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  • @deangraziosi
    @deangraziosi  6 років тому +52

    This one was hard to share, but it's been on my heart for a while now... and I felt like it was time. Thank you for watching and listening :)
    with love,
    Dean

    • @eternityyoga
      @eternityyoga 6 років тому +3

      We're all real people. As you know, vulnerability is tough, but it's the only way for true connection, whether in business or love.

    • @zendog51
      @zendog51 6 років тому +2

      My heart goes out to you. I am in a very different but equally difficult place and yes indeed life will be changing. We will either grow or we won't. The choice is obvious. I am happy seeing things work out for you and your kids and your ex>

    • @PennyDean56
      @PennyDean56 6 років тому +2

      My heart is iwth you. I divorced a while ago. At the time it was devastating butlooking back I can see it was the best thing possible for both of us. Thank you for sharing this

    • @kareemacarter935
      @kareemacarter935 6 років тому +1

      Dean Graziosi you are awesome everyone goes thru ups and downs remember god got your back no matter what...

    • @karenshepley1768
      @karenshepley1768 6 років тому +1

      Thank you, Dean. My heart aches as I watch you share your story. Congratulations for getting through your storm and now being that better version of you.

  • @ezabreeza3223
    @ezabreeza3223 6 років тому +12

    Dean I am so sorry. I'm divorced too and I would not wish that on my worst enemy. It's very confusing and embarrassing wanting to hang on with every fiber in your being. Take time to love yourself and forgive yourself. It takes special people to be with special people. A wife of a minister, a wife of a police officer, a wife of a politician, a wife of a soldier, a wife of a skydiver all these women have a special trait to be able to deal with their man and heal their man. I'm glad the divorce is not messy. God bless you both.

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому

      thank you so much Emily, happy monday :)

  • @Lindyschn
    @Lindyschn 6 років тому +5

    Sounds like you have reached a breakthrough instead of getting stuck at a brick wall. Good for you and rely on God during the waves of pain that may return. I am praying for the best for you and your ex and your kiddos. Stay strong and keep being a light to so many.

  • @simeonl.montgomery7952
    @simeonl.montgomery7952 6 років тому +4

    Dean ... God bless you for sharing that. I know this is a challenge that I can truly relate too. Especially when you've dealt with it as a kid. Your human after all, and being vulnerable as a person is hard to do. I love you and your DG family loves you, we're here for you. Your strong, gifted and classy, trust God and everything else will work out in your favor. Let's come back better and stronger than ever ! Much love Dean !!!

  • @jaceyneubauer4359
    @jaceyneubauer4359 6 років тому +8

    I am 32 years old and still have dinner with the family on the weekend :)

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому

      That's awesome, im sure they love that too.

  • @TimThurman
    @TimThurman 6 років тому +6

    No matter what, divorce is the hardest thing to go through. God bless you.

  • @juliealvero5284
    @juliealvero5284 6 років тому +4

    Bless you Dean.
    Sorry to hear about the separation, but everything happens for a reason.
    Thrive Dean soar like an eagle !!!
    Lesson learned !!
    Thank you for sharing 😍
    Blessings and enjoy your family 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @carlaglass373
    @carlaglass373 6 років тому +4

    Dittto! I truly understand what you have been going through. Although my soon to be ex is doing everything possible to cause me so much more anxiety/and stress than is needed. My kids are the most important thing in my life... they are my world! I have three sons and two daughters ages 37, 34. 29, 23, and 17 years old. I have learned that I am only responsible for my actions and know one else’s. What we conquere makes us stronger.I do my best to share something positive and motivational daily on my FB page,. By doing this it makes me focus a lot more on staying positive to pushing myself through this lonely journey. I had a strange feeling these past few months that you might be going through something similar to this. My heart is with you, thank you for sharing this with us and for always staying bubble. I know it wasn’t t easy! ♥️🔥💙

  • @michaelzwirn4507
    @michaelzwirn4507 6 років тому +1

    Mr. G., Thank you for sharing this video. It gives me hope. I am 63 years old and divorced over 20 years, having walked out on a 16 year marriage and 6 kids. But unlike you, we didn't even think about counselling or outside help. We allowed tears and anger be our mediator. And only until recently have I been able to start new relationships with 3 to 4 of my kids. The two left have not spoken to me in almost 2 decades.
    But today you helped to rekindle a hope in my heart which wants to tell me to move on to another chapter; to put down the shovel and stop digging my own grave for once. Thank you, my friend. Peace

  • @caplovato
    @caplovato 6 років тому +1

    I picked up on your marital problems Dean in your posts and podcasts. Having gone through a divorce envolving daughters, I was torn emotionally going through with the divorce. I have always been very close to my daughters and like you coached them through baseball, basketball, school and life. After the dust settled, I approached my EX to explain I wasn’t a weekend father and we needed to change our relationship so there were no lines in the sand. I explained we would always be tied to each other and I would always care for her because of our children and that would never change. The children didn’t ask to be here, we brought them here and are responsible for them for the rest of our lives. I explained we would have birthdays, graduations, Holidays, marriages and grandchildren and we shouldn’t make the girls and our grandchildren pay for our mistake. I asked her to & her husband to consider these things so we could be a caring family without the immature strife and struggle children have to experience in life. They agreed and its been wonderful. All of us spend time together for holidays, birthdays and it is truly a family environment in which the girls, our sons in law and the grandchildren thrive. I know things will work out for you. You’re in my thoughts and prayers & God Bless.

  • @EMKMARKETING
    @EMKMARKETING 6 років тому +1

    I too had 3 kids and went through a divorce in 1993, my largest fear in my life !! My parents married had 4 kids and then divorced each other, my father left my life when I was about 5 years old and then they re-married when I was about 13, that only lasted a few years and then my mom threw him out and I was again without a full time father when I was about 16. I know where your pain comes from and when I got married I wanted it to last a lifetime, only if it is good !! I know what you mean that just because you have money doesn't make it a lot better to deal with !! My ex married a millionaire and she still made my visitations hard and the house and life that he had was way better than the life I had driving a truck for a living, he worked out of his 5-6 thousand sf house as a grass seed broker. While I had to work 60-70 hours to make a decent living and pay my support and just get by. They had a beautiful vacation house in Scotsdale AZ, beach cabin and all the toys that come with money. They vacationed all the time so my visitations were less of a priority and I got fazed out kinda, and now my relationship with my children is very marginal, now I just want real success to hopefully spend some quality time with them. I feel your pain, and hopefully you have a more intelligent woman than I had and shares your childrens lives all the time with you, they are the most important thing that we have !!!

  • @edwinweevers3184
    @edwinweevers3184 6 років тому +1

    3 years ago I made the same discision. Also with 2 little children. And we also made a commitment to be childcentered as co- parents and it works very well. It is not an episode you choose while marrieing, but as you say shit happens anyway and its good to make the best out of it. Thanks for sharing ! and wish you all good !

  • @EMKMARKETING
    @EMKMARKETING 6 років тому +1

    Dean, I too lived through a divorce when I was very young and I had no one to talk to through it, I had no brothers and 3 sisters. My parents reunited when I was a teenager, when I was about 5th grade and wasn't good but for a few years and then had to deal with that fiasco till I was about a sophomore in HS, my 3 sisters had their bedrooms upstairs while I was right across from my parents bedroom and had to live through the many nights of my dad not returning home or him being home and them fighting constantly. I can't imagine what you went through with your parents going through 9 marriages !! Fast forward to the mid 80s and I got married when I was 26 almost 27, my ex was 6 years my junior. I had grown up through 4 years in the marine corps and did all my partying and playing around before I married. We had 3 children and she did the worst thing I could have wanted and divorced me. It was tremendously tramatic at the time and has affected me to this day. I really didn't deal with it because of finances but this weekend I decided I have to start dealing with all the pain that it is still causing me. I truly believe that the pain that I deal with because of her turning our kids against me, none of them will talk, text or have anything to do with me. I tried to blow it off for many years like it didn't matter, but it is tearing me up. This weekend I texted her and begged her to just update me about their lives, nothing !! Well I know this is truly ruining the quality of my life, I want to do her terrible bodily harm but have too much common sense to resort to that. I am glad that you are able to stay friends with her that just never happened with us. That's all I will share for now, hopefully it goes smoother for you than what I have had to deal with !!!

  • @successgrowthacademy
    @successgrowthacademy 5 років тому +1

    Much respect for you Dean. I got to know you for always been vulnerable and authentic. We have a family gathering next week and I am already filled with so much fear and anxiety and worry. Its always been an obstacle for me to be with brothets due to my past. Im thriving when Im not with them but when I am with them I crael back into my insecurities amd feelibgs of worthlessness and that im not good enough. Time to man up. Your message could not came at a better time. Thanx man.

  • @Jpsalm91
    @Jpsalm91 5 років тому +1

    Its very refreshing that you are not arrogant Dean. Its very much appreciated. :)

  • @YouTubeUtah
    @YouTubeUtah 6 років тому +3

    Thank you, Dean! I know you don't know me yet, but you got my back when you published your book "Millionaire Success Habits."
    If you're ever travelling near Lake Powell... let me know. I have a business here. Peace!

  • @OregonCoastBanshee
    @OregonCoastBanshee 6 років тому +5

    Thanks for sharing Dean.....no one is superhuman. We all have challenges to overcome regardless of your lot in life all the way from the top to the bottom.

  • @kittystuartprod
    @kittystuartprod 6 років тому +1

    I'm so sorry to hear this Dean. My heart goes out to you and your family. You are such a rare, talented, caring, and kind person. You and I have had similar childhoods and have used our life experiences to help others but sometimes things just don't work out in life for sure. As you know only too well, adversity is a great teacher and it can be used in a positive way to achieve great things. Overcoming our fears in order to make positive changes is also very powerful. I'm so happy to hear that you and your ex wife are starting this new journey as best friends. This will be wonderful for your kids and for you both. I'm going to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing with us.

  • @deborahlandon6248
    @deborahlandon6248 6 років тому +1

    Dean, Thank you for sharing that. It's a hard place when the anxiety of change suddenly sweeps in and stays a bit. Your ability to be so genuine and down to earth helps close the gap between the successful and those on the journey. Always an encouragement!

  • @Chickey3
    @Chickey3 6 років тому +2

    You will be ok .everyone like you. It's painful I know.

  • @susieandre6326
    @susieandre6326 6 років тому +1

    I respect your words because you divorced from the relationship husband/wife but you didn't divorced from your kids and both of you continuing together a journey as a parents!

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому

      amazing way to put it yes Susie, couldn't agree more.

  • @kerbarbles
    @kerbarbles 6 років тому +1

    I'm really sorry man. I may not have yet made something happen with the knowledge you've made available, but I've been following you for many years now, and over those years, you've been one of the most important voices in helping me get through tough times, and standing back up after being knocked down. And you are THE most important voice in letting me know that I can live life on another level. So I'm definitely sorry for your pain. I also know that this could not have happened to someone more capable of handling it. Also, I'm glad that the relationship between you and your ex is healthy, rather than toxic. Stay strong brother.

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  5 років тому

      Thank you man, and I'm so glad I could help you!

  • @kellyhoh444
    @kellyhoh444 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your sharing.

  • @danielryan7449
    @danielryan7449 6 років тому +1

    Dean,
    I've been there, you've got REAL courage! What you say about walking into the light again is very true. My situation with divorce was different. I ended up with sole custody of two boys. I was lucky enough to be able to take a leave of absence from my job and still get paid. They were 2 and 3 years old. For their sake, I put one in preschool in the morning 1 in the afternoon so I could spend time individually with them for 2 years. long story short, they are both in college one pre-med 1 plays baseball and is getting his engineering degree. both on scholarship, total annual cost for education under $1,000. remarried beautiful woman who speaks 5 languages... LOL I barely speak one and not so goodly :) I've never been happier even though I'm as poor as a church mouse... for now.
    God bless you and he has.
    Dan

  • @tiah2651
    @tiah2651 6 років тому +2

    Dean you are Awesome God bless you your family ♥️ I can't wait to work more with you!

  • @nannyqueenie9002
    @nannyqueenie9002 6 років тому +1

    Wow, it’s Sad to hear but your keeping it REAL.. you BOTH tried to fix it n it still didn’t work. At least your still Friends that’s more than most can say. So No more Weight on your shoulders. Mad Respect to you Both for trying. I Believe things happen for a reason.

  • @cookingwithplants
    @cookingwithplants 5 років тому

    Thank you for sharing your story Dean. I went through the same last year and I know it can really shake your core. I posted a video about my situation too and how I dealt with it. It's very important to recognize that we don't always have to be strong 100% of the time. We are only human and being vulnerable is scary, but it helps us grow in ways we never could imagine.

  • @fruitopia5461
    @fruitopia5461 6 років тому

    Wow! Thank you for showing us your vulnerability. Divorce is tough but it's great you're friends with your ex. Fruitful blessings 🍓🍇🍍🍌🍉🍒💫

  • @MdNazmulHassanNahid
    @MdNazmulHassanNahid 6 років тому +2

    Dean, you seemed to be more real when you shared your personal life story & mistakes you made. It proved that you love your audience. They are not just audience. They are now a part of your family Dean. You are not alone at all. They are waiting for hearing more from you.

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому +1

      So glad you're apart of the DG family :)

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому +1

      I really appreciate this love!

  • @joedema7504
    @joedema7504 5 років тому

    I am really sorry about the divorce Dean. I just wanna tell you that reading your book Millionaire success habits changed my life. I just discovered your book three weeks ago and have read it twice. I´ll be praying for you and your family. Thanks again Dean! I´m one of your greatest fans in Germany. I hope to attend one of your seminars in future!

  • @68gto400
    @68gto400 6 років тому

    Divorce is not easy... The kids might be ok, but it might be tough for them for the next 10-15 years and that's something you really can't help at all really, I came through a divorce as the child :'(

  • @andyebert
    @andyebert 6 років тому

    My wife and I just don't have the same feelings for each other we used to have. I guess I just don't love her anymore and she doesn't love me. What can i do?"
    "The feeling isn't there anymore?" I asked.
    "That's right," he reaffirmed. "And we have three children we're really concerned about. What do you suggest?"
    "love her," I replied.
    "I told you, the feeling just isn't there anymore."
    "Love her."
    "You don't understand. the feeling of love just isn't there."
    "Then love her. If the feeling isn't there, that's a good reason to love her."
    "But how do you love when you don't love?"
    "My friend , love is a verb. Love - the feeling - is a fruit of love, the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that?”
    ― Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

  • @48snapper
    @48snapper 6 років тому

    Your pains visible in your eyes, Dean. Thank you for your example and positivity. I hope you take some 'ease-y time for yourself. Alexxis

  • @susansorian3294
    @susansorian3294 6 років тому

    Thank you, and God bless you for your honesty. I have been through a divorce, with 4 kids, remarried - (had 4 more between us) & now widowed - starting over AGAIN. And, you are right. On the other side of the pain is victory. You are going to continue to grow in ways you did not expect.
    I have lost pretty much everything more than once, and am currently facing some of my biggest challenges ever. Some days are definitely more difficult than others, seems like it’s all uphill right now, but I know God has a plan - He always does. I’m praying for you - thank you for the reminder, I needed that tonight.

  • @lisamay5649
    @lisamay5649 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much, Dean, for sharing your heart with us! Showing your human side with us is so very appreciated! I know that now, even though you are no longer married to your ex, that your kids are going to have even a better dad. That's because you can be FULLY PRESENT with them instead of being burdened with an unhappy and unfulfilling mariage. I'm sorry that it didn't work out and all of the heartache and anxiety that you went through. That wasn't easy, as it never is. Yet, losses can inevitably lead to gains. By that I mean that maybe someday when the time is right, another lucky woman will enter your life who will be even greater than your ex was. When you're ready, of course. Take the time to heal, first, though. I'm also glad that you learned what went wrong and that you are committed to not making the same mistakes again. Good for you! So, I wish you the very best loving wonan that God will give you in His timing. May He bless you always with His love, joy, and peace!

  • @barbarademarco93
    @barbarademarco93 6 років тому

    Thank you for sharing this information with us. I wondered why you didn't bring your wife to the stage or mention her at the EDGE. You shared stories all about your kids, brought them on stage, You are the best Dad!!! I appreciate your honesty and just knowing you for the short time I have, I know you do/did everything you can in your power to make it work. You are human, much love and hugs are being sent your way!!!! You have such love and compassion. Look how wonderful you turned out based on the challenges you've had growing up and with your parents! You are living your truth that regardless of circumstances you can Succeed!!!! Applause!!!

  • @Kaaren1100
    @Kaaren1100 6 років тому +1

    Thank you Dean, perfect timing for me.....in the middle of a separation....facing it, feeling it but accepting it. Let's soldier on up wards!!!

  • @thealaskannomad6018
    @thealaskannomad6018 6 років тому

    There's a beautiful song that I enjoy listening to, because I have a daughter with my ex. "Not Going Nowhere" by Babyface. It tells the child that despite what is happening, your love for them will never change. Thank you for opening up such a sensitive wound, and your insight that brings motivation.

  • @katherinehelman3059
    @katherinehelman3059 6 років тому

    Very inspiring. Thank you for reminding us that EVERYONE has problems -- it's how we deal with the problem that sets the course in life.

  • @Mr.8ezman
    @Mr.8ezman 6 років тому

    Hey Dean brother! I've felt your pain. Like you say in your book millionare success habits, do not let that inner villain take hold. When I see you I see a success story, that's where I want to be. But knowing we all experience the same challenges just inspires me. Seeing you smile through such a hard time makes me smile. I'm looking for my path in life, and you have helped me tremendously. Thank you for being real with me. Hopefully I wrote that correctly lol. With every failure comes with it and equal success. I am looking for a full time mentor. Someone that can guide me, help me find my talents. We've suffered together man. Keep smiling and keep that direction forward!

  • @pascalulli
    @pascalulli 6 років тому

    Hi Dean lot's of power now for you and your ex wife and your especially your kids. I went through the same hole...My parents divorced when I was 2 and the divorce from the mother of my two children was hell unttill I faced it. Thats now 7 years ago and everything turned out super well. My kids are now 16 and 18 and I have a new wonderful woman and the relationship with my kids is super...wish you all the best pascal from Switzerland.

  • @Raquelbcartagena
    @Raquelbcartagena 6 років тому

    Love that! Sorry for what’s happen but love you had what it takes to share & be the real deal. Praying over myself that I too can come out like that share my story my life from the ghettos of NYC to H.S drop out becoming homeless with my 4 kids to deciding to transform my life for my children by focusing on self developing, finally realizing I needed to redefine my default becuz every choice I make or don’t make affects their lives. If I want a different out come for them I need to show & be what’s possible!❤️ much respect ✊

  • @themartinannpodcastwithwan4608
    @themartinannpodcastwithwan4608 5 років тому

    It's almost unbelievable that a few people actually clicked thumbs down on this vid. Man, some ppl. Dean, I really appreciate you sharing this. We already have WAY too many folks who try to fake perfection and a perfect life. It's good to see that you're not one of them.

  • @susanachziger4358
    @susanachziger4358 6 років тому

    Dean, I am struggling with all those feelings, wondering if I will come through this better and stronger and happier. Right now, I can't see it. Working hard to try to see where to go from here. Would love some insights you've gained--see if I can get unstuck. After 32 years of marriage, it feels like I'm too old to start over--like I've failed at everything that matters most. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing.

  • @kamalsubba1637
    @kamalsubba1637 4 роки тому

    Oh! Dear! Dean ,I really appreciate your courage to share with me your pain. I just finished reading your millionaire success habits . While reading through the I doubted something has gone wrong with your family as you didn't talk about much your family except your lovely kids. They look like they are great as you! I know you are so great and courageous which put you now In that level of life. You know trouble comes only to that who can really face it ! I am confident that you have every capability to tackle it. I encourage you to stay strong . You have inspired me a lot by sharing your wisdom and experience. Take care.

  • @Tiamariacat1
    @Tiamariacat1 6 років тому

    Dean, So sorry you had to go through this. I've been there myself & I commend you for sharing. It was not so much a secret as there were signs that 'something' was going on. Although it's not easy, everything happens for a reason. Sometimes life has different plans for us and we have to let go & move on to bigger & better things. Time heals all wounds. Meanwhile, stay close to your children. Move forward to great things. Everything will be okay. Stay strong & God bless.

  • @yidman111
    @yidman111 6 років тому

    Excellent message....You are an amazing person. As you stated, We all make mistakes and it takes courage and strength to open up to others. We learn and do our upmost not to repeat them. . You have given hope and strength to others with this powerful message. You are absolutely correct, there is a spiritual solution to every problem that we encounter, when we face our fears and focus on the solution. From a spiritual perspective, I feel very connected with you and I appreciate you sharing your wisdom with others. Thank you and God bless you and your family.

  • @armarbi
    @armarbi 5 років тому

    Wow Dean, it is a humbling experience sharing your private life's hardship.. An emotional human thread of weakness that can be only be learned from people who dares to share. Your children have a super supportive father. Thank you for the insightful experience.

  • @michaelzwirn4507
    @michaelzwirn4507 6 років тому

    Mr. G., without going into detail here publicly, I know your pain. I truly will pray for you all, but especially for the kids. But as well, thank you for the inspiration to, as you say, lean into it and move forward. It's been a tough row to hoe, but after over 20 years, I've begun to do just that.

  • @patmurphy389
    @patmurphy389 6 років тому

    having had two divorces already, i can sympathize dean, sorry to hear it, but maybe in the long run you both will be better people for it & your children too. I feel you will be alright & don't give up.....i am on my third marriage now & it is working ok, for the last 25 years now, i can't believe it myself, but thank you for sharing your story!

  • @juliegillespie5983
    @juliegillespie5983 6 років тому

    Hi Dean, You have so much courage to share this difficult time in your life with your You tube viewers. I went thru a divorce as well. It is can be heart wrenching. I agree with you when it comes to the children. My heart break was watching my children experience so much pain. In my familie's situation there was a lot of emotional abuse. You, and your ex seem like very good, and healthy parents for your children. They are going to grow up into happy healthy individuals. Much love to you, and your family, Julie

  • @rinew9611
    @rinew9611 6 років тому

    Thank you for sharing!! May God continue to restore you, Dean, because the best is yet to come! I lost my husband unexpectedly less than a year ago. I'm looking forward to a better version of me and my life, too. This was a great help.

  • @radicahosein5338
    @radicahosein5338 6 років тому

    Thank you Dean for sharing your heartfelt moments with me. I am so sorry for your troubles
    I fell your pain. Everything happens for a reason. We recognized the reason later on. Always remember God has a plan for your life. Love you.

  • @aprillewis9203
    @aprillewis9203 5 років тому

    OMG Dean I have the upmost respect and admiration for you. I just got your book at a free class you held in Tulsa OK. I then have also signed up for your stocks and options workshop on Dec 6th, 7th, and 8th. I look up to you and for the first time in my life look forward to my future and believe in myself. I also want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for the dozen roses you sent me. It made me feel like I really do matter in this world and that I really can do this. I'm your number one fan and you and your family are in my daily prayers Dean. Thank you and God Bless you and all you do.

  • @markprincipe7440
    @markprincipe7440 6 років тому

    It took a LOT of courage to share that part of your life story and expose the vulnerability....though there is much more to it than what was revealed here. Thank you Dean. I completely relate and stand arm-in-arm with you regarding this most tumultuous time period.

  • @wbhdev
    @wbhdev 6 років тому

    Dean - I've been there and know the exact emotions you have gone thru and will go thru. Thank you for sharing something so personal and trying your best to show us the inspiration that is possible in a painful story. ~ Dev Horn / VP Marketing @ WeBuyHouses.com

  • @kyler4132
    @kyler4132 6 років тому

    Thanks for sharing Dean! I can relate on so many levels, e.g. parents getting divorced when I was young, and struggling with my marriage and trying to balance my work/home life. I just hope it's not to late to salvage my marriage.
    Be strong and know that your best life is the one in front of you.

  • @SandiGordonCoaching
    @SandiGordonCoaching 6 років тому

    Sending you big love and respect. Thank you for using your platform to show your vulnerability, caring, and the love you have for your kids - you are truly inspiring, Dean. Sharing that there is thriving on the other side of pain will elevate so many.

  • @LuisMorales-rs9on
    @LuisMorales-rs9on 6 років тому

    Hello Dean, I just swa you on Grant Cardones channel and I was woowed by your insight and genuiness. I'm sold and have subscribed to your channel. Lets go.

  • @rudybarrios1344
    @rudybarrios1344 6 років тому

    Hey brother....i am sorry for what you have to go through but like you said the new version of you would be much better and by calling you brother I don't mean to offend you or being at the level that you are it just happens, may God bless you always...!

  • @antjerenz9054
    @antjerenz9054 6 років тому

    You touched my heart - thank you for sharing. And thanks for the message behind your sadness - thanks for encouraging others while you yourself are still struggling :)

  • @johannarivero2612
    @johannarivero2612 6 років тому

    Dear Dean I am so sorry to hear that I wish you and your family all the happiness. It means the world to me you share this with me. I appreciate my life more every day thanks to you. Thanks for helping me to be a happy woman to value the beautiful life I have even with all the bad that is in it. Con todo mi corazón I wish you and your ex-wife happiness and love. Cariños Johanna

  • @richardhawkins1575
    @richardhawkins1575 5 років тому

    Dean, Thank you for sharing this, definitely not an easy for you to do. Therefore, I appreciate even more that you did.
    Not sure that thanks are the right words but thank you.
    Regards Richard

  • @jaslive7593
    @jaslive7593 6 років тому

    Your lucky not the divorse brothere mine took tiger and they have ripped me in side out of me it hurts and she is and has been living with him.. There killing me man im broke im close to be homeless hell i woring for 9.00, its been 25 yrs ago. Since i done this.. Im sorry for your divorce to.. I miss my 3 yr old son too..

  • @emmabrunson977
    @emmabrunson977 6 років тому

    I feel your pain and I know the feeling. Been down that road. God has been my rock during that time. Let Him be our rock as well, Dean.

  • @cbrwn32
    @cbrwn32 6 років тому +2

    God bless you brother. Thank you for sharing!

  • @2852Omar
    @2852Omar 6 років тому

    SorrybDean your marraige didn't work. At least you guys did it the right way and put the kids first. God bles you. I need to take some action myself.

  • @aliciabarnard988
    @aliciabarnard988 6 років тому

    You cannot know how profoundly you have spoken to my heart today~~thank you so much, Dean, for helping me to face my anxiety and for encouraging me to push through to the other side~~

  • @AbdulHalimAlTaalib
    @AbdulHalimAlTaalib 6 років тому +4

    Thank you Dean! I know the feeling having separated from my kids mom for about 7 years now, and I was there for my kids everyday. A month and a half ago I lost my job, your better life challenge and book have been a major support in keeping me positive and pushing. You are very appreciated!

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому +1

      Man that must have been a tough time, the better life is amazing isn't it? Thank you for the comment... let's keep pushing

    • @AbdulHalimAlTaalib
      @AbdulHalimAlTaalib 6 років тому

      Dean Graziosi yes it is. Waiting to do it again.

  • @hanta2813
    @hanta2813 3 роки тому

    I trully understand your point of view. My pbm is that my ex has not the same mindset as me. No therapy no communication. I am taking care of my kids alone..

  • @afarinrahmani4421
    @afarinrahmani4421 6 років тому

    Congratulations Dean! It is awesome that you decided to take the right path however much difficult it might have been for you and allowed yourself to grow in the process in order to provide a healthier and happier environment for everyone in your family to prosper in, its a selfless sacrifice to confront your worst fears head-on to secure the happiness of everyone as a result, one that not many can understand or can relate to…specially in the context of divorce, and you did it! Blessings and many more…

  • @montanaboobie
    @montanaboobie 6 років тому

    Seriously, how can you be friends with a person who deals such a blow to you?
    I know it takes two, but I have found behind every failed man is a woman.

  • @nicolameier2332
    @nicolameier2332 6 років тому

    I love you being so real and vulnerable. It shows me again - we do not have to be perfect to make a difference in the life of others. We have to be authentic and real. You inspire me to have that courage. Thank you!

  • @priscillaphillips7745
    @priscillaphillips7745 6 років тому

    Glad you made it to the other side. A lot of people don't or just don't want to. Very happy you are not that person. I don't think you have a high tolerance level for feeling bad. Knowing how to change the narrative is one of the best things one can know.

  • @radicahosein5338
    @radicahosein5338 5 років тому +1

    Thank you Dean for sharing your heartfelt moments. Love your inspiration. Sorry about your divorce. Keep loving your kids. They are adorable. I am sure God will send someone in your life to make you happy. Love you

  • @janamoran189
    @janamoran189 6 років тому

    thanks for your honesty.
    MUCH, MUCH love. 😊🎼

  • @patthomas9992
    @patthomas9992 6 років тому

    Yes I truly understand that , I have been through the same we are still great friends . I know you will come out of it stronger and wiser , love your openness and good luck

  • @AngelaKaySams
    @AngelaKaySams 2 роки тому

    Proud of you. 🙏🏽 Thank you for being honest and brave.

  • @malakhayat7552
    @malakhayat7552 6 років тому

    Thanks for sharing I had learn a lot from your experience of life Also life is a lesson for us we should learn from it and never give up, and we growing up with our pain this makes us to be more strong to face the next

  • @faheemaadia7890
    @faheemaadia7890 6 років тому

    Sorry for your pain, amazing that you're both putting the kids first. thnx for sharing

  • @jameswilliams2250
    @jameswilliams2250 6 років тому

    Continue to read the comments below they will be an encouragement and support system for you in the most sustain process . As I reflect on my individual Fort

  • @Frenchie-vl4cj
    @Frenchie-vl4cj 6 років тому

    Lean into it and suffering is a choice are two concepts I read recently in a book. Interesting to me how new ideas are reinforced if you pay attention. Thank you for sharing.

  • @radicahosein5338
    @radicahosein5338 6 років тому

    Thank you Dean for sharing your heartfelt moments. You know Dean things happen for a reason that we cannot see go to have a plan for everyone was so it's hard to accept it but we got to try harder thank you Dean

  • @jaslive7593
    @jaslive7593 6 років тому

    I have not a person to trust no friends no family.. I hate my life dean i dont no what to do anymore.. I have grown to i will take it all dean im good with it it was all me i need to be left alone so i can try to cut me a path how do i get these people off me so i can try to live.. Social media has made it were i cant buy a job man it suxs that they can do this man.. How do i do this..

  • @englishonlineforchildren5912
    @englishonlineforchildren5912 6 років тому

    I am so sorry to hear that you have been going through this. Thank you for sharing this with us. Stay strong and visible!

  • @ytagesuhabte5131
    @ytagesuhabte5131 6 років тому

    Sorry to hear that Dean. It has a lot of pain. I am in the same situation at this time. I believe it's for a reason. God bless you. Stay strong.

  • @anitaragan479
    @anitaragan479 6 років тому

    I truly know what ur going through I went through a divorce and my daughter is my joy and life it was the hardest thing I went through and lived through but I have found my self though it and want the future to be the best and brightest ever

  • @GaryJones2012
    @GaryJones2012 6 років тому +1

    Been there. Done that. My biggest mistake was hanging in for twenty-three long years just hoping it would get better. Finally gave up and moved forward, as you recommend. Thank you for sharing. The problem in most failed marriages is that you can only control you and never your partner. You can't always be on the same page.

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому

      it's tough right? No easy answer for sure. Thanks Gary :)

  • @MsHoneyDollJoJo
    @MsHoneyDollJoJo 6 років тому

    Hello, Dean thanks so much for emailing me to watch this video.

  • @horaceyao2414
    @horaceyao2414 6 років тому +1

    Just joined the family a few days ago, but SO glad I did! I'm currently working on building my own tribe (from 0) and providing as much value as possible. It's hard! But learning from you and your wisdom is giving me the courage and strength to power through it all. I'm not even at the age where I can legally marry yet 😅, but I can imagine how hard going through a divorce can be. I admire your inner strength very much!

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому

      Keep going, you’ll get there :) welcome to the DG fam

  • @freedomjunky6198
    @freedomjunky6198 6 років тому +1

    Dean, I'm sorry to hear that. I come from a broken family, and have been divorced myself. Nothing but love your way, and know that God has a plan. I'm here for you buddy if you need anything

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому +1

      Thanks man. I appreciate the love

  • @verahosennen1595
    @verahosennen1595 6 років тому

    Respect for your authenticity! I wish you all the best!

  • @gfiremark
    @gfiremark 6 років тому +1

    Thanks for sharing, Dean. An important message.

  • @constancereed1576
    @constancereed1576 6 років тому +1

    Thanks for sharing and I am learning from you a lot!!!

  • @susanasifuentes5646
    @susanasifuentes5646 6 років тому

    Thank you, Dean, for sharing your vulnerability with us. I’ve been dealing with a lot of the same stuff and trying hard to keep things positive and moving forward in a spirit of love and respect. Our kids are worth it!!! May you continue to be blessed in the process.

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому

      Yes, they are, they so are. Thanks Susana :)

  • @annieoeth5617
    @annieoeth5617 6 років тому +1

    I'm so sorry to hear that, but I know that you will make the best of this. I like how you two are putting the children as top priority.

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому

      they are always my top priority, I don't even like traveling or being away for too long without them!

  • @everythinganythinghubthebe6866
    @everythinganythinghubthebe6866 6 років тому

    Thank you for sharing Dean.Wish you all the best. I went through a divorce and if you ask me if I have recovered.? Don't know yet. Thanks for the great advise always.

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому

      Time heals all i believe and a shift in outlook has helped me for sure, focusing what i'm grateful for and what i have rather than lack. All the best, thank you Elsia :)

  • @jameswilliams2250
    @jameswilliams2250 6 років тому

    You are so dedicated to motivating us to succeed and so many have benefited from your sheer dedication to the students. You also said that you will not make that mistake again whatever that may be. Is it possible that we were that competing aspect in your relationship that your wife could not compete with. Where your student The Other Woman metaphorically? You are so married to your work and many have benefited from that. So maybe on the next relationship you might want to give more time to that particular individual or just stay with us full time. stop saying you will never repeat that mistake again we all repeat our mistakes many times over you are no different. Carefully analyze what you did and say that you will try not to repeat that mistake but I guarantee you if you be come over confident it will rear its ugly head in your life again. Your dedication to us could be that ugly head not that we don't want your attention but moderation might be more appropriate to save any future relationship. Now with all this been said I could be totally in left field. But this is just my personal unprofessional analysis.

  • @eternityyoga
    @eternityyoga 6 років тому +1

    No one wants to go though the kind of pain you've gone through, Dean. But pain is such a great teacher and it elevates us higher every time we encounter it. I would say that you are now headed into the stratosphere! Lucky you! ;)

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому +1

      To the moon and beyond, yes ☺️📈

  • @Manifestcovarience
    @Manifestcovarience 6 років тому +1

    Thanks Dean for what you said in this Podcast - I felt like it was coming straight out of my own life's experience! M.C.

    • @deangraziosi
      @deangraziosi  6 років тому

      Isn’t it funny how the universe sends us exactly what we need when we need it