A 57 YEAR AGE GAP AND A BABY. MAKING A FRESH START IN THE PHILIPPINES AT 80

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  • @marcrichard7251
    @marcrichard7251 6 місяців тому +15

    What a gentleman… goes to church and is helping his girlfriend’s family and her baby…. Shows great character ….

    • @addictcar69
      @addictcar69 6 місяців тому

      😅😅😅I guess I'm not a gentleman bc I don't date single moms, and I'm not taking care of my filipina gf family..according to you comments

    • @ksmithpmp
      @ksmithpmp 6 місяців тому +1

      It’s called having limited opportunities

    • @DingusCirc
      @DingusCirc 6 місяців тому +1

      Shows great character having a kid in a 3rd world country country at 80 years old .

    • @blaklion80-mp1jc
      @blaklion80-mp1jc 6 місяців тому +1

      A fool and his money are soon parted

    • @willsmith39
      @willsmith39 5 місяців тому +1

      Yeah he's a regular angel 🙄

  • @black_knight_1975
    @black_knight_1975 6 місяців тому +14

    He's an interesting and intelligent man. It would be great to see more like him. I find it refreshing to listen to expat characters who are less typical.

  • @stevebearsley2308
    @stevebearsley2308 6 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for the opportunity to see and listen to the interview with Phillip. I have a lovely young Filipina wife who provides very well for us, and Filipinas are the most charming and friendly women I've met anywhere in the world. Congratulations Phillip and thank you for telling us your story!

  • @justinmcintosh6554
    @justinmcintosh6554 6 місяців тому +2

    I think he understands the transactional element to relationships in PH and it works for him. He has a good heart and a clear head.

  • @flybywir1
    @flybywir1 6 місяців тому +2

    From the utube interviews I've seen over the past few years covering the expats of Dumaguete, (mostly US), this guy is a rarity...interesting, insightful and humble. Great interview....all best wishes to him.......

  • @pauls3585
    @pauls3585 5 місяців тому +1

    This is a likable and humble man, and he has had an eventful life. I hope he is well looked after by his Filipino family.

  • @robertpinkerton940
    @robertpinkerton940 6 місяців тому +4

    I really admire Philip. He takes a licking and and keeps on ticking. Things are finally going his way. He deserves it. Thanks for sharing. 😮

  • @KimmyPat
    @KimmyPat 6 місяців тому +7

    An amazing man! A redo is interesting. I’m 56 and my Wife is 20 and having our Son in August. It’s a mutually beneficial relationship. I have a philosophy of limited support for her family consisting of giving my Wife some money monthly to do as she wishes. It keeps the energy positive all around. Though initially a I help you and you help me relationship, a tremendous amount of love has grown. My grown Son has commented on how much happier, healthier, fit I’ve become since living in the Philippines

    • @dezza718
      @dezza718 6 місяців тому

      So when he's 20 you'll be 76

    • @KimmyPat
      @KimmyPat 6 місяців тому

      @@dezza718 That’s correct 😁

    • @flybywir1
      @flybywir1 6 місяців тому

      ​@@dezza718....and?

  • @WilliamFluery
    @WilliamFluery 6 місяців тому +5

    Enjoyed hearing about this man’s journey. He’s had a lot of heartache but glad he will be taken care of by a Filipina.

  • @JakeTheSnake500
    @JakeTheSnake500 6 місяців тому +5

    He is a very wise man. He keeps his beer cold and insulated!

    • @JakeTheSnake500
      @JakeTheSnake500 6 місяців тому +1

      Oh wow, my father was a Unitarian Minister! But this makes me preacher's kid (PK for short, and a rebel without a cuase).
      I'm looking forward to my next trip back to The Philippines in a few weeks!

    • @Regi869
      @Regi869 6 місяців тому +1

      Most important things in life 🍺

  • @brian_atc
    @brian_atc 6 місяців тому +4

    He definitely has a healthy way of looking at life.
    Seems to have come to an agreement that helps him and her family to include the young daughter.
    BTW, I work/live in Saipan now, but I'm from Ann Arbor Michigan, a 45 minute drive from his stateside home of Lansing, Michigan.
    Nice guy, small world. 😊

  • @rayhill704
    @rayhill704 6 місяців тому +1

    Great interview Simon. Philip is a true gentleman and a man after my own heart. 😎👍

    • @SpeakingofAsia
      @SpeakingofAsia  6 місяців тому

      Thanks Ray. You're right, Philip is a good a guy 👍

  • @jammyb90
    @jammyb90 6 місяців тому +2

    Nice 👍
    I'm from U.S.. Living single here in Manila for 14 years and I love it.

  • @britgerus1956Glenn
    @britgerus1956Glenn 6 місяців тому +7

    Simon and Philip,
    Many many thanks for a great and rather uniquely themed video...
    Why should everyone follow the same path.
    Again glad that Philip is enjoying his twilight ( no offence intended) years.
    I've been to Davao on several occasions, I really enjoyed it...
    Cheers
    Stay safe n happy
    Glenn

    • @SpeakingofAsia
      @SpeakingofAsia  6 місяців тому

      Many thanks Glenn, best regards mate 👍

  • @simonkendall4824
    @simonkendall4824 6 місяців тому +1

    Yep i with you guys single moms have a totally different vibe and if you love being a dad like me its great as long as you keep the family at a distance Awesome video as always Simon

  • @FoundingYouTuber-2005
    @FoundingYouTuber-2005 3 місяці тому +1

    Excellent interview. Liked, subscribed, and rang that bell.

    • @SpeakingofAsia
      @SpeakingofAsia  3 місяці тому

      Thanks mate, welcome to the channel 👍

  • @ginwilliams4202
    @ginwilliams4202 6 місяців тому +16

    I'm glad he's dating a 23 year old. Every grandpa deserves a young plaything. Save your money gents and live like an old hughhefner!

    • @PabloChicano
      @PabloChicano 6 місяців тому

      He could be her great grandfather. Creepy!

    • @jamescalifornia2964
      @jamescalifornia2964 6 місяців тому

      Hugh Hefner lived like a Boss ☺️👍

    • @ksmithpmp
      @ksmithpmp 6 місяців тому +2

      Younger, hotter, tighter is what we all want. Go grandpa!

  • @EastJavaExpat
    @EastJavaExpat 6 місяців тому +1

    Best of luck to you, Phillip.

  • @tiopuerco6923
    @tiopuerco6923 6 місяців тому +2

    Best wishes to you, Philip.

  • @EdwinCV-dh8qc
    @EdwinCV-dh8qc 6 місяців тому +1

    Great interview bud ,good luck with your channel.😊

  • @dwaynekeith156
    @dwaynekeith156 6 місяців тому +1

    Great interview

  • @billcostello7769
    @billcostello7769 6 місяців тому +1

    Please do followups! Include his new family. I have similiar plans, and would love contact!

  • @dwaynekeith156
    @dwaynekeith156 6 місяців тому +1

    Seems like a nice gentleman

  • @piacash5216
    @piacash5216 6 місяців тому

    Awesome

  • @janicemunn
    @janicemunn 6 місяців тому +2

    Great interview!

  • @SilentBill-ze1gf
    @SilentBill-ze1gf 6 місяців тому +4

    wow this guy has a set of balls

  • @ksmithpmp
    @ksmithpmp 6 місяців тому

    I like the the way gramps smiled and laughed 😊when asked what the age gap is with his little lady 25:20 😅

  • @britishcomedybroncorothschild
    @britishcomedybroncorothschild 6 місяців тому +1

    Everybody wins. Philippine standards. Beautiful. Happy family!!!

  • @UKVeteran2024
    @UKVeteran2024 6 місяців тому +10

    To think this relationship is 'working' in any normal way? It's a business deal, she gets financial stability and he gets a working girl. I'm not knocking either party, but the love is only going one way, and I am experienced enough in living in Asia to know the young cute girls never move in with poor foreigners. They'll go when the money does. It's good to live in a fantasy world, and the 'love' is part of that.

    • @hillbillyintheasia6122
      @hillbillyintheasia6122 6 місяців тому +9

      What's a love got to do with it. Famous quote my famous singer people say about the get married the woman takes men's home car kids and they got married for love close in age. Yeah they still get divorced. Which to her with a business transaction so what is the difference now nothing

    • @hillbillyintheasia6122
      @hillbillyintheasia6122 6 місяців тому +1

      Western marriage is nothing but a business transaction

    • @britgerus1956Glenn
      @britgerus1956Glenn 6 місяців тому +6

      I'm afraid I don't agree with you entirely. Philips situation appears to be working very very well for all the involved parties. Why does one need to start classifying as you've done. Plus normality is not always best nor ideal etc etc. Not arguing in any way or form. But everyone seems very happy.
      Have a great Sunday.
      Cheers
      Glenn

    • @UKVeteran2024
      @UKVeteran2024 6 місяців тому +1

      @@britgerus1956Glenn of course it's just my opinion based on observations in SE Asia over many years. It's not a science, but I would say I never seen huge age-gaps with out a financial incentive. And I have seen a lot of them! And as I said, it's good living the fantasy that SE Asia has offered (men.) And thanks, have a good weekend too!

    • @UKVeteran2024
      @UKVeteran2024 6 місяців тому +1

      @@hillbillyintheasia6122 yes, it's the same the world over, women will always be the risk-takers as they can have kids, and could suffer abandonment. As I reach my later years in life, I see that marriages are a problem, and the idea you can live with someone 'forever' and actually find it fulfilling very day, is rare. If this guy has kids, it's doubtful he will see them graduate, and hopefully they'll be cared for.

  • @joebidet2050
    @joebidet2050 6 місяців тому +2

    I would be impressed
    IF he had a 23 year old girlfriend
    And the 1 year old child was his
    At 80
    Thats my life goal 😂

    • @dezza718
      @dezza718 6 місяців тому

      She'll be changing both your nappies. Then she'll be at your funeral

    • @bobwilson5041
      @bobwilson5041 5 місяців тому

      I would love the 23 yr old girl,the kid,not sure.

  • @bluedale6563
    @bluedale6563 6 місяців тому +2

    She will be changing both their nappies soon

    • @britgerus1956Glenn
      @britgerus1956Glenn 6 місяців тому

      Cycle of life...lol...

    • @bluedale6563
      @bluedale6563 6 місяців тому +1

      @@britgerus1956Glenn No this is very unnatural the age gap he is exploiting her

    • @flybywir1
      @flybywir1 6 місяців тому

      Someone will have to change yours too....if you live long enough...😅

    • @bluedale6563
      @bluedale6563 6 місяців тому

      @@flybywir1 if i do i will live with dignity not like this old pervert

  • @Vermillion-B
    @Vermillion-B 6 місяців тому +6

    If thats a real John Mayer he's wearing he'd want to be damned careful walking around with that

    • @marcrichard7251
      @marcrichard7251 6 місяців тому +1

      The watch?

    • @Andy-kj5et
      @Andy-kj5et 6 місяців тому +1

      Very interesting interview, I stopped the video to try and catch the watch to 🙂, good luck to him.

    • @exnihilo415
      @exnihilo415 6 місяців тому

      6:19 Not a daytona since it doesn't have pushers, and not a sub, gmt or yachtmaster since there are no crown guards. Too small to be a sky-dweller, I think. Day Dates don't have that clasp but maybe really old ones did? Probably a gold Datejust, right? Do we get a better look anywhere in the video? You are certainly right, though. I wouldn't wear a yellow gold datejust casually in the Philippines.

    • @Vermillion-B
      @Vermillion-B 6 місяців тому +1

      23:00 clearly has pushers, subdials, green

    • @exnihilo415
      @exnihilo415 6 місяців тому

      @@Vermillion-B Aha, that is a much better view! Yeah, clearly a John Mayer real or rep. That's pretty much unobtainable unless you have a serious $200k+ buying habit relationship with an AD or willing to splash out $75K+ on the secondary.

  • @robertvernon5725
    @robertvernon5725 6 місяців тому

    DO YOUR RESEARCH BEFORE YOU CROSS THAT BRIDGE. PLEASE. TRUST NO ONE EXCEPT YOURSELF AND YOUR EXPERIENCE. GOOD LUCK SOMETHING TELLS ME YOU MIGHT NEED IT. PS. PHILIPPINE WRITTEN LAW SAYS IF YOU MARRY ARE ARE LEGALLY OBLIGATED BY LAW TO CARE FOR HER ENTIRE FAMILY, THE WORD IS ENTIRE FAMILY AND IN PHILIPPINES THOSE FAMILIES CAN BE VERY LARGE. HOPE YOU GET A GOOD ONE. PRENUPTIAL IS A MUST.

  • @setha360
    @setha360 6 місяців тому +3

    Bob the Builder, build a baby and house,,,she is set for life

  • @kikiandjasmine
    @kikiandjasmine 6 місяців тому +4

    A 57 year age gap is very disturbing. C'mon

    • @joebidet2050
      @joebidet2050 6 місяців тому +1

      Why?

    • @joebidet2050
      @joebidet2050 6 місяців тому

      @@Regi869 I'm 60
      My youngest child will turn 1 in a few days
      I hope to have another when I'm 80
      My goal
      I'd be more impressed if the child of the 23 year old was his
      She went to manila for school and came back with her breathing diploma

    • @dezza718
      @dezza718 6 місяців тому

      ​@joebidet2050 why isn't it?

  • @KB3TLE
    @KB3TLE 6 місяців тому +5

    Quite an interview. - - - This man has been around - and he isn't finished with his life yet ! Well educated and seems to have a very good grip on those "critical thinking" - skills - needed for a comfortable later life. -- I'm certainly impressed with how he simply - 'goes with the flow' - and 'adapts' to things - as he goes ? -- Many seem unable to do that with the 'grace' he displays and satisfaction with his decisions over time - as - 'life goes on'........so it goes. A quality that escapes many ? > A -- 'Que - Sera - Sera' -- display in my view - and a man who is very competently comfortable - 'in his own skin' ? He surely found and realised - that he - 'gets through giving' - perhaps a lesson to many who watch this ?

    • @britgerus1956Glenn
      @britgerus1956Glenn 6 місяців тому +1

      Very well said...

    • @Southeastasiantraveler
      @Southeastasiantraveler 3 місяці тому +1

      excellent comment - he has endured so much loss in his life, but still soldiers on. I think coming to the Philippines rather than assisted living in the USA was a good decision.

  • @ptroy72blue
    @ptroy72blue 6 місяців тому +1

    He's 57! Jesus

    • @britgerus1956Glenn
      @britgerus1956Glenn 6 місяців тому +2

      No Philip is 80, 57 yrs older than his GF....

    • @patrick-g1h5v
      @patrick-g1h5v 6 місяців тому +1

      @@britgerus1956Glenn lol - that is funny

    • @erndoggyful
      @erndoggyful 6 місяців тому

      That's what she said 😂

  • @christaylor7049
    @christaylor7049 6 місяців тому +5

    It's all about the cash

    • @user-ep3ck5re4o
      @user-ep3ck5re4o 6 місяців тому

      Always is and always will be - love , what a joke - so called love is a social construct designed for evil humans to steal your money - it’s as simple as that.

    • @johng5950
      @johng5950 6 місяців тому +1

      @christaylor7049 Of course it is and anyone who denies it, is a fool. If an old man can afford to support a hot 23 year old and enjoy the benefits (😉)that come with that, go for it!! Dude didn't force this chick to make the decision to be with him.

    • @joebidet2050
      @joebidet2050 6 місяців тому +3

      Men are in love
      Women are in business