The Marriage Of These Women Can Never Last || Muhammad Ali Emotional Bayan || Youth club
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- Опубліковано 26 сер 2024
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◾ Topic: The marriage of these women can never last
◾ Speaker: Muhammad Ali
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Being a wife and daughter in law i would say im not tired of work burden. Im tired of inhumane behaviours of my in laws. Bahu is also a human being. She needs respect, she needs a shoulder to cry on. Husband and in laws don't understand this. They think bahu is a robot. I would request in laws to be polite towards bahu just like they are towards their daughters. My mother in law's rude and toxic behaviour has spoiled my married life and Allah will punish her for this.
Then husband is nor man enough to get married. Why blame only MIL..if ur husband was man enough he would keep seperate.something daughter parents never asked and asked before marriage but demand later...don't.
U are right sis. I am suffering from the same from last five years. I dont know why mother in laws can not share their child with any other woman. They have severe insecurities regarding their son and bahu.... And u r right they will definitely get punishment for ruining others life.
Gharlo Aurton me talak k ratio islie bhi kam hy kio k woh educated or storng nahi hoti islie woh chup kr k sehti rehti hy jb k parhi likhi aurat sirf apne shohar k kam karti hy pory susral ki gulami nahi kartu Chalo phir bhi saas susar ka samjh ata hy k woh maa baap ki jaga hy magr ye devar jeet nand or unke bacho ki gulami ye aurat ki koi zimedari nahi hy ghr ay to 20 25 logo ka kam kry aurat par bas teen logo ka kam he farz hona chayen k ek shohar dosri saas teesra susar
Bas uske bad kisi susral walo ki koi gulami krna nahi banta uske lie
I do work of dawa and alhamdulillah I am a fully parda abiding house wife. But honestly it's a disgusting discussion. Just because bro Ali is saying it doesn't always make it right. With due respect the lady who is sitting here talking with these men does she not have a maid taking care of her house when she is out and about doing dawa work.
I am a doctor and i have worked for 15 years in Makkah.i have closely watched Saudi culture and society.For your good information the marriages and home culture in pure islamic society is way different than discussed by these islamic scholars which are prevelant in subcontinent.The women in Saudi are treated as Queens really and men have to bear a lot plus you have to follow all islamic rules.can you imagine a working women from india or pakistan gets good spouse only when she is well read and takes burden of famiy way too much than her husband.i can relate an incident the wife demanded husband maid,driver,bunglow ,three cars and lot of gold just for him to get married second time.wallahi this is true.our society is poor .Aik shaadi mushkil sy hojaaty hi ore aap log chaar chaar ki baat ker rahy hein 😅😅
Actually men in subcontinent are not bearing all that burdon, they never think they can not afford aik bv mushkil sy, hamaray yahan bety ka ghar mushkil mein us k parent bhi support kerty hein. So he never undergo such a mushkil for ghar chalana he says to his wife tum job kr rehi ho wo bhi job kr rehi hy, tu koi mushkil he nhi.
Both of u think, only women suffer, men dont?
to bhai with due respect ap ja k saudi Arab ki hi ksi orat se shadi kr len or usko as a queen treat kren then apko usk badly me kya milta he wo dekhiye ga, tab apko Pakistani hi achi lgen gi..
Or usk ilawa ap Pakistani biwi ko hi as an arabian queen treat kr len ye b brri bat hogi apk liye.
Har insan apni jaga pe theek he.
is tarah to ghar nahi chalta. seerat perhain to haqaiq kuch aur jis main dono milkey ghar chalatay hain.
Wish parents know all these things so that they can train theirs children according to marriage philosophy….
ہاں یہ بات ٹھیک ہے کچھ عورتیں جو ساری عمر پاپا کی پرنسز بنے رہنا چاہتی وہ غلط ہے مگر دوسری طرف مرد بھی حاکم بن کر صرف حکم چلانا چاہتا ہے دراصل یہ مسلے تو خراب تربیت اور ہمارے معاشرے کے ہیں جبکہ دونوں کو اپنی ذمہ داریوں کو محسوس کرنا چاہیے
اللہ رب العزت سے دعا ہے کہ وہ ہماری تمام مشکلات دور فرما کر ہمیں آسانیاں تقسیم کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے..... آمین یا رب العالمین
Ameen sum Ameen
A good effort for a deep problem of our society. It's a woman's part to contribute her self to make her house cozy and comfortable. The other side a husband is fully responsible to make his wife's life cheerful. He should understand and believe the actual situation if she's bearing.
Every working women doesn't have mindset earning money .but some women do have passion of specific work or they have their own skills which should be encouraged
please make duaa for me brothers and sisters.. Maybe ALLAH will listen and grant any one of yours duaa.. My marriage is in a crisis.. there are problems between my husband and me.. I really want to save my marriage because I do love him and because I want our daughter to grow up under the love and care of both her parents together. Please make duaa to ALLAH that HE opens my husband's heart towards me and that my husband understands me and we may find our way out of our problem permanently
Aoa! How are you sis? has everything settled down?
@@aysha1124 wa alayikum assalam sister.. things are not getting better unfortunately because my husband does not give importance to this relation.. his priorities are anything and everything else before me and this marriage. I preparing myself to take a bigger decision if things get any worse
Mashallah
Excellent speech 🥰👍
Jin logo ko bivi k bajae nokrani srf is liye passand ajae k wo uske kam krti hai to phr wo nokrani hi deserve krte hen, phr mard ye nakhre na kiya karen k humen larki apne standard ki ya ameer or khubsoorat, parhi likhi, choti umer wali, shokh chanchal plus mature jesi chahiye to phr bivi k nakhre bhi uthana seekhen unki zarooraten poori krna bhi seekhen.. this was not funny at all. Islam ye kehta hai inko and they are presenting themselves as Islamic scholars then they should read and talk with Islamic daleel ahadees and aswah e husna SAWW.
MashaAllah v nice❤❤❤
Yeh sub traditional baatain kar raheen hain... Islam main WAJIB hai kay shauhar naukar rakhey. Plus none of these religious men invoke the fact that Muhammad (PBUH) showed with his examples that husbands have to help their wives in Kitchen and Cleaning. Ab Islam or Sunnat kahan gai? Nobody said even once that it is not the duty of a woman to do housechores in Islam (only recommended). What about men doing house chores like the Prophet.
Haa aur 4 shaadi bhi sunna hi hai qubool karlo sautan ko sunnat hai😅
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Agree. Ye sare aisi gharelo zindagi ko promote kr rhe hen jesi humari society chahti hai, they never talk about what Islam says on this topic.
@@sfgaming7388 Bilkuk Karain Chaar agar equality set rakh sakain. Equality kay standards buhat high Hain, ulema se poochain. Charon Kay Saath kitchen main help karanay Kay likey bhi tayyar rehain phir mard😄 the contract goes both ways sir!
@@sfgaming7388 Bilkuk ! Magar phir sunnat Kay hisab set Charon Kay sath contract banana Hoga. Charon Kay sath help karani Hogi. Bhai when someone threatens doosri Biwi because they don't want to help their wives to doosri Kay sath bhi contract main comparable cheezain ayein gi. Aksar log Jo doosri shadyan kartey Hain woh dobara unhi problems main phans jaatey Hain. Precisely because they have been unable to resolve problems in their own understanding and self the first time.
What are the qualifications of the guests who are constantly trying to tell what a woman needs to do. Aray bhai yahi to masala hai... MEN ARE SETTING THE RULES OF MARRIAGE WHEN BOTH SHOULD SET THE RULES BEFORE THEY SIGN THE NIKAHNAMA.
agree 200% ...ye bat bol bol ky dmgh khrb hgya lkn ksi ki smjh m ni aati...set the rules before marriage...end of topic
The rules are set in our religion but we don’t obey & follow.
@@ishaqqureshi928 yhn sunnat ki bat hrhi h which is not compulsory and upto you...islye shadi wali sunnat m ap usse shadi krein jo isky liye ready o and decide before marriage...shaadi ky bd usy bta rhy to kia frq prta agli to mjboor hgi zhri bt h
Their qualification is Deen. There is nothing better than this. Every aspect of your life should he based on Deen and submission To ALLAH SWT. Otherwise our lives will be miserable. We’re not meant to get everything in this world, which is why we HAVE to make compromises in all relations. Learn to accept this.
Set karenge toh b koi fayda naihe Q k shadi k din tak sab chalta 2nd day hi se sab orat k rules roldete or baher k aise waise mard nhi jhukta attitude rahta khuda k jaisa he bolke pahle ho compare krlete bayant sunke b bht Jo already zalim he or b zulm karna start krdete fir bolte k orten jhnnam me zyda jate aisa toh kuch nhi he jitne orten jate utne mard b jate lkn highlight sirf orton wali hadees kiye Q k mental torture karna rhta na bazko toh unko Jo zrrt ho I hadees lete, or fir kharch b nhi krte parents se lana bolte bechare parents chnd saltoh dete badme oo log b khn tak denge.isliye koi orton or kids ko insafi milnewale koi rules nhi chlte after mrraige😢Han agr koi sahi trbyt paya ho ot uske ghrka mahol parents b Sahi ghlt ka bhtt bchpanse trbiyt kiye honge toh shukr he us wife ki life secure sahi mane me shdi ki hogi.
I completely agree corporate mind set wali theory .
Both husband and wife are adults and should be able to manage their socks and shirts themselves
Yes I agree
Agr shohar bewi SA Acha salook na krta ho khrcha na da
عربوں میں گھروں لونڈیاں رکھنے کا شروع سے رواج تھا جو گھر کے سارے کام کرتی تھیں تو کیا عرب ان سے شادیاں کرکے انکو بیویاں بنا لیا کرتے تھے ؟؟؟ یا اسلام نے انکو بیویوں سے بھی بڑا درجہ دے دیا تھا ؟؟؟ اب بھی گھر میں جو ملازمائیں ہیں وہ اسی لونڈی کے زمرے میں اتی ہیں. مڈل لوئر مڈل یا غریب کلاس میں بیوی اگر گھر کے سارے کام خود کرے تو بھی شوہر کو پتہ ہوتا اب یہ آ گئی ہے کہیں جا نہیں سکتی اور اگر ملازمہ کو زیادہ سنا دیں تو وہ نوکری چھوڑ جائے گی, تو اسی حساب سے بیوی بہو کے ساتھ شوہر اور سسرال کا سلوک ہوتا ہے. مائنڈ نہ کیجیے گا آپ کی مثالیں بہت اچھی نہیں تھیں
This whole panel doesnt see women as complete human being with brains.
Aaj kl jo ladki zayada kamati hai.aaj kay time me unhe ki shadi hoti hai.sir
He never cited the study related to divorce rates nor gave authentic references. Plus the study doesn't really talk about men and what kind of men are more likely to get divorced. Another thing: Statistical reports don;t always give you the larger picture. Remember statistics is a science based on aggregates. Women in the West who are in key posts manage to build their marriages and careers side by side. They are THRIVING precisely because they have set a practical deal with their husbands. He is completely wrong that successful women don't know how to handle things in the West. The divorce rate is higher there but if one looks carefully at women who are successful in the West they are actually quite successful in their marriages also. Statistics don't always reflect the entire story. A higher divorce rate has nothing to do with career because EVERY woman works in the West. So correlating career with divorce is faulty in the first place. Because women are more fulfilled they don't do chik chik with their husbands like women in the Muslim world. When both are enjoying their careers they have less to eat each other's minds. Successful men and women generally have successful marriages. They are completely unaware of how to build a successful relationship.
Maid is broad term and can go on to mislead the listeners. Elite families perhaps what our honorable speakers are speaking of afford full time maids who do everything from cooking to cleaning baby sitting and even accompanying people to malls & weddings. Perhaps this debate is more suited to that audience. However it could completely mislead those majority of this society who only keep jharu pocha bartan washing person and pays them barely 3 - 4 thousand. This video would delude the middle class men to unfairly disregard their wives for having hired masis. I myself have suffered this hopeless shaming & insult in my personal life. If your wife can be your driver for 15 years, your childrens qariah and tutor as well as cook in the house why do you label her if she takes domestic help
Beshak, or toh thode mardon ki vjh se aisi orten Jo izzardar khandan k aalima ho Jo k kbhi baher khadam rakhne ghabraye k hamesha unke parents hi unke sab akhrajat spend krte the or baher gye b toh full gharke siblings brothers or parents k sath jate hon, Jin ko sirf itna pata ho k humlog Nek banke allah se mangte hain or allah kareem parents k zariye unko pocket money or Jo b zaruriyat ho derahe hain,ab ye shadi k waqt shadi bass isi condition pr hui ho k Han bhai kamwalon k bghair thoda mushkil he, agr kamwale rakhna aapko mushkil naihe toh aage badhsakte, or izzat ikram ka dikhawa krke shadi krdete, fir next week se kamwali ko nikalna or behadd badzubani kare or fir zabrdsti gold or money ko dowry k shakal me lene k bawjood fir bole k tere bapke diyewe paison ka toh 2 saal b nhi guzarte or 4 years beetjane k bad b koi ehsas na ho ek 100 rupyon ki b zrrt nhi he oratko smjhne lagjaye, yahan tak k wife k khane peene k liye b pbndi lagade or kids ke milk ke tak paison ka bndobast ladki k parents hi karne k bawjood fir khudtoh bade brands k kharch apne uper toh krte or khud husband or unke Walid Roz milk peete, or hamesha mentally torture krte, kids ko galiyan dena,Bht hi gnde ilzamat lagane k bwjood fir hamesha ka silent treatment or wife ko dusre kmre me krke rakhte,toh b allah ki lanat he kya orat pr Q k yhi ek lfz sunne ko milta he ki Q kra shadi alima ko, or wife aise wqt pr behadd insecure hojati he sabse zyda hsband se is wqt orat ko kya karna chahiye, agr kuch smjhane aap b aagye toh tuu leke ja bolke bdtameezi kiya jata he.
Masha Allah good motivator
ALLAH BLESS YOU all❤❤
Aap sab bhot behtareen personalities henn...
Or youth k lye bhot achha kaam kar rhaay hen... Baa.maQsad kaam....!!❤
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Bilkul sahi her time satae janay wali airat keh daty dairy hai bohot ho gaya ab alag karo mujay jana hai phir b woh budbukht kehtay hai chali chali jao mujko thari perwamahi
I think work is not a problem but not getting acknowledgement .see even if u kept maid them we have to also answer allah for making them doing more work. Last thing i understand about islam is live and let live but our people are always finding faults in others.
shadi is sai bhi ziada bouri ouratoun ki chul jaati hai aour bohut achi achi samjhdar shareeif lurkuoun ki nahin chulati...................Yai sub Allah kai kaam hain. taali donou hathoun sai bujati hai laikin chupair aik hath sai bhi purai to poora shour houta hai.
Andrew Tate ko aap quote karrahe hen jispr rape and human trafficking k serious charges hen. Or yahan jitni bhi baten ki gayin inme islam ka hawala kahi nhi diya gaya.
Mujhe ye video bahut achha laga because isme mardo k sath aurat bhi h aur dono apni apni baat rakh rhe and this is feminism yahan par fake feminism ki baat nhi ho rhi
Sadly, when women work men never understand the pain they’re suffering.
Upon listening to these men carefully, and all the high fi language they are using (corporate, fiduciary, etc), one realizes that all the rules and norms that they are laying out actually SUPPORT MEN. They don't really add satisfaction and feeling of fulfillment for women.
Its a small clip from the whole program..they do talk a lot in women's favour.
Your husband is OBLIGED to spend on you and protect you for life. And many other things. What more do you want? Nikah is better than chasing a boyfriend who will only see you as a piece of meat for his own gain.
Masala yah hy in main Sy Kuch bhi mard act Nahi krty .........bas yahi aik masla hy
Ap ke comments se lagta hae ke saray mard jahannum mae jaen ge, lekin sahih bukhari ki hadees kehti hae ke aurton ki aksariyat jahannum mae ho gi shohar ki na-shukri aur nafarmani ki wajah se....
Waiting bro🤔
Didn't the Prophet use to come home tired?
you are frustrated, you need to discuss your own issues rather than pointing out problems in others.
Ye jo female bathi hain. Asal mei apni jawani guzar chuki hain. Ab ye saas hain is liye dimagh mei daughter in laws rakh ker baat ker rhi hain. Khud apna waqt ab yaad nhi hai.
Wife ko zalil kernay ka koe moqa hath sai janay na dena
2nd jo baat thi theek wohi scene mere sasur k sath hai or wo jo kaam wali hai wo itna pury ghr pe control kr gyi hai k har chz uske kehny pe hoti hai, mai bahu hu is ghr ki pr mujhe khana be us nokrani k huqm se milta hai nhi to nhi milta
Informative,but no side for women
Hmhary piyary nabi apny kam khud krty thy .kapry sina dona..agr sb hazrat Muhammad saw k nakshy kadam py chalen to talak ni hogi.shadi khushi hoti h.husband wife ek dosry ko khush rkhen..job b kry wife but fr bacho ki perwrish thik ni ho pati..meny dkha h aksar kch molana kaheten hn bukhy mar jao but wife KO kamany ni choro..but nabio k dor me aurto ny jangy b lari hn jobs b ki hn
Mard izzat mangta hy. Baki sb kch manageable hy. Par agr aurt usy izzat na dy. To masly khary hoty hen. Bad ikhlaq insan koi bardasht ni kr pata.
Everytime i listen to this lady i get very confused about her! One minute she talks so mature and the next moment her speech is full of patriarchy. Mard faisle krta hai???? THIS!! I can't stress enough on the fact k isi baat ka faida Muslim mard uthate han. Such statements are so sensitive and controversial k aisi batein context aur details k bina nahi karni chahye misleading ho jati hai. I don't think for a woman to have a voice, mind, perspective, opinion and Much more is problematic aur exactly yehi cheez Muslim community mein majority mein aurton mein lack krti han because they are not given the opportunity at all only because "MARD FAISLE KARTE HAN" plus i don't oppose the idea of woman looking after the house but what i hate the most is that eventually aurat naukar ban hi jati hai sab k kaam karte karte to the point k koi khud uth k pani peene bhi pasand nahi krta....... it's not the house chores that is a problem it's the system that has been created where women are literally being treated as unpaid servants
bhae ye sara feminist lashback ata hi yahi se hai jab aap aurton ko ye feel karao k bhae tum bus yaha hamari han mein han milane k liye ho aur hamare agay peeche ghoomne k liye ho iss k elawa tumhara koi role nahi hai.....make women feel like they are heard, respected, involved and watch them make your life a living dream
In Muhtram khatoon se agar councilling kervani ho to kesay approach kerna hoga?
So there is no difference nrw maid and wife. Wow
Ali bhai ap sa rabta kesy ho skta ha
Assalamualiakum wa rahmatulahe wa barkatuh...
Meri ek friend hai uski shadi hue hai aur woh log black magic paar trust kartay hai woh 3 months sarural mein rahi hai aur ussey aisay waisey galath kaam karwatay thy black magic k jo kisi cheez non living thung se maafi mango aisa waisa toh uski family ne ghar la liya aur ussay waha jaanay nahi diya...
Kya yeh sahi hai....jaantay hue bhi kaisa galath cheezou par life uski chord saktay thy woh log ?
AssLamouolaikumgivetheyquarnandlislamciknowledge
He holds a degree in psychology.
Its not important for us what 'Andrew tate' says. All we know is that Prophet SAWW had the responsibility of the whole religion, jihad, migration yet He SAWW helped wives in house and fulfilled all of his SAWW wives rights. So please...🙏🙏
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What are these guys preaching even..... Quoting Andrew tate.... 🤡
Maid rkhna ya na rkhna , afford kr skna ya na kr skna, in sab ka solution mehr hy, aik aysi larhki ,jisky baap ky ghar main nukar chakar hain, aur uska lifestyle luxurious hy, aik aysy ghar ka larhka uska mehr hi ada nheen kr skta tu uska rishta hona ,nikah hona aur baad main maid rkhna ya na rkhny ka msla siry sy ho ga hi nhen , aur jo aysi bachi ka mehr afford kr skta hy, woh maid bhi afford kr skta hy, agar koi mard maid afford nheen kr skta tu kisi aysy ghar rishta bhyjy , jisky parents maid afford nheen kr skty
Andrew Tate ko tu ese quote kr rhay hn jese bht bara scholar h. He's the biggest misogynist. Lol
Majid tahini said that😊
Maid ki zrurt to prti hai specially pakistan me . Jahan dust hi bht zyada.. safai wali lagi ho. To biwi baqi k kam aram se khud kr skti.. maid to hr wife ko chahiye. Pr husband k kam khud kro ..husband ko itna maflooj kr do k wo ap k bgair ek minute na reh skay. 😂 Usay socks tk lene k liye apki madad ki zrurt pray. 😅aur rahi bat complaints ki . To wo usne kisi se to bat krni hai jb susral walay usay tng kri jayingay . Aj kal susral walay bhi to bahu ka jeena haeam kr dete...
Hy mera bacha fot hogya ha 6 din ka tha ao ab 3rd month start ho choka ha usy fot howe lykin mujy bht yad ata ha bilkol zegan se nahi nikalta mujy ajeb sa gilt ha ko wo mere waja se fot howa ha mujy sbr nahi ata
Nhi sister sab mai allah ki marzi
Allah aapko sabar de. Ameen. Ye sub Allah ki Marzi hai...koi maa kabhi ye nhi ker sakti. Allah aapko bht naik, qismat aur sehat wali aulad se nawazay. Ameen. Allah per yaqeen rakhain. Sub theek ho jaega aur ye waqt guzar jae ga inshaAllah
Us b'v k zindgi etni sasti k jalan hasad or apne beja ghatiya taklefun waja se ek zindgi ujar k rakh di .or wo mard jo 5 month ek b'v k sath raha koi mhbt koi unsiyat koi naiki koi ek achi bt adat yd nh rai k wo bap k kehny pe hamesha k liye chor diya
This host is entirely unaware of how PROBLEMATIC ANDREW TATE IS ... HIS VIEWS ARE CONSIDERED VERY PROBLEMATIC.
you are frustrated, you need to discuss your own issues rather than pointing out problems in others.
@@sanajaved5893 If you were intellectual enough you would have focussed on the issue i.e. Andrew Tate and his example rather than attacking a person you hardly know. Is that all you can present as a premise? Personal attacks are done when you don't have a philosophically educated answer! I wish you the best!
Well the same men then go and cheat on their wives when their wives are busy in all household chores and cannot even take basic care of their beauty and hygiene. And still they would blame women for their cheating. Hypocrisy on peak 🙆🏻♀️
Please English k word km use Kiya kren mjy smj ni ATI. Ya phr asan English bol lya kren.
Ek larki ko uski sas sirf ghar k kam k liye leke gai or phr zar khareed ghulam ki tarhan kam karwaya wo b'v apni sas shohar nand sas devar chachi sas chacha sasur usk bachun ki kam kya ghulami tk karwate rahe or wo krti rai sir es bt pe k mjhe ghar se nikal den phr sas or baki k ghar k sb mil k jhothi shikayaten khas tor b k kam nh krti a'c baten karti rai or phr shadi k 5 month tk ye chalta raha phr ye sb kr k un sb ka pait nh bhara or phr sb mil k bete ko bitha k kehte h tmhe maa baap behan bhai nh milega. Or nikal esko ghar se or phr shohar ne nikal diya ghar se or usk bad etni nafrat bhar di usk ghar k sb logo ne mil k k usko mard ko majbor kr diya k talaq dy do or bina soch samjhe usne shadi k 5 month bd talaq dy di bap ne kaha k 2 shadi karwa dn ga
Sir agr wife sb kri hai sb krne ko ready hai. And Husband us ki koi Responsibility ni leta, na us ki zarooriat puri kara hai, wife k samne or girls ki une touch krne ki bate kare, puri rat call p ksi or larki se bate kare and jb man kre to rat me wife k pas aa jae apni zarooriat puri krne k lie??? Us k ghar walo ka kehna ho k Larka hostel me raha hai puri life bht bugar gya hai nashay me par gya hai ya Larkion me... To us ki shadi ki ab wife p Farz hai usay smbhalay Sudharay.... Is p kya hukam hai sir... Sir plz I request u plz husbands p b bat krn taky jis tra Girls ko smj ae g k un me mya masla hai isi tra boys ko b smj aae k Un ki kya mistakes hain...
I agree 💯 sahe bt information btaty h AP but ye bhi btayn k husband ۳ شادیاں karyn or chup k jhut bol k or phr bachy palwayn apne pehli biwi k pehli biwi hint k bawajud 2nd ko divorce dedi 3rd wife m hu mujy ye bt btaie shadi k bd or ab bura Bhala bolty mujy mery MAA baap ko taany dety mujy galiyn battamizi hr bt p pabandi bahir kahi nh jati chup s ghr m rehti hu usk bawajud mujh s battamizi galiyn krty or apne bachy palwaty h or chahty h mery bachy na ho m ink 1st wife k bachy sambhalu or khud 1 st wife k sath rehty Meri life barbd krdi
to khula le lo koi majbori to nhi olad b apki nhi
Mere husband ny mere sath ghalat kia bhtt
Ap bhai mardo ky liye bhi vedio bnae ek ky shadi kr ky ap ek lariki ko apni life or ghr ma lye h wo apki zimadri h ab na ky apny parents ki ab apko uski sb cheezo ka khayal rakna h .
Male guest ka name kisi ko pata ha
Yar 2-4 hazar may naukrani rkhi jati jharo poncha kr k chali jati. Agar ek bachi jis se maa baap ne kabhi kam nai krwaya wo jab jharo lagti hai tu nai lgaya jata
Sab say pehlay har shaks ko ya basic concept clear hona chahiya k jab Allah tala nay Hazrat Adam (As) ki takhleeq ki phir un ko jannat may rehnay ka hukum diya , phir Allah tala nay hazrat Adam(AS) ki tanhai door karnay k liya or un k sukoon k liya , Allah tala nay un ki pasli say Hazrat Bibi Huwwa ki takhleeq ki . Yahan ghor karnay ki baat ya hay k dekhain Allah tala nay ya dunya aadmiyon k liya banai hay and women aadmiyon k sukoon k liya paida ki hain .
Jab huzrat Adam (as) and bibi huwwa jannat may rehtay thay to wahan to koi kaam nahi karna hota tha , dono aik doosray k liya aik doosray ka sukoon thay . Lakin jab shaitan nay un dono ko behkaya to Allah Tala unhain is dunya may bheej duya aazmaish k liya aik certain time k liya .
To main maqsad ya k women Admiyon k sexual needs and tanhai ko door karnay k liya banai gai hay .
To is dunya may bachpan say hi parents ko beton ki tarbiyat isi cheez ko focuse kar k karni chahiya .
Quran may bhee Allah tala nay shadi k baad miya and biwi ko bilkul barabar Ka darja diya hay , balkay mard ko biwi k muqabla may 1 darja ziada diya hay vo is liya k us ko family ka qawaam banaya hay . Yani sare kamon k saath saath is ko biwi our apni bunyadi zarooriyat k liya kama kar bhee lana hay .
Agar is quranic concept ko har musalman samjh jay to dunya say buhut saray crime khatam ho tai gi . Aur ya dunya hi hamaray liya jannat ban jay gi .
Ya Allah humay deen ki sahi samjh day our us per chalnay wala banay .(Ameen)
To say that women are made to satisfy men’s sexual needs and their loneliness is really absurd. This is the kind of idea gives men the audacity to sexually harass and rape women because they think that’s all what they are made for. It’s a dangerous concept. You can phrase it better by saying that a wife and husband are supposed to be a source of peace for each other. Women are humans. I repeat, they are humans, they have a mind, they have a soul they are not just bodies made for pleasure.
What a illogical talk they are doing, completely Nonsense, aurat yahan iss leye pohanchi kiun k mard ko or uss k ghar waloon ko yehi lagta hay k wo bachay b peda karay lakin sab k kaam b karay, jab k un k maa baap un ko pyaar se paltay hain ( gadhoon ki terhan nai) ullu k pathoon Kaminoo pehlay kehtay ho betiyoon ko peyaar karo or phir jab wo bewi k role main tum logoon ki maid ban jaye ????? Jahil admi
Aur jab Aurat biwi bahar ki job kark thak haar kar ghar ae to earn money for husband house kids pher tu equally dono tired hoty hein tab pher only wife kiun kaam kare ? Kuch samjh nahi aya.. kiunk jab husband wife dono working outside home hoty hein tu dono equally world ko face karty dono equally frustrated and tired hoty . Tab ghar akar dono ko equally relax chahiye ya nahi ??? Bhai sahab aurat insan hai koi machine ya robot thori hai .. even robots cant fulfil everything robots ko bhi specific kaam feed hoty hein koi robot machine bhi sary kaam nahi karsaty tabhi har kaam k liye alag machine hoti hai tu eik aurat ko kiun saza dety hein log k woh Addmion ki tarhan job karey earning kare aur ghar akar sirf aadmi araam kare Aurat Aaram nahi karey ..
Bhai aap jo baate karre ho chalo maan lete hai par
Haadis se saabit/ daleel to de aap duniya vi daleel to de ourto ko galat massage jarA hai bhai kya
Samjhe aap sahi ho yaa nabi ne batai hui zindagi sahi he
Meri life me aap ke videos se kuch masle khade hue he
gr in batoon main sy kuch bhi na ho bewi Sara din KRY or na soher sy farmaish KRY is ky bad bhi soher APNI bewi ko bat bat py zalil KRY us ky her kam main nuqsan nikaly or apny bahen bhaion ky samny byizat KRY to kya phir bhi ap yah kahen gy k orat galat ha phir her koi asa q kahta ha k mard to asy hi hoty hain orat ko hi guzara krna ha
Wo sub to theak he ali bhai lekin in aunty ne apni ankhen q kaali ki hui hein?? 🙄 She can wear glases
You cannot compare Andrew rate with nouman Ali khan!
Why we campare ? Every one have their own character.
Aurat khushi khushi ghat jannat bnany ko tyar hai kam b kry phr yeh ali muhammad jeson ki soch k aurat nokar k muqqam py rhy is disgusting, I don't know why he is against women meethi meethi baten kr k zehar ugal deta hai aurton k khilaf
Only last 3 min video is worth listening rest just brainless talk
kam k lye hoti he wife? ye kaha likha he
disappointed. aisi baatein na kren internet par warna women wld never marry
Khatun ne Bulkul shahi bat kahi k is se mera koi lena dena nahi he, jab ki proublem husband k ghar se aa raha he, ye bahot badi zyadti he, me is se guzri hu, kisi ka kuchh nahi gaya , mere masoom bachhe barbaad ho gaye, me bahar k mulk me hu, mère tin bachhe he, vo us waqt chhote thé, do bete ek beti, mère devar ne muze bahot gande labz kahe, mère shohar ne react tak nahi kiya, me andar hi andar toot rahi thi, Reza reza ho rahi thi deen raat, un k bhai k labzo ne mera rap
Kiya tha, bina hath lagaye rap huva tha mera, ek deen chuppi, tod ke mene apne husband se sawal kar liya k yahi labz agar ek deen meri beti ko bolega tumhara bhai tab bhi tum chup rahoge ? Unka jawab tha tu he na, matlab k mene meri beti ki hifazat karni he vo nahi kuchh kahenge apne bhai k,us ghadi se unconsciously me lawarish, beyaro madad gaar ho gai thi, koi nahi tha meri aor mere bachho ko hifazat k liye, aor marina ye huva kuchh waqt k baad k mère hatho mère Shohar ko karao ho gaya. Me jail me aor mere bachhe gouvernent ne le liye, kafir family me de diye gouvernement ne,unho ne muze est ke kiya tha, take granted, bachhe ho gaye he 3/3 kaha jayegi, iska koi aor thikana a nahi he, ma aor bhai ne mil kar soda kiya tha, khatun ne kaha bottle bhar gai thi 2/3 katre baki thé, mère Vakil ne kaha tha court me 2/3 katro ne ne vase chhalka diya. Aor hadsa ho Gaya. Khatun ne kaha ek waqt aata he aorat kehti he jana he, mere pas jane ka thikana nahi th 4:48
Assalamualaikum rhamatulahi wabarakatahu
Sir mery husband mjy kehty Hain KY back Sy use krna ha mjy mtlb k gair shariee wrna talk ha ma bht pryshan plz ap is bary bhi koi byaan den sir please
Please dont do that
Nikah khatam ho jata hai aisay
Insan k liye ALLAH ko kabhi naraz na kijiye ga
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Harram ha .. Confusion ha
One ma harram
.. Another Chang see
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سیدنا جابر بن عبداللہ رضی اللہ عنہما سے مروی ہے کہ یہود نے مسلمانوں سے کہا: جو آدمی اپنی بیوی کے پیچھے سے ہم بستری کرے گا تو اس کا بچہ بھینگا پیدا ہو گا، چنانچہ الله تعالیٰ نے یہ آیت شریفہ نازل فرمائی: «﴿نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ ......﴾» [البقره: 222/2] یعنی”تمہاری بیویاں تمہاری کھیتی ہیں سو اپنے کھیت میں آؤ جدھر سے چاہو۔“
تخریج الحدیث: «إسناده قوي والحديث متفق عليه، [مكتبه الشامله نمبر: 2260]»
اس روایت کی سند قوی اور حدیث متفق علیہ ہے۔ دیکھئے: [بخاري 4528]، [مسلم 3521]، [أبوداؤد 2163]، [ترمذي 2978]، [ابن ماجه 1925، وغيرهم
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سیدنا خزیمہ بن ثابت رضی اللہ عنہ نے کہا: میں نے رسول الله صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم سے سنا، آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم فرما رہے تھے: ”بیشک اللہ تعالیٰ سچی بات کہنے سے نہیں شرماتا، مت جماع کرو عورتوں سے ان کے دبر میں۔“
تخریج الحدیث: «إسناده جيد، [مكتبه الشامله نمبر: 2259]»
اس حدیث کی سند جید ہے۔ دیکھئے: [ابن ماجه 1924]، [ابن حبان 4198]، [موارد الظمآن 1299، 1300]
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بلکہ نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے یہاں تک فرمایا: (جس نے حائضہ سے جماع کیا یا بیوی کی پچھلی شرمگاہ میں جماع کیا یا کسی کاہن کے پاس آیا تو اس محمد پر نازل شدہ -قرآن- سے کفر کیا) ترمذی نے اسے 1(/243) روایت کیا ہے اور یہ حدیث صحيح الجامع 5918 میں بھی موجود ہ ...
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معذرت کے ساتھ یہ سٹڈی بھی حاوی جینڈر کے ذریعے عمل میں آئی ہے یہ اچھی بیوی نہیں بلکہ اچھی ماسی کی باتیں کر رہے ہیں اور یہ محترمہ جو یہاں بیٹھ کر مہان باتیں فرما رہی ہیں ان کے اپنے گھر میں ہر کام کے لیے ماسیاں موجود ہونگی ۔۔۔ عورت کے جب سر پہ پڑتی ہے وہ گھر کی ذمہ داریوں کو احسن طریقے سے نبھاتی ہیں مگر اس کو ماسی ہی بنا دینا غلط ہے اور اس پر یہ کہ عورت کو نہ تو appreciate کیا جائے اور نہ ہی اسکے مسلے کو مسئلہ سمجھا جائے ۔۔۔ واہ
بیوی بیمار ہو تو کیا کریں
Simple hy uska sath do or woh bemar hy to masi rakhdo yr itna bara masla nahi hy yaha Pakistan me to ajeeb jahilana soch hy k masi ni aigi ghr me pagal zehni bemar log mere baap ne kabhi meri maa se kam nahi karway bas woh khana pakati thi
The biggest problem of 95% women is they are mostly ungrateful of Husband and self-centred, Despite Husband strains every nerve to keep her happy and away from all problems , just one mistake just one tough answer ruins his all efforts of past he becomes all of sudden apple of discord of her all problems. by the way I am advocating Men who are honest , who work hard for family , try to keep their wives happy.
O Man
Assalam o alaikum waRahman tulahi wabaraqatuho kia Hal hai Bhai mujhy ap ka number chaiye
Yes
میڈم نے کہا ہے کہ مائیں اپنے بچوں کو ڈراتی ہیں کہ ابا تمہارا آرہا ہے میں اسے بتاؤں گی۔ابا تمہارا سو رہا ہے خاموش ہو جاو وغیرہ۔
یہ خوبیاں آج سے سو سال یا اسی سال پرانی مائوں میں ہوا کرتی تھیں۔آج کی 99 فیصد مائیں خاوندوں کو اپنے بچوں سے ڈرا رہی ہیں اور خود بھی ڈرا رہی ہیں۔ڈراموں فلموں کی خود ہی آوازیں اونچی کرتی ہیں روکیں تو کہتی ہیں تم کیا کرلو گے ؟ہم تمہاری کوئی غلام ہیں؟تمہارے ان تجزیوں اور تبصروں سے کچھ ہونے والا نہیں ہے۔ہاں البتہ کسی کے گھر جھگڑا ہورہا ہو تو وہاں انرر جا کر اصل سٹوری سنوار دیا کیجئے یہاں کرسیوں پر بیٹھ کر تبصرے کرنے سے کچھ فرق نہیں پڑنے والا۔
Wife ko zalil kernay ka koe moqa hath sai janay na dena
Yes everyman'n nature