Thank you so much. 😊 I know that I am an absolute people pleaser. And I know that while it brings me joy to please people it also brings me bondage regarding what they think of me. I know that I will never be fully free to be me while still needing to please people. I need to listen to this lesson again. Can’t wait for the next lesson! Thank you for doing what you do!
Thank you for teaching. That's very freeing. I have a stutter since childhood. Now i am 25 still have that, mostly when speaking in public, on the phone and to authority figures. I know that it is pure psychology, when i am alone i am totally fluent. It has kind of become a speech anxiety, when the memory of all those negative memories come, i start stuttering. It is in my mind. I already know i will stutter in this or that situation, and i start avoiding from these shameful situations. It is become a behaviour. What will you advice?
I have a theory that introverts are predominately introverted due to the fear of negative evaluation. It is simply because I saw my freind who became like a little sister claim introversion and hating people as her identity and through my care and influence open up. She became very exuberant and loved being around people. I dont think introversion is always the fear of man, and I understand it is supposed to indicate where you get recharged, but I think it has a lot more to do with this than most would give it credit for.
That’s a powerful statement. Certainly en vogue with what we know. As you’ve heard me say, very unpopular “fact.” Many people don’t accept truths because too many others around them don’t accept it.
You actually respond to questions. That’s awesome. First time listening to you. God has shown me about this area in my life. I have a compilation of scriptures around fear of man which I confess most days. But thanks again for addressing issues of the soul which I do believe affect our health.
Amen. That's powerful and goes along with what I've been saying: the necessity of reading, hearing, speaking, and activating the Word (despite feelings). Feelings fade when we stand on truth. Thank you for your comment.
I like that. Despite feelings. Yes. We can’t wait for feelings before speaking/hearing/activating the truth of Gods word. Thanks so much for your reply.
Plethora 🙏🏽🙏 Dr. Kevin aside from asking the Holy Spirit. How do we determine when to just welcome the intrusive thoughts versus taking every thought captive?
I listen to this again, and if I substitute the word symptoms for social situations (which I don’t feel very much) all the same points hold true - I get so much at a listenin several times
I had an episode at church were i really messed up it was embarrassing.... And no one from tje church said nothing afterwards to help We gotta do better But i experienced the same that growing up. Sometimes if you dont know what to say ... Just say something positive
I hear you Keith. I think as stated in Hosea 4:6, “we don’t know what we don’t know” and we need to KNOW (Proverbs 4:5). The more awareness we raise in the church, the more we understand the victory we already have, the better equipped we become to navigate these issues!
How do u deal w it when it's class, race and its based on interactions that's real ie people do negatively perceive me becos my accent and how I look. I pray for favor and ask Jesus for favor. That people who would not naturally want me round would accept me. It affects us opportunity if i don't see it like that.
Grew up in poverty in project when to a predominant white college..... Where I was many of times one of a few black in class. And I always felt out of place not because of lack of intelligence but feeling the need to be with people I grew up with
Thank you so much. 😊 I know that I am an absolute people pleaser. And I know that while it brings me joy to please people it also brings me bondage regarding what they think of me. I know that I will never be fully free to be me while still needing to please people. I need to listen to this lesson again. Can’t wait for the next lesson! Thank you for doing what you do!
Fear Of Negative Evaluation.
Best teaching I've ever heard on exposing bad core beliefs (not just fear) and replacing them.
See 24:14 ff.
Wow this teaching is so helpful and eye opening. ❤
Thank you for teaching. That's very freeing. I have a stutter since childhood. Now i am 25 still have that, mostly when speaking in public, on the phone and to authority figures. I know that it is pure psychology, when i am alone i am totally fluent. It has kind of become a speech anxiety, when the memory of all those negative memories come, i start stuttering. It is in my mind. I already know i will stutter in this or that situation, and i start avoiding from these shameful situations. It is become a behaviour. What will you advice?
Awesome truth
I have a theory that introverts are predominately introverted due to the fear of negative evaluation. It is simply because I saw my freind who became like a little sister claim introversion and hating people as her identity and through my care and influence open up. She became very exuberant and loved being around people. I dont think introversion is always the fear of man, and I understand it is supposed to indicate where you get recharged, but I think it has a lot more to do with this than most would give it credit for.
That’s a powerful statement. Certainly en vogue with what we know. As you’ve heard me say, very unpopular “fact.” Many people don’t accept truths because too many others around them don’t accept it.
This teaching is so freeing!🥰
You actually respond to questions. That’s awesome. First time listening to you. God has shown me about this area in my life. I have a compilation of scriptures around fear of man which I confess most days. But thanks again for addressing issues of the soul which I do believe affect our health.
Amen. That's powerful and goes along with what I've been saying: the necessity of reading, hearing, speaking, and activating the Word (despite feelings). Feelings fade when we stand on truth. Thank you for your comment.
I like that. Despite feelings. Yes. We can’t wait for feelings before speaking/hearing/activating the truth of Gods word. Thanks so much for your reply.
Plethora 🙏🏽🙏 Dr. Kevin aside from asking the Holy Spirit. How do we determine when to just welcome the intrusive thoughts versus taking every thought captive?
That is so true when I go out I don’t like using the public bathrooms so I wait all day until I get home. thank you Kevin for teaching!
You’re welcome!
I listen to this again, and if I substitute the word symptoms for social situations (which I don’t feel very much) all the same points hold true - I get so much at a listenin several times
When will the link be available to register for your conference?
We will mention it for sure. Keep asking. July!
I had an episode at church were i really messed up it was embarrassing.... And no one from tje church said nothing afterwards to help
We gotta do better
But i experienced the same that growing up. Sometimes if you dont know what to say ... Just say something positive
I hear you Keith. I think as stated in Hosea 4:6, “we don’t know what we don’t know” and we need to KNOW (Proverbs 4:5). The more awareness we raise in the church, the more we understand the victory we already have, the better equipped we become to navigate these issues!
How do u deal w it when it's class, race and its based on interactions that's real ie people do negatively perceive me becos my accent and how I look. I pray for favor and ask Jesus for favor. That people who would not naturally want me round would accept me. It affects us opportunity if i don't see it like that.
Grew up in poverty in project when to a predominant white college..... Where I was many of times one of a few black in class. And I always felt out of place not because of lack of intelligence but feeling the need to be with people I grew up with
I get that. I am so happy u went to college and I pray and hope u are in a great place now. I respect ur effort