HIV and Sex. Why your sex life does not have to be boring!

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  • @ekhishinilikamandisa3571
    @ekhishinilikamandisa3571 4 роки тому +355

    Every time you educate us about HIV I really wish my sister didn't commit suicide when she found out about her status😢 Yoh sisi uyangiphilela❤️

  • @delisileinnosencia150
    @delisileinnosencia150 4 роки тому +110

    Iam have an HIV positive partner for 11 years now having 2 beautiful kids they are HIV neg me as well we are getting married this December under Corona circumstances though but life is there kuyaphilwa guys,its just that you have to have each other's backs,but Kumnandi sometimes we tend to forget about this condition of our.Big up Mrs Mayaba our lives are much better now having to know that out There there are people who are just like us.

    • @highandmightyqueen79
      @highandmightyqueen79 4 роки тому +5

      I'm so happy for you, I'm still hoping to find my Mr right

    • @ahmir0224
      @ahmir0224 4 роки тому +1

      U Will find love trust

    • @dagaines152
      @dagaines152 2 роки тому

      I know this is an old post, but did you breast feed?

  • @UkiwoSamuel
    @UkiwoSamuel 4 роки тому +126

    U = U , undetectable = untransmittable
    Your partner is at no risk of contracting HIV from you as long as you remain undetectable (suppressed viral load), with or without PREP.

  • @TACpodcast_ZA
    @TACpodcast_ZA 4 роки тому +61

    When the UA-cam algorithm gets it right...I’m glad I found this channel.
    Keep up the great work sis! 🌸

  • @boitumelotshwenyego6922
    @boitumelotshwenyego6922 4 роки тому +177

    Your education is very important, it can save many marriages, relationships and even save nations!

  • @sikelelwayantolo842
    @sikelelwayantolo842 4 роки тому +44

    Enkosi Nozi, haven't found anyone who's open to talking about HIV as you are, especially ophila nayo. Enkosi sthandwa stay strong and sweet. You've always been had a bubbly personality and its great to seeing you grow and still remain the same ❤️❤️💪

    • @bulelwathonga5781
      @bulelwathonga5781 4 роки тому +1

      Enkosi Nozie cc woooow you make me smile alone and cry,but bulela Thixo ngawe cc kakhulu Thixo aningcine nomyeni wakho nabanye o Tata bafunde apha kuni I love you you make me strong and strong again cc

  • @nayelushaba3041
    @nayelushaba3041 4 роки тому +82

    Am I the only one who likes before listening?

  • @ruthkk
    @ruthkk 4 роки тому +11

    I have never heard a candid discussion like this on HIV and sex. Knowledge is power since you can use this information in situations without HIV. Excellent 👍

  • @sindisiwembokazi847
    @sindisiwembokazi847 4 роки тому +20

    I love how raw and unfiltered you are!! This is important because we understand better. ❤️😊

  • @noxolosakang6547
    @noxolosakang6547 4 роки тому +44

    May God increase your husban a million times for having such a big heart, you are an amazing young woman,,,

  • @jacketjamaican1393
    @jacketjamaican1393 4 роки тому +29

    Nozi you’re like sunshine! Thank you for addressing topics that are usually shied away from. Even Conservative Christians engage in sex, well I hope they are!. You’re not encouraging promiscuity or adultery, and I hope that point isn’t missed by the easily offended “thumbs down” community on UA-cam. We all need to hear these things whether our status is negative/positive as knowledge is power! Keep shining Nozi, and continue to use your platform as YOU envision it to be. I’m here for it all!

  • @esthertmoses774
    @esthertmoses774 4 роки тому +29

    This is the MOST informative video I've watch about people who suffers from HIV sexual life. I've often wonder, but couldn't find anyone to ask questions. You've answer the questions that's been in my head. I love how you're sooooo educated in that field. You can definitely run educative workshops and seminar for thousands of people suffering from HIV and people that love them but don't know where to look. You can also work on making booklets l, DVDs etc. I know you are not doing this for business, but you could do social business. Educating people while gaining money to maybe build facilities that educate even more people about HIV. Please look into it, I Know and I truly believe you will save lives throughout the world. 💕💕💕💕

    • @akhonaloliwe7222
      @akhonaloliwe7222 4 роки тому +1

      I’m also taking from you suggestion my lady🙌❤️

    • @matsekisokheswa6442
      @matsekisokheswa6442 4 роки тому

      I never knew that such education still lives may God bless you and your hubby sis Nozi 🤗

  • @zanelemute3225
    @zanelemute3225 4 роки тому +55

    I'm so glad to be part of this family, I'm sooo super excited to see that there is life after HIV and that you can still be fabulous and stunning. you brought my confidence back girl, love you so much.

  • @esabeldube112
    @esabeldube112 3 роки тому +6

    Very very educative. You have turned so many negative attitudes to positive. Lots of relationships now secured after seeing this video. Great teacher.

  • @AnnelyShigwedha
    @AnnelyShigwedha 4 роки тому +14

    One of the channels that really matters on here! I'm having a blast honestly!

  • @mantshankoana5831
    @mantshankoana5831 4 роки тому +9

    You're education on living with HIV is absolutely amazing. Love you

  • @claudiamela4040
    @claudiamela4040 4 роки тому +161

    Am I the only one who gets excited when she uploads a video? Your videos are really informative and useful. I'm learning everyday

  • @hlalumiadams9180
    @hlalumiadams9180 4 роки тому +29

    Thank you for being frank and honest Sisi ❤️You called a spade a spade ✨

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 роки тому +7

      When it comes to such topics. It's necessary sis. We've been hurt because we avoided having honest and frank conversations ❤️

  • @sphumetheblaqmirror1737
    @sphumetheblaqmirror1737 4 роки тому +9

    This is the content I have been waiting for... Thank you so much sisi... I wish I had found you a year ago... So many things would have been easier

  • @Ongezwa_Fefeza
    @Ongezwa_Fefeza 4 роки тому +5

    "Can I say Something" ngabula Wena ...the way endikuthanda Gabula wena I even speak like you "Thank you very much"... Thanks for this informative Video💛

  • @nitamagadaza6523
    @nitamagadaza6523 4 роки тому +12

    Such a bubbly personality
    Hay no ndiyaku thanda mna❤️❤️❤️

  • @abongwemasiza534
    @abongwemasiza534 4 роки тому +14

    I love you so much Nozi♥♥♥.
    Continue healing the nation.
    Your videos really removed the stigma that I had about HIV.
    The work that you do is really admirable❤

  • @kimbton263
    @kimbton263 4 роки тому +4

    You're a blessing to many. Keep the good work Nozi

  • @tumie_tlatjooh
    @tumie_tlatjooh 4 роки тому +13

    The beauty, the funky and the wild one!
    Awusemhle sis. I love your videos!

  • @dorothytoo8424
    @dorothytoo8424 4 роки тому +10

    Eeeh Nozi ,you are my favourite youtuber.
    LOVE LOVE FROM KENYA .

  • @nandiphambali1802
    @nandiphambali1802 4 роки тому +18

    I'm saving this Video wanna watch it with my boyfriend.

  • @booairmow
    @booairmow 4 роки тому +8

    I absolutely love you and your videos. You’re open and honest about a lot of taboo topics and that’s necessary ❤️

    • @tebogombalate5937
      @tebogombalate5937 4 роки тому

      She is God sent, so bubbly reminds me of my dearest sister, whenever I visit her we don't sleep tàlking. Exactly what happens when am listening to you ♥️♥️

  • @sanehmthembu6203
    @sanehmthembu6203 4 роки тому +48

    I'm on ARVs from Oct 2017 and I have been so scared to love or to have sex. This channel iyangikhulisa kakhulu because I never had any form of counseling so ngidunguza ebumnyameni nje but I'm taking my pill everyday in hoping someday I will have an HIV negative family of my own. I love you Nozi and bhuti Skhu.

  • @onelisamgoqi4371
    @onelisamgoqi4371 4 роки тому +6

    I really enjoyed this video and how you went all out explaining everything, even what would be deemed as "general knowledge". Thank you for always going the extra mile for us and for all the knowledge you're constantly bringing forth ♥️♥️

  • @ncumisabam6129
    @ncumisabam6129 4 роки тому +5

    So addicted to how u are keep being real and in turn share knowledge

  • @mdalana-dlamini
    @mdalana-dlamini 4 роки тому +21

    You’re a force to be recogned with❤️❤️❤️ you’re truly amazing, my best friend in my head...

  • @johannajohannes1049
    @johannajohannes1049 4 роки тому +31

    Girl you are funny(when you said "Lord "😆😆) I think you should do another segment of this with your hubby. Sending you hugs and kisses from Namibia 🇳🇦

  • @naomidineo3940
    @naomidineo3940 4 роки тому +5

    I love how open you are about this whole situation ❤️😍😂😘

  • @royalguard9956
    @royalguard9956 Рік тому +3

    My friend tested couple of months ago and he found positive well he gone very much in depression we his parents appointed a mental health advisor and now he is okay taking medicines and doing very well
    I hope someone found a permanent cure for this deadliest deseas people suffer every time while taking art they remember the pain about their status.

  • @khanyo1860
    @khanyo1860 4 роки тому +17

    😂😂😂 Yey!!!😂😂 I could not stop laughing from 16:30 , I did not hear anything. Can you please repeat😂😂😂

  • @sibongilesitshabane7843
    @sibongilesitshabane7843 4 роки тому +12

    Giiiiiiirrrl! That was so interesting, enjoyable and educational, thank you so much

  • @esethumqhayi5051
    @esethumqhayi5051 4 роки тому +38

    Uvelaphiiiii I find you just at the right time....

  • @wendygrant830
    @wendygrant830 3 роки тому +1

    Yor explanation is clear. Grace and peace my dear.

  • @silindilegwala3358
    @silindilegwala3358 4 роки тому +1

    I have been longing for such content on youtube, fundamental topics such as this one. Thank you so much for opening about HIV and the various preventative ways. Your courage is inspirational.

  • @ntontontk4257
    @ntontontk4257 4 роки тому +1

    ❣you are loved Sisi siyabonga for these video. A lot of people are getting educated so there's no excuses.

  • @zinhlemoletsane495
    @zinhlemoletsane495 4 роки тому +1

    Very educational videos sis, Syabonga ngolwazi and sharing it❤❤❤

  • @lorrainemadure2837
    @lorrainemadure2837 4 роки тому +38

    Conservative church girls should also open up to talking about sex, atleast with their partner as the 'conservativity' may affect intimacy in a relationship.. Thank you sesi Nozibele. 💖Much love.

  • @nolitha_JekeL
    @nolitha_JekeL 4 роки тому +12

    How I wish bhuti Skhu was with you kule video 🤣😂 love you ausi Nozi looking beautiful kulo afro.

  • @samukelisiwendlovu4507
    @samukelisiwendlovu4507 4 роки тому +17

    The “butt whole “comment got me in stitches🤣🤣🤣🤣 . Very informative information thank you sis

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 роки тому +5

      I kid you not. My butt hole is small. And I don't do well with pain. So thank you very much!

    • @cynthiatsunyane7217
      @cynthiatsunyane7217 3 роки тому

      I also died🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @lifewithasina1034
    @lifewithasina1034 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much I love how you are going to say something and stop and just say it you are very real on who you are and that is why a lot of us are in love with your Personality 💕may the good Lord bless you and your family always

  • @Whatsgucci
    @Whatsgucci 4 роки тому +10

    Thank you for being so open and educating.☺️

  • @misslondiwenene8038
    @misslondiwenene8038 3 роки тому +1

    I just love how free spirited you are 😍🤗

  • @tatendamelisazengeni2207
    @tatendamelisazengeni2207 4 роки тому +2

    Best youtube channel! You’re so entertaining! God bless you!

  • @thabisavili6245
    @thabisavili6245 4 роки тому +4

    You are doing a great job gal, I love you soo much and Tshawe too!

  • @yvonnegaywood5487
    @yvonnegaywood5487 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for your informations it help us because doctors and nurses don't taught us like you do thank you

  • @sanelyfchannel3745
    @sanelyfchannel3745 4 роки тому +10

    Nozibele ❤️😁😁😁Lord

  • @lulunjoli2383
    @lulunjoli2383 4 роки тому

    Yhooo u breath life gal.Andimhle these days bcz of u.Uyimpilo man yhooo.Love u Nozi

  • @shumikazimaseko2192
    @shumikazimaseko2192 4 роки тому

    You are such a blessing umntanomntu, may God multiply and bless your union sweetheart as for Skhu l have no words ndithi KuThixo makonwabise USkhu aniphe divine health kude kubuye UYesu. Bless you zithandwa zam.

  • @zandimyeti6000
    @zandimyeti6000 4 роки тому +2

    God has done a great job with you 😚😊you're amazing..... May God continue to bless you.... I love you... I am watching you videos for the first time today and this one is the fourth one.... 😉

  • @BoniswaMdangi
    @BoniswaMdangi 4 роки тому +4

    Lol.. Where is bhuti Skhu guys this video would have been longer which means more laughter... Thanks sis.. ❤️

  • @christinaradebe4487
    @christinaradebe4487 4 роки тому +3

    SBWL to find someone who will Love me and be open minded bethuna like bhut skhu tjoee .. Hai ku taugh kwa department of Love sheeeem

  • @MadamEllaMalala
    @MadamEllaMalala 4 роки тому +1

    Waouh! Second video and I'm your fan for life now! 🤗

  • @adesuwa-B
    @adesuwa-B 4 роки тому

    God bless you My Lovely sister more grace

  • @serwaaobeng4408
    @serwaaobeng4408 4 роки тому +8

    Very informative, love what you do

  • @ladimathew8778
    @ladimathew8778 2 роки тому

    Thank You, I just love your sincerity.

  • @zandatwala3469
    @zandatwala3469 4 роки тому +3

    Yho, you're very informative... I didn't know about PREP...thanks Noz 💖

  • @TheDlotos
    @TheDlotos 4 роки тому +4

    Notification gang💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @mimichipimo
    @mimichipimo 4 роки тому +2

    You are an amazing advocate! Thank you for sharing your story and your perspectives so openly. I hope this will help many young people out there.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @nombulelomdoda9438
    @nombulelomdoda9438 4 роки тому +12

    I'm learning Cc Nozi enkosi.❤I really love your videos ziyafundisa.❤❤

    • @nombulelomdoda9438
      @nombulelomdoda9438 4 роки тому

      Yoh sorry torho kodwa lendawo ucacisa kuyo condoms ndiphelile torh😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂hay sis Nozi i feel you shem❤

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 роки тому +1

      @@nombulelomdoda9438 Friend!!!! Bendinendawo efuna uhleka ke kodwa nam hahahahaha

  • @tremaine861
    @tremaine861 4 роки тому +2

    @15:31 hahaha you rock Nozi!!
    I loved this video very informative and entertaining at the same time.

  • @zikhonamatsolo5207
    @zikhonamatsolo5207 4 роки тому +7

    These videos are so informative, love you 😘😘😘

  • @katlegomotloba5031
    @katlegomotloba5031 4 роки тому +1

    Nozi you are a wonderful woman... May God continue to bless you. I love you 😘

  • @zanelemute3225
    @zanelemute3225 4 роки тому +3

    Please more videos on what you eat to stay healthy n good looking, I would really appreciate, lots of love.

  • @ZeeInterpretationz
    @ZeeInterpretationz 3 роки тому +3

    🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 I'm so done when you said "Lord"

  • @Limani87
    @Limani87 4 роки тому +16

    😂😂😂😂😂when you got stuck a bit on explaining about oral sex.. Your channel just popped up my UA-cam list and I always watch my fellow SA sisters. Loved watching you and your hubby, specially when you guys spoke Xhosa a bit 🥰🤗
    Love from UK

  • @thekindpisces2857
    @thekindpisces2857 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing this wealth of knowledge, you're such a blessing

  • @tamaramoni853
    @tamaramoni853 4 роки тому +16

    Your hairrrrrr Boo🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👌

  • @naeboothang911
    @naeboothang911 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you for this video Nozi really educative and love your confidence 💕

  • @KhanyiMboodles
    @KhanyiMboodles 4 роки тому +7

    Right as you said "Sex sex sex sex sex SEEEEXXXX sex sex sex sex sex" my mom walked past and I UPPED the volume!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Sex conversations need to be normalized ❤ Thank you for letting us into your intimate life in order to further educate us! You're amazing 😘❤

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 роки тому +2

      LOL HAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA what did Ma say?
      Thank you Khanyi :)

    • @KhanyiMboodles
      @KhanyiMboodles 4 роки тому +2

      @@NozibeleQamngana She actually laughed and said "Uwhow hamba Sex. Ngubani lowo??" 😂😂😂😂 and I said "NguNozi Mama" and then she said "Lo wandibukelisa ivideos zakhe ndathi unxiba smart?? Hayi uyamthanda nyan shem uNozi" and then we laughed it off 😂😂😂😂

  • @langelihlembolo1431
    @langelihlembolo1431 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much sis Noz😘😘😘 very informative ❤️❤️❤️

  • @bluebutterfly5602
    @bluebutterfly5602 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for speaking out!!

  • @veedaisy6088
    @veedaisy6088 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for differentiating between Pep and PreP... thanks for the entire video 😍❤️

  • @lindiwemabhena-hamandawana1394
    @lindiwemabhena-hamandawana1394 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks for this, it was soo practical and educative i must say

  • @tinaburnette4170
    @tinaburnette4170 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing Nozi

  • @sumutunge
    @sumutunge 4 роки тому +1

    🥰🥰🥰 You are just amazing... i laugh like crazy, even if it is something that still as a stigma out there! Be blessed

  • @khuthalasiyanga2116
    @khuthalasiyanga2116 4 роки тому +1

    Very informative...thank you love.

  • @glendamaluwa6033
    @glendamaluwa6033 4 роки тому +18

    I love you sesi Nozi "thank you very much" 😍😍

  • @tangelajohnson4574
    @tangelajohnson4574 2 роки тому

    I love your teaching

  • @qhayiyalinda1512
    @qhayiyalinda1512 3 роки тому +2

    Love your content and knowledge sharing on general life, relationships and most importantly de-stigmatising myths and biases around HIV. Good on you.
    In this episode you didn't share how guys can protect themselves from performing oral sex...I think many can learn from that, however I don't think they would quite follow it, well that's if they use the methods I have heard of ie: glad wrap etc

  • @kervinsmanga1262
    @kervinsmanga1262 4 роки тому

    I am enjoying all your videos, they are filled with great amounts of knowledge,. I have learnt a lot as an individual. thank you a lot keep them coming

  • @mbusoguma5504
    @mbusoguma5504 2 роки тому

    Definitely learned something today. Facts👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @nompumelelomahlangu1627
    @nompumelelomahlangu1627 4 роки тому +11

    You give hope to the hopeless... 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @chahidastrausskavendjii3658
    @chahidastrausskavendjii3658 4 роки тому +2

    I am so so so inlove with your "openess"... If that is even a word🙈🙈. Your are such a ray of sunshine. I just discovered your page a week ago 💁 ghel i am not sleeping watching you every chance i get. God bless you are doing a great job giving us that education.

  • @snemthembu6968
    @snemthembu6968 4 роки тому +1

    You are very honest ❤️😭

  • @bellaeve1531
    @bellaeve1531 2 роки тому

    Your stories a so inspirational

  • @rosegallus4048
    @rosegallus4048 4 роки тому

    I have always known about PEP
    PREP is a new learning for me.
    Thanks for the education.

  • @masilakheprimrose1327
    @masilakheprimrose1327 4 роки тому +3

    Wow wow😳😭😭 how I wish my bby daddy can see this and lesten.. Cz to him am useless sheim. Thank you Nozi for showing urself and motivate us❤️

  • @makhosazanemdladla5427
    @makhosazanemdladla5427 4 роки тому +1

    Yoh d condoms placement though, Andahleka Thixo. Big up nunubear i love ds

  • @champagne4eva
    @champagne4eva 4 роки тому +5

    I love your videos, they're very informative

  • @minenhledumakude9896
    @minenhledumakude9896 4 роки тому

    I love you cc, we need more people like you in this world

  • @babalwafrans4752
    @babalwafrans4752 3 роки тому

    I'm really falling inlove with you everytime I listen/watch your videos. I thank my best friend Nonkoliseko Hlaphezulu for introducing me to your social platform. I admire you to the core🥰. You are trully blessed and may God continue to bless you and your crazy fun husband 🙏

  • @brendamashiqa2290
    @brendamashiqa2290 4 роки тому

    Wow nozie uyitye yonke gal love you

  • @sharonontsheng2857
    @sharonontsheng2857 4 роки тому +1

    Wooooow thanks for educating us

  • @Thandiz1
    @Thandiz1 4 роки тому +3

    That "Lord" took me out😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @oleratomatsheka5549
    @oleratomatsheka5549 4 роки тому +8

    😂🤣❤️. I love your energy sisi.