STORYTIME: MY DATE STOOD ME UP THEN GHOSTED ME...

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  • Опубліковано 11 жов 2024
  • WATCH THIS VIDEO FIRST GUYS: • STORYTIME: DATING A PA...
    Hey guys this is a series please brace yourself cause I played dumb in alot of these parts
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 230

  • @lalaaaaa9070
    @lalaaaaa9070 5 місяців тому +123

    Narc abuse is unexplainable & people who judge it haven't been thru it .
    I was a victim of narc abuse as well n they are liars,maniplautor's, & cheaters an they project all the time

  • @BrownSkinDarkChild
    @BrownSkinDarkChild 5 місяців тому +84

    🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩. If he wanted to, he would.
    1.Be on-time and not have you waiting.
    2.Plan dates
    3.Be considerate
    4. Be consistent
    5. Hype you up
    6. Celebrate you
    7. Be honest
    Ladies remember.. when they are being inconsistent 🗣If he wanted to, he would.

  • @nahowe2034
    @nahowe2034 5 місяців тому +81

    Guys like Legion would make you question your boundaries and call you crazy, but let you do the same thing to them and it's a problem.

  • @BiblicallyHandle
    @BiblicallyHandle 5 місяців тому +36

    Irene, I truly believe that God is trying to wake you up. He doesn’t want to see you suffer in these relationships. We suffer when we don’t honor him but some of us learn that too late. I hope someone loves you with all of their heart and you can give us a positive story time about it.

  • @oliviaj1443
    @oliviaj1443 5 місяців тому +60

    I had an ex who fell asleep after he begged me to come over and he had me stranded at his door at 1am. I gave him 5mins before I called an uber and went home. I sent him some nasty texts for him to wake up to tho and he paid me the for the trouble. It's a humiliating feeling so I understand why you cried and banged on his door but next time LEAVEEEE Irene, they don't deserve your time and tears.

  • @heyyall81
    @heyyall81 5 місяців тому +81

    As someone who loves to plan dates, I’ve learned that you should let a MAN plan at least 70% of the dates. A MAN who wants to spend time with you will put in the time to do the planning and let you be the passenger princess 🥰

  • @_KayBee_
    @_KayBee_ 5 місяців тому +67

    “We got a Trick y’all we gotta Trick.” 😂😂😂

  • @NayaBarcelona
    @NayaBarcelona 5 місяців тому +65

    I’m genuinely shocked that there’s going to be another part after this. 😭 But you live and you learn!

    • @genidatoussaint
      @genidatoussaint 5 місяців тому +2

      Exactly 🙏🏽

    • @perdybirdie
      @perdybirdie 5 місяців тому +3

      I got so triggered listening to this because I was really this stupid about a friend with benefit I had last year too 😢. That fool told me he was playing me and I still stayed until he got a girlfriend and cut me off. I understand where she's coming from, it's very rough out here.

  • @angelena6817
    @angelena6817 5 місяців тому +17

    Please keep this series going. I just found out my husband is a Narc. When I first meet him he did all the things legion has done. I didn't know what a narc was back in 2001 when I meet him. Fast forwarding my life 23 years later, he's made my life hell. I thank God you made it out of that situation.🥰🥰🥰

    • @BotisWurnspil
      @BotisWurnspil 5 місяців тому +1

      Look into the 4B movement! Woman are finally waking up!❤

  • @sallyjane3976
    @sallyjane3976 5 місяців тому +7

    When you are constantly in control you are in your masculine energy, your also putting in more effort

  • @palo.c
    @palo.c 5 місяців тому +14

    A thing about narcs is that they find pleasure and joy in putting you through turmoil and frustration. I was with one and at times I’d kinda catch him smile or smirk when he’d see me go off on him or when I’d confront him for cheating. They really don’t care but are Oscar award winning actors and will use manipulation (tears, begging, gifts, long sentimental paragraphs and texts) to confuse your brain and question yourself on a consistent basis. Being with a Narc is hell on earth and you start to lose yourself the more you stay with them while they suck everything out of you and move on when they’re done. I appreciate you doing a story times on this type of abuse to bring awareness and I always tell my girlfriends abt my last relationship with one as cautionary tale. I would never want my worst enemy to be with a guy like that.

  • @Majesticmel_
    @Majesticmel_ 5 місяців тому +34

    16:36 - 16:43 is the reason why I subscribed to Irene’s channel 😭😭😭😭 I love it

    • @LevonJohnTANNY
      @LevonJohnTANNY 5 місяців тому +6

      Same! 😂 “QUE THE DRAMATICS” 😩😂

    • @rosiieox6842
      @rosiieox6842 5 місяців тому +2

      Frr she too funny 🤣🤣🤣

  • @thecommentsection4725
    @thecommentsection4725 5 місяців тому +21

    Yassss!!!! On God will tell you. With mine HE called me by my real name and said, 'If you keep messing with this man. You're going to die.' I didn't know if it would be a disease or somebody he was messing with would bust in and take me out or what. But I prayed and said , God I don't know WHY I can't get rid of this man( I'm the type that will get rid of anything that doesn't bring me peace or takes my joy), but I need YOU to do it. The last night we were together ( not even a week later ) WHEN I TELL YOU GOD came through- He did. Everything happened in the same night. He had a phone call from a dude (Gemini's be bi-sexual , narcissists just be nasty), he left his phone in the car with me and the chick he was in a relationship with started texting him and I could see the FULL TEXTS on the screen. Chile, I was literally finna kick his fence down trying to get out of there. I cussed him raggedy everytime he tried to contact me, until I blocked him and ain't spoke to him since. Stay Gods child and stay up. Keyboard hug.💞

    • @perdybirdie
      @perdybirdie 5 місяців тому +5

      Wtf?! My gemini is is also bisexual and bipolar 😂. No more male gemini they're too much. And that holy spirit will speak loudly when it's the right time

  • @lexitwice1875
    @lexitwice1875 4 місяці тому +3

    I wanna say that the story times about him shows a lot about how much you’ll put up with but honestly sis we’ve all been DeLulu over a ninja. I can’t even be mad.

  • @Amexblackcard
    @Amexblackcard 5 місяців тому +25

    The Lord has truly spoken through you bc you have confirmed something that he has been saying to me! May the Lord Bless you abundantly!❤

  • @Ray.0.0
    @Ray.0.0 5 місяців тому +174

    20 minutes???! Girl I'm already back in my bonnet

    • @cecimuchina
      @cecimuchina 5 місяців тому +13

      Frlll

    • @Hairb1
      @Hairb1 5 місяців тому +22

      That’s crazy the guy I’m talking to now does this … my heart dropped

    • @Butterfly-yk9bw
      @Butterfly-yk9bw 5 місяців тому +3

      Rightt

    • @FeedMeJuice
      @FeedMeJuice 5 місяців тому +16

      @@Hairb1 smh! I talked to someone that played with me like this too! He don’t respect you.

    • @Hairb1
      @Hairb1 5 місяців тому +14

      @@FeedMeJuice yeah I told him he’s inconsiderate asf and don’t respect me . Let me block him

  • @MaryR0se91
    @MaryR0se91 5 місяців тому +24

    I love this series....I really want more woman to be able to express their feelings and tell how relationships went with the wrong men. So it can be put to rest.
    I agree with you when you said God gives everyone signs and talks to everyone. It's just their decision to listen or not. ❤
    I love you Irene, I been watching you for a good while now and to see you transform and become the woman you are today.... your amazing, beautiful, and smart.
    I love all the videos you do and your strong as hell. I tell everyone that they should watch you and they either has already or I put them on to your content. You don't disappoint.
    God bless you😊❤

  • @shachede6828
    @shachede6828 5 місяців тому +43

    Words are meaningless,, doesn’t matter if he said I love you. His actions said otherwise! This dude didn’t like you at all! The problem is you liked him. He is trifling, watch how they treat women they love..very different

    • @renesbeauties975
      @renesbeauties975  5 місяців тому +14

      He don’t treat no woman right he don’t love himself it has nothing to do with me

    • @shachede6828
      @shachede6828 5 місяців тому +17

      @@renesbeauties975for sure! There is nothing wrong with you! Someone that doesn’t love himself can’t love others well. I’m saying it’s because you like him you tolerated the bs. They take advantage of that. Not blaming you at all girl. We women are very forgiving because of love.

  • @anthoneybrooks5719
    @anthoneybrooks5719 5 місяців тому +8

    When u said God spoke to u I felt that u ain't lying

  • @dd-sl4ev
    @dd-sl4ev 5 місяців тому +7

    i definitely agree with all the stuff you said about the close friends and the song thing. idk how people don’t comprehend that

  • @aethyreia
    @aethyreia 5 місяців тому +11

    the good morning message with the effects got me weak😭😭

  • @thefashionextraordinaire
    @thefashionextraordinaire 5 місяців тому +3

    Praise God Irene!! Praise Him!! I got chills and started praising God when you said you heard His voice!! The holy spirit was leading you and you know it’s Him. He speaks in a fatherly voice sometimes. Wow. Praise God.

  • @ami5077y
    @ami5077y 5 місяців тому +19

    20 minutes?!?? Baby I would have went home. That’s mad disrespectful

  • @BriBeauty_
    @BriBeauty_ 5 місяців тому +13

    I gave the dating scene a break but whew chile I know I gotta get back out there 😩 😂 so I appreciate your transparency Irene 🫶🏽 girl I’ve definitely been in your shoes before. I enjoy your story times 💜👏🏽👏🏽

  • @sheabutter_mae
    @sheabutter_mae 5 місяців тому +12

    Your boundaries were perfectly fine.. the only thing I would say to improve on (coming from someone in a healthy relationship) is how you addressed him when you saw the song. I definitely have strong boundaries. I don’t like anything weird or off and I don’t need any proof. I never questioned anything with my man and that’s how I knew it was meant to be.

  • @victoirekalala7579
    @victoirekalala7579 5 місяців тому +5

    God is doing something thru you, Mamas. you are a walking testimony ✨️

  • @Luana-zl6rr
    @Luana-zl6rr 5 місяців тому +11

    He was working so much to be able to pay for all those girls 😂

  • @_KayBee_
    @_KayBee_ 5 місяців тому +7

    I vote for finishing this Story Time out.

  • @Brwngrly
    @Brwngrly 5 місяців тому +15

    Im earlyyyy ❤ & boo you’re the prize. He should be waiting on you not vice versa. He comes off as the kind of guy that likes to be pursued and chased 😒

  • @thecommentsection4725
    @thecommentsection4725 5 місяців тому +7

    We understand ,you can't block until you're completely done. You don't block them because you STILL want to see what they're talking about and if they're going to say the right thing - and if you block them when you're not ready, you just keep doing the block/unblock game. These same people who were asking you that stalking somebody social media that they 'blocked' right now🤣

  • @babeblue1000
    @babeblue1000 5 місяців тому +5

    continue this series! I literally just got out of a 4 month relationship(I'm glad it was short) with a narcissist as well so i understand what you're going through..

  • @oliviaj1443
    @oliviaj1443 5 місяців тому +4

    So glad you got away from this evil person! I can't wait for you to meet someone who respects you, is crazy about you and treats you right. You deserve it girl !

  • @adorehazel2757
    @adorehazel2757 5 місяців тому +4

    You must got some slow people watching I can’t believe all the disclaimers you have to
    Do for me what wasn’t explained in detail was understood. I absolutely love this series don’t let these turtles stop you from doing this series !! It could help people !! I’m currently starting out dating this new guy and it’s very interesting to hear while I’m in this stage. Keep it coming!! I was itching for the 2nd part to come out. Now I need the third part to come out please hurry !! 😂

  • @evadiva721
    @evadiva721 5 місяців тому +3

    Irene… this was very traumatic for you!! Thank you for being so transparent with this story time. I am sure someone needs to hear this! Definitely continue this series 🫶🏽🫶🏽 I think I would have been so scared to hear that voice in that moment 😅

  • @trueblue2892
    @trueblue2892 5 місяців тому +6

    I got ghosted for the first (and so far only) time last year
    I had to just take that one in silence bc I used to ghost ppl REAL BAD 😬
    Lesson learned 😂

  • @patricehumphries5386
    @patricehumphries5386 5 місяців тому

    The chills I just got from you hearing the Lord! Girl, my stomach would have been hurting from the anxiety in that situation. Waring with flesh and the Holy Spirit is no joke!

  • @lexitwice1875
    @lexitwice1875 4 місяці тому

    Took the words right out my head girl that feeling that gut feeling is proof enough

  • @lalaland7961
    @lalaland7961 5 місяців тому +4

    Stay with the series plz !

  • @kitchenyolonda9270
    @kitchenyolonda9270 5 місяців тому +3

    continue this series because...just wow

  • @zhanehoward4699
    @zhanehoward4699 5 місяців тому +7

    I’m sorry, but the moment he said he still hangs out with ‘homegirls’ that’s failed relationships it would have been done. Regardless if he’s your man or not. It’s respect period because the moment ya’ll make it official and you say you don’t like that, he’s not just going to cut them off. Huge red flag talking, hanging out with women who you previously had feelings for. If it’s not platonic it’s a NO. I can’t believe he was that hold to even tell you like that he definitely did not care. That’s sad hope you don’t go through this again ❤

  • @mysterious.li1
    @mysterious.li1 5 місяців тому +6

    Welcome back to the chanellllll❤

  • @babeblue1000
    @babeblue1000 5 місяців тому +2

    you're for sure my favorite UA-camr! you ever do meet & greets?

  • @_rayafterhours
    @_rayafterhours 5 місяців тому +4

    HEYY BAEEE IRENE ALWAYSS SAVING THEEE DAYY MANN❤🫡sending all the loveee, positivity love. Thank you for sharing now i am gonna watch the full vid now🏃‍♀️

  • @TheShalomtoyou
    @TheShalomtoyou 5 місяців тому

    You’re such a good storyteller…and that’s a gift

  • @jaseona
    @jaseona 5 місяців тому +2

    Lmaoo Irene so funny “the boy” I have to start using that 😂😂

  • @TALENTSGlamSquad
    @TALENTSGlamSquad 5 місяців тому

    I vote for this series. It’s easier for me to keep up with the order. It did help that you have them in order in the description. 💕

  • @camardiezell3309
    @camardiezell3309 5 місяців тому

    Hey Irene thank you so much for being honest and transparent with us. I’m so glad you got away from this dude. Also, I’m glad from all of this you have learned to trust your discernment.

  • @tomiwafaith
    @tomiwafaith 5 місяців тому

    Wow Irene! The lord spoke to you because he loves you so much. That voice you heard shows that he has so much wonderful plans for you. You are his precious daughter. 🥹🤍
    That man is not the one at all. Please never again deal with such a guy m, my baby!
    God bless you sis

  • @ariah457
    @ariah457 5 місяців тому

    Great testimony Irene God really loves you and he always shows us signs 💯 you heard his voice because I’ve heard his voice before very calm yet authoritative. Continue this series as it helping may young girls and women out there it’s not just entertainment it’s your lived experience!

  • @anayahthomas7013
    @anayahthomas7013 5 місяців тому

    Girl your so real for saying you did it instead of lying God has his hands on you ❤️

  • @aliciacolston8940
    @aliciacolston8940 5 місяців тому

    I appreciate you being so transparent! We as women don’t like to admit the fool we bn and we all been thru it somehow n someway! Love your stories Irene ❤❤❤

  • @Ilovelyleslie
    @Ilovelyleslie 5 місяців тому

    The views in just 22 hours is crazy. I love how much my fav UA-camr is growing. I’m 16 in high school from H-town and my dream college is PVAMU. Ive been watching Irene since I the day I turned 14 and yooo when I tell you how happy she’s made me. What kind of person I am today. I watch ALL of her content. I feel like I know her irl 🫠🩷 my online big sis fr

  • @cardiiiiii
    @cardiiiiii 5 місяців тому +2

    im in this era too note this any man make u drive anywhere leave him alone

  • @fatukay3192
    @fatukay3192 5 місяців тому

    Continue the series if you know it’s not going to affect your mental health cause dealing with a manipulator ain’t easy

  • @89cjenk
    @89cjenk 4 місяці тому

    I’m locked in Irene! Just found your channel watched the first vid! New subby hey girl! I love your storytelling.

  • @sincerelyjami5537
    @sincerelyjami5537 5 місяців тому +5

    Wow our stories are so similar, God is so real 💙 and men are legit crazy 😂😂

  • @Moochistrawberry7021
    @Moochistrawberry7021 5 місяців тому

    I pray that God will continue to reveal himself to you and guide you! He truly doesn't play about his kids! Once again, thank you for sharing your story, beautiful!

  • @vinahxo
    @vinahxo 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing this Rene 💓 I’m currently feel like I’m going thru this. I feel the part when you said it’s so many signs but you have no proof, hearing everything you say is chilling because I feel it and I just asked god for a sign last night before seeing this video

  • @macnya.8007
    @macnya.8007 5 місяців тому +3

    irene serves face everytime 😊

  • @kayt7059
    @kayt7059 5 місяців тому +7

    I'm sorry, what? I would have left and let him figure it out when he got to the 8th floor. You had a lot of patience going back there after the second time he took so long to come get you.

  • @flordemariiaaa
    @flordemariiaaa 5 місяців тому +3

    Im with you on being dramatic cuz girl I always expect the worse especially from men 😗😗

  • @IpreferSB
    @IpreferSB 5 місяців тому

    We love you too Irene❤️ Please continue this story time series!

  • @theefineeeweirdgyal
    @theefineeeweirdgyal 5 місяців тому

    i remember when i first heard a voice, the vc told me that this dude i was dating it had told me he had a gf and a baby on a way. a month after he told he had a baby otw & that he just found out. he knew ion fw bd's so we stop dealing w each other but let him tell it he didn't have a girlfriend but his lacking of planning told me i'm good off him. every now & then i be hearing stuff but now everything is more vivid in my dreams.

  • @topsidewithcapricorn
    @topsidewithcapricorn 5 місяців тому +3

    Bad Morning!!! Has me dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @PrincessCarrieChan
    @PrincessCarrieChan 5 місяців тому +1

    That good morning text though!! Oh hell no

  • @Akendollyy
    @Akendollyy 5 місяців тому +1

    Irene a story time while @workkkk?? I love it heree! 😍😂

  • @camille2281
    @camille2281 5 місяців тому

    I love this series (and all of your videos), definitely continue 💜

  • @K.P.0629
    @K.P.0629 5 місяців тому

    Continue this series 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @redloveeee
    @redloveeee 5 місяців тому +1

    Lmao Irene is so damn funny! Like without trying 😂

  • @mallorynagey9504
    @mallorynagey9504 5 місяців тому

    Yes, please continue this series, I'm loving your videos

  • @niyaarenee3090
    @niyaarenee3090 5 місяців тому +4

    Blaming the wine on mommy was crazy 😭

  • @tyrellmairs4467
    @tyrellmairs4467 5 місяців тому +3

    SENDING LOVE FROM CANADA AS ALWAYSSSS 🇨🇦 🤍🤍

  • @amberbmclendon
    @amberbmclendon 5 місяців тому

    thank you for sharing this vulnerable moment with us ❤

  • @alysiag2633
    @alysiag2633 5 місяців тому

    Wow that last part was crazy but I do believe it. We do get signs clear as day

  • @tontonbarclay6970
    @tontonbarclay6970 5 місяців тому +1

    Please: keep telling the stories back 2 back series.

  • @destini9986
    @destini9986 5 місяців тому

    Continue this series plz 😩

  • @anthoneybrooks5719
    @anthoneybrooks5719 5 місяців тому

    Me liking the video before watching it knowing my girl about to deliver 😊

  • @Akendollyy
    @Akendollyy 5 місяців тому

    I love you moree omgg I can literally say I can watch you any and everyday your one of my favorite story time UA-camrs never gets old! 😂❤

  • @nenarojas2987
    @nenarojas2987 5 місяців тому

    LMFAOOOOO IRENE STOP IT!!! 8:39 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i’m fucking dead why do dudes always make shit sooo obvious 😆😆😆
    ALSO off topic; the weight loss is showing sis! in the face and everything 🔥

  • @marieperkins5425
    @marieperkins5425 5 місяців тому

    Loving this series ♥️thank you for sharing and also the transparency 🙌🏽♥️♥️

  • @animezae
    @animezae 5 місяців тому

    “He’s probably baking some cookies right now” Irene bye 😂

  • @prettybrittany_
    @prettybrittany_ 5 місяців тому +1

    i need the other part now!!

  • @PrettyPearPricess
    @PrettyPearPricess 5 місяців тому

    Your storytimes be so good 😭❤️

  • @misspaper0213
    @misspaper0213 4 місяці тому

    These are definitely things narcissist do. Mine dis the same thing. will literally leave me waiting at the door. playing sleep, in the shower etc. They are sick ppl.

  • @SE_0929
    @SE_0929 5 місяців тому +1

    I’m
    Loving this hair on you Irene ❤

  • @Brittany_Amanda
    @Brittany_Amanda 5 місяців тому

    Love you Irene 🫶🏾 appreciate you doing this series

  • @daveenahrock114
    @daveenahrock114 5 місяців тому

    Continue this series ! Ily ❤️

  • @anzhelali6108
    @anzhelali6108 5 місяців тому +2

    Sending love to you Irene . Praise Jesus. U got me tearing up toward the end of the video. God is so good and we need to learn to listen. Mane the things that I been thru is crazy... we need to learn to listen to God fr❤💯 me and my boyfriend had a very scary experience with the Jezebel demon.. we now do our best to not have sex or any sexual touch and we waiting for marriage... if you keep having sex before marriage you will get the Jezebel demon and its very terrifying. I got rid of mines and I was baptized. Praise Jesus and much love to u ❤️

  • @fancydishsoappp3577
    @fancydishsoappp3577 5 місяців тому

    Thankyou for your transparency love your Rene !

  • @zandiledlamini4493
    @zandiledlamini4493 5 місяців тому

    I am enjoying this series i think it is gonna be one my favourites😂❤❤❤i was wonderring where hv u been ....luv u a lot😂❤...i think i resonate a lot with u cos i am also a dramatic person...some of the things u were arguing with him about were ridiculous but most probably i would hv done the same thing...

  • @Itsveralove
    @Itsveralove 5 місяців тому

    that Goodmorning woulda pissed me off too ong😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫🤣🤣

  • @mbeast991
    @mbeast991 5 місяців тому

    Dammmmn Yoo,Dat Crazy You Had To Go Thru This Shit,You Deserve More ,You Seem Like A Cool Person

  • @roselynd4549
    @roselynd4549 5 місяців тому

    Please continue this series❤❤

  • @BrookesLife1992
    @BrookesLife1992 5 місяців тому

    I already know he was a narcissistic jerk that tried to gaslight you even tho you told his ass “if you don’t want me to come over I won’t”! You didn’t deserve that Irene! No one does!
    Also just caught you live ! I get ad cramps and weak too. Ever since I started taking this supplement called Blood Builder by Mega Food brand I have energy. ♥️☺️

  • @gisellevee1778
    @gisellevee1778 5 місяців тому +1

    My fav story teller ❤️

  • @madamdomonique271
    @madamdomonique271 5 місяців тому

    I’m so invested **edge of my seat**

  • @renesbeauties975
    @renesbeauties975  5 місяців тому +2

    If you type something negative you will be blocked

  • @nadajashonte5037
    @nadajashonte5037 5 місяців тому +1

    Shesssss back 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @kristinacaballero4760
    @kristinacaballero4760 5 місяців тому

    Please continue the series

  • @Natori0131
    @Natori0131 5 місяців тому

    Loved this video to answer your question please continue the storytime