17 years ago when I heard this song on some bootleg mixed CD, I didn't know she was Toni Braxton's sister because she went by only her first name Tamar. I thought her voice was so beautiful and unforgettable. It's a nostalgic song for me. I think Tamar is a really underrated singer.
I cant really agree.it doesn't sound like her to me.and when it comes to things like this people make up what they to be true.not saying you are but i have experienced people wanting others to say their opinons/assumptions are facts when they are not.
TAMAR U NEED 2 START SINGING THIS SONG. I KNW U WANA PRETEND THIS ALBUM DIDN'T HAPPEN CAUSE IT DIDN'T WORK THE WAY U WANTED IT TO BUT U ALWAYS GIVE CREDIT 2 UR START AND THIS IS IT. THIS SONG IS STILL THE SHIT GIRL
Tamar is still amazing all around and God is blessing my sister. Please go subscribe to her UA-cam channel Tamar Takes and purchase hair product omg you grow girl and catch her and Johnny Wright on vh1 every Monday night To Catch A Beautician
still dont understand how it took this long for her to get the recognition she deserves cz in my opinion she should have been huge from the 90s.. beautiful voice
I've been a Tamartian every since I was in the 10th grade. I remember staying up all night waiting for the video to come on. It took me until when I got older that she was Toni's baby sister. This song will never get old ❤. I still get the chills
I'm still jamming to it in 2021, Mannn this will be forever my song by Tamar even though Latocha Scott from Xscape actually wrote it...I can feel this lyrics eveeytime I hear it and besides they are both some beautiful ladies and with beautiful voices real talk!!!👍😇❤️❤️🌹🌹💯
MAN..TONI WILL ALWAYS BE MY FAVORITE OUT OF THE BRAXTON'S.. BUT I TRUELY DO LOVE AND SUPPORT THEM ALL.. ESPECIALLY BECAUSE THEY ALL HAVE THE SAME TECHNIQUE AS TONI..BUT JUST DIFFERENT VOCAL RANGES...TAMAR IS A VOCAL BEAST THO..I OWN HER ALBUMS AS WELL SHE'S AWESOME..I JUST JUST REALLY LOVE THE BRAXTON'S PERIOD 🤎💯🌹🔥👈😌
I swear I thought I was the only one that brought this album and ran this song so much the CD got scratched up...Was a fan of Tamar before she knew how great of a talent she could actually be...One of the best voices in the game hands down..
CKFIERCE1 Calm down its not that serious. Mia is not comparing Tamar to other artists just saying she has similar singing qualities so bitch take SEVERAL seats! LOL
@CKFIERCE1 the only legend I know is GOD. she compares to a lot of good artists thats my point. so like La Nicolybear said take several seats booo boo. Its no that serious :P
La Nicolybear Name calling....? very mature of you....And they don't have similar singing qualities. Now if you said Mariah, then yes. thiswoman Mia And I can read, I'm not stupid, Not that I care or anything.
First time hearing this tonight, November 11/21/22 and Tamar was jammin'!!! She is under-rated and deserves more recognition from the music industry! This song definitely gives me the 90's vibe. You go, girl!!! xoxoxo 😘
This is honestly my favourite song by Tamar and one of my faves ever.. I remember hearing this in a taxi on my home, I immediately googled it and downloaded it say 4 years ago... Her vocals are everything on this one, maybe we slept too hard on Tamar earlier on in her career, shame on us
Tamar is so underrated, all her wlrks are fantastic. She loves to sing and she is able to bring you to emotion, sadness, happiness... she is a true singer! Love her since the first album of The Braxtons (so many ways) when I was 15 and far away from the USA where the R&B was the hit (i was in Spain)!
Her voice sounds just as angelic as it did 20 years ago. Really said her sister got sick like she did, she still put on a hell of a show too. This stuff never gets old.
Man Tamar Braxton vocals just give me the goose bumps when she sings I haven't feel songs that does that lately. Tamar damn girl sing it sing it sing it sing it.
Tamar can sing and always could. I think it was just hard for the industry at the time to market her and her sister. She had to wait until Toni was out of the spot light. She has a Beautiful voice, always had.
I think it was her attitude not her singing, she felt she was owed so much but wasn't willing to give as much. Even her husband tried to hip her to her entitlement ways.
Laverne B Actually, you can tell from her old 90s' interviews she was more bubbly,and appeared to be more humble at this point in her career. Of course she felt entitled after several record deals with no hit record when you know you have talent,! I would be a upset too!!
no shaaaaade..she looked really really good back then..i mean her face...but i still love her either way...coz we all do what makes us happy and if what she did to her face makes her happy...heeey...
This song will never get old to me. I used to stay up until midnight and wait for the video to come on vh1 soul including with get gone, disrespect and at the same time I didn't know that she was Toni's baby sister til I seen the first season one of the BRAXTON FAMILY VALUES.. I BEEN A TAMARTIAN EVERY SINCE I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL
I always loved Tamar, a lot of people didn't know she had a voice like this.. People really been sleep on Tamar, I was a fan way before love & war and The braxton family values.
Lmao its so funny how bandwagon people are. Most of these people here had no idea who Tamar was before Braxton Family Values and she became a successful solo act. I used to love this song back in '99 and recorded it off the radio. I knew the girl's name was Tamar but thats all I knew back then because she didn't use her last name because she didn't want to piggy back off of Toni. But honestly I didn't know she was Toni's sister at all back then and before I knew her name was Tamar I thought the singer was Deborah Cox....needless to say I followed her on and off over the years because I thought she had a stunning voice and was a wonderful talent but after several years and no follow up album I thought that was the end of her. So needless to say I'm proud of Tamar for sticking with it and not giving up.
I'm kinda going through a rough time and this song came in my mind as it fits my situation, came on UA-cam to play it and was surprised that it's Tamar Braxton that sing it.
I remember there was a time that I tried so hard with my ex for a little over a year. He wasn't terrible but he stopped putting in the work, I barely knew him anymore. I noticed that I was giving more than I was receiving, and I dealt with it for longer than I should've. I had enough, I'll always have love for him, but from a distance, it hurts at first but with time it gets better. Now he knows he should've been better to me, but it's ok because I realized that if it isn't in a man's heart to give you the love that you deserve, then you can't make him. I no longer expect more out of someone when i meet them, I give the same effort that you give me and that's just the way it is.
It took months.. I'm in a happy place in my life, you just gotta be strong & know that there's better out there, that's when I stopped settling for less.
Omg I remember this song. My mom bought her album and use to play it all the time. I always knew Tamar could sing.i know she didn't like this album but truth be told it was good and she showed a lot of vocal ability.
Who is still listening in 2024?❤
Me all everyday and I love how she pulls in a truck and including in her "My Man" video ❤
@@JustineKylaBraxton she is talented 😊
me
Love ❤️
Meeeeee❤❤❤❤
people don't wanna admit it and don't like it but tamar can really sing
She sing her heart out
Jamichael Thomas
preach
***** YES ma'am THAT's it!!! She CAN sing; it's that stank attitude that makes us turn up our noses!
Raquel, who dont got a stank attitude these days? Tamar is worst because she on TV?
Even in 2023, Tamar's voice....GOOSEBUMPS
Yesss!!
❤❤❤
Yes indeed ❤
2024 and still indeed
Tamar is definitely underrated 💯
Yess!
Yes
Very much
Yes she is
Yes she is . but i feel like she might be difficult to work with because of her personality
Who's still here 2020 ? It seems Like this song hits harder this year with all the crisis people are going through in relationships...
I’m here 🤣🤣🤣
This is a pure, Bonofide Classic
October Surprise 2020
One of the Best
Indeed
Prezent
2021...How u doing?
who believe that this song will never get old?
Shay Johnson meeeee
Shay Johnson I'm listening to this right now it's June 2018
Shay Johnson never ever gets old
Shay Johnson ME my fav song by her of all time !!!n I didn't even no her back then too young !!!
Meeeee, it's a classic
She’s singing my situation! A timeless song!
I hope you finally had the strength to do right by you. It’s my situation now and I’m ready to head to the door ❤️
@@zarinamilly4800 I did! It wasn’t all glitter and gold but it was one of the better choices I’ve ever made
Mine too frfr
I still sing this like I wrote it myself 😹, I need to hear her sing this live, especially the ending!
You got your wish 🙂, she sound SO good too
@@TheMeekofallTrades OMG!!! Where?????
Yesss I say this all the time ❤
I feel ya
17 years ago when I heard this song on some bootleg mixed CD, I didn't know she was Toni Braxton's sister because she went by only her first name Tamar. I thought her voice was so beautiful and unforgettable. It's a nostalgic song for me. I think Tamar is a really underrated singer.
25 years have passed. And I still feel the same as the first time I heard it.
Yep
the time i had this song it has touch my heart ever still now i enjoy it .best song ever.
Same.... Literally
Same!! I can't believe they shelved this talent. I heard it when it debuted on Midnight Love and I was like damn where she went
i wish she would perform this again :)
I love Tamar
😍
nba god me too I wish it was on streaming 🙄 *Heads over to Tamar’s Instagram!
KurtisLeeSinger it’s on Apple Music her very first album
Wish this and once again would go to spotify
Yes it is Latocha Scott from Xscape singing in the background....She wrote on this song too!!!!!
Wow....didn't know that..
Really
Wow, and Tamar really didn't need her.. cause chileeee those octaves!!! Yessssss, Tamar‼️
@@lorrainewilson5602 U A
I cant really agree.it doesn't sound like her to me.and when it comes to things like this people make up what they to be true.not saying you are but i have experienced people wanting others to say their opinons/assumptions are facts when they are not.
TAMAR U NEED 2 START SINGING THIS SONG. I KNW U WANA PRETEND THIS ALBUM DIDN'T HAPPEN CAUSE IT DIDN'T WORK THE WAY U WANTED IT TO BUT U ALWAYS GIVE CREDIT 2 UR START AND THIS IS IT. THIS SONG IS STILL THE SHIT GIRL
She would sound bomb singing this. I would cry
B Johnson yes she should especially since her voice developed
correct!!!!!!!
15yrs later and this song still gives me chills down the back of my spine the lady has skills unlimited
Yeah I love it
Tamar is still amazing all around and God is blessing my sister. Please go subscribe to her UA-cam channel Tamar Takes and purchase hair product omg you grow girl and catch her and Johnny Wright on vh1 every Monday night To Catch A Beautician
Me to, 2020
2020 and it still rocks
Fully agree with you. Just can't get enough of it.
The Runs in this song that she ran are priceless ✨✨🧡 shes golden
still dont understand how it took this long for her to get the recognition she deserves cz in my opinion she should have been huge from the 90s.. beautiful voice
sweetcoolie gyal I am in love with this woman
Yep so so true!!
Her husband/ manager sucks.
Real talk
Maybe it's her behavior and attitude it tells a lot about her character that's why she married Vince because she knew that he could put on top
One of tamar's best songs. Can't believe this was her singing the whole time.
I just know it’s her, I didn’t know she sang this song.
It sounds like Xscape. That’s who I thought this was all these years. Wow!!
@@tonijenkins5099it sounds like them because Latocha Scott wrote this song, and also singing background on this Song.
@@dmcmix1340Mind blown!!🤯 Ive loved this song since it came out and never knew this!
Wow I didn’t know that Latosha was on this song but now I can hear it clearly
hands down one of the Most underrated artist known to man!!!! ❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌
aurielle Cook I agree
It’s because she serves the Lord and to big in the industry you have to serve the devil.
Who is here in January 2021.
Tamar’s voice is BEAUTIFULL
🙋♀️
🙋🏻♀️
Me
September lol ❤️
She sang the song a few days ago!
she needs to put this in her shows as a bonus to close the show. I guarantee they'll be begging for more
seriously...she doesn't do live versions of song! its a shame
i can’t stop listening to this song💯💯
5 years later: & still can’t 🤪
omg yaaaasssssaaa!!!
Yesssssss... I Love This Song Too. #IfYouDontWannaLoveMe
Kgators World same. AF
k
Ditto
I've been a Tamartian every since I was in the 10th grade. I remember staying up all night waiting for the video to come on. It took me until when I got older that she was Toni's baby sister. This song will never get old ❤. I still get the chills
My favorite Tamar track
This sounds like a mix between Toni Braxton and Debra Cox.
Because it's a *Contemporary R&B/Soul* song.
You hit the nail on the head.
I'm still jamming to it in 2021, Mannn this will be forever my song by Tamar even though Latocha Scott from Xscape actually wrote it...I can feel this lyrics eveeytime I hear it and besides they are both some beautiful ladies and with beautiful voices real talk!!!👍😇❤️❤️🌹🌹💯
Sounds like tocha
Use to and still love this song. Hats off to you Tamar for this one. Still feeling this in 2015.
In real life though! 2015!
+John Mozee Jr. Me too
Me 3
Me 3
me too
And that note at the end slayed them
They yo wifey
This whole CD was underated
Whatever you may say about her...she can sing. That's the bottom line.
That note gives me chills
Chile whole body even under my feet lol
For real
Yes it does
This song has helped me get through so many people disappointing me. Thanks TAMAR.💕💕
I don't know why this song didn't make it.... Love it
This song was a hit then she just couldnt follow up
It did
This has got 2 be my favorite Tamar Braxton song.I am lovin' those fur that she's wearing in this video.
MAN..TONI WILL ALWAYS BE MY FAVORITE OUT OF THE BRAXTON'S.. BUT I TRUELY DO LOVE AND SUPPORT THEM ALL.. ESPECIALLY BECAUSE THEY ALL HAVE THE SAME TECHNIQUE AS TONI..BUT JUST DIFFERENT VOCAL RANGES...TAMAR IS A VOCAL BEAST THO..I OWN HER ALBUMS AS WELL SHE'S AWESOME..I JUST JUST REALLY LOVE THE BRAXTON'S PERIOD 🤎💯🌹🔥👈😌
I swear I thought I was the only one that brought this album and ran this song so much the CD got scratched up...Was a fan of Tamar before she knew how great of a talent she could actually be...One of the best voices in the game hands down..
This song really do something to me!!! 😥😥
Tasha Stroud 💕💕💕
You're not alone, Sis 😢💔🥺
I love the song.
.
This song show's her vocals, I love it!!!!!!! 💞💞💞 Get better soon Tamar
Tamar Braxton is 1 of tha best singers I kno she is an amazing singer
Jessica Williams right up there with Mariah 🗣🙋🏽♀️💞💕💖👏🏽 only ones to give me goosebumps
She is good singer
Agree
All these years and me listening to this so many times I didn't know this was Tamar song ! 😁😳😱😱❤️
LaDejia Woods ok
Always thought it was her sisters Toni
Please get well Tamar! Suicide no way! The devil has no control over your beautiful life, woman thou art loose by the blood of Jesus 🙏🏾💜
Of course TAMAR BRAXTON can sing ....Shit .. She was Practically born with perfect vocal cords
she is so underrated! she got that whitney - mariah voice x
thiswoman Mia Girl do NOT reach any further.
No she doesn't. She has her own voice, don't compare her to legends
CKFIERCE1 Calm down its not that serious. Mia is not comparing Tamar to other artists just saying she has similar singing qualities so bitch take SEVERAL seats! LOL
@CKFIERCE1 the only legend I know is GOD. she compares to a lot of good artists thats my point. so like La Nicolybear said take several seats booo boo. Its no that serious :P
La Nicolybear Name calling....? very mature of you....And they don't have similar singing qualities. Now if you said Mariah, then yes.
thiswoman Mia And I can read, I'm not stupid, Not that I care or anything.
thiswoman Mia No she doesn't 😂😂😂
First time hearing this tonight, November 11/21/22 and Tamar was jammin'!!! She is under-rated and deserves more recognition from the music industry! This song definitely gives me the 90's vibe. You go, girl!!! xoxoxo 😘
That's my song
This is honestly my favourite song by Tamar and one of my faves ever.. I remember hearing this in a taxi on my home, I immediately googled it and downloaded it say 4 years ago... Her vocals are everything on this one, maybe we slept too hard on Tamar earlier on in her career, shame on us
Ngendlala indumiso
Aww!!! You better sing tae tae. Sheesh I love you even more now.
She does look like her father and she sings very well
She really cut up on this song!! On repeat after hearing it on tiktok
love the 90's vibes from this song Tamar kills em every time
It’s 2000s
Tamar can sang!!!!!! Go girl hitting all them Notes!❤
This song is soo underrated….i can’t tell you how many times I’m here listening. It’s my go to breakup song
her voice is like a mix of Toni Braxton and Mariah Carey
pcFOREVER89100 and deborah cox Them 3
pcFOREVER89100 agreed
pcFOREVER89100 more Toni with power, Mariah is next level, that's too much lmao
yessssssss
They are her biggest influences.
i wish she had music like this on the album & brought that 90's vibe to it
I miss. this. song
This was off her first album
This songs stays on my playlist
Lizzy Jackson mine too I wish it was on Spotify to stream
She is Amazing
Tamar is so underrated, all her wlrks are fantastic. She loves to sing and she is able to bring you to emotion, sadness, happiness... she is a true singer! Love her since the first album of The Braxtons (so many ways) when I was 15 and far away from the USA where the R&B was the hit (i was in Spain)!
she killed this song
Her voice sounds just as angelic as it did 20 years ago. Really said her sister got sick like she did, she still put on a hell of a show too.
This stuff never gets old.
She has a soulful beautiful voice. I love her voice and her hits.
Man Tamar Braxton vocals just give me the goose bumps when she sings I haven't feel songs that does that lately. Tamar damn girl sing it sing it sing it sing it.
Who's here in 2019??
Mee
Me
Just now hearing this song by Tamar it must be old but I feel the lyrics
2020 even!
I’m here in 2020 😂
Sing it Tamar.
This,song touches,me so hard....
me too my heart is broken
+Angela Simmons I feel you dear...
Thank you
Jay son me too
Jay Son me tooo
Tamar has a beautiful voice and the lyrics in this song speak the truth.
love me some Tamar. She is real true singer a true artist. She deserves it all now.
i agree
Yeah u can say that again she rily has a jubilant voice .
omg Tamar sang this song? This was my jam in high school, how did I not know this? omg I love it even more now.
Who is still here 2019?
Ozzie Dyas here 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😍😍😍😍😍😍🎶🎤
My sh**** and it's November 2, 2019.
I've been here for this joint since 2000
It's 2020 and am playing this now
I love how her family is so close! They all love each other. They all stick together like glue!
If she could get the rights to this song she should redo it. With her voice now she would kill it!
A song that touches every part of love and makes you truly realize whats most important ❤
damn that was Tamar the whole time WOW
Gosh I also didn't know
same here
Didn't knw either lol
She good
Same damn thing I said. I was trying to see if it was a remake! 🤣
I can feel this sung with everything in me.
Tamar deserves more she can really truly sang, her voice is epic.❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
There is no reason this should not be a #1 smash hit...
I have ALWAYS been a fan of Tamar. I have been one since The Braxtons cd with her, Trina , and Towanda
Who's here in 2020? Such a classic!
it me bby
Me
Me
Such beautiful classic!!!!
The best
I remember buying this CD when it first came out and I am still blown by Tamar’s voice. ❤❤🥰🔥
2019
This song never got the notoriety that it deserved.
She should've came out with it again.
"Then don't miss me"......
This was definitely one of the jams back in the day.
if you remember those old navigators, and how fly they were especially black on black ! thumbs up cuz you getting old af !!
sucks when love is stressful! love is somthing you can fallasleep with nothing to worrie about. that's love!!
This song gives me chills.
Tamar can sing and always could. I think it was just hard for the industry at the time to market her and her sister. She had to wait until Toni was out of the spot light. She has a Beautiful voice, always had.
I think it was her attitude not her singing, she felt she was owed so much but wasn't willing to give as much. Even her husband tried to hip her to her entitlement ways.
Laverne B Actually, you can tell from her old 90s' interviews she was more bubbly,and appeared to be more humble at this point in her career. Of course she felt entitled after several record deals with no hit record when you know you have talent,! I would be a upset too!!
well said
Alcawanna Moore Well in braxton family values the sisters said no one wanted to work with Tamar back than because she was a bitch.
I wouldn't necessarily say Toni is out of the spotlight. Her single with Babyface is nominated for a Grammy in 2015.
no shaaaaade..she looked really really good back then..i mean her face...but i still love her either way...coz we all do what makes us happy and if what she did to her face makes her happy...heeey...
Yah, love me some Braxton sista's for sure, but they all def got nose jobs.
This song will never get old to me. I used to stay up until midnight and wait for the video to come on vh1 soul including with get gone, disrespect and at the same time I didn't know that she was Toni's baby sister til I seen the first season one of the BRAXTON FAMILY VALUES.. I BEEN A TAMARTIAN EVERY SINCE I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL
I always loved Tamar, a lot of people didn't know she had a voice like this.. People really been sleep on Tamar, I was a fan way before love & war and The braxton family values.
She still has those vocals, Ok Tamar I'm living for this song. The video is mad good.
1 underrated artist💔😢💐 Miss T can sing for days ❤🙏👌 👸
Lmao its so funny how bandwagon people are. Most of these people here had no idea who Tamar was before Braxton Family Values and she became a successful solo act. I used to love this song back in '99 and recorded it off the radio. I knew the girl's name was Tamar but thats all I knew back then because she didn't use her last name because she didn't want to piggy back off of Toni. But honestly I didn't know she was Toni's sister at all back then and before I knew her name was Tamar I thought the singer was Deborah Cox....needless to say I followed her on and off over the years because I thought she had a stunning voice and was a wonderful talent but after several years and no follow up album I thought that was the end of her. So needless to say I'm proud of Tamar for sticking with it and not giving up.
exactly
I knew who she was since a child my mother use to kill this song
I fell in love with this song when i was 13....i never forgot it!
JY008 I knew who she was in 2000. I knew she was Toni's sister.
i didnt know who she was until the first season of BFV. After I heard her first album, I became a Tamartian. I been a huge fan thanks to Reality Tv
I love this song. I can hear Toni vocals in the background to 😘
I'm kinda going through a rough time and this song came in my mind as it fits my situation, came on UA-cam to play it and was surprised that it's Tamar Braxton that sing it.
This song got me through many heartbreaks.
Go..Tay-Tay 👌🏻♥️♥️♥️growing old with this song
This is the Tamar I ❤. Loved her very first solo album.
I was today years old when I discovered that this song is Tamar’s. And I’ve loved it for so many years.
I remember there was a time that I tried so hard with my ex for a little over a year. He wasn't terrible but he stopped putting in the work, I barely knew him anymore. I noticed that I was giving more than I was receiving, and I dealt with it for longer than I should've. I had enough, I'll always have love for him, but from a distance, it hurts at first but with time it gets better. Now he knows he should've been better to me, but it's ok because I realized that if it isn't in a man's heart to give you the love that you deserve, then you can't make him. I no longer expect more out of someone when i meet them, I give the same effort that you give me and that's just the way it is.
"better believe it
Oneile Nametsegang got that right :-)
+ How long did it take to get over him? If you don't mind
It took months.. I'm in a happy place in my life, you just gotta be strong & know that there's better out there, that's when I stopped settling for less.
katelyn glover amen
This song is so real. I think both woman and man can feel where Tamar is coming from. Keep doing your thang Mrs. Lady.
I'm waiting on your Grammy award,because lord knows you DESERVE IT!!
Omg I remember this song. My mom bought her album and use to play it all the time. I always knew Tamar could sing.i know she didn't like this album but truth be told it was good and she showed a lot of vocal ability.
This came out the year 2000, peaked at #88 on the Billboard Hot 100!
This song is everything! Her range is everything! Her attitude while singin this! Tamar can drop the mic on this one🔥🔥🔥🔥
She has improved a whole lot and lord knows she needed it !
I’ve been vibing to this since the middle school before I even really knew what she was talking about. Still relevant 2023. Timeless
I didn't know she is the singer of this beautiful song. She is holding her own. Props to her. Wow, wonderful.
Didn't knw Tamar could pitch like this omg... I loveeee it!!!!!!!!!!!!