That first one was nice. A black mom would have done that. It is a good protective style. And dividing the pigtails makes the volume more manageable. I’m blk and I still wear my hair this way.😊
@@idek7438 I mean yeah, that’s fair, but who was supposed to teach her how to manage her hair by herself if her mom didn’t know what to do with it in the first place
My parents are white and adopted from Ethiopia. My mom did a TON of research into taking care of black hair, bought all the products, and would sit down for hours while she put twists in my little sister's hair. She was also not afraid to ask other people for advice and had this uncanny ability to pick other Ethiopians out in a crowd who she would then ask what products and methods they used (we live in the midwest so it's culturally ok to talk to random strangers here). I have mad respect for my mom.
My mum is black African and she still didn’t know what to do with my hair, so what did she do?!? She used to cut my hair short so it was easier to handle 😑😑 made me look like a little boy in girls dresses 😩😩
It's also wild how sun changes your skin tone if you can tan! I'm light skinned and my mom it's fair, she turns into a tomato but I tan. We usually look the same until summer, and even though I can't stay in the sun much enough to tan without getting an allergic reaction, it's still enough to make our skin look wildly different between us.
I appreciate that she’s not dunking on her mom for not knowing how to do something she doesn’t have the cultural experience to do. It must be such a challenge and a joy to raise multi-ethnic children!
@@mayleespann4552 no yall are fucking weird. Having ethic children whatever tf that means shouldn't be a challenge or fun. They are regular kids. If you are having a baby with a black person that has tight coils or maybe a asian person with tight coils YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO TAKE CARE OF OUR HAIR PERIOOOOOD. my mom's black and even she didnt know how to take care of my hair cause her mom permed her and hair and so forth I wish she did know how to do my hair because I had a weird relationship with my hair. Stop fucking joking and giggling about our hair not being known how to take care of. It's not some fun thing to experiment with
I’m full white, but I have super curly hair. My mom’s was straight as a stick. My childhood was a comedy errors, tears over tangles, and PERMS. Yes, a curly headed child got a perm.
"I have curly hair, it's not meant to be straight." LOVED that. 💙💙💙 Embrace it sis! 🦋 Your mama did her best, lol. You learned! Now when/if you have kids you'll be able to take care of their hair, and teach them how to take care of it as well. 😊 God bless. 🦋
Honestly UA-cam has saved my life! It's a game changer for curly hair. My white mother didn't know what to do. I have a memory of her bringing me into a black hair dresser begging for help. I saw some ladies snickering in the background. She doesn't remember this. She was too focused on getting help. My dad's family was noooooo help 😂. My grandmother had 3 daughters who took after their white father when it came to their hair. My grandmother kept her hair in a bun since I could remember. I was the one to take care of my younger cousins 4a hair, for my aunt. I tried my hardest 😂. But it was the blind leading the blind. I was able to comb her hair out , something she wouldn't let anyone else do. I guess because I was more gentle and sympathetic to the pain 😂. I just hope I do better by my children and I am thankful my mother was never ashamed to ask for help. It made me never ashamed to ask for help myself. 🙂
@@mtlcaramel It's a shame how people can laugh at people who are trying to learn, instead of being a help! The funny thing is, had she NOT done anything to learn, then they probably would've bad mouthed her about that. 🙄 Your mama had HEART going in that salon to try and help her baby, because truth is, people can be mean. Look, I'm NOT mixed, and UA-cam been coming through for me for YEARS, okay? Lol. Trying to take care of natural hair, and keep it HEALTHY is not a game. 😂😂 It's hard out here in these streets. Thank God for UA-cam! 🙌🏾
@@mtlcaramel People can be so rotten. I’m happy you had a mother who loved you enough to ask for help. Honestly, I don’t think he mama in this TikTok did so poorly. At least she left her daughter natural and didn’t get her hair chemically straightened or constantly put heat on it. The girl ended up with beautiful curls as an adult.
I’m fully black and I have had all those hairstyles. Down to the fake pony tale. They used to be bear claw clips with the pony tale attatched back in the day. Your mom actually did really good. She did the best she could.
Im mixed and inherited very fine/curly hair from my mom / dad. It was pre leave-in conditioner days. I was was given up at 5 days old and adopted into a family and grew up with tons of of biracial cousins had many cousins that were hairdressers. The lightest oil in the house was VO5 which was way too heavy for my hair. When my mom press my hair with the curling iron that they heated on the stove it would come out super stringy straight and would proof out as soon as I started perspiring. When they put a straightener in it it felt like doll hair and Tangled like doll hair it was a mess. Cutting it short didn't help it didn't know if it wanted to curl or lay down again it was a mess! I ended up letting it grow long and just wore it in a ponytail through high school and Beyond until I discovered leave in conditioners which magically changed my frizzy mess into spiraling curls thank you Jesus!
@Barney F. dad doesnt have to be in the picture sir. The aunts cousins grandmas etc are all separate relationships . Why i said DADS SIDE NOT DAD reading is fundamental
@@itscollysworld1389 yes but not everyone has access to both extended families. An awful lot of sass for someone missing a lot of basic reasoning skills.
@@ProfessorSassypants well i was trying to be nice I really wanted to say “just ask the black community “ .. she could of easily drop that baby off in a hair shop. Yall wanted to procreate with black men but dont take time and effort to learn the culture. Everyone wants a mixed baby but can’t educate themselves to comb their hair properly. Yall not getting excused for being uneducated about your offspring. Im not excusing the ignorance bye sally
@@itscollysworld1389 You ate them the fuck up lmfaooo and you right. Some of these white ppl want a mixed baby bc they're "trendy" it's crazy how they think.
Woah raised by a single father and never having my hair done let alone brushed its amazing your mom put so much attention in your hair. I'm glad you got to have these fun hair memories😊. Its cool what can happen with hair.
Girl, I think we all looked like misfit toys in the 90’s. My mom would style my hair like she had ADHD and couldn’t decide if she wanted me to have braids, straight hair, curls, or twists! Every photo looked like a choose your own adventure
@@mh20162 nothing I just imagine her screaming "THANK GOD FOR UA-cam"! I also had to turn to UA-cam to learn how to care for my hair and my white grandma is taking care of one of my half sisters and cannot do that girls hair so just laughing at the struggle
Girl I'm black and my moma black I went to school with Alfa Alfa hair. Your hair actually looks good in 1 and 2. Your mom put in lots of work and it shows.
I honestly love how you can look back and laugh and appreciate the effort your mom put into doing your hair. I can tell you definitively love and appreciate her.
@@ampleoloruntogbe1434 ....Neither was this comment? What was the point of your reply? You see someone being positive and you went out of your way to be rude. We're you having a bad day or something?
She actually did her best and even I went to school with a press and curls and returned home like Mufasa lol. It’s a rite of passage so go thank your mom for putting effort into how you looked!
She could have done better by researching or asking some black people. Don't have kids from other cultures/ races if you aren't going to learn about it.
@@vibez2806 I agree! Hopefully that mindset is more normalized now. My mom is white but she has kinky curly hair. So her white mom in the 60s and 70s would take my mom to Black owned hair salons to get her hair done right, and she would shop for hair products in the section for people with textured hair (Back then it was called the Urban section which doesn’t make sense to me)
At least she DID your hair! Mine just gave up by age 8, and my grandmother, her mom, was a hairstylist too! She said "they didn't teach us how to do black people hair"! I later went to cosmetology school......she lied😅
@@theecocopuff2171 clearly she loves her mum and can laugh at the past, so we should respect that. It’s not your right to be offended for her. I’m mixed, grew up with huge kinky hair and my mum would brush through it /hard/, and straightened it at some points. And it sucked having hair I didn’t know what to do with as a child, but she raised me as best she could and worked 12hrs per day while dad wasn’t there at all.
@@peekaboots01 the angles are slightly different in the pictures. But stuff happens and teeth can change over the years too, like wisdom teeth pushing, or sports and getting smacked. I don't think they look very different, and even if they did I'd still say best smile ever lol
As a mixed child, just because we aren’t dropped off at our black parent’s house doesn’t mean that the person isn’t in the picture, or that our white parent was uneducated or ignorant. There are MANY reasons why growing up as a mixed child with textured hair was difficult/unmanageable. Aka one of which being MONEY!! Or just TIME/AVAILABILITY/ACCESSIBILITY.
That’s what they told you? It’s honestly cause they are not educated cause pink lotion and a comb is $3 there’s no excuse for it that’s why a lot of mixed children grow up confused and have no confidence. People really don’t need to have kids they can’t properly take care of or can’t afford
@@lexicampbell3081 No. it’s what I personally experienced. 🙄 mixed hair has so many different levels to it, it isn’t straight up black hair and it isn’t straight up white hair. Growing up my mom couldn’t just look on YT for a tutorial. I didn’t have enough time at my dad’s for them to teach me, my dad was a trucker and my stepmom worked TWO JOBS every day of the week but on weekends. I went over there every other weekend and the weekends I was at my moms belonged to her. I had to get ready for school early in the morning and had little time to do my hair. I couldn’t wash my hair for two weeks or else I’ll dry out my hair so brushing my hair through, my thick thick hair, took a couple hours on it’s own. I couldn’t stand braids that young because the only one on my dad’s side who spent time braiding the girls’ hair did them so right that it was an fn face lift. And they were so tiny you could barely see them. I was in pain 24-7 when I had them in that young. Both my families were WORKING to provide. Not to mention I have 6 brothers on my dad’s side so they had to take care of other people. Like I said, sometimes it doesn’t work out because of time. Availability. And Accessibility. And Money. Because we didn’t have the money to test out all different products to know what worked for my specific hair. My stepmother did my hair when I was there, but what she used wasn’t good for my hair either. Because she only had stuff for her only black hair. And my hair was different. Please understand that different people have different experiences than you. We don’t all get the opportunity to be able to be dropped off whenever we please. 🙄🙄🙄
@@lexicampbell3081 My mom worked her ass off to provide for me, she had me because she already had an abortion previously and wanted a child so badly. She worked as a single mother for years with little help and did the best she could. She afforded to put food on my plate, give me a place to live and get me new clothes. Just because she didn’t have a way when I was young to fully get educated on my hair type. Doesn’t mean she ‘couldn’t afford me’ or should’ve gotten rid of me. But thanks for saying that as if you know everyone’s situation 🙄🙄🙄🖐🏽
I think it can depend how old. Like my mom is in her 60s now. She tried using Pert+ on my hair. My dad just greased my hair to high heaven and my dad's family relaxed it. So I'm lucky to have hair.
Same, Mom (white) could braid. On days my Mom worked early and my Dad (black) had to do my hair, Disaster!! Teachers would pull me aside and fix it saying... " Your daddy did your hair today?!" 😂🤣
same here, not my mom but my grandma. Not mixed w black but w middle eastern. My ma had me very young so my paternal grandma (all italians with loose waves) raised me. Im so used to having my hair short that now at 18 i keep tryna grow it but it annoys me so much i always end up chopping it 😭😭
I’m mixed with curly hair. When I was younger my mom would just put my hair into pigtails by spraying with water then brushing it into submission. I went to school looking like I had straight hair (in reality it was just wet) and by the time I came home at the end of the day my pigtails would be half undone and I’d have a sort of halo of fuzz on the top of my head. 😂
Oh yes, the halo of fuzz! My mom could always throw water on her head and have perfect curls all day. When I finally learned about hair gel I wondered why I had to suffer the frizz all those years.
As a mixed kid raised by a white mom, this furthers the plot that we all live the same lives lol. Those photos are freakishly similar to my grade school pics. 😂
@@trevizolga if they wish to call themselves mixed then they can. It all depends on the person. Don't assume that everyone wishes to call themselves multiracial or biracial.
@@trevizolga mixed doesn’t just mean puppy breeds… it just means a mix of two things or people, and in this case it’s a mix of two people of different races. Why your first thought was puppies makes no sense
@@lavacaqueri5454 was born in 2000. We didn’t really have as much video tutorials as we do now😂my hair isn’t that 4c curly but it isn’t that straight either. She knew about a hot comb so to make it easier for her (since she’s used to straight hair) she used that. And eventually when I got older, she did new styles including my natural hair
Well, I didn’t really “admit” to anything. There’s nothing to “admit” to because it’s no secret that most black females can’t even take care of their own hair, let alone someone else’s. Once you grow to be a certain age, you need to learn how to do your own hair, it’s part of proper self care. You can’t always rely on others because one day you’ll be an adult. My dad taught me how to braid when I was a child and I’ve been doing it ever since. I made this post because I see videos of how “white people can’t do black hair” when many black hair stylists are totally clueless when it comes to natural black hair. So this is just more race baiting crap intended to attack Caucasians.
@@PrincessPink433 Most black women KNOW how to do their hair hun now that’s a stretch. Also you’re contradicting yourself how would a black hairstylist be a HAIRSTYLIST if they didn’t know how to do natural black hair just because your momma didn’t know how to do it doesn’t mean black HAIRSTYLISTS don’t know how to do it. Disrespect your moms horrible hair skills not anybody else’s
First of all, if you ever disrespect my mom on here again, you’ll regret it. At least I have a mom and a dad, unlike a lot of your community. Second, based on your profile pic it doesn’t even appear as if you have any hair to speak of, so you can’t talk on this topic. Third, and most importantly, if “most” black females took care of their care, which they don’t, then they wouldn’t constantly be destroying it with relaxers/perms, weave, dyes, bleach, big chops, extensions, straighteners, etc. Fourthly, why don’t you look up the definition of contradiction because at no time did I ever “contradict” myself. Finally, just because someone has a license to do something, doesn’t necessarily mean they’re good at their profession, and yes that does apply to many black hairstylists. Just because you use all caps doesn’t make your post look any less ridiculous. I don’t waste my time arguing with random internet fools such as yourself and that goes for anyone else on UA-cam. Try at least graduating from high school first before you attempt a conversation with someone. See yourself out, “hun” 😄
@@PrincessPink433 to be honest, some families struggle giving their kids braids because some versions of christianity teach that women shouldn't braid their hair, so that can really reduce the hair styles for some groups of people.
At least she tried. The first two were pretty, the last one was terrible. 😂 But shout out to her mom for doing her best. Edit: For those of you saying drop her off to her black side, I'm mixed, my mama tried that, it didn't work either. Neither side knows how to do my hair so I had to learn about it myself.
Thank you! And 20+ years ago a lot of us didn’t even know how to handle OUR OWN natural hair. We were still getting perms and the natural hair section of UA-cam was nonexistent
@@kandicelewis9435 no it's not. If yall would pay attention more you would know because white people stripped us of our culture which includes hair and cut our hair off frequently and that's why most black ppl today in the Caribbean, Latin america, and the us dont know how to take care of our hair we have to relearn all of it
She tried. A lot of black mums are only just realizing what to do with curly hair. I live in an African country, and most women here have their hair relaxed.
@Titaness Writes💀 good for you, natural is beautiful! Who needs to spend all that time relaxing hair and using chemicals! I'm not judging those who do, but I'm happy for the transition and women embracing what they are
@Titaness Writes💀 I feel that. I didn't even know curly hair was an option until I started seeing girls going natural on tiktok. My mum and sister have natural 4a hair now, and people always ask what they did to their hair, or if they're biracial, etc.
@@chiedzawith2ds My mum was also skeptical when I decided to transition earlier this year(because my hair was like brastrap length), but once she realized that she couldn't change my mind, she started supporting me. It's funny cause she's been natural for years
I'm asian/white mixed and even i can relate 'cause my white mother also didn't know what to do with my curly hair (except washing it regularly) and all i could do is straightening hair every fking day before school
I can relate to that! Both my parents are white but my hair is curly AF and nobody ever knew how to teach me to style it properly so I too burnt the shit out of my hair daily with a flat iron lol. Trying to love my curls now but it's hard when nobody else in your family has that same hair type
@@capnfuzzybutt same. my brother has the curly hair like me but he just keeps it shaved down so I’m on my own lol. The worst part is when I try to vent about having curly hair and the pain it is and how frizzy and crazy looking it gets and how high maintenance it is, my mom says oh me too my hair is crazy too and it’s just perfectly straight lol. like ok mom sure.
Weird, my African mom struggled with my hair as well. Maybe it's because mixed hair is, as the name implies, a mix of features from both ethnicities that just doesn't work with either technique and needs to be treated as an individual hair type.
At least you learned! 😆 I scream every time my husband dries our daughters curly hair by violently rubbing it with a towel! He just doesn't understand why he can do it to his short straight hair but not to her super long ungodly curly hair.
I can feel this pain sooo deep. I know when my auntie came to visit i used to get soooo excited! It meant cute hairstyles for school for a whole week! Ah being biracial in elementary school in the 80's. 😝🤪💟
As a black mom with a mixed child. I want to extend my help and service for free to any white mom who needs it. I get so frustrated seeing this and wish more white moms would just reach out. I’m here if you are white mom reading this get in touch…. I mean this !!!!!
But black people don't like white/ asian doing black people hair styles. And we get called racist if we do those stuffs for so many years. How could we have knowledge about that ? .
At least she was able to laugh it off and acknowledge that her mom tried to do the best with what she knew. Us children of toxic parents just seem to hold everything against them lol
@Day oh yeah I absolutely agree with you, I was just trying to say that if this scenario was switched with a toxic parent, reactions and the response of the child would have been completely different from that of this video
@@jotsnab8463 the worst part os that my dad sells hair products to hair salons since before I was born. So, it hurts in a way that I can't even describe. Their "solution" was to put chemicals in my hair to straighten it. I proudly wear curls now. 🥺
Tell me u have a mom that was there for u, loved u, and did her best without telling me. So many lil girls would give anything for their mama to fix their hair. My mom wouldn't even get off her bed to wake me up. She yelled until it woke me up and then I'd go sort through piles of clothes in the laundry room looking for something to wear. My teacher brushed my hair. My mom didn't even get up to see me off to school. She would be asleep when I left and gone doing what she wanted when I got home. My big brother ran my bath water and fixed me something to eat. Mom would come home after I was a sleep. Never, ever bash your mama for trying. She tried bc she loves u.
My auntie, my dads sister, taught my mom what she needed to know when it came to my hair, thank god. She made sure my mom could do me and my older sister’s hair. We had all sorts of cute styles! 😭🙌🏽
I hate hearing of a black child with a white mom or a mixed child with a white mom having to deal with their hair being terrible, all they'd have to do is maybe watch some videos about hair care, take you to a black hair salon, it's not that hard. If you're going to have a child that's going to be A different race from you the least you could do is look into how to take care of them when it comes to things like hair, or skincare, or anything cosmetic really.
Internet was not available to everyone until just before 2000, and even then it was really expensive, slow and there were not really much content or it was almost imposible to find something with that old bat algorithm so... Yeah... Not everyone has lived with computers or mobiles or even internet until recently, maybe less than a decade ago when the gov helped people to have access to the web. But you have a point, go with the professionals, black, jewish or scotish people are amazing with curly hair
Some of us grew up before such resources were available, salons cost money, and the black side of my family did not know how to handle my not 4c hair either (they did try, and were defeated). I'm still learning new things about how to take care of my hair (I like low maintanence, but have long hair).
We don't know where she grew up. Maybe in a community without a lot of black people. Do you really think that ANY mother, wouldn't do the best they could for their kid? I mean a mother that was obviously trying their best like in this video. If it were that easy, she wouldn't have had that last photo at least.
What makes this so warm is that she tried her very best. Remember, UA-cam wasn't as extended as it is now💜 I remember my mom working on my hair hours and hours and getting all the advice she could. Of that effort doesn't speak for itself, then none does.
Lol one of my mixed friends has multiple textures of hair… like parts that are super curly and other parts that are closer to wavy. He really struggled to style it even as an adult
My hair is like your friends! The majority is spiral curls. However if you lift up my hair in the back, it is super straight at the nape of my neck. My stylist actually has to cut my straight hair much shorter than the curly top layer, so that they don't hang longer.
I think it’s so sweet that mom was constantly trying new things on her daughter 😅I had curly thick long hair and I remember my mom brushing it up into the tightest pony, I had that one look for a decade hah
Same. I dreaded every morning before school (hair has to be twin braided, school rules) because my mom had no clue and no patience to work on my thick wavy hair. I had short bob till I was 12, I had to fight to grow my hair, but then I didn't know how to braid it, it's not like I could learn from UA-cam. She would tear my hair and scalp in the process of braiding it, all the while cursing me for having "bad" hair. I am almost 30 now and in love with my natural beautiful waves. I wish someone hugged me and taught me how to take care of my hair when I was a kid, would have reduced some of my trauma.
The first two feel like average elementary school pictures anyone with any hair might have had in the late 90’s early 00’s and look back on and laugh, the “looked like a rectangle” got me though😂😂 I too was a victim of the fake hair😅
It looks like how we used to draw girls when we were little. 😭😭
Hahaha that is too fucking accurate
IT DOESSSS☠️☠️☠️
True, true
Omg I had forgotten about this! 🤣
Sadly never really got much better at drawing after that point either. 🤡
It does 💀
Girl your mom had some spice. I’ve never seen a white mom come up with those hair styles 😂
Definitely did lol 😂 I love that for her.
Her mom had some inspiration from black women and tried her best.
The first and second picture looked great. Her Mom did good. That last picture though….. her hair is 🤭🤭
That's what I thought.. the first one looks like something a black momma might have done
She said Mom had me looking like a rectangle. 😅🤣
yeah the first ones is cute
The last one looks like a wig when you got too much hair underneath
Yup I agree
That first one was nice. A black mom would have done that. It is a good protective style. And dividing the pigtails makes the volume more manageable. I’m blk and I still wear my hair this way.😊
I said the same thing, lol, I have pics of all of my 3 daughters with their hair like that! Now the other two styles... 😬😂
😂😂😂😭 the "straight" hair one! Mama had you looking like a pomeranian! 😂
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😂😂😂😂you better get a lot of laughs on this one. Texting while laughing😂
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Comments don't usually make me laugh as much as this one did. 😂😂
"...she let me go to school looking like a rectangle"
That was so funny, O.M.G.! 😆
Mom did hair dry but it's good to use straightener with hair ion ...
From a black women, SHE DID HER BEST! she actually did your hair and gave effort.
I send a big hug to my black girl friends who helped me by sending us to the best stylist in Seattle
Also like, it seems to me in those pictures she was old enough to do her own hair lmaooo
You're so sweet!!!😘
Right I've seen worse
@@idek7438 I mean yeah, that’s fair, but who was supposed to teach her how to manage her hair by herself if her mom didn’t know what to do with it in the first place
My parents are white and adopted from Ethiopia. My mom did a TON of research into taking care of black hair, bought all the products, and would sit down for hours while she put twists in my little sister's hair. She was also not afraid to ask other people for advice and had this uncanny ability to pick other Ethiopians out in a crowd who she would then ask what products and methods they used (we live in the midwest so it's culturally ok to talk to random strangers here). I have mad respect for my mom.
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" it's culturally ok to talk to random strangers here. " A Good Cultural Thing! 🙌
"She let me go to school looking like a rectangle"
Mom: I thought she was just really into SpongeBob at the time
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My mum is black African and she still didn’t know what to do with my hair, so what did she do?!? She used to cut my hair short so it was easier to handle 😑😑 made me look like a little boy in girls dresses 😩😩
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She did good until that last one 😂😂💕
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That's what I'm saying 😂 like she really put in the effort
Right
“I have curly hair and it’s not meant to be straightened.” Me in the Salon currently getting a silk press:😳
Me detangling mine as we speak bc I'm getting it silk pressed tomorrow 🤣🤣🤣
Me who just washed my very relaxed hair🙈🙈🙈😸
Not me with the flat iron currently in my hand 😭
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as you should lol love a good silk press 🥰
can i just say that picture behind her with her curls is fucking breath taking HOLY
"She let me go to school picture day looking like a rectangle." 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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That photo is something. I have an awful photo like that and I'm white lol. Moms just fail sometimes.
It is funny how she can look like 2 totally different woman depending on the make up, tan, light.
That's kind of what lighting is babe. Lighting can make you look way lighter/darker than you actually are.
@@madi4694 That,s what I say in my comment.
@@madi4694 thats what they said, their point was that it is cool
@@madi4694 they literally said LIGHT in their comment lol…did you even read it, “babe”?
It's also wild how sun changes your skin tone if you can tan! I'm light skinned and my mom it's fair, she turns into a tomato but I tan. We usually look the same until summer, and even though I can't stay in the sun much enough to tan without getting an allergic reaction, it's still enough to make our skin look wildly different between us.
I love how she can laugh at herself. That’s beautiful to me.
I appreciate that she’s not dunking on her mom for not knowing how to do something she doesn’t have the cultural experience to do. It must be such a challenge and a joy to raise multi-ethnic children!
@@mayleespann4552 no yall are fucking weird. Having ethic children whatever tf that means shouldn't be a challenge or fun. They are regular kids. If you are having a baby with a black person that has tight coils or maybe a asian person with tight coils YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO TAKE CARE OF OUR HAIR PERIOOOOOD. my mom's black and even she didnt know how to take care of my hair cause her mom permed her and hair and so forth I wish she did know how to do my hair because I had a weird relationship with my hair. Stop fucking joking and giggling about our hair not being known how to take care of. It's not some fun thing to experiment with
I hope you can laugh at yourself as a child lol
Bro shut up💀
Doesn't everyone laugh at pics of themselves when they were kids? Growing up in the late 90s I was wearing ridiculous clothes lmaoo
I’m full white, but I have super curly hair. My mom’s was straight as a stick. My childhood was a comedy errors, tears over tangles, and PERMS. Yes, a curly headed child got a perm.
A perm? What on earth for? That hilarious 😂
@@denissefuentes3942 Your guess is as good as mine. It was the 90's. Crazy shit happened in the 90's.
One of my cousins curled her naturally-curly hair with large curlers to make her hair more manageable
"I have curly hair, it's not meant to be straight." LOVED that. 💙💙💙 Embrace it sis! 🦋 Your mama did her best, lol. You learned! Now when/if you have kids you'll be able to take care of their hair, and teach them how to take care of it as well. 😊
God bless. 🦋
Exactly
I learned that lesson the hard way
Honestly UA-cam has saved my life! It's a game changer for curly hair. My white mother didn't know what to do. I have a memory of her bringing me into a black hair dresser begging for help. I saw some ladies snickering in the background. She doesn't remember this. She was too focused on getting help.
My dad's family was noooooo help 😂. My grandmother had 3 daughters who took after their white father when it came to their hair. My grandmother kept her hair in a bun since I could remember. I was the one to take care of my younger cousins 4a hair, for my aunt. I tried my hardest 😂. But it was the blind leading the blind. I was able to comb her hair out , something she wouldn't let anyone else do. I guess because I was more gentle and sympathetic to the pain 😂.
I just hope I do better by my children and I am thankful my mother was never ashamed to ask for help. It made me never ashamed to ask for help myself. 🙂
@@mtlcaramel It's a shame how people can laugh at people who are trying to learn, instead of being a help! The funny thing is, had she NOT done anything to learn, then they probably would've bad mouthed her about that. 🙄 Your mama had HEART going in that salon to try and help her baby, because truth is, people can be mean.
Look, I'm NOT mixed, and UA-cam been coming through for me for YEARS, okay? Lol. Trying to take care of natural hair, and keep it HEALTHY is not a game. 😂😂 It's hard out here in these streets. Thank God for UA-cam! 🙌🏾
@@mtlcaramel People can be so rotten. I’m happy you had a mother who loved you enough to ask for help.
Honestly, I don’t think he mama in this TikTok did so poorly. At least she left her daughter natural and didn’t get her hair chemically straightened or constantly put heat on it. The girl ended up with beautiful curls as an adult.
I’m fully black and I have had all those hairstyles. Down to the fake pony tale. They used to be bear claw clips with the pony tale attatched back in the day. Your mom actually did really good. She did the best she could.
Right?!
Truth❤
Fctz 😂😂
Im mixed and inherited very fine/curly hair from my mom / dad. It was pre leave-in conditioner days. I was was given up at 5 days old and adopted into a family and grew up with tons of of biracial cousins had many cousins that were hairdressers. The lightest oil in the house was VO5 which was way too heavy for my hair. When my mom press my hair with the curling iron that they heated on the stove it would come out super stringy straight and would proof out as soon as I started perspiring. When they put a straightener in it it felt like doll hair and Tangled like doll hair it was a mess. Cutting it short didn't help it didn't know if it wanted to curl or lay down again it was a mess! I ended up letting it grow long and just wore it in a ponytail through high school and Beyond until I discovered leave in conditioners which magically changed my frizzy mess into spiraling curls thank you Jesus!
Same here. Kudos to mom, especially on the first hairstyle.
All she had to do was drop you off to your dads side they would of got you together
@Barney F. dad doesnt have to be in the picture sir. The aunts cousins grandmas etc are all separate relationships . Why i said DADS SIDE NOT DAD reading is fundamental
@@itscollysworld1389 yes but not everyone has access to both extended families. An awful lot of sass for someone missing a lot of basic reasoning skills.
@@ProfessorSassypants well i was trying to be nice I really wanted to say “just ask the black community “ .. she could of easily drop that baby off in a hair shop. Yall wanted to procreate with black men but dont take time and effort to learn the culture. Everyone wants a mixed baby but can’t educate themselves to comb their hair properly. Yall not getting excused for being uneducated about your offspring. Im not excusing the ignorance bye sally
@@itscollysworld1389 You ate them the fuck up lmfaooo and you right. Some of these white ppl want a mixed baby bc they're "trendy" it's crazy how they think.
@@itscollysworld1389 You probably shouldn't assume someone's family history
Woah raised by a single father and never having my hair done let alone brushed its amazing your mom put so much attention in your hair. I'm glad you got to have these fun hair memories😊. Its cool what can happen with hair.
I can’t cope with ‘rectangle’ this is going to tickle me for days 😅😅😅😅 …. I banned my mum for doing my hair when I was 6 lol
That killed me 😂😂😂
Rectangle lol!
SAME!!!! BANNED FOR LIFE SHE IS.
Same, even tho my mom has curly hair she doesn’t know how to take care of it so i would walk around with puffy brushed out curls
More like wrecktangle
But it's a very practical haircut. I mean a protective dome can save you from a concussion
This made me laugh too hard for my liking 😭
Lmao 💀💀💀
LMFAO
😭😭😭
taking "protective style" to a whole new level 💀
“And she let me go to school looking like a rectangle.”
Yo I love this. 😂
Girl, I think we all looked like misfit toys in the 90’s. My mom would style my hair like she had ADHD and couldn’t decide if she wanted me to have braids, straight hair, curls, or twists! Every photo looked like a choose your own adventure
Lmao
NOT MISFIT TOYS!! 😭😭💀💀✌🏾
you have a way with words
Choose your own adventure lmaoooo
This comment is hilarious 😂
Im the mother of a mixed lil girl and all I can say is THANK GOD FOR UA-cam!!!
Lmfao 💀
@@sleighbeggy3028 what?
@@mh20162 nothing I just imagine her screaming "THANK GOD FOR UA-cam"! I also had to turn to UA-cam to learn how to care for my hair and my white grandma is taking care of one of my half sisters and cannot do that girls hair so just laughing at the struggle
Of course you are….lol
DITTO!
The last style is the real life version of my drawings from grade 5.
ye lol XD
Girl I'm black and my moma black I went to school with Alfa Alfa hair. Your hair actually looks good in 1 and 2. Your mom put in lots of work and it shows.
Ok white mom was up in that beauty supply store tryna make them pieces hit!
The first style is actually good. We most most definitely had the slick back with multiple plaits or twist in our hair as children.
I honestly love how you can look back and laugh and appreciate the effort your mom put into doing your hair. I can tell you definitively love and appreciate her.
Well, how else is she supposed to react? She still looked good in all those pictures, even while looking like a rectangle. It’s not that deep
At least she can laugh about it, unlike some of these bitter commenters lol.
@@ampleoloruntogbe1434 bro stfu, the person is literally just trying to be nice
@@ampleoloruntogbe1434 ....Neither was this comment? What was the point of your reply? You see someone being positive and you went out of your way to be rude. We're you having a bad day or something?
The first two pics, I was like “awww that’s not bad thats cute” …. The last pic I was like “oh Lord!” 🥴🤣 Thé effort was a A+ though 🥰😂
I wasn't ready 😂
no kidding. It really must have taken some time to get it to that point.
POV: you’re French and the keyboard puts “thé” instead of “the” and it always annoys you 😭💀
@@Utpie-g2x how do you pronounce thè? 😂
There isn't a child on earth that didn't come home with a least a few horrible grade school pictures.
"Rectangle girls of the world" 💃🏻🕺🏻
Yessss 😂
"no matter the size, no matter the shaaape"
oh my goodness yes
I didn’t need to be reminded that this existed
you looked so cute in all of them, but that last one all i can say is Bless her heart, she tried so hard
all that moms want to hear is “I love you mom!“ And “you did your best, and I know that!“ And we’re happy.💛
😂😂😂yeah
I think she could do it better.. Just had to ask her in law relatives. but Im Sure she didn't want to hurt her daughter in any way
Nah, you need to learn how to style your kid's hair.
But did you do your best or did you let your ego get in the way? You won’t hear it unless you deserve it lol
I mean obviously she could have gone to a poc hair dresser, like she probably wasn't a certified hair dresser either
She actually did her best and even I went to school with a press and curls and returned home like Mufasa lol. It’s a rite of passage so go thank your mom for putting effort into how you looked!
"she let me go to school looking like a rectangle" hahaha. Oh girl,she tried ..God bless her.❤️
BTW, you have a fantastic sense of humor. Great video
I’m so glad you feel she tried her best because it really does seem like she was trying her best 🥺❤️
I came here to make the same comment and I realized that you and a bunch of other people that liked this comment noticed that too. So sweet 💕
Ditto… at least she tried and that’s awesome. It’s also good to have a sense of humor about our childhood photos.
She could have done better by researching or asking some black people. Don't have kids from other cultures/ races if you aren't going to learn about it.
@@vibez2806 I agree! Hopefully that mindset is more normalized now. My mom is white but she has kinky curly hair. So her white mom in the 60s and 70s would take my mom to Black owned hair salons to get her hair done right, and she would shop for hair products in the section for people with textured hair (Back then it was called the Urban section which doesn’t make sense to me)
@@vibez2806 you're assuming she didn't try. not cool.
There's a lot of prejudices on both sides.
I like the pigtail braids, cute!
At least she DID your hair!
Mine just gave up by age 8, and my grandmother, her mom, was a hairstylist too!
She said "they didn't teach us how to do black people hair"!
I later went to cosmetology school......she lied😅
At least she tried! That’s a good mama! 💜
Thats what I said!
I know
Still shouldn’t straighten curly hair
@@theecocopuff2171 clearly she loves her mum and can laugh at the past, so we should respect that. It’s not your right to be offended for her.
I’m mixed, grew up with huge kinky hair and my mum would brush through it /hard/, and straightened it at some points. And it sucked having hair I didn’t know what to do with as a child, but she raised me as best she could and worked 12hrs per day while dad wasn’t there at all.
@@pinkbombshellcasing2672 straightening curly hair is bad for our hair I am giving advice, seems like your getting offended for the mom
"Looking like a rectangle." I can't- 🤣🤣
Okay but honestly these pictures are all adorable. Best smile ever!
I thought her teeth looked different in every pic.
@@peekaboots01 the angles are slightly different in the pictures. But stuff happens and teeth can change over the years too, like wisdom teeth pushing, or sports and getting smacked. I don't think they look very different, and even if they did I'd still say best smile ever lol
"LIKE A RECTANGLE" 🤣🤣🤣 I'm white and if I brushed my curly hair I would look like this so I feel this one.
That last one looked like the kid from Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends hair.🤭
😭💀
Oh my gosh, yes! I was trying to think what it reminded me of!
🙌🏾🤣🤣🤣😂
I love it that she appreciates her mom even when everything isn't perfect.
Her mama tried and that’s what matters.
I would hope so, no Mom can make everything perfect
As a mixed child, just because we aren’t dropped off at our black parent’s house doesn’t mean that the person isn’t in the picture, or that our white parent was uneducated or ignorant. There are MANY reasons why growing up as a mixed child with textured hair was difficult/unmanageable. Aka one of which being MONEY!! Or just TIME/AVAILABILITY/ACCESSIBILITY.
That’s what they told you? It’s honestly cause they are not educated cause pink lotion and a comb is $3 there’s no excuse for it that’s why a lot of mixed children grow up confused and have no confidence. People really don’t need to have kids they can’t properly take care of or can’t afford
@@lexicampbell3081 No. it’s what I personally experienced. 🙄 mixed hair has so many different levels to it, it isn’t straight up black hair and it isn’t straight up white hair. Growing up my mom couldn’t just look on YT for a tutorial. I didn’t have enough time at my dad’s for them to teach me, my dad was a trucker and my stepmom worked TWO JOBS every day of the week but on weekends. I went over there every other weekend and the weekends I was at my moms belonged to her. I had to get ready for school early in the morning and had little time to do my hair. I couldn’t wash my hair for two weeks or else I’ll dry out my hair so brushing my hair through, my thick thick hair, took a couple hours on it’s own. I couldn’t stand braids that young because the only one on my dad’s side who spent time braiding the girls’ hair did them so right that it was an fn face lift. And they were so tiny you could barely see them. I was in pain 24-7 when I had them in that young.
Both my families were WORKING to provide. Not to mention I have 6 brothers on my dad’s side so they had to take care of other people. Like I said, sometimes it doesn’t work out because of time. Availability. And Accessibility. And Money. Because we didn’t have the money to test out all different products to know what worked for my specific hair. My stepmother did my hair when I was there, but what she used wasn’t good for my hair either. Because she only had stuff for her only black hair. And my hair was different.
Please understand that different people have different experiences than you. We don’t all get the opportunity to be able to be dropped off whenever we please. 🙄🙄🙄
@@lexicampbell3081 My mom worked her ass off to provide for me, she had me because she already had an abortion previously and wanted a child so badly. She worked as a single mother for years with little help and did the best she could. She afforded to put food on my plate, give me a place to live and get me new clothes. Just because she didn’t have a way when I was young to fully get educated on my hair type. Doesn’t mean she ‘couldn’t afford me’ or should’ve gotten rid of me. But thanks for saying that as if you know everyone’s situation 🙄🙄🙄🖐🏽
@@lexicampbell3081 Oh yeah. And my parents’ houses were two fn hours away from one another for the first 7 years of my life -.-
The correct term is "biracial" or "multiracial" not mixed.
We are himan beings, not puppies from a litter.
That last picture had me dying! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Cant relate my white mom knows how to braid so good and always had me in different braided styles every week looking slayed af
LOL .. .She surely could have gotten tips from your mom. That last pic is crazy funny
I think it can depend how old. Like my mom is in her 60s now. She tried using Pert+ on my hair. My dad just greased my hair to high heaven and my dad's family relaxed it. So I'm lucky to have hair.
meanwhile my lazy arab mom: “idk just wet ur hair or something….. i heard it’s a look.”
Same, Mom (white) could braid. On days my Mom worked early and my Dad (black) had to do my hair, Disaster!! Teachers would pull me aside and fix it saying... " Your daddy did your hair today?!" 😂🤣
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Ma girl be looking like Gossamer from Looney tunes on the last photo 😭❤️
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🤣🤣omg I cant
Yesssss I was looking for this comment
AHHHHHHHH JTFO IM FUCKING SCREAMING!!!!!!!!!AHHHHH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
Yaaaas!
At least she tried 😆 My mom just cut my hair short because she didn't want to do anything to keep it looking nice.
Mine too 🤣
Same!
I'm sorry , you deserved better
@@tazylab6233 If they wanted better they could’ve asked. They’re all clearly making light of it now.
Stop being offended for others ya damn pansy
same here, not my mom but my grandma. Not mixed w black but w middle eastern. My ma had me very young so my paternal grandma (all italians with loose waves) raised me. Im so used to having my hair short that now at 18 i keep tryna grow it but it annoys me so much i always end up chopping it 😭😭
Rectangle 😂😂😂😂, your hair is shaped like the big red thing from the "Bugs Bunny and Tweety Show!"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m mixed with curly hair. When I was younger my mom would just put my hair into pigtails by spraying with water then brushing it into submission. I went to school looking like I had straight hair (in reality it was just wet) and by the time I came home at the end of the day my pigtails would be half undone and I’d have a sort of halo of fuzz on the top of my head. 😂
Oh yes, the halo of fuzz! My mom could always throw water on her head and have perfect curls all day. When I finally learned about hair gel I wondered why I had to suffer the frizz all those years.
I remember those days!😂
As a mixed kid raised by a white mom, this furthers the plot that we all live the same lives lol. Those photos are freakishly similar to my grade school pics. 😂
Please dont say "mixed".... you are multiracial or biracial.
We are human beings not puppies from a litter.
@@trevizolga if they wish to call themselves mixed then they can. It all depends on the person. Don't assume that everyone wishes to call themselves multiracial or biracial.
@@trevizolga bro, who are you to tell people how to refer to THEMSELVES???
@@lilenwasnothere6867 "bro"
@@trevizolga mixed doesn’t just mean puppy breeds… it just means a mix of two things or people, and in this case it’s a mix of two people of different races. Why your first thought was puppies makes no sense
I’m half Korean and half black and it’s a good thing my mom knows how to do hair😭🙏🏽
Your Korean mom knows black hair? That is so cool
@@kaptainzdragon5478 I think now it’s a lot easier to find resources and tutorials on how to care for natural hair.
My daughter is half Korean and half Black but I’ve never met a Korean mom that could style her curls - Kudos to your mama!!
@@lavacaqueri5454 was born in 2000. We didn’t really have as much video tutorials as we do now😂my hair isn’t that 4c curly but it isn’t that straight either. She knew about a hot comb so to make it easier for her (since she’s used to straight hair) she used that. And eventually when I got older, she did new styles including my natural hair
@@kaptainzdragon5478 black hair? More like mixed hair two different things
Not a rectangle lol. Middle school was definitely the awkward hair stage for most of us 😂😂😂. Signed a Black girl with thick 4C hair❤
My mom is black and she still didn’t know what to do with my hair. I love her though.
Well, I didn’t really “admit” to anything. There’s nothing to “admit” to because it’s no secret that most black females can’t even take care of their own hair, let alone someone else’s. Once you grow to be a certain age, you need to learn how to do your own hair, it’s part of proper self care. You can’t always rely on others because one day you’ll be an adult. My dad taught me how to braid when I was a child and I’ve been doing it ever since. I made this post because I see videos of how “white people can’t do black hair” when many black hair stylists are totally clueless when it comes to natural black hair. So this is just more race baiting crap intended to attack Caucasians.
@@PrincessPink433 Most black women KNOW how to do their hair hun now that’s a stretch. Also you’re contradicting yourself how would a black hairstylist be a HAIRSTYLIST if they didn’t know how to do natural black hair just because your momma didn’t know how to do it doesn’t mean black HAIRSTYLISTS don’t know how to do it. Disrespect your moms horrible hair skills not anybody else’s
First of all, if you ever disrespect my mom on here again, you’ll regret it. At least I have a mom and a dad, unlike a lot of your community. Second, based on your profile pic it doesn’t even appear as if you have any hair to speak of, so you can’t talk on this topic. Third, and most importantly, if “most” black females took care of their care, which they don’t, then they wouldn’t constantly be destroying it with relaxers/perms, weave, dyes, bleach, big chops, extensions, straighteners, etc. Fourthly, why don’t you look up the definition of contradiction because at no time did I ever “contradict” myself. Finally, just because someone has a license to do something, doesn’t necessarily mean they’re good at their profession, and yes that does apply to many black hairstylists. Just because you use all caps doesn’t make your post look any less ridiculous. I don’t waste my time arguing with random internet fools such as yourself and that goes for anyone else on UA-cam. Try at least graduating from high school first before you attempt a conversation with someone. See yourself out, “hun” 😄
@@PrincessPink433 to be honest, some families struggle giving their kids braids because some versions of christianity teach that women shouldn't braid their hair, so that can really reduce the hair styles for some groups of people.
That made no sense.
At least she tried. The first two were pretty, the last one was terrible. 😂 But shout out to her mom for doing her best.
Edit: For those of you saying drop her off to her black side, I'm mixed, my mama tried that, it didn't work either. Neither side knows how to do my hair so I had to learn about it myself.
Yea because mixed hair is in its own category. It’s totally understandable tbh
ya dropping me off to my dad wouldnt honestly made it even worse...they just pick it out and throw some oil in it and call it a day 🤣
Thank you! And 20+ years ago a lot of us didn’t even know how to handle OUR OWN natural hair. We were still getting perms and the natural hair section of UA-cam was nonexistent
@@kandicelewis9435 no it's not. If yall would pay attention more you would know because white people stripped us of our culture which includes hair and cut our hair off frequently and that's why most black ppl today in the Caribbean, Latin america, and the us dont know how to take care of our hair we have to relearn all of it
She tried. A lot of black mums are only just realizing what to do with curly hair. I live in an African country, and most women here have their hair relaxed.
More like tresses, fake hair. 😔 plastic hair, even the little 2 Yr olds, so sad
Same. My mom is kinda peeved that I changed to natural.
@Titaness Writes💀 good for you, natural is beautiful! Who needs to spend all that time relaxing hair and using chemicals! I'm not judging those who do, but I'm happy for the transition and women embracing what they are
@Titaness Writes💀 I feel that. I didn't even know curly hair was an option until I started seeing girls going natural on tiktok. My mum and sister have natural 4a hair now, and people always ask what they did to their hair, or if they're biracial, etc.
@@chiedzawith2ds My mum was also skeptical when I decided to transition earlier this year(because my hair was like brastrap length), but once she realized that she couldn't change my mind, she started supporting me. It's funny cause she's been natural for years
The 1st two are actually very pretty. That last one is hilarious though 😂😂😂😂
Felt this in my SOUL. My school photos growing up, OML…momma did her best though, bless her heart.❤️
I appreciate the effort your mom made🥰
Ok, but like I love that you always had a genuine smile that didn't look like you were embarrassed of insecure 🥰🥰😘 go you
She tried, and she loves you. Good mum.
I'm asian/white mixed and even i can relate 'cause my white mother also didn't know what to do with my curly hair (except washing it regularly) and all i could do is straightening hair every fking day before school
I can relate to that! Both my parents are white but my hair is curly AF and nobody ever knew how to teach me to style it properly so I too burnt the shit out of my hair daily with a flat iron lol. Trying to love my curls now but it's hard when nobody else in your family has that same hair type
@@capnfuzzybutt same. my brother has the curly hair like me but he just keeps it shaved down so I’m on my own lol. The worst part is when I try to vent about having curly hair and the pain it is and how frizzy and crazy looking it gets and how high maintenance it is, my mom says oh me too my hair is crazy too and it’s just perfectly straight lol. like ok mom sure.
@@fighterflight omg so relatable 😩
You know the thought going through her mom's mind was "okay, the last two pictures her hair was up, we should put it down this time, I can do it!" 😂
She looks younger with it down. I don't think they go in order of age.
I just don't understand why it's so hard for whyte moms to style 3A curls on mixed kids. It's like really not that hard.
Weird, my African mom struggled with my hair as well.
Maybe it's because mixed hair is, as the name implies, a mix of features from both ethnicities that just doesn't work with either technique and needs to be treated as an individual hair type.
They dont care
@@lunamooncat7926 cool story👍🏾
When I see mixed kids I can literally tell if they have a blk mom or whyte mom. It's always the neatness of the hair.
It's really really not that hard.
Oh, the Sunday night 1970’s comb-out… my sisters and I are thoroughly traumatised!💜🤣
That volume, tho lmao
Girls with thin and straight hair could only dream of that volume lol
Honestly those pigtails-braids look cute,but that straightened rectangle almost made me fall off my chair:D
My second child has curly hair. I did the mistake to brush it when dry. Im not doing that again😂
At least you learned! 😆 I scream every time my husband dries our daughters curly hair by violently rubbing it with a towel! He just doesn't understand why he can do it to his short straight hair but not to her super long ungodly curly hair.
🤣🤣🤣
Basically I have curly hair and my younger sister has straight hair but her hair always is knotty but my hair barely ever is lol
@@wifeoftheparty9839 my mum used to do that to me and she said would make my hair more curly
@@cryingchild4209 😳 WHAT?!?! Curl and frizz are two different things!
😂😂😂😂 Great sense of humor with the last photo.
I can feel this pain sooo deep. I know when my auntie came to visit i used to get soooo excited! It meant cute hairstyles for school for a whole week! Ah being biracial in elementary school in the 80's. 😝🤪💟
Ikr haha
The rectangle: Yall ever watch that red mustache thing from the looney tunes.....
Spot on!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 90's kid over here
His name is Gossamer lol
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@@itsLIZARD89 Yes! He's one of my favorite Looney Tunes characters 😄😂😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
As a black mom with a mixed child. I want to extend my help and service for free to any white mom who needs it. I get so frustrated seeing this and wish more white moms would just reach out. I’m here if you are white mom reading this get in touch…. I mean this !!!!!
But black people don't like white/ asian doing black people hair styles. And we get called racist if we do those stuffs for so many years. How could we have knowledge about that ? .
@@Bururua appropriating a hairstyle is different from doing a hairstyle for your half black child. You can’t be this dense…
@@Bururua can you re- write this response as I’m having difficulty understanding what your response says 🤷🏽♀️
Ugh let the mammy tendencies go and worry about the hair on you own child.
@@Bururua hey genius, if you're kid is black it's ok to do black hairstyles on them
"Looking like a rectangle" 😂😂😭😭
The other hairstyles are cute! Except the straight hair lol mine gets like that too
At least she was able to laugh it off and acknowledge that her mom tried to do the best with what she knew. Us children of toxic parents just seem to hold everything against them lol
I was thinking the same!! But because my parents didn't even try. 😂😭
@Day oh yeah I absolutely agree with you, I was just trying to say that if this scenario was switched with a toxic parent, reactions and the response of the child would have been completely different from that of this video
@@carolbetarello haha I'm glad to know that I'm not alone and the only one with parents who didn't give 2 shits
@@jotsnab8463 the worst part os that my dad sells hair products to hair salons since before I was born. So, it hurts in a way that I can't even describe. Their "solution" was to put chemicals in my hair to straighten it. I proudly wear curls now. 🥺
@@carolbetarello I'm curly haired too!!! The worst part part of it all for me is that I inherited from the parent I got most of my issues from...
UA-cam “what an interesting monster” (from a Bugs Bunny episode) & you’ll see that last hairstyle in red lol
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My staaaarrrs..!! Don't you think that's iiiinnnnterestin?!
Lmaooo
Gossamer! I've wanted to get a red haired golden doodle and name him that for years. They're insanely expensive though
Zactly what I said when I saw it!!!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Classic B. Bunny!
oh my god. The rectangle. that’s the hardest I’ve laughed in a long while
🤣😂 I literally just snorted at rectangle hahaha.
Tell me u have a mom that was there for u, loved u, and did her best without telling me. So many lil girls would give anything for their mama to fix their hair. My mom wouldn't even get off her bed to wake me up. She yelled until it woke me up and then I'd go sort through piles of clothes in the laundry room looking for something to wear. My teacher brushed my hair. My mom didn't even get up to see me off to school. She would be asleep when I left and gone doing what she wanted when I got home. My big brother ran my bath water and fixed me something to eat. Mom would come home after I was a sleep. Never, ever bash your mama for trying. She tried bc she loves u.
Well said.
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I’m so sorry that you experienced that 💕.
I don’t think she’s bashing her mom, just poking some fun at her hairstyle evolution.
She didn't bash her though. Sigh... I'm sorry you went through that. I hope you will be or are being the mom you wanted. All the best!!!!!
My auntie, my dads sister, taught my mom what she needed to know when it came to my hair, thank god. She made sure my mom could do me and my older sister’s hair. We had all sorts of cute styles! 😭🙌🏽
Aww now i kinda wanna see
an aunt here who takes care of her nieces hair😄😄😄 hair time is always our bonding time
😂😂😂😂 that last picture poor kid lol but hey, it made you have character lol and now you laugh can about it😂😂😂😂
The first one is actually super cute, the last one 😂😂😂 whew she tried her best for sure lol
I hate hearing of a black child with a white mom or a mixed child with a white mom having to deal with their hair being terrible, all they'd have to do is maybe watch some videos about hair care, take you to a black hair salon, it's not that hard. If you're going to have a child that's going to be A different race from you the least you could do is look into how to take care of them when it comes to things like hair, or skincare, or anything cosmetic really.
Internet was not available to everyone until just before 2000, and even then it was really expensive, slow and there were not really much content or it was almost imposible to find something with that old bat algorithm so... Yeah... Not everyone has lived with computers or mobiles or even internet until recently, maybe less than a decade ago when the gov helped people to have access to the web. But you have a point, go with the professionals, black, jewish or scotish people are amazing with curly hair
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Well arent you just pressed?
Some of us grew up before such resources were available, salons cost money, and the black side of my family did not know how to handle my not 4c hair either (they did try, and were defeated).
I'm still learning new things about how to take care of my hair (I like low maintanence, but have long hair).
We don't know where she grew up. Maybe in a community without a lot of black people. Do you really think that ANY mother, wouldn't do the best they could for their kid? I mean a mother that was obviously trying their best like in this video. If it were that easy, she wouldn't have had that last photo at least.
What makes this so warm is that she tried her very best. Remember, UA-cam wasn't as extended as it is now💜 I remember my mom working on my hair hours and hours and getting all the advice she could. Of that effort doesn't speak for itself, then none does.
The rectangle one really made me laugh extremely loud and hard. I am sorry but you made my day.
I literally have tears streaming down my face I'm so weak 😂😂 that "rectangle" style got me hollering 😆😆 I'm deceased 💀
Girl i feel your pain!!! Lmao my daughter is mixed and i literally was your mom lol
really?
Lol one of my mixed friends has multiple textures of hair… like parts that are super curly and other parts that are closer to wavy. He really struggled to style it even as an adult
My hair is like your friends! The majority is spiral curls. However if you lift up my hair in the back, it is super straight at the nape of my neck. My stylist actually has to cut my straight hair much shorter than the curly top layer, so that they don't hang longer.
The last picture 🤣🤣 l love your transparency though!!
I think it’s so sweet that mom was constantly trying new things on her daughter 😅I had curly thick long hair and I remember my mom brushing it up into the tightest pony, I had that one look for a decade hah
Same. I dreaded every morning before school (hair has to be twin braided, school rules) because my mom had no clue and no patience to work on my thick wavy hair. I had short bob till I was 12, I had to fight to grow my hair, but then I didn't know how to braid it, it's not like I could learn from UA-cam. She would tear my hair and scalp in the process of braiding it, all the while cursing me for having "bad" hair.
I am almost 30 now and in love with my natural beautiful waves. I wish someone hugged me and taught me how to take care of my hair when I was a kid, would have reduced some of my trauma.
@@Rose-dr6uo stop this perverted thinking. You didn't have trauma because of your hair. Inconvenience yes. Leave the trauma to actual victims.
Girl, my mom used to shave my head because she thought it will grow out "softer".
That actually makes it more course. 😒
I’m going to hell for laughing at the last one. 😭
The first two feel like average elementary school pictures anyone with any hair might have had in the late 90’s early 00’s and look back on and laugh, the “looked like a rectangle” got me though😂😂
I too was a victim of the fake hair😅
"looking like a rectangle" SENT ME 😭😭😭😂😂
Hahaha love the part where you say 'curly hair ain't meant to be straightened '. I know your pain
noooo she had you looking like that red monster from looney tunes 😭
Oh my gosh that last one was hilarious😂😂