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    ENGINEER YOUR LIFE - EPISODE 93 - Abongwe Mseleku
    Daughter of Ma Cele and famous polygamist Musa Mseleku joins us on Engineer Your Life and unpacks the dynamics of growing up in a polygamous family, the pain of your whole life being scrutinised on TV and finding her inner voice in a large existence.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 361

  • @EngineerYLShow
    @EngineerYLShow  7 місяців тому +87

    Exclusive conversation about the trials, the blessings and the ethics learnt as a young person raised in the most famous polygamous family.
    A lesson on humility and self-acceptance.

    • @nanazimkhize2149
      @nanazimkhize2149 7 місяців тому +7

      Lungelo!!! Wow! Your communication skills are second to none. Angfun' ukungasho . Keep up the good work.

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  7 місяців тому +2

      Thank you kindly MaMkhize❤

    • @nanazimkhize2149
      @nanazimkhize2149 7 місяців тому +5

      @@EngineerYLShow Kwathi cosololo bakithi, uma ungbiza nge-DNA code or should I say 'Utatakho code' or better yet ' Serial number'? 😊😊😄😄You are welcome, Lungelo. All the best in your current and future endeavours.

    • @nosimilomthethwa2812
      @nosimilomthethwa2812 6 місяців тому

      @@EngineerYLShow,,z

    • @nosimilomthethwa2812
      @nosimilomthethwa2812 6 місяців тому

      Z❤zzxx

  • @Sweetness1089
    @Sweetness1089 7 місяців тому +287

    Abongwe is such an exceptional child. The articulation 👌🏽

    • @vfabach2874
      @vfabach2874 7 місяців тому +6

      I agree with you Bontle....she's absolutely AMAZING , GROUNDED and so so HUMBLE ❤️

    • @kutullomankoko9640
      @kutullomankoko9640 6 місяців тому +1

      P

  • @angiemakhubela
    @angiemakhubela 7 місяців тому +209

    Macele’s kids are very humble. Kuddos to the parents ❤

    • @nwabisapbodlo3246
      @nwabisapbodlo3246 7 місяців тому +6

      Right?! Even Lwandle Jnr is as respectful and calm

    • @yvonnengwenya3134
      @yvonnengwenya3134 2 місяці тому +1

      @@angiemakhubela not uSne

    • @Naledim-z3x
      @Naledim-z3x 21 день тому

      @@yvonnengwenya3134 I was about to say it,Sne she's different and orata hoiketsa victim

  • @thobekamrauli6895
    @thobekamrauli6895 7 місяців тому +307

    Love Ndlunkulu s kids very humble, respectful she raised them well❤

    • @happysehume
      @happysehume 7 місяців тому +10

      One thing about u’MaCele!

    • @matshedisotsilo5231
      @matshedisotsilo5231 7 місяців тому +5

      Love them too, so humble shame👌👌

    • @siviwekula760
      @siviwekula760 7 місяців тому +5

      She's done a great job raising them👌

    • @lwaziehgumede6413
      @lwaziehgumede6413 7 місяців тому +7

      A job well done by MaCele this goes to show that she is not what she is portrayed to be on television. What we see on TV is ratings for the show.

  • @Cartoon_lifeTv
    @Cartoon_lifeTv 7 місяців тому +142

    The most calmest podcadt in SA❤❤❤❤ maturity and respect😊

  • @Khanyisa92
    @Khanyisa92 7 місяців тому +149

    I love the thoughtfulness, sensitivity and gentleness that was shown by Lungelo during this interview. I felt him literally respecting Abongwe’s boundaries, some of our podcasters could learn a thing a or two here❤

    • @nanazimkhize2149
      @nanazimkhize2149 7 місяців тому +8

      You couldn't have articulated it better! You are spot on. Well- said Khanyisa.

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  7 місяців тому +20

      Thank you so much. My heart appreciates this ❤️❤️❤️

    • @vfabach2874
      @vfabach2874 7 місяців тому +3

      ​@@EngineerYLShowI subscribed immediately after this interview. I have been watching for a while without subscribering...I connected with you today. Thank you for your genuine care and sensitivity.

    • @thinamakovere9007
      @thinamakovere9007 6 місяців тому +1

      I have also subscribed because of this interview.

    • @tshepisomatsunyane6360
      @tshepisomatsunyane6360 2 місяці тому

      Well said I have subscribed to his channel because of this interview, heart warming indeed well done Lungelo ❤

  • @keneilwemakakatlelo5397
    @keneilwemakakatlelo5397 7 місяців тому +142

    Macele, you've done very well, your kids are down to earth, soft spoken.

  • @tozamamlomo665
    @tozamamlomo665 6 місяців тому +52

    This child is so so matured.I like the part where she says there are children who are orphans but they are extremely successful& some donot have fathers.I like it.Big up Abongwe

    • @IncreaseRakodi
      @IncreaseRakodi 2 місяці тому

      @@tozamamlomo665 grounded mature and respectful

  • @Liz1418
    @Liz1418 7 місяців тому +95

    I kmow im going to watch this interview 3x if not 5 that's how much I luv Abongwe no Lwandle. Bigup to MaCele for raising them well.

  • @sontomtolo473
    @sontomtolo473 7 місяців тому +87

    What a sweet young lady, ingane ezthobile. Mama must be so proud😊

  • @PhiwayinkosiKhanyile
    @PhiwayinkosiKhanyile 7 місяців тому +61

    Lungelo I understand your channel is not big as it supposed to be, but 1 thing i can confirm as a viewer of many podcasts ukuthi your questioning style is ncaaaa👌👌❤

  • @leratomamabolo
    @leratomamabolo 7 місяців тому +41

    Abongwe is calm, beautiful and respectful. Love her❤️

  • @dineonkatswang4791
    @dineonkatswang4791 7 місяців тому +49

    Wow Abongwe very matured, respectful, humble and calm your very good

  • @bongiwemakhaza1833
    @bongiwemakhaza1833 7 місяців тому +69

    An introduction of who she is, her parents and family structure would have been great for context but great interview though.

    • @tebogokganakga4231
      @tebogokganakga4231 6 місяців тому +2

      Totally agree. They assumed that we all knew her.

  • @nokwazishezi7580
    @nokwazishezi7580 7 місяців тому +82

    MaCele's kids are so respectful and very humble ❤️

  • @zuzuh5755
    @zuzuh5755 7 місяців тому +75

    MaCele raised her children very well. They are so kind and humble. Abongwe! when you look at her in the side, she look exactly like his father. That was so cool Abongwe❤.

    • @annienai
      @annienai 7 місяців тому

      True so kind

    • @sarahthulare4694
      @sarahthulare4694 7 місяців тому +1

      They are just humble beings ,, it has nothing to do with Macele
      My mom was a very humble person kodwa my sister on the other hand, you’d swear she was raised in a different way by different people Iyo

  • @ConnieRamasike
    @ConnieRamasike 7 місяців тому +36

    Abongwe and Lwandle are really humble...must be a true reflection of their Mom ...kudos to you MaCele🎉

  • @mapulamaunatlala
    @mapulamaunatlala 7 місяців тому +18

    She is so authentic , herself ,respectful wow I applaud her parents. That is so rich very big deal thank you abongwe well done.

  • @mphihlengmagoro2957
    @mphihlengmagoro2957 3 місяці тому +29

    Maturity levels here 💯. Thoughtful, self awareness, knowledgeable and on solid ground intellectually. She is clearly well raised and grounded.

  • @gingertwala8474
    @gingertwala8474 7 місяців тому +32

    There's an epic level of wholesomeness & grounding that Ma-Cele instills in the growth of her kids, grandkids included.
    These kids have beautiful spirits. Such stability is commendable💞👏👏.

    • @vfabach2874
      @vfabach2874 7 місяців тому +2

      Amen🙏🏾

    • @palesamhlambi8478
      @palesamhlambi8478 7 місяців тому +2

      True ❤

    • @Mbalings
      @Mbalings 7 місяців тому

      I think MaCele is also humble and grounded but she has been through a lot. I feel i have misunderstood her as well. Otherwise, who are the kids taking after? ❤

    • @gingertwala8474
      @gingertwala8474 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@MbalingsTrue hey, sometimes we're victims of our own circumstances, it's in how we choose to not allow such to alter who we are, guess Ma-Cele chose sereneness hence her very grounded kiddies😉.

  • @mariangambi883
    @mariangambi883 7 місяців тому +48

    U are famous world wide even here in the USA 🇺🇸

  • @lusandafuthwa1928
    @lusandafuthwa1928 2 місяці тому +6

    With MaCele's kids the first two are the best, respectful and humble.
    A job well done to Magaye

  • @thabelanglawrencenthako2024
    @thabelanglawrencenthako2024 7 місяців тому +9

    Wow! the maturity of this young lady is on another level 💯❤️ shout-out to the Mselekus

  • @joycebuthelezi3601
    @joycebuthelezi3601 7 місяців тому +15

    Look exactly like Mpumelelo truly brother and sister❤

  • @NosihleKate-l1s
    @NosihleKate-l1s 2 місяці тому +5

    Does it ever happen that she goes to places where people get a chance to meet with her I really love her. Her heart's pure. Keep going Abongwe, you're loved this side💗🥹

  • @gladysthusile6764
    @gladysthusile6764 7 місяців тому +43

    Waze wamuhle abongwe Macele kodwa ngikuthwesa umqhele ngezi ngane zakho uzukhulisa kahle❤❤

  • @AneleNgcobo-v2p
    @AneleNgcobo-v2p 5 місяців тому +7

    I love Abongwe. Kamseluku she's my favourite. I'll name my child abongwe. I hope she'll or he angaba humble and smart like you. M not even pregnant 😢

  • @jannety100
    @jannety100 7 місяців тому +5

    macel is a good woman, look at how her kids are, kind, compassionate and humble! she did a great job raising them.

  • @mahlozinibasi9560
    @mahlozinibasi9560 7 місяців тому +11

    She articulates herself so beautifully ❤

  • @teboJoh
    @teboJoh 7 місяців тому +25

    Abongwe is smart matured well mannered respectful open minded almost well rounded character. This podcast also Big ups Lu🎉

  • @bongiwengowapi5412
    @bongiwengowapi5412 7 місяців тому +8

    It's my first time to watch this,she seems intelligent and mature,I love this interview,it's like I am watching an adult,she is lovable and smart!

  • @DaphneyLuthuli-nw4oc
    @DaphneyLuthuli-nw4oc 7 місяців тому +35

    Ma Cele "s kids are very very humble uyakwazi ukufundisa ingane inhlonipho I love Ma Cele"s family God continue bless them

  • @La_Mbingo
    @La_Mbingo 7 місяців тому +12

    Ndlovukazi Macele you have done exceptionally well when raising your. May they all follow in Abongwe & Lwandle Steps.

  • @camagumagubeni9145
    @camagumagubeni9145 7 місяців тому +14

    Wow! Abongwe mntanam... RESPECTFUL KID...

  • @tshepisolijane2452
    @tshepisolijane2452 7 місяців тому +9

    Ma Cele is avery deep woman. Very wise aswell. Its no womder she has kids like ones she has. ❤

  • @mbandazayoyolisa5849
    @mbandazayoyolisa5849 7 місяців тому +15

    Macele did a good job raising her kids

  • @favour664
    @favour664 7 місяців тому +3

    This child is amazing, his disposition wow! May God use you to impact the world , ur mannerism is at another level

  • @LandiweSiyazi
    @LandiweSiyazi 7 місяців тому +31

    Macele your kid's are humble sisi good job on raising your kid's ❤❤

  • @NomsLoots
    @NomsLoots 7 місяців тому +20

    MaCele’s kids are so grounded my word. Such humility is inspiring. Humble yourself by the side of the Lord and He will lift you up 🥹

  • @LizekaNtsebeza
    @LizekaNtsebeza 4 місяці тому +8

    U are the reason why I watch Ethan do nesithembu I luv u abongwe rhalel ba sibez freinds

  • @Kazi-f1h
    @Kazi-f1h 6 місяців тому +4

    Such a wise young person ,I love how she takes time to respond ,bless her ❤️ 💗 💕 ♥️

  • @cynthiamavasa2785
    @cynthiamavasa2785 7 місяців тому +17

    The dude doing an interview his so sweet hle 😊😊😊... Abongwe is an amazing soul hle

  • @DuduZoeSebetlela
    @DuduZoeSebetlela 3 місяці тому +4

    You gained a follower from Botswana because of this interview❤️I love how considerate you were with your questions towards Abongwe because Social media is so rotten.I watched till the end and i really enjoyed it.

  • @nombulelofakudze6513
    @nombulelofakudze6513 7 місяців тому +4

    I loved it when she responded to the question of having a present father and said it solely depends on you, on your determination in your journey of life even though having a father could maybe make things easier for you. That was beautiful and true.
    I have never had a father figure in my whole life and have pushed through life to be where i am and i have done a good job even though the past few years it has been hitting me hard kuts where would i be if i had my father in my life
    It all depends on you ☺😍

  • @neosjournal_
    @neosjournal_ 7 місяців тому +28

    Abongwe is the coolest sibling

  • @tshepisomokoena4149
    @tshepisomokoena4149 7 місяців тому +19

    Such a great interviewer I love how you made her feel at ease in terms of asking the question of her sexuality

  • @pinky4636
    @pinky4636 7 місяців тому +8

    Oh! Abongwe. What a beautiful humble soul. I just love you nana❤keep shinning 🙌🙌🙌 what a great interview.

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 7 місяців тому +5

    I love her. She's so humble ❤❤ She represented her family very well. Kudos to the Mseleku family to raise such a humble soul.

    • @sizagumbi5473
      @sizagumbi5473 7 місяців тому

      She executed the interview so well.

  • @bongiwesithole9376
    @bongiwesithole9376 7 місяців тому +11

    I love you Abongwe you are a humble girl.Big up to my angel.💥💫💫

  • @brendamlaba3587
    @brendamlaba3587 7 місяців тому +11

    So humble and well spoken ingane zamaCele ziyahlonipha bandla. We love u Abongwe ❤️

  • @mondemdakane161
    @mondemdakane161 7 місяців тому +14

    Maceles kids are very respecting very humble, well done Macele

  • @zakesnyambose
    @zakesnyambose 28 днів тому +1

    your dad is a man i respect kkhulu Abongwe, umuntu okhuliswe ngenhlonipho akabuzwa , i love the way you answer your questions , it shows maturity uziphathe kahle eGoli sisi , I love your humanity and humbleness

  • @mayumimolotv8523
    @mayumimolotv8523 7 місяців тому +2

    MaCele's kids are so well mannered. I love how they carry themselves, they're a reflection of their mother.

  • @ThusoMokoto
    @ThusoMokoto Місяць тому +2

    Woow Abongwe speak English beautifully ijooo she is so cute and very comfortable.Macele did a great job now I understand why she is so protective of her kid's.Very humble and so respectful ❤❤❤.

  • @phathiwephakathi1327
    @phathiwephakathi1327 7 місяців тому +18

    All mamkhulu's kids are so humbled ❤❤

  • @NomathembaNgxola
    @NomathembaNgxola 7 місяців тому +23

    Love u baby...beautiful aura
    Respectful.Matured..Humble
    The list is endless...What a coothed Soul

  • @phelosikhakhane
    @phelosikhakhane 7 місяців тому +10

    So articulate and beautiful.

  • @RuthMadumo
    @RuthMadumo 7 місяців тому +19

    Unfortunately we don't choose the families we are born in they choose us❤

  • @sohbayeni6666
    @sohbayeni6666 5 місяців тому +3

    This interview just made me respect Babu Mseleku and MaCele even more.... Woooooow naze namkhulisa kahle umtwana wenu...Ingane oyibuka ufise ukuthi neyami ingane ngathi ingakhula ibe nenhlonipho kanje... Love you Ayabongwe❤ and u will go very far in life because of the person you are❤❤

  • @NcamisileMtolo
    @NcamisileMtolo 7 місяців тому +7

    Big up maCele you teach your children's very well congrats (ngyakubongela it mean even you come from a good familly well done again❤

  • @MorolongWaMorakile
    @MorolongWaMorakile 7 місяців тому +5

    Abongwe is going far in life. God bless her. ❤

  • @annienai
    @annienai 7 місяців тому +4

    She looks so much like her dad beautiful mind indeed

  • @ThobekaMvuleni
    @ThobekaMvuleni 6 місяців тому +3

    Nontombi ungumzekelo omhle kwiintanga zakho. Uqhubeke njalo uku demand(da) attention yabazali bakho xa bengakuhhoyi.
    God bless you sthandwasam

  • @mabongixulu6705
    @mabongixulu6705 3 місяці тому +2

    i really love this child, shes so matured and respectful

  • @thembelihlembatha27
    @thembelihlembatha27 7 місяців тому +4

    Wow...Lungelo you had the best of the best guest❤ Abongiwe is so privilaged but her humbleness is out of this world, ❤ May he grow up to be the best person in the world. So much humble ❤and love that about him....inhlonipho siyibona ngaye that shows ukuthi uMaCele's Teachings are good to her own kids ❤❤

  • @DuduZoeSebetlela
    @DuduZoeSebetlela 3 місяці тому +3

    I think Musa will be happy to see this interview 👏👏👏👏

  • @nolitham
    @nolitham 7 місяців тому +13

    Enjoyed this ☺️, she's very intellect.

  • @NonhleLanga-xb7zc
    @NonhleLanga-xb7zc 7 місяців тому +12

    Abongwe love her spirit 🌻💚

  • @AndiswaMazwayi
    @AndiswaMazwayi 7 місяців тому +9

    Oww bethunani maCele abantwana bakho they are so humble

  • @MXOLISIREGINALDNDLOVU
    @MXOLISIREGINALDNDLOVU 7 місяців тому +6

    This Podcast is very calming. All about love and positivity .😍

  • @mfundisozuma5810
    @mfundisozuma5810 7 місяців тому +13

    So well Spoken😻

  • @nomcebosokhela8279
    @nomcebosokhela8279 7 місяців тому +10

    Abongwe has her head screwed on right. Her parents did a great job raising her.

  • @_COCOgal
    @_COCOgal 7 місяців тому +3

    Abo is beautiful....her smile is out of this world ❤❤

  • @mashadimokgata871
    @mashadimokgata871 7 місяців тому +12

    🎉🎉So beautiful Abongwe sis. I love you girl

  • @minentledlamini2026
    @minentledlamini2026 Місяць тому +1

    Abongwe's english bathong😊❤. The excent nkosyam❤

  • @mashudumikosi3272
    @mashudumikosi3272 7 місяців тому +3

    Wow such level of maturity. Mseleku did very well 🎉

  • @ayandal4744
    @ayandal4744 7 місяців тому +3

    An interview full of laughter, just refreshing. Well done to the interviewer.

  • @llt4726
    @llt4726 7 місяців тому +4

    ❤❤❤She is such a breath of fresh air...very intelligent.

  • @NomathembaNgxola
    @NomathembaNgxola 7 місяців тому +9

    Big Ups MaCele...your kids are wellgrounded.

  • @lettyjanemahlangu1152
    @lettyjanemahlangu1152 7 місяців тому +19

    MaCele, you are blessed to have polite humble kids, siyakubongisa. It's definitely the way you brought them up. Congratulations Ndlunkulu

  • @geebono4925
    @geebono4925 7 місяців тому +3

    This kid is very smart and humble ❤❤❤

  • @Faith_Jehovamystrength
    @Faith_Jehovamystrength 7 місяців тому +2

    Muhle Abongiwe...ziyathandeka izingane zaMacele... ❤❤Zithobekile zifundisekile zzifuze umama wazo... ❤❤🎉🎉

  • @NtombethembaNtosh
    @NtombethembaNtosh 4 місяці тому +4

    I love her please, I enjoy listening or watching her.

  • @OccupationsVocations
    @OccupationsVocations 6 місяців тому +3

    Wow Lungelo just gained a subscriber liked how you interview her and it's my first time seeing your channel

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  6 місяців тому

      Welcome. This is a safe space for growth :)

  • @asandakhathi
    @asandakhathi 7 місяців тому +37

    She's so well spoken my word

  • @Renei145
    @Renei145 7 місяців тому +13

    Love her spirit❤

  • @PhumzilePatience-lx2qe
    @PhumzilePatience-lx2qe 7 місяців тому +11

    Luv her she's so humble ❤❤❤

  • @KgothiThatso
    @KgothiThatso 7 місяців тому +8

    A beautiful interview right there ..wow Abongwe you are so loved my girl

  • @MelodyMelz126
    @MelodyMelz126 3 місяці тому +2

    Your parent's has done a wonderful to raising you Abongwe.
    ❤❤❤

  • @lindiswatyokela2951
    @lindiswatyokela2951 5 місяців тому

    What a beautiful guest to have.. well articulated, respectful and very humble.. may she never change I enjoyed this.

  • @tnxumalo9813
    @tnxumalo9813 7 місяців тому

    Such a wonderful young lady.so humble and respectful even when talking ..you can hear that she is well raised..thumbs up to her parents❤

  • @ephraimmotho887
    @ephraimmotho887 7 місяців тому +18

    I'm a few minutes in.... I'm enjoying the conversation but the cadence is a bit off. Lungelo, you are outstanding but today, you are a "little hype"... Please pay attention to your guest. Abongwe is a slow speaker. She will answer your question, but give her some time to digest... It's okay for a little silence to linger before she answers.

    • @pastorswifempowerment.
      @pastorswifempowerment. 7 місяців тому +2

      You took words from my mouth while i was looking for how to put them together to make sense😂🤭 All in all Beautiful work.

    • @leratomamabolo
      @leratomamabolo 7 місяців тому +2

      I get you but I don’t blame him, it looks like he genuinely likes Abo

  • @YolokaziChagi
    @YolokaziChagi 7 місяців тому +11

    I love her soo much ❤❤❤❤

  • @kedibonelehong635
    @kedibonelehong635 2 місяці тому

    Abo she's very humble person, and she has been a bigger person in every situation she come across with. I love her so much ♥️♥️

  • @NtswakiSeoli
    @NtswakiSeoli 7 місяців тому +8

    Mme Macele more and more grace dear

  • @portiajakoba9574
    @portiajakoba9574 7 місяців тому +3

    Abongwe ❤, i love MaCele & her family, she is doing a good job

  • @lwaziehgumede6413
    @lwaziehgumede6413 7 місяців тому +1

    Well done MaCele on raising your children so well this show's your character as person and a mother.

  •  7 місяців тому +1

    Lungelo, you’re the best ❤❤❤❤, a rare gem!!!!
    We love you, Abongwe!!!

  • @ThokoNjoko
    @ThokoNjoko 7 місяців тому +1

    What a down to earth young adult 🎉🎉 ; proud of you Abongwe especially MaCele who raised you up

  • @amandasyethemba9628
    @amandasyethemba9628 7 місяців тому +4

    Oh Abongwe ❤❤❤