Hi Elizabeth. This is your cousin Lowell, your Uncle Richard's son. Thanks for sharing your thoughts about Self Discipline! It made think about about a few things. Appreciate your courage to go through this journey!
Thank you, Elizabeth! I have lived with guilt, shame, and people pleasing for almost my whole life. Years of therapy and I still do the same things. Your explanation was eye-opening and a fresh breath of air. It gives me hope.
The message of self-love resonates so much better than self-discipline. I already feel so much calmer about reaching my goals for myself by changing my thinking about self-love vs. self-discipline.
Currently 20 years old with similar struggles to be who I was meant to. I believe I was ashamed to growing up and now that I’m learning and finding myself again. These things have been coming up like crazy.
An especially thought-provoking message for me as a parent helping my kids navigate a world inclined to shame and force, to be whoever they are becoming -- their best selves.
I am so proud of my friend I could just burst!! Liz models courage and comes from a heart of genuine generosity. She inspires me to be brave, to love myself and my journey. 💗
Elizabeth Judith, thank you SO much for doing this talk. You had already impressed me with your superlative talent in acting and singing. This new chapter is even more impressive and your authenticity and sincerity are a rare thing, these days. You are insightful and inspirational. Such a professional, you are!!! Love, love, love it!!!
I loved your talk. Self-discipline is that love hate relationship. I think I have it then I look and realize I really don't. I'm learning from your shares and your presence. Thank you!
So proud of you Elizabeth! I've always admired your vulnerability and your ability to speak your truth. You totally nailed this talk with so many gems of your wisdom. Appreciate you sharing your story. It helps me gain a new perspective and I'm sure many others will benefit from your candor as well.
Thank you for sharing your story. Redefining self discipline as a loving discipline including self devotion and becoming a student of yourself was what I needed to hear. Love you!!!❤
I like your use of curious vs. shame. I'm a highly sensitive person that ended up in a police department, and assigned to an officer that toys with the emotions of HSPs. First of all, I didn't know what I was, so I didn't know how to defend myself. Secondly, he used public shaming (over the police scanner, which then, was also public) to embarrass me. He would pit me against the other cops because I'm a quiet person. (Very much an introvert.) For 30 years after the events; the humiliation I was put through haunted me, and I was only there for 4 years. He pursued me even after he got me fired, and I never stopped running. I had to leave my home state. I was so ashamed that I didn't know how to get out of the situation, but even worse, that I allowed myself to be in that situation in the first place. I discipline myself now to follow a plan, and not my emotions, but I still have to work through shame and fear. I heard about you from Kathryn Calhoun. She gave a challenge to make an offer for a program; and I failed to do that for the past 2 years even though I'm ready to market. Your talk was very nice to hear. I need to turn shame into curiosity so I can move forward.
Liz, this is amazing. These feelings and thought processes get me everyday, and even with therapy, messages like this help remind me of the work I need to continue doing to be better to myself. Thank you for this!
I understand where she is coming from I tend to have the same struggles. Not the same exact situations at times. But yes the same people pleasing abilities.
I loved it, Liz! I so appreciate your honesty and vulnerability in sharing your struggles, because we all have them. Your message is filled with love and wisdom and you are just a beautiful person, inside and out. Love you!
What a wonderful and encouraging talk. Definitely one of my favorites! Thank you for such raw and authentic sharing and wisdom. You seem to be speaking right to my heart.
Wonderfully, well-delivered talk. Love your 3 P’s. Guilty myself. Great idea about discipline can be living. 😊 You are very charming and authentic. It stinks the TEDx Ocala would put ads in the middle of your talk. Augh.
Perfect timing as so many of us are looking forward to setting new goals as we approach the new year. Great message! Thank you so much for having the courage to share with us.
I clapped with teary eyes... Even if I'm young I know feel her. Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful speech to all of us in the way of growing and loving ourselves ❤️
Thank you, Elizabeth, for sharing your story and for this amazing perspective. It's really eye-opening to re-think our definition and relationship with self-discipline - without shame. This definitely resonated with my own not-so-loving approach to myself and my desire to grow.
Excellent presentation! Thank you for sharing your journey, your wisdom and inspiring us all to be more self-disciplined in learning to love ourselves more, each and every day. Your words made a powerful impact on my day!
Elizabeth, this was an incredibly insightful and thought-provoking talk! Thank you for taking situations you’ve been through and turning them into such a learning opportunity for others! Cultivating self discipline through kindness rather than shame is definitely a more sustainable way towards a beautiful life! Your genuine spirit and love of helping others shines right through when you speak! Well done!
What an awesome video Liz! So very proud of you!! A lot of things you said really hit home. I'm so glad that you're finally getting to share your message with the world!! Thank you Liz!!
Oh my goodness, do I relate. The 3 P's have been mine, too. Thank you for the stories that illuminate what these look like and such insights around how to re-understand discipline. Learn, study and GROW! Soo much more beautiful. Thank you for this talk, Elizabeth.
I love the idea of approaching your life with more curiosity instead of shame. This concept of loving self discipline is huge and so needed in the world right now. How do I find out more about your work Elizabeth?
Your thoughts on this subject are inspiring and it has helped me see discipline in a new and exciting way! Thank you for sharing your important thoughts in an entertaining and helpful way. Loved every second.
Thank you Liz for sharing your story and inspiration!! You are amazing and your delivery is so thoughtful and relatable. I’ll definitely be sharing your message. Just love you!
Very powerful speech bases on the concept of self-discipline, to ensure the process of learning how to love oneself and achieving our goals. Such a needed concept to learn and very difficult one to achieve. Great presentation, excellently presented. Great job Liz so would like to hear more keep going lady you got this.
beautiful talk thank you so much to give me these advices about self discipline. it's true is not a field which all of us want to listen to .but I think it's very important to have a purpose in our life . we are human and we need to grow learning reading discovering. taking this way lead us to happiness and self estime every day I try to learn English on my own reading the bible and other book . thank you your talk is beautiful keep doing that to help people to grow and reach satisfaction. Richard ALVENTOZA
Thank you so much for this amazing talk - you've really hit such important points here. My relationship with self-discipline is definitely "not-so-much" and the shame can be crippling. 😏 I can't wait to learn more about your method.
God loves you and takes care of you so that this message reaches you. The biggest loss that any human being loses in this life is to live and die while he does not know who created him, and he is God, and he does not know the Islamic religion, the last of the heavenly religions, nor the Messenger of God, Muhammad, and he is the last of the prophets of great intelligence before you believe Something or not to believe in it is to read it, study it and understand it well, and then you can judge it. I hope that you do that before you do not have time to do that, and I wish you success from God. He is the one who controls everything. You just have to work
i Think itis the best ted-talk which i have ever watched
Hi Elizabeth. This is your cousin Lowell, your Uncle Richard's son. Thanks for sharing your thoughts about Self Discipline! It made think about about a few things. Appreciate your courage to go through this journey!
Succinctly, indeed loving, put TED talk on self-discipline.
I like to say that "Discipline isn't a four-letter word" as a cheeky way of avoiding it. A gnarly, self-sabotaging habit.
Thank you, Elizabeth! I have lived with guilt, shame, and people pleasing for almost my whole life. Years of therapy and I still do the same things. Your explanation was eye-opening and a fresh breath of air. It gives me hope.
Alot of truth bombs here- thank you ! " Shame will never give you a beautiful life" & cultivating curiosity of yourself- love it. thank you
🤣 truth bombs is right! "Shame will never give you a beautiful life" is IMO one of the strongest truths in her talk ❣️
The message of self-love resonates so much better than self-discipline. I already feel so much calmer about reaching my goals for myself by changing my thinking about self-love vs. self-discipline.
Currently 20 years old with similar struggles to be who I was meant to. I believe I was ashamed to growing up and now that I’m learning and finding myself again. These things have been coming up like crazy.
An especially thought-provoking message for me as a parent helping my kids navigate a world inclined to shame and force, to be whoever they are becoming -- their best selves.
I am so proud of my friend I could just burst!!
Liz models courage and comes from a heart of genuine generosity. She inspires me to be brave, to love myself and my journey. 💗
That’s our girl! I just wanna jump up and down and show EVERYONE!
Yes! That's so true, Lindsey! (jumps up and down with Mary)
Elizabeth Judith, thank you SO much for doing this talk. You had already impressed me with your superlative talent in acting and singing. This new chapter is even more impressive and your authenticity and sincerity are a rare thing, these days. You are insightful and inspirational. Such a professional, you are!!! Love, love, love it!!!
awesomeness! "more than anything else, we need to abolish shame" truth!
I loved your talk. Self-discipline is that love hate relationship. I think I have it then I look and realize I really don't. I'm learning from your shares and your presence. Thank you!
Wonderful Message Elizabeth! I love reframing discipline, and pairing with devotion!
Why this talk has so much less likes. This desrves more likes. Lots of people have this wrong idea shame and fear being tools for discipline.
So proud of you Elizabeth! I've always admired your vulnerability and your ability to speak your truth. You totally nailed this talk with so many gems of your wisdom. Appreciate you sharing your story. It helps me gain a new perspective and I'm sure many others will benefit from your candor as well.
Thank you for sharing your story. Redefining self discipline as a loving discipline including self devotion and becoming a student of yourself was what I needed to hear. Love you!!!❤
I like your use of curious vs. shame. I'm a highly sensitive person that ended up in a police department, and assigned to an officer that toys with the emotions of HSPs. First of all, I didn't know what I was, so I didn't know how to defend myself. Secondly, he used public shaming (over the police scanner, which then, was also public) to embarrass me. He would pit me against the other cops because I'm a quiet person. (Very much an introvert.) For 30 years after the events; the humiliation I was put through haunted me, and I was only there for 4 years. He pursued me even after he got me fired, and I never stopped running. I had to leave my home state. I was so ashamed that I didn't know how to get out of the situation, but even worse, that I allowed myself to be in that situation in the first place. I discipline myself now to follow a plan, and not my emotions, but I still have to work through shame and fear. I heard about you from Kathryn Calhoun. She gave a challenge to make an offer for a program; and I failed to do that for the past 2 years even though I'm ready to market. Your talk was very nice to hear. I need to turn shame into curiosity so I can move forward.
Great message, I have been successful in some areas and not so much in others. Thanks
Such a powerful message of hope for people struggling with similar issues. Thank you for sharing!
Liz, this is amazing. These feelings and thought processes get me everyday, and even with therapy, messages like this help remind me of the work I need to continue doing to be better to myself. Thank you for this!
I understand where she is coming from I tend to have the same struggles. Not the same exact situations at times. But yes the same people pleasing abilities.
I loved it, Liz! I so appreciate your honesty and vulnerability in sharing your struggles, because we all have them. Your message is filled with love and wisdom and you are just a beautiful person, inside and out. Love you!
What a wonderful and encouraging talk. Definitely one of my favorites! Thank you for such raw and authentic sharing and wisdom. You seem to be speaking right to my heart.
a great lesson for my current problem called perfection instead of loving the journey.
Wonderfully, well-delivered talk. Love your 3 P’s. Guilty myself. Great idea about discipline can be living. 😊
You are very charming and authentic.
It stinks the TEDx Ocala would put ads in the middle of your talk. Augh.
Such a powerful message, and beautifully delivered. So many things rang so true for me and my journey. Thank you for sharing this Elizabeth.
Priceless words that we all need to hear! This is fantastic! Thanks, Elizabeth!
Perfect timing as so many of us are looking forward to setting new goals as we approach the new year. Great message! Thank you so much for having the courage to share with us.
I clapped with teary eyes... Even if I'm young I know feel her. Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful speech to all of us in the way of growing and loving ourselves ❤️
What a beautiful message Elizabeth! You are truly an inspiration.
Where we are now is just a jumping point ..very well said 💫
What a powerful message. Really made me stop and think about myself. Thank you for sharing your story and educating me/us.
This is an honest and loving talk. I’m so impressed with your approach to living life! Thank you.
Thank you, Elizabeth, for sharing your story and for this amazing perspective. It's really eye-opening to re-think our definition and relationship with self-discipline - without shame. This definitely resonated with my own not-so-loving approach to myself and my desire to grow.
Excellent presentation! Thank you for sharing your journey, your wisdom and inspiring us all to be more self-disciplined in learning to love ourselves more, each and every day.
Your words made a powerful impact on my day!
Elizabeth, this was an incredibly insightful and thought-provoking talk! Thank you for taking situations you’ve been through and turning them into such a learning opportunity for others! Cultivating self discipline through kindness rather than shame is definitely a more sustainable way towards a beautiful life! Your genuine spirit and love of helping others shines right through when you speak! Well done!
Great presentation Liz! So excited that you are following your dreams and reaching for your bliss
What a beautiful spirit and thought-provoking analysis. I'm very excited to hear more!
Well done, Elizabeth! Great sharing the TEDx speaking platform with you. People LOVE your video, wow!
What an awesome video Liz! So very proud of you!! A lot of things you said really hit home. I'm so glad that you're finally getting to share your message with the world!! Thank you Liz!!
Wow! Thank you Elizabeth ❤ I love this talk and I could’ve used it YEARS ago! I grew up resenting my potential too.
Wow! Amazing. What a beautiful message. Great job Liz! Bravo!
That is Awesome, proud of you!
This is a message I will save to listen to often. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing your story. I love and can relate to the 3 P’s
This is such an important message, thank you!
Fantastic message! Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring others to action. Congratulations on accomplishing this talk!!
GET IT ELIZABETH! I see you! Great talk.
Wow... powerful message you shared Liz!
Your message is important, inspiring, and compelling! Bravo!
What a powerful and inspiring talk. I needed to hear this today.
Oh my goodness, do I relate. The 3 P's have been mine, too. Thank you for the stories that illuminate what these look like and such insights around how to re-understand discipline. Learn, study and GROW! Soo much more beautiful. Thank you for this talk, Elizabeth.
I love the idea of approaching your life with more curiosity instead of shame. This concept of loving self discipline is huge and so needed in the world right now. How do I find out more about your work Elizabeth?
Loved hearing your powerful and uplifting story.
I could relate to your message and your positivity is contagious.
Wonderful words of wisdom, beautifully delivered!
❤great talk 👍 very honest, authentic, vulnerable, and encouraging 🎉 Thank you, Elizabeth 🙏🏼
This is lovely! Thank you for the new perspective!
Your thoughts on this subject are inspiring and it has helped me see discipline in a new and exciting way! Thank you for sharing your important thoughts in an entertaining and helpful way. Loved every second.
Thank you Liz for sharing your story and inspiration!! You are amazing and your delivery is so thoughtful and relatable. I’ll definitely be sharing your message. Just love you!
Thanks for this wonderful perspective on self-discipline - Feel more motivated and validated for the challenges I've dealt with in this regard!
This is a great message. Well done Elizabeth.
Thank you so very much for this incredible message. You know much of my journey and this really resonated with me in a way I didn't expect.
Thank you for your sharing and awesome talk, what a gift to the world! Will work on applying these great insights. 🙏
Great talk, Elizabeth. Some wonderful thoughts on discipline...and the pitfalls of the journey.
I needed to hear this today. Thank you.
Elizabeth - thank you for this inspiring message!
Absolutely LOVE this! 🎉🎉
AMAZING! Great food for thought!
Definitely needed to hear this! You’re incredible!!!
Always self-discipline 🤍🥰😎
This was so inspiring. Thank you for sharing this! I needed to hear all of this today. The 3 Ps massively resonate with me!
Great video and message! Thank you!
Thanks for sharing your story and your wisdom !
Wow!! This was so insightful! Really well done!
Very powerful speech bases on the concept of self-discipline, to ensure the process of learning how to love oneself and achieving our goals. Such a needed concept to learn and very difficult one to achieve.
Great presentation, excellently presented. Great job Liz so would like to hear more keep going lady you got this.
Inspiring talk! Great message!
Excellent message, and good personal stories!
beautiful talk thank you so much to give me these advices about self discipline. it's true is not a field which all of us want to listen to .but I think it's very important to have a purpose in our life . we are human and we need to grow learning reading discovering. taking this way lead us to happiness and self estime
every day I try to learn English on my own reading the bible and other book . thank you your talk is beautiful keep doing that to help people to grow and reach satisfaction. Richard ALVENTOZA
Thank you so much for this amazing talk - you've really hit such important points here. My relationship with self-discipline is definitely "not-so-much" and the shame can be crippling. 😏 I can't wait to learn more about your method.
Respect ❤❤
Well done, Liz!
just magnificent this video
Great presentation Elizabeth.
This is fantastic!!!
wow wow wow amazing!
Fabulous information
Awesome…I love it!
Her experience of living in parent's house to husband's and the 3Ps is the story of majority of Indian women.
amazing
I want to have self discipline
Shame never will give us beatiful life
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Sounds Great, but Some SPECIFIC Discipline Suggestions might be helpful
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thanks much
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Waste of time, she's just telling her story of a indipendent women and relating it to self decipline 👎🏻
Kỉ luật = học cách học
God loves you and takes care of you so that this message reaches you. The biggest loss that any human being loses in this life is to live and die while he does not know who created him, and he is God, and he does not know the Islamic religion, the last of the heavenly religions, nor the Messenger of God, Muhammad, and he is the last of the prophets of great intelligence before you believe Something or not to believe in it is to read it, study it and understand it well, and then you can judge it. I hope that you do that before you do not have time to do that, and I wish you success from God. He is the one who controls everything. You just have to work