I'm Leaving My Cottage - I was not ready for this

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  • @TheCottageFairy
    @TheCottageFairy  2 роки тому +863

    It's all happening sooner than I expected and so I am not yet quite ready, but I'm doing my best to take deep breaths and prepare myself mentally for the change. New adventures await! Empty house tour coming in a couple weeks. Thank you all for your kindness.
    So much sadness on the news, please take of yourselves and be kind whenever possible. So important to cultivate love, especially when things seem dark ❤️ hope this little video can offer some moments of peace.

    • @morriganrimmer1532
      @morriganrimmer1532 2 роки тому +20

      Wishing you all the good health, happiness and love in your new home!
      Allow time, for this is a hard transition, but know you are doing it to be happier in the end
      Hoping you are not finding the news too down dragging and allow time offline to reflect and reconnect 😊
      Sending love from England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

    • @antoniuserickkurniawan1946
      @antoniuserickkurniawan1946 2 роки тому +11

      I hope you soon make another vlog...I'll pray for your long life, healthy, happy and more success in the future...Love you full from Jakarta, Indonesia ❤❤❤

    • @ggalaxy9065
      @ggalaxy9065 2 роки тому +9

      Wishing you a smooth transition to your new home! Btw, how's your sweet bunny, Mr Darcy?

    • @shortsss7463
      @shortsss7463 2 роки тому +3

      Wishing you a happy and peaceful life ahead!sending love🍾💓

    • @Day-Zee62
      @Day-Zee62 2 роки тому +5

      I’m excited to see the new changes in your life. You are going to be just fine. Thank you for your strength💪🏼Cuidate mucho🙏🏼🦋

  • @LisaIsabelle
    @LisaIsabelle 2 роки тому +829

    Whoever gets lucky enough to be the next tenant of this little cottage will surely be feeling all the love, serenity and peace you have imprinted into it's walls. 🥰

    • @sarahsayanything9776
      @sarahsayanything9776 2 роки тому +25

      Indeed 💚 I’d love to find a place like this when I move back to Washington 🏔 🌲

    • @smaxrob
      @smaxrob 2 роки тому +14

      Agreed. I would happily live in it. Especially after it housed her calm presence. I imagine it feels so peaceful having had such a kind soul inhabit it. I am used to living very far from town so it would feel like a hop skip and a jump for me to get to anywhere with a gas station in under an hour. And a town with a book store would be a dream 🤩

    • @errollleggo447
      @errollleggo447 2 роки тому +2

      Well said Lisa!

    • @kakaakemi678
      @kakaakemi678 2 роки тому +2

      💜💜

    • @amteo7107
      @amteo7107 2 роки тому +2

      I couldnt agree more

  • @MoonlightCottageASMR
    @MoonlightCottageASMR 2 роки тому +348

    I thoroughly enjoyed your videos in this place, it was a wonderful journey to watch and I'm sure the future ones will be as enchanting as they've been during these 2 years. I wish you the best for the next steps, knowing you'll create a magical dwelling ! 🥰

    • @philomenaward1833
      @philomenaward1833 2 роки тому +5

      Thankyou for inviting me on your very personal journey, it has inspired and encouraged me, it has also come at a time in my life where change and decision making are needing courage and faith more than ever before. I thank you for sharing the many faceted aspects of your living in your cottage and engaging with your world, I has been a truely sane and beautiful journey to share. Thanking you from deep in my heart, perhaps you may find out how much you have touched and how many you have reached with your generous self.Thankyou Philomena in Africa

    • @am13007
      @am13007 2 роки тому +1

      Aww I love seeing you here!

    • @LaureninGermany
      @LaureninGermany 2 роки тому +5

      Omgoodness - I just looked at your channel after seeing your intriguing name. What a find! I shall be tuning in tonight, it looks like a treasure trove of imaginative beautiful videos!

    • @Anja22_13
      @Anja22_13 2 роки тому +4

      Hi there, I love Paola's videos and I also watch and really enjoy your ASMR channel - how nice to see you here as well. Greetings from New Zealand 🙂

  • @myotheraccountonothe
    @myotheraccountonothe 2 роки тому +181

    Keep the little box with all its timeless treasures . Someday you will show them to your children and grandchildren. They will cherish the little box 😊

    • @HerCupOfSIMPLE
      @HerCupOfSIMPLE 2 роки тому +2

      That is so true😍

    • @patriciacarlyle9456
      @patriciacarlyle9456 2 роки тому +6

      Make it into a little fairy diorama within the box using the acorn cups etc❣️

  • @lauribailey5756
    @lauribailey5756 2 роки тому +21

    I'm so proud of you for setting limits on how much you share with us. Having a public life does not mean the public owns you.

    • @amberhawke
      @amberhawke 2 роки тому +3

      Agreed. And on the same note, if it takes you (Paola) a month or more before you can create another video, that is fine. We as the audience are not due anything from you, you have a new start to worry about. Take your time.

  • @viviancardenas4565
    @viviancardenas4565 2 роки тому +196

    We’re going to miss your sweet little cottage!🥺❤️

    • @shortsss7463
      @shortsss7463 2 роки тому +7

      Definitely 😢

    • @mariaetheridge8343
      @mariaetheridge8343 2 роки тому +21

      I'm pretty sure the new home will become fairy-like soon! It's the way Paola lives her life and bravo to that!

    • @cbenji2
      @cbenji2 2 роки тому +7

      I personally can’t wait to see the journey to make her new “location” into her “home”

    • @viviancardenas4565
      @viviancardenas4565 2 роки тому +8

      @@mariaetheridge8343 Very true, her new home will be even more magical🧚

  • @jayb3931
    @jayb3931 2 роки тому +147

    This couldn't have come at a better time for me. Today would have been my daughter's birthday. All day I have tried to be brave, singing her Happy Birthday and refusing to cry. I have just sold my house and moving back to my home country. I am so excited to be going home but everything I do hurts, every decision I make is questioned, every minute step forwards feels like betrayal... and yet I must. If I had gone first I would want my daughter to be flying high and loving life, taking every opportunity before her, seizing every moment. So to honour that I am trying to do the same. Seeing your vlog today reminds me, that however hard, life goes on, and so it should. Thank you x

    • @stephaniebrogdon4024
      @stephaniebrogdon4024 2 роки тому +11

      Sending you wishes for comfort and strength today🤍

    • @paulamewies4798
      @paulamewies4798 2 роки тому +7

      Lighting a candle for you 🕯️💕

    • @nikkihines3652
      @nikkihines3652 2 роки тому +9

      Sending love and light 💡.
      I wish you the best in your journey 🤓

    • @elizabethsteed5661
      @elizabethsteed5661 2 роки тому +5

      Sending you best wishes for your new chapter in your life. so very sorry for the lost of your daughter. stay strong. 🌹

    • @1tlb0k61
      @1tlb0k61 2 роки тому +8

      What a wonderful testimony to & for your daughter, to choose to move forward. May your earnest action toward hope spark and ignite a warm fire of contentment and a life well lived. I am so sorry for your loss ~ hugs

  • @elevationview673
    @elevationview673 2 роки тому +20

    Thank you Paola for sharing your move. Only if you knew how much the cottage fairy has helped with me with my grief over the last year. I know my wife Lynn would’ve loved everything about this channel.

  • @niknoks6387
    @niknoks6387 2 роки тому +20

    I’m 51, I still have momentos from my school like a school tie and a signed white shirt, signed by all my friends back then. Some things should always be kept. Strange I still feel 16 in my head, however my body tells me otherwise lol ❤️🇬🇧

  • @BoundingSquirrel
    @BoundingSquirrel 2 роки тому +44

    I can't believe how serene you seem, considering that you're packing, moving house, and suddenly, at that. Bravo, and may you have every happiness in your new life and home.

  • @Theravadinbuto
    @Theravadinbuto 2 роки тому +153

    As the books kept going into the box I was saying “that’s going to be heavy. That’s going to be very heavy.” Because, of course, I’ve done the exact same thing myself 😁

    • @pamelasusanne22
      @pamelasusanne22 2 роки тому +1

      Lol same

    • @janinafisher101
      @janinafisher101 2 роки тому +3

      I think many of us who have "been there, done that" were thinking exactly the same!😊

    • @danicecreager951
      @danicecreager951 2 роки тому +2

      @@janinafisher101 I only did it one time, then quickly learned to use satchels to carry books :-)

    • @janinafisher101
      @janinafisher101 2 роки тому +1

      @@danicecreager951 A really smart idea! We learn quickly!😊

    • @monicalyn15
      @monicalyn15 2 роки тому +2

      Me too! I was saying “Nooooo stop!” Need book boxes with handles and even those get sooo heavy lol

  • @lakemichigan6598
    @lakemichigan6598 2 роки тому +147

    What's difficult about this, besides the actual move itself, is you're voluntarily leaving a place where you've been happy - but given why & to where you're going, plus for whom this is all happening, any sadness you're feeling will be temporary - & quickly replaced with gratitude for this beautiful location's part in all the healing that allowed this wonderful transition to occur.

    • @rimonagale1625
      @rimonagale1625 2 роки тому +4

      So well put!

    • @aussieopalgirl2915
      @aussieopalgirl2915 2 роки тому +1

      It is amazing to have videos of your life in the cottage. I have lived and moved from many places in different countries, but all i have is my memory of these past times. At every place i created a beautiful ambiente. Everytime i have left lots of things behind. New things came to me. I treasure it all. Letting go is a process trusting better things will come. Blessings

    • @lakemichigan6598
      @lakemichigan6598 2 роки тому +2

      @@aussieopalgirl2915 The good news: All the healing that occurred there she gets to take with her - and the rest of the experience, whenever it comes to mind, will always, I think, warm that a whole lot bigger than average heart of hers.

    • @lakemichigan6598
      @lakemichigan6598 2 роки тому +1

      @@nataliewilliams3519 My prediction: Everything's going to turn out even better than expected.

  • @healthybydesignyogi
    @healthybydesignyogi 2 роки тому +23

    This was so sad... I love being in your sweet Cottage. It always made me feel safe and comforted. It was really sad to see you take the cottage apart. It's going to be quite a change for you and I wish you all the best.

  • @simpleextrovert
    @simpleextrovert 2 роки тому +100

    Opportunities will arise, even if you’re not ready for it. ❤️

  • @tairad687
    @tairad687 2 роки тому +34

    Your healing process gently told is great for those in the harsh PTSD world of compartmentalized life events. May we all compost our damaging remnants of things we should move beyond. ❤️

  • @gaellewis
    @gaellewis 2 роки тому +118

    Here in Australia we are currently living through the worst floods in our history. While I was fortunate not to lose my home, helping others who have, has been illuminating. From having to let go of precious art to children's school books, family photos, countless mementos that hold sentimental value, has shown me that even in the midst of all the mud and sludge and watter logged helplessness, somehow we find the courage to let go, to give one last look at a treasured item and consign it to the pile of rubble at the front of house after house in street after street in so many towns along our eastern coastline from Brisbane down to Sydney and beyond. The community spirit of helpfulness and commaradiere is what is sustaining us all. Thank you for your precious weekly videos. This was exactly what I needed this morning before setting off for another day of helping where needed. 💖

    • @jennymay4720
      @jennymay4720 2 роки тому +5

      God bless and help you all Gael, how heartbreaking.

    • @childofnature-norway
      @childofnature-norway 2 роки тому +5

      Sending you my love and prayers all the way from Norway ❤️

    • @smallboatlife
      @smallboatlife 2 роки тому +6

      I truly wish all the best for everyone there. Australia has had more than its fair share of difficult things in the last few years.

    • @patriciaortega4380
      @patriciaortega4380 2 роки тому +4

      So sorry you & your country are going through this. I have been there too. We lost everything in the Harvey flooding in Houston but still have our home. Even after 4 years our home is still not completely done. So yes it’s hard. My prayers go out to Australia 🙏🏼

    • @FM-qm5xs
      @FM-qm5xs 2 роки тому +3

      The rain has been horrendous. There is mold everywhere in my little shack. I think I am going to spend the whole day cleaning everything.

  • @Jessica_1010
    @Jessica_1010 2 роки тому +54

    This made me a little teary 🥲eyed! The cottage will always be a special memory for you, and all of us💗 can’t wait to see the new place!

    • @1tlb0k61
      @1tlb0k61 2 роки тому +1

      True. I will Miss the cottage too.

  • @lisastratton5145
    @lisastratton5145 2 роки тому +44

    Wishing you every good thing, but will truly miss the sweet serenity of your cottage. 💖

  • @ElizaJames777
    @ElizaJames777 2 роки тому +34

    What a bittersweet goodbye to such a warm and magical space. Something I’ve taken note of when moving with a lot of books is to distribute them in separate boxes with lightweight stuff like pillows, small decor, ect. I’m excited for your new adventure and can’t wait to watch it unfold ❤️ your videos bring so much peace and inspiration! Good luck and best wishes with the move!

  • @kjosephine70
    @kjosephine70 2 роки тому +32

    You showing us your painted box with the acorns and dried leaves reminds me of the scene from my favorite movie Amelie, where the older gentleman cries as he looks through the box of trinkets from his youth (marbles, photos). Such a poignant scene.

    • @mariaetheridge8343
      @mariaetheridge8343 2 роки тому

      Erm.. not wanting to be a know-it-all but I'm pretty sure they are of acorn cups. I think the come from the eucolyptus tree... Keep that box of treasures!!

  • @dehelwig
    @dehelwig 2 роки тому +15

    I found that after my parents died, I felt myself hoarding material items from my childhood home that helped fill the void of their absence. As time went on (and is still going on), I'm able to separate myself from these items easier. By making positive (sometimes risky or difficult/uncomfortable) life choices, and creating and nurturing new and valuable relationships with some extraordinary people, we are able to let go of the past and run happily to the future. Growing pains are necessary and rarely stumble-free. You show great humility and gentle strength in your growth. Sending warm blessings your way as you complete your transition!

  • @dlhccl
    @dlhccl 2 роки тому +66

    Sending you and hubby-to-be lots of luck and joy in your new home! Hugs from N.J. 🤗

  • @lindathompson4784
    @lindathompson4784 2 роки тому +61

    “Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.” -Seneca
    I am so excited for you! Let the new journey begin!! ❤️

    • @Domestikos88
      @Domestikos88 2 роки тому

      where did she go? back to city life?

    • @amg9163
      @amg9163 2 роки тому +1

      _"Closing Time"_
      (title of a song that uses that quote in the lyrics)

  • @LaSorciereFeuillue
    @LaSorciereFeuillue 2 роки тому +33

    Your cottage adventures kept me going as I wound up 27 years in Early Childhood in a too busy workplace with less than efficient or trustworthy management.
    I packed up my cottage a month ago to move 2,000 km to Cairns in Tropical North Queensland to finish my nursing degree.
    I remember taking down the pictures I bought from your etsy store!
    They are carefully stored and waiting patiently for me to find a new home. Leap of faith with love guiding actions and decisions; and lots of busses and inspections!!
    Experience your rite of passage, as I know you will 💞

    • @emy3800
      @emy3800 2 роки тому +1

      How you finding it, abit hot? Iam looooving the summer in Victoria, moved from qld… it’s beautiful here

    • @LaSorciereFeuillue
      @LaSorciereFeuillue 2 роки тому

      @@emy3800 ooh yeah, I knew it would be but wowsers. Ceiling fan stopped working last week but the pool oh thank Heavens for the pool.
      Occasionally in full PPE for entire AIN shift is also character building but it is the wet tropics.
      How's Victoria treating you?
      Wait for work footy tipping to start!! That's an experience.

  • @moongold9025
    @moongold9025 2 роки тому +2

    I am going to miss your Adorable Fairy Cottage 🧚‍♀️ and your beautiful ways of decorating it.
    Now the time has come for you to spread your Fairy wings and fly off to a new adventure.
    I wish you love and all the best that life has to offer and then some.
    I am looking forward to seeing your new home and the precious Mr. Darcy.

  • @nicoleonfeels
    @nicoleonfeels 2 роки тому +20

    The cottage, and all the memories made in it, will always be with you in spirit 🧚💜

  • @garymason7517
    @garymason7517 2 роки тому +36

    There are things that we can never part with such as books read over and over. Keep what brings you joy. It’s all part of your personality sweet child. Best wishes for your future. Exciting and sad at the same time.

    • @lucycolgan3362
      @lucycolgan3362 2 роки тому

      Beautiful caring kind words Gary Mason

  • @cindygaudet1390
    @cindygaudet1390 2 роки тому +5

    I hope you do well. I am 65 and have moved 28 times as my dad and husband both were cdn military. I guess now even though we are retired we still have wanderlust. It doesn’t bother me to move, Isee it as a challenge to start making a new house a home. I am glad that I am somewhat introvert as find we have less friends as harder these days to meet people but I don’t want many, I have a few stitching friends.

  • @moonwater8089
    @moonwater8089 2 роки тому +15

    I moved out on my own recently. I'm not quite where I want to be in life, but it's going in the right direction and I'm grateful.
    Change is so hard for our minds to process and it can hit you way later than you expect it to, so please take care of yourself if it becomes overwhelming. We'll always be waiting.
    I wish you the very best. Your videos are like tiny breaks amidst the chaos. Thank you.

  • @101beechbum
    @101beechbum 2 роки тому +40

    The part my husband hates the most about moving is all my books.. lol. Smaller boxes for the books will save everyones back.
    💜😄💜

    • @nicola6234
      @nicola6234 2 роки тому

      Just fill boxes with half books and half clothes or linen, that helps 😊

    • @FM-qm5xs
      @FM-qm5xs 2 роки тому +1

      I use reusable shopping bags for moving books. They fit in perfectly and aren't too heavy when filled.

    • @kellyhummingbird
      @kellyhummingbird 2 роки тому

      I stopped collecting books after moving a few times but those are good tips

  • @ylliesh0011
    @ylliesh0011 2 роки тому +38

    I can't wait for a new journey you're about begin as a soon to be wife. Now, I'm imagining everything you might as well be doing in your new home. Please know that as a fan, I'll always cheer for you Paola. Sending love, from Philippines ❣️

  • @N-A-uw5fp
    @N-A-uw5fp 2 роки тому +9

    Whenever I move, I use wine boxes for books. They’re sturdy, have holes on the sides to make carrying them easier, and they don’t let you over pack too many in one box.

  • @orchid3457
    @orchid3457 2 роки тому +17

    Dear, dear fairy, let me wish you the best of luck for the dawning of the spring in your life! May it be an ever lasting , fascinating, beautiful spring! God Bless you and Luke! Love from Sri Lanka!

  • @LaureninGermany
    @LaureninGermany 2 роки тому +9

    Of course you have to move now. It’s snowing. You can’t do this when the weather is good, it’s not allowed by the gods of house-moving.
    For me, leaving my gardens and the birds and other animals that would visit it was always heart wrenching.
    When I have to do something that makes me fearful (if I‘m honest with myself, that’s what I‘m feeling!), I remember what a wise colleague once said to me, when I was worried about something: she said (in German) „Lauren! Habe Mut!“ - Lauren , you should have courage! And I always think, yes, she’s right… I‘m so grateful to her, even though she shocked me at the time. It helps me gather myself when I’m overwhelmed.

  • @lanellehatcher561
    @lanellehatcher561 2 роки тому +1

    Books...... why do they bring us such comfort! In an age of everything electronic..... I still find the feel of a book in my hands brings me such comfort and peace. I think it will always be that way.

  • @instagamrr
    @instagamrr 2 роки тому +20

    You’re not alone either. I’m going through some change I’m not quite ready for too, and that was a wonderful way to describe it - we can handle it, it just came a little sooner than expected

  • @JosephinesDesigns
    @JosephinesDesigns 2 роки тому +1

    Praying all goes very very well. Please keep that lovely box filled with treasures from your childhood. One day your children and grandchildren will love discovering it. And they will count it as a treasure chest from you.
    Love and prayers....k💗

  •  2 роки тому +7

    I like to do small rituals when moving. To let go material stuff, but also habits, emotional states or anything that doesn't serve my highest good and wellbeing anymore. It is an opportunity to let go of the old in order to welcome new energy for growth. How exciting!

  • @emmasallotmentdiaries
    @emmasallotmentdiaries 2 роки тому +10

    Such wise words about change. You're completely right, beautiful things can come from change. Wishing you lots of happiness in your new home, and once again thank you for such a lovely video. I look forward to them so much! xx

  • @lisatiptoes
    @lisatiptoes 2 роки тому +164

    Moving is never easy whether prepared or not. And it is always good to look at what we have and evaluate. Looking forward to seeing what the future holds for you.

    • @malissahyatt2425
      @malissahyatt2425 2 роки тому +1

      My mom said that the thing about moving is you have touch everything in your house. Haha.
      I'm anticipating my own move soon. This is a good one. I'm going home

  • @gwendelyne
    @gwendelyne 2 роки тому +14

    I am so excited for you Paula!! You're right, new adventures await you, and I can't wait to see them 🥰 The universe usually gives us exactly what we need, when we need it ✨

  • @alisoneden
    @alisoneden 2 роки тому +1

    The connection you have with nature is a part of your soul. Who to know this better than our childhood self. Best to you in your journey. ✨💚💎✨

  • @teresamazotti1315
    @teresamazotti1315 2 роки тому +7

    Moving is hard and stressful. Take a lot of deep breaths and meditate. You can do this. You are an awesome woman!! ❤️

  • @majesea
    @majesea 2 роки тому +8

    So cool that you have been True to yourself… your little box shows that … I would keep it as a reminder of who you are and that you have followed the path that is meant for you 💕

  • @laurensheppard5932
    @laurensheppard5932 2 роки тому +8

    The Neverland Box is soooo adorable. I hope you always have a space to keep incalculably precious treasures like that

  • @kayaker9912
    @kayaker9912 2 роки тому +1

    I am a 60 yr old mom of one amazing daughter (21), and have found your videos to be a calming moment in my anxiety riddled life. I am sure part of that calm is the setting and the charming cottage. I, too have two tiny cottages on an island in Maine, though I live in a house with my husband only 8 miles away. My two cottages are charming and give me peace and comfort much like your's, like arms wrapping me up in security and love. You will do fine and soon you will make any house a new home with your beautiful creations, so best of luck to you in your future. One step at a time and enjoy the journey.

  • @debravogt7139
    @debravogt7139 2 роки тому +3

    You are a beautiful soul! You bring light into my life, which can be quite dark! You bring peace to my soul! I used to live in a place called LA Playa! Leaving your home is frightening, but the two of you will build a new life together! You are blessed with a gift! You continue! We will support you! I hope for you to be happy, creative, and filled with joy!

  • @cherimoore2458
    @cherimoore2458 2 роки тому +1

    I will miss your lovely little cottage. Looking forward to following your next steps.

  • @ambermashal
    @ambermashal 2 роки тому +20

    This transition is so exciting! can’t wait to watch you turn the barn into your home and make it perfect for your new family✨

  • @tealandyellowsbyaashnamukh3069
    @tealandyellowsbyaashnamukh3069 2 роки тому +5

    I am currently going through a huge change - moving to a new city, renting a house with my partner, getting a new job and so much more. As exciting as it sounds, to me it has felt so overwhelming, uncomfortable, and scary and I often suffer from the anxiety of the unknown. I am trying to take deep breaths and learning to do all I can to reach the place I have been dreaming about. Uncertainty can make you switch between stress and curiosity. I am trying to be kind to myself and learning to accept how I feel.
    Thank you for sharing this and reassuring me that I'm not alone and so many people in the world are going through similar phases in their life.

  • @susanneluond8178
    @susanneluond8178 2 роки тому +12

    I really appreciate Paula's honest and natural way. Even in a big change she shows her sensual, loving and natural way of dealing with it.
    Thank you for your authentic being.

  • @ms.iloveteaching7304
    @ms.iloveteaching7304 2 роки тому +4

    The love and care you invested in this sweet little cottage will surely be felt by the new home-owners...when they see that adorable bunny painted above the door frame - they will know and I'm certain their hearts will swell. How wonderful it is that you have documented the beauty of your life there so that you can look back as you move forward to the next amazing stage in your life. All the best...and remember wherever you go, you have an amazing gift to bring things to life through your creativity :)

  • @sdrogers286
    @sdrogers286 2 роки тому +32

    There are times when we have to get out of our comfort zone. Transitions are surely one of them. These are times of growth which, you already know is a good thing. It does surface many emotions. I have just recently made a transition from the city to a rural area after my husband went to heaven. As a matter fact that is when I discovered your channel-in the middle of the transition. I started organizing everything meticulously and ran out of time before the moving deadline, so some had to be boxed up to finish sorting in the new home. I pray for God's peace for you, and strength. A wedding is a wonderful thing to be preparing for. I relate to the chaotic overwhelming feelings. You will have the wonderful adventure of having a partner to share the load of joys, dreams and challenges. I am starting a new life in this new season of my life as a widow. Your videos have been helping me learning to appreciate the joys of being alone after all my adult life was with my husband. I look forward to your new adventures. I am also an introvert who loves books and I have more of a creative mind. I identify with you on many levels. God bless you!

    • @hollyjohnson9688
      @hollyjohnson9688 2 роки тому +1

      I am so sad for your loss of your husband. May you continually see Gods love and comfort as you move forward. My sister is widowed and my brother too. In the same year. I know so many widowed folks now. May you find joy eventually and comfort now.

    • @sdrogers286
      @sdrogers286 2 роки тому +2

      @@hollyjohnson9688 Thank you for your very kind words. I am so sorry for your sister's loss. I know it's been a very difficult season for so many. It was such a lovely surprise to have such uplifting thoughts in my inbox today. Again I thank you.

  • @Blackkittymom
    @Blackkittymom 2 роки тому +1

    Can you do a video on your plant care routine?? Your house plants are crazy healthy and I love them!!! I can't get a wandering jew to look like that to save my life!

  • @marianneking1030
    @marianneking1030 2 роки тому +6

    Our lives are an open book, the end of one chapter is like the period at the end of a sentence. Onto the next chapter and new and exciting adventures. Godspeed.

  • @msunshine4412
    @msunshine4412 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for another beautiful, thoughtful and inspiring video. How wonderful that this move has truly been a time of cleansing and welcoming in your life! You have some beautiful books! As someone who has moved hundreds and hundreds of books, I wanted to give you some suggestions (which may come to late in this instance, but here goes). 1) Keep your boxes at less than 40 lbs. 2) pack similar -sized books together 3) pack books flat, alternating spines - esspecially when packing hardcovers 4) pack paperbacks on the bottom of the box and add the hardbacks on top - the paperbacks are better able to handle more on top of them than hardbacks spines can. 5) fill empty spaces with napkins or small towels or even clothes, to keep the books from shifting in transit. 6) fill boxes completely, so that a box placed on top of another doesn't "sink" onto the one below. and, finally, which should be #1- 7) use the sturdiest boxes you can find to protect your books during a move. Wishing you a wondeful new life in your new home and many blessings - Dios te bendiga abundantemente.

  • @suzannebell51
    @suzannebell51 2 роки тому +12

    I have just been through a transition where I have downsized after children leaving home and have moved to a much smaller, simpler way of life which I love. You are right, it is very cathartic to go through your belongings and let go of a lot of things and learn to treasure what you keep (for me it was after living in the same house for 20 years and bringing up 3 children there!). I am embracing the change and even the range of emotions the transition brings. I wish you happiness in your new phase of life and know that you will create a tranquil, creative and inspirational space for you and Luke to love. Watching your beautiful videos brought me peace during my transition and inspired me to create a warm, peaceful space for myself.

  • @coachedby.karolina
    @coachedby.karolina 2 роки тому +8

    There's always sadness when we're leaving our old life behind, but at the same time moving is also quite exciting, a new chapter in our life opens up. I sometimes think about the old places I've lived in and it can feel like things would have been easier if I'd stayed. But then I remember how much I've learned and how I've rediscovered myself through the process of moving and I can't wait to move again into my permanent home. Wishing you happiness and a smooth transition x

    • @mac-cat
      @mac-cat 2 роки тому +1

      Your comment really resonates with me and the stage I’m currently in with my life. Change is needed for the soul yet the what if’s will be present regardless of our decisions. May your permanent home be filled with happiness and abundance! 😊

    • @coachedby.karolina
      @coachedby.karolina 2 роки тому +1

      @@mac-cat that's very kind, thank you x

  • @nandinithakurs1107
    @nandinithakurs1107 2 роки тому +13

    Wishing you good luck fairy Paula, may God help you in every way, cheers to happy time ahead, love from India 💖

  • @MidwestGirl
    @MidwestGirl 2 роки тому

    I will miss your charming cottage and the beautiful valley. Best wishes to you in your new home and environment.

  • @sylviacarlson3561
    @sylviacarlson3561 2 роки тому +32

    I have to be honest, I"m a little sad at seeing you leave this darling cottage, but I know another journey awaits you. Please keep these videos coming once you're settled my Fairy Queen!

  • @shannonkoeller8378
    @shannonkoeller8378 2 роки тому +1

    Thinking of you and wishing you joy in this next adventure.

  • @MeiKasai
    @MeiKasai 2 роки тому +5

    When you look back at your entrance to your home, I can see all the emotions of moving so clearly written on your face and in your eyes. I feel that no matter how many times one moves, it always feels like the end of a chapter, which fortunately means the beginning of a whole new chapter of possibilities.

  • @libbyt2581
    @libbyt2581 2 роки тому +11

    Honestly felt like crying for you. You've shared so much with us! I remember having a really hard time a few months ago and I kept waking up super early, I had moved into a new place and wasn't taking the change well. I'd become deeply depressed. So I'd watch your videos for comfort and it was like escapism while also being incredibly real. I'm really excited for what's next for you.

  • @nons1206
    @nons1206 2 роки тому +9

    awe we’re gonna miss the cottage too :(( i hope you’re new home will be as homey as this one for you :)) i hope you’ll also feel as safe at home in your new home!!

  • @sueshynn586
    @sueshynn586 2 роки тому +6

    This is so very exciting Paola. This must mean that your new house was finished ahead of time. Just think of the excitement when you unpack each box and put your treasured things in their new home. Keep your Neverland box as some day you can show your children. Love from Sue in the UK

  • @katheejasuhail8280
    @katheejasuhail8280 2 роки тому +6

    It honestly feels like I'm moving out of the house with you. Like how you've had many different experiences at this place, I've been watching videos of you from this house during different phases of my life as well. I guess this place will definitely stay special and I hope this sudden change in your life will bring in many things that you truly cherish ❤
    Sending you my love all the way from India Paola 😇❤

  • @kyatkyat24
    @kyatkyat24 2 роки тому +1

    Your videos are so healing and magical. it warms my heart. Thank you. Thank you so much!

  • @seriouslywhatever1031
    @seriouslywhatever1031 2 роки тому +11

    Best of luck in your move. I'm moving house soon too and the best way to deal with anxiety is to be productive and to keep busy. I'm sure your pets will love having a bigger house to run around in.
    You have so many lovely books! I keep pausing the video to try and see what they're all called. Home is where your books are, imo x

  • @jacksmancave170
    @jacksmancave170 2 роки тому

    The wistful look back over your shoulder as you carried out the trunk spoke volumes.

  • @aprilyeno1919
    @aprilyeno1919 2 роки тому +4

    Simultaneously sad and happy is often the best feeling. It allows us to sort through our experiences, and hold on to only what we must retain. ❤️🙏🏻 wishing you every happiness!

  • @katieannjones89
    @katieannjones89 2 роки тому +1

    Oh Paola, I'm going to miss your beautiful cottage so much. I know that the future holds so much happiness for you and Luke, but I can't help feeling sad at not being able to see the Cottage Fairy in her cottage any more😥
    I hope you'll take us with you and let us share your new life. Sending much love ❤️

  • @barbararoyal6139
    @barbararoyal6139 2 роки тому +6

    Transitions and change…even if a positive thing…can be challenging emotionally and physically. Going with the flow one step and one day at a time helps me with that. So very happy for you and this new chapter of your journey ☕️tea breaks help too😊

  • @retourenavant
    @retourenavant 2 роки тому +1

    I'm such a big fan of your show ! So heart warming. You inspire my videos in France ! Thank you for your smile and sharing your culture 🥰🤗

  • @BeatrixBetwixt
    @BeatrixBetwixt 2 роки тому +6

    The little pieces of tangible memories are always so interesting to come across. Happy and safe move dear. May this new adventure bring forth wonderful things🤍

  • @sandramarroquin3691
    @sandramarroquin3691 2 роки тому

    Same here with a treasure little box, I got it to keep my lil nephews tiny flowers he used to give all the time and my nieces giving me special tiny rocks or sea shells and different things for Valentine's day and I kept all this beautiful moments and now my 4 nieces and nephew are married and with kids. I'm 51.years old and when they visit me they always wanna to see that treasure little box and all my photos albums that i have when they were little. I wouldn't question my self to keep that box, one day you'll see how it turns in a real treasure 🙌🏻💕💕✨

  • @jonikaye8572
    @jonikaye8572 2 роки тому +3

    I’m 😢. Change is hard for me. You and your cottage have brought me so much joy and comfort. Sending lots of love to you🥰

  • @beverlybower4893
    @beverlybower4893 2 роки тому +2

    May your heart and soul embrace the beautiful life you cherished in the cottage and may you find joy in your new journey.
    Peace to you, Paola❤

  • @felsiedaniel1244
    @felsiedaniel1244 2 роки тому +6

    Wishing you only the best as you make this transition into a new season in your journey of life. Will miss your cottage but the best is yet to be. Greetings from Malaysia

  • @MyArnette
    @MyArnette 2 роки тому +1

    your cottage is beautiful, your books are beautiful your plants are so beautiful gee😊😊 what a beautiful life.

  • @tgirl71
    @tgirl71 2 роки тому +5

    Moving can surprisingly be very emotional, sometimes you don't realize how connected you are to the energies of your space. I love where you live as it's not far from where I grew up. Best wishes for ease of movement and grace for yourself in whatever you experience as you make these physical changes!

    • @malissahyatt2425
      @malissahyatt2425 2 роки тому +1

      I have mourned at least 3 different spaces since 2015.
      So hard.

  • @rutheli
    @rutheli 2 роки тому +1

    Two things you said I found deeply relatable.
    1. That in the past you’ve tended to avoid making decisions that made you feel uncomfortable or self conscious. How we all have that phase at one point or another. It’s true for me.
    2. That you have lost chunks of memory, and have blank spaces instead and this they say can happen after a scary or traumatic event. This is also true for me.
    Thank you for sharing these moments with us.
    Change isn’t easy. But looking ahead - to what lies beyond the overwhelm and chaos - has helped me. And prayer. And deep breathing. And the reminder that this too will be a beautiful thing.
    Lovely things await you ♥️ praying for you

  • @ginamarieofficial
    @ginamarieofficial 2 роки тому +3

    “Go through your things and see if they hold the same meaning” yesss! I love, just in case no one has told you recently.. I’m SO proud of you 🙏 For choosing the unknown and all of its possibility over all you’ve created over the many months there! You’re truly an inspiration :’) I am moving in a few months time and starting the process of releasing the things that no longer serve who I Am now. I don’t know about you? (or anyone else reading this) but I have always had such an emotional attachment to inanimate objects.. and I’m currently in the process of releasing that. It’s not easy but I so agree, keep the things that hold meaning for where and WHO you are now ☺️ Sending all my love to you sweet soul!! 🤍

  • @lovebertierose
    @lovebertierose 2 роки тому

    It is though we are moving with you. As I watched you packing your books, I was reminded of my move eight years ago and everything you said is so true. It will be sad to say goodbye to the little cottage, however the memories you keep within will be with you forever. You have these lovely videos to remind you of the beauty. Wishing you the best in the new to come.

  • @GraceB305
    @GraceB305 2 роки тому +5

    I also have “voids” in my memory , especially during my years of ED. Now that I’m older, they start peaking through and I panic a little. Hard not to be judgmental on oneself. I live so minimally and I think it’s my way of protecting myself from any remembrances that are painful. So happy to see you move towards a new life ❤️🌻

  • @sherelynwhite4130
    @sherelynwhite4130 2 роки тому

    Reassessing, remembering, letting go....yes always a good practice to engage in now and then. A friend of mine kept letters I had written to her in my youth. She gifted them to me recently....we are talking from the 70's! I was so happy to see them, read them. I will not compost them but possibly use them in art collages! The same with letters I have kept for decades from my mother. Her handwriting brings me comfort and I can envision her words peeking out from the paint in future art pieces. Wishing you the very best in this life change you are experiencing 🙏💜♥ 💚💖💙 💕

  • @jordon3558
    @jordon3558 2 роки тому +3

    I laughed at the big box of books! When my inlaws were newlyweds, my mother-in-law packed all of my father-in-law's books into a big refrigerator box when he was at work. She was so proud of herself until she realized it would be impossible to move. You aren't alone. :)

  • @davidjones8224
    @davidjones8224 2 роки тому +2

    I feel your emotions. I retired & moved from Ontario to Nova Scotia Canada last year. This made my retirement an adventure !! All the best to you in your transition

  • @AmaniHanna
    @AmaniHanna 2 роки тому +5

    So heartwarming to see you love a place so much that makes it hard to leave. It really shows how much you've made your place a home. Right now I'm struggling with living in the future - so excited to find a home and move in with my soon-to-be husband, that I'm not living in the present anymore, longing to leave rather than soaking in these last few months in my current place. Your perspective reminds me that home is what you make it. Wishing you all the best in your next phase of life.

  • @gabriellagirardi4741
    @gabriellagirardi4741 2 роки тому

    We'll miss your cottage as it is a place full of happiness and joy besides spreading a profound positive atmosphere which also involves our soul. Thank you for sharing this awesome video

  • @hopefulvibezz
    @hopefulvibezz 2 роки тому +3

    Change is such a rejuvenating experience, a breath of fresh air yet can feel so overwhelming by the pace of how fast things can change. Change is always for the better, and I am so excited to continue to see you live and experience such an amazing and beautiful life in your new home! I send all my love and positive vibes your way, you can do this! 🥰💖

  • @lindasteinbrenner8065
    @lindasteinbrenner8065 2 роки тому +1

    You are handling your move with your usual grace and more positive attitude! Making wise choices. I absolutely HATE moving, so I periodically go through and eliminate stuff but I sometimes find myself heading back to the thrift store to repurchase things.. my black skirt, a spatula, a few books! ☺️🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @michelepastele5347
    @michelepastele5347 2 роки тому +3

    Please be careful not to hurt yourself! You created such a beautiful environment there. I can't wait to see what you will
    do in your next spots! You've truly created an artist's retreat! x

  • @lynngliottone2812
    @lynngliottone2812 2 роки тому

    Wishing you happiness, and all the best! So going to miss your cozy little cottage though. I cannot imagine leaving your valley. May your future be blessed.

  • @DrSarahWright
    @DrSarahWright 2 роки тому +3

    Such perfect timing for this video. I loved what you said about going through what you own and considering what you value, what you should keep in your life and what to let go of. Like a spring cleaning. I have a lot of changes coming up as I am moving in two weeks and am having a job change. It can be daunting at times but I'm also really motivated by change. Thanks for the reminder and the video in the midst of everything you have going on. And good luck with settling into your new place, can't wait to see it all come together!

  • @carolmorris5753
    @carolmorris5753 2 роки тому +1

    Sending love back to you 💝. Your channel reminds me so much of myself (and who I wanted to be forever) 40 odd years ago. The quiet, the solitude, books upon books, nature, fairy art, furniture, quaint decor - all of it. Wishing I’d had the wisdom you already have, but, enjoy living my dream through your journey. Thank you so much for being a source of calm and serenity in this crazy world ☺️.

  • @PamsPrettyPlants
    @PamsPrettyPlants 2 роки тому +4

    I hope that last look back doesn’t hurt too much! I can’t wait to see what you do with the new place!!

  • @candyclews4047
    @candyclews4047 2 роки тому +2

    "With time and some courage answers eventually come" - I love that Paola, I've written it in the front of my diary!

  • @lunabean2794
    @lunabean2794 2 роки тому +3

    This video was so beautiful. Although I am not moving, there has been this thing inside of me telling to clear out things in my home to make space. It is so strong that I have to catch myself from getting rid of too many things. I have been donating and giving so many things away and only throwing away what is unusable. It is has been therapeutic.

  • @cherylodonnell6050
    @cherylodonnell6050 2 роки тому +1

    I will miss this special cottage but look forward to seeing your new place. Best wishes.