Betrayed Women Are Heroes

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  • Опубліковано 2 чер 2024
  • In this video, Dr. Doug Weiss takes a deep dive into the journey of healing from betrayal trauma and the revelation of how betrayed women are heroes in the midst of it. Here, he showcases the pain and trauma they go through and how despite this, they are still strong and resilient. Gain valuable insights into how husbands can validate their partner’s experiences and work with them toward restoring trust and intimacy in the relationship.
    If you’re struggling with betrayal trauma, it can be hard to find qualified professional help. At Heart to Heart Counseling Center, we specialize in helping betrayed partners navigate the most difficult parts of betrayal - developing boundaries, creating a self care plan, navigating triggers, and finding your footing again. We have a variety of different methods to assist you on your journey, such as support groups, therapeutic workbooks and other resources, counseling, and intensives. Our intensive program specializes in getting you a lot of help in a short amount of time. In our intensive, a Partner Betrayal Trauma certified clinician will walk alongside you as you receive tools to help you accelerate your healing journey. We also have healing resources for the wayward spouse that can help them take the next best step in healing both individually and the relationship. For more information about our intensives or other resources, give our team a call at 719-278-3708.
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    Download the book Partner Betrayal Trauma here: www.drdougweiss.com/product/p...
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  • @nevillepitout1374
    @nevillepitout1374 14 днів тому +2

    Very hard what you are saying. Betrayal is heartbreaking. And then a woman realises she wasn't enough. And never will be even if he's back in the so-called marriage.

  • @eventhere2788
    @eventhere2788 22 дні тому +1

    22 years after dday and still struggling with his betrayal. He still has not fulfilled his promise to renew our vows. He says the right words. I believe he's been faithful since Reconciliation. He's loving and affectionate. He's transparent and mostly forthcoming. He had promised to renew our vows in my church when we reconciled but now he won't. The lack of keeping his promise to renew our vows continues to hurt and I'm growing resentful. I don't want a divorce but I want to be fully apart of my church. I'm not asking him to become Catholic just to do the steps to renew our marriage vows. I refuse to wear my wedding ring because to me it symbolizes his broken promise. I hate being in this position. Now that all the kids have moved out not sure I am willing to stick it out if he continues to dismiss his promise to renew our vows

  • @shannonirizarry-eo8wb
    @shannonirizarry-eo8wb 27 днів тому +7

    There's no way to explain the pain. How it makes you feel about yourself, the humiliation, the disgust that runs through your mind. A level of trauma that doesn't go away.

    • @DrDougWeiss
      @DrDougWeiss  26 днів тому

      I'm sad that you've had to endure all this from the betrayal trauma in your life. If you need support, please reach out to my office at 719-278-3708 to get connected with one of our therapists, who will help you heal and move forward.
      I'd also recommend checking out the "Partner Betrayal Trauma" book and workbook which are valuable tools designed to validate your emotions and offer practical guidance.
      www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-book/
      www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-workbook/

    • @feliciaforde5750
      @feliciaforde5750 23 дні тому

      I understand what you are going through and it’s terrible. I’m going through it as well. You are not alone although it feels like it daily

  • @fallon7616
    @fallon7616 27 днів тому +16

    I feel like I am literally don't know him anymore but I am frozen 😢

    • @basromd
      @basromd 27 днів тому +2

      Makes total sense. All that you thought to be true appears to be a veil hiding the addiction. For the wives they have no idea how deep the rabbit hole goes. If he lied about the porn addiction and used lies and other patterns of denial, what else did he lie about. The obvious and reasonable presumption is EVERYTHING

    • @vintagegirl68
      @vintagegirl68 25 днів тому

      I understand this, It's so important to get therapy otherwise you will stay frozen. Take care of yourself you are worth it!

  • @elizabethtowers3321
    @elizabethtowers3321 27 днів тому +11

    Get rid of the cheater. Dump the cheater. Find someone deserving of you. Do not hang in there waiting for the cheater to change. OMFG.

    • @joycereynolds9319
      @joycereynolds9319 27 днів тому +3

      I agree, 98 % chance he will ever change ... I lived with a man that was good to me in every way but that. We've been married for 40 yrs, and plus once you do leave him..... you'll probably never trust another man.

    • @RegisteredNurseNumberOne
      @RegisteredNurseNumberOne 16 днів тому +1

      I agree. After the third time catching him, I said enough is enough. I’m not doing this dance anymore with him.
      Edit: I feel so duped, so stupid, and question what was my purpose in this marriage?

    • @elizabethtowers3321
      @elizabethtowers3321 16 днів тому +1

      @@RegisteredNurseNumberOne It's all on him. He should never have behaved that way.

  • @stephanie579
    @stephanie579 25 днів тому +2

    I am 6 months from dday and I have learned to love myself again … I had to focus on me for the first time in decades … I have grown so much and have an inner peace that never would have happened if I kept focusing on my Husband … I need to better myself so I will bring the best version of myself to our new marriage

  • @c.barrett5114
    @c.barrett5114 27 днів тому +4

    Thank you for helping me heal through this

  • @MarshaBeverly-vo1nm
    @MarshaBeverly-vo1nm 26 днів тому +6

    Demonic behavior !!!

  • @RegisteredNurseNumberOne
    @RegisteredNurseNumberOne 16 днів тому +1

    I’m not a hero. I left him.

  • @joycereynolds9319
    @joycereynolds9319 27 днів тому +8

    I wished to God id left him a long time. My life is ruined ,

    • @nevillepitout1374
      @nevillepitout1374 14 днів тому +1

      That's how I have felt..too late at 76. So I focus on God. And stay friends but it's very hard not to think about it all. I stayed for the family. Nevs mom

  • @nadiaconseillant8616
    @nadiaconseillant8616 27 днів тому +3

    I have experience betrayal trauma

  • @LauraCooper-nu1re
    @LauraCooper-nu1re 22 дні тому

    Thank you 😓

  • @abeymer2
    @abeymer2 27 днів тому +2

    Thank you. ❤

  • @tiffanyrolla9773
    @tiffanyrolla9773 27 днів тому +3

    Only with God can he really change!

  • @nadiaconseillant8616
    @nadiaconseillant8616 27 днів тому +3

    Ty but I will move on by myself. And rediscover parts of me with a whole new world. Not everyone is wounded. I will travel until God sends me the right person. There are no guarantees of what the future holds. But I know I will be foolish to not explore the world.

  • @user-sp7wk4er5e
    @user-sp7wk4er5e 27 днів тому

    Any sports or advice u can give me online or

  • @lisasomes3504
    @lisasomes3504 25 днів тому

    Nooooo way

  • @ShannonDalebout
    @ShannonDalebout 23 дні тому

    I enjoy watching your videos, i also pray about it for him to stop the act of watching porn.

  • @sonboyles
    @sonboyles 24 дні тому

    SILLY stuff???? It wouldn’t be so heart wrenching if it was silly stuff being done to them!! Maybe you DO NOT understand!!

  • @somewhereinthemidwest9827
    @somewhereinthemidwest9827 25 днів тому

    Or that they aren’t hooking up with men…

  • @PoeTiare25-ty9tq
    @PoeTiare25-ty9tq 26 днів тому +1

    I been used and played by now i feel betrayal by my ex and hia family i dont if i cam trust trust them again or being with him ❤️‍🩹💯