I worked in a hospital for over 20 years, and you having anxiety is understandable. Expressing your fears is the best thing you can do…for yourself and the healthcare worker.
I challenge you to redefine your definition of "bad" news. Death is bad news! Most other things are understandable, treatable, and especially livable. I have lots of health issues, mostly because of my life style. I had valve replacement surgery this week and instead of looking at that as bad I'm really trying to be grateful for the doctors and nurses and technology that made this surgery possible. I turn 70 this year and have wonderful family and friends and especially grandkids. Life is very good!
Retired nurse here and I am SO very proud of you for facing your fears yet determined to take better care of your health.. Ignoring it doesn’t make it go away but being proactive can literally save your life! I will now admit that I do not always practice what I preach. Until I hit 40 and had health issues caused by my poor eating, stress, being overweight and lack of exercise. 😳. I was able to turn everything around and as long as I remain proactive I am in great health at 68.. I truly do applaud you for taking charge of the things you CAN control!! Patient anxiety is real and I’m glad you had a compassionate health care provider for your labs. Love the store you went into!! Omg, I could do some damage in there. I love days like you had. We need those to regroup and de-stress. Again, I am so happy for you guys!
Christopher. I have the biggest health anxiety, which is slowly also impacting my social life now and life in general. I am doing CBT program but if I have lived with it for over 10 years, I don’t see how CBT will „cure” me or help me to „make it manageable”. I 100% understand what you feel. Part of me watching your YT is because your channel is very calming and I relax watching your videos.
I have health anxiety as well. I’m so happy you have shared this. It’s nice to know I’m not alone. Love all your vlogs. Can’t wait to see you settle into your next phase of your life! You must be so exited!!!
I'm a dental hygienist and I find that most of my patients have some level of anxiety when they come to see me. I like it when they tell me outright that they are nervous of scared. Often times nervousness and anxiety can come across as irritation or anger. Also it's really hard to treat someone appropriately when you don't know what's going on in their head.. I always ask if there is anything they are worried about before starting, but a lot of people still will tell me no and then very clearly be super stressed. Being transparent is key!
Long time watcher. 1st time commenting. I completely relate to your anxiety regarding doctor visits & waiting for test results. After having a serious medical condition, however, I have to go to so many appts that I actually got used to it (for the most part). I'm just so grateful to be alive & the doctors & nurses were so kind, that I am calmer about it now. Wishing you peace. xo
I am so glad you are prioritizing your health. I deal with anxiety myself, so I get it. I have noticed over the last several years you were often sick with a fever. I felt so bad for you. I bet things will be so different now that you aren't stressed from your job. Like others have told you, you seem so much happier and I totally agree. My doctor's office uses a patient portal, so my lab reports start rolling in sometimes even the same day. On one hand that is nice because I don't have to wait, but on the other, since I get them before my doctor does, I can sometimes find myself going down a rabbit hole about each test result. I am so excited about what is to come for you and Steven. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.
That is such a beautiful home and it's nice to see how you're honoring your time there and properly saying goodbye. Not everyone will get it but it holds energy and deserves appreciation.
I have bad health anxiety too and I also find that announcing it helps a little. I always live by the idea that one needs a “lil’ treat” after the doc so your trip after was perfect. 🎉
So proud of you for getting your blood work done❤👍🏻 I know so many people have anxiety over healthcare needs, but it’s just so important for our well being. Especially for all that you have been through! My youngest son is in nursing school & this is his top priority to make his patients feel comfortable to talk about the procedure & or any fears or anxiety. So great to get some names from your current provider to take to Charlotte so your prepared. I love your finds at the MacKenzie Childs store. So pretty there! Thank you for taking us along.💕
Proud of you for tackling that bloodwork! My husband was much like you, anxious about bloodwork and ignoring his diabetes for years. Then one day he must have had an epiphany…he started scheduling his own appts, has lost 175 pounds (without surgery), got his A1C down from 10 to 6, joined my gym and personal trainer. We’ve been married 51 years, maybe we will make it to 75! I loved your tour of MC…what a beautiful spot. Thanks for taking us along!
Hey Christopher, Steven & Puppy Dogs 🐕, I know how you feel about getting blood Work Done I always have to turn my head away when they do it. God Bless You All & Sleep Well.
I know exactly where you’re coming from with the health anxiety. You’re right, announcing it to staff (as scary as that is) does help. Proud of you! I’m sure you will have your results in a few days and you will feel the weight fully lifted. 💫
I am soooo PROUD of you Christopher. Standing up to your fears is difficult yet releasing at the sametime. I love your videos, I smile the whole time that I'm watching you. Just know that you are loved by many 😘
Christopher, understand so much the anxiety about doctors, blood work, etc. I still have that but I know it is important to go for the tests and appointments. My sweet dog, Malaika, and I visit every Friday the hospital that gave my husband the best care in the 7 years he fought stage 4 colon cancer. The patients see her sweet face and you see their anxiety just melt away......Fridays are good for me, good for her (she knows all the nurses who have a treat drawer for her!) and so good for the patients and staff we visit. ❤
I think a lot of people have health anxiety and can relate. Glad that you are doing your best to overcome your fears. I too have similar anxiety it’s just something to try and deal with. Wishing you all the best Christopher, I look forward to these daily updates ❤
Ahhh Christopher... #4 has been my home signature scent for a few years. I have candles and diffusers all throughout my home and absolutely love it! You have such great taste!
I get the health anxiety. I feel like I’m having to advocate for myself. Dr follow up has gone done hill since Covid. I had my blood work yesterday and looks like all is good. Good luck with your results!
I am facing bloodwork this coming Tuesday and I'm already a mess about it on Saturday! Good for you- I understand what a huge step this was for you. Nicely done.
You are so close to where I lived and I was not far from Aurora where the M-C home/ factory is… I have several of their pieces- teapot, utensil holder, Easter lamb 🐑, and several mugs… good job!! I have to look into the dog items, so cute!!
You're not alone my friend...I too have doctor anxiety!! Not to mention the wait!! I feel you 100%. I admire you in so many ways, working out, eating well. You've got this Christopher!! Keep on motivating us! I love cycling, and weights, though I haven't been very consistent lately....ugh.
Well done getting your blood tests done. My mother also has a lot of anxiety with doctors & tests. Love the Mackenzie House. So pretty and very different from Australia. One day I will be somewhere to see the snow falling so gorgeous. ❤
Thank you for sharing about your medical anxiety. I am a very anxious patient as well and your sharing has got me moving towards making appointments for tests that I’ve been avoiding for quite a bit. ❤
Happens to all of us! I'm an RN and still get anxious for my own doc apts. Remember this relief you feel now that you got it done. That is motivating for me. And, of course, always make sure you are hydrated before a blood draw. Without our health (and preventative screenings), we have nothing. Take care!
Christopher, I understand your anxiety with doctors and medical "stuff" as I have the same feelings. My naturopath just gave me Lavender Oil pills--tiny red ones. They do seem to help so just wanted to mention that. I'm loving your Movemas videos and so excited to see how you are decorating the new home--love the things you bought!!!
I’m the exact same way with white coat syndrome. I’m really proud of you, it’s so important to go. I go once a year with sweaty hand and raised blood pressure 😟❤️
Hi Christopher I have the old bumbag as well and I haven’t used it in a while because of the zipper….but I love it and find I carry it more in the spring and summer. I love you doing the daily vlogs and wimb 🧡🧡🧡
I am proud that you are looking after your health. I feel the same way. I am about 10 pounds over a healthy BMI (so now technically overweight) and have so much anxiety about getting weighed and going to the doctor. It makes me feel like a failure, which I know is not rational, but it keeps me from getting a check up. I also have had high cholesterol for so long, and I feel embarrassed about that. I need to find a doctor that I can feel comfortable with and plan on doing that soon.
Hey Christopher! Thanks for another video-I am really enjoying your Movemas series! I’m just wondering if you and Steven have tons of extra room in your closets from all of your winter clothes being gone? Did you get rid of all of your winter stuff or did you decide to keep some, for when you travel to colder climates? Also, you should be very proud of yourself for doing a very hard thing today!
I have the same anxiety with doctors appointments. My blood pressure is always elevated when they first take it (I think it's called White Coat Syndrome) and lower when they take it before I leave.
So proud you went for your bloods we all have our things we don't like doing ❤Also loved the beautiful things you bought I can't wait to see it all come together and Vlogmas I just can't wait 😊❤
I feel that-yesterday I had to have a hip injection for the first time and I was sweating. Felt nauseous probably from all the Tylenol and ibuprofen. I took ahead of time but it was not bad. I went to a coffee shop yesterday to decompress.
i don't enjoy blood work or other testing due to the nurses and other folks involved (that i've come in contact with to be understanding or easy to get the blood, as well as i felt my privacy was kind of not included, i saw 2 nurses talking about me when i was younger, getting girlie help, and that really made me very angry) due to their "bed side mannerisms" i wish they would be more caring or understanding, etc. my Grandma Ruby who is in heaven now always said i should be a nurse but i don't enjoy blood ...but man oh man i wish more folks had those MORE caring ways ... i've not been in a long time ... my mom and other friends tell me i need to get in there (turned 45 last May, for my breast health, colon health, etc.) but i am a scaredy cat ... i get the point of being similarly in that kind of feelings. i got two t-shirts ...i wish you had more nutcrackers styled items ... i love that theme ...started a collection last few years. if you ever bring more please keep me posted. ornaments, magnets, whatever i would be over the moon. my parents raised me in a family who went to the doctor ...i married into a family who felt otherwise (not that they don't like them so to speak, just that you tend to go only when in die-r need, on your death bed, etc.) ...funny how it can change you. ( ;
For what it’s worth, I was once told by an elder nurse that worked with my grandmother (a V.A. nurse, then Oncological nurse-later an administrator), that phobias and stresses are memories from past lifetimes that need to be worked out. Perhaps you were misdiagnosed, couldn’t make it to an actual physician, or prevented from healthcare in another lifetime? Regardless, I’m glad you went. I’m proud of you.
I worked in a hospital for over 20 years, and you having anxiety is understandable. Expressing your fears is the best thing you can do…for yourself and the healthcare worker.
I challenge you to redefine your definition of "bad" news. Death is bad news! Most other things are understandable, treatable, and especially livable. I have lots of health issues, mostly because of my life style. I had valve replacement surgery this week and instead of looking at that as bad I'm really trying to be grateful for the doctors and nurses and technology that made this surgery possible. I turn 70 this year and have wonderful family and friends and especially grandkids. Life is very good!
That is a super powerful reframing!
Sending you lots of love and prayers ❤
I love this!
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Retired nurse here and I am SO very proud of you for facing your fears yet determined to take better care of your health.. Ignoring it doesn’t make it go away but being proactive can literally save your life! I will now admit that I do not always practice what I preach. Until I hit 40 and had health issues caused by my poor eating, stress, being overweight and lack of exercise. 😳. I was able to turn everything around and as long as I remain proactive I am in great health at 68.. I truly do applaud you for taking charge of the things you CAN control!! Patient anxiety is real and I’m glad you had a compassionate health care provider for your labs. Love the store you went into!! Omg, I could do some damage in there. I love days like you had. We need those to regroup and de-stress. Again, I am so happy for you guys!
Christopher. I have the biggest health anxiety, which is slowly also impacting my social life now and life in general. I am doing CBT program but if I have lived with it for over 10 years, I don’t see how CBT will „cure” me or help me to „make it manageable”. I 100% understand what you feel. Part of me watching your YT is because your channel is very calming and I relax watching your videos.
Thank you for sharing the MC store! It was so beautiful and makes me cherish the few pieces I have too! Absolutely loving your videos.
I have health anxiety as well. I’m so happy you have shared this. It’s nice to know I’m not alone. Love all your vlogs. Can’t wait to see you settle into your next phase of your life! You must be so exited!!!
I'm a dental hygienist and I find that most of my patients have some level of anxiety when they come to see me. I like it when they tell me outright that they are nervous of scared. Often times nervousness and anxiety can come across as irritation or anger. Also it's really hard to treat someone appropriately when you don't know what's going on in their head.. I always ask if there is anything they are worried about before starting, but a lot of people still will tell me no and then very clearly be super stressed. Being transparent is key!
But sometimes mentioning it or stating it out loud is what can be a trigger.
Long time watcher. 1st time commenting. I completely relate to your anxiety regarding doctor visits & waiting for test results. After having a serious medical condition, however, I have to go to so many appts that I actually got used to it (for the most part). I'm just so grateful to be alive & the doctors & nurses were so kind, that I am calmer about it now. Wishing you peace. xo
I have severe health and doctor anxiety. I can totally understand how you feel. I'm so glad you had medical professionals to help and be so kind.
me too- i don’t wish it on anyone 😩
Highly recommend adding a small, retractable tape measure to your bag. I'm always surprised how much I use mine.
I am so glad you are prioritizing your health. I deal with anxiety myself, so I get it. I have noticed over the last several years you were often sick with a fever. I felt so bad for you. I bet things will be so different now that you aren't stressed from your job. Like others have told you, you seem so much happier and I totally agree. My doctor's office uses a patient portal, so my lab reports start rolling in sometimes even the same day. On one hand that is nice because I don't have to wait, but on the other, since I get them before my doctor does, I can sometimes find myself going down a rabbit hole about each test result. I am so excited about what is to come for you and Steven. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.
The coffee mug is so cute! I love that it matches the dog bowl and mat.
OMG! Right, so cute with matching mugs and doggy stuff
That is such a beautiful home and it's nice to see how you're honoring your time there and properly saying goodbye. Not everyone will get it but it holds energy and deserves appreciation.
I love MC and they have a new pink line. I mostly collect the Christmas lines and they are such quality pieces🎅🏽
I have bad health anxiety too and I also find that announcing it helps a little. I always live by the idea that one needs a “lil’ treat” after the doc so your trip after was perfect. 🎉
So proud of you for getting your blood work done❤👍🏻 I know so many people have anxiety over healthcare needs, but it’s just so important for our well being. Especially for all that you have been through! My youngest son is in nursing school & this is his top priority to make his patients feel comfortable to talk about the procedure & or any fears or anxiety.
So great to get some names from your current provider to take to Charlotte so your prepared. I love your finds at the MacKenzie Childs store. So pretty there! Thank you for taking us along.💕
Your bravery and honesty is so commendable 🫶🏻
Enjoyed the road trip. Was curious about the M C store and property. Fingers crossed for your results.
Proud of you for tackling that bloodwork! My husband was much like you, anxious about bloodwork and ignoring his diabetes for years. Then one day he must have had an epiphany…he started scheduling his own appts, has lost 175 pounds (without surgery), got his A1C down from 10 to 6, joined my gym and personal trainer. We’ve been married 51 years, maybe we will make it to 75! I loved your tour of MC…what a beautiful spot. Thanks for taking us along!
I agree with you! This is the year of better health and reinvention! We moved last year and I’m still figuring it all out!
Good morning!!!❤❤❤❤❤ I love the store! I am glad they made you comfortable getting your labs.
Three hour dinners with friends is the best
Hey Christopher, Steven & Puppy Dogs 🐕, I know how you feel about getting blood Work Done I always have to turn my head away when they do it. God Bless You All & Sleep Well.
I know exactly where you’re coming from with the health anxiety. You’re right, announcing it to staff (as scary as that is) does help. Proud of you! I’m sure you will have your results in a few days and you will feel the weight fully lifted. 💫
I’ve been loving your daily vlogs! Thank you for sharing your journey with us. 💕
Proud of you for prioritizing your health. 🫶🏼
I love MC. I have a few pieces and always meant to add on to my little collection. I love how whimsical all the pieces are.
I am soooo PROUD of you Christopher. Standing up to your fears is difficult yet releasing at the sametime. I love your videos, I smile the whole time that I'm watching you. Just know that you are loved by many 😘
Christopher, understand so much the anxiety about doctors, blood work, etc. I still have that but I know it is important to go for the tests and appointments. My sweet dog, Malaika, and I visit every Friday the hospital that gave my husband the best care in the 7 years he fought stage 4 colon cancer. The patients see her sweet face and you see their anxiety just melt away......Fridays are good for me, good for her (she knows all the nurses who have a treat drawer for her!) and so good for the patients and staff we visit. ❤
I think a lot of people have health anxiety and can relate. Glad that you are doing your best to overcome your fears. I too have similar anxiety it’s just something to try and deal with. Wishing you all the best Christopher, I look forward to these daily updates ❤
Ahhh Christopher... #4 has been my home signature scent for a few years. I have candles and diffusers all throughout my home and absolutely love it! You have such great taste!
I get the health anxiety. I feel like I’m having to advocate for myself. Dr follow up has gone done hill since Covid. I had my blood work yesterday and looks like all is good. Good luck with your results!
I am facing bloodwork this coming Tuesday and I'm already a mess about it on Saturday! Good for you- I understand what a huge step this was for you. Nicely done.
Thank you for taking us to MC with you! Love their merch. Every time I watch your vlog I feel like I'm spending time with a friend.
What a gorgeous area this is...thank you so much for sharing!
You are so close to where I lived and I was not far from Aurora where the M-C home/ factory is… I have several of their pieces- teapot, utensil holder, Easter lamb 🐑, and several mugs… good job!! I have to look into the dog items, so cute!!
You're not alone my friend...I too have doctor anxiety!! Not to mention the wait!! I feel you 100%. I admire you in so many ways, working out, eating well. You've got this Christopher!! Keep on motivating us! I love cycling, and weights, though I haven't been very consistent lately....ugh.
I am loving your YSL wallet. Thank you for sharing what’s in your bag. Prayers for all blood tests to come back okay. ☺️🙏🏽☺️
Well done getting your blood tests done. My mother also has a lot of anxiety with doctors & tests. Love the Mackenzie House. So pretty and very different from Australia. One day I will be somewhere to see the snow falling so gorgeous. ❤
Good boy! Proud of you Christopher!
Thank you for sharing about your medical anxiety. I am a very anxious patient as well and your sharing has got me moving towards making appointments for tests that I’ve been avoiding for quite a bit. ❤
Happens to all of us! I'm an RN and still get anxious for my own doc apts. Remember this relief you feel now that you got it done. That is motivating for me. And, of course, always make sure you are hydrated before a blood draw. Without our health (and preventative screenings), we have nothing. Take care!
Thank you SO much for showing what fits in your bumbag! Also, prayers for your blood work.❤
I love everything in your LV bum bag! Your "what's in my bag?" content is always so good. Great discoveries to be had.
Awesome job on getting lab done! It always feels empowering to do something that is scary! 🤞🤞❤️
Christopher, I understand your anxiety with doctors and medical "stuff" as I have the same feelings. My naturopath just gave me Lavender Oil pills--tiny red ones. They do seem to help so just wanted to mention that. I'm loving your Movemas videos and so excited to see how you are decorating the new home--love the things you bought!!!
I’m the exact same way with white coat syndrome.
I’m really proud of you, it’s so important to go. I go once a year with sweaty hand and raised blood pressure 😟❤️
Hi Christopher I have the old bumbag as well and I haven’t used it in a while because of the zipper….but I love it and find I carry it more in the spring and summer. I love you doing the daily vlogs and wimb 🧡🧡🧡
Omg love the vest with the hood! Where is that from!? So happy for you guys on your new chapter!🎉
I am proud that you are looking after your health. I feel the same way. I am about 10 pounds over a healthy BMI (so now technically overweight) and have so much anxiety about getting weighed and going to the doctor. It makes me feel like a failure, which I know is not rational, but it keeps me from getting a check up. I also have had high cholesterol for so long, and I feel embarrassed about that. I need to find a doctor that I can feel comfortable with and plan on doing that soon.
Would love an update on the book “Worthy”.
I think at the end of the day that you and Steven will look back at your time in upstate very very fondly.
Hey Christopher! Thanks for another video-I am really enjoying your Movemas series! I’m just wondering if you and Steven have tons of extra room in your closets from all of your winter clothes being gone? Did you get rid of all of your winter stuff or did you decide to keep some, for when you travel to colder climates? Also, you should be very proud of yourself for doing a very hard thing today!
I to have blood clotting issues, and consequently; health anxiety. It’s no joke. Blessings Christopher ❤
I have the same anxiety with doctors appointments. My blood pressure is always elevated when they first take it (I think it's called White Coat Syndrome) and lower when they take it before I leave.
I’m proud of you for the bloodwork! I’m the same way about the dentist
So proud you went for your bloods we all have our things we don't like doing ❤Also loved the beautiful things you bought I can't wait to see it all come together and Vlogmas I just can't wait 😊❤
I know Victoria MacKenzie-Childs, she is certainly something! (We did not get along lol.) She sold that company a long time ago. I love Courtly Check
We just got 8 plus inches of snow today in Maine 🤦🏻♀️
I feel that-yesterday I had to have a hip injection for the first time and I was sweating. Felt nauseous probably from all the Tylenol and ibuprofen. I took ahead of time but it was not bad. I went to a coffee shop yesterday to decompress.
I cannot wait to see the new house!
i don't enjoy blood work or other testing due to the nurses and other folks involved (that i've come in contact with to be understanding or easy to get the blood, as well as i felt my privacy was kind of not included, i saw 2 nurses talking about me when i was younger, getting girlie help, and that really made me very angry) due to their "bed side mannerisms" i wish they would be more caring or understanding, etc. my Grandma Ruby who is in heaven now always said i should be a nurse but i don't enjoy blood ...but man oh man i wish more folks had those MORE caring ways ... i've not been in a long time ... my mom and other friends tell me i need to get in there (turned 45 last May, for my breast health, colon health, etc.) but i am a scaredy cat ... i get the point of being similarly in that kind of feelings. i got two t-shirts ...i wish you had more nutcrackers styled items ... i love that theme ...started a collection last few years. if you ever bring more please keep me posted. ornaments, magnets, whatever i would be over the moon. my parents raised me in a family who went to the doctor ...i married into a family who felt otherwise (not that they don't like them so to speak, just that you tend to go only when in die-r need, on your death bed, etc.) ...funny how it can change you. ( ;
For what it’s worth, I was once told by an elder nurse that worked with my grandmother (a V.A. nurse, then Oncological nurse-later an administrator), that phobias and stresses are memories from past lifetimes that need to be worked out. Perhaps you were misdiagnosed, couldn’t make it to an actual physician, or prevented from healthcare in another lifetime? Regardless, I’m glad you went. I’m proud of you.
A travel pack of tissues is a must for me& a few peppermints
So very proud of you for being so brave about the blood test. Praying all results are good. =^..^=
Beautiful porcelain!!
I so understand the blood test etc I am the same way and Covid made it worse for me !
Can you show the large Dagne Dover backpack and what you put in it? Thanks!
Aw, this was a good day!
I’m thinking that the flap is a great security feature, looking for the positives!
Agreed. That is when it is handy.
Did you turn off your Instagram? I can't get you on Instagram anymore.
I have this horrible anxiety with the dentist to the point where I’m missing teeth but I have never found a patient kind dentist
I'm on my way to the Emergency room, I might have covid. I'm really nervous!
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is there a web site for the store your visited?
Very poor design on the bum bag.....I am glad they redesigned it.
It is good you did blood work, it can take months to establish a new doctor❤
To answer a previous question…yes, Charlotte has very reputable dentists
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You should get the results on my chart today
XOXO
Find a holistic doctor! Intuition telling you something!
In December, I turned 41yrs old and STILL haven't done the labs 🫤 feel similar to you...I just keep putting it off.