Last year i have a relationship with a single mom but we broke up because of money thats what I thought, but the reason she broke up with me because of the father her child. They still have communications and see each other for her she do it just for her son but guy take it as advantage to be with them again. Should i still wait for her and keep communicating her even though her ex live-in partner there in her life?
@@hanzandmitz I think it's best to move forward... If you and she talk, be kind but don't get too personal... Go live life--you can do so single--and hang with friends; make new friends... Ezier said than done but definitely doable. 1st, before anything else, though, Take it before God...every time thoughts of her come, go before God... Talk to Him and LISTEN for the Holy Spirit... Then Obey
@@necolewimbley1713 then why am I still in the dark? Ughh, i am certain someone is contacting me on social media.. but not w a phone call or in person. What would you do? I’ve prayed, asked for Wisdom, Discernment and insight still nothing.
@@irarapp3745 first we have to get into position what does your heart posture look like. How's your attitude. I know it's hard and when we have to wait. We cry out we get anxious and it causes us not to hear. We have to really get into our secret place daily until we get that break. God speak through all things just listen. I will keep you lifted in prayer
For the other side of this equation, there is a song that comes to mind that goes “who will love me for me, not because what I’ve done or who I will become”
I kind of disagree. I can think of AT LEAST 3 examples of women in my surrounding who committed to a "potential" and helped their partner come closer to God. All three men weren't Christians when their future wives met them for the first time. These men now serve the Lord and the couples' bond is getting stronger. Even God "falls in love" with our potential because He can see us not where we are NOW but where we COULD be. And helps us get there. One of the examples I am referring to is a pastor and his wife who've been married and serving the Lord for probably more than 25 years now. All I'm saying is that I don't think God called us to make our decisions from an intellectual point of view where it's obviously more reasonable to look for a spiritually grown Christian. But sometimes God plants things in our hearts and helps us see things in advance. I'm not talking about wishful thinking ("Oh, how I wish this was the one! I'll wait for him!"). But I really do believe that God can put a conviction in our hearts that this person is going to develop into a really faithful Christian.
@@katemian sure, like he said in the video... it's possible. All is possible with God. But it's not a wise decision and more times than not is just you desiring an outcome, not God. And also, this person who is an unbeliever will more than likely bring you down and drift away from your faith than the opposite scenario. God bless!
I was confused for YEARS about either waiting or moving in pursuing a relationship, and every time i tried to do something it failed, because i thought that by doing something i was acting on faith. And i always felt bad being single because most people i saw in church or in society were married or dating. When your contentment and happiness depends on having a relationship with a person more than God and Jesus, that is idolatry. I have repented of that, and now i am happy being a Christian only. If God wants me to be married or stay single, whatever his will is, that is fine with me.
For those waiting for someone already in a relationship with someone else; DONT WAIT!! I was certain it was God's will for me to wait for her. So I ended up waiting 1.5 year to eventually see her get married. Total waste of time and heartache!
Jeremiah 17:9 “The heart is deceitful above all things, And desperately wicked; Who can know it?" I still cannot fully grasp where I went wrong interpreting all the "signs". For some of these signs/coincidences came at an unbelievable timing, where prayers have been answered in ways that go beyond my understanding. And I was trying to be very careful with this. However, looking back, I now do know and acknowledge that I was definitely consumed by tunnel vision, causing me to interpret coincidences into how I wanted to interpret them because I couldn't let go of my ex. I just hope others don't go wasting their time and heart for something that may/or may not be, and really taking the points in this video seriously. I wished this clip had been published sooner so i could learn from it back then, though that probably wouldn't have happened cuz i was blinded. Anyway, some time has past by now, and Im all over it thank God! God bless you all🙏🏼
i know exactly how you feel. could of sworn God was giving me confirmation and signs for 3 years straight to wait for someone who was with someone else all those years, only to find out they were getting married. i rejected so many good potential suitors in hopes of being with that 1 person. turns out it was the devil and my own delusion blinding me to wait for something that was never gonna happen because it was never meant. i will tell you tho, it truly gets better with time. i got over it a lot sooner than i thought i would.
Yesterday i told her I can't be going out with her bc she's in a relationship and things can get messy. Then this video comes up. Timing is not coincidence.
I was friends with this man for years and developed feelings for him but he was in a relationship. His relationship ended and I thought it opened a door for me. Come to find out recently he didn’t feel the same even though his actions were different by the way he was talking with me. So I know now through this video that I shouldn’t have waited for him. Thank God for you Mark. God always shows up on time!!❤️❤️
Let me also add that I find out that he does lack spiritual maturity. God has shown that to me so I move on but unsure if I should still be friends with him. That’s what I need to God to show me what to do.
Instead of waiting of someone, particularly a friend, it is s good thing to be present in the current relationship. Maybe God has a different purpose for the relationship as it stands.
If it is meant to be I believe God will clearly open the door. Sometimes some obstacles can and should be overcome, however, when we have to jump through an excessive number of hoops, there's a good chance that the door is simply closed. We have to be willing to walk away. An unwillingness to adapt is often an indicator that we're over-emphasizing the importance of a relationship and not prioritizing where God wants our focus on at the present time. We need to be fully complete and satisfied in Jesus Christ before we are ready to embrace the potential of a Godly relationship in addition to that. God's timing is perfect, He won't let us miss the gifts He has in store for us, this includes a prospective spouse as well.
Long story short… you have to completely let go, seek and trust that God will make it happen if it were truly meant to be. - It’s a VERY tough thing to do especially if you’re new to faith like me. But I’ve been obedient and just trusting in him. Sometimes I feel extremely lost but I keep trusting any way. - God bless whomever is reading this. Keep the hope alive but make sure you’re continuing to get closer to God in the meantime is how I see it. 🙏🏾
The timing of this video just reminds me of the goodness of God! I really was thinking about my “sad” situation to day and then this was uploaded. Truly what I needed to hear!
perfect timing, i already knew that God didn’t want me with this specific person but just recently he asked how i was doing (we are good friends and don’t look back on the past “relationship” we had so he still checks up here and there as a good friend would) and when i saw that he texted, i was having specific unwanted thoughts that i’ve had in the past about this situation (thinking that this guy will become spiritually mature in the future, but i know this is unlikely because of present circumstances) so i asked God to remind me once again that this guy isn’t for me so i can completely push aside those unwanted thoughts again and then here comes this video for my reassurance hehe thanks
Oh my gosh that’s exactly how I felt with a guy who also checks up on me once in a while. I just have this gut feeling that he’s not for me and that I should also move on even when I had those thoughts that I wanted to have a relationship. My mother wants me to get a Christian man hehe and I’m actually gonna look into it when I do settle down
@@lilliacurtis79 I'm not attacking anyone, He's been erasing my comments. I'm trying to help people see the truth! ua-cam.com/video/XoCK3MfrX3g/v-deo.html
I totally gave my relationship desires over to the Lord to handle. If it’s meant to be it will happen in Gods timing. For much of my life, 32 years, I have chased men due to my past abuse and neediness! No more. Now I pray for my future husband and work on me in the time being. I have great faith that Jesus, who knows my needs, will have my future husband find me one day. Prayers appreciated 🙏🏽
Thankyou so much!! Someone I'm waiting on has all of these patterns... and I see all of these signs. I have waited for atleast 8 months and that's ruining my life now. I needed this. Thankyou thankyou thank u.... such a great help
I believe that people put too much emphasis on romantic relationships. I have been single for 15 years and I like it. Jesus said the Apostle Paul were single.
@@melodieperkins7080 people are different, some desire to be with someone and others do not I have been single 4 years but God has given me dreams and visions of my future husband God's continuous Blessings be upon you 🙏
I'm in a unequally yoked engagement. We separated before the engagement but still he is the same person. I'm Christian and he is not. It feels like I need to move on and be with someone who understands God and His Word.
Yes ma'am, God even means being friends or developing business relations with someone unequal. I married someone I was unequally yoked with and he really became more ungodly, even while telling me the things I wanted to hear. The spirit and absence of God is unsettling and the absence of that peace is telling. Run away and just trust God to bring your husband to you. The one God created for you is out there and he will pursue you. Before God gave Eve to Adam, God ensures his boy had a home and a job. That's how He will send our husbands. Equipped.
God used your content to speak to me quite often. Thank you for being humble and faithful with your platform. Your ministry is helping and changing a lot of lives. God bless you!
It's interesting. None of these apply to me right now, but I haven't received peace about moving forward with a really good and godly woman. I'm stuck 😅. Just waiting on God.
@@ladym6005 We aren't dating, just friends. The Lord gives us choice, but has His will be can ignore or follow. Things this important can't be moved on without a clear and confirmed yes from the Lord.
I commend you for yielding to the Holy Spirit, instead of just going with your emotions and that she is godly. As someone that has had several counterfeits (got "confirmations", they were leaders in the church, etc.), I am appreciating and thankful for the wait because God knows the truth and is protecting us. Pray for wisdom and discernment, for anything hidden to be revealed, and for peace in the situation (whether to move forward in courtship or mutual separation). It may just be about timing, or maybe even though it seems like a good thing, its not God's very best for you. Remain faithful and strong in Him.
@@hadassaheritage Thank you for the advice and words of encouragement. Asking for hidden things to be revealed is a good addition to my prayers for her. I love her, but I love and wish to follow the Lord more. I sure hope it's a timing thing, but I suspect it a no. We can hope, prayerful hope is not a sin. However, as we wait, we know that every good and perfect gift comes from our Father, if it's not from Him it's not good and perfect. Blessings for you Kristina.
Thanks for all this, Mark; this is actually what I'm going through right now! Please pray that God would give me the right wisdom and that I'd take that path.
Personal story: I fell in love with a married man, he was married, but gay. His wife was living across the country and we had an immediate chemistry & connected on a deep level. I waited, as he professed his love for me. He swore loyalty to me, said that when his wife WAS around; they slept in different bedrooms and hadn’t had sex in over 20 years. That was all probably true. So, I decided to wait for him. That was in 2005. In 2007; I found out, from his computer one day; that no only was I NOT the only person he was with; he was a sex addict, and had hundreds of encounters and thousands of contacts. Unfortunately, I had become so intwined with him, and a death occurred in my immediate family right when I found out; and I was working for him; I stayed. I stayed, with promises of fidelity. We are married now. It took him until 2013 to get divorced, and we were married in 2019. I stayed at this point, for every reason - except love. That died when I found out about his philandering. He never stopped this behavior; and never intends to. I know I need to move on. But, now I’ve trapped myself in a lifeless, loveless marriage. If you’ve gotten to the end of this true story of MY life; please; PLEASE, move on. Once a cheater, always a cheater; and when they make you wait, without a date or even a promise, these are clear signs.
Planning our lives around could's are not wise. Imaginary friends don't make good spouses. Even when God shows us all the signs, and we may choose to do the right thing, our feelings can still overwhelm us and may have us feeling like we're in a state of defeat.
Oh no that 4th point killed me :(.... I met this younger guy after a long time he’s a brother of my friend.... and what drew me to him is that there was this unique moment like a spark it was so powerful and nice.... and since then I still think about him... meanwhile there’s this other guy who said he liked me but I don’t want him because I always wanted someone whom I’ll want from the first moment not that I will have to create “something” there.... and I feel like God doesn’t listen and doesn’t care for me because for so many years I’m struggling with overthinking so I don’t know what’s right. And I keep repeating the Songs - do not awake the love for me when it’s not ready..
Thanks for sharing this wisdom through these videos. I should have been seeking God all along, and it was a mistake. I know that God is more than enough, but I pray that if God means for me to have someone, that He will take over this situation. I'm done jumping the gun.
But what if you don't want to wait or think about this person but anything you do you still think about them you've tried everything so you believe its God. I feel like something in me wants me to think of the person
great advice, while I long for famous people, I certainly spend too much time in a fantasy rather then doing the right thing and focus more attention on myself and god .... thank you, god bless you
woah i was just thinking about this. currently i’m trying my hardest to be patient with my boyfriend bc we are on a break and i’ve been praying whether or not i should keep waiting for him. then this pops up. luckily none of these signs relate. i’m gonna ask God again but until then i’ll keep waiting.
I want to please god more than anything and praise his holy name and ask him may he give me the knowledge of a strong wise Christian I want to follow in the path that god has set for me I don’t want to stray away from god I want to follow the way that god tells me to follow and may he bless me with biblical knowledge and may he bless me with a stronger spirit connecting close to him may I study gods word and may his word be in my spirit and heart and mind may I praise god and submit to him fully
Me an my baby’s father isn’t over an I believe that but he’s just immature. I’m taking this time to have a break from relationships an getting myself together. But him he has to go threw it to so I’ll be patient with him but focus on the lord I’m not interested in anyone
I know someone close to me,a family memeber, in a similar situation to yours and they are still waiting after all these years.They were in their early 20s then.They're now in their 50s now.Her child is grown and getting married before her. The father still hasn't truly commited and giving her false hope of a happy ending.When someone loves you nothing will stop them from coming to you. You only get one life. I only say this with love I hope God opens your eyes to see what you deserve and how precious you are💗
@@prettyalina7237 well there is this Hebrew Israelite and he wants me and I don’t want him because I can’t stand obese men am I making wrong judgments on him because of his appearance or should I keep going and be single because I been seeking a man my entire life and I think I need a break🙄😩🤧🙁
@@LifeAboutToya I can tell you from my personal experience. *Please* don't date someone you aren't attracted to. Some people aren't meant for us.Take it as a sign from God that,that person isn't the one for you. 1 experience I've had is a man who I met a few years ago. (The similar situation about not being attracted to that type of person.) He is very kind,loves children,active in the church but as for me. There are quality about him in his character ect that I did not like. Extremely expressive in a more feminine way(it may be his culture) and extremely talkative. He is not gay but as for myself I had to decline spending anymore time getting to know him in a group setting and distance myself. But pretaining to what you were saying. I noticed he was on the heavier side when he first came to our church but getting larger by the year.Some time had passed,I remember we were in the elevator in our church with some others. Someone had said there was extra food & did anyone want more?(we had enough.) He hopped out of that elevator forgot what he was going to do and scurried so quickly to get more at the church bbq. I thought then, for certain,personally,for _myself_ and my life "I can't have a man who won't take care of his health.The man God has for me needs to be there for our future children. Active and being alive." I could almost imagine him being out of breath running after children. This isn't what I desire. He is still a good man and he ended up marrying a woman who completely understands him because she has family that's similar to him in his mannerisms ect even though they are form different cultures He is Brazilian and she is french. In fact, he found out he's called to be a pastor and he works with the children's ministry. It's Gods purpose to make him talkative & expressive to reach the kids. Especially during covid & having church via online. His wife is a daughter of a previous pastor at our church. She is a nicu nurse and loves children too. You see? This couple found each other organically.God brought them together. For certain I know they are right for one another. So take it from me. Where there's smoke there's fire. I know it's the opposite. There's no spark so don't force it. I'd be fooling myself a few years ago trying to "like" indivisuals when I know I am not attracted to them.You ever garden? Some things just take place naturally. You can't force love nor attaction. So free your mind from thinking that you need to settle. Gods word said the eye has not see nor the ear has not heard nor has it entered the heart of man the things God has instore for us. In encourage you to read songs of Solomon. The whole book is talking about love and character and how beautiful and perfect to that person their loved one is and likewise.Love is beautiful. Gods love is a reflection in marriages. You cant force it,its just something that grows and is. Lastly wanted to share a joke but also a statement. "One thing you don't run for is a bus,a train or man because when one leaves another arrives."
Thanks for the great message it's a clear answer to some of my deep questions about my relationship right now and I have also shared this message with a friend Blessings!! 😁
I’ve had a few signs about guys being in a relationship. For one of them, I had a crush on him (he went to my church) from 8th grade till right before senior year of high school. I eventually understood nothing would happen between us, and I was fine with that. Another guy I had a crush on after high school worked at the gym and was talking to a girl he went to school with. I eventually stopped having a crush on him, but we still talked sometimes. They broke up a in 2019 or something and then got back together in August 2020 or something. He and I still talk sometimes, but I’m not waiting for him to get out of the relationship. I totally respect their relationship; we’re just friends (closer to acquaintances, but still!) 😁
Hearing God say this is your person often times does not mean waiting on the person. It could mean keep living your life and growing through God until it’s the time for you and this person to be together 7:52
yeah im still waiting for my ex to come to Christ and if God decides to bring us back together that would be great. If He doesnt, thats just something ill have to live with. Im hoping for it but im not waiting for him. Im waiting on God. Still praying for him though, there is nothing I can do more than that.
@Dye Dye yeah I feel you on that too, but I've boldly asked for this specific thing and have been praying and waiting and do not want a replacement. I figure nothing is too big or impossible for Him to bring to pass in His time. That being said, I am open to what He brings buutttt I still really want what I asked for lol.
@Dye Dye I have let him go in my heart as far as waaahh i want him back now😭😭😭 knowing that this is just horrible timing even if it were to happen. God has never let me down, or given me anything half baked. Him not being a believer and our current life situations are not conducive to that blessing. All we really can do is put these men in God's hands. No matter what we see or dont see in the natural, God is always working! He changed us and our lives, and He can change them too!
@Dye Dye yesss I pray and talk to Him about everything! really do need to put Him on every day like you get dressed in the morning. Absolutely essential to get through life at all times. He knows we are feeling frustrated and waiting, but he is patient with us and understands our feelings. He will never give us anything outside of His timing.
Mark, what about waiting for someone to have a stable source of income - to be stable in life? But the thing is, the girl isn't attracted to the physical attributes of the guy, rather she likes how he treats her - with respect. What are your thoughts on this?
I’m sure moving on is always the biblical answer and I kinda take issue with the , if “they are in a relationship with someone else that is a clear sign God wants you to move on”. God can still be saying wait, things will turn around, or you just have to be patient. Maybe he wants to teach you to trust him that he can make things happen. I’m have been praying about this exact situation in my life lately too. I haven’t been sure what God is saying but I have strong feelings for this girl and feel like God is telling me to wait. Been wrong before.
I would love to hear you talk about Paige and Chris from married at first sight. Paige is a Christian and is ignoring red flags bc she thinks God wants this relationship for her.
God does not want you to wait for someone, 1. If this person is in a relationship with someone else 2. If this person has asked you to wait for them more than once 3. If you are not in a relationship with this person because of their current spiritual immaturity or because of character issues 4. If you are waiting for this person ONLY because you had a sense that this is what God wants, 5. If waiting is no longer wise based upon the discernment the Holy Spirit is giving you
Lord Jesus tells us to have faith. He also tells us to pray and not give up. God tells us He will give a new heart and a new spirit. A new heart and a new spirit is the changing of a person. Praying to God to change someone is faith. It is the job of a Christian to help a person to Lord Jesus who will save. Be careful of people who say "I think". Listen to the words of God. Someone who is not responsive to your love, does mean God doesn't want this person to be your love. The more recalcitrant a person is toward you, the more God is glorified. So go for it. Pray for that love that is at present loveless. Put your trust in God to change that person. God bless
Girls be ware of a grown boy that pressures or rushes you to compromise your values. We need to require standards, boundaries,morals, and take your time. If a man says or acts by saying " it's what I say, not what you say!" Run as fast as you can!!!! It's not love but control and the benefits he's going to receive. Other red flags:no real job, bad past patterns, lives with his momma, car insured by someone else, shorty he sees and provides for at his convenience, and the two -faced -double -minded "church" man (question Christian character or any character that is contradicting). RUN RUN RUN. He will manipulate you by putting you on a pedestal and fake cherishing you, sex etc. then when he moves in he will devalue you so you don't leave. It's all about control.Then he will turn it all around on you and play the victim. This is about you being a part of their narrative not your individuality. Do not submit or bow down to a man with no plan and puts his own needs 1st. Love yourself!!! Especially if you have children. You wont know if your coming or going and walking on eggshells. Life will revolve around their wants and needs. You have been selected to do their bidding and regulating their emotions. A lot of these people have personality disorders. Tell yourself I deserve more, I deserve peace, I deserve to be happy, I am competent and responsible, lastly tell yourself their is a great big world and plenty of good men but you have to search in the right places and take your time. Just say I need to look through the lenses of abundance not have a scarcity mindset. Yes, I've been watching a lot of different coaching videos. Good luck and God Bless!!!!
I haven't watched one of his videos and over two years I won't watch I should say 11 watch the full video of his in over 2 years and I won't until he comes out with one that's just one clear sign one single player sign God wants or does not want you to do such and such. The word. I meant sorry speech-to-text is not backing up the tone that I'm trying to present
True i need to move on nothing come of this should of could of doesnt matter anymore hes never said either way but i love you time to move on boss goodbye
Not sure if I've necessarily been waiting on someone, but I've known this man for 6 years. We've been friends, not super close but there. I feel like there's moments of this unexplainable connection, but when we get deep enough it just kind of dissipates, and I feel like I dont fit into his world. Doesn't really give me the time of day lol but in my last relationship God gave me dreams like he was coming around (not why I broke up with the last guy). Wonderful, serious man of God, but doesn't seem to be serious about us. Idk why God has given me certain dreams if its been for nothing.
Be open to being pursued, but if he don’t, then don’t wait. Or just don’t miss out on someone new because of him. You said you weren’t necessarily waiting, so it sounds like this is what you been doing but you’re just curious about him. Just guard your heart and be open (maybe flirt), but let his actions speak. If he ain’t serious about you, don’t be serious about him, but let him know it’s all based on him. You probably know all this, though. It’s easy to see you’re wise. I wouldn’t worry about fitting into his world so much. I think if a man wants a woman in his life, he’s going to adjust everything else to fit her in it. I understand the dream thing, because I’ve had dreams that were misleading for me, so just be careful with those. Looking back, (in my situation) it was just my flesh and I liked her a lot. They were just projections of my thoughts throughout the day.
Thanks for sharing good advice words, Mr.. AGW speaker councellor on your Vlog.. Ithis is a signed sigmal for meh😢😔 ;(( I got the sign now today, May 08, 2023 @ 4:pm.. I will continue & start more steps to MoVe oN & go on for good. This tauruean months season in my life. I will always Love him in special way... TC always My Dear person Sinta in my Heart & Mind..💖❤💝😘
I (and this person) both tried to make things happen and every time something came up on their end. At first I felt angry and led on, but later the person genuinely told me he wasnt trying to, and life is crazy (and I do believe this). So at that point I sent him off with well wishes. We both believe God will make whatever happen to happen if it is in His will, and I have trust in that now. Hope that this person and I will be meant to be, even if not permanently, and will have time together as we both want to. We pray for each other too
I had the same experience. I meet this guy and felt deeply connected to him . We complemented each other so well . He felt like a best friend to me loved spending time with him . But it wasn’t the right time for us to get together. I really pray that if he’s the one that God may unite us back . 🙏🏽
I think 3 & 5 stand out the most for me. If you've been in a relationship with someone who actually did have a Godly character but then chose to backslide it is very emotionally and psychologically disorientating. What do you say to the man or woman who found they had a great potential spouse/fiance/their soulmate, only to see them gradually take on worldly traits/strange doctrine and not care about "dissolving" their union? The same goes for those already married, ministry teams in churches and close business partners. The damage and sense of betrayal can be nigh impossible to return to normality from. Well, only God can make the waste places like Eden, trust Him, obey Him and let Him lead you to greener pastures. Thanks, Mark.
My situation has been years, separated by different countries, immigration issues (largely $$$ and a lack of it) and other things beyond our control. We have both tried to give up eachother, tried to date others, but even going no contact didn't work. (Especially after March 2020 we thought of eachother more than ever.) In the several years we've been stuck apart, I have tried on many, MANY opportunities to move on. Every time I would look up "How to move on" (since my usual methods don't work) Yah/God would put things of the opposite effect in my path. Even this morning I was looking up "closing doors on someone" and the first thing that came up was a Marc the Messenger video about when He doesn't want us to close doors on someone. The most startling time, though, was when I was washing my hair and lamenting "Please, Father, bring me a husband of my own" and this thought that was not my own interjected with an image of my long-distance love and said "Didn't I already give you a husband?" Surely Yah/God has a plan for us beyond human comprehension. It's just hard being patient as a human in this world. To Our Father, one thousand years is equal to a day, meaning "soon" to Him is not the same as "soon" to us. We know nothing, He knows everything. It still sucks waiting and not knowing, though 😅 but He refuses to let me move on, so I can only trust and have faith that He's planning to reunite us. I don't think it's the devil who won't allow me to move on, I don't think the devil said "Didn't I already give you a husband?" (We are not married by human law, though would like to be. But it seems we must be by His law.)
I remember a quote a man wrote in his feed after breakup - she is leaving me like the other guy is not going to make her wait ever. And random guy commented - bro She Will But Now She Don't Wants To Wait For You. I have faced 3rd point alot & alot. 💖💖💖💖💖
I’m friendly with a guy who’s not a Christian- & believe me, I know that’s not something to get into, as I’ve made that mistake before - but the problem is I’ve been waiting in a sense too on the point u make about someone becoming more spiritual ie. in this case, him gettin saved. I’ve had more clarity recently with not being able to see him with the pandemic & he knows the gospel & I’ve pointed him to church sites etc etc & I think he’s maybe just comfortable where he is tho he says he believes in God. As u mention, it’s like having an imaginary person in your mind, ie. it’s not real. He is what he is at this minute. And I seriously pray God saves him, but I can’t keep waiting on that happening right now with the aim of a relationship after. Would anyone reading this please pray for him to have his eyes opened to his need of Christ. Cos that’s the most important thing. Thank you 🙏
Thank you for posting this sir. Very good timing. There is someone I met who I’ve been thinking about this stuff with. I’ve told many friends the story and some have said to give her time to think about what she wants, and some even said it may be better to just move on. From what you’re saying in this video it sounds like I should definitely move on. I’ve been single for 10 years now and so it seems it never really works out so it’s possible God is calling me to be single, or he may be having me wait for a period of time before he blesses me with a woman. We will see.
The end is a bit over the top though? Better to leave someone than to stay with them if not completely sure...? That's like saying in court one is guilty until proven innocent. Crazy, to be honest. I'm sure you ought to spend another video going deeper into it. We are talking about a relationship. And God. Both people who want to do God's will. Remember Abraham? They doubted about stuff for many, many decades. They didn't just give up because they doubted. But the signs were very, very clear. There would never be an Isaac. I mean, that's the point of real doubt. There can be even more factors.
Man Mark .....I'm in such a confused state . This Christian girl I liked so much .....we both expressed interests but she said she's not ready for dating but then she gives mixed signals....I prayed to God to show me a sign whether I should move on....its so complicated 😭.....I Guess I will pray again to really see if I should move on 😭🙏
Since many will be watching the Super Bowl tonight I thought it best to post a little early :) God bless!
-Mark
Last year i have a relationship with a single mom but we broke up because of money thats what I thought, but the reason she broke up with me because of the father her child. They still have communications and see each other for her she do it just for her son but guy take it as advantage to be with them again. Should i still wait for her and keep communicating her even though her ex live-in partner there in her life?
@@hanzandmitz I think it's best to move forward... If you and she talk, be kind but don't get too personal... Go live life--you can do so single--and hang with friends; make new friends... Ezier said than done but definitely doable. 1st, before anything else, though, Take it before God...every time thoughts of her come, go before God... Talk to Him and LISTEN for the Holy Spirit... Then Obey
Hi Mark. I'm curious. Where does all your money go that you earn from classes and merchandise if any? Are you non profit?
Go CHIEFS!!!! lol! Thank you!! I took running in to this video as my first sign😅
@@brettgarandza683 all of the advice he gives for free, I hope he's using some for living!!!
Q. Who should we wait on?
A. The Lord!
He will tell you the answer but you must be willing to hear and listen.
Spending time with the Lord will give you the answers you need
True
@@necolewimbley1713 then why am I still in the dark? Ughh, i am certain someone is contacting me on social media.. but not w a phone call or in person. What would you do? I’ve prayed, asked for Wisdom, Discernment and insight still nothing.
@@irarapp3745 first we have to get into position what does your heart posture look like. How's your attitude. I know it's hard and when we have to wait. We cry out we get anxious and it causes us not to hear. We have to really get into our secret place daily until we get that break. God speak through all things just listen. I will keep you lifted in prayer
Yes! Don't fall in love with potential!
So true
For the other side of this equation, there is a song that comes to mind that goes “who will love me for me, not because what I’ve done or who I will become”
I kind of disagree. I can think of AT LEAST 3 examples of women in my surrounding who committed to a "potential" and helped their partner come closer to God. All three men weren't Christians when their future wives met them for the first time. These men now serve the Lord and the couples' bond is getting stronger. Even God "falls in love" with our potential because He can see us not where we are NOW but where we COULD be. And helps us get there. One of the examples I am referring to is a pastor and his wife who've been married and serving the Lord for probably more than 25 years now.
All I'm saying is that I don't think God called us to make our decisions from an intellectual point of view where it's obviously more reasonable to look for a spiritually grown Christian. But sometimes God plants things in our hearts and helps us see things in advance. I'm not talking about wishful thinking ("Oh, how I wish this was the one! I'll wait for him!"). But I really do believe that God can put a conviction in our hearts that this person is going to develop into a really faithful Christian.
@@katemian sure, like he said in the video... it's possible. All is possible with God. But it's not a wise decision and more times than not is just you desiring an outcome, not God. And also, this person who is an unbeliever will more than likely bring you down and drift away from your faith than the opposite scenario. God bless!
Damn it !
sometimes you have to step back from a person out of love no matter if it hurts
Facts ❤
Let them goooo and let God!...bring the right person to you!
God bless!
Paths will cross if it's meant to be.
@@theronholler8176 Yep.
I'm here babe ❤😍😊
@@hoffadash4132 😅😅😅good one
I was confused for YEARS about either waiting or moving in pursuing a relationship, and every time i tried to do something it failed, because i thought that by doing something i was acting on faith. And i always felt bad being single because most people i saw in church or in society were married or dating. When your contentment and happiness depends on having a relationship with a person more than God and Jesus, that is idolatry. I have repented of that, and now i am happy being a Christian only. If God wants me to be married or stay single, whatever his will is, that is fine with me.
Amen, may his will be done!
@Genebra Lancelote Truth!!!
This is me 100% thks for the inspiration and realization God bless you
This is a hard lesson, but I finally got it too :)
It hurts, but your right, it is sin to always pursue a woman ( or man for the woman) more then God and Jesus. I need to accept.
For those waiting for someone already in a relationship with someone else; DONT WAIT!!
I was certain it was God's will for me to wait for her. So I ended up waiting 1.5 year to eventually see her get married. Total waste of time and heartache!
Aw, so sorry. That hurts.
Wow that sucks sorry to hear that :(
Jeremiah 17:9
“The heart is deceitful above all things,
And desperately wicked; Who can know it?"
I still cannot fully grasp where I went wrong interpreting all the "signs". For some of these signs/coincidences came at an unbelievable timing, where prayers have been answered in ways that go beyond my understanding. And I was trying to be very careful with this.
However, looking back, I now do know and acknowledge that I was definitely consumed by tunnel vision, causing me to interpret coincidences into how I wanted to interpret them because I couldn't let go of my ex.
I just hope others don't go wasting their time and heart for something that may/or may not be, and really taking the points in this video seriously. I wished this clip had been published sooner so i could learn from it back then, though that probably wouldn't have happened cuz i was blinded.
Anyway, some time has past by now, and Im all over it thank God!
God bless you all🙏🏼
i know exactly how you feel. could of sworn God was giving me confirmation and signs for 3 years straight to wait for someone who was with someone else all those years, only to find out they were getting married. i rejected so many good potential suitors in hopes of being with that 1 person. turns out it was the devil and my own delusion blinding me to wait for something that was never gonna happen because it was never meant. i will tell you tho, it truly gets better with time. i got over it a lot sooner than i thought i would.
Maybe you didn’t pray for it consistently
Yesterday i told her I can't be going out with her bc she's in a relationship and things can get messy. Then this video comes up. Timing is not coincidence.
Why On earth would you even talk to someone in a relationship ? Jeez
Foreal obviously that's adultery and covenants someone else's Girl
I was friends with this man for years and developed feelings for him but he was in a relationship. His relationship ended and I thought it opened a door for me. Come to find out recently he didn’t feel the same even though his actions were different by the way he was talking with me. So I know now through this video that I shouldn’t have waited for him. Thank God for you Mark. God always shows up on time!!❤️❤️
Let me also add that I find out that he does lack spiritual maturity. God has shown that to me so I move on but unsure if I should still be friends with him. That’s what I need to God to show me what to do.
If you need to move on I would not be friends anymore :)
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger I pray God will replace him with a much better friend. 👍🏾
@@char-4737 Thank you for sharing this I needed hear it, i’m in that position now
This has been bothering me, thank you Jesus.
God bless!
I like your pfp its my background, anyway God bless you have a wonderful day 😭😭
@@aylaa2437 thanks 😊
@@bolt9075 np😚😚
Keep faith!. It's the season for love!
God bless :)
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Instead of waiting of someone, particularly a friend, it is s good thing to be present in the current relationship. Maybe God has a different purpose for the relationship as it stands.
That is true. I pray that all is well with you and yours in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen and Amen and Amen.
God bless!
If it is meant to be I believe God will clearly open the door. Sometimes some obstacles can and should be overcome, however, when we have to jump through an excessive number of hoops, there's a good chance that the door is simply closed. We have to be willing to walk away. An unwillingness to adapt is often an indicator that we're over-emphasizing the importance of a relationship and not prioritizing where God wants our focus on at the present time. We need to be fully complete and satisfied in Jesus Christ before we are ready to embrace the potential of a Godly relationship in addition to that. God's timing is perfect, He won't let us miss the gifts He has in store for us, this includes a prospective spouse as well.
Long story short… you have to completely let go, seek and trust that God will make it happen if it were truly meant to be.
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It’s a VERY tough thing to do especially if you’re new to faith like me. But I’ve been obedient and just trusting in him. Sometimes I feel extremely lost but I keep trusting any way.
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God bless whomever is reading this. Keep the hope alive but make sure you’re continuing to get closer to God in the meantime is how I see it. 🙏🏾
The timing of this video just reminds me of the goodness of God! I really was thinking about my “sad” situation to day and then this was uploaded. Truly what I needed to hear!
I'm so glad it was helpful Brie!
"We should assess the people based on who they are now, not who they could be." - I wish I heard this advice about a decade ago.
I literally needed to hear this exact message the very minute it posted...
I'm so glad it was helpful!
God is a good time, and He's an on time God. Glory be to God.
perfect timing, i already knew that God didn’t want me with this specific person but just recently he asked how i was doing (we are good friends and don’t look back on the past “relationship” we had so he still checks up here and there as a good friend would) and when i saw that he texted, i was having specific unwanted thoughts that i’ve had in the past about this situation (thinking that this guy will become spiritually mature in the future, but i know this is unlikely because of present circumstances) so i asked God to remind me once again that this guy isn’t for me so i can completely push aside those unwanted thoughts again and then here comes this video for my reassurance hehe thanks
Oh my gosh that’s exactly how I felt with a guy who also checks up on me once in a while. I just have this gut feeling that he’s not for me and that I should also move on even when I had those thoughts that I wanted to have a relationship. My mother wants me to get a Christian man hehe and I’m actually gonna look into it when I do settle down
@@lilliacurtis79 I'm not attacking anyone, He's been erasing my comments. I'm trying to help people see the truth! ua-cam.com/video/XoCK3MfrX3g/v-deo.html
I totally gave my relationship desires over to the Lord to handle. If it’s meant to be it will happen in Gods timing. For much of my life, 32 years, I have chased men due to my past abuse and neediness! No more. Now I pray for my future husband and work on me in the time being. I have great faith that Jesus, who knows my needs, will have my future husband find me one day. Prayers appreciated 🙏🏽
Thankyou so much!! Someone I'm waiting on has all of these patterns... and I see all of these signs. I have waited for atleast 8 months and that's ruining my life now. I needed this. Thankyou thankyou thank u.... such a great help
So glad it was helpful!
If person not putting lot of effort getting to know you move on.
I just asked the Lord this question earlier today... and here he is delivering the prophetic word. Lord you are truly a loving father 🙏
Amen! Praise God!
Gods grace removed me from a horrible relationship that wasn’t of God
I am now married to a Godly woman by Gods purpose
If its God's will I'm married it will happen 🙏
I believe that people put too much emphasis on romantic relationships. I have been single for 15 years and I like it. Jesus said the Apostle Paul were single.
@@melodieperkins7080 people are different, some desire to be with someone and others do not I have been single 4 years but God has given me dreams and visions of my future husband God's continuous Blessings be upon you 🙏
Amen and Amen, I've learned to make God my priority not people, life is too short to be waiting on people instead of on the Lord, Amen
Amen
I'm in a unequally yoked engagement. We separated before the engagement but still he is the same person. I'm Christian and he is not. It feels like I need to move on and be with someone who understands God and His Word.
Yes ma'am, God even means being friends or developing business relations with someone unequal. I married someone I was unequally yoked with and he really became more ungodly, even while telling me the things I wanted to hear. The spirit and absence of God is unsettling and the absence of that peace is telling. Run away and just trust God to bring your husband to you.
The one God created for you is out there and he will pursue you. Before God gave Eve to Adam, God ensures his boy had a home and a job. That's how He will send our husbands. Equipped.
@@kay20gators12 Amen! Thank you!🤗❤
Perfect timing, as Always 💯💯
God bless!
God used your content to speak to me quite often. Thank you for being humble and faithful with your platform. Your ministry is helping and changing a lot of lives. God bless you!
It's interesting. None of these apply to me right now, but I haven't received peace about moving forward with a really good and godly woman.
I'm stuck 😅. Just waiting on God.
God bless as you follow the Lord :)
Stop wasting this woman’s time. Marry her or move on! The Lord gives you the power of choice. God bless.
@@ladym6005 We aren't dating, just friends. The Lord gives us choice, but has His will be can ignore or follow. Things this important can't be moved on without a clear and confirmed yes from the Lord.
I commend you for yielding to the Holy Spirit, instead of just going with your emotions and that she is godly. As someone that has had several counterfeits (got "confirmations", they were leaders in the church, etc.), I am appreciating and thankful for the wait because God knows the truth and is protecting us. Pray for wisdom and discernment, for anything hidden to be revealed, and for peace in the situation (whether to move forward in courtship or mutual separation). It may just be about timing, or maybe even though it seems like a good thing, its not God's very best for you. Remain faithful and strong in Him.
@@hadassaheritage Thank you for the advice and words of encouragement. Asking for hidden things to be revealed is a good addition to my prayers for her. I love her, but I love and wish to follow the Lord more. I sure hope it's a timing thing, but I suspect it a no. We can hope, prayerful hope is not a sin. However, as we wait, we know that every good and perfect gift comes from our Father, if it's not from Him it's not good and perfect. Blessings for you Kristina.
If you wait around on someone then you may pass up the opportunity of meeting someone new. If it is mint to be god will see that it will be.
And to me, it has just come at the right time. Very great pastor Mark, God bless.
So glad it was helpful Jacob!
Thanks for all this, Mark; this is actually what I'm going through right now! Please pray that God would give me the right wisdom and that I'd take that path.
Absolutely true pliz pray for us right person n true soulmate.ln Jesus name Amen
Personal story: I fell in love with a married man, he was married, but gay. His wife was living across the country and we had an immediate chemistry & connected on a deep level. I waited, as he professed his love for me. He swore loyalty to me, said that when his wife WAS around; they slept in different bedrooms and hadn’t had sex in over 20 years. That was all probably true. So, I decided to wait for him. That was in 2005. In 2007; I found out, from his computer one day; that no only was I NOT the only person he was with; he was a sex addict, and had hundreds of encounters and thousands of contacts. Unfortunately, I had become so intwined with him, and a death occurred in my immediate family right when I found out; and I was working for him; I stayed. I stayed, with promises of fidelity. We are married now. It took him until 2013 to get divorced, and we were married in 2019. I stayed at this point, for every reason - except love. That died when I found out about his philandering. He never stopped this behavior; and never intends to. I know I need to move on. But, now I’ve trapped myself in a lifeless, loveless marriage.
If you’ve gotten to the end of this true story of MY life; please; PLEASE, move on. Once a cheater, always a cheater; and when they make you wait, without a date or even a promise, these are clear signs.
God bless you richly and inspire you even more, dear Mark !
Planning our lives around could's are not wise. Imaginary friends don't make good spouses. Even when God shows us all the signs, and we may choose to do the right thing, our feelings can still overwhelm us and may have us feeling like we're in a state of defeat.
No. 3 !!!! Sooooo important. Thank you!
God bless!
Oh no that 4th point killed me :(.... I met this younger guy after a long time he’s a brother of my friend.... and what drew me to him is that there was this unique moment like a spark it was so powerful and nice.... and since then I still think about him... meanwhile there’s this other guy who said he liked me but I don’t want him because I always wanted someone whom I’ll want from the first moment not that I will have to create “something” there.... and I feel like God doesn’t listen and doesn’t care for me because for so many years I’m struggling with overthinking so I don’t know what’s right. And I keep repeating the Songs - do not awake the love for me when it’s not ready..
Our Heavenly Father still cares for you deeply. He cares about your heart. Who can understand all His ways. It’s gonna be alright.
Our Heavenly Father still cares for you deeply. He cares about your heart. Who can understand all His ways. It’s gonna be alright.
This is a great video! I really needed this message today, thanks so much Mark!
You are so welcome!
Oh perfect timing, I was just thinking about this topic. Pastor Mark, thank you so much for such of wisdom words. Blessings, from Phoenix Arizona.
Don't seriously for waiting some one. God have plan maybe single forever or not. Just thankfull always for God whatever sutuation. God love me. Amin
Mark with another W. Just getting more and more based with each video
So glad this was helpful!
Wow!!! Thank you! Perfect timing!!!!!!!
You're so welcome! All glory to God!
Thanks for sharing this wisdom through these videos. I should have been seeking God all along, and it was a mistake. I know that God is more than enough, but I pray that if God means for me to have someone, that He will take over this situation. I'm done jumping the gun.
I had a similar situation and I have stopped waiting. He cannot commit at this time which means I am moving on!
Good for you sis! 🙌🏾
But what if you don't want to wait or think about this person but anything you do you still think about them you've tried everything so you believe its God. I feel like something in me wants me to think of the person
This
Yea.. he still didn't answer :(
Amen. Points are clear. Thank you. GOD Bless
great advice, while I long for famous people, I certainly spend too much time in a fantasy rather then doing the right thing and focus more attention on myself and god .... thank you, god bless you
These videos just pop up at 2 am to answer my questions. Always the perfect answer! ✝️❤️‼️
Another timely video thank you Mark. God bless!
My pleasure! So glad it was helpful!
woah i was just thinking about this. currently i’m trying my hardest to be patient with my boyfriend bc we are on a break and i’ve been praying whether or not i should keep waiting for him. then this pops up. luckily none of these signs relate. i’m gonna ask God again but until then i’ll keep waiting.
I want to please god more than anything and praise his holy name and ask him may he give me the knowledge of a strong wise Christian I want to follow in the path that god has set for me I don’t want to stray away from god I want to follow the way that god tells me to follow and may he bless me with biblical knowledge and may he bless me with a stronger spirit connecting close to him may I study gods word and may his word be in my spirit and heart and mind may I praise god and submit to him fully
Amen, God first always!
Me an my baby’s father isn’t over an I believe that but he’s just immature. I’m taking this time to have a break from relationships an getting myself together. But him he has to go threw it to so I’ll be patient with him but focus on the lord I’m not interested in anyone
I know someone close to me,a family memeber, in a similar situation to yours and they are still waiting after all these years.They were in their early 20s then.They're now in their 50s now.Her child is grown and getting married before her. The father still hasn't truly commited and giving her false hope of a happy ending.When someone loves you nothing will stop them from coming to you. You only get one life.
I only say this with love I hope God opens your eyes to see what you deserve and how precious you are💗
@@prettyalina7237 well there is this Hebrew Israelite and he wants me and I don’t want him because I can’t stand obese men am I making wrong judgments on him because of his appearance or should I keep going and be single because I been seeking a man my entire life and I think I need a break🙄😩🤧🙁
@@LifeAboutToya I can tell you from my personal experience. *Please* don't date someone you aren't attracted to. Some people aren't meant for us.Take it as a sign from God that,that person isn't the one for you. 1 experience I've had is a man who I met a few years ago. (The similar situation about not being attracted to that type of person.) He is very kind,loves children,active in the church but as for me. There are quality about him in his character ect that I did not like. Extremely expressive in a more feminine way(it may be his culture) and extremely talkative. He is not gay but as for myself I had to decline spending anymore time getting to know him in a group setting and distance myself. But pretaining to what you were saying. I noticed he was on the heavier side when he first came to our church but getting larger by the year.Some time had passed,I remember we were in the elevator in our church with some others. Someone had said there was extra food & did anyone want more?(we had enough.) He hopped out of that elevator forgot what he was going to do and scurried so quickly to get more at the church bbq. I thought then, for certain,personally,for _myself_ and my life "I can't have a man who won't take care of his health.The man God has for me needs to be there for our future children. Active and being alive." I could almost imagine him being out of breath running after children. This isn't what I desire.
He is still a good man and he ended up marrying a woman who completely understands him because
she has family that's similar to him in his mannerisms ect even though they are form different cultures He is Brazilian and she is french.
In fact, he found out he's called to be a pastor and he works with the children's ministry. It's Gods purpose to make him talkative & expressive to reach the kids. Especially during covid & having church via online. His wife is a daughter of a previous pastor at our church. She is a nicu nurse and loves children too. You see? This couple found each other organically.God brought them together. For certain I know they are right for one another. So take it from me. Where there's smoke there's fire. I know it's the opposite. There's no spark so don't force it.
I'd be fooling myself a few years ago trying to "like" indivisuals when I know I am not attracted to them.You ever garden? Some things just take place naturally. You can't force love nor attaction. So free your mind from thinking that you need to settle. Gods word said the eye has not see nor the ear has not heard nor has it entered the heart of man the things God has instore for us. In encourage you to read songs of Solomon. The whole book is talking about love and character and how beautiful and perfect to that person their loved one is and likewise.Love is beautiful. Gods love is a reflection in marriages. You cant force it,its just something that grows and is.
Lastly wanted to share a joke but also a statement.
"One thing you don't run for is a bus,a train or man because when one leaves another arrives."
He said he will wait for me... Only thing keeping us apart is distance
We love you pastor good word I’m so glad to be apart of this community it has blessed us all
Agreed! We appreciate you, Mark!❤
May the Lord bless you and your family
Thanks for the great message it's a clear answer to some of my deep questions about my relationship right now and I have also shared this message with a friend Blessings!! 😁
Amen, I'll surely take note of these...
Confirmation 💚
I’ve had a few signs about guys being in a relationship. For one of them, I had a crush on him (he went to my church) from 8th grade till right before senior year of high school. I eventually understood nothing would happen between us, and I was fine with that. Another guy I had a crush on after high school worked at the gym and was talking to a girl he went to school with. I eventually stopped having a crush on him, but we still talked sometimes. They broke up a in 2019 or something and then got back together in August 2020 or something. He and I still talk sometimes, but I’m not waiting for him to get out of the relationship. I totally respect their relationship; we’re just friends (closer to acquaintances, but still!) 😁
God is speaking to me!!!
Hearing God say this is your person often times does not mean waiting on the person. It could mean keep living your life and growing through God until it’s the time for you and this person to be together 7:52
Confirmed thank you 🙏🏾
Just never fall in love.
1 Corinthians 13
Thanks for sharing. I will keep seeking the face of God. Either way I know I will be alright in Jesus name. Amen and Amen and Amen.
Amen Ladenna, God bless as you keep following Jesus!
Lord im not trusting him I am trusting your revelation
God is amazing bro...
Beautifully said I needed this message desperately. Thank you
The Lord bless you in all your decisions 😃
Hey baby it's me I am the one for you. Hahaha jk.
yeah im still waiting for my ex to come to Christ and if God decides to bring us back together that would be great. If He doesnt, thats just something ill have to live with. Im hoping for it but im not waiting for him. Im waiting on God. Still praying for him though, there is nothing I can do more than that.
@Dye Dye yeah I feel you on that too, but I've boldly asked for this specific thing and have been praying and waiting and do not want a replacement. I figure nothing is too big or impossible for Him to bring to pass in His time. That being said, I am open to what He brings buutttt I still really want what I asked for lol.
@Dye Dye I have let him go in my heart as far as waaahh i want him back now😭😭😭 knowing that this is just horrible timing even if it were to happen. God has never let me down, or given me anything half baked. Him not being a believer and our current life situations are not conducive to that blessing. All we really can do is put these men in God's hands. No matter what we see or dont see in the natural, God is always working! He changed us and our lives, and He can change them too!
@Dye Dye yesss I pray and talk to Him about everything! really do need to put Him on every day like you get dressed in the morning. Absolutely essential to get through life at all times. He knows we are feeling frustrated and waiting, but he is patient with us and understands our feelings. He will never give us anything outside of His timing.
Great words Mark. Thanks 😊, blessings to you and your family 😘
God bless you too!
Jesus loves you!!!!
Mark, what about waiting for someone to have a stable source of income - to be stable in life? But the thing is, the girl isn't attracted to the physical attributes of the guy, rather she likes how he treats her - with respect. What are your thoughts on this?
Everything is in gods hands he knows our hearts ya don’t run from love
Hello dear❤ I can recommend you to a power a man in Africa who help me to get my ex back within 24 hours
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Amen!! Such good advice.
So glad it was helpful Concetta!
Yes, and Im loving the man 🤴🏽 & not what he has to offer, only 💯
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I’m sure moving on is always the biblical answer and I kinda take issue with the , if “they are in a relationship with someone else that is a clear sign God wants you to move on”. God can still be saying wait, things will turn around, or you just have to be patient. Maybe he wants to teach you to trust him that he can make things happen. I’m have been praying about this exact situation in my life lately too. I haven’t been sure what God is saying but I have strong feelings for this girl and feel like God is telling me to wait. Been wrong before.
After the death of my first son and subsequently my marriage ending in divorce…. I feel like I’m not meant to be married and will just stay single.
How come it's always five things are seven things how come it's never just one thing one single clear sign.
God speak on many ways, that’s why
I would love to hear you talk about Paige and Chris from married at first sight. Paige is a Christian and is ignoring red flags bc she thinks God wants this relationship for her.
God does not want you to wait for someone,
1. If this person is in a relationship with someone else
2. If this person has asked you to wait for them more than once
3. If you are not in a relationship with this person because of their current spiritual immaturity or because of character issues
4. If you are waiting for this person ONLY because you had a sense that this is what God wants,
5. If waiting is no longer wise based upon the discernment the Holy Spirit is giving you
Lord Jesus tells us to have faith. He also tells us to pray and not give up. God tells us He will give a new heart and a new spirit. A new heart and a new spirit is the changing of a person. Praying to God to change someone is faith. It is the job of a Christian to help a person to Lord Jesus who will save. Be careful of people who say "I think". Listen to the words of God. Someone who is not responsive to your love, does mean God doesn't want this person to be your love. The more recalcitrant a person is toward you, the more God is glorified. So go for it. Pray for that love that is at present loveless. Put your trust in God to change that person. God bless
Jesus Christ knows you better then you know yourself♡
Girls be ware of a grown boy that pressures or rushes you to compromise your values. We need to require standards, boundaries,morals, and take your time. If a man says or acts by saying " it's what I say, not what you say!" Run as fast as you can!!!! It's not love but control and the benefits he's going to receive. Other red flags:no real job, bad past patterns, lives with his momma, car insured by someone else, shorty he sees and provides for at his convenience, and the two -faced -double -minded "church" man (question Christian character or any character that is contradicting). RUN RUN RUN. He will manipulate you by putting you on a pedestal and fake cherishing you, sex etc. then when he moves in he will devalue you so you don't leave. It's all about control.Then he will turn it all around on you and play the victim. This is about you being a part of their narrative not your individuality. Do not submit or bow down to a man with no plan and puts his own needs 1st. Love yourself!!! Especially if you have children. You wont know if your coming or going and walking on eggshells. Life will revolve around their wants and needs. You have been selected to do their bidding and regulating their emotions. A lot of these people have personality disorders. Tell yourself I deserve more, I deserve peace, I deserve to be happy, I am competent and responsible, lastly tell yourself their is a great big world and plenty of good men but you have to search in the right places and take your time. Just say I need to look through the lenses of abundance not have a scarcity mindset. Yes, I've been watching a lot of different coaching videos. Good luck and God Bless!!!!
God Bless you Mark. God's timing is always perfect. Lol on the yellow flag plausible red 🚩.
So glad it was timely!
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Always Mark ! :-)
🎊🎊🎊🎊ooh good reasons, hallelujah, amen,God is king,in Jesus blood, AMEN
I haven't watched one of his videos and over two years I won't watch I should say 11 watch the full video of his in over 2 years and I won't until he comes out with one that's just one clear sign one single player sign God wants or does not want you to do such and such. The word. I meant sorry speech-to-text is not backing up the tone that I'm trying to present
True i need to move on nothing come of this should of could of doesnt matter anymore hes never said either way but i love you time to move on boss goodbye
Not sure if I've necessarily been waiting on someone, but I've known this man for 6 years. We've been friends, not super close but there. I feel like there's moments of this unexplainable connection, but when we get deep enough it just kind of dissipates, and I feel like I dont fit into his world. Doesn't really give me the time of day lol but in my last relationship God gave me dreams like he was coming around (not why I broke up with the last guy). Wonderful, serious man of God, but doesn't seem to be serious about us. Idk why God has given me certain dreams if its been for nothing.
Be open to being pursued, but if he don’t, then don’t wait. Or just don’t miss out on someone new because of him. You said you weren’t necessarily waiting, so it sounds like this is what you been doing but you’re just curious about him. Just guard your heart and be open (maybe flirt), but let his actions speak. If he ain’t serious about you, don’t be serious about him, but let him know it’s all based on him. You probably know all this, though. It’s easy to see you’re wise.
I wouldn’t worry about fitting into his world so much. I think if a man wants a woman in his life, he’s going to adjust everything else to fit her in it.
I understand the dream thing, because I’ve had dreams that were misleading for me, so just be careful with those. Looking back, (in my situation) it was just my flesh and I liked her a lot. They were just projections of my thoughts throughout the day.
Thanks for sharing good advice words, Mr.. AGW speaker councellor on your Vlog..
Ithis is a signed sigmal for meh😢😔 ;((
I got the sign now today, May 08, 2023 @ 4:pm..
I will continue & start more steps to MoVe oN & go on for good. This tauruean months season in my life.
I will always Love him in special way...
TC always My Dear person Sinta in my Heart & Mind..💖❤💝😘
He’s in a relationship but I still have feelings for him and it’s been 6 months
I feel God speaking to me
May God bless us A Husband/Wife Amen❤🎉
I (and this person) both tried to make things happen and every time something came up on their end. At first I felt angry and led on, but later the person genuinely told me he wasnt trying to, and life is crazy (and I do believe this). So at that point I sent him off with well wishes. We both believe God will make whatever happen to happen if it is in His will, and I have trust in that now. Hope that this person and I will be meant to be, even if not permanently, and will have time together as we both want to. We pray for each other too
God bless as you follow the Lord
I had the same experience. I meet this guy and felt deeply connected to him . We complemented each other so well . He felt like a best friend to me loved spending time with him . But it wasn’t the right time for us to get together. I really pray that if he’s the one that God may unite us back . 🙏🏽
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I think 3 & 5 stand out the most for me. If you've been in a relationship with someone who actually did have a Godly character but then chose to backslide it is very emotionally and psychologically disorientating. What do you say to the man or woman who found they had a great potential spouse/fiance/their soulmate, only to see them gradually take on worldly traits/strange doctrine and not care about "dissolving" their union? The same goes for those already married, ministry teams in churches and close business partners. The damage and sense of betrayal can be nigh impossible to return to normality from. Well, only God can make the waste places like Eden, trust Him, obey Him and let Him lead you to greener pastures.
Thanks, Mark.
My situation has been years, separated by different countries, immigration issues (largely $$$ and a lack of it) and other things beyond our control. We have both tried to give up eachother, tried to date others, but even going no contact didn't work. (Especially after March 2020 we thought of eachother more than ever.)
In the several years we've been stuck apart, I have tried on many, MANY opportunities to move on. Every time I would look up "How to move on" (since my usual methods don't work) Yah/God would put things of the opposite effect in my path.
Even this morning I was looking up "closing doors on someone" and the first thing that came up was a Marc the Messenger video about when He doesn't want us to close doors on someone.
The most startling time, though, was when I was washing my hair and lamenting "Please, Father, bring me a husband of my own" and this thought that was not my own interjected with an image of my long-distance love and said "Didn't I already give you a husband?"
Surely Yah/God has a plan for us beyond human comprehension. It's just hard being patient as a human in this world. To Our Father, one thousand years is equal to a day, meaning "soon" to Him is not the same as "soon" to us. We know nothing, He knows everything. It still sucks waiting and not knowing, though 😅 but He refuses to let me move on, so I can only trust and have faith that He's planning to reunite us. I don't think it's the devil who won't allow me to move on, I don't think the devil said "Didn't I already give you a husband?" (We are not married by human law, though would like to be. But it seems we must be by His law.)
I remember a quote a man wrote in his feed after breakup - she is leaving me like the other guy is not going to make her wait ever. And random guy commented - bro She Will But Now She Don't Wants To Wait For You.
I have faced 3rd point alot & alot. 💖💖💖💖💖
I’m friendly with a guy who’s not a Christian- & believe me, I know that’s not something to get into, as I’ve made that mistake before - but the problem is I’ve been waiting in a sense too on the point u make about someone becoming more spiritual ie. in this case, him gettin saved. I’ve had more clarity recently with not being able to see him with the pandemic & he knows the gospel & I’ve pointed him to church sites etc etc & I think he’s maybe just comfortable where he is tho he says he believes in God. As u mention, it’s like having an imaginary person in your mind, ie. it’s not real. He is what he is at this minute. And I seriously pray God saves him, but I can’t keep waiting on that happening right now with the aim of a relationship after. Would anyone reading this please pray for him to have his eyes opened to his need of Christ. Cos that’s the most important thing. Thank you 🙏
Yes, it sounds like it's time to move on completely. This may help: ua-cam.com/video/jmfH5StJa9Y/v-deo.html
I just prayed for you piano girl.
Thank you for posting this sir. Very good timing. There is someone I met who I’ve been thinking about this stuff with. I’ve told many friends the story and some have said to give her time to think about what she wants, and some even said it may be better to just move on. From what you’re saying in this video it sounds like I should definitely move on. I’ve been single for 10 years now and so it seems it never really works out so it’s possible God is calling me to be single, or he may be having me wait for a period of time before he blesses me with a woman. We will see.
thx mate God Bless you!!
Thank you so much Mark...
You are very welcome, all glory to God!
The end is a bit over the top though? Better to leave someone than to stay with them if not completely sure...? That's like saying in court one is guilty until proven innocent. Crazy, to be honest. I'm sure you ought to spend another video going deeper into it. We are talking about a relationship. And God. Both people who want to do God's will. Remember Abraham? They doubted about stuff for many, many decades. They didn't just give up because they doubted. But the signs were very, very clear. There would never be an Isaac. I mean, that's the point of real doubt. There can be even more factors.
Still his in relationship but he said to wait him few month? Should move on.....
Man Mark .....I'm in such a confused state . This Christian girl I liked so much .....we both expressed interests but she said she's not ready for dating but then she gives mixed signals....I prayed to God to show me a sign whether I should move on....its so complicated 😭.....I Guess I will pray again to really see if I should move on 😭🙏
Some people just like the attention. I'd leave it alone.