HUSBAND WANT ME TO WASH HIS A**

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  • @farzanamotin6500
    @farzanamotin6500 2 роки тому +275

    VIDEO IDEA!!!!
    Let us know the outcomes of all your Q&A’s if the person that emailed let’s you know what happened in the end (and obviously they give permission) because we are dying to know what happens from these situations !!!!!

  • @leilaa4751
    @leilaa4751 2 роки тому +203

    May god protect us from having creeps like this as spouses with weird fetishes.

    • @awbw6453
      @awbw6453 2 роки тому +7

      Ameen🙏🏾

    • @Riazkhanshinwari
      @Riazkhanshinwari 2 роки тому

      This fight against the Shaitaan and his allies is an uphill struggle. All these extreme desires are from the Shaitaan and the Nafs and Nafs is the dopamine deluge that the brain always wants which is not good for us. The fight is real and we won’t give it up to Shaitaan, this evil and vile invisible enemy with absolutely no moral standards whatsoever.

    • @MohammedQureshi-yk6gu
      @MohammedQureshi-yk6gu 8 місяців тому

      Ameen

  • @Riazkhanshinwari
    @Riazkhanshinwari 2 роки тому +119

    I have always loved Sid & Dina as a nice couple. Apart from being husband and wife, they’re best friends which is fantastic.

  • @havvanuro.c4193
    @havvanuro.c4193 2 роки тому +94

    I'm seriously scared for the safety of this child. Like Dina said, I would not want my husband to even be in the house if is he able to sexualise a caring moment with a baby. That's some scary shit. I would advise you to divorce, because he's obviously also a manipulitive person to obstain you from sex trying to force you into doing something you are not comfortable with. But besides that, you need to try get evidence of his fetish. Idk try to record him or something when having a convo about it or save clips from the babyphone. Once divorced he is going to get a shared custody and be alone with your child like that....

  • @kayla5160
    @kayla5160 2 роки тому +42

    I would get a divorce. There is something disturbing about him getting turned on when you are changing the child’s nappy. If you are religious the imams, priests, religious leaders of whatever religion you are would agree that this is grounds for divorce. Please make sure your child is never alone with this man. You never know what someone is capable of. I can tell you first hand that you need to look out for these warning signs before it’s too late. As a mom it is your job to protect this child.

  • @Miajayexo
    @Miajayexo 2 роки тому +22

    Divorce asap! Inform child protection officers to make sure he is never alone with children, and get this man some psychological help 🤢

  • @zainubaali6704
    @zainubaali6704 2 роки тому +109

    I can’t remember being this uncomfortable while watching a Sid and Dina advice video before. Not only is it a major red flag that he doesn’t understand boundaries and then buys laxatives, but he also gets a kick out of watching her wipe their babies bum. He obviously needs help for his mental health but regardless of his backstory and trauma, I think don’t think that she should feel obliged to meet his unreasonable expectations. Her answer is no and she should stick her ground or else like Sid said. She’ll get stuck doing something that will ruin her mental health and their marriage for good.
    The only way I see it working out is if he A) gets therapy and B) he no longer asks for it or he gets his needs met by someone else. What a tough situation for this poor sister. She just had a baby and this dumbo is asking her to wipe is a** when I’m sure the sister barely gets time wipe her own a**.

  • @heenaaurrangzeb
    @heenaaurrangzeb 2 роки тому +44

    When sid says " who would want to put up with that shit" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ojitosrodriguez114
    @ojitosrodriguez114 2 роки тому +21

    anytime children are involved... ELIMINATE THE THREAT IMMEDIATELY. risking your child's safety for your own romantic interests is not only selfish but morally wrong 💀😭

  • @altynaibekten7620
    @altynaibekten7620 2 роки тому +118

    I feel like staring thing is really off… leave him, don’t risk your kids safety

    • @pretaporterp
      @pretaporterp 2 роки тому +14

      same. it's the creepy staring at the baby for me...that's not a red flag but an atomic bomb!!!!! very disturbing.

    • @JB-ys2cp
      @JB-ys2cp 2 роки тому +4

      Yes especially if he was sexually abused by his parents as it can sometimes lead to a chain of abuse, God forbid

  • @NeonKodiak
    @NeonKodiak 2 роки тому +36

    broke his arm and he couldnt use his other arm to clean himself???
    honestly he has issues and needs help or else this is totally grounds for divorce. he should be helping with the kid and not be jealous of his own child, thats really fucked

  • @TriniBelle111
    @TriniBelle111 2 роки тому +37

    LMAOOO, Sid’s “nothing like this!” Clarification point; I am dyyyyinnng😂😂😂

  • @infinitelove3840
    @infinitelove3840 2 роки тому +53

    Dina, you look so beautiful, I love the hair style and make up and the color of the t-shirt looks great on you!

  • @waji78611
    @waji78611 2 роки тому +23

    Regardless of whether we’re allowed to have sex before marriage or not.. islam has a guideline of sexual etiquettes! This man is waaaaaay out of line.. pornography and exposure to the perversion of sexuality is to blame .. i dont mean become a prude.. the prophet and companions didnt shy away from talking about what constitutes a healthy sex life .. but people are so twisted nowadays..ewwwww ..allah protect brothers and sisters from the unknown horrors of a potential spouse ..

    • @Tan-ns2hr
      @Tan-ns2hr 2 роки тому +1

      Everything he wants is so haraam, she needs to divorce him asap and free herself

  • @inayahhussain2509
    @inayahhussain2509 2 роки тому +86

    I absolutely agree with Dina! She's just an amazing representation of what a level headed person who identifies as Muslim looks like!!!

    • @ghadeera1642
      @ghadeera1642 2 роки тому +10

      I'm sorry, "person who identifies as Muslim " wtf does that even mean?? You're either a Muslim or not, you believe in God or not. That's all it is..

    • @zeena3411
      @zeena3411 2 роки тому

      @@ghadeera1642 Don't reply with ignorance just because the comment came from a woman and you got pissed. Chill bro.

    • @ghadeera1642
      @ghadeera1642 2 роки тому +3

      @@zeena3411 lol how is my comment ignorance? It's actually the opposite...Also I'm a woman too and I have no issue with their gender, I'm just saying it's black and white, you believe in God or you don't. There's no "identifying" about being Muslim 😂

    • @zeena3411
      @zeena3411 2 роки тому

      @@ghadeera1642 so you don't think part of your identity is Muslim? You just are Muslim? There's obviously a bigger conversation to be had here but yes, you can identify as Muslim and have it be PART of YOUR IDENTITY as long as other things. Don't be so daft.

    • @zeena3411
      @zeena3411 2 роки тому

      @@ghadeera1642 you remind me of the girls I used to go to school with, ignorant hijabis who want to haram police everyone. Read a dictionary and understand what the word identity means. If your WHOLE identity is based around being Muslim, you sound pretty damn boring.

  • @DJ-sj3vh
    @DJ-sj3vh 2 роки тому +13

    UK Law Grad here...
    Any one is eligible to file for a divorce after 1 year of marriage. This is called the '1-year Rule'. Therefore, this woman (being married for two years, can in fact apply for a divorce).
    There are 5 grounds for divorce. One of which includes the ground of "Unreasonable Behaviour". This can include refusing to provide intimate relations, lack of affection, lack of financial support, etc. Therefore, this woman can divorce her husband on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour.

  • @sweetchilli559
    @sweetchilli559 2 роки тому +45

    Okay so this was weird but irrespective of what your sexual preferences are, it’s wrong to ‘force’ someone to comply to them. It’s a compromise, and if something makes you feel uncomfortable then he needs to respect that not force it. So for me, the way he’s approached it is a red flag because he can use this same technique to force it impose anything else. It’s important to set your boundaries. Completely agree with Sid and Dina and well put !! I would have a conversation with him like they said, and really get to understand where it comes from and if he is willing to change it. If he is, then perhaps try sex therapy or a psychotherapist to address the issues beneath the surface. If he tells you that it’s non negotiable and that you must do it, then you might need to think about your options of moving on for your sake. Hope you get through this and all the best xx

  • @javi3701
    @javi3701 2 роки тому +21

    This is a very disturbed individual, regardless of his past, just think about it, many abusers may have a disturbed past or whatever, but they are what they are and u stay away from them. It's next to impossible to cure this individual, he's not going to change, this kink is part of him and you need to get out, I also agree with Dina, this is just the start, he's already told u something very disturbing so early on, things are only going to get creepier with this guy.

  • @beezee17
    @beezee17 2 роки тому +12

    I agree with Dina 👌🏼 Conversations about intimacy need to happen before marriage for sure. We can’t assume we are marrying someone heterosexual with no weird fantasies.

  • @lyndaalgeriana5736
    @lyndaalgeriana5736 2 роки тому +63

    F***** on so many levels. Some people are sick in the head. Life as a Muslim girl/woman isn’t easy as it is. Imagine getting married and then getting mad requests like this. May ALLAH be with you girl. He needs help big time. Him watching you as you change your child is creepy AF! Like Dina said, he might of been abused before or maybe a gay relationship. All sorts are going through my head for his creepy requests. Be strong darling. All the best.

  • @taybaal8760
    @taybaal8760 2 роки тому +13

    Yesterday I saw a video on tiktok of a story of someone who had similar issues to this... its about a wife that realised her husband was sneaking out at night and going thru the bin to sniff their child's nappy... honestly me and my husband couldn't believe it and were disgusted, we thought that its probably a made up story... but now you posted this and I'm starting to believe that some people are really messed up in the head 😐. I hope he seeks for help because this is not okay.

  • @hasinabx
    @hasinabx 2 роки тому +14

    Dina you look absolutely stunning here, that colour really suits you ❤😍

  • @pamelaboden
    @pamelaboden 2 роки тому +53

    I think his "kink" has more to do with his desire to be taken care of in the most simplest form. I think therapy might be a good idea for both of them. I think they need to have a deep talk about this. She needs to know how this really makes him feel.

  • @osmary.
    @osmary. 2 роки тому +17

    Sid and Dina questions/advice emails are literally the best😂

  • @glittergirl1753
    @glittergirl1753 2 роки тому +4

    Dina looks so stunning. She’s glowing mashAllah

  • @shine9080
    @shine9080 2 роки тому +6

    The big red flag is denying intercourse if you do not accept his request… it’s very manipulative way to get what he wants even against your desire so if he refuses any deep chat about it with you or someone else can support you as a couple, honestly start to think about divorce… feeling jealousy looking some acts on your child is very weird behaviour, definitely something disturbs him so please… get support ANY asap

  • @elineversonnen9429
    @elineversonnen9429 2 роки тому +7

    Dina, you look gorgeous! I like this makeup look ☺️

  • @KamranQureshi-CFO
    @KamranQureshi-CFO 2 роки тому +5

    wow such an intense episode, good thing you guys are taking up such touchy/taboo topics to help out the individuals

  • @Yazmínmf
    @Yazmínmf 2 роки тому +23

    Just when I thought I’ve heard it all 😳 May Allah help this sister 🥺🤲🏽

  • @E-A.
    @E-A. 2 роки тому +6

    My heart breaks for this sister. May Allah set be with you.

  • @rubimahmood
    @rubimahmood 2 роки тому +4

    Man Dina is glowing.. makeup tutorial please

  • @asmaj.631
    @asmaj.631 2 роки тому +17

    He probably broke his arm on purpose

  • @dandelion_.
    @dandelion_. 2 роки тому +7

    Dinaaaa looking gorggggg with that ponytail mashallah mashallah😍😍❤️

  • @noorchishti2108
    @noorchishti2108 2 роки тому +10

    I would recommend her to please go and see a therapist because honestly the husband's mind is **** up but after the situation, I am sure her brain must be ***** up as well. don't hesitate even just for yourself as an individual to reach out for help. other than that I definitely believe the husband needs help with therapy for himself and maybe couples as well. Don't do anything you are not comfortable with and is completely wrong. put an end to this shit from the beginning rather than keeping up with it and ruining your own mental health and regretting continuing the relationship with your husband. it will take a lot of strength for you to do anything, so pray to Allah and I hope you can figure out this mess and continue with a happy and healthier life.

  • @hyrunnisa997
    @hyrunnisa997 2 роки тому +9

    Either he stops and gets therapy or she should divorce him. Asap. Don't wait. He really really f@

  • @moraz72
    @moraz72 2 роки тому +13

    Oh my what's going on people's minds🙉 Maybe this is the starting, later he wants to pee or 💩 on you🙈. I'm really discusted!

  • @susuti90
    @susuti90 2 роки тому +11

    I would give hin an Ultimatum to Go to the therapist. I don’t think he wull answer questions honestly to his wife so he needs to go to a specialist

  • @zubia7284
    @zubia7284 2 роки тому +4

    Dina your skin looks amaze here MashaAllah!!😍

  • @Muzzy01
    @Muzzy01 2 роки тому +7

    It would be interesting to read up theories from Sigmund Freud on sexuality. I studied some of his theories.

  • @Hannah-qe9si
    @Hannah-qe9si Рік тому

    I would love an updated makeup routine, the base looks so flawless!

  • @fatimahconteh3971
    @fatimahconteh3971 2 роки тому +2

    Say what you want about Dina but she always speak on topic with total transparency.

  • @sabrinacoolest
    @sabrinacoolest 2 роки тому +13

    He probably needs therapy....

  • @fahmidazeidan8382
    @fahmidazeidan8382 2 роки тому +14

    Sounds like the dubai porter potty 2.0

    • @moraz72
      @moraz72 2 роки тому +1

      Yes just watched about it this week. So gross😖

    • @laiba97
      @laiba97 2 роки тому

      What is that

    • @hyrunnisa997
      @hyrunnisa997 2 роки тому

      What are you referring to?!?

  • @shiiiba6258
    @shiiiba6258 2 роки тому +5

    Dina you are glowing

  • @BadBarbieBabyGirl
    @BadBarbieBabyGirl 2 роки тому +3

    That’s so disgusting and disrespectful she should leave him. That’s a NO.

  • @artaxoctarine4704
    @artaxoctarine4704 2 роки тому +7

    My face while you were reading this 😧

  • @User77587
    @User77587 2 роки тому +3

    Unloading his baggage 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ani8218
    @ani8218 2 роки тому +7

    I would say mashallah for this beautiful couple sid and dina❤❤

  • @hannahmushtaq6362
    @hannahmushtaq6362 2 роки тому +3

    Dina your glowinggggg ma sha Allah 🥺🤩

  • @sweetsalara
    @sweetsalara 2 роки тому +3

    He needs major help whether she stays or not because if she leaves the kids will have to spend time with him unless she can use this to keep them from him in the courts. But as a mom I'd hate for my kids to be with him without me knowing he would stare....... 😁😭

  • @sulekha3771
    @sulekha3771 2 роки тому +10

    💀 did this kinky business surface after the two years of marriage? Because I can't imagine you'd want to have a kid with this heffa after those deplorable requests

  • @roohk6380
    @roohk6380 2 роки тому +3

    How many of these problems are brought on by the women's lack of awareness of their spouses? The need for dating and relationships is best illustrated by these kinds of circumstances. We could save time, effort, and possibly lives if we only got to know the man these unfortunate women are marrying. Seek pre-marital testing and screening programs and go to therapy.

  • @Zain12131
    @Zain12131 2 роки тому +10

    I wanna vomit just listening to this imagine watching it...

    • @Zain12131
      @Zain12131 2 роки тому +1

      the clapped fetish that is not this particular video

  • @JB-ys2cp
    @JB-ys2cp 2 роки тому +1

    Dina is right! As a young person myself surrounded by people looking to get married, people truly are desperate to get married simply so they can have s*x. Most of these people don’t even love each other or are financially and emotionally ready for married yet rush into it anyways leading to divorce because of reasons like this. Also, with the trend of getting married at a young age (like there’s 18 year olds getting married now), and so many young people defying their parents and family to get married, there’s a rise of Muslims getting divorced before the age of 25. Obviously, your parents shouldn’t determine exactly who you marry nor prevent you from marrying someone you truly love but your parents are there for a reason to seek knowledge and advice from. The problem with the older generation is that the parents controlled too much of their marriage-related decisions, the problem with this generation is that parents have little to no control. Divorce is a sin in Islam (unless it’s done for valid reasons like the reasoning in this video). People these days are treating marriage like a reason for one night stands and not something that should be cherished and lasting. You need to be having those uncomfortable conversations about childhood, traumas, expectations, intimacy, finance, goals etc before marriage. You wouldn’t start a job without knowing all the details so why to the same with marriage

  • @mimim8758
    @mimim8758 2 роки тому +3

    Yah I agree with Dina here lol I like how fair her observations are… Sid is just reacting lol (which yes I get it cause it is disgusting lol). For the wife to simply be disgusted and try to shoo his kink away will not be productive, clearly it hasn’t worked and he is just demanding it more and more now. It is important to know where this desire comes from and for sure they need to get a third party involved, a PROFESSIONAL third party to discuss this with them and to better understand each perspective. Preferably a relationship therapist who specializes in sex and sexual trauma. Who knows maybe the husband might realize there is a bunch of shit (no pun intended lol) he hasn’t addressed in his life that he needs to heal from or like Dina said if this is just a desire that isn’t attached to anything than he is simply incompatible with his wife sexually and its better to realize these things sooner than later. Communication is key and since this is clearly a subject matter that is overwhelming for the wife (I find it quite disturbing, so I understand if she can’t discuss this with him without making faces or getting angry), having a therapist there to explain things will be easier on both of them. Also the fact that the husband is withholding sex could possibly be an indication of something else too yikes… maybe he is slowly revealing his manipulative ways. She does say he is perfect with everything else but i mean is he? Again therapy would help with this too.

  • @hariathwal6734
    @hariathwal6734 2 роки тому +4

    Sid: Who would want to put up with that shit' LITERALLY 🤣😕

  • @Abeer_Alumrani1993
    @Abeer_Alumrani1993 2 роки тому

    It’s good that sid is in sleep mood otherwise no one could read the message smoothly as he did 🤣

  • @aseeshera5998
    @aseeshera5998 2 роки тому +7

    WTF so I did read that right???

  • @Riham09
    @Riham09 2 роки тому +1

    So many puns in this video hahaha

  • @lazydaisy8513
    @lazydaisy8513 2 роки тому +1

    Dina!!!! You look absolutely stunninggggg

  • @ladyprincessbano587
    @ladyprincessbano587 2 роки тому +6

    Eww the Topic Hahahahahahha

  • @justanotherviewer00
    @justanotherviewer00 2 роки тому +11

    This is vile wtf 🤮🤮🤮

  • @arberie6715
    @arberie6715 2 роки тому +2

    Sid is killing it with the comments hahaha 2 girls one cup

  • @aliyaali6225
    @aliyaali6225 2 роки тому +4

    Actually watched this while having my breakfast and it did put me off my coffee but love your UA-cam

  • @kerrywhittle7040
    @kerrywhittle7040 2 роки тому +8

    Weird on a next level 🤔 wtf

  • @BMusicLive
    @BMusicLive 2 роки тому

    Wow… I’m shook. Also I agree with you guys completely

  • @TheElenaNumb
    @TheElenaNumb 2 роки тому +2

    I wish you guys started the video with a trigger warning, because the amount of discomfort i have felt watching this. dear Allah may Allah protect us from such creeps

  • @1mannik
    @1mannik 2 роки тому +4

    he bought laxatives ..... deep....clean up on aisle 3 please

  • @bintissa6179
    @bintissa6179 2 роки тому +2

    Run for your child’s safety please!!!

  • @Moonee-Adam
    @Moonee-Adam 2 роки тому +2

    That ain't normal. It sound like he plays for the other team, and potentially likes children.

  • @TheYghani1
    @TheYghani1 2 роки тому +1

    Dina was talking a lot of sense!

  • @areebaabbas1219
    @areebaabbas1219 2 роки тому +1

    I should not be watching this while I’m eating !

  • @at.rabiah3625
    @at.rabiah3625 Рік тому

    That is so creepy ! Watching the baby whilst she changes the nappies! Please leave if you can .

  • @hawaouuudiallo8728
    @hawaouuudiallo8728 2 роки тому +4

    There’s no way

  • @yasminejasmine4368
    @yasminejasmine4368 2 роки тому +1

    I’m eating wara ainab…. Going to watch something else and come back to this later

  • @bleachkuchiki6297
    @bleachkuchiki6297 2 роки тому

    I can't deal with these titles LMAOOOOOOO

  • @johannaliceaga5936
    @johannaliceaga5936 2 роки тому +2

    Ya I get the part their talking about as to why he wants his butt wiped BUT the fact that he wants her to smell it just throws all those theories away cuz no no no that’s all wrong

  • @aisha0056
    @aisha0056 2 роки тому +1

    Dina, you look really lovely, have you done your make up differently?

  • @aalam418
    @aalam418 2 роки тому +1

    I’m speechless…😳😳😳

  • @mehjabeenumer5627
    @mehjabeenumer5627 2 роки тому +4

    I think this guy has mummy issues .

  • @selmamohamed8362
    @selmamohamed8362 2 роки тому +1

    The Tapioca color very nice 🤩🤩 mA

  • @johannaliceaga5936
    @johannaliceaga5936 2 роки тому +1

    Can you make long sleeve i like me T shirts please

  • @oz2186
    @oz2186 2 роки тому +5

    CRINGE WARNING HAHAHAHAHAHAUQUA

  • @zeridaparveen8708
    @zeridaparveen8708 2 роки тому +1

    Lol couldn't watch the rest off it too damaging 🙈

  • @yassinwadda7799
    @yassinwadda7799 2 роки тому +9

    might lead to being a dubai porter potty situation. going from wiping to eating 🤢🤮

    • @verte4444
      @verte4444 2 роки тому

      What????????????????

  • @WhatTheFWAFA14
    @WhatTheFWAFA14 2 роки тому +1

    so he's an adult baby diaper lover, so he may need a coping mechanism or it's some kink

  • @susuti90
    @susuti90 2 роки тому +1

    FINALLYYYYY 🎉

  • @darkwizard7982
    @darkwizard7982 2 роки тому +2

    Definitely watches filthy things on internet 🤮🤮

  • @FeliceVaiani
    @FeliceVaiani 2 роки тому +2

    I know it might be haram but he should see a Dominatrix for baby play.

    • @xxGuItArGiRLxx89
      @xxGuItArGiRLxx89 2 роки тому +1

      "Might be" 🤣

    • @FeliceVaiani
      @FeliceVaiani 2 роки тому

      @@xxGuItArGiRLxx89 I'm from a Muslim family but didn't grow up with them.

  • @Marunisi_
    @Marunisi_ 2 роки тому

    Dinaaa where is the unseen button ??

  • @radwamostafa6901
    @radwamostafa6901 2 роки тому

    eh el khara dah, literally!

  • @hindlaqdir9806
    @hindlaqdir9806 2 роки тому +1

    FINALLY 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

  • @samahahmed534
    @samahahmed534 2 роки тому +1

    She should just do it but in such a horrible way that he gets put off

    • @sabrinahoque3642
      @sabrinahoque3642 2 роки тому

      Like use really hot water that it burns his bum!!🤣🤣🤣

  • @mina1528
    @mina1528 2 роки тому

    This duniya is really full of weirdos 😂✋🤣

  • @Gagging4Lit
    @Gagging4Lit 2 роки тому

    I bet the guy broke his arm on purpose just as an excuse to get his wife to help him in the bathroom department. Disgustang.

  • @ladyprincessbano587
    @ladyprincessbano587 2 роки тому +2

    Dinaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!💖💜💖💜

  • @AishahAlii
    @AishahAlii 2 роки тому +4

    Bit extreme

  • @Fay3-
    @Fay3- 2 роки тому

    I’m not knowledgeable in Islam enough for this, but I’m sure this is grounds for divorce even Islamically. The first question. He needs to get therapy and work on these disgusting desires.

  • @Sircompetitive
    @Sircompetitive 2 роки тому +1

    Everyone has weird kinks? I hope not!

  • @peterjaro6804
    @peterjaro6804 2 роки тому +4

    You are such an interresting couple, but this letter was... well, s*it !
    However, I DO have a question to you as a couple regarding something you said. I am not after any details, just answer me: how long did it take for you two to be 'confident and relaxed' with each other when it came to intimacy? Are we talking hours(!), weeks, half a year or year(s)?

    • @ami6795
      @ami6795 2 роки тому +1

      she said years

    • @peterjaro6804
      @peterjaro6804 2 роки тому

      @@ami6795 ...yes you are right; she did!