Tank - I Can't Make You Love Me (Official Video)

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  • Опубліковано 14 гру 2010
  • The official video of "I Can't Make You Love Me" by Tank from the album 'Now or Never'.
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  • @atlanticrecords
    @atlanticrecords  4 роки тому +483

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  • @JJKA360
    @JJKA360 2 місяці тому +451

    Who is here in 2024? ❤❤

  • @PoppTv23
    @PoppTv23 3 роки тому +4360

    To the person that loves hard , this song will hit hard but also makes you realize how good of a person you are

  • @theofficial_ghenghischan2383
    @theofficial_ghenghischan2383 9 місяців тому +358

    To all the broken hearts...its time to let go and set yourself free. It's not worth holding on if they don't feel the same. Keep your pride, love yourself, know your worth. Things will get better.

    • @venus1990able
      @venus1990able 6 місяців тому +6

      It's just so hard😢

    • @theofficial_ghenghischan2383
      @theofficial_ghenghischan2383 6 місяців тому

      @@venus1990able in the beginning its hard but time will grant you the chance to heal. Find your hobbies and enjoy the shit out of it lol. Eventually, you'll find someone compatible. Diamonds are formed through extreme pressure. You got this!

    • @zen_mindset1
      @zen_mindset1 6 місяців тому +5

      It is unfair tho 😢

    • @lisayoumans1321
      @lisayoumans1321 5 місяців тому +7

      Thanks a lot I needed heart this

    • @LadyNStreet
      @LadyNStreet 5 місяців тому +4

      I've been waiting 20 years for someone (anyone) to love me right 😔😟😢

  • @davidscott5257
    @davidscott5257 Рік тому +564

    This song DEFINITELY hits different when you feel a certain way about someone but they don’t feel the same. Feels like a prison

    • @Angela_J0607
      @Angela_J0607 11 місяців тому +2

      Facts 😢

    • @sue30785
      @sue30785 11 місяців тому +1

      😢😢😢

    • @markmark1604
      @markmark1604 9 місяців тому

      💯

    • @loveyouthemost88
      @loveyouthemost88 9 місяців тому

      😢😢😢

    • @3422dave
      @3422dave 9 місяців тому +6

      I’m on the opposite side of this I have someone who loves me really hard but I don’t her but I don’t want to hurt her I have tried my best but I can’t 😢😢😢

  • @GODSPRINZES2
    @GODSPRINZES2 4 роки тому +3765

    I found a letter my husband wrote to me after his passing & I’ll never forget this statement... “There will be many men who want you, but one man will DESERVE you”!!!!!!! That took me out!!! 😭😢🕊❤️💋

    • @tameekaharris6425
      @tameekaharris6425 4 роки тому +114

      So sorry for your loss, wow powerful words💗🌹

    • @GODSPRINZES2
      @GODSPRINZES2 4 роки тому +30

      Tameeka Harris Thank you Doll! 💖

    • @tameekaharris6425
      @tameekaharris6425 4 роки тому +12

      @@GODSPRINZES2 yw💗

    • @thepoupetina
      @thepoupetina 4 роки тому +24

      So so sorry for your loss oh the pain is just 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔

    • @GODSPRINZES2
      @GODSPRINZES2 4 роки тому +83

      stephanie parsons Thank you Sis! It’s really been hard. But he wanted me to live my life. I miss my husband daily. He was everything I could’ve asked for in a man/husband. 😢😭❤️Be blessed! 🙏🏽

  • @iamshatricerenee5342
    @iamshatricerenee5342 2 роки тому +2462

    It’s hard to let go. Lord knows I know. Prayers for anyone going thru, may the right person come into your life❤️

    • @monishajefferson4352
      @monishajefferson4352 2 роки тому +17

      Going through this right now

    • @iamshatricerenee5342
      @iamshatricerenee5342 2 роки тому +20

      @@monishajefferson4352 I’m sorry you’re going thru it. I still have my days. Sending love & light and healing energy your way. May you grow thru what you’re going thru🤍🤍🤍

    • @monishajefferson4352
      @monishajefferson4352 2 роки тому +27

      It hurts soo bad I have sleepless nights

    • @iamshatricerenee5342
      @iamshatricerenee5342 2 роки тому +28

      @@monishajefferson4352 Grief comes in waves feel the feelings. You’re human. The storm won’t last always.

    • @monishajefferson4352
      @monishajefferson4352 2 роки тому +7

      Thank you for the encouragement

  • @leticiarichardson-grinuva4372
    @leticiarichardson-grinuva4372 2 роки тому +951

    This song always reminds me how important self love is. Love is one of the most painful feeling in this world but one of the best feeling ever to experience. #2022 who is listening with me?

  • @nikitakelly6473
    @nikitakelly6473 Рік тому +228

    This song makes me cry everytime. It's hard trying to find that right one, only to end up getting hurt everytime 🥺

  • @soblessed_21
    @soblessed_21 6 років тому +5207

    I was in love with someone who didn't love me the way I loved them. I accepted it, allowed God to heal my heart and in return he sent me someone who loved me better than I could have ever imagined.

    • @daydayboo3300
      @daydayboo3300 6 років тому +40

      Nikkie Gooden god is great

    • @stacy_hisdaughter7261
      @stacy_hisdaughter7261 6 років тому +63

      Nikkie Gooden wow God is good! I am going through the same thing. I just have to learnt to let go fully.

    • @ledenejohnson3893
      @ledenejohnson3893 6 років тому +4

      Nikkie Gooden listen to Curt Green.. it’s more emotion in his version ua-cam.com/video/SPXCH2ewzNE/v-deo.html

    • @soblessed_21
      @soblessed_21 6 років тому +33

      Stacy_HisDaughter you will in time...moving forward didn't happen overnight but I am so happy God got me thru that pain!

    • @efrainduran2597
      @efrainduran2597 6 років тому +4

      Nikkie Gooden Awe

  • @ThePino31
    @ThePino31 4 роки тому +5416

    There comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn’t even jump puddles for you

  • @shanaepatton1128
    @shanaepatton1128 Рік тому +141

    Most underrated singer. If you don’t feel nothing after hearing this something is wrong! This man is definitely talented and gifted.

    • @sharaelltreloar2826
      @sharaelltreloar2826 10 місяців тому +3

      He definitely has one of the best versions of this song. I love Tank!

    • @markhartung
      @markhartung 9 місяців тому +2

      Have you heard Bonnie Raitt?

    • @SakuraMoonflower
      @SakuraMoonflower 7 місяців тому +1

      He definitely brought great honor and beauty to Bonnie Raitt's song.

    • @SMPMS8389
      @SMPMS8389 6 місяців тому

      ​@@SakuraMoonflower She didn't write the song

  • @superstevetosmooth4075
    @superstevetosmooth4075 2 роки тому +73

    A broken heart hurts beyond the soul. I pray all broken hearts get healed and meet their soulmate one day. Stay strong and overcome but please love again. Being in love is the greatest feeling ever, that’s why it hurt like it hurts when the love is broken.

  • @thatauthormommychic2139
    @thatauthormommychic2139 4 роки тому +3304

    It's 2020 and I'm still here listening to this song. Who's with me?

  • @tiannatatted3711
    @tiannatatted3711 4 роки тому +2676

    The worst hurt is when someone awakens ur love with no intention of loving u back n then leave with no explanation just cut u off like u never meant nothing to them so ur just clueless n hurt

    • @mariechanel1503
      @mariechanel1503 4 роки тому +24

      Understand u so well..

    • @tiannatatted3711
      @tiannatatted3711 4 роки тому +3

      @@mariechanel1503 😔😔

    • @eaaazzy7474
      @eaaazzy7474 4 роки тому +5

      💔😩

    • @ericalewis9147
      @ericalewis9147 4 роки тому +27

      My current situation 😔

    • @anitathomas2385
      @anitathomas2385 4 роки тому +42

      Yes.. its the one thing I didn't see coming falling in love with him. Just all this time I really thought he did only to find out he never had..yet I still stayed hoping for the best...it just takes two. And I wish long ago I was told by him so this pain wouldn't be so hard. 3yrs..I loved him I only wanted his love back..and unsuccessfully didn't..💔

  • @nomalangamapurisa8846
    @nomalangamapurisa8846 6 місяців тому +19

    Misplaced affection is one of the most painful experiences, wishing true love to everyone going through this experience❤️

  • @shaitown6692
    @shaitown6692 2 роки тому +350

    One of the songs that's helping me get over all the pain, hurt, bull shit and more!! Trying to fight and hold on sometimes it's not even worth it anymore!! Heart Broken 💔 2022!!

    • @fabianisammi6608
      @fabianisammi6608 2 роки тому +4

      Hang in there!

    • @kclark3923
      @kclark3923 2 роки тому +6

      You are not Alone, Keep It Moving, Love will come

    • @kaygee7323
      @kaygee7323 2 роки тому +4

      This right here!!! I felt ALL of this!!! This song helping me too, "I can't make you Love me, I can't make your heart feel something it won't!!!!" Whooowee them some Powerful words! But I realize it's their loss not mine.

    • @kristiancampbell1170
      @kristiancampbell1170 2 роки тому +5

      Hope your heart has healed since your post...you deserve to be happy!

    • @thandiestax5748
      @thandiestax5748 2 роки тому +1

      You not alone 💔

  • @shanicemccleary7480
    @shanicemccleary7480 4 роки тому +2334

    Who else listening to this in quarantine 2020?

  • @dicedpineapples9423
    @dicedpineapples9423 3 роки тому +1571

    t's 2021 and I'm still here listening to this song. Who's with me?

    • @robinlady4360
      @robinlady4360 3 роки тому +7

      Yes throwbacks are the best 🙌 timeless!

    • @thandekangubane4663
      @thandekangubane4663 3 роки тому +6

      I'm crying!!!! but I hope you're good and safe

    • @theazrael4423
      @theazrael4423 3 роки тому +1

      👀

    • @motrainer888
      @motrainer888 3 роки тому +3

      I'm here and crying as Im listening to it. It's a hard pill to swallow but you'll be better in the end.

    • @samiehugh5066
      @samiehugh5066 3 роки тому +3

      2021 listening

  • @fruitypebbles393
    @fruitypebbles393 Рік тому +259

    DANG, IT'S 2022 AND THIS SONG STILL HITS LIKE THE 1ST TIME I HEARD IT. AT THE MOMENT, I'M LISTENING TO THIS OVER AND OVER AGAIN. I'M OVER HERE SUFFERING IN SILENCE BCUZ MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS DON'T BELIEVE I'M EVER GOING TO LEAVE. BUT, HONESTLY AND TRUTHFULLY, I'M ASKING YOU LORD GOD TO GIVE ME THE COURAGE TO FINALLY END THIS NIGHTMARE I'M IN. IT STARTED AS A FAIRYTALE AND IS ENDING A NIGHTMARE. I'VE SPENT A DECADE LOVING CATERING AND FOLLOWING THIS MANS LEAD, AND, IDK HOW TO WALK AWAY 'FOR GOOD.' LORD, I PRAY, PLEASE HELP ME. 🙏 GIVE ME THE 💪TO LEAVE THIS RELATIONSHIP. I KNOW I CANT DO THIS ON MY OWN, SO, I'M CALLING ON YOU. LORD, GIVE ME THE STRENGTH NOT JUST TO LEAVE BUT TO STAY AWAY. EVEN IF I HAVE TO GIVE HIM THE HOUSE AND THE CARS, I'M COOL WITH THAT. AS LONG AS I HAVE MY CHILD, I KNOW I'LL BE OKAY! AMEN

    • @phyllislowe3942
      @phyllislowe3942 Рік тому +15

      Jesus give her the strength, courage and wisdom to make the right decision.

    • @AB-bt9pd
      @AB-bt9pd Рік тому +14

      You have got this. Take time to prepare your exit. Refrain from fights and explanations . Get busy to distract yourself. I have been there. Planning my exit since 2015. I’m leaving in two days. You can do it to. Meditate every day and remind yourself what’s your goal. God is with you

    • @christinachambers4513
      @christinachambers4513 Рік тому +10

      It takes courage and strength and something we are stronger than we know, I'm going through the same thing, I left but relaps a few times but no more will I do that, you can't make ppl love u if they don't no matter what u do. Wish u all the best queen 👸

    • @amarihayes1070
      @amarihayes1070 Рік тому +7

      It's hard to leave and I've been where you are at I promise. 9 years before I left. Planned to leave since 2015. I left June 29, 2021. Heal yourself first. Always have it in the back of your head no matter how good it may seem at the moment. Remember who they are. Play your role.

    • @kaygee7323
      @kaygee7323 Рік тому +8

      Lord Jesus hear her cry. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🥹 I praying for you strength to do what you may think is the unthinkable. I pray for strength and smooth transition. May Lord be bring a PEACE that surpasses ALL understanding. You can do it! LOVE YOURSELF MORE THAN ANY UNHEALTHY SITUATION! ❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @kianacarter3198
    @kianacarter3198 2 роки тому +72

    You can hear the surrender and the despair linger in his voice as if he’s succumbing to the loss. Such moving lyrics and a such powerful voice. Tank is most certainly underrated. One of my absolute favorites by Tank. Def vocally gifted 👏🏾💐

    • @SharleyPaul
      @SharleyPaul 10 місяців тому +2

      I think that's the only way through it. To succumb to the loss 💔

    • @septbaaby
      @septbaaby 2 місяці тому

      @@SharleyPaul❤

  • @brendamumbi5130
    @brendamumbi5130 7 років тому +7482

    Worst feeling ever......when you love someone who doesn't love you back

    • @notinuse33
      @notinuse33 7 років тому +107

      You damn right... it harts like hell

    • @niriariveloravoninjatovo8942
      @niriariveloravoninjatovo8942 7 років тому +55

      Brenda Mumbi it hearts. really hurts. bad feeling :(

    • @lushtv7155
      @lushtv7155 7 років тому +14

      Brenda Mumbi so true

    • @corinacanez9741
      @corinacanez9741 7 років тому +75

      yes- it is the worst feeling...it. hurts so much it becomes paralyzing! I've had the misfortune of being on both ends....💔

    • @lifewithindie3596
      @lifewithindie3596 7 років тому +37

      i agree i have been in that position 😭😭😭😭

  • @YooItzEueyOnKick
    @YooItzEueyOnKick 5 років тому +2498

    Whos gonna be listening to this in 2019. .. #classic

  • @timothymercer849
    @timothymercer849 Рік тому +45

    It's a hard but necessary lesson to learn that you can't make anyone love you no matter how hard you try. Love Tank's cover of this amazing song.

    • @jonelle94
      @jonelle94 4 місяці тому

      Who’s the original by?

  • @nanibarnes2111
    @nanibarnes2111 Рік тому +66

    2022❤ few weeks from 2023 I’ll never let this song die

  • @michellewilliams2776
    @michellewilliams2776 3 роки тому +1155

    This shit hit different when you actually feel like this with someone and they don't feel the way you do 😔

    • @UEBryzz
      @UEBryzz 3 роки тому +14

      You not alone

    • @jeffreywilson7225
      @jeffreywilson7225 3 роки тому +1

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    • @michellewilliams2776
      @michellewilliams2776 3 роки тому +12

      @@jeffreywilson7225 nah I'm good on that if someone is not ment to be kept you let them go that person is not for you.

    • @melanatedgoddess5909
      @melanatedgoddess5909 2 роки тому +9

      Speak that shit... I keep hearing this song in my head every time I get the urge to text. "I can't make you love me" 😥😥

    • @realprincedev
      @realprincedev 2 роки тому +6

      Damn I felt this

  • @javondahouse8691
    @javondahouse8691 2 роки тому +264

    I'm so tired of crying. God please help me let go of this man that don't want me. Im tired of trying to make it work by myself... 😭

  • @shardemcqueen3071
    @shardemcqueen3071 8 місяців тому +13

    In tears knowing it’s OVER and this song brings so much PEACE 🤍 I am so glad I have this music 🎵 TANK is ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @dr.jayscott4854
    @dr.jayscott4854 Рік тому +37

    This is the most beautiful song ever. Before Tank, Bonnie Raitt was a genius. Like it's bigger than pain..this song cleanses the soul.

    • @patriciamitchell9365
      @patriciamitchell9365 Рік тому +2

      Bonnie didn't write this song - an NFL player wrote this song 30 years ago - Bonnie was the first to record it

  • @espanolagilliam9354
    @espanolagilliam9354 5 років тому +904

    I learned today to give all my love to God. God is the only man who will not break my heart. Thank you God for loving a sinner like me.

    • @jacquelineallenmingo8435
      @jacquelineallenmingo8435 5 років тому +2

      Yes Amen "Beautiful"❤️✨

    • @sandrafogarty2992
      @sandrafogarty2992 5 років тому

      Amen 🙏

    • @DreiSkins101
      @DreiSkins101 5 років тому +5

      you are delusional god dont love anyone b ut himself

    • @soyinicraig9753
      @soyinicraig9753 5 років тому +3

      Never understood this statement and probably never will.

    • @smpiano6605
      @smpiano6605 4 роки тому +3

      @@DreiSkins101 Don't ruin it for them. If it helps them cope with things then let them be(although let's just hope they don't learn about the book of Job).

  • @littlewhisper1045
    @littlewhisper1045 5 років тому +1747

    *The most annoying thing is trying when you know it won’t change anything* 🙁

    • @djrenee27
      @djrenee27 5 років тому +21

      I feel so alone and sad. I've messed up in the past as have he but I thought we were past all that. We've been together 16 years and now, this past year we are like roommates. We share Bill's and chores but not each other. He doesn't even want to have sex. Heck...he doesn't even sleep In the same room. Idk what's going on and when I ask he makes excuses. I feel like ending it all sometimes. The way he speaks to me is aplorable. He looked my in the eyes today and said "fuck you" over a ball cap. I'm so so sad and lonesome.

    • @aprilsherell9105
      @aprilsherell9105 5 років тому +2

      🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @AnasthiaAmosNew2Natural
      @AnasthiaAmosNew2Natural 5 років тому +13

      @@djrenee27 you are worth more than what you're accepting sis. Wishing you better in the future. But you've got to claim it for yourself, too.

    • @djrenee27
      @djrenee27 5 років тому +1

      @@AnasthiaAmosNew2Natural thank you.

    • @bernicefelix9075
      @bernicefelix9075 5 років тому +2

      @Deanna Bland inbox me if u have FB Messenger... Annie May Bullock

  • @robertescoto4387
    @robertescoto4387 Рік тому +33

    This man doesn’t get the respect he deserves. Top tier music

  • @krisjohn9999
    @krisjohn9999 Рік тому +29

    Easily the best version/interpretation of this song I've ever heard. Perfect balance of vocals and instruments. Incredible!

    • @flatearthfatboy9589
      @flatearthfatboy9589 11 місяців тому +1

      Right never knew tank was this good

    • @cessaly100
      @cessaly100 5 місяців тому +1

      Me too! ALMOST better than Bonnie..!

  • @dezyd3048
    @dezyd3048 3 роки тому +562

    Loving someone who doesn’t love you.. HURTS. True pain.

  • @melvinjones1424
    @melvinjones1424 4 роки тому +784

    god says i will always love you no matter what..put your love and trust in christ ...flesh will always let you down but christ will never stop loving you...amen

  • @dameka6312
    @dameka6312 Рік тому +8

    Thank you God for healing me helping me understand that I am infinitely Loved by you 💜

  • @freidadunn25
    @freidadunn25 8 місяців тому +15

    This is a bitter sweet song , sometimes love hurts and you must find the strength to walk away . Love hurts when it's not reciprocated , allow yourself to feel the pain and move on . We are all deserving of love that's felt by both parties don't ever sell yourself short .

  • @Quaqua0097
    @Quaqua0097 5 років тому +2338

    It hurts like hell to love someone who dont love you only love what you do for them.

  • @xp0sh
    @xp0sh 7 років тому +444

    It hurts so bad when someone you put first always puts you last.

    • @AR-nt5qe
      @AR-nt5qe 7 років тому +28

      xp0sh......Sweetheart never make someone your priority when they're making you an option. Know your worth and claim it. When you know your worth and you stand on it, it's harder for others to mistake your value.....

    • @ericabuchanan8430
      @ericabuchanan8430 6 років тому +2

      xp0sh sp true

    • @nikkisaffo5766
      @nikkisaffo5766 6 років тому +2

      U so right I feel that way

    • @yasminewatson4234
      @yasminewatson4234 6 років тому

      xp0sh girlll I know the feeling

    • @5minconeltalibancr691
      @5minconeltalibancr691 6 років тому

      too deep lyrics

  • @margaretharris4639
    @margaretharris4639 Рік тому +11

    I love too hard and I'm tired of hurting. Realize maybe I should be by myself.

  • @hectorarguelles1596
    @hectorarguelles1596 2 роки тому +25

    This is the most soul crushing version of a classic... It just hit hard.

  • @XtremeSportX247
    @XtremeSportX247 7 років тому +2111

    It's really tough when your feelings are stronger than the other person. Be true to your heart and move on before you end up hurting yourself. When someone loves you, it is the most visible and evident action possible. A simple touch, a smile or a thinking of you text takes no effort when it's true love. No Love Should Ever Hurt or cause you to question yourself!

  • @londonprice79
    @londonprice79 7 років тому +468

    Crazy how loving someone can mean absolutely nothing in the end!😢

  • @timothymercer7594
    @timothymercer7594 Рік тому +11

    The way Tank sang the stuffing out of this song made my life. I saw him a month ago in Baltimore, MD and the show was amazing. Hands down one of my favorite singers!

  • @xKurtx601
    @xKurtx601 2 роки тому +24

    Who else has experienced a love LOST and it felt like the biggest blow to your soul. Did and tried everything but it just wasn't meant to be. Knowing now they were the ones that missed out. Even though continuously finding yourself coming back to this song. 2022

  • @latishalewis1946
    @latishalewis1946 7 років тому +628

    I remember when my boyfriend sang this to me...I miss him sooo much rest in heaven honeybun!!!

    • @carternation3249
      @carternation3249 7 років тому

      what happened, if you don't mind me asking

    • @l.amccallister9163
      @l.amccallister9163 7 років тому

      Latisha Lewis

    • @latishalewis1946
      @latishalewis1946 7 років тому +9

      He had stage 4 cancer went through chemo the cancer spread to his brain and it took him 4 months later😭

    • @carternation3249
      @carternation3249 7 років тому +5

      awwwweee I'm so sorry 🙏

    • @latishalewis1946
      @latishalewis1946 7 років тому +2

      Aaliyah Carter Thank you i appreciate it!!!

  • @mafalalucia1119
    @mafalalucia1119 4 роки тому +1272

    Why do we fall inlove with people who don’t love us back😭😭

    • @Whey2lovely
      @Whey2lovely 4 роки тому +22

      I'm sure it's not intentional...to be perfectly honest I dont believe the choice is ours to make

    • @cathyt144
      @cathyt144 4 роки тому +11

      Mildred Kimberly Dawn Lee WRONG We all have the power to make choices that affect us and others as well. some people are just too selfish to even be in a relationship because all they do is take take take,never giving anything in return.

    • @cathyt144
      @cathyt144 4 роки тому +22

      Mafala lucia because love is blind and we dont know how to love ourselves first and see oyr own worth. we "settle" instead of taking our time to "choose"

    • @deerob6741
      @deerob6741 4 роки тому +2

      Good question

    • @Quaqua0097
      @Quaqua0097 4 роки тому +5

      I ask myself that alot

  • @AnthonyAnderson-yo4kt
    @AnthonyAnderson-yo4kt 9 місяців тому +12

    This song is definitely for the real queens out there salute to the real one's 🙏🏿✊🏿

  • @shakiramcgee2023
    @shakiramcgee2023 Рік тому +5

    Loving myself has been the best love I ever felt 🙌🏽 Searched my whole life for a love like this❤️ Thank you God 😇

  • @QuixoticUkulele
    @QuixoticUkulele 3 роки тому +168

    I gave up the fight today. I fell in love with a friend who either wouldn't or couldn't love me back. This man helped me get through such an extremely difficult time in my life and things just happened. I fell hard and unapologetically, but all he could say was how flattered he was. He has every right to not love me, but I have every right to be with someone who can and will love me. This is to all of the tender-hearted people who love exponentially and without regret: your love matters. It might not matter to the person who you want, but it matters. That longing and constant yearning - give that to someone who longs and yearns to be with you. Don't give your love to a person who will not love you back. Preserve your love for that right person - they will come.

    • @ricardoperez4187
      @ricardoperez4187 3 роки тому +5

      I felt your words........

    • @Quaqua0097
      @Quaqua0097 Рік тому +7

      Giving up on love. My heart is broken beyond repair 😢😢💔💔. I feel that real love isn't for me.

    • @khandilousw4291
      @khandilousw4291 10 місяців тому +1

      Have you found the love you were seeking...because I'm starting and it's kicking my ass already.

    • @QuixoticUkulele
      @QuixoticUkulele 10 місяців тому

      @@khandilousw4291 It's going to be cheesy and cliche and we've heard it a million times, but the best relationship you can have is the one you have with yourself. My catharsis helped me heal childhood trauma and brokenheartedness. Then you meet people that are attracted to that energy, that wouldn't do anything to hurt you and help you continue to heal. You want to find someone that pours into you like you pour into them. It's definitely out there!! 💜💜💜

    • @jeromekern5159
      @jeromekern5159 10 місяців тому +4

      Thanks, For that. 10 yrs Wasted,Jerome

  • @mamawama2k482
    @mamawama2k482 4 роки тому +530

    Finally closing the chapter ...It's been tough I'm letting go.

    • @WritingIZlykBREATHING2moi
      @WritingIZlykBREATHING2moi 4 роки тому +19

      Congrats on taking the first step towards self reflection and purpose. May the tears of last chapter water the seeds of love, hope, determination, resilience, faith, peace, strength, etc for the next chapter!

    • @theferrellsloclifelivingbb8110
      @theferrellsloclifelivingbb8110 4 роки тому +2

      siphokazi damana me too

    • @zikhonamtandana2780
      @zikhonamtandana2780 4 роки тому +5

      Wish I can let go 😭😭😭💔I’m trying so hard but it really is not easy,there’s nothing left to fix I’ve tried everything dear God

    • @pragyasaxena744
      @pragyasaxena744 4 роки тому

      You're brave

    • @mamawama2k482
      @mamawama2k482 4 роки тому +7

      @@zikhonamtandana2780 kuzodlula I had to be strong for my kids...after 13years I had to let go...he didn't have feelings for me anymore...he was my first I had to let him go ...tough journey but it gets better everyday ...I'm stronger and I'm learning new things..back on dating it's nice..
      I was a loyal wife and that chapter is closed I'm not regretting it if was part of my journey....nyamezela kuzolunga 😘

  • @sallieharer9407
    @sallieharer9407 Рік тому +9

    😢 Had to choke back the feelings. Beautiful song Tank!

  • @clarissahoward1901
    @clarissahoward1901 2 роки тому +17

    This hits home like no other song. I am healing, but it still hurts like hell!!😢💔

  • @kimbabishop7202
    @kimbabishop7202 5 років тому +1922

    Who listening at this time and reading the comments. Lol

  • @joyfulaughs1330
    @joyfulaughs1330 7 років тому +501

    Imagine a man that talks to God about you

    • @niquasciafire4240
      @niquasciafire4240 6 років тому +3

      exactly. wolves in sheep clothing..smh

    • @sherialcooper3250
      @sherialcooper3250 6 років тому +1

      OMG best feeling

    • @tynacoleman1542
      @tynacoleman1542 6 років тому +1

      FRICK N FRECK POWERFUL!! MANY BLESSINGS TO COME 🙏🙏🙏🙏 PRAISE HIM... GOT AN ANGEL 😇😇😇 UR TRULY BLESSED HONEY 😭😭👋👋🙏🙏

    • @0326hkim
      @0326hkim 6 років тому

      Eh that’s stupid

    • @doraleanbrown9358
      @doraleanbrown9358 6 років тому +1

      love that

  • @corporalbrig
    @corporalbrig 7 місяців тому +6

    The part where she runs to him and they embrace always chokes me up. Going through a break up and I still love her no matter what 😢

  • @brendanwilson2847
    @brendanwilson2847 7 місяців тому +3

    Such a beautiful song….

  • @289dancer
    @289dancer 8 років тому +457

    I came across this by accident. To me its such a great analogy to God singing to us. He gives us the free will to love Him. And He can't make us love Him but just like Tank was by that car and saw Keisha Pulliam-Knight coming towards him, God is waiting for our decision to turn back to him...and He is so ready to embrace us. Before I knew the agape love of Christ I didn't understand how to appropriately engage in the other types of love. And now with God I am functional as a wife, mother, and sister.

    • @oonahnri5901
      @oonahnri5901 8 років тому +12

      Love your analogy,it's so on point......

    • @playrewindff
      @playrewindff 8 років тому +7

      Amen! God's love is unconditional. He loves those who hate him just the same.

    • @zwanetsietsi4046
      @zwanetsietsi4046 8 років тому

      That's True

    • @ersarva3587
      @ersarva3587 8 років тому +1

      +289dancer This is beautiful.

    • @madtownband
      @madtownband 8 років тому +2

      +289dancer "He gives us free will to love him"....but if you don't you burn in a lake of fire for eternity. Doesn't really sound like much of a choice does it?

  • @reneelevy8564
    @reneelevy8564 4 роки тому +215

    When you want to cry a good cry from the pain inside... but you have to be strong for your child looking at you...

    • @lovelay470
      @lovelay470 3 роки тому +1

      Yessss I'm there now only God knows.... 🙏

    • @keyonnaringo6679
      @keyonnaringo6679 3 роки тому +2

      Oh.... Yes. You said it. I cant even cry.. My son all over me. He's 2😣😣😣😣

    • @Angelproctor627
      @Angelproctor627 2 роки тому

      💯💯🥺🥺

    • @crystalhill873
      @crystalhill873 2 роки тому

      This the one!! Lord I don’t know what to di

    • @andreamitchell679
      @andreamitchell679 2 роки тому

      So true.

  • @CivilRightsLeader
    @CivilRightsLeader 2 роки тому +14

    🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽 if you have lost someone or your heart has been broken and are listening to this today I pray your heart finds the comfort love peace and ease it needs to find strength and healing to feel whole again. ❤

  • @seanmac565
    @seanmac565 Рік тому +8

    Wow, simply beautiful!

  • @MrSiauthin
    @MrSiauthin 6 років тому +5349

    Anyone still listening to this in 2018??❤
    Edit : how about this year in 2019??
    Edit : i'm here 2020 ❤️❤️
    Edit : 2021
    and always ...

  • @mi2andme4
    @mi2andme4 5 років тому +1048

    Sometimes the best thing you can do is find the strength to walk away. As bad as it hurts.

  • @kevingreenidgejr.809
    @kevingreenidgejr.809 Рік тому +3

    When I see tears falling from an angel's face, it reminds me of how you never wished a precious soul like hers would go through a tragic past relationship like that again.

  • @kensteffes6712
    @kensteffes6712 4 місяці тому +2

    Beautiful version of a classic.

  • @angelicapintogonzalez4359
    @angelicapintogonzalez4359 9 років тому +187

    I give up this fight...
    I've reached the point in my life where I do not believe in love. Well I mean don't get me wrong I believe in love towards my children, family, friends but not in that love which we all dream about. Don't believe in the happily ever after, finding you're better half. Noooo that does not exist... society is so mess up now a days. People play with others feelings like nothing. Makes me so sad to see how can you let someone that loves you so much down. Cheating, lying is so normal now a days! :(

    • @dimpstyler6142
      @dimpstyler6142 9 років тому +4

      Feeling the same way. I wish it was like that.

    • @ladynastailgic
      @ladynastailgic 9 років тому +7

      Angélica Pinto González I so understand how you feel. I use to feel the same way. But I've resolved that just because it has not happened for me the way I would have liked it to, does not mean that it doesn't exist. What I do know is that it is a blessing to have when and if we find it. I've known of some couples that have been together 50+ years, so I know that true love and the longevity of it really does exist. Keep your head up. I pray God send you the love of your life and that he blesses the two of you with the happily ever after :)

    • @whocanitbeifitaintme
      @whocanitbeifitaintme 9 років тому +2

      ladynastailgic Yeah 50 years ago though. Not nowadays.

    • @ladynastailgic
      @ladynastailgic 9 років тому +7

      whocanitbeifitaintme
      With God, all things are possible. And as for nowadays...........yes nowadays. My parents, my brothers and their wives, my sister and her husband and even my son and his wife, have all found longevity in their marriages. There is a common denominator for them all. and that is they chose there mates for other reasons than the ones I've listed below. I'm guilty of choosing the wrong person for the wrong reason, so I am in no-way trying to judge. Unfortunately, as men and women we have a tendency to reach for the shallow (looks, money, image, lust good sex and for some, the fear of being without a mate.) all those things are fleeting because whenever they are weigh against the strength it takes to be committed to a thing, none of those are able to stand the test of time. When we chose wrong we wont have the relationship long. We changed God didn't. Oftentimes our view and feelings about a thing is a result of what we have or have not experienced so it is easier to believe that it no longer exist because the only other option is harder to accept.

    • @whocanitbeifitaintme
      @whocanitbeifitaintme 9 років тому +1

      ladynastailgic IM LOVING YOUR PROFILE PIC. LONG LIVE BLACK LOVE

  • @marlathomas3373
    @marlathomas3373 4 роки тому +750

    It hurts when u love someone who is damage so bad that they don't know how to love and trust the one person who would do anything for them....it hurts like hell no lie

    • @gregorybrown2539
      @gregorybrown2539 4 роки тому +10

      Amen ....... You spoke a ton of wisdom, when you made this statement.

    • @kandiedorian667
      @kandiedorian667 4 роки тому +7

      I understand you clearly

    • @atticus5748
      @atticus5748 4 роки тому +7

      Because it takes time for them to heal...

    • @kimtamani1870
      @kimtamani1870 4 роки тому +2

      😢

    • @Quaqua0097
      @Quaqua0097 4 роки тому +14

      This is what Malcolm feels trying to love me and I keep pushing him away cause iam so scared of getting hurt my heart been through the ringer and he is trying to love me and I keep pushing I ask God to plz help me cause I didn't know what's real from fake and all Malcolm wanna do is love me.. God plz take the past away

  • @Windyielder
    @Windyielder Рік тому +6

    🖤🖤🖤This really touches my heart. Hopefully I'll find that special someone that'll love me as hard as I love them.

  • @BreesNews01
    @BreesNews01 Рік тому +6

    This brought tears to my eyes! It felt so powerful and potent. WOW!!!

  • @shamekiajohnston4948
    @shamekiajohnston4948 7 років тому +81

    He just woke up one morning and decided he didn't love me anymore. That I wasn't worth fighting for anymore. He held on to every negative moment instead of the love that grew from those difficult times. But As a woman you have to be strong and let go....

    • @PeytonFan1816
      @PeytonFan1816 7 років тому +14

      Shamekia Johnston Hun dont give him that much credit. He didnt just wake up one morning and decided he didnt love. Those were feelings faded over time. The signs were there unfortunately but when we love it truly can be blind. You may be hurting now but you can and you will get through this. Some people arent meant to be in our lives but for a moment. My nanna always said people are a blessing or a lesson. I truly understand that now. You deserve the best and if you will close that door God can open new ones for you. Praying for you

    • @daydayboo3300
      @daydayboo3300 6 років тому +1

      Shamekia Johnston sorry to hear that I'm going through the same I lost my fight as well but gotta move on

    • @zolekamayeza148
      @zolekamayeza148 6 років тому

      Shamekia Johnston l

    • @darkflowerchild8620
      @darkflowerchild8620 6 років тому +1

      I will not cry. Shamekia I promise I feel you. Felt like that was exactly what he did to me. Peyton, thank you for your response. It gives me perspective even though it's a VERY hard truth to swallow. Praying that we all will receive that man built by God's design, that we are to spend the rest of our lives with.

    • @jodipalmer4616
      @jodipalmer4616 6 років тому

      Sorry to hear that

  • @barryzuckercorn8646
    @barryzuckercorn8646 8 років тому +471

    The best/worst song ever created, realizing you were never good enough for another human being that you love may be the worst feeling in the world. This shit brings me back to the worst moment in my life but it brings me clarity because it spews reality and the truth that you never see when you're blinded by love.

    • @PeytonFan1816
      @PeytonFan1816 8 років тому +2

      agree

    • @jeneel_theaquarius7493
      @jeneel_theaquarius7493 8 років тому +2

      so true....

    • @nigerianamericanqueen6941
      @nigerianamericanqueen6941 8 років тому +4

      your right. the feeling is so awful and dreadful. just a seething burning pain of almost total dark and emptiness. I can't forget it. its a terrible feeling. like labor. its unforgettable.

    • @ShaNellC326
      @ShaNellC326 8 років тому +3

      You're exactly right..I know this type of heartache all too well💔

    • @edenbandele189
      @edenbandele189 8 років тому +16

      😢..I feel like I'm living this song and your comment right now.... I'm not perfect but I know I work at it everyday. Although we're still together, Im feeling exhausted from all the energy I've put into our relationship but things just aren't changing and I can't seem to wrap my mind around the fact that my efforts just hasn't paid off as much as I would have liked to see. I can't understand why so many people (females) favor me but the one person I'm in love with doesn't see the qualities others see in me...(Sorry I'm an introvert and this is the closest I've ever come to venting to anyone about my current situation)

  • @markelasmalls5155
    @markelasmalls5155 2 роки тому +10

    Falling in Love with someone and then realizing they’re a narcissist is so Heart breaking, I gave everything I had and it was never reciprocated yet I kept on loving until I figured I had to love me more and let go🤞🏾

    • @prezirashard210
      @prezirashard210 2 роки тому

      ❤😔

    • @JandK1111
      @JandK1111 17 днів тому

      Same. N I told him so. What else must I do for u to seee....n the answer was nothing and everything.
      I eventually ask him why did u see me and entered my life when I was happy doing me?....

  • @Msshortyjc
    @Msshortyjc 11 днів тому +2

    This song speaks to the Soul. If someone doesn’t love you there’s no need to hold on to them. Remember you deserve better

  • @Stephysteph_
    @Stephysteph_ 5 років тому +672

    I feel this. I am slowly getting out of a situationship and I feel so broken. I tried so hard to make him realized how special I was and to show him that I truly loved and cared for him. But I guess when it's the wrong person, there's NOTHING you can do.

    • @adrianvelazquez8112
      @adrianvelazquez8112 5 років тому +3

      Best wishes to u👏🙏🙏

    • @ariellecartwright1948
      @ariellecartwright1948 5 років тому +31

      when it's the right one, you won't have to show him how special you are - he'll just know.

    • @tubadlamini1653
      @tubadlamini1653 5 років тому +11

      If he doesn't realize on his own how special u are,he doesn't deserve u angel😘

    • @maryannndungu8746
      @maryannndungu8746 5 років тому +12

      If it's hard then it's not right.

    • @pamtorres3693
      @pamtorres3693 5 років тому +6

      I know what you mean, their loss

  • @yellowfeverize
    @yellowfeverize 7 років тому +829

    Loving someone who doesn't love you back is the worst feeling ever. No matter what you do or sacrifice for them, they'll never see it and appreciate your effort.......they'll treat you like shit but you'll keep coming back thinking they'll love you back but you'll get hurt more. Why do we get to fall for people who don't treat us right? very sad

    • @kaylacarey8429
      @kaylacarey8429 7 років тому +5

      M James That is more true then you will ever know. My heart breaks when listening to this song.

    • @yellowfeverize
      @yellowfeverize 7 років тому

      Kayla Carey. And I too 😔 thanks

    • @dyedyebruce5250
      @dyedyebruce5250 7 років тому +23

      never make someone a priority when you are only an option to them..cause the people who loves the most are the most vulnerable persons to get hurt

    • @yellowfeverize
      @yellowfeverize 7 років тому +3

      diana bruce That's absolutely true, you've just described me.

    • @michellerivera7806
      @michellerivera7806 7 років тому +1

      M James it so true

  • @phumelag533
    @phumelag533 Рік тому +9

    Mentally bury them and accept that you cant make anyone feel anything. Lift your head and invest all your love, care and trust in yourself and in your life, its not an easy process but time and self love are you best armor in this battle. LOVE YOURSELF SO MUCH SO THAT YOU WALK AWAK FROM WHAT DOES NOT SERVE YOU.

    • @rere5878
      @rere5878 Рік тому +1

      Thanks. I needed this

    • @MyeshaParris
      @MyeshaParris Рік тому

      ❤ I love you for this Epic comment. So true! Amen

    • @MyeshaParris
      @MyeshaParris Рік тому

      ​@@rere5878You will be okay❤ Promise...

  • @GailBrooks-rr5fz
    @GailBrooks-rr5fz 2 місяці тому +1

    Tank is singing so soulful from the depths of his heart "I can't make you love me"!! He is nailing it!! Sing it Tank!!

  • @ednawarren1421
    @ednawarren1421 3 роки тому +204

    This was my anthem...now it's a memory of someone I let go. I thought I was in love and it was pain and heartbreak. He made me realize all that suffering was to teach me what I didn't want. I was alone a long time after closed off my heart and decided I would ever love gain... then I met my J. He wouldn't let me stay that way. I'm in love and have been for 16 years and he loves me as much as I love him. Equal, trusting and magic...we celebrated our 15th anniversary in September. I am astounded to realize I do love him more and more each day.

    • @selenawilliam8573
      @selenawilliam8573 3 роки тому

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
      ➕1️⃣,9️⃣5️⃣6️⃣,5️⃣3️⃣1️⃣,2️⃣4️⃣0️⃣6️⃣...

    • @Rianna876
      @Rianna876 2 роки тому +3

      Happy for you 🥰

    • @MG-cx8rh
      @MG-cx8rh 2 роки тому +3

      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💜🇯🇲

    • @islandqueen7342
      @islandqueen7342 2 роки тому +3

      ❤️

    • @Kasia.PL85
      @Kasia.PL85 Рік тому +2

      Beautiful 💕💐👏💪 and Happy Anniversary 🌹😊

  • @Copasyetic
    @Copasyetic 3 роки тому +331

    Don't EVER think you can make somebody love you!

    • @yarivillarreal3216
      @yarivillarreal3216 3 роки тому +1

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @Copasyetic
      @Copasyetic 3 роки тому +4

      @Kreshon Sorrells I will keep you in my prayers. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @selenawilliam8573
      @selenawilliam8573 3 роки тому

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
      ➕1️⃣,9️⃣5️⃣6️⃣,5️⃣3️⃣1️⃣,2️⃣4️⃣0️⃣6️⃣......

    • @roderickstokes84
      @roderickstokes84 3 роки тому

      BIG FACTS BIG FACTS

    • @nishiamellekimho9372
      @nishiamellekimho9372 3 роки тому

      i did, thats why im here. my bad, freakin hurts 💔

  • @lateshiachilds3640
    @lateshiachilds3640 Рік тому +4

    Wow Tank that beautiful falsetto got me tearing up. I love this whole CD by Tank and this song is so beautiful. I love Bonnie version too Tank just made this his own.

  • @seanjenkins8750
    @seanjenkins8750 Рік тому +8

    Best cover of this I have ever heard. ❤

  • @aedreannaperiod2002
    @aedreannaperiod2002 6 років тому +930

    Who still listen to this in 2018 beside me ? 😍

    • @ericagreen89
      @ericagreen89 6 років тому +2

      Aedreanna Lockett I love this and when you been through it some how it becomes soothing ❤️ they really underrated this version he did is the best I’ve herd!

    • @viwebontsa720
      @viwebontsa720 6 років тому

      Aedreanna Lockett u not alone

    • @Avosmari
      @Avosmari 6 років тому

      Aye right here 👐🏻

    • @marilynnfulton5411
      @marilynnfulton5411 6 років тому

      Viwe Bontsa no not alone

    • @timdogg6032
      @timdogg6032 6 років тому +1

      Aedreanna Lockett me

  • @infamousnekka6920
    @infamousnekka6920 4 роки тому +572

    2nd day in 2020.. I’m here.. It hurts.. but I’m determined to let go of my situation and NEVER look back! I’m ready to love me like I loved him and never lose that feeling. God give me strength!

    • @antwanlee31
      @antwanlee31 4 роки тому +12

      keep pushing... remember you always have the next day to start over again. Thats the beauty of going to sleep and waking up refreshed and ready for what the day brings. It will get better

    • @dremckinney7877
      @dremckinney7877 4 роки тому +4

      I'm sorry to hear this. Seen ur previous comment!!! And I'm there with you also!!!! Been 4yrs to long!!!

    • @mrbibchucky
      @mrbibchucky 4 роки тому +3

      STAY STRONG

    • @rozelliamatthews8598
      @rozelliamatthews8598 4 роки тому +9

      I'm sorry that you are hurting, I've been there. When you truly learn to love yourself, you will value you and realize that your love is priceless. Wishing you the best God has to give you.

    • @mrbibchucky
      @mrbibchucky 4 роки тому +1

      @@rozelliamatthews8598 You speak the Truth

  • @marishawhite5553
    @marishawhite5553 Рік тому +7

    Almost hits harder than the original. Definitely hits different! If this doesn’t bring you to tears in this situation, you don’t love em like you think you do. Let em go!

  • @wandabargeman
    @wandabargeman 10 місяців тому +6

    VERY TRUE SONG
    FOR *WE CAN NOT MAKE SOMEONE LOVE US IF THEY DON'T"

  • @Claire-yt6xx
    @Claire-yt6xx 6 років тому +1009

    Meeting your soulmate and realizing they don't love you.Or aren't ready to love you.Or don't realize what true love is....is the worst pain I have ever felt.I never got an explanation.My heart was just....butchered.

  • @deletedthis4538
    @deletedthis4538 7 років тому +3450

    This song will have you crying about a situation that never even happened lol

    • @mxsade88
      @mxsade88 7 років тому +9

      Chenaiya B. 😂😂😂😂

    • @gamingwithlaunaalauna_yt3680
      @gamingwithlaunaalauna_yt3680 7 років тому +3

      Chenaiya B loll solo funny

    • @colsomemiah6095
      @colsomemiah6095 7 років тому +16

      Chenaiya B. The power of superb poetry put to song

    • @gelicabean
      @gelicabean 7 років тому +35

      Chenaiya B. now..I have gone through a situation and it hurt...But THIS COMMENT IS SUPER TRUE...OR have u crying over something SOOOOOOOO old it ain't even relavent...KMSL

    • @nicholasjonesoconnell9523
      @nicholasjonesoconnell9523 7 років тому +3

      Chenaiya B. so true

  • @kayz5774
    @kayz5774 Рік тому +1

    SO SO BEAUTIFUL, SO MUCH MEANING ....WHEN WORDS FAIL...........

  • @ObaMishael
    @ObaMishael 2 роки тому +4

    The fact that he sang, played and recorded this drunk.... is what's truly amazing

  • @94Rabiaah
    @94Rabiaah 10 років тому +31

    I was in a relationship for 2 years when my boyfriend told me he no longer loved me, he loved someone else.. I've never felt pain like it, it killed me on the inside. It took me a very long time to get over him, almost 2 years, i was seeking for answers! his relationship with the new girl failed after 2 months, karma!
    2 years later Im doing just fine, i'm really happy and i'm ready to move on and be with someone who can love me. If you're going through a hard break up.. It does get better, you just wasn't meant to be, but some one out there is willing to give you the world and love you beyond words. Have faith guys.

  • @adrianjackson4807
    @adrianjackson4807 9 років тому +332

    I listen to this song almost everyday. I was in a ten year relationship and married to her for the last four years. When women get tired, they actually get tired. I just never thought I would go thru so much hurt and didn't kno I would have so much love for a woman because I was HARD, but that changed when she told me she was seeing someone else. It broke my heart and it took over a year to heal. God does things for reasons. Although we hear this a lot and don't wanna accept the fact because of the love we have, but love hurts and it also makes u grow. She's moved on and so have I . She's with another guy and has a baby on the way and that's just fine with me. I'm saying to say this. Us men need to feel, listen and respect our women before it's too late cause a fed up woman is hard to sustain.. God has opened my eyes and the next lady I'm with will be treated like a queen, cause my last one was treated like trash. Thank God for growth...

    • @whocanitbeifitaintme
      @whocanitbeifitaintme 9 років тому +2

      Good to know. Seems like you have manned up.

    • @sandraritah
      @sandraritah 9 років тому +1

      Your right.. Finally you got there

    • @deemac8231
      @deemac8231 9 років тому +9

      Wow! Adrian Jackson, You said a mouthfull and it's good you recognize your mistakes through your pain. When you find her, she will feel more special than a queen!

    • @mrdontpl8y
      @mrdontpl8y 9 років тому +1

      Fasho

    • @kathyhallsss
      @kathyhallsss 9 років тому +3

      I agree you can't make someone love you if they just don't anymore.

  • @joancarol1970
    @joancarol1970 Рік тому +5

    Tank has the most beautiful vocal quality. I've listened to many other renditions. Nobody comes near Tank.
    I'm learning this song. I was 22 and found myself with someone l adored. Sorry, no sex unless he gives of himself... The way he looks and touches you shows that he doesn't care.

  • @yebogogobrandon3119
    @yebogogobrandon3119 10 місяців тому +3

    One of the best songs ever written and sung. Helps anyone who's loved and never had their love returned, to self reflect on whether it's worth it, really worth it to waste your time on someone who doesn't love you back.
    Man or woman..

  • @dizzyness786
    @dizzyness786 7 років тому +1208

    You don't have to play with a persons heart. You can say goodbye. And let them find someone who will love them the way they need. It's horrible to see or realize that you don't love them/or that they don't love you. But be brave enough to let go of a love that doesn't love you/ or you don't love. Life is short enough. Why waste the time.

  • @nitram7555
    @nitram7555 5 років тому +279

    This song is truly a heartbreaker, it brings back all the pain you could ever feel from a one sided relationship 😢😢

    • @milesmatheson1142
      @milesmatheson1142 5 років тому +2

      That's not a real relationship- that's unrequited love. And I'm still going through that shit right now. Hardest part is accepting that I'll never see her bright smile, look into her deep eyes, or hear her infectious giggle, ever again. God help me, I still love her, and I don't know what to do with myself.

    • @letinaday3933
      @letinaday3933 5 років тому

      And that the key its one sided & you (deserve) more ❤️

    • @tonywalker2748
      @tonywalker2748 4 роки тому

      Miles Matheson that touch me 😢

    • @kellythomas385
      @kellythomas385 4 роки тому

      SO MANY ARTISTS HAVE COVERED THIS SONG, INCLUDING PRINCE.

  • @beliteweightmanagement3054
    @beliteweightmanagement3054 Рік тому +12

    It's 2022, and I STILL get chills every time I hear this version!

  • @sheltonj20
    @sheltonj20 Рік тому +5

    To that person who is unsure and tired. I know it’s hard to accept but move on and forward. Your person will come…

  • @aubreyfernandez2978
    @aubreyfernandez2978 3 роки тому +303

    Turn down the lights
    Turn down the bed
    Turn down these voices inside my head
    Lay down with me
    Tell me no lies
    Just hold me close, don't patronize
    Don't patronize me
    'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
    You can't make your heart feel something it won't
    Here in the dark, in these final hours
    I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
    But you won't, no you won't
    'Cause I can't make you love me, if you don't
    I'll close my eyes, then I won't see
    The love you don't feel when you're holding me
    Morning will come and I'll do what's right
    Just give me till then to give up this fight
    And I will give up this fight
    'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
    You can't make your heart feel something it won't
    Here in the dark, in these final hours
    I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
    But you won't, no you won't
    'Cause I can't make you love me, if you don't

    • @reenakryenhoff4547
      @reenakryenhoff4547 3 роки тому +19

      I'm going through the same at the moment, God knows I love him,but all he does is keep blaming me for his mistakes, I've tried but now I'm tired of loving someone he doesn't love me back.

    • @motherof2wifeof18
      @motherof2wifeof18 3 роки тому +9

      @@reenakryenhoff4547 Love yourself enough to be happy.

    • @Quaqua0097
      @Quaqua0097 2 роки тому +2

      I felt this whole song in my soul. I love him with all my heart and soul but he doesn't give a damn about me it's hurts like hell and no matter what I do he still not going to love me iam tired iam throwing in the towel I can't take it anymore.

    • @janielwhyte1861
      @janielwhyte1861 2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏🏼

    • @monishajefferson4352
      @monishajefferson4352 2 роки тому +3

      Going through this pain eats you up I just got to let him go it hurts bad but I gotta do what's right for me 💯💯💯

  • @antoinefernandez9108
    @antoinefernandez9108 7 років тому +109

    Hardest part of loving is when you have to let go not wanting to but knowing that is the best thing for you to do

    • @girligyrldiva
      @girligyrldiva 6 років тому

      Antoine Fernandez I agree 100% it sucks one of the worse feelings in the world

    • @maryjanesanchez8484
      @maryjanesanchez8484 6 років тому

      Antoine Fernandez soooo true

    • @dhev1666
      @dhev1666 6 років тому

      Antoine Fernandez so true we realize sometimes they don't love us anymore like they use to but just trying to make it work the texts stop coming in calls outting an so much more but we just love who we love sad but it's life

  • @user-wt4ie6iu6p
    @user-wt4ie6iu6p 11 місяців тому +2

    17 years together...then out of nowhere she gave her heart to somebody else, I never saw it coming...I can only hope she is happy with the choice she made...