Signs You're Doing Well Financially (Even if it doesn't feel like it)

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  • @humphrey
    @humphrey  Рік тому +15

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    • @Daikini0
      @Daikini0 Рік тому

      Hey Humphrey, I made my financial plan, and I realized you are wrong about average SNP500 10% growth. A bit. Technically not, but in practice yes. You say 10% average growth is produced by SNP500 on long term, which is true, but when you calculate compound interest, average is not a good indicator, since it is based on addition and not multiplication. On multiplication and root base if you check snp500 growth ( for example between 1978-2023) is 45.61x. that means if you take the 46 root of 45.61, you get approx. 8.66% growth. This number is not far from 10%, but you get a good 1.5% difference, which adds up a decent difference in pace of 46 years. However you are pretty much correct in 10% growth if you include ~1.4% dividend as well.
      Anyways thanks for your videos, you really inspire people like me to put away money for the future in stocks, and make me more comfortable on losses on a bad day to enjoy growth on a good day, because actually I have 20 years to grow my wealth. My biggest mistake was that I stopped investing 10 years ago.

    • @redmankj7999
      @redmankj7999 Рік тому

      Please can you help me ? Mr. Humphrey Yang.

    • @gregbaxter6162
      @gregbaxter6162 9 місяців тому

      Do you just look on UA-cam and take other people’s videos? Are you that unoriginal?

  • @alexsteven.m6414
    @alexsteven.m6414 2 місяці тому +971

    Successful investing is hard work because it means disciplining your mind to do the opposite of human nature. Buying during a panic, selling during euphoria, and holding on when you are bored and just craving a little action. Investing is 5% intellect and 95% temperament.

    • @PennyBernadette
      @PennyBernadette 2 місяці тому +3

      Government policy has thrown the future under the bus for decades. The day of judgment is near. I predict an 80% drop in the stock market. Investors will abandon stocks in favor of real estate. There will be no money in banks... You must devise a strategy for survival.

    • @vanessahopkins-g5y
      @vanessahopkins-g5y 2 місяці тому +3

      It's often true that people underestimate the importance of financial advisors until they feel the negative effects of emotional decision-making. I remember a few summers ago, after a tough divorce, when I needed a boost for my struggling business. I researched and found a licensed advisor who diligently helped grow my reserves despite inflation. Consequently, my reserves increased from $275k to over $750k.

    • @belobelonce35
      @belobelonce35 2 місяці тому +2

      Recently, I've been considering the possibility of speaking with consultants. I need guidance because I'm an adult, but I'm not sure if their services would be all that helpful.

    • @vanessahopkins-g5y
      @vanessahopkins-g5y 2 місяці тому +1

      REBECCA NASSAR DUNNE is her name. She is regarded as a genius in her area and works for Equity Services inc. She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.

    • @NorthCarolinaForward
      @NorthCarolinaForward 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing, I must say, Rebecca appears to be quite knowledgeable. After coming across her web page, I went through her resume and it was quite impressive.

  • @kevinramirez7408
    @kevinramirez7408 Рік тому +290

    One of the most valuable “things” someone can have is ENOUGH

    • @subodhpatil8227
      @subodhpatil8227 8 місяців тому +2

      Agreed but that point also comes at a certain ceiling

    • @Bigboss-xe6lm
      @Bigboss-xe6lm 7 місяців тому +7

      Yes. And the feeling that you can buy whatever but dont need to because you are not a slave anymore.

  • @Dashawn.B
    @Dashawn.B Рік тому +612

    When your bills are on auto pay. You’re doing well financially.

    • @Weekinthelife15
      @Weekinthelife15 Рік тому +7

      😂

    • @Mbregs28
      @Mbregs28 8 місяців тому +10

      Lmao 😂 this comment wins

    • @dyates6380
      @dyates6380 8 місяців тому +28

      Actually, auto pay is one of the worst things you can set up. Have fun trying to stop them if you leave the contract with the company or utility. I've been there, and with one cable company it took eight months and a LOT of phone calls to have them stop charging and taking funds and refund my money, even WITH the bank trying to help me out. Just use your own bank's free only pay feature like I do - but yes, I DO get the point of your post and yep, correct.

    • @Dashawn.B
      @Dashawn.B 8 місяців тому +1

      @@dyates6380 That’s why you have more than one bank account.

    • @petewilcox3354
      @petewilcox3354 8 місяців тому

      @@dyates6380 totally agree...I dont have anything on auto pay -- my next car payment is due july 14th...my credit score is over 790.

  • @dm96177
    @dm96177 8 місяців тому +80

    I’m glad you mentioned the social circles. I stopped being friends with people who cared so much about material things because they were toxic. I’m extremely financially stable and very proud of that, I’m not going to blow it on expensive items just for show.

    • @marcielston3019
      @marcielston3019 2 місяці тому +5

      I also backed away from a friend group that were very stuff oriented. Truth is - most of them likely make a lot less than my spouse and I, but loved to flaunt their toys.

    • @asparrow9876
      @asparrow9876 2 місяці тому +2

      Yup. This is exactly why a lot of celebrities won't or stopped hanging out with other celebrities. The cost was unnecessarily high while the experiences were vapid and shallow.

    • @duramirez
      @duramirez 2 місяці тому

      my boss goes to the office and social events with his Porsche Macan every day, urghhhhh.

  • @MaddieKinsss
    @MaddieKinsss Рік тому +39

    I absolutely love this video! You hit the nail on the head when it comes to flaunting wealth. I lived in Vegas & worked alongside with a handful of very “successful” people. I can say every single one of them had beautiful multi-million dollar homes, a minimum of 3 luxury vehicles each, and every single one of them had little to no money. Cards got declined at in n out, bills upwards of 30-50k were stacking up just to maintain each month. To the rest of their friends, employees, and the outside world, you would never assume they were struggling and it was all a show.

  • @cristiannaJ126
    @cristiannaJ126 Рік тому +99

    My husband and I are doing pretty well. It is very recent for us, we struggled for years throughout college, working multiple jobs just to get through, and are now pretty stable. Our life goal is to travel - not have things. We save towards trips but live in a small house, have middle range cars, and don’t buy new things. This video makes me feel pretty good about where we are trending! I save 20% of my income monthly, with a potion into the stock market and a portion into a high yield savings account. We don’t have much yet, but we are trending in the right direction.
    Thanks for this video!!

    • @Peglegkickboxer
      @Peglegkickboxer 7 місяців тому +2

      Travel is more expensive than owning things and is a major way people lose everything. People throw out thousands on flights, hotels, and rentals unless you are using points, hostels, trains, public transport, going to 3rd world countries.

    • @VidimusWolf
      @VidimusWolf 7 місяців тому +8

      ​@@Peglegkickboxer "Throw out" is a strange way to put it. You spend your money to gain experiences that you will treasure and cherish for your entire life. The expensive phone? The expensive car? You are probably going to forget that within the next few years. But that amazing trip you took 20 years ago with your partner? You take that to the grave.

    • @thephantomknyte5759
      @thephantomknyte5759 3 місяці тому +4

      @@VidimusWolf This is so true. I took a trip to Ocean City with my friends a few years ago. I spent 700 in total myself but damn was it worth it. I will cherish that forever. I spent 300 on my 1100 dollar current phone and I already dont like it. Memories are so much more valuable.

    • @VidimusWolf
      @VidimusWolf 3 місяці тому

      @@thephantomknyte5759 That is awesome! I also have a ton of great memories with friends. Actually sometimes the cheapest trips are the most memorable because you really try to get all the bang for buck possible haha. 700 total is actually great value!

    • @marcielston3019
      @marcielston3019 2 місяці тому

      My spouse and I became wealthy enough to travel well when we were in out mid-40's. We take and plan two or three vacations a year now ( 15 years later) it's the best. We live more modestly, but make lots of great memories.

  • @callyballybee
    @callyballybee Рік тому +60

    This all seems reasonable. I’ve always been on a lower income but thankfully never really had any debt. I used to think I was doing poorly financially until I realised the value in that. Decided to make my goal for the year to be more financially literate and work on having savings (I had none after a big international move). So far so good! I feel better after watching this video :)

  • @IrisP989
    @IrisP989 11 місяців тому +20

    We are the poorest 6 figure income household among our friends and my own distant relatives in my county. We live in a very high cost of living area. Doing well financially to me is the ability to be a stay at home mom (whether working part time or not), always paying off credit cards on time and never carrying a balance, being able to save for retirement, having an emergency fund, etc.

    • @drunclecookie216
      @drunclecookie216 8 місяців тому +1

      my wife and I have a 6 figure household income and we live in a very low cost of living area. my house is paid off with no other debts and it's only worth about $102k today. houses in my area average $150k. six figure incomes can be a very different lifestyle depending on where you live. we're pretty much coasting through life here and I've even been turning down higher paying jobs because they don't let me work from home and set my own schedules like this one does

    • @luke-i1w
      @luke-i1w 2 місяці тому +1

      My wife is also a stay at home mom. We're extremely lucky to be able to do that and actually raise our own kids. Our ideas of financial stability are exactly the same.

    • @IrisP989
      @IrisP989 2 місяці тому

      @@luke-i1w Is your wife planning to work part time when the kids go to school?

    • @luke-i1w
      @luke-i1w 2 місяці тому

      @@IrisP989 Most likely. She was a teacher before we had kids.

    • @canecorsomom2023
      @canecorsomom2023 6 днів тому

      My husband and I are a 6 figure family and me staying at home is important to us as well. We moved 20 minutes out if the city we were in just over the county line and we got a very nice almost new home with property for 150K less than it would have been in town. I have to drive the older kids to school now but it was well worth moving for a better standard of living

  • @chasealvarez5209
    @chasealvarez5209 Рік тому +17

    Jeez. Hadn't even considered myself doing well. Important and much needed reality check as I move forward.

  • @VikingGamingUK
    @VikingGamingUK Рік тому +1

    I've been looking for excel sheets to help track spending and this is the best one I've seen. Thanks!

  • @dongshuowu3454
    @dongshuowu3454 Рік тому +19

    My favorite days are dividend payment days. Thanks for another great video.

  • @jimbooo1365
    @jimbooo1365 Рік тому +50

    One of the richest dudes I met drove a 30 year old rusty old toyota, walked around in daggy shorts and torn singlet and don't think he'd shaved for at least a couple of years. I didn't realise who he was until a work mate said "do you have any idea who that bloke you spoke to is? Hes worth at least tens of millions". Nice bloke too, he was very friendly and seemed very down to earth. Good on him.

    • @FactStorm
      @FactStorm 2 місяці тому

      Great guy!

    • @chrischoy9
      @chrischoy9 2 місяці тому

      I don’t agree with driving something like that. The dude is one unfortunate situation away from killing himself.
      At least get something with a 5 star safety rating (car made in the last 15 years) that isn’t rusted out to a point it can snap in half

    • @jimbooo1365
      @jimbooo1365 2 місяці тому +1

      @@chrischoy9 old school land cruiser. She's got another 30 years in her. 😂

  • @hunterphan5506
    @hunterphan5506 Рік тому +158

    I’m definitely not bragging about my wealth. It’s because I have none. 🤷‍♂️

    • @cheeseman9967
      @cheeseman9967 6 місяців тому +4

      Yes, then you and I can swap financial secrets!😂

    • @PureMetalNS
      @PureMetalNS 2 місяці тому +3

      Zero savings left after the last few years, not earning enough to save, disability limiting how much I can work, buying toys on finance from temu so we can afford to get him something... yeah I think we're not doing well financially too 😄 Still, could be worse.

  • @jiminibops
    @jiminibops 8 місяців тому +6

    Thanks for telling me I'm doing really good. I felt like I was but an outside perspective is always very helpful. Currently my expenses are about $1,100 a month without food or entertainment and I bring home net $3000 monthly. I struggled for a really long time but after covid I have appreciated a hockey stick. I feel like the majority of my decisions worked out the best for me even though there were some rocky patches. Net worth now after paying off all debt is about 250k. If I live for 10 more years my retirement will be secured at $4500 a month for the rest of my life and I'll retire at 57. I've worked really, REALLY hard, since 2020 to make this possible.

  • @HeyItsAvi90
    @HeyItsAvi90 8 місяців тому +165

    I feel I've made it when I go to the grocery store and just grab the food I want without looking at the prices.

    • @lillianhubl8461
      @lillianhubl8461 7 місяців тому +33

      Still wrong. I don't care how much money is in my bank I will always look for the best deal . Save always and everywhere.

    • @meleenabradley3017
      @meleenabradley3017 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@lillianhubl8461 My husband does the same. He's really good 👍 I try to respect him by buying what I want when there's deals.

    • @fun2badult
      @fun2badult 5 місяців тому +6

      I don't think it's the grocery store. It's going to a fancy steak house and ordering what I want without even caring about the prices

    • @HeyItsAvi90
      @HeyItsAvi90 5 місяців тому +2

      @@fun2badult Good for you, people have different levels, some would say choosing a ferrari

    • @JudgeyJudgeyable
      @JudgeyJudgeyable 4 місяці тому

      This is me in the produce aisle

  • @louis3586
    @louis3586 Рік тому +108

    I have been good with money since I first started working at 16. At that age, I didn’t spend a dime. At one point my parents were encouraging me to treat myself and go somewhere to eat. I started a Roth IRA when I was 17 with the money I didn’t spend when I was 16. Then I started investing when I turned 18 but now I’m 20 and I’ve had some set backs in which I got suckered into materialistic items. I’m trying to break out of that habit although I’m not off the walls with spending but I had a goal this year to reach $25k in investments by the end of this year and I already crushed my goal by $1.5k in September. I plan on leaving that money there and never touching it until it’s time for me to retire.

    • @leisure057blank3
      @leisure057blank3 Рік тому +2

      That’s great!

    • @KingCzar29
      @KingCzar29 Рік тому +3

      Good luck! My vice is updating technology. That's the only time I spend real money. New phone every year and smart watch and head phones. Senseless spending. Trying to make 2024 the year I keep the same phone without an upgrade

    • @LoomerCuber
      @LoomerCuber Рік тому +1

      Good luck bro sounds like your off to a good start I’m also 20 and that’s just makes me happy that people my age are doing great. Hope you keep it up

    • @andrewsherrillmusic
      @andrewsherrillmusic Рік тому +1

      Bravo!

    • @aaron___6014
      @aaron___6014 Рік тому +3

      You should treat yourself and enjoy your youth. You only get one chance and a fat bank account that keeps getting fatter won't add much to your security or happiness.

  • @thomaskelly6472
    @thomaskelly6472 Рік тому +10

    I've become wealthy by doing all the things you've mentioned including living frugally below your means. Even though I retired at 39 and now am 67 it is so ingrained in me to live within my means I cant stop even though quite unnecessary!

  • @RaymondKeen.
    @RaymondKeen. 2 місяці тому +526

    Nobody can become financially successful overnight. They put in background work but we tend to see the finished part. Fear is a dangerous component, hindering us from taking bold steps we need in other to reach our goals. you have to contend with inflation, recession, decisions from the Feds and all. I was able to increase my portfolio by $289k in months. You have to seek for help in the right places.

    • @BellamyGriffin19
      @BellamyGriffin19 2 місяці тому +2

      I think it's not always about fear, Sometimes realistic factors discourage people from reaching their goals in life. For instance, I've tried investing in the stock market several times but always got discouraged by fluctuations of stock value

    • @KarenLavia
      @KarenLavia 2 місяці тому +3

      This is the problem! Most times people with little or no knowledge of the stock market try investing by themselves. It once happened to me, then I learned my lesson and contacted a US-based finance consultant and everything changed. In in the first quarter of this year i made $370k and counting.

    • @ChristianKelv
      @ChristianKelv 2 місяці тому +4

      Glad to have stumbled on this conversation. Please can you leave the info of your investment advisor here? I’m in dire need for one.

    • @KarenLavia
      @KarenLavia 2 місяці тому +3

      Certainly, there are a handful of experts in the field. I've experimented with a few over the past years, but I've stuck with Melissa Terri Swayne for about five years now, and her performance has been consistently impressive.She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.

    • @JohnSmith060
      @JohnSmith060 2 місяці тому +3

      She appears to be well-educated and well-read. I ran a Google search on her name and came across her website… thank you for sharing.

  • @randommemebean686
    @randommemebean686 2 місяці тому +1

    Honestly thank you for this video. It's eye opening. I feel better and I need to stop comparing my self to others. Shits not healthy.

  • @monteeposey4255
    @monteeposey4255 Рік тому +12

    I enjoy your channel! Finally, after I turned 50… My financial sense kicked in. I don’t have a car payment. I don’t have any credit card debt and I have enough savings. If something went down, I could take care of it. Would love to have some information on ways to improve your wealth after the age of 55. Unfortunately I have gotten started pretty late but I’m on the right track I think.

  • @vmd0734
    @vmd0734 5 місяців тому +7

    Dang. Watching videos like this make me feel so proud of how well I’m doing at 33. Got my first off-the-books job at 12 years old (of my own volition and no one forced me, of course), and have always tried to make good decisions with my money. I have 2 cash savings accounts and one Roth IRA that I should be maxing out for the year within the next 2 months. Watching this video had a kind of effect like “well duh, doesn’t everyone do this?” 😊 Go us!

    • @MKULTRA_Victim_
      @MKULTRA_Victim_ 2 місяці тому +1

      Off the books Job at 12 is crazy. You’re a certified hustler lol

  • @insertrandomnamehere764
    @insertrandomnamehere764 5 місяців тому +9

    I'm doing great! I have my very own cardboard box and an overpass.

  • @christopherhughes7970
    @christopherhughes7970 Рік тому +41

    As a high income family we have a lot of friends in very expensive houses. While we bought a nice house we bought well within our means and did a 15 year mortgage so we could afford investment properties and have our mortgage paid off by the time our kids go to college. Just bought our second property cash with all the money we havent been paying towards a huge mortgage like our friends/coworkers.

    • @MaSa-bp5qe
      @MaSa-bp5qe 9 місяців тому +1

      Time vs money. Some want more money and are happy living life below their means. Others see that their time on earth is finite and would prefer living it luxury.

    • @Peglegkickboxer
      @Peglegkickboxer 7 місяців тому

      Investment properties are not really the best way to go; it's pretty risky. Better off putting those six figures into ETFs

    • @samdekker90
      @samdekker90 24 дні тому

      ​@@Peglegkickboxerinvestment properties are fine if you know what you're doing

    • @Kelly_Ben
      @Kelly_Ben 19 днів тому

      ​@@MaSa-bp5qeis it luxury having to work till 65+, likely at a job you don't enjoy? You're right in that time is important... I'm making sacrifices now, living comfortably but FAR from luxury, so that I can retire by 55, and REALLY enjoy my time!

  • @striperkid
    @striperkid Рік тому +5

    I have (2) close friends who we openly talk financials with. We all push one another and offer advice on financial issues. We try to keep a low profile to outsiders as we build wealth.

  • @pinkboirichy
    @pinkboirichy Рік тому +9

    Thanks for making this video and putting it in perspective, it's always hard to see everything you've accomplished when you're in the weeds!

  • @jpphd5685
    @jpphd5685 Рік тому +13

    I have always been good with money. Saving, living below my means, mostly spending on what I need vs what I want etc. Switching into high gear because I want to FIRE at 60, just turned 53 yesterday. So I have a lot to do… My thing now is I have to learn how to be patient and remember I am working towards a mid-long term goal. And not look at the bank accounts every week. Especially in the beginning, doing things differently since August.

    • @nicolejennings8389
      @nicolejennings8389 Рік тому +1

      I look at bank accounts daily, but I used to be a bank teller. Just a habit to keep me updated on changes.

  • @michaelswami
    @michaelswami Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this. I got incredibly lucky to be born where I was. On this day of thanks, I am thankful for that.

  • @lolley1100
    @lolley1100 Рік тому +7

    About the comparison ordeal. Work in a luxury dealership such as mercedes, bmw, Audi etc. You’ll quickly realize you make more money than the vast majority of it’s clientele. The actual wealthy clientele who buys the $150k+ models still tend to pick up groceries in “regular traffic” vehicles. Not always the case, but it’s a strong trend. Food for thought!

  • @marklechadores5574
    @marklechadores5574 Рік тому +11

    I have most of those signs but the path is still rocky so I have to stay consistent.

  • @Willywillscheng
    @Willywillscheng Рік тому +126

    At 42, I've come to realize that money is a tool. I’ve worked so hard over the years to realize that if you don’t make money work for you, you can’t experience true freedom. I’m glad I found that out although it was later in life, but that marked the turning point in my finances.

    • @samuraitadpole5459
      @samuraitadpole5459 Рік тому

      I'm glad I came to this conclusion at 23, I don't want to have a lot of money that's less valuable

    • @Willywillscheng
      @Willywillscheng Рік тому +3

      Well, I've gotten into a plethora of assets with $73k spread across stocks (options and futures) for the short term and Roth IRA, index funds, and ETFs, for the long term. I've been investing with help from a pro fund manager, Herman W Jonas who oversees my investments. Now I sit back and reap my dividends while I just reinvest at intervals.

    • @Vikturneer
      @Vikturneer Рік тому

      @@Willywillscheng Do not forget that prices can be erratic, rising and declining quickly, often in relation to companies' policies, which individual investors do not influence.

    • @Friedman323
      @Friedman323 Рік тому +1

      I tried getting into stocks myself some time last month and lost a ton of money as I was ill-advised. Can you please direct me to him as I’d like to hear from an expert?

    • @brhoden
      @brhoden Рік тому +3

      No idea who you are, but I'm really happy you've come to that realization! I'm 31 and just came to that realization a year ago. I hope life gets easier and more meaningful for you here on out, my friend.

  • @passiveincomeadventures
    @passiveincomeadventures Рік тому +11

    We recently retired early on passive income, yet we feel we are still not doing well financially! I'm not sure if we'll ever feel we've "arrived!" But that's what makes the adventure more interesting, always ways to improve and grow

  • @fixedG
    @fixedG Рік тому +4

    The point about conflating wealth and social status is well put. Your example on cars is especially pertinent because not only is there the same old "keeping up with the Jones's" angle to it that's more prevalent than ever, aspiring influencers themselves might also be lured by the idea that it's not a purchase, it's an investment because they'll be able to make monetized content for it. But time and time again, we've seen the monetization of content is not a mature, well-established business and it's subject to drastic changes outside of the creator's control.

  • @cliftonixs
    @cliftonixs Рік тому +15

    If you do not worry about the price of everyday things, you are doing financially well. It baffles me that eggs increase by a dollar gets national news coverage and everyone complains, but those same folks are willing to purchase $40k car an hour after they walk into a dealership.

    • @_MoneyMike_
      @_MoneyMike_ 10 місяців тому +2

      Or it can mean that you’re financially irresponsible

    • @goldenknightsfanatic
      @goldenknightsfanatic 3 місяці тому

      Yup

    • @randomdude3066
      @randomdude3066 2 місяці тому +2

      Based on the metrics in the video I'm doing very well and yet I'm still worried about the price of everyday things.

    • @randomdude3066
      @randomdude3066 2 місяці тому

      I am definitely not interested in purchasing a 40K car either though.

    • @Valmontst
      @Valmontst 2 місяці тому +1

      And the most eye opening part is that $40K is about the cheapest price that you can pay for an average new vehicle these days!

  • @2bfrank657
    @2bfrank657 4 місяці тому +2

    Excellent point about money becoming boring. I've always been fairly restrained with my spending, and this has led to me being in a good position financially. Once in a blue moon though, I'll splash out on a nice toy of some sort. When I do this, it reminds me that "hey, this money stuff and what it can buy is pretty sweet, I should get more of it". The occasional treat incentivises earning and careful financial management.

  • @tool.follower2813
    @tool.follower2813 Рік тому +3

    I do agree with all of the recommendations. I personally highly suggest the mantra of save first, then spend what's leftover. My finances/wealth substantially improved after I could calculate my budget to know how much of my paycheck I CAN save. Then SAVED it immediately when paid. That really helped fight away the urge to spend what I see in my accounts as I walked past any shiny objects.

  • @FrancisofMaine
    @FrancisofMaine Рік тому +9

    This makes me feel way better about my situation. Thanks for the template. I don't want to spend money on a budget app that cost money and is linked to my account(s). I meet all these criteria, very healthy nest 🥚 egg, 0 debt 📈, and a some what diverse portfolio. None of the warning signs.Slowly but steadily growing my networth. This got my sub. Thank you Humphrey.

  • @franciscofonturbel9639
    @franciscofonturbel9639 Місяць тому

    Thanks for such useful information! An inspiring video not only about how to be financially healthy but how to live a simple life without worrying about debts and trying to appear wealthy

  • @markmedica5945
    @markmedica5945 8 місяців тому +2

    Wow .. I'm doing better than I thought. This video totally changed my mood. I love ur content

  • @seanster04
    @seanster04 8 місяців тому +35

    I love being very frugal and am very proud of it.

  • @ZackGoFast
    @ZackGoFast Рік тому +8

    In my third year of six figure earnings. Still drive a spraypainted 96 toyota corolla. Bought it for 1200 two years ago. Will continue to drive it untill the wheels fall off. I regularly get looked down on for my car but i could not care less what others think. Ive drove for two years on what most people spend on a car payment in a month or two. The extra goes into my roth ira.

    • @shailee9762
      @shailee9762 Рік тому

      I used to drive a 1997 Toyota Corolla. I learned that people pity me and more willing to help me if I have car problems. People helped me change the car tires when I had a flat. They didn’t know that I made 6 figures a year.

    • @HermanWillems
      @HermanWillems Рік тому

      90k is not six figure.

  • @ArtArcanus
    @ArtArcanus Місяць тому

    i like talking about finances and goals, not to compare myself to others, but because i'm really excited about projects i'm working on. discussing plans for the future helps me keep on track to achieve those things. i'm 44 now and probably could have retired last year but i'm working on finally setting up my forever home. So - back to budgeting and mapping out those renovations. i'm actually really giddy about fixing the place up, which helps me focus while slogging through the boring months of pinching pennies to make it all happen.

  • @spencerbrady2425
    @spencerbrady2425 18 днів тому +1

    I love this quote: “If you want something, you have to be willing to feel it’s opposite.”
    If you want to be physically stronger, you have to be okay with feeling weak relative to the weights you pick up.
    If you want to be emotionally secure, you have to be willing to talk about and address your insecurities.
    If you want to be smart, you have to be willing to feel dumb while you learn new things.
    lastly,
    If you want to have money in the future you have to be willing to feel poor today and not spend what you have.

  • @TheRustedPixel
    @TheRustedPixel Рік тому +5

    None of my bills surprise me but I did get a recent surprise bill to pay. My dog developed diabetes and very soon went blind. To pay for eye surgery for a dog and to keep her diabetes under control forced myself and my partner to adjust and prepare for these new expenses. Luckily, we had plenty in an emergency fund to pay for the operation and we're replenishing our savings fund again.

  • @ahmedashirov1927
    @ahmedashirov1927 5 місяців тому

    Thanks

  • @arcaneteresa
    @arcaneteresa Рік тому +6

    This is so helpful! I’ve learned to much from your channel, and am finally getting my financial life together.

  • @darleneatkinson3906
    @darleneatkinson3906 Рік тому +4

    Humphrey, enjoy this video, in 2014 I begin tracking my spending habits, I can see I improve
    and my accounts goes up every month I actually have and habit to see how much I gain month after month it continually goes up so far, That makes me feel happy. Have and excellent week.

  • @randxalthor
    @randxalthor Рік тому +61

    Great video! One important note is that 4% is not a retirement withdrawal rate for perpetuity. It's for 30 years with a 95% rate of success. The numbers came from the Trinity study.
    A long/early retirement means living off of about 3% per year in order to succeed.

    • @humphrey
      @humphrey  Рік тому +23

      you are spot on, thanks for clarifying for me, i may have been too brash with what i said there

    • @jasonbroom7147
      @jasonbroom7147 Рік тому +3

      IRL, using a pretty simple bucket system, 4% is still VERY much a feasible withdrawal rate. In fact, the current 10-year T-bill is returning almost 5%, so unless you're calculating in a ton of inflation into your initial 3% withdrawal rate, you're leaving a lot of money out of your potential retirement spending. The long-term (75+ years) rate of return on the stock market is closer to 12%, but you think you can only take out 3%? Your kids will be glad you felt that way, some day.

    • @prakash.srn.17
      @prakash.srn.17 Рік тому

      @@jasonbroom7147you’d still have to pay tax on that t bill unless you’re pulling out of a roth. So 3% is still a decent benchmark

    • @18_rabbit
      @18_rabbit Рік тому

      @@jasonbroom7147 no such thing as looking at the stock mkt on a 75 yr time span/historical. That is meaningless.

    • @phillips8366
      @phillips8366 Рік тому +3

      Agreed, Jason. The author of the Trinity Study even says that 4% is as safe as it gets. I think some people are a bit too cautious, but to each their own.

  • @lidattruong1105
    @lidattruong1105 Рік тому +11

    You can't use the world as a comparison when your living expenses are much higher. It really is region dependent. Also, comparing to the American average isn't great if the average American is struggling.

    • @ordinaryhuman5645
      @ordinaryhuman5645 Рік тому +2

      The average American has so many luxuries and safety nets that they have forgotten what struggling actually looks like.

  • @thomashuang8401
    @thomashuang8401 Рік тому +4

    I've def been there myself thinking im not doing that well, but with no debt and a ton of investments and pretty solid career I think im doing ok overall

  • @donaldwayne7023
    @donaldwayne7023 26 днів тому +853

    There are lots of mixed opinions about stocks and there projection in the next coming years, I aim for short term solid gains from market correction and I'd definitely jump on the boat if I knew a thing or two about day-trading. I'm just looking for the right moves to grow and hedge my stagnant reserve of $490k from inflation.

    • @debbygradley25
      @debbygradley25 26 днів тому +2

      Avoid hasty decisions based on short-term swings. Prioritize patience and a long-term perspective, and most importantly, seek financial advice to make educated purchasing and selling decisions.

    • @Angelinacortez495
      @Angelinacortez495 26 днів тому +1

      Several individuals minimize the importance of counsel until their own feelings become overwhelming. A few summers ago, following a protracted divorce, I needed a significant push to keep my firm afloat. I looked for licensed advisors and found someone with the highest qualifications. She has contributed to my reserve increasing from $235k to $690k despite inflation.

    • @EthanBrown_23
      @EthanBrown_23 26 днів тому +1

      This is definitely considerable! think you could suggest any professional/advisors i can get on the phone with? i'm in dire need of proper portfoIlo allocation

    • @Angelinacortez495
      @Angelinacortez495 26 днів тому +1

      "Laurelyn Gross Pohlmeier," a well-known authority in this field. I would recommend looking into her credentials more because she has a great deal of expertise and is a great resource for anybody looking for advice on how to navigate the financial market.

    • @JenniferDavis7630
      @JenniferDavis7630 26 днів тому

      She appears to be well-educated and well-read. I ran an online search on her name and came across her website; thank you for sharing.

  • @takyiyakvsi
    @takyiyakvsi Рік тому +4

    I'm glad I found you. Keep up the good work.

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani
    @Courtney-Alice-Gargani Рік тому +445

    I don’t feel I’m doing well. I’m building it quietly. My dad raised me not to brag about your wealth. I am frugal.

    • @humphrey
      @humphrey  Рік тому +92

      If you're commenting on vidoes like this all the time im sure you are more aware than others! which is the first step

    • @youtubesucks8024
      @youtubesucks8024 Рік тому +26

      My dad didn’t even raise me

    • @leinadliu5337
      @leinadliu5337 Рік тому +9

      Yeah I'm probably doing better than you

    • @sw6118
      @sw6118 Рік тому +1

      Good for you! By living well, within your means, you have more options to keep or change jobs, where you live, etc. Getting bang for your buck becomes a game. You might like the book “Your Money or Your Life” by Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin.

    • @herbankidd
      @herbankidd Рік тому +3

      Being frugal is for poor people

  • @joshknight8973
    @joshknight8973 8 місяців тому +2

    Had this talk with a coworker. Many coworkers always borrowing money for bills. I’m just thankful I have said the hostess “can’t, I’m broke”

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 3 місяці тому +1

      Hostess?

    • @joshknight8973
      @joshknight8973 3 місяці тому

      @@genxx2724I’m just thankful I have not said the words, “can’t, im broke”

  • @soorensuroosh
    @soorensuroosh 4 місяці тому +4

    I just feel lucky that I can make rent on time and cook healthy food at home. Good enough for me. Moving from one of the wealthiest states to one of the poorest has made me realize how lucky I am.

  • @soliarv
    @soliarv 11 місяців тому +1

    I downloaded you budget/expenses excel file and love it! Thank you!

  • @clauthequeen
    @clauthequeen 5 місяців тому +3

    I know I’m doing good financially coz I plan to work til I’m 80 not because I need the money… but because I love my profession.❤

  • @patrickf3119
    @patrickf3119 Рік тому +2

    i only use my CCs for the convenience. I only put on the cards what I can afford to pay off each month. I am fortunate that this has continued to be the way I live even in retirement. I also stopped comparing myself to others. Just care about what I have and how it allows me to live the retirement life I planned for years ago. Anyway, just enjoyed this video. Thanks for what you do.

  • @Madchris8828
    @Madchris8828 Рік тому +37

    Yeah i have to keep reminding myself that though im nowhere near my investment goal im making progress overall in the right direction. Sometimes we all want to be at the finish line, life rarely works that way. Great video 👍

    • @humphrey
      @humphrey  Рік тому

      Nice, exactly Chris!

    • @jmc8076
      @jmc8076 Рік тому +1

      Life is a marathon not race. It’s also not a success only path. We’ve been conditioned to compare and compete. Dont.

    • @ChosenOneDan
      @ChosenOneDan Рік тому

      over $1000 a month for a car payment!? yea I can see why people are broke lol. my mortgage payments are less than $1000 a month.... live poor and you'll be rich tbh.@@humphrey

  • @touchthebeard7577
    @touchthebeard7577 Рік тому +2

    This is so useful. I wish I was taught this at school. Thank you!

  • @JeffGrubich
    @JeffGrubich Рік тому +1

    This spreadsheet is absolutely genius. Thank you for this! Subscribed!

  • @backliteyes
    @backliteyes Рік тому +6

    I know that I’m doing well financially but I feel like I’m falling behind because my income has gone up maybe 10% over the last 3 years but the cost of living has gone up 30% in that time frame due to high inflation.

  • @Zulonix
    @Zulonix Рік тому +16

    The only debt I’ve had since 1985 was 5 years for a house and another 5 years after buying a condo.
    I’ve always hated debt with a passion and have always lived below my means.

  • @eiji81
    @eiji81 Рік тому +3

    Great vid, it really puts things in perspective when you have metrics to look at.

  • @blaquopaque
    @blaquopaque 9 місяців тому +477

    I have been self managing my portfolio for the past 5 years and also have $1m in assets under management. I have underperformed the past 2 years and this has got me worried, Are there anyways to turn this around or should i sell off some assets?

    • @Curbalnk
      @Curbalnk 9 місяців тому +5

      Avoid tax complications; consult a financial advisor to restructure your portfolio instead of selling off assets.

    • @greekbarrios
      @greekbarrios 9 місяців тому +2

      Agreed, my portfolio is well-matched for every market season yielding 85% from early last year to date. I and my advisr are working on a 7 figure ballpark goal, tho this could take another year. IMO, financial advisors are the most sought-after professionals after doctors.

    • @kansasmile
      @kansasmile 9 місяців тому

      How do I reach out to a financial advisor, my portfolio has been struggling since 2022 and I’ve been holding on by the skin of my teeth.

    • @Galworld761
      @Galworld761 8 місяців тому +8

      How is that possible? Equity index funds have been up. Last year was a 20% return year. Get off social media and stop shopping for advisors on UA-cam. Clearly, you are taking bad advice.

    • @PurposeTravel
      @PurposeTravel 8 місяців тому

      ​@@Galworld761these are scammers/bots. They are all over financially-centered UA-camr's video comments. It's terrible. I just report them as I see them.

  • @xbjrrtc
    @xbjrrtc 6 місяців тому +3

    Me, getting an unexpected windfall: Teehee, now I can put more into my HYSA and/or investment account 🤭
    It's taken YEARS to get to this point. I used to spend like crazy and rack up credit card debt. I'm so glad I improved my financial habits

  • @CCCookieCia
    @CCCookieCia Рік тому +1

    i needed this. thanks!

  • @PatrickLloyd-
    @PatrickLloyd- Рік тому +3

    Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting them in the near future.., I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life!!

    • @Nernst96
      @Nernst96 Рік тому +1

      Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life beause I invested early ahead this time .

  • @Garejoor
    @Garejoor Рік тому +2

    I feel this video needs to be played in a loop at Americana, Glendale, CA

    • @FelixNaim-cc5jm
      @FelixNaim-cc5jm 5 місяців тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yoooooo

    • @Garejoor
      @Garejoor 5 місяців тому

      @@FelixNaim-cc5jmu feel me?

  • @Williamjame444
    @Williamjame444 6 місяців тому +4

    Becoming a good trader takes time and patience. When i first got into trading i was liquidated twice, and lost my entire mortgage deposit. I could have given up, but decided to learn how to trade and put it into practice. 4 years later and i am glad i made that decision.

    • @MizThe
      @MizThe 6 місяців тому

      It seems like there's potential, but caution is warranted. hence I will advice you get yourself a financial advisor that can provide you with entry and exit points

    • @AndreaRoberto-wm3th
      @AndreaRoberto-wm3th 6 місяців тому +2

      As a beginner who don't understand how trading really works and you really want to make profit from it. I will advise you to first start working with an expert

    • @AndreaRoberto-wm3th
      @AndreaRoberto-wm3th 6 місяців тому +3

      Credits goes to " Melissa Elise Robinson" one of the finest portfolio managers in the field. She's widely recognized; you should take a look at her work.

  • @blakemorgan8450
    @blakemorgan8450 Рік тому +2

    Small nitpick, the 4% rule from the Trinity study was only for 30 year periods. If your retirement lasts longer than 30 years, it has a much higher chance of failure. Early retirees should use a lower SWR.

  • @rssmith289
    @rssmith289 Рік тому +2

    Your videos are so well made. I wrote down these points that you made. Thirty years ago I was not doing well but with a little common sense and budgeting (and watching your videos) I remain engaged about money. I never tire about money because we all need it for survival. Thank you for another excellent video.

  • @lawithdominie2687
    @lawithdominie2687 Рік тому +2

    You're so on point. I feel better now w/ my financial situation.

  • @CleverCheetah
    @CleverCheetah 2 місяці тому

    Thanks i am doing financially well constantly relying on my next paycheck

  • @welon17
    @welon17 5 місяців тому

    Right on track! I need to watch my expenses a bit closer though, I could be having more left for month's end

  • @alfredbarrera9617
    @alfredbarrera9617 Рік тому +1

    I completely agree with all the points. I'm doing well on all of them so i feel im on the right path, but i would like to take it to the next level which is finding new ways of income and that requires more like a pro-active approach.
    I'm just starting so my first goal is to reach 100k asap.

  • @ICExCLANx11
    @ICExCLANx11 2 місяці тому

    Thanks Dad ^_^ you really made me feel proud of how I’m doing!
    In all seriousness, this is very helpful

  • @WhiteBoardFinance
    @WhiteBoardFinance Рік тому

    Love the emojis lol 😂 Naval is great, have you read his almanac book?

  • @jacksonbilly9979
    @jacksonbilly9979 Рік тому +2

    I wanna see you do an episode with the money guy show. Your are very clever and I think that will be a great conversation

  • @phyllis2866
    @phyllis2866 Рік тому +1

    always great to put things into perspective -- thank you for this!! much needed.

  • @Biditchoun
    @Biditchoun Рік тому +4

    I guess I'm doing well financially since I don't signal my wealth, it's totally not because I can't afford it ; I also always reach my target by having my account in the negative after the 450€ rent and around 100€ of food per month (haven't bought any clothe for five years or anything like that), gotta love being a student without being able to have a job

  • @johneliss
    @johneliss Місяць тому +186

    I lost over $80k when everything started to tank. Not because I was in an exchange that went belly up. I was just stupid to hold and because that's what everyone said. I'm still responsible. It just taught me to be a better investor now that I understand more of what could go wrong. It took me over two years of being in the market, I'm really grateful I found one source to recover my money, at least $10k profits weekly. Thanks Charlotte Miller.

    • @nickmcdonarld
      @nickmcdonarld Місяць тому

      She is my family's personal broker and also a personal broker in many families I'm United States, she's a licensed broker and a FINRA AGENT in United states

    • @HighlightsSerieATIM
      @HighlightsSerieATIM Місяць тому

      The very first time we tried, we invested $1000 and after a week, we received $5500. That really helped us a lot to pay up our bills.

    • @ClarenceFerland
      @ClarenceFerland Місяць тому

      I'm surprised that you just mentioned and recommended Charlotte Miller, I met her at a conference in 2018 and we have been working together ever since.

    • @DianaLinden-l6q
      @DianaLinden-l6q Місяць тому

      I'm new at this, please how can I reach her?

    • @AdamKotlicki
      @AdamKotlicki Місяць тому

      I just withdrew my profits a week ago, To be honest it was an amazing feeling when the profits hits my wallet I wish I could reinvest but, too much bills

  • @mbenson9
    @mbenson9 Рік тому +1

    At 2:31 the captioning for Naval says "that doens't fulfill you" instead of "that doesn't fulfill you" which unfortunately invalidates the entire video. I don't make the rules

  • @rogue279
    @rogue279 5 місяців тому

    What an awesome beginner guide on how to a responsible adult, thanks man 😂

  • @Andrew-zs5tc
    @Andrew-zs5tc 8 днів тому

    One possible correction. At 10:04 you say that it is a warning sign if you ever say "How did I ever spend this much money on XY or Z". I propose that this may be an indication that you are on top of your finances. I say that all the time. I scrutinize our spending and it bothers me when we spend money, especially, when reviewing the totals. I would argue that the opposite may be a bigger warning. If you never look at your spending or your spending never bothers you, you likely have a bigger problem.

  • @mrgreenfull3897
    @mrgreenfull3897 2 місяці тому +1

    If you are poor, you will always care what your neighbours think.
    I remember when my toxic neighbour talked on corners and saying I was poor (my old car, my simple clothes etc.). Few years after I bought an apartment in the same building she desperatly wanted. She is very quite now, looking at floor when passing by me. Horrible type of people...

  • @Neutral_1zed
    @Neutral_1zed 2 місяці тому

    1:10
    Reputation and Status are not the same thing. Work for a good reputation, not a higher status. Good reputation leads to more opportunities, higher status can also bring opportunities such as collaborators but it can also bring some hyenas.

  • @lukenukem1207
    @lukenukem1207 Рік тому +1

    I’ve observed that a lot of wealthy people drive Hondas. Like odysseys and ridgelines. Genuinely good cars for reasonable prices that hold value.

  • @JMRN22
    @JMRN22 Рік тому +1

    You're doing a great job!!! I really like Hump Days. 🎉

  • @jenswurm
    @jenswurm 2 місяці тому

    A few houses down someone did an amazing job with a fixer-upper and turned it into a small mansion with a huge, beautiful yard. Good for them. Also good for me, because now my neighborhood is a bit prettier than before.
    No envy, it's a win/win either way.

  • @samsmusichub
    @samsmusichub 9 місяців тому

    Thanks.

  • @chrisbluebird5037
    @chrisbluebird5037 Рік тому +88

    I recently inherited almost $500k. I REALLY need to make this money work for me, and not just disappear over time. I've been scrambling for somewhere to put the money, where I can make an effort to use the gains to pay bills so I can quit my job or should force early retirement. All roads have pointed to the financial market of some sort which is a good idea buh where else should I put money besides the financial market? We have a 13% RPI rate so cash is tough.

    • @selenajack2036
      @selenajack2036 Рік тому +2

      Yep great question and that’s always the one - where would you rather be if you have an option. Personally I’m always invested aside from a small emergency fund. Financial-market for me seem the only way forward with my long time horizon (accrued almost $1.4m in gains since 2020 ) but if you don’t have that fortune of time it’s a tough market out there almost nowhere feels safe! . Just know the risk you're comfortable with . Mistake is expensive

    • @mesutserim1595
      @mesutserim1595 Рік тому +3

      I fully agree; I'm 60 years old and recently retired with approximately 1.2 million in outside retirement funds, no debt, and very few dollars in retirement funds in comparison to my portfolio balance over the last three years. To be honest, the financial advisor's role can only be ignored, not dismissed. Therefore do your research to get a reputable one.

    • @kaylawood9053
      @kaylawood9053 Рік тому

      A million dollars in profit is a fantastic achievement; how can I contact this advisør of yours?

    • @mesutserim1595
      @mesutserim1595 Рік тому +3

      Do your due diligence and opt for one that has tactics to help your portfolio continue consistent and steady growth. "HEATHER LEE LARIONI" is accountable for the success of my portfolio, and I believe she has the qualifications and expertise to accomplish your objectives.

    • @kaylawood9053
      @kaylawood9053 Рік тому +1

      Thanks for sharing, I just looked her up on the web and I would say she really has an impressive background in investing. I will write her an e-mail shortly.

  • @angelomarcustodio4898
    @angelomarcustodio4898 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the video…. It made me look at things another way and it felt great!

  • @kaamilm02
    @kaamilm02 Рік тому +2

    Sounds corny but since ive been subbed my life is actually turning better

  • @Zaerki
    @Zaerki Рік тому +3

    #6 is incredibly important. You'll always be influenced by the Joneses until you recognize and remove that perspective entirely from your brain.

  • @kevincarr5287
    @kevincarr5287 8 місяців тому

    Curious why you don't use some transaction aggregator to track your expenses? There are plenty out there, Quicken Simplifi, Monarch, Rocket Money etc. Seems like you'd benefit

  • @TheSilvercue
    @TheSilvercue 5 місяців тому

    A sign of doing well financially is when you realise the power of compound interest & growth. That is usually when you start calculating it on a spreadsheet, playing with the variables (monthly input and growth %). Then you know.

  • @PlanetNumeracy
    @PlanetNumeracy Рік тому

    Why has Mr. Yang never appeared in my feed? Great content!

  • @EastWood2004
    @EastWood2004 3 місяці тому

    A Porsche dealership said roughly 50% of buyers used the financing. Over 90% of Toyota pickup buyers are using the financing. I am sure majority of Honda owners pay monthy repayment. .

  • @antro1194
    @antro1194 2 місяці тому +1

    1:35 even if you had cas to buy lambo it would still be better to finance it difference is between is is smart financing or just im eating mac and cheese for 10 years type