💯facts and don't go back to them when they try to spin the block back to you. They'll eat so it again if you take them back or they'll keep smashing them behind you back.
That break stuff doesn't really work out. It's more of an excuse to talk to other people especially with these days of social media. There's always a so called "friend" they have ready to smash. You're better off splitting up then later on if you guys feel you're ready to be together then start being together because during that break you're going to find out things you don't want to know.
If your girl wants to take a break y’all might as well break up. She is going to go and mess with whoever and if you call her out on it she will say y’all wernt together so it wasn’t cheating
…yea at that point Iont even want u no more so have at it! Lol the younger me wasn’t of this understanding but at 33 at no room for nun of that n a nigga life
I respect the fact that they said that men have to get out of their egos and understand that women can just go outside, get some side action, not even want the dude, and still want to be with you. That was golden supreme information that I've been trying to pass on for years. These women aren't too much different than us. They can go hop on something and before you know it act like everything cool. No strings attached nothing. Ya'll some truthtellers!
I’m sorry, but y’all too damn old to be talking about a “break”. If we “take a break”, then we are broken up! So it’s either we are communicating and working thru our problems or we are done!
My gfs friend recently did this...messed with her dudes best friend then got back with the guy....i told my girl if that dude asks me anything im telling the truth, they arent my friends and i have no loyalties to any of them. They arent my friends and my girl also warned her friend that no i DO NOT CARE
Am I the only one who finds it odd that people in their mid to latter thirties (if not forties) are discussing topics and practices of early to mid twenty year olds 🤔
Because life does have an age range this is everyday life. How many people in the world vs how many are happily married. Most of America in general is single
@@jacobadams372everybody on the pod outside of Mel are in long term relationships(E relationship is relatively new) so this stuff they be talking bout don’t be pertaining to them currently
Breaks are for when you are young like you and your college girl both going home for the summer you y'all don't live close. Or it's for very specific occasions where you and your partner are in a good space but are forced to be apart. Anything other than that, y'all need to break up do your own thing. And if y'all link up later, what ever the other person did is none of your business unless it's something your partner will have to deal with.
I've never done all that break stuff it's always been on or off. But men and women are bound to see it differently. I can't think of any man who would hear her say "yh I'm gonna go get my back blown while we're on this break" and for him to say "OK bet, see you in couple months let's pick up where we left off."
We talk about each other like property. No one owns anyone! When the person I am dating leaves the house I have no clue what they are up to and it isn't my job to police them. If we have a relationship based on trust, my expectation is that you will honor it the way I will. Everything else is for the birds and our dumb little egos.
I swear I rock with these guys, but this is the most childish conversation. If you get to the point where you need a break, then it is called a breakup. Usually, it is one person who initiates a break, most likely because they want to sleep with other people. And to think you are going to lockdown or control who your ex sleeps or conversates with is crazy. You can't own a person. Look, I'm grown. If my partner approaches me about some "break" nonsense, then I will proceed to do what I want. Don't talk to me about any rules.
@mjperkins7743 How is it that out of everything, all you took away from it was a grammatical error? So I placed the word "talk" where it should be. Are you happy now? Or do you have more hate to provide?
@@km-qc3iv I mean I wouldn't of minded if you would of not edited it, but the simple fact that you made an edit and even after there's still grammatical errors is the problem, lol. Nigga erased a mistake and fixed it but still had more mistakes he didn't catch.
As a 50 year old man. This is the most immature conversation I have ever heard from grown men. This is a conversation I would expect to hear from guys in their early 20’s. I would never talk to my woman on a break about who I F or who she may have F. It was a break.
The break differs on the individuals. If I take a break its not because Im fucking somebody else. Its because I'm not getting what I need from the man I love. I'd rather be alone and focus on myself. Some people have a hard time being alone. I don't... lf i can't have the one i love. I want to be left alone. Only surrounded by family and friends.
Then just break up. There’s no such thing as a “break”. Edit: I feel like people only use the term break because they are just too afraid to actually let go and move on. If you feel like your partner isn’t satisfying and not even try to address your actual needs then just leave them alone and find someone else
Its crazy hearing how men talk about a break and what a woman "should" do, when men are the most disrespectful whether they are on a break or in a relationship. The double standard is crazy to me. Its the same if a man cheated versus a woman. Women, we be more open to possibly take our man back but men cant handle that when the shoe is on the other foot. If you do the "break" thing, then dont ask any questions when you decide to get back together because its irrelevant
Ish and Joe always tries talking about cheating in the mist humble way. I'm gonna be real theres nothing atand up about cheating even if you say your on a break. These dudes always try to justify BS they did in their past on the POD.
Y'all wild AF for these breaks. Never in my life. If we break, we're breaking up. Period. Do you.
Facts
Exactly
That’s the rule of the game that I know. ✌🏾
Facts it’s over
I see some of us has never been in a relationship b4 huh.
Man the internet has messed up dating forever...
Definitely
Agreed
They trying to hard to relate to the dumbasses
Facts!!
Frfr
“please don’t worry bout me I’m fineee” 😆
😂
Whoever calls for the break has somebody else on the side!
💯facts and don't go back to them when they try to spin the block back to you. They'll eat so it again if you take them back or they'll keep smashing them behind you back.
She’s either trying to monkey branch or she wants to hookup with a guy(s) guilt-free.
Typically
Nah I’ll call a break with no options…. but I know damn well imma find one 😂
💯
On a break? Nope, we over.
I'm 40. There's no "break" just a break up and never doubling back.
That break stuff doesn't really work out. It's more of an excuse to talk to other people especially with these days of social media. There's always a so called "friend" they have ready to smash.
You're better off splitting up then later on if you guys feel you're ready to be together then start being together because during that break you're going to find out things you don't want to know.
If your girl wants to take a break y’all might as well break up. She is going to go and mess with whoever and if you call her out on it she will say y’all wernt together so it wasn’t cheating
…yea at that point Iont even want u no more so have at it! Lol the younger me wasn’t of this understanding but at 33 at no room for nun of that n a nigga life
This is straight facts
💯
Only girls do that? Men invented “break babies.” 😂
Are we ever growing up?? People building whole civilizations and we still in the sandbox. Sheesh. 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
the “break” is always to fuck other people stop letting people play games with your time & your mind
I respect the fact that they said that men have to get out of their egos and understand that women can just go outside, get some side action, not even want the dude, and still want to be with you.
That was golden supreme information that I've been trying to pass on for years. These women aren't too much different than us. They can go hop on something and before you know it act like everything cool. No strings attached nothing.
Ya'll some truthtellers!
A break means alone time to me. If you with someone during the break it’s a break up and I’m done
I’m sorry, but y’all too damn old to be talking about a “break”.
If we “take a break”, then we are broken up! So it’s either we are communicating and working thru our problems or we are done!
The fact that we talking about a break in our 30s. If you gonna be with someone, then be with someone.
My gfs friend recently did this...messed with her dudes best friend then got back with the guy....i told my girl if that dude asks me anything im telling the truth, they arent my friends and i have no loyalties to any of them. They arent my friends and my girl also warned her friend that no i DO NOT CARE
thank you.
These convos make me so depressed and scared
Man, I know.
Am I the only one who finds it odd that people in their mid to latter thirties (if not forties) are discussing topics and practices of early to mid twenty year olds 🤔
It can be but who better to learn from then someone who's gone thru it.
@@cjthecr80r83 you missing it. They speak from perspectives of still experiencing it presently.
Because life does have an age range this is everyday life. How many people in the world vs how many are happily married. Most of America in general is single
@@jacobadams372everybody on the pod outside of Mel are in long term relationships(E relationship is relatively new) so this stuff they be talking bout don’t be pertaining to them currently
Ish is 48?? Why am thinking bro is like 38?😂😂😂
He be moving young😂😂
He’s mad immature
also just found out Mel is 44......crazzyyy
@@kapambwekapambwe4131 she’s 47 so even crazier
the 1 or 2 or 3 times i fell victim 😂
Not falling victim to the dating game 😂
🎤🎼🎵Please dont worry bout me. Im fiiiiinne”🎼😂
The Neyo!😂😂😂😂😂
That singing was good too!
Breaks are for when you are young like you and your college girl both going home for the summer you y'all don't live close. Or it's for very specific occasions where you and your partner are in a good space but are forced to be apart. Anything other than that, y'all need to break up do your own thing. And if y'all link up later, what ever the other person did is none of your business unless it's something your partner will have to deal with.
This is why passports are key lol
Take that trip to dr or Colombia lol
@@TheRealCristiancandelaria agreed
I've never done all that break stuff it's always been on or off. But men and women are bound to see it differently. I can't think of any man who would hear her say "yh I'm gonna go get my back blown while we're on this break" and for him to say "OK bet, see you in couple months let's pick up where we left off."
Falling victim is crazy but he is right sometimes the flesh is just weak 😂😂😂
Lmao boximity took me out. Dont have lazy box yeah plz go somewhere far from me if this happens
Ian @5:16 😂 wtf is with the double standard lmao 🤣
We talk about each other like property. No one owns anyone! When the person I am dating leaves the house I have no clue what they are up to and it isn't my job to police them. If we have a relationship based on trust, my expectation is that you will honor it the way I will. Everything else is for the birds and our dumb little egos.
💯
Facts
Both of them Ne-Yo songs was cold. He don’t get enough credit
Man who the hell taking announced “breaks” nowadays?? Y’all broke up but y’all still open to getting back together
When you take a break you need to announce it to your partner
You gonna cheat and say “we were on a break but I never announced it though”?
@@powderedtoastfacekillah734 my thing it’s not a break.. you either together or you not. No such thing as a break
Sick work dear lord.
Yo that dude in the back sound like Logic 😂😂
Omggg 😂😂 when he said fell victim I immediately went to the comments 😂.
I swear I rock with these guys, but this is the most childish conversation. If you get to the point where you need a break, then it is called a breakup. Usually, it is one person who initiates a break, most likely because they want to sleep with other people. And to think you are going to lockdown or control who your ex sleeps or conversates with is crazy. You can't own a person. Look, I'm grown. If my partner approaches me about some "break" nonsense, then I will proceed to do what I want. Don't talk to me about any rules.
How you edit this shit and still have grammar errors homie?
@mjperkins7743 How is it that out of everything, all you took away from it was a grammatical error? So I placed the word "talk" where it should be. Are you happy now? Or do you have more hate to provide?
@@km-qc3iv I mean I wouldn't of minded if you would of not edited it, but the simple fact that you made an edit and even after there's still grammatical errors is the problem, lol. Nigga erased a mistake and fixed it but still had more mistakes he didn't catch.
Joe is on point af with this. And hilarious
A break don’t exist we together or we not ain’t no break
thats how trouble from atl got killed
@11:28….. anything lol 😂
Fell victim😂😂😂 He got traps!!😂😂😂 He wearing that suit!!😂😂😂😂
that simp screaming double standard from the back
He ain't simp. He's married and see how crazy ppl sound in the dating world😂😂
If that’s simping then damn I’m a stone could simp to see this bs for what it is
@@jay_1212at least you admit it nihga double standards exist on both sides see how quick a woman would be to give up hers , not happening
If you're on a break your woman is fair game 🤷♂️🤗
The 1 or 2,3,4,5,6-20 times 😂
I like this Line up for the Pod. Ice Flip Melissa are cool. But this line up is DOPER!
Agreed.
lmaoo the mailman
Did y’all hear Parks say salute??? Lmao
Long Live JBP😂😂😂
We don’t double back to many fish in the sea smh
Some do that
Lmao that’s why you just don’t get in no relationship
Sheesh. How about… be an adult… work it out or break up.
If we take break, we literally did a BRAKE lol which means the fun and love shit slow down completely to a stop and we done after that... We broken up
whoooo tf is talking off camera ???
Ian Joe's lawyer
Flip got fired 😂
Break just mean DO YOU.
As a 50 year old man. This is the most immature conversation I have ever heard from grown men. This is a conversation I would expect to hear from guys in their early 20’s. I would never talk to my woman on a break about who I F or who she may have F. It was a break.
It’s crazy a break I don’t believe in that , your break means to fuck off
@4:38 E was havin flashbacks 😂
Thats not true
If you rich just hire couple PI's
Im finding out to much😮😂😂😂😂😂
I mean i dont blame some..
Young Thug right fr
ISH is correct
If on a break and you tryin to smash it’s over if I go on a break that’s all I’m trying to do lol point us no breaks
This don't regular dudes.
WTH is that talking off camera?
Ian joes manager
Why does the other guy have a mic? 😂 Talking nonsense back there...
Whoever said women are smarter CAP !
There are some smart on both sides
The break differs on the individuals. If I take a break its not because Im fucking somebody else. Its because I'm not getting what I need from the man I love. I'd rather be alone and focus on myself. Some people have a hard time being alone. I don't... lf i can't have the one i love. I want to be left alone. Only surrounded by family and friends.
Then just break up. There’s no such thing as a “break”.
Edit: I feel like people only use the term break because they are just too afraid to actually let go and move on. If you feel like your partner isn’t satisfying and not even try to address your actual needs then just leave them alone and find someone else
Cold World
Its crazy hearing how men talk about a break and what a woman "should" do, when men are the most disrespectful whether they are on a break or in a relationship. The double standard is crazy to me. Its the same if a man cheated versus a woman. Women, we be more open to possibly take our man back but men cant handle that when the shoe is on the other foot. If you do the "break" thing, then dont ask any questions when you decide to get back together because its irrelevant
💯
Where Mel?
Dang
Who tf is the Wizard of Oz
Kendrick video please
Wow
Lol
You gotta stop
If yo girl fine and yall on break she coming back pregnant
Whose cringe voice is that ?
Omg
Dumb conversation
Ish losing weight!
Ish and Joe always tries talking about cheating in the mist humble way. I'm gonna be real theres nothing atand up about cheating even if you say your on a break. These dudes always try to justify BS they did in their past on the POD.
Joe simmer down
The care of your bm
Ian @5:16 😂 wtf is with the double standard lmao 🤣
Lol