Alone with myself / lofi hip hop mix
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⭕Tracklist:
00:00 fantompower - blankets
[ Chillhop Essentials Winter 2018 ]
02:52 mell-ø - deja vu
[ A Fall Journey Beattape ]
04:49 High Noon Rush - Kane
07:21 lilac - last train home together
09:10 Nohone - Breath
[ A Fall Journey Beattape ]
11:39 petunie - distant
13:38 tonnA - On The Phone
16:49 Philanthrope x Yasper - Slopes
[ Chillhop Essentials Winter 2018 ]
19:41 trakeemovich - lifes a bitch
21:35 redrose - i miss the way u played
23:16 Ｎｅｒｏｋ - I'm Saying Goodbye
25:33 Jay-Lounge - Breath Of Fresh Air
28:29 Kupla X j'san - Raindrops
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fantompower
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mell-ø
/ dejavu
High Noon Rush
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lilac
/ last-train-home-together
Nohone
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petunie
/ distant
tonnA
/ on-the-phone-tonna
Philanthrope x Yasper
/ philanthrope-x-yasper-...
trakeemovich
/ lifes-a-bitch
redrose
/ imissthewayuplayed
Jay-Lounge
/ breath-of-fresh-air
Kupla X j'san
/ kupla-x-jsan-raindrops
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☃️Chillhop Essentials Winter 2018
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Thanks for staying with me.
I couldn't have done it without you.
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Lots of hugs for everyone 🖤
I would have not fallen asleep every night without you :') you deserve all success and happiness ❣️
Dreamy thank you for all you do for us. I couldn’t live without your mixes!
You're a beautiful person who has touched millions of people around the world. I am so glad I subbed to you because your mixes honestly make my day brighter. So we as community will always support you no matter what, because we love you dreamy!
Thanks for all the mixes you make! I like listening to them for studying mainly, but also just as calm background music for whatever I'm doing at the moment. I wish I could support you, but I can't. Anyways, have a happy holiday!
The art on this reminds me of myself on this dreary day in december, no family to share the holidays with, friends have all but withered, and im haunted by memories of my past...but after looking down and backwards my entire life i finally feel like i can lift my head up and look forward. People always try to knock me down when im living in grace...but now i just smile and walk through them...as if they are just ghosts...though i have become the ghost...but maybe i like it that way.
Who is scared of dying but tired of living
MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hi @hateful do you have discord... I'm looking for a friend. I'm sorry if thats weird...
i am😞🤚🏻 but my parents always say that i’m too young to say that..... age doesn’t matter right (?)
absolutely......
I don't want to die, and I don't want to survive. I want to live. Really live.
we are not friends, not enemies, just strangers with memories.
damn
Ouch
I felt this. Although I have no attachment to any one of you, I’d love to just share issues and give advice. As far as I’m concerned, we are all we have here in the comments
It hurts seeing your ex-best friend on the street or in the school hallways. You guys have had those most intimate moments together and know each other's darkest secrets but now all you do is smile or ignore them. I miss my ex-best friend. No matter how much he hurt me, I will always have a place in my heart for her.
"Remember that everyone you meet is afraid of something, loves something, and has lost something." -Fairy Tail
Since everyone is telling their stories, I'll share mine.
About 3 or 4 months ago I moved to a city 10x bigger than the one I lived in my entire life. I came to college and I'm totally alone and on my own, without friends or family. And in my country there is not much lofi community (I live in Brazil) and since I saw this spectacular community, I felt welcomed by strangers and that I have friends without knowing them.
After reading the comments I feel better. I feel like I'm alone, but with people who are also alone.
You, who are reading, take it easy, this will pass, receive a virtual hug from me.
Strength, warrior.
I'm going trough the same right now, moved from my small village to Madrid, capital of Spain, a couple weeks ago and I've been pretty much alone since then. You're not alone in this mate. Sending good vibes from Spain. ^^
I'm growing more and more distant from my friends now that I'm doing homeschooling. I don't really know if they hate me now for it. I'm moving pretty far into the country. I still have their numbers but I can't remember the last time any of them called or texted me.
You are probably going through something worse and I hope that changes. Just know you aren't alone.
@@WolfQuest_Fan its even worse when you realize, you were the one to always write to them about how they were, but never the other way around. i'll never admit this is the kind of thing that plaques my mind, not to anyone i know that knows my name, my face but to a stranger with no name, nor face, that i can do.
@@beastofthemount414 true, I've never thought of it that way! Thanks!
U too brother take it easy ur not alone ❤
I liked being alone for a time. Always thought I could be…… and not feel bad.
28 now, and it physically pains me to have been existing this long without human contact. If you are reading this, keep that 1 friend with you. In the end of the day, we are social creatures. Good vibes to you all.
Yeah , but you can always find new friends don't be disappointed try to be in a social group like a painting class or a sport that you like
try to enter different people groups you'll find your people.
Maybe when you were younger the people around you were toxic... Don't blame yourself.
@@hi-me6sx thank you ~ wishing you well
@@hi-me6sx I am glad I randomly saw this interaction. I love the message you took Time to communicate here. Just wanted to give a nod. I hope everyone is enjoying life. It is a helluva thing. Being a human...
Sigh...As I read your comment I just felt a bit of me dying. I've lost all my friends now. And even though it's in our nature to not have anyone, human is a social animal who feels pain if there's no one around him/her. I'm battling loneliness every single day. I hide it really well
Change your name to an extrovert and start breaking out of your shell. You have potential but you are just tricking your brain into thinking that you dont have any and you will always stay the same. You are just trying to have excuses so you dont take the hard path. Ik it really is hard but staying like this and being alone is also hard just choose the one thats better for you.
never felt this safe among strangers before
True dat
❤️
Can i make that into a hoddie?
I feel you. ❤️
*coughs*
i like being alone, i just don't like being lonely.
Never heard wiser words
much better to be content all alone, than lonely in a room full of people
So true
Because lonely is the feeling that no one cares
Lonely is not being alone
Being alone is a choice
loneliness isn´t
Being alone has a power that very few people can handle.
Idk, i kinda like having people around. Being thruly alone is kinda terrifying. I was thruly alone before, and to tell you the truth, it felt like being the richest person on earth, but you're stuck on an uninhabited island, with uninhabited cities, pastures, forests, rivers, and other. It's just like, what's the point of being powerful when there's nobody to be powerful for? you know?
@@NerdyCatCoffeeee I love your thought very philosophical, but trust me it gives you the sense and idea of trying to competing with yourself and be more powerful than you were yesterday and day by day you become more powerful well off course this only happens if you use your solitude to you advantage
I never want to know how it feels to be at the top alone.
Damn I feel like I'm alone every day 😔
You...yes you,l don't know what you are going through but just know God loves you❤
"People don't cry because they are weak, they cry because they have been strong for too long."
Do anyone ever felt like no one really knows you?
Yes ...
Always 👁
Yup...
Yes
All the time
-what kind of friend are you?
-the one who walks behind when there isn't enough space on the sidewalk.
Damn I feel you.
@@peterreutterer8253 it's a different kind of pain
@@youtapilote and the worst part is when they forget that you are there ...
- the one who let's other people talk and dominate so that when you're alone and lonely you can grow your identity (and sadness) in your own box
@@NurAmalina-im9kr I fell you all..no confidence and the shits, every day same :((
I wanna put this out there for anyone who needs to hear it
Its ok to cry
ive been crying for too long ive been numb for too long i just want to be happy again dropping all of my friends trying to cut out the toxsisity is hard now im down to 4 people who even speak to me i just need someone and i feel ive lost everyone who cares for me
@@mcfluff1034 Also going through that, it's been a few months now and I see a light at the end of the tunnel. You are making the right choices by getting rid of the toxicity, you will be happy you did that. If you end up alone (like it is with me right now), it's better to be alone than to have fake friends or people that don't really care about you. Trust me, you can make it through this, keep going :)
🤍🤍
@@mcfluff1034 hey it's ok, I've recently been through that too (still dealing with it) but I've found out what helps is to see the positive stuff that's happened in your life (recent or not recent, both work). Maybe jot it down and reminisce in those moments. Try remembering what you've done to achieve those positive things and keep pushing through :). Also it's totally ok to tell people close to you that you need some alone time. One suggestion I have that's worked well for me is to push through the tears/emotions/etc for just one day and do double the work and take the next day off. We'll get through this together soon :)
I can't even cry even if I want to because I am bad at expressing emotions
To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life. 🙏
Thank you for your kind words
Amen
Thank you.
Thank you for your well said lovely prayer.
This made me cry thank you
It’s bad when it gets to the point where STRANGERS in the comments can do a better job at keeping me happy than anyone can
Same here
yeh. but hey, its something right?
Same here bro
the fact that this is true and it's also my fucking birthday...
sooooooo bad :(
“The only thing worse than being alone, is being around people who make you feel alone”
-Naruto
Underrated; Naruto is one of the shows that helped me keep going
literaly how i feel rn
😂😂😂
👌🏿
Naruto had some wise as quotes in it
It's the feeling of emptiness that gets me. I feel a void in my body that was once filled with the joy i had when I was younger. This time of year used to be my favorite time; play with my friends after school, snow days, Christmas coming up. Now look at me, same time of year what do I have? Lingering depression, friends who I once played with now either gone or dead. I just want that warm feeling I used to have back. That feeling of looking forward to what tomorrow may hold. Not laying in the dark on late nights because you were awoken by the emptiness and sadness you are currently feeling. If anyone is feeling what I am. I hope you are staying strong in this fight and I hope for the both of us the worst will be over soon.
i feel this...
@@prodbyjozzu2222 stay strong!! ❤️
8 months later, now engaged. Got a better job. Got a new car. Things are getting better. But not easier. Still recovering from the fact that I lost my dad on Christmas Day last year. It's one step at a time in hopes I don't miss a step and stumble back down to the bottom. It's progress though. I hope people can see my old comment and then this comment and see that things can get better. You just need to keep holding on. There's someone out there who cares for you.
@@jayshadows2756 thank you
😔😔 I hope so. 😔😔
All I want to feel is the feeling of being loved romantically
dont we all
@@thatnoobbelike5054 yeah
I think it isn’t exist
Tell me about it.
@@thatnoobbelike5054 meh, I just want a best friend, and aromatic is also a thing.
Being alone builds character
Feeling alone kills characters.
Thanks for making me feel not alone. Cheers mate :)
damn
Loneliness is your power. feel alone is our weakness
this comment section could be a whole poetry book. but this would be the title
This actually really helped me man, thanks for that
"Monsters don't hide under your bed" They scream inside your head
Nice one !
Damn, so #deep bro
Yet the monsters are there, because you are aware.
They don’t hide under your bed , because there just a nightmare.
Close, just need the ‘they’re’
@@bruhgus2557 I think he's replying to Heeran saad
I'm not depressed or sad this type of music just fits my personality and helps me to stay strong.
im tired of being strong.
@@hayscounty2586 Don't think like that, The one always have enough strenght to stand against the hardships, If only the one's mindset and attitude is in the right direction. cheer up yourself, nobody is always happy but struggles don't last forever, it has to end one day.
Same bro
I used to be that way. I hope you never get to the point where the lyrics make sense.
@@hayscounty2586 I'm tired of trying to be strong but not actually being able too be strong.
The amount of pain from the expectations of others
The stress from school that piles up every single day
The emotions that can no longer be explained
Feeling of Emptiness, Hopelessness
i can relate
honestly. same. i might look like im all happy and comedic on the outside, but im just a sad miserable kid who wants to feel true happiness again inside. i hope the best for anyone who reads this
this resonates with me too... whats left is just a big vacuum where good thoughts should have been.
The lofi Community is so depressed and lonely but at the same time warm, welcoming and humane.
Should have a discord
It's usually the loneliest people who are actually kind and not fake.
@@deezbuttons4784 yea too bad people have to lie soo much these days
maybe cuz they know the feeling of being lonely and they dont want others to feel it
@@cypher2801 yea
Hate the feeling when you want to cry but just can’t
always have this feeling.
@Rebekah Ferguson I hope you feel better soon.
I want to do it in school but I can’t because I go to an all boys school
I get you, Its like no matter what you do this feeling wont go away. You cant cry it out, or scream it out its just there, Im starting to think am I just gonna have to live with this? Do I have to get used to this?
I hated people because of that feeling, in the beginning I blamed people around me i was just saying that they caused me that pain in a way or an other, but now I see them as a selfish creatures so i started hating people and giving more love to my self ..
To anyone who may have some how found this comment, I'm proud of you. Look how far you've come! Even if no one else sees your progress, it's still progress and I'm proud of you. Don't let others get to you, have a lovely day/night.
This community is full of love and handsome ppl
🙏🥺😢🥰
Stop it. Don't give me hope
don't praise people for nothing, praise the potential they hold
Thank you for your kind words, internet stranger. I hope a cat brings you joy today. Take care!
Anyone else have that same feeling of when the world just stops when your looking out your window at 2 am? For anyone new to the community of lofi, welcome. c:
Oh dude, Ik what that's like
In the Lofi community are the friendliest people ever, i wish i could meet you all.
I had a pretty bad day and this helps me.
brooooo... I just notice that and also want to meet all of u guys too
me too
We all have them days. Keep your head up 💪
Same bro, came here to clear my thoughts to the beats and ended up reading the comments. safe travels friend, may tomorrow bring good fortune and happiness.🙏
@@coler2277 may your tomorrow bring you the same fortune and happiness that you wished for the other guy :)
Im not suicidal, i dont wanna die i just want to be able to close my eyes and feel "alright".
Edit 1: never in my life have I received so many likes and have gotten so many replies I thank thy peeps.
But every day I feel like dyin'.
but everyday i feel like dyin .... everyday i feel like dying
This is exactly the meaning of sadness wanting to feel alright when you aren't. And you Tell Everyone that you're "okay". And soon it leads to depression. But people that cope with depression are the strongest people there is. It's hard to just say all your feelings to another person but we must all help eachother no matter the diffrences.
When I have days or weeks where it seems like the misery has no end in sight I recall a story of a king who wanted a ring to make him happy when he was sad, and sad when he was happy. He received that ring which read, "This too shall end." It reminds me that the bad times will eventually come to an end, and the good as well which is why I must savor those good times while they last.
@@4aru. so fucking true man. I once tried to tell how i feel and they just laughed and said "be a man". Maybe im gonna meet somebody in the future that will help me but if not im just gonna end this suffer
i always say this to my self that i like being alone that i enjoy my own company but deep down inside it husts it hurts a lot...
i really feel lonely 😔
2:36 am here, sitting in my room alone by myself and listening to lofi and reading all this comments of people with same problems like me
If you have been brutally broken but still have the courage to be gentle to other living beings, then you’re a badass with a heart of an angel.
-Keanu Reeves
That’s one of the best quotes I’ve ever seen, thankyou for sharing it
Felt this on a personal level. Some people in my life have treated me badly, but I still would never hurt anyone else because I don't want them to experience the same pain I've felt. However, there are selfish people in this world who do that to others just so they won't be the only ones to feel hurt. I could be wrong but that's how I see it.
Well dam keanu reeves what a way to make me feel awesome
This hits to ose to home and i cant say i havent been broken
amen brother, amen
Who else just feels like they need to be happy for your friends and family but you only want to cry and just want to close your eyes to be in a other place and escape from reality?
me.sob.
Yep. a lot of people would like to have everything I have, but I don't really enjoy these things. It's like it's not real, I don't understand myself, I don't really understand anything.
I have that feeling sometimes,but the fact I have people depending on me whilst I'm alone is what keeps me moving on I guess..
I believe the only thing that has kept me from killing myself, are my parents. I wouldn't know what I'd do without them & I wouldn't want to hurt them.
It's hard because you know the people close to you want to help you with your problems but talking about your problems is the one thing that scares you most. Maybe you don't want to be judged, which is probably my issue, or maybe something else, but you're scared that opening up will hurt people close to you or push them away, so you seclude your emotions. It's even more rough when you feel that there's nothing you can do, and at some point some people would rather die than deal with the pain another day. I'm really lucky to have a family and close friends. Even if I keep my distance emotionally just talking about anything else helps me cope.
TL;DR Stress/Mental Illness/Loneliness suck. Stay close to your family and friends. Even if you don't want to talk about your emotions having them around still helps.
This channel's community is the best. No toxicity, just random people here to chill and leave their stories and thoughts. Whoever reads this, may you have a wonderful journey in life :)
you too
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I don't want for someone to ask me if im fine, I just want for someone to hug me and say that everything is alright
I spend every day on my chair with headphones alone in silence and no one to talk to
I can talk to you
I love you man.
Me to
Perfect for those who have been self isolating way before Corona.
Taylor Robinson hey if you need to talk about anything I’ll get a discord or social media. I also understand, we went from being alone near people to being alone with only ourselves and people we need to get away from sometimes
Taylor Robinson of course, do you have discord? Or do you prefer another format?
@Taylor Robinson bro are u me? cuz this shit is the same with me rn....
i call it the coco so i can lighten the mood
ayy
tell me why i feel more secure here than with my family? This community is seriously underrated
Big facts
Yeah I feel more relaxed in my room than with my family
your command deserves more likes man
I'm so alone.
Because here anyone judge u, and that's fantastic.
When i saw that this mix is 3 years old, it felt a little weird. As if i am left behind and no one might see this comment now. But the fact is videos and music like this can never die, this ages just like wine. The older the better... I have just started the process of bettering myself and making myself a more disciplined, focused, controlled and happier person. They say that something can only come to life if you start doing it. Just like the guy in the video, whose sitting on the swing with his head down, and rain falling around him, I relate to every feeling he has. He is me. I am him.
I listen to Hardstyle, its an evolved branch of electronic music. Those who also listen to it, will know what I am talking about. If you want to know how that music is, do check it out. Nothing like this. Since the last 4 years, i have been trying to get over the girl who I love. She does not love me back, and probably never will. She only sees me as a friend, and while I completely respect that, I can't let myself be out in the open, feeling hurt and rejected all the time by her. No offence, she is the most beautiful person I have met, and that is why I love her also. But we are different in our ways, and she does not want someone in her life right now. Maybe I do, i don't know. But what I know is that I am not one with myself. I am not happy alone. That can't and won't be fixed by a relationship, that I am sure of. I need to fix myself and be a better person. I can't slack anymore. Some days I feel like a giant burden on my parents. I can't even speak with anyone around me, because I simply try to sort out things in my head and do everything myself. Hyper-independence. It kills me every day to see how different I have become from what I was in school. But I think that's life. You change, people change.
I am trying to move on from her. I can't forget her, ofc, I won't. But my heart wants to leave her behind. I have also started working out to fix my health. I am not in the shape I should be in, and I am taking baby steps to achieve that. I go out at 4 in the morning for jogging and exercising, and I listen to lofi mixes like this one. I don't have a favourite one as such, but this one feels so good. I find night time and dawn to be the best and safest places to be. When the sun hasn't come out and the world is slowly stirring up to life, and you're out in the open with just yourself. Feeling only yourself, and nothing else...
I have recently started listening to Lo-Fi and Synthwave music, and I can assure you, it sends me to the calmest place I can ever be in, with my thoughts, dreams, ambitions, fears, mistakes, loves, hates, everything I can fathom.
I thank you Dreamy for this mix, and all the others you've made and uploaded, it is what I need, and what the world definitely needs...
P.S.-: It's been 6 months since I've posted this, and i can confidently say that i am way better than what I used to be. I am completely over that girl. I haven't forgotten her, bu the idea of her, does not hurt me or bring me pain anymore. I can say i am fitter than what I used to be, and i am mentally stronger for sure. Let's keep going!
"no one might see this comment now".
As someone who read every comments (and sometime replies) under this video since two years, i found that funny. :)
For your story, i must say that you deserve respect. I read a lot of things here and you are by far one of the most resiliant.
It's normal to be hurt when the one that we love doesn't love us back. but I have to admit that it's very mature from you to accept her feelings. Your pain will one day fade away, you'll see :) For the first person i loved, it tooks 4 years to finally erase my feeling for her from my mind.
Don't worry about feeling alone and not liking it. We are social animals so it's written in our brain that being a part of a group or being with people we love is something pleasant.
But you are right, to have great and true relationship (friends and with girls) you have to become better and your dedication to do it impress me. I never seen anyone here go out at 4Am to do exercices.
I hope the best for you, i hope that you find someone !
You should try the peace of Christ my friend. I have been where you are, that lonely feeling in my soul and throat. The constant painful feeling of my heart reaching out and being struck down with every beat, it never stops beating. You can either live with it or have it fixed and renewed in the hands of Jesus. I love you my friend, I pray and hope that you find this key and take it, never let go of it. This is the way out, may God bless you buddy. :*)
Stay strong bro, i was in the same place as you. I was basically an empty shell. I kept myself away from everybody else because i felt out of place and out of tune. I always thought that i could never ever im my whole life to be loved by anybody. But here i am rn with angel with me. The most perfect gf you could ever or even imagine of and i love her dearly. Shes so great that i feel like in a dream which im afraid of waking up from. So what im saying is, stay strong and let fate guide you. Follow the river and you'll end up at the most beautiful view. One day you'll be loved by someone, i believe in you
Hey man, I can completely relate to you.
I was in the same situation just 4 years ago.
It was incredibly painful but at the end, time heals all.
It took me 2 years to move on from her, so don't be too hard on yourself.
Just remember that this community is always here for you.
It’s very interesting comment, unique in some ways for me. Thanks for your time, bud
Whenever I have a bit of time to hear my thoughts, everything gets darker. Every person around me feels like cheating behind my back. I feel like they only around me because they pity me. Whenever I told them about what's going on in my head they act like they care. But nobody actually cares. I really need someone to hug me without thinking that my problems will make'em sad too.
bro, I'm not old enough to be this sad
Yeah same
same :C
You can’t be too old or too young to feel an emotion, don’t put shame to yourself, it’s ok
@@abbeymosteller1159 thats so deep, but thank you
Abbey Mosteller I think he meant that he didn’t want to feel sad cause he’s too young
i spent 40 minutes scrolling through all these comments, literally all of the comments are so relateable and puts me in my feels, i hope everyone is doing good and with the best of luck for your futures. remember to focus on yourself and become a better you.
-Love, unknown myth
same buddy
@@beans.01 I to enjoy being alone, it allows me to focus on myself not having the need to worry about others. I to also like seeing people happy.
Hope your future is full of success
Don't rest now, you have your whole life ahead of you
-unknown myth
You are not alone, we are alone
*Sad comrade noises*
big love for all the loners who had enough pain from people and just want to chill with this awsome mix
Thanks...loners just want to be themselve when there s nobody around..
@@jowyschwarz313 I agree and relate...
Thanks I want to be alone, but I can't because they always call me somewhere when I have things on my head
" *Sometimes the person you would take the bullet for is standing right behind the gun* "
~Phora
True.
i was thinking what do u mean??
and then it hits me.
what if there is no gun
Stop making me realize that no one cares about me...
I don’t get it.....
"They don't see us, until they need us"
- a little quote i found ♡
True.
the worst thing is they don't need you
believe me
Yes ! Very true , but we have family and some friends , if you don't have those you can talk to me , life is fun🙂❤️
until they see us die
That works for God too, we just see him when we need something
You will never realize how precious a moment is, until it becomes a memory.
You are not lonely because nobody likes you, you are alone because you care who's next to you
Damn you summed up my life
I'm alone now because I decided to be better. No more parties, no more clubs, no more fake relationships. All the friends I had melted away when i became responsible.
well, i mean, true, but why are there so many shit people out there? Isn't the point of community in support of each other and not the opposite?
imagine living in an apartment alone, going home from work and listen to this
Better sad than dead.
Well no need to imagine . I just got home from work living in my apartment alone and listening to this song on a speaker .
It might be soft , but I’m too young to live without my parents ;)
Been living like that for the past 4-5 years. I work at home as a leather carver. I hardly see anyone, much less now with this pandemic. Family only reaches out when they need money or favors. Only got a couple of friends, but we are always busy with work. You adapt. You get to learn a lot about yourself and enjoy the little things in life. Theres good days, and bad days. But thats life. Just remember to use your alone time wisely and productively, and always strive to be better than you were yesterday. Peace!
You telling people my business bro
After four years, with A year without listening to this playlist, I’m once back in the same dark place. I’ll cry but at some point I can’t anymore, no matter how much I want to. I’m deeper then I was, more truly alone and in the darkness.
i cant cry no more despite how sad and pitiful my life is ............. all i can do is ride the wave
@@mellonhead9568 at my brother in law funeral, after crying for about two hours, I finally stopped crying and as I saw everyone around me crying. I couldn’t not, nothing came out despite the huge hole in my life. I said my last words to him and one final touch of goodbye. I’ve come to regret that touch because now I know the true feeling of cold and numbness and it scares me to my soul that now that same feeling over takes me. I will not move an inch nor have any will or desire for anything even living. A feeling that truly haunts me even in my dreams……
I can feel it rising from the tips of my fingers the coldness first before everything numb.
Sending love to y'all. You're not alone
❤️
" Every tear tells a story, because people don't cry without a reason"
- Itachi Uchiha
a person of culture i see
Well sometimes each fake smile tells story too:)
@@Victor-te4bq follow Itachi's words. not your own.
well shucks
Bro this comment section is touching my heart lol
“Men cry not because they aren’t strong they cry because they have been strong for to long”
Itachi.
men? that´s sexism
@@unicorngirl7856 I was just quoting a character from a show are you okay
@@cliffordjak8713 Yes, I agree that we need to question if this _human_ - if we can even call it a human - is okay.
Stop Ruining the Damn reference
@@deltaplayz7283 I can’t use a quote from my favorite character sorry
Music is my one and only friend. Because it stays when everyone goes. To everyone going through bad breaks, stay strong. We did not come this far to be sad our whole lives. If life didn’t want us to go through the hurt, then we wouldn’t go through it. I wish all of you healing, faith and love from the friends that will come into your life, and stay.
I don't wish much for my birthday. But I do wish that whom ever reads this is Healthy,happy,loved,and to have a great & blessed life.
I whish you a hapoy bday retrospectively.
Hope you had a lil cake to brighten up the muck of sadness and lonelyness we lost souls are all stuck together in.
i do have a group of friends.
i am that person who is constantly surrounded by amazing people.
people who laugh with me and feel comfortable around me.
i do have a great family.
a family who cares about me and loves me.
i shouldnt be here, i shouldnt feel left out or feel lonely. i shouldnt feel miserable about myself
but i do
Don't feel like that bro, it only holds you back from feeling even better, enjoy what you got bro, embrace it
@@22chuuya ill be your friend, both of yours
@@jcl1564 🥺💖
@@22chuuya if you ever need help just reach out to me bro
@@jcl1564 alright I will :)
The loneliest people are the kindest.
the saddest people smile the brightest.
the most damaged people are the wisest.
all because they don't wanna see anyone else suffer the way we do.
your comment is very interesting but leaves out an essential component which is "hope", a sad person without hope is bitter, a lonely person without hope is an asocial, and a hurt person without hope is a frustrated person,
Adverse situations do not always make you stronger, that capacity is reserved for people who have a purpose in life.
Romans 8:28
"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."
@Kageyama’s Milk YES that’s the main reason I don’t tell anyone
@Kageyama’s Milk I can give you a virtual hug. 🤗
It'll get better, I promise! Don't give up just yet!
@@fudgemonkey69 A hug for you too. 🤗
It will get better--just believe.
@Kageyama’s Milk yw :3
It's scary as hell to be a human being. I'm glad we all know that. ... it's pretty awesome too... wouldn't trade it for anything. Cheers humans. I hope you are all navigating life effectively. Nobody is alone. Ever.
it's not so bad to be alone ladies and gentlemen. there's a comfort to it.
Sometimes there is no comfort
Doesn’t anyone just pretend to laugh? Because when I laugh I don’t really mean it. I can instantly change into a serious face. I always act goofy when I’m with my friends but when I’m alone all I do is draw and just put earphones on, and just be a loner. I block all my notifications. And just stare at my ceiling and stay there for 20-30 min. Then I fall asleep. I like to sleep because it makes me feel like I’m not in reality anymore. That’s all I wanted to say. Thank you for listening. With all my heart I wish you the best lovely stranger.💕💕💕
I understand. Same for me.. I feel empty since my first college year, I never really had Friends, or persons I Can talk to. I Always acted by myself, and today I don't know how to Smile, to cry, or how to Care about something that should be important..
I tried to change, but I realized that i'm really this person, who doesn't have any expressions, and who doesn't care about people, Life, futur.. I asking myself everyday.. how Can I feel better when I'm already dead inside ?
yea
I’ve never related to a comment so much thanks for sharing
I got a similar feeling but usually i just build wooden things as a distraction then sleep but at school i just go to a default of jokes and general humor as a front of what i really feel.
Hope your doing well yourself.
Ive never been able to put it in words so perfectly like that
Apparently I'm not alone...
everyone in the comment section is here for me..
thanks guys.
You got a friend in me man ✌️
Always ✨❤️
Yep, best wishes.
We’re here for you.
Of course
please never delete this
It feels weird to be a metalhead and find such peace listening to Lofi.
😂😅😂😂
Sitting alone in my room in the dark while reading the comments makes me feel a bit better knowing that I’m not the only feeling this way
I am here, with you man.
@Aleks thank you x
We all here bro
Awwwww lol no your not stay strong love❤💕❤💕❤
😑
this comment section is depressing and wholesome at the same time.
Stay strong buddy!! More power to you! ❤️💪😊
A+ profile pic
@@midnightstatic9437 Thank you, kind stranger.
@Shadow Willow jeez are you an author? lol
@Shadow Willow well if you can say all that about the comment section of a sad video then I think you'll be a great author lol
I love this image. It reminds me of what males can go through struggling to be accepted for who they are while trying to find out who they are, seeking truth, respect, friendship and love. It just speaks so loudly...
"I know life can be tough,
but you've made it this far..
You are strong.
You are a survivor."
❤
Anyone else listening to this because it hurts even more to sit in silence.
Oof, yep
Kinda, I mainly wanted music to fit my mood and hopefully feel some connection with the artist.
Maybe that's exactly what you were saying just in different words, idk it's late
Its calms my mind down from racing around to thought to thought. I like listening to this music at night. I get to read the comments and relate to people from all over the planet who ive never met yet are the same as me. When i listen to this music it reminds me im still alive.
Why do you deserve any pleasure at all?
@Maddilyn Kline that's a good use of imagination
When this dude get's up from the swing his neck gonna hurt real bad.
He needs physio for forward head posture.
XD
Bruh😂😂
I'm trying to have a sad moment here XD
I- 🤣🤣 thanks bro
I found this mix in 2020.
I was sad, lonely, directionless in another country during quarantine and I was entering the late adolescence stage.
It was rough. Everyday was a slog. Everyday was just me wasting it. There was nothing to look forward to. No spark. No goal. Nothing.
I remember putting on this mix, plugging in my headphones and going to a walk outside in nature. I would also go to a park with swings and sit in a similar manner to the guy in the art.
This is my advice to people who are going through difficult times:
Find your spark. Find your goal. Find your why. Find your purpose. What is it you want to do with this life?
He who has a why to live, can bear almost any how.
Its okay to cry
Its okay to be alone......
"When we are at our lowes point, we are open for change."
- Aang
Thankyou
You welcome
*if you change you are at your very bottom
*too bad im a bottomless pit*
"That's rough buddy."
-Zuko
so tru so wise
Loneliness is addicting
Once you see how peacefull and safe it is, you don't want to interact with others...
Nobody, and I mean nobody is alone by choice.
@SleepyArtist I actually have similar situation. I am kind of a "social butterfly", and I hate it. I tried many times to be noce to people, but they keep betray me. I'm seen as the "strong" figure by my friends, because I always cheer them up, I almost never failed to bring a friend's smile back, and nk matter how long it took, I did always stay by their sides. But they never ever did. I have familly problems. My mother is almost always treating me like I'm a slave, she can be nice, but she's never satisfied with me. I have good grades in every class', a good behavior, but she always wants more, and she keeps telling me how much of a waste I do with my "talents". My father ajd mother amways yells at each others, so I usually go alone into my room, putting my earphones on, and listen to music. I'm a very stressed out girl, and when I tried opening up to my friends, they kept telling me " Don't be sad." I hate talking about mybproblems to thel now, so I don'topen up anymore. It makes them mad I guess, but the only thing I want is someone to sit besides me, without telling anything, just looking up the sky with me. Hey, thx if you did read. I hope one day you'll find someone who can understand you. I did a year ago. Since, I don't fear open up to her anymore. It truly is magic. I really wish you a stable and calm life, even if I'm a stranger, you have all my support and love💙
Who knows? Maybe we'll one day meet, and in anycase, thanks for still being able to wake up everyday. Have good day/night strong one, you have the right to let your guards down ✨💙
ikr
@@maechii3866 yeah, there is a lack of people wanting to watch stars without saying anything from midnight to 4 am... :( I have good friends but nobody want to do it.
@@space5422 Oh...I wish I was there for you. Looking up the stars late at night is really peaceful and relaxing, but having someone next to you saying nothing is recomforting. I may be a stranger, but whenever yoo look at the stars, remember that I watch at the same sky with you✨
I dont wanna die forever, i just wanna go for one day and see how people would react, if you reading this, may you have a wonderful journey in life:(🙏
Idk why, but this is the only lofi mix that feels like a soft pat on the head, and i thank you for it
When you have more interests in common with random people on internet than your friends....
I felt that
yup, one circle
Relatable
be happy to have dat connection, better than nothing.
which friends...?
Well...
I don't think I have depression
I just feel...different
Angie Pangie couldn’t be more true
honestly I feel the same way, just... different
Wow looks like we have a special little snowflake
Same
Thank you for saying this.
To the person reading this, Good Luck! Don't stress, everything will be fine. No matter what difficulty you are facing right now, you can overcome it! You are strong and brave🥰❤
Thanks buddy, same for you too
Thank you, I don't know who you are but I know enough based on your comment to call you friend. Take care of yourself.
I love everyone so much I just don’t feel like I belong here this is my final goodbye I hope things get better for everyone I’m mad it didn’t for me until peace ☮️
В жизни сейчас происходят тяжёлые обстоятельства, которые уже как полгода убивают изнутри. Зашла сюда послушать музыку, а увидела столько светлых людей. Спасибо вам, ребят. Плачу и читаю.
Pláču....😢😢😢😢😢🙏♥️😢😢😢🥲😢🥲🫶👍
Ну что как там спустя почти год?
you know you're lonely when you've got so much to talk about, so much to say. But you have nobody to talk to
or the courage to talk to anyone
Thats really me..
@@twistedclover fam i feel this. sometimes i just feel like if it's okay to talk to someone without giving off the sense that i'm bothering them. it's frustrating.
what do you have to say pls tell me, i don't know what's interesting anymore
Me right now. I have bunch of good friends, but none of them are that close. I can't share my deepest thoughts with them..
You are safe here, rest for a while.
Thank you.
thanks man
My gratitude
thanks bro
Thank u
although this is 3 years old, it still hits different at 11 pm
True
it's exactly 11pm, what the heck...
@@stvs9722 my point stands
@@rextervoid5884 You are a legend
For those in your 20s, hang in there. I'm in my 30s and I used to sit in a dark park like that in my 20s. There's a promise and you will get there
"If love is just a word, then why does it hurt so much if you realize it isn't there?"
-𝙂𝙖𝙖𝙧𝙖
I cannot comprehend your comment.
Gaara makes me so sad, he doesn't deserve what he's been through😔
some things just hit different
DAMN THAT HIT ME IN MY FEELINGS
man you watched a lot of anime you should probabely go outside
Who else just is just lying in bed thinking about how their lives could've changed just by making one decision
Oh god yes
Me too kid😔
or by not making one decision
Yep thinking rn
Sorry to hear it. My best decision was having Yahshua, (Jesus Christ) as Lord of my life. I highly recommend it to all the hurting. Praying you find peace. It's cliche but everything happens for a reason. 💛🙏
Corona made it acceptable for me to isolate way more than I was before. Now I can’t even remember what normal life feels like. I sit alone, waiting for nothing.
Sounds like a shallow life to live... I've forgotten how to feel happiness since it's always torn to shreds... *hugs you softly* I hope you're ok with furries that give hugs ♥️
This summer is killing me. If I can make it to winter I’ll feel like there’s nothing I can’t do.
Step by step, day by day. Every survived day is a step closer to freedom and happiness 🫂 sleep tight, good night
@@dhs-clan545 Thank you so much. It’s so comforting to here, my mind gets really overwhelmed extremely easily and taking it day by day helps a lot. I think there’s a tiny chance I might make it now. I hope you have a good night as well, 🌌💤⭐️⭐︎。
I know you made it through, keep it going 49:46
I think one of the worst things about being lonely is watching everyone else have fun with their friends or family it really hurts me inside when I sit alone at lunch watching everyone with their groups or when my sister goes out to all these places with her friends. I know this is a pointless rant, but I hate being the one that everyone forgets or moves away from when I sit somewhere. The actions of bullying always hurt me worse then the words, I think the worst part was when the teachers always has to find me a partner in activites, so bottom line people please whenever you see someone alone for a project or at lunch please make them feel included cause I guarantee it will make them happier then you think it would. Have a nice day everyone and if you are that person like me try to find a hobby or talk to someone about it. I found reading and writing helps me. ❤❤❤❤
Edit* I just want to add that people who have loneliness/depression should seek a professional for help. My replies are suggestions and in no way is professional advice, more of a moral support 😊 I hope everyone has a good day/night 🖤
Get laid, it ain't hard
YOu just made me cry
@@itsyaboi4794 I am sorry, but I hope you are okay. 🖤
Yep that's me too :"(
@@ayeitzreg5821 I am sorry you are in the same boat but just remember you are never truly as alone as you think. Plus, I am always here to talk 🖤🖤
Have you ever been like:
Damn is this real life?
Is this really me?
Why am I so lonely if there's so many people on earth?
Yeah I feel this way too sometimes.
I thought this way, but the key is to find what you enjoy alone and turn the loneliness to solitude
@@armaanmokha6574 yes and not give a crap what society says
Oj tak.../Ah yes
This comunity is here for you
About 3 years ago, I listened to this playlist every day at 3 in the morning depressed due to a toxic relationship, today after having lived many things I can say that I listen to this playlist more out of nostalgia since I am possibly ready to start another happy relationship , so everyone who reads or listens to this, I want you to know that even if everything looks horrible and that it is not worth it, just continue one more day, and in the future you will thank yourself
Currently 2.30 am here. Alone in my room accompanied by this song, it feels like I lost something that I never had
“It’s not that I don’t like people I just feel better when they aren’t around” Charles Bukowski
That's from Chuck isn't it?.
Oi
Hi sorry for Interrupting your scrolling to anyone who has suicidal thoughts this year,
thank you from the bottom of my heart for sticking around. I know things have been hard.
They may be still hard. But I'm so proud of you and I'm so glad you're still here🥺❤
Many times I stare out the window at night, while it rains, listening to this music in the background and thinking about my loneliness
I understand, I hope that someday you will find the happiness I never had, but no matter what never give up on your dreams. (Water cuts through stone, not with strength, but persistence.) I wish the best for you and just know, someone is always there for you, it only takes time, sadness and a lot of hurt, but you can make it, keep pushing on.
Being alone is better than feeling lonely among a crowd of people.
Yeah your stuck with those people while you can do your own thing at home
"The shattering of a heart when being broken is the loudest quiet ever"
-Carroll Bryant
That's a neat sentiment but the wording of that quote is friggin abominable. What's the word for the feeling you get when you see someone doing something disgusting and loving it? Like those people who like to collect used condoms and eat what's left in them. It's not just disgust. There's like almost an element of hate mixed in it, but at a 15 to 1 ratio.
I can relate to this quote and remember it happening, its like a shock you feel that goes all over your body and you cant really describe it but its like a hollow feeling of sorrow and wanting to crumble up but when it stops you just end up being a empty vessel controled by those negative feelings.
Silence is the loudest scream for help
@@purplegrape6794 FUGGIN CRINGE OMG I THINK I MIGHT DIE I HAVE NEVER CRINGED THIS HARD BEFORE SOMEONE SEND HELP I AM DYING
I lost my Gf 2 days ago...now im alone and no one cares about me....it feels dark and empty and this lofi...well every lofi i listen to now it helps..calms my mind, but im so depressed i lost my friends and everyone close to me...it hurts so much
You are not the only one in this situation. :)
Take time to care about yourself from now on.
Just wait that the biggest emotions fade away, once it's done (it can last a big week (took 10 days for me)), resume your hobbies and try new things.
A lot of people doesn't realize that, when they broke up, they get back plenty of time that they can use to improve themselves.
Try to apologize to your family, you will find other friends in the future but you have only one family.
If it's possible, try to apologize to your friends too. In these situation, talking about our problems to people we like is really relieving.
I don't know if that proverb exists in other countries but in France we say "une de perdue, 10 de retrouvées" when we break up. It's a proverb that says that, now that you lost your gf, you are now free to find a lot of another girls. Keep that in mind :)
@@space5422 Thanks man. helped out alot
In all honesty, this type of music has ended up becoming my life. I'll get home after a long day and as soon as I'm done with everything I need to get done, I immediately turn it on to destress from everything that goes on in just a single day. My life isn't bad persay... It's just not perfect. It's just not how I'd like it. Living everyday with no one to talk to, being told to get over everything that takes over my mind each and every day as if it's easy, being completely and totally alone. It stings man. It stings. I appreciate this channel, it's become apart of my everyday life and I'm grateful for that. Some days, I wish that I could just shut my eyes and be taken to a place where all my desires would be fulfilled. My lost friends standing with me side by side on a beach, staring off into the horizon, wondering what's beyond it. I'm trying to figure where I had gone wrong or if I ever even went wrong in the first place. Each day is nothing but struggle after struggle, jab after jab. I know I shouldn't be thinking like that but honestly, there isn't much else to think about. It's all my life is at this point. It sucks but I can't just give in to the negativity and do something I'll regret.
That felt oddly relieving. Heh, that was nice.
Bro you have my same thoughts i thought i was the only person thinking and "dreaming" like that but im happy that for one time i am actually not alone
I hug you. You lieve through the same shit like me as well, and I know how it is.
Same here man. I'm here all alone after losing friends... It's just that I've become more and more introverted and bit antisocial too. But no one will ever understand. Because whatever we loners struggle is society's gossip. They don't care. They're only good as long as they're allowed to be
That was beautiful. Made me cry because I feel the same way. Thank you for sharing.
"I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make other people happy because they know what it's like to feel absolutely worthless, and they don't want anyone else to feel like that."
So true...
That's facts, I do this with anyone whenever they feel down
@@TunaPetunia456 Cheering up someone who needs it most and seeing them smile. It means more than anything in the world.
@@pygmypengu1625 I agree 👍🏻
If I'm having a bad day but my friend is also having a bad day, I would literally go out of my way to make their day
@@TunaPetunia456 Everyone deserves a friend who will always be there even if they are also going through a rough time, it's nice to cry on someone else's shoulder.
It's funny how lonely, broken people try to fix others but never themselves, isn't it?
maybe in another life
@@Jupiteriano Perhaps
that's why they're broken
It is so much easier to ask about someone else's issues and preach empty advice. Then to look inwards and accept me for who I am.
We only want the best for them.
We give them what we cant have.
Everyone are broken😢...
But we all finding way to keep going❤ that's the hard truth i ever know...
Be nice for everyone...we can fix us
I feel like an old man as the days go by, I wake up every morning feeling sluggish and fatigued, I take medication to fight the depression, anxiety, and schizophrenia, but my past will always haunt me, the deaths of people I held close whispering in my ear. I'm lonely, and its because I feel like I'm fighting myself for control all day, when I'm home, I'm quiet and tired, and when I'm out and about I'm loud and from my current view, very obnoxious, I feel like I dont belong in my own skin, and despite my successes, I still feel nothing but disappointment. The people who have interest in me, are either pushed away or deterred after seeing who I am truly, and it hurts to go through. But day after day, I wake up, and continue pushing forward in the loop of life. To any who reads this, I hope you find people you can lean on, and if you do, hold them close, and take care of them. Because its a blessing to have those people, and no matter what happens, know that life will get better, no matter how long it takes for that to become a reality, good luck, and Godspeed to all you fellow lost and depressed lo-fi junkies
Wow. Same here. So peculiar how we humans across the world have relatable and similar stories but no one near us physically ever knows or understands us
"I think a lot, but I don't say much"
-Annie Frank
I think a lot, but I also talk a lot when I'm not home, when I'm home, I never get the chance to involve in the conversation, I'm always interrupted or ignored or just not heard. That leads to me talking to much when I can talk, which makes me come off as annoying and I play it off like I mean to but in reality, it's just my messed up world reflecting back on my life.
I'm not obnoxious... just lonely...
@@livingonneptune4109 I teared up from this..I can relate😞
"Do not compare yourself to others. If you do so, you are insulting yourself"
-Adolf Hitler
@@livingonneptune4109 I’ve been trying to correct the exact same detail about me all my life. Nobody my age really cared about my interests or about things I got excited about. I mostly hung out with my cousins, and even then, I was mostly the only girl. I was never included in their conversations about legos and stuff, even if I found that interesting too.
Eventually, I stated growing up more, since that was around when I was less than 10, 8 oldest. I never fit in in class. I was talkative, but annoying. I didn’t understand personal space. I didn’t have siblings to teach me right from wrong in social interaction. I had only a couple friends in the first and second grade, gaining the second in the second. They were also the weird kids. It was the short boy of the class, and the boy people always mistook for a girl of the class. All throughout elementary, I felt in between the boys and the girls of the class. I don’t mean identity terms either. I mean I didn’t fit in with the girls, but I didn’t fit in with the boys either. It was so confusing. Eventually, in about the 3rd or 4th grade, I got a small group of friends who again, were somewhat ragtag. It was a couple girls who fit in both with the weird kids and the girls, the girl who fit in everywhere, and eventually, the boy who everyone thought was a jerk but ended up really cool.
It was nice for awhile. I had grown out of my other style that I always used, and pretty much inverted styles. I used to wear t-shirts and shorts only. Then, I ended up growing to only wear long sleeves to school and long pants. That was due to comments I received about how hairy my legs were. My entire goal for my entire life at that point was to become as mature as possible. I wanted that because I felt like I wasn’t mature enough, and I didn’t fit in because of it. Now, my style has evolved more. Jackets or long sleeves in public, long pants, and long pants and a t-shirt when home or going out minorly. That’s just how it is now.
Gah, sorry I ranted about literally my whole life story in like 3 paragraphs.
Wasn’t that Hellen Keller?