How To Get The Attention You Want and Deserve

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  • @roselinelee
    @roselinelee Рік тому +1616

    1. You wanna be the prize, act like the prize RIGHT NOW
    2. Live ahead of who you are right now
    3. Don't be the person you don't want to remain as
    4. the man is to impress you
    5. I bring nothing to the table
    throw the current person of yourself in the purse, zip it up
    6. Act like the person you want to be, it's all a choice
    -men do that
    -women tryna be real are stupid
    7. Walk out as if you're already dating 3 billionaires that spoil you
    -nobody likes the Needy
    -act like you already have everything you want
    -be the person you wanna be
    8. dress like the person you wanna be
    -go ahead and take a bold leap
    -that's gonna help you create bold action and bold results
    9. getting the attention you deserve is become the woman you see yourself becoming in the future
    -walk talk and act like you already have it

  • @starrjohnson1327
    @starrjohnson1327 4 роки тому +483

    Just met a SD last night at the gas station! He's probably 75 years old😂 He's fixing my car, gave me money and is making sure he makes me happy. I'm making my Amazon wishlist today. He knows nothing about the internet so he just wants to know the cost. Cha ching😉😘

  • @lisettec6316
    @lisettec6316 4 роки тому +342

    I think guys see it, that we have certain expectations and if they cant meet it, they wont bother

  • @greyahmarie0905
    @greyahmarie0905 4 роки тому +388

    Live AHEAD of who you are RIGHT NOW ! Whew a message ... In your mind you already live the life baby , believe and it will manifest!🙃

    • @greyahmarie0905
      @greyahmarie0905 4 роки тому +3

      @Miss. Waters such a word!

    • @goldengoddesses6364
      @goldengoddesses6364 4 роки тому +4

      Y did l come to this comment reading just as she was saying it😱😱😱talk bout echo synchronicity. Im scaredMy heart is beating fast now😂😂😂💖💖

    • @greyahmarie0905
      @greyahmarie0905 4 роки тому +2

      @@goldengoddesses6364 thats alignment my love 💚💋

    • @goldengoddesses6364
      @goldengoddesses6364 4 роки тому +1

      @@greyahmarie0905 ohh yess..its pretty amazing!!!✨✨💫

    • @SagRising19
      @SagRising19 4 роки тому

      Absolutely!!!

  • @gianabecker9288
    @gianabecker9288 4 роки тому +875

    If you ask me mental is more important than physical. I know a girl with dreads, doesn’t wear make up, wears wrinkled clothes but her man just brought her a car because she is SO feminine, soft, confident & submissive (in a good way). Vise versa, I also know gorgeous women with 10k+ insta followers who post all day about getting heart broken, Why? Because they’re over emotional, over sexualized & just loud. Work on the mental more than anything, it’s the key factor to truly get him to stay.

    • @Genevii
      @Genevii 4 роки тому +24

      Giana Becker wow how does she act & what does she do to b submissive?

    • @gianabecker9288
      @gianabecker9288 4 роки тому +214

      maka i Hard to explain. But she’s very confident & have her own opinions not in a masculine and pushy way, but in a gentle & assuring way. She’s not showy on social media & does a lot of reading & self sufficient things. She’s not flashy and she never yells, throws things, or have sloppy mannerisms. She cooks a lot, loves decorating the home, loves kids. She shows her emotion, not in a bashful.. but in a caring way. Something about her energy screams “woman” there’s not a manly bone in her body. Although I agree with shera about using looks to attract a man, that can get super expensive after awhile.. changing your personality is always free & seems more reliable in today’s society. Too many pretty woman are getting hurt too.
      Now if you can have both? Absolutely a win win! But it’s harder than it looks.

    • @viii8xii12
      @viii8xii12 4 роки тому +3

      Giana Becker does she have ig? what’s her @

    • @viii8xii12
      @viii8xii12 4 роки тому +35

      just to lurk and check out her aesthetic not to tell her about the comment or anything lol

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 4 роки тому +6

      Giana Becker 🤔😂😂😂😂

  • @greyahmarie0905
    @greyahmarie0905 4 роки тому +915

    I wonder why its so hard for most of us women to put ourselves on a pedestal? ENERGY is real be who u wanna be and attract what's best for u!... all gems dropped here Thanks shera 💚💫

    • @darkmamagoddess8409
      @darkmamagoddess8409 2 роки тому +46

      The world teaches us to worship men is why women have a hard time putting themselves on a pedestal

    • @MB-xv7er
      @MB-xv7er Рік тому +1

      Uh because we have to be realistic, that’s why

    • @anonamous6320
      @anonamous6320 Рік тому +8

      Well when your black your never on a pedestal over other types of women & there’s constant subliminal messages throughout day to day life telling us we aren’t good enough

    • @greyahmarie0905
      @greyahmarie0905 Рік тому +21

      @@anonamous6320 letting other ppl dictate how you feel about yourself is where most go wrong. F society

    • @Kashmir-lt4cx
      @Kashmir-lt4cx Рік тому +1

      ​@@darkmamagoddess8409and to be envious of eachother

  • @laradara7175
    @laradara7175 3 роки тому +111

    Don’t talk to much just listen, be quiet just sit and look pretty you’ll learn who you need and don’t xx

  • @QuietLuxuryyy
    @QuietLuxuryyy Рік тому +191

    "The person you WANT to become is who you become RIGHT NOW." ✨✨

  • @zaynahbeth4696
    @zaynahbeth4696 4 роки тому +577

    I baby talked my accountant into filing my taxes at no cost. I feel so good about it 💙

    • @ennvee1989
      @ennvee1989 4 роки тому +62

      Giiirl teach us! I spent 60 bucks on this nonsense

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 4 роки тому +5

      Yassss

    • @LLPink_Jay
      @LLPink_Jay 3 роки тому +25

      Lmaooo! Baby talk is a talent ahaa haha

    • @redefinedliving5974
      @redefinedliving5974 Рік тому +5

      🤢

    • @babycakes8434
      @babycakes8434 Рік тому +11

      They provide free tax preparation at the libraries.

  • @datingdiaries1681
    @datingdiaries1681 4 роки тому +389

    Shera how do we teach TEENAGE girls this mindset ? These young girls are really struggling with self esteem issues

    • @Jaz-px5pr
      @Jaz-px5pr 4 роки тому +123

      It starts with the parents and what's seen in their household. Mother's should give their daughter a lead way on how to be feminine by giving them pamper and hair days, makeovers, hygienic tips, and level up so their self esteem won't be so low. Also women need to pick the right men to have babies with so that the child could see what a real marriage is were the man supports the women and the women is feminine and nurturing and there's no yelling and name calling at each other. The media plays a big role too. Alot of young women are acting crazy these days on IG and acting like they got a you know what and aren't connected with their femininity. There are no row models to look up to anymore.😒

    • @datingdiaries1681
      @datingdiaries1681 4 роки тому +12

      @@Jaz-px5pr if the Mother is bad example then what ?

    • @Jaz-px5pr
      @Jaz-px5pr 4 роки тому +40

      @@datingdiaries1681 The mother is the first person that the girl looks up to. If that doesn't work then it takes all of us. By us increasing our femininity we are inspiring young women to embrace their femininity also. It takes a lot and won't happen overnight. There's no one and only answer to resolve this. We just have to spread the message to younger women we know. It would be ideal if the media can have women play more feminine roles and if the school gave etiquette and hygiene class or if social media had more feminine influencers but those things take time.

    • @She_So_Solo
      @She_So_Solo 4 роки тому +1

      Yes they are.

    • @DebraCTrialByFireProductions
      @DebraCTrialByFireProductions 4 роки тому +6

      @@Jaz-px5pr #end the catty meangirl behavior

  • @flyandshy00
    @flyandshy00 4 роки тому +374

    Never offer to pay on a date. Pretend you don't have a wallet, or if he pays half, excuse yourself and leave. If he was that rich and etc he would not have any problem to pay for you. These days it's easy to look rich at the budget, there are plenty of scammers. If he's not paying he's broke or stingy, you avoid both.
    And yes, if a man really likes you he will help even if you're only chatting online. Once I told the old man I have financial issues, and he asked if I want him to help me, I said no, he later asked for my address, I gave it to him (only because he was from other continent) and he sent me money, after he sent me more maybe over 1000 USD. And we never met :D

    • @annikaminina7670
      @annikaminina7670 4 роки тому +5

      How did you meet him tough?

    • @cnmuchina00
      @cnmuchina00 4 роки тому +3

      Foreigners can't send money through your address. 🤔

    • @flyandshy00
      @flyandshy00 4 роки тому +4

      Mrs. Bags$$$ Can. Put it in the parcel you ship.

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 3 роки тому +2

      White version of feminism is miseducating women to be equal on a date and offer to pay 🤦‍♀️

    • @marjorienalunkuma6025
      @marjorienalunkuma6025 Рік тому +9

      I agree with you ,have had a gentle man pay for my skincare routine and we are not anything but just a person I usually greet

  • @Karenhypnotic
    @Karenhypnotic 11 місяців тому +24

    I’ve been married to a high wage earner for 28 years together for 32 and I still really enjoy these videos. I’ve learned that the more feminine I am and the more opportunities I give my husband to provide… the more he wants to do that. ❤

  • @laradara7175
    @laradara7175 3 роки тому +85

    Never ever look bad, now listen I look amazing, don’t be putting anyone above you that’s a sin

  • @girlnextdoor2836
    @girlnextdoor2836 4 роки тому +281

    For the lady who wants to portion her food: get a small bowl to eat from instead of a big wide plate.It worked for me .

    • @DebraCTrialByFireProductions
      @DebraCTrialByFireProductions 4 роки тому

      huh?

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 4 роки тому +31

      @@DebraCTrialByFireProductions It means eat your food in a bowl not a plate. You will eat less

    • @takishawilliams7356
      @takishawilliams7356 2 роки тому +41

      lol doesn't work for me. I go back for 3 and 4 servings.

    • @raspberrykisses7174
      @raspberrykisses7174 2 роки тому +10

      @@takishawilliams7356 lmao 🤣

    • @mizzluna5020
      @mizzluna5020 2 роки тому +20

      Drink lots of water with your meals. It will fill you up faster with water than extra calories. Drink 1 full glass prior to eating! Helps with smaller proportions AND getting adequate water intake !

  • @liswilson614
    @liswilson614 4 роки тому +44

    Cute leads to feelings which leads to screwing which leads to screwed.

    • @terridavis7646
      @terridavis7646 4 роки тому +10

      Babyyyyy!!!! If this ain’t the truth! Screwed and screwed over, and half the time pregnant and left alone. 💯

  • @margaretbordeaux272
    @margaretbordeaux272 Рік тому +30

    "You might as well go out alone if you gotta pay"

  • @serenelyascending3339
    @serenelyascending3339 2 роки тому +96

    Today is the day I am no longer a dumb ass PERIODT! I watched this video 3 different time not willing to commit scared. Don't be afraid. Its more than man and money this is for your sanity!

  • @leslie92772
    @leslie92772 Рік тому +61

    Going through such a hard breakup. I started dated him at 18 and finally left at 22. Your videos are the first time i felt like I actually had power. It made me smile to think i can be picky asf with who i chose to date from this point on. I REFUSE TO BE A PRISONER to a broke man.

  • @rozyndeto
    @rozyndeto 4 роки тому +423

    Shera, the more I watch and listen to you, the more my mental level up goes up. You are teaching us women to see so much value in ourselves that other people then have no choice to see it in us. And if they don't, we stand to keep going and soaring. I understand that this is more about being our best and happiest selves, going for what we want unapologetically. Thanks for sharing with us your wisdom, bisou bisou.

    • @asionyekennedy2028
      @asionyekennedy2028 Рік тому

      Clown world 😊

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 Рік тому

      ​@@asionyekennedy2028 dumb comment ❤

    • @believeyoume-nj2mt
      @believeyoume-nj2mt 6 місяців тому

      Keep thinking you're so, so super duper special and call it "wisdom"......guys, I can NOT make this stuff up!

  • @starrjohnson1327
    @starrjohnson1327 4 роки тому +212

    I had court this morning(it got postponed). Luckily I was dressed cute because a man asked me for my number! We couldn't go out to eat so I asked to go to the grocery store. He bought my groceries😉

    • @Desertvibes234
      @Desertvibes234 4 роки тому +30

      Starr Johnson a sign of the times lol! At least you made it work for you!

    • @AmandaD33
      @AmandaD33 4 роки тому +27

      I been cute in court, cute at the store...people dont approach me. I get compliments sometimes though. I act like it doesn't bother me and mind my business. But I want to be approached. Im single and unemployed Im bored

    • @itslive7518
      @itslive7518 4 роки тому

      See this is what I mean. Y'all are loosers. A millionaire don't won't yall rageddy asses and almost all of you are not even attractive

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 4 роки тому +10

      @@AmandaD33 I wasn't expecting it. Just keep going out. Especially during lunchtime. Try striking up a conversation first. I also do online dating because I'm bored too lol

    • @Rontlc3317
      @Rontlc3317 2 роки тому

      @@itslive7518 huh?oh it’s ok you keep at it one day you could be. Millionaire

  • @laradara7175
    @laradara7175 3 роки тому +64

    Not everyone is your friend know your friends, don’t be telling everyone your business too

  • @krismladjenovic5034
    @krismladjenovic5034 4 роки тому +265

    It is not really gold digging if u deserve that money, u get paid for being a profesional 😉

    • @DebraCTrialByFireProductions
      @DebraCTrialByFireProductions 4 роки тому +16

      You are worth every penny and what do they call prostitutes and call girls and escorts? SMH that is funny Men are funny as hell and sometimes useless.

    • @islandgirl220
      @islandgirl220 4 роки тому +5

      Yesssss 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @minniemouse8389
      @minniemouse8389 4 роки тому +15

      So true.It's like a job.If they don't pay,they don't get your time.

  • @laradara7175
    @laradara7175 3 роки тому +28

    Always buy skin beautifying creams and nice things for yourself

  • @CircumstancesNeverMatter
    @CircumstancesNeverMatter 4 роки тому +128

    I love this lady she's such a diva and I'm here for it. 😂💅💰

  • @Tone463
    @Tone463 4 роки тому +114

    The other day I accidentally discovered your channel, as one of your videos was suggested under a Kevin Samuel's video I was watching, and giiirl! You re like the big sister I never had! I'm 26 at the moment and already realized that being with a man, loving him, cooking delicious food, cleaning their clothes etc can't be done for nothing but love in return. That's not enough. Let alone that if he can't or isn't willing to take care of us, how is he gonna do it for our future children...? God bless you for being real and helpful! Kisses from Greece 💋😘

  • @Ashley-yr2lq
    @Ashley-yr2lq Рік тому +36

    Whew!!! I needed this. I’m always trying to “keep it 100” and it ain’t got me nothing but played. I’m too honest smh

  • @cheftabthecook
    @cheftabthecook 4 роки тому +25

    At the end of the day be wise but must important be yourself & love yourself

  • @aprillove10
    @aprillove10 4 роки тому +105

    Watch out for the narcissists. 😒 Definitely don’t want their attention. 😐

    • @mirnabonilla7488
      @mirnabonilla7488 4 роки тому

      Can you describe in detail a narcissist
      For me?

    • @melinoesedah9762
      @melinoesedah9762 4 роки тому

      @@mirnabonilla7488 Michele Lee Nieves has a channel that covers narcissist.

  • @dinolemma
    @dinolemma 4 роки тому +41

    Level up women are an inspiration tbh

  • @Empz-wm9rc
    @Empz-wm9rc 4 роки тому +122

    ‘Live ahead of who you are right now’ AMEN! This is my mantra. And it’s so fun 💃🏾💃🏾🙏🏾 I love it ❤️😂

  • @arlethnevarez5412
    @arlethnevarez5412 11 місяців тому +14

    Girl I went to therapy but this has helped me more than therapy ever did

  • @Moonstruckbae
    @Moonstruckbae 3 роки тому +35

    When she saying Women wanna keep it so 100 they tell their whole lifestyle but the man will come up to you lying like he got a million dollars n blah blah blah.. Wheewww truthhh

  • @marinevaletudie9617
    @marinevaletudie9617 4 роки тому +2443

    On my way to a 25day water fast, my collarbones are going to be so sharp they will be able to cut dusties before they even approach 😂

    • @marinevaletudie9617
      @marinevaletudie9617 4 роки тому +126

      @@PreciousForReal already day 3, they are starting to com😂

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 4 роки тому +15

      😂

    • @wendiellencreativebeing5888
      @wendiellencreativebeing5888 3 роки тому +33

      HILARIOUS!!!’🤣

    • @Kiki-jx6by
      @Kiki-jx6by 3 роки тому +160

      I was thinking along those lines when wanting to lose weight.....fasting always works. U lose weight, it resets your metabolism and it’s healthy for us. I do it all the time. Respect to you on that water fast!

    • @elizabewoods540
      @elizabewoods540 3 роки тому +38

      Hi how did the water fast go.i hope you didn't get to weak.i haven't eaten for like 13 hour out of a day and I feel so bad when I do that .I always try to start .5 am to at least 6 pm.and would be so hungry..but my stomach was so so flat..and I love it 😀 have a fun ..happy summer

  • @minniemouse8389
    @minniemouse8389 4 роки тому +92

    I ordered one of your books recently. I like the title of your book,because so many men ask women what they bring to the table.But back in the 50's and 60's didn't. They just accepted that they are supposed to provide for us.Now so many men have no shame in asking women for money or asking to live either them.This is why it's good that you are sharing this info with us.If enough women get it,men in general will start acting better and more like how they did back in the 50's and 60's when a man couldn't get any kind of woman if he was a dusty.

    • @hautecouture2228
      @hautecouture2228 9 місяців тому

      In the 50s and 60s they did not ask what you earn bug they looked at your family. People were rarely dating and marrying outside their own class and social group

    • @believeyoume-nj2mt
      @believeyoume-nj2mt 6 місяців тому

      Now so many women have no shame in asking men for money or asking to live with them. If enough men get it, women in general will start acting better and more like how they did back in the 50s and 60s when a woman wouldn't look at a man's bank account first.

    • @yk-who-it-is
      @yk-who-it-is 6 місяців тому

      @@believeyoume-nj2mt hahahhahaha the 50s and 60s women didn't look at bank accounts/ Stop it. 2 words. Marylin Monroe.

    • @believeyoume-nj2mt
      @believeyoume-nj2mt 6 місяців тому

      @@yk-who-it-is Nah, once again you are citing outliers....so sad, so desperate....no amount of "hahahahahaha" will alter this. Stop it.

    • @yk-who-it-is
      @yk-who-it-is 6 місяців тому

      @@believeyoume-nj2mt Also there has never been another Marilyn Monroe in HISTORY, she started a movement (and Cleopatra). Get money or no honey!

  • @laradara7175
    @laradara7175 3 роки тому +19

    I use to care what ppl think I don’t do that no more

  • @samantha8343
    @samantha8343 Рік тому +17

    “I feel stupid having to rush to work & clock in” MAN‼️‼️ I freaking felt that Shera‼️🔥🤣🤣 great way to put it 🔥🔥

  • @jessicasupreme2012
    @jessicasupreme2012 Рік тому +39

    Plss love ya girl as a 20 year old I feel like I’m getting cheat codes that are so intelligent

    • @wildhalo2769
      @wildhalo2769 Рік тому +10

      LUCKY YOU!!!! I wish I had these cheat codes when I was your age. May the force be with you!!😂❤

    • @dior6490
      @dior6490 11 місяців тому +1

      Same except I’m 22 lol

  • @sonamathabathi5979
    @sonamathabathi5979 4 роки тому +228

    I don’t mind being single until i get me a man that will treat like a princess 👸

    • @orbetobe
      @orbetobe 6 місяців тому

      So what do you have to offer?

    • @believeyoume-nj2mt
      @believeyoume-nj2mt 6 місяців тому +1

      You offer nothing but expect the princess treatment.....glad you don't mind being single.

    • @number-uz1es
      @number-uz1es 5 місяців тому +4

      @@orbetobemen like you are not the targeted audience- brokie

    • @Danken4
      @Danken4 4 місяці тому

      ​@@number-uz1esso what's its princess treatment?

  • @WOGKee
    @WOGKee 4 роки тому +40

    Amen Sister, walk, talk, & act like you have it💕✔️...

  • @grae1152
    @grae1152 3 роки тому +16

    Grandmas morgage😂😂😍 the intensity and humour of her ideas is crazy....am living the life I want coz of ur videos 😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋

  • @inneralignmenteducation
    @inneralignmenteducation 4 роки тому +37

    your hair reminds me of Janet Jackson in the 90s. Love it.

  • @Dabupa1185
    @Dabupa1185 4 роки тому +107

    Ashera, are your videos getting even better?!?! I can't believe this valuable info is free. Thank you goddess. This video was a true lesson on how to be confident. Got it✅ thank you so much

  • @jazzyjae8169
    @jazzyjae8169 Рік тому +63

    It’s crazy that I started dressing myself down bc I was told I looked stuck up and unapproachable. Prolly why these dusties was in me!! I had to switch up and go back to my old ways!!

    • @biscottihottie37
      @biscottihottie37 Рік тому +9

      Yep they’ll try and bring you to their level

    • @xan8185
      @xan8185 Рік тому +15

      Unapproachable to people not of your level!!! Yes don’t approach me then. Never dim your light!

    • @Verolv
      @Verolv Рік тому +14

      Very true. I had a dusty ask me on a date and told Me don't dress up wear sweats and sneakers something comfortable . I blocked him and never spoke too him again.

    • @xan8185
      @xan8185 Рік тому +9

      @@Verolv wow I had someone tell me wear sweats like sir I will not sweats are for when I’m home cleaning or laundry days. What!? Never I leave the house like that unless you know it’s an emergency and time is of the essence.

    • @Purplecolors88
      @Purplecolors88 Рік тому

      ​@@Verolvlol

  • @Brenda-uf8pk
    @Brenda-uf8pk 4 роки тому +73

    I threw out pairs of shoes that I liked but I knew they were too much artsy masculine but I’d rather do what I need to do. Than my sister randomly brought me a lot of clothes and cute shoes yesterday 👑❤️💗✨

    • @manunascimxnto
      @manunascimxnto 3 роки тому +2

      what was the type of shoes you threw out? (like boots or something like that?)

  • @HJFVJFKG
    @HJFVJFKG Рік тому +11

    Dust Collect more dust and then you get sick, I love it

  • @M001-d4y
    @M001-d4y 4 роки тому +102

    Shera you are much needed,especially in these times, to keep us focused on the positive and empower ourselves! Keep going. We appreciate you! Also , looking better and better!

  • @riagreen9294
    @riagreen9294 4 роки тому +30

    I discovered you 2 days ago, and I’ve been watching your videos one after the other. Thank you so muchhhh

  • @antoniamonet8497
    @antoniamonet8497 4 роки тому +101

    Shera thank you so much for everything that you do for us . It’s be so lost in the game if it wasn’t for you

  • @MsVee888
    @MsVee888 4 роки тому +40

    Lol... people worrying about a man right now.. the old ones might be sick 😟 love that you’re keeping everyone feeling normal Shera!! ❤️

  • @ringoisacandyapple
    @ringoisacandyapple Рік тому +30

    I’m so glad shera has these videos up, just like church, the right message always seems to pop up for me when I need it lol really gets my head back in the game

  • @SuzieQ90
    @SuzieQ90 3 роки тому +128

    I see my Middle Eastern friends and they can get the man of their dreams playing shy innocent and Coming From Money! Vs. my Jamaican friends who act like Pick Mishas (No offense) But one thing I've noticed in most of them (Not All) is they didn't have a Father Figure and didn't come from money. So their moms were Bitter and threw that Bitterness onto them. Then they had to be Tough instead of being feminine. And Social Media doesn't help with what's trending like dressing like Nicki Minaj instead of covering up. People treat you according to how you dress. That's just my observation

    • @liviagreck1894
      @liviagreck1894 2 роки тому +9

      Amen

    • @annissakapor
      @annissakapor Рік тому +1

      What your middle eastern friend do exactly by playing shy and innocent?Thanks

    • @SuzieQ90
      @SuzieQ90 Рік тому +11

      @@annissakapor making a man feel masculine, not overstepping their boundaries. Being more feminine. Not dressing half naked (following the crowd) doing the inner spiritual work by knowing themselves and their flaws. holding a conversation about many topics. Having Charm.

    • @Misana
      @Misana Рік тому +2

      Coming from money helps them find the man of their dreams?

    • @ev6564
      @ev6564 Рік тому +9

      ​@@SuzieQ90 To be honest, I am a very shy "innocent" woman and I don't think it really helps us out more. I feel like the outgoing bold woman get better treatment. It's probably the fact that those friends of yours come from money that they were able to find the man of their dreams, in addition in them having high standards.

  • @angelmcmurray
    @angelmcmurray 4 роки тому +28

    I learn something new every day from you ❤️

  • @missbee5021
    @missbee5021 4 роки тому +100

    I swear when I have high standards men call me a gold digger you can’t win

    • @1showie
      @1showie 4 роки тому +65

      So what? Is there another way to get gold? Lol!

    • @kellymolly3616
      @kellymolly3616 4 роки тому +53

      Embrace the name. No guilty

    • @DebraCTrialByFireProductions
      @DebraCTrialByFireProductions 4 роки тому +4

      true@Only 2 genders

    • @CircumstancesNeverMatter
      @CircumstancesNeverMatter 4 роки тому +37

      Those are duties calling you that baby. You're fine. Keep doing what you're doing.

    • @Cosmuex
      @Cosmuex 4 роки тому +48

      The broke ones will call you a gold digger. Their opinions are irrelevant so who cares lol

  • @kellihart3885
    @kellihart3885 4 роки тому +70

    Anna Nicole Smith was an exotic dancer,and landed a multibillionaire.You are so the truth.All of these sugar daddies at your disposal,and you still out here stripping.NOPE..Use what you have,to get what you WANT.👑🥂

    • @foxywhitetip7387
      @foxywhitetip7387 Рік тому +1

      She still got none of his money tho. Very sad story

    • @kellihart3885
      @kellihart3885 Рік тому +10

      @@foxywhitetip7387 Yes,she did.She was awarded her husband's estate after several years of battling his adult children in court..Yes,her legacy ended tragically,but you can't deny Anna elevated her whole BRAND,from being a popular model for the face of Guess,acting,and socialiting.💝🥂🍾Moral of the story..LEVEL UP..

    • @goldrays4862
      @goldrays4862 7 місяців тому

      Bruh he was the cryptkeeper. That's strategy that'd she's talking about. Ugly, old disabled whatever- he just gotta have money

  • @raerotics7010
    @raerotics7010 4 роки тому +15

    LMAO!!! Not throw all the food out the house! I love She Ra. Thank you for all you do mama!

  • @uduakukem7246
    @uduakukem7246 3 роки тому +12

    Your nails are so beautiful, Shera, and you are giving the vibe.

  • @Ewa_oni
    @Ewa_oni 4 роки тому +17

    You’re soooo intelligent. It’s amazing!

  • @auroramothergoddess
    @auroramothergoddess 2 роки тому +14

    im wondering why you don't have a million followers!!!! you are such divinity

  • @QuietLuxuryyy
    @QuietLuxuryyy Рік тому +14

    "Live AHEAD of who you are right now."✨✨

  • @lr4973
    @lr4973 4 роки тому +10

    Dang, that look makes you look super young Beautiful”

  • @sagalduraan3489
    @sagalduraan3489 4 роки тому +31

    Shera is walking wisdom

  • @mlndmccoy66
    @mlndmccoy66 3 роки тому +11

    But many other advisors and girlfriends and relatives say it's not good to meet or a man at a club. So now are you saying to act boujee?! That's how my sister got her men and now married for the 3rd time. I love what you said, be that person you want to be treated. Love that!!! I got 2 use that one thank you. Laws of attraction!!

  • @samantha8343
    @samantha8343 Рік тому +4

    “Cuz I don’t have to go to work, I just go & shop” lmao period

  • @briana14333
    @briana14333 3 роки тому +9

    Just listen to whatever SheRa says.

  • @fearless7989
    @fearless7989 2 роки тому +5

    "WISDOM OF SHERA SEVEN" IS GOOOOOOOOD!! RECOMMEND THE BOOK ✅ ✅ ✅ 🙏🏼

  • @xXPunckJuiceXx
    @xXPunckJuiceXx Рік тому +2

    Awwww she’s such a sweet mom

  • @HJFVJFKG
    @HJFVJFKG Рік тому +6

    The best entrepreneurship video I have ever seen

  • @carinhansson3695
    @carinhansson3695 4 роки тому +16

    Amen Shera! Thank you for this reminder. I really needed to hear this right now

  • @rupal9708
    @rupal9708 Рік тому +3

    Most men with money start looking for casual sex n fun only . Noticed that men go with the flow n don’t really know what they want too. It’s not only about what energy a woman exudes , I think everything totally depends on a man.
    Shera , u r doing brilliant work . ❤thank u for existing

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 11 місяців тому +4

      No, it depends on you if you give him your energy and if you have boudaries, charm and so on. Treat the millonaires like a "friend" or in the "friend zone" you will see what happens...
      We attract them... and they are still men and they still want one thing... they also want to play games, they adore you if you play better.
      Do what shera says and you will see this

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 11 місяців тому +5

      His feelings are tied with his money, the more he spends they more he loves you

    • @antoinettecollins8079
      @antoinettecollins8079 10 місяців тому

      @@iaf4454💯👏🏾

  • @MsPrestige2009
    @MsPrestige2009 4 роки тому +24

    Shera, I absolutely love your teachings and my sister hip me to your channel. You're amazing, keep up the awesome work lady😎

    • @_plastic_raingurl9971
      @_plastic_raingurl9971 Рік тому

      P
      Please
      😊😊😊😊😮😊😮😮😮😊😮😮😊😮😊😊😮😮😮😊😮😊😊😊😊

  • @babylizard7468
    @babylizard7468 Рік тому +16

    Act like you’ve mistaken him for someone else !!! Omg girl I love your advice 😂

  • @Prettyeeecuttee
    @Prettyeeecuttee Рік тому +6

    She’s the funniest person ever omg

  • @mpauli12
    @mpauli12 Рік тому +6

    Stop eating right before you feel yourself getting full. Put the fork down and put the food away. If eating out take half of the entree to go and eat it the next day.

  • @weirdalpleasenoticeme
    @weirdalpleasenoticeme 4 місяці тому +1

    How is she not at a million subscribers yet

    • @Brainsucker92
      @Brainsucker92 3 місяці тому

      Cuz she's washing peoples brains and some of them are happily allowing her to do it. Simple.

  • @DailydoseofCats08
    @DailydoseofCats08 4 місяці тому +1

    Just act it up, treat public as like playground or a play, just play a role❤

  • @fayalexis295
    @fayalexis295 Рік тому +2

    Omg Shera is so smart!!!
    Just realized that i been doing shera way before i found out about her so yeah thanks for the tips . Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨✨

  • @Kitty-j6u
    @Kitty-j6u 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m going to watch all of your videos❤❤❤

  • @XA-oe2gi
    @XA-oe2gi Рік тому +2

    You’re the best coach. Thanks beautiful!

  • @juliettejuarez4301
    @juliettejuarez4301 Рік тому +5

    Thanks for creating a UA-cam channel!! ❤

  • @weekendnomad5038
    @weekendnomad5038 9 місяців тому +1

    Omg this wig is everything I want one!! I thought that was your hair!! 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @missbee5021
    @missbee5021 4 роки тому +13

    Well done shera for this short video short and straight to the point 🥰

  • @tq325
    @tq325 4 роки тому +9

    I love this hair on you!

  • @StunningTransformations
    @StunningTransformations 3 роки тому +16

    If you have to tell a man "I'm too broke to go out..." you should not be wasting your time...

  • @stefg7611
    @stefg7611 Рік тому +2

    I have to tell you that you are just so sweet. Your honesty really funny,im loving your personality. Something about you just cracks me up 😂. I'm highly complimenting you,.. your channel is on point. ❤

  • @mpch6298
    @mpch6298 2 роки тому +4

    Even BEFORE ever had I heard about LoA I already had mindeset that we humans ARE ENERGY from a scientific point of view becs our cells need electricity to live. No energy, no live. So, we are all forms of energy. Now, what I had to learn hard way is that we have to protect this energy and shape it. Think of ypurself as a system. You need to believe in yourself down to each cell of your body.

  • @princessyos6780
    @princessyos6780 Рік тому +5

    This is so educative and enlightening

  • @ya_seh33
    @ya_seh33 3 роки тому +12

    Loved this video Shera. So many good tips (as always) and I love how you wrote your points down. 🖤🖤🖤

  • @artrise1156
    @artrise1156 4 роки тому +6

    Shera, you're a God send!

  • @brkfstatsyms
    @brkfstatsyms Рік тому +9

    I think I found my internet aunty 😩💛

  • @Rose_6444
    @Rose_6444 Рік тому +2

    I’m so glad I found your channel

  • @feliciacovington699
    @feliciacovington699 4 роки тому +4

    I made sure to subscribe to this channel. Now I see where I'm going wrong.

  • @nomkhithas7752
    @nomkhithas7752 3 роки тому +5

    You are dropping gems❤️❤️

  • @GretsyH
    @GretsyH 4 роки тому +7

    love this hair and all your styles.

  • @babyc.3015
    @babyc.3015 2 роки тому +6

    This video cracking me upppp "dang shes a prize" 😂😂😂

  • @carmenfigueroa4084
    @carmenfigueroa4084 4 роки тому +9

    I needed this video today ! Boss babe 🙏🏼

  • @dg-qn5mi
    @dg-qn5mi 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you aunty SheRa💕

  • @mariam8464
    @mariam8464 4 роки тому +11

    Live ahead of who you are now. Don't act like BE her. #Words2GetCashby1😘 Luv Shera"s sneaky laugh- what my thoughts sound like when they laugh😎 .

  • @dianawambuinderitu9282
    @dianawambuinderitu9282 10 місяців тому +7

    Any 2024 people around 🎉🎉

  • @jesusleadme3281
    @jesusleadme3281 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you shera, I'm watching this taking notes

  • @shaynah_fitness
    @shaynah_fitness Рік тому +5

    “Its time to grow up and get this money” 😂