So it’s so inspiring to see a woman as young as you to reach her goals. And also not just trash talk everything we do wrong in life, but to truly inspire. And as a young girl I really am sooo grateful that I found you Chanel. 💕

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  Рік тому +21

      I do agree that we need more females in business to share their stories! Have you watched my video on masculine/feminine energy? I think it might give you some insight into the internal dynamics.

    • @H4Ni262
      @H4Ni262 Рік тому +2

      @@TatianaJames I just watched it and it really helped understanding me and the people around me. Thank you so much

    • @ebonyeverything2751
      @ebonyeverything2751 Рік тому +8

      That's odd especially if you're 15. There are TONS of successful women in this day and age speaking about it literally all the time. Maybe u need to tweak the type of content u consume. Michelle Obama speaks about her success all of the time. Oprah, Issa Rae, keke palmer, yara shahidi, marsai Martin, traylor swift and so so many more....

    • @H4Ni262
      @H4Ni262 Рік тому +2

      @@ebonyeverything2751 I know there are a lot of successful women. I’m not saying there aren’t any. But when it comes to entrepreneurs I mostly see men. I’m not saying there aren’t any women who are entrepreneurs, it’s just when I look for successful people I mostly see men. And believe in like the biggest fan of women in power but it’s just hard to find successful women in this business.

  • @jadez7802
    @jadez7802 Рік тому +20

    I birthed my son at home, with no pain medications . I wouldn’t have done it any other way. Powerful experience.

  • @lanacole
    @lanacole Рік тому +92

    You are quite literally the only person on social media whom I trust their opinions and motives of life. You have helped me achieve a 6 figure business in 1 year and stay motivated with what I’m doing. I appreciate your existence!!!

    • @pinapardoki9708
      @pinapardoki9708 Рік тому +3

      Please give a short advice to where to begin.

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  Рік тому +7

      Thank you for your confidence :) I’m so happy to hear of your success!

    • @thedoubleboiler6971
      @thedoubleboiler6971 Рік тому +3

      @@pinapardoki9708 You will need to decide that for yourself and please clarify which sector you are referring to. If you are speaking in terms of business; find a problem and sell a solution.
      When you begin to see traction, apply for your business licence/LLC/ sol proprietorship. Apply for your trademark through the USPTO database and follow their written instructions when forming your brand. You'll need at least $500 for those two steps. Then go to your state website and apply for a sellers licence/ sales tax certificate. Look into any/ all licences/ certifications/ legal inspections needed. Apply for your business bank account and get a Point of sale device, then make sure you follow with PCI compliance. Etc. It will be a learn as you go, but you need to keep track of your sales and apply every quarter for tax.
      Now, if we are talking personal, NEVER stop learning/ working on yourself. Always stay humble and always be thankful for each day.
      She is right. Follow your own path and what you feel the creators path is for you. Best of luck and hope it helps.

  • @TatianaJames
    @TatianaJames  2 роки тому +79

    TIMESTAMPS:
    00:00 Introduction
    00:29 My success
    02:10 Learn to think for yourself
    02:36 Settling for the popular opinion is lazy
    02:53 What's "normal" isn't always what's "best"
    03:34 Pain and challenge is an opportunity to grow
    05:11 Living an Extra Ordinary life
    06:10 Build confidence in your abilities
    06:35 Taking calculated risks
    07:07 Follow your heart
    07:24 The unpopular opinion
    08:13 Stop being a sheep
    09:28 I caution you about following too man ppl
    09:56 Warning about having an opinion
    11:32 Live a life by design
    11:59 Respect

  • @katerinaplotnikova4879
    @katerinaplotnikova4879 Рік тому

    I was always against pain medication during the birth of my children. But my first child was coming to the world with complications, stimulation, some other problems and I was going through it without anaesthesia and when I was ready to take it, no one was available for me to give it, as I didn’t order it beforehand. I regretted it of course, I felt so bad many months after birth, I cannot say how bad…… Of course some births are fine, easy, no need for anaesthesia. I wish you dear Tatiana, the easiest and happiest labour and birth of your first child! 🙏

  • @lizzie6565
    @lizzie6565 Рік тому +71

    You’re such a great role model breaking through all stereotypes ❤ you’re a really beautiful woman but then you’re also very smart you’re really feminine and then you’re a great entrepreneur. You’re wealthy and still have a great marriage. You’re proof that all the limiting beliefs others try to put on us are not true. Thank you so much ❤

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  Рік тому +5

      Thank you 🥰

    • @thesofiacode6336
      @thesofiacode6336 Рік тому

      These YOU affirmations are powerful af. Tell me I’m pretty too 😻

    • @patienceeric3236
      @patienceeric3236 Рік тому

      People prefer to spend money on liabilities,Rather than investing in assets and be very profitable

  • @MissCamilaOliveira
    @MissCamilaOliveira 2 роки тому +53

    Listen to Tatiana, guys. This woman is gifted! I started to study Amazon FBA over a year ago because of her, and I made my first sale yesterday. I know that's nothing, but it means a lot to me because now I know what it takes to get to this point.
    The value of pain, old-school knowledge sources, and social media were straight-to-the-point topics in this video.

    • @badgaldidi3352
      @badgaldidi3352 2 роки тому +2

      Congrats 🎉

    • @johnmoore4820
      @johnmoore4820 Рік тому

      What are you selling?

    • @FatTonyTheSkipper
      @FatTonyTheSkipper Рік тому +2

      Congrats on the sale. So did it take a whole year to get 1 sale? I been thinking of starting FBA or Dropshipping but seems very saturated now.
      I'm highly skilled in music production though so wondering if I can do something there. Trying to get RICH RICH LOL

    • @zulemapearce4949
      @zulemapearce4949 Рік тому

      It’s SOMETHING! Congrats 🎉

    • @mjt1517
      @mjt1517 Рік тому

      @@johnmoore4820 it's unwise for a seller to reveal what they're selling. That creates instant competition.

  • @stavrosharamis3002
    @stavrosharamis3002 Рік тому +1

    I agree upon "walk the walk. "
    Thank you for sharing your perspective on success.
    You actually helped me with something right now.
    Wishing you the best....in all aspects of your life.
    Take care Tatiana!

  • @jazmynakins618
    @jazmynakins618 Рік тому

    The caption alone just put my whole life in perspective

  • @peytonbusby324
    @peytonbusby324 Рік тому

    wow. been looking for a women to watch because all i watch is men talking ab “success” THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤️ I feel like i’m watching myself in the future 🥰🥰😼😼😼

  • @JennLinsi
    @JennLinsi 2 роки тому +29

    ⭐️I like what you have to say about the value of PAIN. I think it’s important for us to remember that the temporary pain of exercise is what leads to increasing our physical strength… and in the same way, challenging things in life can be used strengthen us mentally and emotionally. This is the foundation of my mission to support 20-somethings in learning how to LOVE THEIR LIVES no matter what kind of ups & downs they’re experiencing! 💛

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  2 роки тому +1

      100% :)

    • @gggx1344
      @gggx1344 Рік тому

      @@TatianaJames so i can talk to a millioner on UA-cam?

  • @PaulBeriault
    @PaulBeriault Рік тому +1

    We have six kids and my wife and I have followed you and Stephon for a few years. We think you would make great parents and wish lots of children.

  • @Samantha-bj5xm
    @Samantha-bj5xm Рік тому

    Beautiful truthful message
    Regarding a natural pregnancy and birth dont let anyone not even doctors bully you into what you dont want... pray, be confident and eat healthy
    God bless you

  • @mundoman5819
    @mundoman5819 Рік тому

    Wow.i heard myself talking thru you only to realize it's you speaking.Have you been listening to me over the years.Keep it up girl,love your mindset it will get you very far.This is just the beginning for you.Great

  • @hypnotizingeyes3465
    @hypnotizingeyes3465 Рік тому

    Most of the time my opinion is different to the ''popular opinion'' about the subject. And I always thought is a bad thing as it made my life harder many times (for example during the pandemic), thank you for showing me a different perspective.

  • @debbiejordan3791
    @debbiejordan3791 2 роки тому +1

    I had my last two babies at home. It is such an awesome experience. It's hard but for me totally worth it.

  • @tegan5477
    @tegan5477 Рік тому +2

    Your video just popped up on my feed and I'm so glad I clicked on it! Great advice, thank you. You are wise beyond your years, have a beautiful outlook and so generous to have the desire to share your wisdom with others. Thank you 💛

  • @nature10879
    @nature10879 Рік тому +3

    Tatiana I needed this msg. This is amazing and I have been thinking about this for a few days. I have noticed that almost everyone projects their model of their world including their world view onto others. I have broke free from this and I am the driver of my own life. Feels amazing to realize this and then coming across this video was pure confirmation.

  • @mayas.5050
    @mayas.5050 Рік тому +10

    21 and I've recently had to tell myself "hey, freedom is not knowing. At any point in time if you wanna make a change then do that but don't hold back"
    It's scarier to look up and realize life has gone by then to give life your all and not know where the setbacks will be. ♥︎
    So glad you created this channel and are succeeding in every area of life everday, one step at a time. Bless you 💜💜💜

  • @LadyKfornow_
    @LadyKfornow_ Рік тому +6

    I have been really stressed out about my financial situation. This really helped me because I know that even though I'm not living the life I want for myself, I'm on the right track because I know I don't want to live the same way everyone else is living. It starts with your mindset. Really inspiring video. 💫

  • @Flootist1
    @Flootist1 Рік тому +2

    I love how you talk about your relationship with God. It’s so important in life. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

  • @p.o.p.presents
    @p.o.p.presents Рік тому +3

    This video felt good in my spirit. It was truthful but I also like how respectful you are to your viewers ç. It doesn't feel like you're talking at us. You're having a conversation. Speaking of pain being a person that goes against the grain is painful. It comes with a price..It can be lonely being a leader and not follower. I appreciate this message. Thank you and God bless you.

  • @pUkkademps
    @pUkkademps Рік тому +1

    “Everyone has value to share “

  • @sonjagrubisa3439
    @sonjagrubisa3439 2 роки тому +6

    The pain of giving birth is not “some” pain like you said. It is A LOT of pain. And I think when we see something wrong, when we have additional information other people around us don’t then we have a duty to say it and share it, no matter whether they listen or not, no matter if they asked for it or not. Someone may dismiss it at first but you never know when that person will find themselves in a situation where what you said could save them, make them turn another way or simply re-think what believed in.

  • @gayacomotti7208
    @gayacomotti7208 Рік тому

    THANK YOU FOR THESE WORDS!!! you are inspiration!!sending you love and a big hug

  • @patrynaswritings7617
    @patrynaswritings7617 Рік тому

    I'm so proud of you and your husband .Thanks for sharing this video

  • @NataliaAnayeli
    @NataliaAnayeli Рік тому +8

    Crazy I was literally just talking about this with my husband. I feel like everyone just follows a certain path and these things are not questioned. I feel so different because I feel like the only one questioning these things.

  • @Kimeshasadventures_
    @Kimeshasadventures_ Рік тому +2

    Solid advice! I sometimes get lost in wanting to speak my truth that I forget others have their own truths! Sometimes it makes me upset when people oppose me & it feels like I’m not heard or that people take me for a joke! What I take from this message is that I should practice keeping my opinions to myself especially if no one asks! It seems it would save me from unnecessary turmoil!!

  • @annasoszka1758
    @annasoszka1758 Рік тому +2

    Girl, you are like me 🙏❤ I speak tree languages, I studed International Relations. I love to learn from other cultures and from people from other countries. Thats a blessing from God, that we are all not the same 🙏❤

  • @PacificNWGrl
    @PacificNWGrl Рік тому +1

    It also has much to do with connections. Friendships and social networking. Also, looks okay a large part.

  • @marcinkuzborski7118
    @marcinkuzborski7118 Рік тому

    That was great. Thank you. I appreciate your honesty. God bless you!

  • @somethingbambi875
    @somethingbambi875 Рік тому +1

    Yes! I have given birth to two children without any pain relief and am so glad I listened to myself and not everyone laughing at me for even wanted that. I LOVE giving birth and to feel it all, I fricking love it. Would love to birth at home some day too ♥️

  • @Gianni-Heaven
    @Gianni-Heaven Рік тому

    love seeing your growth and maturity 💯

  • @BlakeSD
    @BlakeSD Рік тому

    I thank you for the reminder. God’s will be done. I’m here for the glory of His very own.

  • @jacksonntini8067
    @jacksonntini8067 Рік тому +3

    I am so much happy to learn about this Tatiana.
    Yes it's true that pain is a motivation.
    Being brought up in hardships and pain, this has been a great motivation to make a successful life.
    I have been yearning to create success in all aspects of my life.
    And yes you are the right mentor I have.

  • @ashleygodin4054
    @ashleygodin4054 Рік тому

    Your such an inspiration!! I’ve been learning so much from you so I’m grateful for your channel, congrats on being financially free!! ❤️ I had both my babies with no pain meds, woman are strong , you’ll do amazing! I wish I had my babies at home , the hospital was an absolute terrible experience , thank goodness for midwives!

  • @kiritk1801
    @kiritk1801 Рік тому

    Much much needed ... Felt good and clear. Thanku so much for this. Much much Gratitude 🙏🙏

  • @kw6724
    @kw6724 2 роки тому +3

    Completely off topic but your home is so beautiful! 😍 I absolutely love what you said in the video, btw. I’m definitely that person that questions EVERYTHING, which I’m grateful for. People that go with the flow of everything are natural born followers, not leaders. I truly enjoyed this video!

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  2 роки тому

      Thank you! It was Halloween so maybe you could spot the ghost in the background. Glad you relate!

  • @rajjoshi2803
    @rajjoshi2803 Рік тому

    Fair play for achieving what is almost impossible for most people. I am a bit mixed about your advise, not everyone who rolls the dice, wins.

  • @jobunny919
    @jobunny919 2 роки тому +1

    I want to take a certificate program for a field i want to get into. It's not accredited, I'm just interested in the information. My mom was giving me such a hard time, trying to urge me to "go to a REAL school" aka college aka debt aka what everyone else is doing. My heart wants to just take the class but she kinda guilt tripped me and had me second guessing myself this morning. Her opinion is that I'm wasting thousands on schools that aren't accredited. This video reminded me to go with what I WANT to do. I want the experience and the education. ALL education is education accredited or not. Thank you Tati.

  • @jordansmithchannel
    @jordansmithchannel Рік тому +2

    If something is the truth then questioning it isn’t a threat 👏

  • @MsDoryLinda
    @MsDoryLinda Рік тому +3

    Yes 💯 we must learn to think for ourselves if we want to live extraordinary lives! This is what I needed to hear today. Thank you.

  • @patrynaswritings7617
    @patrynaswritings7617 Рік тому

    Good perspective on a lot . We are the ones that decide what's best for us don't leave that responsibility to anyone else. They don't know our hearts desires like we do. This is so true thanks for the reminder .

  • @estefaniejeanette413
    @estefaniejeanette413 Рік тому

    Wow 🤩 I was just thinking to myself how the ONLY person out here (as far as I know of in the UA-cam industry) I would love to hang out with you. I can say I’m a big fan of you Tatiana because every single one of your videos brings in great information. To me that’s more valuable then spending my time watching a pointless video.
    You preach great tips and I absolutely love it. I apply it to my job and to my way of thinking and doing.
    Im 22 years old working as a hostess for barely 3 months and people think I’ve been working there for a long time because of the confidence that I have. One of our duties is to do a restroom check and even if it’s sucky , I try my best to keep it clean and why ? Because ms. Tatiana told me to try your best and be your best at everything

  • @astridcifuentes6633
    @astridcifuentes6633 Рік тому

    Oh wow I loved your point of view. Very relatable for me

  • @arienevenida
    @arienevenida Рік тому +1

    It’s my first time watching you and I really like your ideas. It gave me new perspective. Thank you and hoping for more success. ☺️

  • @jacksonntini8067
    @jacksonntini8067 Рік тому +1

    I truly believe that that's the true definition of success, all parts of life

  • @beka3841
    @beka3841 Рік тому +1

    I was watching this video thinking about how much I can relate to you.
    I did have a homebirth. I spent months researching and reading about scientific evidence about births. By the time I got pregnant I was so well informed about the process of giving birth, that the night I started having contractions, I knew exactly what was going on and I felt very safe. No panic, no rush. Nothing was perfect and the birth was very, very painful. The baby was born in what scientific evidence estimates to be the time it takes to deliver a baby without complications or interventions; 12 hours.
    I already forgot the traumatic experience of such painful birth, but I've never forgotten how cruel and ignorant people were with me, especially those women whose births lasted more than 30 hours because they never questioned any intervention, but they were laughing at me for experiencing pain on my birth.
    The vast majority of people behave like sheep herds, but for those people who dare to question everything and do something that is different to what others do, remember that you owe nothing to those sheep.
    Thank you Tatiana, you are very inspiring. X

  • @Krystal_Kitty7
    @Krystal_Kitty7 2 роки тому +3

    Those who step outside their comfort bubble are the ones who succeed! Definitely agree with everything you said. 💯 Also, I had my 2 sons with no pain medication, you get the pride of knowing you did it all by yourself with no medication, you experienced the pain many women fear and stand strong having endured something most women would never do. And honestly it's not as bad as people make it out to be. I rather have no medication than have a long thick needle 💉 inserted into my back. No thanks!

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks! Ya I'm not afraid of birth at all, I'm actually looking forward to it. It's all about how you frame it. To me, it's an empowering experience and i feel honoured to be able to have that.

  • @simahalchaye4996
    @simahalchaye4996 Рік тому

    Your right 👍 I'm going to open pharmacy business and people are against me.i think differently.

  • @ayshabach
    @ayshabach Рік тому

    Rightfully subscribed. You're my role model now and thank you so much for sharing💗

  • @wparsa
    @wparsa Рік тому

    Wow, you are absolutely beautiful. You definitely moved the boundaries of beauty

  • @wagenna
    @wagenna Рік тому +1

    Thank you for the video. This gave me the confidence I very much needed to continue down the path I am on.
    I am already 40 and kind of wasted the first half of my life by following other people's ideas and I won't make the same mistake again.

  • @SKingJoy
    @SKingJoy Рік тому +3

    I don't want a just a successful life, I want a significant life.
    Success=adding value to self
    Significant=adding value to others

  • @eddiebarisiima
    @eddiebarisiima Рік тому

    @TatianaJames I Love ♥️you. Thanks so much. I guess my eyes are now opened! They’ve been closed for years

  • @duanegunawardena6240
    @duanegunawardena6240 Рік тому

    You are truly amazing thank you for the insight of life, God bless you

  • @LUxo323
    @LUxo323 Рік тому

    Beautiful mind beautiful attitude beautiful meaning

  • @KeerthanaOgirala
    @KeerthanaOgirala Рік тому

    Incredible words and very inspiring. Thank you for sharing 🙏❤️

  • @nadiaprivalikhina
    @nadiaprivalikhina Рік тому

    I've been struggling with success and following my own path. I was fed up with my corporate job, a year ago was laid off from it, and I've been trying to make some money online, but it turned out to be so hard. Competition is insane, and I'm too afraid to try more uncommon ways. I learned the hard way that if there is an easy way to make money online, you'll be not alone and there is no way to stay sane and honest. And the most difficult thing for me is to find a mentor, especially a female role model. Most of the women I see on social media are basically selling their looks and bodies, their beauty, or they claim to manifest their success. So, I see what's not working for me, but cannot see a way out of it that would suit my personality.

  • @faith3609
    @faith3609 2 роки тому

    I love you❤❤❤ “Stop Looking At Where YouHave Been And Start LookingAt Where You Can be ❤

  • @brother_love1257
    @brother_love1257 Рік тому +1

    We need to lift up others with love and hope!

  • @seiya.lifestyle
    @seiya.lifestyle Рік тому

    You inspire a lot of people. I’m one of them as well. Watching from Japan🇯🇵

  • @SilverLumberjack
    @SilverLumberjack Рік тому

    Great advice. Thank you Tatiana.

  • @bluwng
    @bluwng Рік тому

    You are blessed to learn at such a young age

  • @Realmeninvest
    @Realmeninvest Рік тому

    I can’t wait to see my life over time get better. At 22 I just got a job and was broke. At 26 I’m starting to invest. I can’t wait when I’m 35 I’ll be very well off.

  • @branislavsaloky3075
    @branislavsaloky3075 Рік тому

    Life-changing video i would say👏 thank you for sharing your experiences with us🙏 have a blessed day❤️

  • @MelanieKay
    @MelanieKay 2 роки тому +2

    I love all of what you have said, so true! Have a blessed day!

  • @alexislamberson1901
    @alexislamberson1901 2 роки тому +1

    Love every single word you said. I crave to be financially free!

  • @KittyMeowWow
    @KittyMeowWow Рік тому

    100% - In my first pregnancy, I was very young and I had every paid medication I could. I almost had to have a caesarean because the epidural slowed everything down. The second one, I had matured so much - I actually studied hypno birthing techniques, (which really helped by the way) and only had gas and air for pain relief. By contrast, I came out of that birth fully in control and only with a couple of stitches. With my first birth, I ended up in hospital actually for two weeks and my son suffered from reduced oxygen while giving birth because it was taking so long. Birthing isn't a medical emergency! Women are much better off taking control of their own births and only going to hospital when it is really necessary.

  • @joycelinappiah9948
    @joycelinappiah9948 Рік тому

    THANK YOU TATIANA!!

  • @faizulhaq3828
    @faizulhaq3828 Рік тому

    So well said, thanks 🙏 a lot for sharing

  • @AdrianoSouza.
    @AdrianoSouza. 2 роки тому

    Love you and each word you say. Thank you so much to share with us. My God bless you and your family.

  • @ATRestoration
    @ATRestoration Рік тому

    Lot of people (like Flat Earth believers) question everything but they don´t do much to really find the truth. So you can question everything, but you can still be dumb and arrogant. To find the truth you must first question yourself, your own knowlege and your own motives.

  • @GoGoJessi
    @GoGoJessi Рік тому

    I just had to comment that I had my son at home unmedicated in a birthing tub in my living room. Everyone I spoke to while i was pregnant thought I was absolutely insane for wanting a home birth and how dangerous it would be and they couldn’t fathom the thought. Mostly from close family - my mother / husband etc. But I had prepared myself so much and I was so determined that this was what I wanted. I invited only my
    Husband and Mother to the birth (my mother had had 3 C-sections) and it was the greatest experience of my life and so eye opening to my husband and mother who still talk about it to this day 8 years later. But such is life--you have to want things so bad that the thought of pain or the fear is insignificant. Our minds are so powerful! You can do anything

  • @spiritofmatter1881
    @spiritofmatter1881 Рік тому

    Your definition of success is why I subscribed

  • @66gmoney
    @66gmoney Рік тому

    Brilliant share,words of wisdom

  • @dianacouto5385
    @dianacouto5385 Рік тому +1

    The pain that a mother has in childbirth is one of the most important aspects of being a mother. That pain Helps a mother to bond and protect the child. Just think of the thing that you have sacrificed And felt the most struggle for, how you hold that in such high regard.

  • @Techpodshed
    @Techpodshed Рік тому

    If only I had you as my personal assistant for 1 month and I'd be balling and I'll be on the front page cover of Forbes magazine 😄

  • @stephanyvuong
    @stephanyvuong 2 роки тому +1

    We’re the same age, major respect for you and all your success, I’m also pursuing an FBA business at the moment.

  • @alreem611
    @alreem611 Рік тому

    I really appreciate hearing this video. You’re correct we feel disappointed because we follow people and listen to their opinions about our life which is our own responsibility only. Maybe they don’t understand our thoughts and beliefs so why we waste our time and efforts to convince them?!

  • @jabrilbalakrishna
    @jabrilbalakrishna 2 роки тому

    Wow, this stoic trait is really rare to come by these days. Especially, coming from a woman. Kudos to you. No wonder you're successful.

  • @Mikaelajorko
    @Mikaelajorko Рік тому

    Thank you so much! Resonate a lot.

  • @badgaldidi3352
    @badgaldidi3352 2 роки тому

    You’re beautiful inside and out! Love your videos. Thank you so much.❤️

  • @shannonlwood
    @shannonlwood Рік тому

    I 100% agree with you. Love this. ❤

  • @БоянИванов-т2ш
    @БоянИванов-т2ш Рік тому

    Greetings from Bulgaria.I wish you to follow the road to the enligtment

  • @GRUPO-INOKU
    @GRUPO-INOKU Рік тому

    Thank you very much for this sincere and real video. It is clear that you speak from experience. In addition to that I confirm much of the content from my own experience. As it is. I wish you with all my heart that God continue to bless you and yours 🙏🙏🙏

  • @fahimrohman3355
    @fahimrohman3355 Рік тому

    This woman is gifted

  • @lovely_bean
    @lovely_bean 2 роки тому

    I really enjoy your videos as a young ambitions woman. I relate, admire, and respect you.
    Thank you for these videos!

  • @carriedahlman8637
    @carriedahlman8637 Рік тому

    You are spot on!

  • @deanhallam8380
    @deanhallam8380 2 роки тому

    Thank you Tatiana. I pray that you always be blessed in your path in Life. I know you’re a genuine person that wants to see others succeed in life as you had the opportunity to. 😊

  • @bigdreamwithliz
    @bigdreamwithliz Рік тому +4

    This was really insightful! I have been thinking a lot about how some people I know have become inflexible in their beliefs as well as being forceful about them. I have been working on challenging myself while staying aware of my intentions & personal boundaries. This was very helpful encouragement to realize I am on my own path for a reason. Thanks! 🤩🙌

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  Рік тому +1

      I’m glad to hear it was helpful :)

  • @tropicalbeach9225
    @tropicalbeach9225 Рік тому

    TJ great insights and details about your personal experiences and what you did to get where you are at. However, about the risk situation... look at it like this.. there are 2 types of risk... " a guaranteed risk" and an "Unnecessary Risk". The majority of smart, confident or rich people always take the guaranteed risk meaning that they will eventually make profit or break even in whatever endeavor they engage in. The rich and smart never take unnecessary risk because they know they will lose or it will not work out. So many times, when people always give advice on " Don't be afraid to take risks" they're never quite clear on what they mean and it really means not to take unnecessary risks.
    I still solely believe that becoming rich involves dumb luck to a certain extent regardless of talent, skill, education, intelligence, or connections.

  • @sixbass2588
    @sixbass2588 Рік тому

    I'm here because I saw the title, title that is similar with many thousand other videos.
    some things that are more important than everything in this life to become a succsfull person:
    1) Wake up early and do some workout
    2) Don't use your phone for at least 1 hours when you wake up
    3) Instead of keeping money on a economy bank accout, invest them.
    4) Read about entrepreneurship, how to be a good leader, how to start a company, how to invest, make your passion a business
    5) Stop watching UA-cam videos about success, it won't work unless you do it yourself.
    6) Many people help you to make money by getting your money, so try to learn without spending money on nothings
    7) Nobody should tell you what to do for a succesful life, everybody has it's life, story, possibilities and experience, stop wasting your time and money, you need to make choices in life
    8) In life you need to risk to become successfull, no one will risk for you, you have to do it by YOURSELF.
    9) Your life, your money, your story, your choices.
    No one, but no one should tell you how to choose in life.
    Life gives you the rythm, you need to write the lyrics by yourself.

  • @Noumenon4Idolatry
    @Noumenon4Idolatry Рік тому

    Downloading and subscribed. Will need to watch it later. Good vibes here and too many coincidences. 😄

  • @maninime
    @maninime 2 роки тому +1

    It’s amazing how much I relate to you. Your an inspiration. It takes guts to share your opinions knowing that people may not agree, but it’s powerful advice. I love how you take everything, every point of view into consideration. It’s so rare to find individuals like you that are so open minded and well rounded. Truly appreciate hearing your thoughts. Take care of yourself

    • @BrodieBr0
      @BrodieBr0 Рік тому

      kei waenganui ko te wahi i noho ai te mokete ka tino pai ahau ki tenei ataata ka awhina i ahau 🤗💗

  • @ivonnelopez8203
    @ivonnelopez8203 Рік тому

    I love what you’re saying

  • @jessicacusipuma9587
    @jessicacusipuma9587 Рік тому

    Thanks for the lycrs, Im practicing my english.